I’m half white but being mixed, and even I speak the local language I still feel women see me as foreigner and distrust me.

Often I have situations where I meet a girl and ask for her contacts but keep getting the answer that she doesn’t give numbers to strangers. Had the same in clubs ‘we don’t talk to strangers’.

But when I see my friends are going out, me sitting at the bar, I’m surprised they are able to make friends very fast and often have 5 or 10 new numbers in an evening. For me even getting 1 number after hours of game is almost impossible. Where my friends only get a few rejections, or friendly excuse.. I have 80 percent rejection with mostly harsh blowouts where women ignore me and don’t even want to talk.

The point is, getting more rejections from people makes me more anxious and upset. How to turn this pattern into something positive?