Why do I get treated so poorly

TheXXL · 2017-10-10T08:50:55+00:00

Simple rule of thumbs: "if the only constant is you, then it's not their fault" This leads me to believe that your behavior is off, for this to judge you should give us more information about you, how you behave, what you say, how you say it and so on. Maybe you come over as being arrogant, maybe you seem weak, maybe you come off too strong, maybe your screening is terrible, even though this is unlikely when you say you are doing this for two years already.

This seems very very odd, my bet is that you don't reflect on what you do or say, and therefore not change your approach, which leads in your case to similar reactions to your approach. Basically, if you fail with one way to approach, then you will not succeed with it just by plowing through, it's the basic definition of madness.

PDX_Relationshipnerd · 2017-10-10T10:41:42+00:00

So you've got good self-confidence, but women are rejecting you, but not politely, but rudely? Am I wrong in my assessment? Your post was a little short and there are tons of details that could be filled in.

Either you're the most unlucky guy on the planet where every woman that you've approached is a nasty person, OR there is a flaw with your approach that makes women treat you in a bad way. Which one do you think is the reason?

The problem I have with posts like these, is that guys like yourself complain about the results you're getting, women being nasty, getting rejected, etc., but there was never one mention of how you approach. This tells me that you are not willing to look at yourself and be critical, which means that when you said, "I've worked on my inner game for 2 years", it really means you haven't gone far enough.

Just because you believe that you have a lot of good qualities and can offer women more than others doesn't mean it's true. You might possess better-than-average looks, but that doesn't mean you're entitled to anything. If you want a quality partner, it will require work on your part. Thinking anything else will ensure that you stay in the position you currently are.

ImHereForThisSub · 2017-10-10T16:25:18+00:00

Hard to tell without giving us any kind of self analysis. If you are lacking some self awareness take a video of yourself in action for yourself/us?

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DomVaalis · 2017-10-10T14:57:52+00:00

You allow it.

DavidGolani11 · 2017-10-11T00:36:35+00:00

Are you short and not attractive? Then you have an uphill battle ahead.

NunoHimself · 2017-10-10T12:41:14+00:00

That's shit tests, they're good. https://youtu.be/MbZC1eFqFSw

Title	Why do I get treated so poorly
Author	johnnysway
Upvotes	1
Comments	16
Date	October 10, 2017 8:09 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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