Your approach to lay ratio?

5_7pickup · 2021-11-02T21:49:04+00:00

I would love to see these people do better lmao. 700 approach for 3 lays is better than 0 for 0.

These losers would rather swipe on 2000 girls for 0 lays.

GoldenpickleNinja · 2021-11-02T23:50:50+00:00

700 sounds like a lot of time that could be used working on some other aspect Of yourself that will make you more attractive.

constructioncity · 2021-11-03T13:52:22+00:00

depends on your looks and the looks of the girl

If you think some bald fat 50 year old isn't gonna get rejected 99% of the time if he's hitting on 18 year old models despite how much 'game' he knows, then you're insane

It's really just a game of approaching girls, and flirting with the ones who think you're handsome.

Approach to lay ratio has too many variables to worry about

So 700 approaches and a few lays could be excellent or bad depending on various variables

affinitypaw · 2021-11-03T00:34:55+00:00

0 out of 100 so far

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-11-02T23:56:09+00:00

There is no set guaranteed ratios. Guys can approach thousands of women and not get laid once. A guy can approach one woman and end up in bed with her. You need to understand that when you become the type of man women want, you may need to only approach a couple of women a week to have plenty of women to date.

Sevenalligator7 · 2021-11-03T05:27:06+00:00

Sounds like the Boomhauer strategy which is perfectly fine with me.

recursivePasta · 2021-11-03T10:12:02+00:00

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mwelothebest · 2021-11-03T11:14:56+00:00

Whats a lay ? New to sub

AelfredRex · 2021-11-03T12:59:30+00:00

You got to picture it from the outside. Imagine a guy, in a mall perhaps or out on a busy street, going up to every woman in sight, and basically begging for sex. "Hi, you're cute, can I ~~sleep with you~~ get your number?" And doing that day after day after day. Not a good look. But that's what cold approach is. Begging. So yeah, he got ragged on for begging 700 women for sex. That's either some serious desperation or some serious masochism, cause 697 told him "No".

The proper way.. the non-desperate way.. is to go out into social situations, look about, see who's looking at you, make some smiles, chit-chat begins, feel out her situation and next thing you know you got a first date arranged and you're off to the races. 1 to 1.

If there's one thing that should be common knowledge, it's that desperation is not an attractive trait in a man. Getting laid is not so important that you literally have to go out and beg for it.

IFeelKindaFree · 2021-11-03T18:49:18+00:00

Idk cause since my last relationship ended my dumbass hasn’t made enough of an effort to approach. Before that, pretty good, but getting into it again isn’t easy lol.

recursivePasta · 2021-11-04T08:42:03+00:00

I'm the guy OP is referring.

I had no lays until I hit 380. All I did was running up to girls and tell them they are cute, and dry stack the set, asking for number when I run out of things to say. Well it worked wonder :(

From 400 or so I started seeing patterns and implementing what I was learning from YouTube.

At around 550 is where I can very comfortably hook most sets on the street, but I had one major sticking point which was I wasn't number closing, for some reason I had this pull or nothing mentality going on. It's well documented that this is 1 of 3 most common mistakes guys make. Both of the other lays happened between 550 to 700. Numbers Is not fully accurate.

And if you read my FRs in my post history, I cockblocked my self all the time. This is all inner game issue where I thought I didn't deserve it or she's so hot it's too easy to be real.

I think right now my ability to spark attraction is very high, night game on the street the hook rate is around 50%. As long as they stay, and didn't tell me to "please leave us alone", I can hook most of them. Can't even count how many "Fucks offs" I've turned around.

My isolation, leading, objection handling, logistics, entitlement issues and other basket of sticking points are ruining all the sets.

Realistically I have no problem believing someone with extreme tight game to pull every night. Don't count approaches in night game, count it as a whole night.

For daygame 1 in 10 doesn't sound so bad either if it's world class pua.

Title	Your approach to lay ratio?
Author	EstablishmentLimp477
Upvotes	19
Comments	34
Date	November 2, 2021 9:42 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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