Why would women not appear on first dates instead of simply telling they are not interested?

liberalmonkey · 2016-09-03T23:47:25+00:00

We are in the world now where ghosting is more common than telling the truth. She just isn't interested but doesn't want to hear you sob about it. Basically, she is an asshole. So if she doesn't show up, feel lucky. You don't have to deal with her shit for a whole date and you save money.

DaygameCoach · 2016-09-04T02:01:19+00:00

She isn't interested and ghosting is easier than cancelling. A lot of women are uncomfortable "rejecting guys" as well, often with good reason. I'm not defending her.

If this is happening often (let's say more than a few times)...look to yourself and your level or game.

Bartholomew_Risky · 2016-09-04T05:06:26+00:00

A lot of guys will get angry and call them sluts/whores, "You'd be lucky to have me", make them feel guilty ect... Or if they just don't like dealing with confrontation in general, it can be pretty hard to actually reject someone. I think it's shitty that they don't tell you, but those are some reasons why.

laststargazer · 2016-09-04T20:30:32+00:00

As a guy with two female best friends I can say it's likely the uncertainty of what your reaction might be. Girls get a lot of abuse from guys who act nice then turn into complete assholes when they get rejected. It happens, not much you can do except not take it personally, she didn't know you well enough to feel comfortable saying thanks but no thanks. She might also just be an asshole herself, either way you don't do yourself any favors dwelling on it, just move on.

CaptainCanuck15 · 2016-09-03T23:34:34+00:00

Because they have to face the guy to tell him they are not interested.

jefffffffff · 2016-09-04T01:26:13+00:00

Coward girl can pls go. You don't have time for shit like that. Shows her personality. Consider it a 'blessing'

TerryBanana171 · 2016-09-04T12:42:03+00:00

Because they are generally arseholes, Your an arsehole to her. She can get fucked 10 times over if she wanted, She is constantly put on a pedestal every day by every other guy. Why would she meet you. P.S Yes I know it sucks but its kinda true these days.

Title	Why would women not appear on first dates instead of simply telling they are not interested?
Author	1HungarianThrowaway
Upvotes	6
Comments	8
Date	September 3, 2016 11:14 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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