Would not having a facebook hinder your success?

mrmojorisin21 · 2014-01-12T01:13:25+00:00

Just deactivated mine the other day. I'm not the type of guy to contact a girl via Facebook. Also not having one would create more mystery.

ThrowawayPUA · 2014-01-12T01:39:37+00:00

Lots of mPUAs say you should take your Facebook private. You can tell women it's just for communicating with your relatives like your Grandma.

If you're going to do Facebook as part of your seduction persona, you'll have to get serious at it. I personally wouldn't put the effort into FB, there are better places with more bang for the buck.

ImproveOrDieTrying · 2014-01-12T01:41:58+00:00

I think with shit like this it depends on the person. Some people that like using facebook can probably use it to their advantage, but if you don't like it and can't be bothered I doubt it's going to help you.

rusty84 · 2014-01-12T07:01:34+00:00

If you're facebook is going to make you look like a loser, DELETE IT! But for the most part, it doesn't matter at all. From experience, I doubt you would randomly sleep with someone on your friends list, if you don't talk to them often, but I have had a bunch of girls stalk the crap out of me of there, and they have lost interest because I don't have any picture of me with women up.

Alexfortomorrow · 2014-01-12T10:39:06+00:00

Ever since I logged out from Failbook several months ago and never logged back in, everything went even better.

No more random people who wants to spy on you, hating on you, wanting to know everything about what you're up to/working to, who you're dating etc.. Life is "private" again (though it depends on what you share anyway)

Also, if used improperly, it's gonna make you look like a beta-needy loser.

AVOID IT AT ALL COSTS (for seduction/girls of course)

Not having failbook, or not using it at all like I do, will make you more desirable and will make you appear (if you aren't yet) a busy person who's got a lot fo crazy/funny stuff to do instead of spending hours in front of a pc monitor lurking on other's lives.

rmbarnes · 2014-01-12T13:56:51+00:00

handcaulks · 2014-01-18T01:19:55+00:00

Right, obviously YMMV. But speaking as a college-aged lady, if I meet a dude and he doesn't have facebook, I will tend to:

A) forget he exists on breaks and shit because I'm not reminded of him by his activity on my 'news' feed. Whatever flirtation we had had going on before the break is reduced to zip when we come back. If I do not see your face or hear from you or interact with you for over say 6 days you will be put on the back burner. You are all overestimating how far back you can pull to look "cool" before you cross over into "not even on the radar". I don't assume you're off doing cool shit. I don't think about you, period.

B) since almost everybody does have facebook, I send out all my invitations through it and if you're not already one of my good friends, I will probably not bother to special invite you through fkn email coz that's all you give to people because you want to be 'mysterious'. You won't be aware of half the shit going on and every event you miss is a no-pressure opportunity you might have had (cause it's a party, not a date) to use all those fancy ass kino techniques on my (happy, relaxed, basically pre-gamed) self. You will rarely see me in the sort of night/party setting where you might actually get me to go home with you.

I get regular life reasons for not having a facebook (timesink, etc.) And that's fine. But if you're considering all the ways girls lose interest in guys, this is definitely one for me.

Title	Would not having a facebook hinder your success?
Author	PackAttack91
Upvotes	11
Comments	18
Date	January 12, 2014 12:56 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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