Why my girl is not ready to commit to our relationship?

ympostor · 2025-06-27T17:32:48+00:00

If she wants to be just friends then it's not "your girl", sorry to break it to you.

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-06-27T15:36:52+00:00

Try not to get emotionally invested but that sounds too late. She wants to wait because she isn’t that interested

Substantial-Bad-4508 · 2025-06-27T17:52:01+00:00

Work with people who don't confuse you.

HistorianOk2573 · 2025-06-27T19:40:29+00:00

Looks like you are friendzoned. This girl is not into you like that. If you have been meeting for a month and you have not even kissed her in the mouth, then sorry but she doesn't you like that.

Even if she says "we can see things in future", that's not a promise of anything. You should not assume that she is serious about that because that's a vague empty statement, not a social contract. So don't come later saying "she led me on" or something, because you have already been warned here that she is not really thinking of that about you.

Flirting doesn't mean a girl likes you, flirting for many women is often done as a form of self-expression and amusemet without any goal in mind. A woman who is into you will not say, "let's just be friends for now".

So, sorry, but she is not your girl. She is your female friend. Not the same thing.

Outside_Bowler8148 · 2025-06-27T19:13:49+00:00

Because the sex is either bad or you are not having sex with her

Classicalesp · 2025-06-27T20:36:17+00:00

it never began bro, move on

Skywing007 · 2025-06-28T02:00:33+00:00

move on bro. It happened with me also. wish I stopped talking to her earlier. It never turns out well. She friendzoned you. Now it's your time to mark boundaries. Prioritize yourself. If you have feelings for her, tell her and if it don't work out, then move on. Don't let her fool you.

CrvCrx27 · 2025-06-28T04:47:20+00:00

I only read the title, but it sounds like you need to date someone else.

If she ain’t ready to commit then keep dating others.

The whole idea of this is to get a slew of girls who want to commit to you, and then you can pick whoever.

But whatever is going on in your relationship ain’t it.

7asas · 2025-06-28T06:24:21+00:00

Bro. She said she wants to be friends. She rejected you. And she is not your girl because she talks to you. 😂

How can you be on this sub and don't know that first you need to be doing all the sexual things with her already, before talking about commitment.

bafun13 · 2025-06-28T11:53:44+00:00

She views you as a female friend bro

Stock_Touch_5204 · 2025-06-28T20:10:17+00:00

Your in the friend zone. Ask her if she has any single friends she can set you up with.

Advanced-Bag9544 · 2025-06-30T13:23:50+00:00

We need more context. Maybe you are not doing something right.

DietWooden9721 · 2025-07-01T00:37:58+00:00

This happened to me with a girl and I ignored her for over a year.

This wasn't a healthy move btw

But after a whole year she hits me up, telling me all she actually has feelings for me etc

We hooked up a couple times. You think that means I'm in. Nope. We're in a situationship. Which I think is even worse because it made lose respect for this girl. The girl I wanted to have a long relationship with.

Anyways brother what I think you should do is move on and hang out with other girls. You can still hang with her and be her friend but eventually your time will be spent with people that want you around like that.

When you're out with your new girl, send ol' girl pics of you having fun. But obviously don't rub it in her face or anything. Just be like "check out this restaurant. You should try their food". You know. Like life updates.

Good luck.

Title	Why my girl is not ready to commit to our relationship?
Author	Ok_Recognition_271
Upvotes	0
Comments	17
Date	June 27, 2025 2:49 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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