Why does he turn me down?

CT-2657 · 2026-04-06T03:39:46+00:00

He’s not into you or he is not ready

lucasjacob1717 · 2026-04-06T04:20:27+00:00

Realistically it could be any number of things- the people in Reddit comments have no idea

TALK TO HIM

Arexos · 2026-04-06T04:32:38+00:00

Not into you that much
Insecurity
Physiological issues
Mental fog

Men aren't all just mindless animals that wanna fuck 24/7, only the desperate and insecure ones are like that.

If you really want him then at this point don't push it so hard, keep yourself available to him and when he wants it he'll get in there.

My advice is to move on to someone more interested/available tho.

MineDesperate2920 · 2026-04-06T04:11:15+00:00

I’ve been this guy. Usually it’s becusse I’m bored in the relationship and I’m in the power position so I’m not chasing.

thenuttyhazlenut · 2026-04-06T04:53:52+00:00

If your attitude is bad overall and bitchy, it can turn him off you big time. Also if you're crazy

LeoTrollstoy · 2026-04-06T03:45:53+00:00

Hormonal issue, depression , substance abuse, low libido or Emotion/connection issue

delightful_cookies · 2026-04-06T05:31:28+00:00

Resentment? Fights?

Kitchen-Start-3828 · 2026-04-06T10:58:25+00:00

Did you recently gain 100lbs very recently?

EmpireStrikes1st · 2026-04-06T14:47:06+00:00

A man who doesn't want to fucking crash a moving car. Or a man who would feel embarrassed getting a blowjob in a car in a parking lot.

casperi2 · 2026-04-07T02:41:11+00:00

Oh I will answer this one is easy. My last wife use to Love to blow me in the car but would pull off at the last moment leaving me with a massive mess. No handjob to finish , no rag for the mess. Just a eat shit look from every time. If she can't swallow or atleast spit don't even come over to my side . Totally ruined BJs for me for a VERY LONG time. It would be the same if I'm down on you as a woman and right before your hotbox blows , I get off the bed and start playing with my phone. Again RUINED BJs for a very long time for me. Thankfully we're not together anymore.

I would bet something like this happens to him

Prestocito · 2026-04-06T05:40:19+00:00

If I’m driving hell no I’m not tryna die

WendigoBarbarian · 2026-04-06T05:08:33+00:00

Talk to him. Seriously. Don't get your dating advice from Redditors. It could be any number of things. We've only got a small snippet into your life.

ImpossibleWaiting · 2026-04-06T14:53:57+00:00

I only did that when I loved someone else and wanted to stay monogamous.

Chance_Equivalent_22 · 2026-04-06T14:58:35+00:00

Just ask him what’s the problem, what he likes and be very gentle so he can open up. Don’t judge. Tbh I know many men in this generation who don’t want just fuck, but want also some emotions or could be also some psychological or physiological problem .

Alternative_Ad6 · 2026-04-07T23:58:33+00:00

Im not gonna lie, he might be nervous, not into u, or have PIED from porn addiction

ProfitisAlethia · 2026-04-08T20:32:26+00:00

Are you in a long term relationship? If so, does he feel like it's going well?

Nobody enjoys having sex with someone they don't like.

Klutzy-Painting885 · 2026-04-06T04:56:26+00:00

He’s not attracted to you. There are many women I’d just as soon not get a blowjob from. And the fact that he’s turning you down is making you want him even more.

mazzimow · 2026-04-06T03:43:17+00:00

One that has something too good for him, what a dumbass

ManaDeus · 2026-04-06T05:29:16+00:00

Many do, not everyone can fuck in the middle of the street like I do lma

coffeesdisciples · 2026-04-06T07:22:47+00:00

I won’t turn you down shit

LordPoopyIV · 2026-04-06T08:16:57+00:00

Watch some porn with him so you can pick up on his likes

Title	Why does he turn me down?
Author	LaceyPenny
Upvotes	3
Comments	22
Date	April 6, 2026 3:32 AM UTC (3 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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