I’m (24M) with a wife (26F) and a son that’s is 8 months. We been through a lot with emotional and verbal abuse to each other. She would never listen to me ever even the 9 years we been together. I helped her with money to teach her about credit and everything. Even went as far as putting car in my name which she kept paid off till we have a wreck. She got the money for that car and bought her own car in her name. She was rough with spending money and was pretty lazy. I did most of the cooking, cleaning, and etc. I found out she cheated on me with her girl friend. I told her we need a break or separation. We were both devastated but I was hurt by her lying to me cause I found out by her friend. She then proceeds to talk to another guy within a week or 2 of separation. Which I didn’t care really at first then came to the realization of how dumb I am that she moved on so fast. She told me one day we need to see if we can bring our spark back by going on a date or something. I thought about for a while and gave her the ok. We go out to eat at a steak house. While driving there the entire time she was texting said other guy and would never talk. She kept saying that there is nothing to talk about as she is texting other guy. When we got there she was still texting this dude the whole time. I finally confronted her about it and all she said was sorry and kept texting him. After that things were smooth somewhat. Till I saw her still talking to the guy and sexting. I confronted her, she lied, and showed her proof. We had a long argument to the point she came out about making out with another guy not even 4 months after we were married. Then again things were smooth somewhat till I just found out she going on a date with said guy. She told me she wanted to see if it works out. Pretty much saying she gonna see if this works and if not come running back to me for more abuse. So wtf am I supposed to do cause I have a child with her that she is not great at taking care of really and always on the phone and never gives him attention. I’m just in a bad situation really.