Why does Reddit hate Seddit?

Theplayasclub · 2019-05-25T15:00:14+00:00

Honestly, I find it sad. Those are the same people who will judge you for attempting to make a connection with a stranger you’re attracted to.

The same people who will laugh and make comments if you get rejected.

These people are the reason most newbies have approach anxiety - these are the same people GLUED to the conversation if they see it happening real time.

If you’re going to be great at seduction - you’re going to have to ignore these people entirely. 100% of these people would NEVER have the courage it takes to put themselves out there.

As someone who dealt with these people real time, they will hate you if you’re having a good set. These are the people who will try an cock block you. Most of these guys are the friend zoned, loser best friend who couldn’t make a move for YEARS. So naturally, they blame you (victim mentality) when you’re able to come in day 1 and create attraction.

My only tip is to look your target guy/girl in the eye and convey that it’s only us in this moment and I wouldn’t have it any other way. If done right, it’s powerful.

titaatlas · 2019-05-25T15:06:22+00:00

I mean I was also originally pretty skeptical of the subreddit before I fell down the rabbit hole and got addicted to it. Doesn't help that the header says "learn how to be a PUA", which has a pretty negative connotation in society.

Most people would assume that this sub is all about manipulation and misogynistic beliefs, but if you've been in the sub for long enough you'd know this is the exact opposite.

The whole point of seddit is to work on your inner game, to make you a more confident and successful person, despite what your inner beliefs are telling you. Something you'll hear pretty often around this sub is "focus on developing the coolest life you can live, dating is something that will come along the way".

About the whole misogynistic thing? Ask any of your female friends about what's one of the biggest turn offs in a guy, chances are it's going to be neediness. One of the primary goals in this sub is to stop neediness and focus on developing yourself.

This sub has literally done nothing but help both genders when it comes to dating (except for those people who get off on abusing others' feelings, but the primary demographic of this sub isn't that)

DriedUpPlum · 2019-05-25T15:15:57+00:00

Because we only have one semi active mod and nobody follows the rules.

70% of the posts are as follows:

How do I get this one girl in my class to like me?

How do I text better?

PM me to buy pirated RSD material!

Does she like me?

Did I mess this up.... I REALLY LIKE THIS ONE GIRL?

Hey, watch my YouTube video!

itsfun2Bdumb · 2019-05-25T15:19:48+00:00

They have a strawman argument, using a single post to define the entire subreddit. This is a good sub and without the help I received here, I’d never of been able to meet my girlfriend.

SyrusDrake · 2019-05-25T15:39:02+00:00

The gold standard for relationships is "it happened naturally". Relationships, in the eye of the public, are supposed to "just happen" when two people meet and then ??? and then sex. Learning how to improve your chances is "cheating" and basically akin to tricking women into sleeping with you.

And if you don't have the talent to "just let it happen without worrying about it", tough luck. You're supposed to just accept your fate.

WIA20XX · 2019-05-25T18:08:40+00:00

Society hates men who aren't successful.

And it also hates men who are successful, if the success isn't done right

nizdi · 2019-05-25T14:42:41+00:00

Woman's badmouthing seduction... That's just normal.

I'll edit later but it's obvious the boobs OP was cringe as fuck, come on lol

bugxter · 2019-05-25T22:32:39+00:00

Two things:

They don't know shit.
This sub can be really fucking cringy sometimes, like the post you linked. I would have the same reaction if I did not know more about the sub.

Cool188 · 2019-05-26T01:00:03+00:00

women are stupid

folasanmi · 2019-05-26T01:24:01+00:00

All seduction is communicating your desire to sleep with a woman. That’s literally it. What some fail tot see is that this is an art. It wasn’t nt taught to most guys when they where in the 5th grade. Main stream Society definitely didn’t teach it, most people parents didn’t teach it, and if anything most of the advice we received in our life sent us in the wrong direction. Don’t worry, often times if you want a different result you have to do something that most people aren’t doing. Most people in that sub, yes may or may not be having sex but it doesn’t matter. Chances are the results they are getting aren’t what they truly want and they shame those who want better. Fuck them! Fuck anyone who tries to tell you that what you want is stupid because in the end it’s your life.

Title	Why does Reddit hate Seddit?
Author	ExecutiveAlpaca
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	May 25, 2019 2:23 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/bsv1nq/why_does_reddit_hate_seddit/
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