[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 9/28/15

austinbayarea · 2015-09-28T22:21:25+00:00

I met a girl through my friend the other night when we were going to the bars, I ended up having some fun but not going all the way. My question is: My text game sucks bad, should I keep texting her after I got her number because I really don't feel like doing it but I want to keep talking to her.

CptnTightPants · 2015-09-28T19:06:18+00:00

A lot of people seem to still put girls on a pedestal, and get nervous when conversation comes about. How do we reverse this?

Shfiend · 2015-09-28T20:08:05+00:00

I need some advice. I was just out at the bars over the weekend and met this really cute girl. After some time and drinks in between we got close with a lot of talking and kino escalation. I started to hold her hands and move her around the bar a lot too.

However, after awhile I felt that I was a little tipsy and started escalating too quickly and grabbed her butt a few times while we were hugging and slow dancing at the dance floor. I feel that she might have been a little turned off by that since she immediately whispered to me: "I'm gonna hit you every time you do that." She did it playfully, but it still felt a little off to me.

I feel a little shame now that I think about it, but yeah I guess I just gotta start learning from these mistakes. Turns out I was right...obviously she didn't come home with me and she did say she isn't looking for any sort of commitment right now and we can be just friends. I told her it's all good and we're texting each other the day after.

We texted for awhile and nothing like replying immediately and stuff, we both took our time and I also had things to do anyway so it didn't bother me at all. However, I did try to ask her out sober next time at a cafe near my place where they serve coffee and wine but didn't set a date, and she said, "Yeah that's cool, I like coffee and wine".

I might try to make a date out of this since I genuinely like her. She did say she was just gonna be in the city for another year cause of work, that's why she isn't looking for a date and whatnot. But whatever, it doesn't hurt to try I guess. However after that we were just talking about random things and it ended with her texting me "Yeah pretty cool!", cause we were talking about the super moon last night. It ended there since I don't really know what to say next. I was gonna ask her out again in a couple days, but not sure.

Any advice?

Magnusoz · 2015-09-30T11:16:04+00:00

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What is this?

LazyBuhdaBelly · 2015-09-29T00:39:01+00:00

Is it worth being friends with a girl after she is no longer interested? We knew each for awhile, flirted and kinda were like friends or something idk, finally went on a date. No real chemistry during the date that we shared during our previous interactions, which bummed me out a bit, but I'll count my losses. Perhaps the case of waiting too long to make a move.

Anyhow, I would like to keep the increased social circle. Is there a graceful way to go about this? Something like "hey let's just be friends" or something...? Or is this a stupid idea?

whatwouldyoudo___ · 2015-09-29T02:15:00+00:00

So i had to move out of my college town for a four month internship, i was see this girl before i left but i haven't talked to her in a few weeks, would you try to keep contact when away or wait till you are back and just message her then?

pm_me_dank_maymayz · 2015-09-29T05:51:36+00:00

College student here- we're about 4 weeks into classes and I realized this girl from my high school is in one of my classes. I'm pretty sure we knew we were in the same class since the first week, but I didn't talk to her till last week when I managed to catch her leaving from our class and talk to her a bit. We didn't talk much in HS but I know she at least remembers me because she likes stuff on my Facebook from time to time.

How should I approach this if I'm interested in her? I was thinking I would just ask her if she wanted to study and then hang out afterwards but I'm not sure if that would get my intent across.

Also, I feel like I'm struggling with oneitis on this one, and I pretty much only visit /r/seduction when I've got oneitis, otherwise I feel like I'm disinterested in most girls in general. Anyone have any thoughts on this?

beingportal · 2015-09-29T14:04:53+00:00

i am posting to see if there are people in the toledo area that want to go out and provide constructive criticism.

i have all the basic fundamentals of inner game and social skills, but need some 3rd person perspective (mentor or acquaintance) for constructive criticism on outer game.

if that's not possible then a person on seddit willing to provide constructive criticism from my data tracking (google spreadsheet of approaches) and pm's would also be helpful.

i dont mind making posts, but would prefer something faster and consistent.

thank you

TurtleTerrorizer · 2015-09-29T20:55:17+00:00

Anyone have any good tips or articles for gaming girls that you see every day (class)?

logged_in_for_this · 2015-09-29T23:41:36+00:00

Scenario: girl you know kind of well but in a completely platonic way so far. How do you guys feel about saying something like "You're single right?" before asking them out/inviting them out?

I feel like it puts them in the right mindset and removes doubt from whether or not the hangout is a "date" without necessarily putting the pressure of a formal "date" on them. I've only had the chance to use this once but It's something I aim to test more in the future.

Vonzipp3r1 · 2015-09-30T02:15:10+00:00

Can someone explain to me how to invest less than the other person? I'm assuming by having an abundance mentality and show that they're not the only option I have.

novaxxa · 2015-09-30T08:17:39+00:00

I need some advice. I met this girl during a vacation while we hang out with a group of friends, tried asking her out but got rejected (probably because she is busy). Then through a friend of her I know that she is not that into me. Can I do something to change the situation? I still keep her number though, but not physically near her place.

puaCurveBall · 2015-09-30T13:22:07+00:00

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TremendousPotatoe · 2015-10-01T14:58:08+00:00

How much should I be invested in social media?

puaCurveBall · 2015-10-01T17:12:03+00:00

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Vonzipp3r1 · 2015-10-03T17:47:31+00:00

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iTayluh · 2015-10-03T21:16:57+00:00

It's a Saturday and I'm under 21. Where do I go to game?

silver_nuke13 · 2015-10-05T05:11:49+00:00

What's the best course of action with apps? There was a guide but it seems very vague as in what steps to do after matching up, cooking, nonchalance etc. Should i move her to another platform asap?

Title	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 9/28/15
Author	SedditModTeam
Upvotes	10
Comments	57
Date	September 28, 2015 7:03 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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