#1 Increase your 'Females knowing your city' number-

By that i mean women that know you beyond first name to first name basis. women that know what city you're from, these include your friends and women you talk to atleast once a month. even if its just small talk. for most men this number is 4-5 women, now if only 4 women are aware of your existence and then you cry why you dont have a gf i mean its kinda on you. I want you to increase this number to atleast triple digits. This has multiple advantages, first of all you now have a pool of 100+ girls, so even if 80% aren't interested in you you still got a very good chance, Second, knowing these many women means you will constantly meet with their friends and classmates etc. unlimited resources to meet new chicks. next and the most important, when you know so many girls you stop being needy, abundance mindset and confidence comes automatically you dont need to fake it. you really dont care if you offend one of them, or if any leaves. even the girl you date will see that you are wanted among women and she wont consider you a loser or cheat on you. preselection is crazy. Singlehandedly the most important advice you will ever hear here. So forget blaming other things and start working on your logistics.

#2 Have an aesthetic-

By aesthetic i dont just mean look good. Thats too shallow and doesn't adapt to your strengths. aesthetics is a philosophy deeper than just looks. A hot Loser, Nerdy professor with specs, Gym Guy aesthetic, Runner Aesthetic, Hot prisoner, Guitar guy, tattooed guy, car/bike guy aesthetic, guy who travels alot, hiker. All these are philosophies that convey much deeper about you. dont maximise these, but choose 1-2 that feels most natural to you. Go to pinterest and read those aesthetics, see what you can learn from them. its deeper than just looks. (basic stuff like hygiene and smelling good is all assumed here i am not gonna waste my time telling you to shower). tho try not to go to deep into these topics while conversating with women, let your aesthetic tease itself without verbal effort. if they ask you about these answer normally like you just dabble into this fields but aren't obsessed.

#3 Flirt and tease-

Literally guys, this is such a superpower. Alot of yall even some pros here do not know how to flirt. Majority dont even know what flirting is, You ask a guy to flirt and he just goes to a girl and says 'Youre beautiful give me your number' Like dude thats not a flirt your straight up htting on her. flirt that yall should chase should not be that direct that you reveal in your first interaction that you like her and your a simp. (Not saying this cant work, it usually does if you work on your aesthetic point #2, its just i personally dont like it cuz it ruins mystery) Best flirts almost always should confuse her so she thinks 'Is this guy flirting with me?' Easy way to do this is to tease and a slight roast about something easily changeable about her while 'hitting' on her with your nonverbals like eye contact and tone of voice and kino. so she knows you are flirting by the way you look at her but cant pinpoint cus you're also roasting her. This non revealing indirect flirting is also safest, as you can do this with your friends or your colleagues as nothing can be pinpointed exactly as you never revealed your interest, you are safe from HR's or Gym Managers or friends blaming you for ruining friendships meanwhile feeling all the emotions of a typical flirt anyway.

(dont roast her brutally, by roast i just mean subtle comments here and there about her actions or something that isn't something she could be insecure about. Dont make fun of anyones insecurities guys). also dont always be roasting, keep the ratio around 1:5 for every 5 normal-serious convos, make one convo playful. General rule of thumb is to laugh with her instead of at her.

#4 Take Initiative-

In my Uni days i got bored of being alone and studying so i did something i never did during those days. I asked my friend group that i am hosting a mountain hike and if they wanna tag along. Almost all said yes cuz they were also bored. Thats when i realised instead of waiting for others to invite me to stuff, i can do that. because everyone else is also waiting to be invited. These days i host houseparties all the time. If you do #1 correctly you will have an amazing time hosting parties. This also gives you social benefit as your the man. These days i rarely go to clubs cuz i am just a regular guy there and millionaires are the ones with actual social proof buying tables and drinks. but thats just way too desperate and expensive in my books for trash quality girls that a hot guy can fuck in club bathroom for free. The social proof and the ego boost from taking initiatives and beingthe guy who organises trips and parties is immense. also adding another very important aesthetic to you.

Tldr: be interesting, be social, don't be needy.

Edit: I am not gonna talk about confidence, or abundance mindset or social proof or acting non chalant or chalant. If you do #1 correctly it will all come automatically.