I just had the conversation that I have been putting off. She expected it but she was not pleased. Told me up and down telling me all of my faults and how screwed up the children will be and how I’m an emotional leech. How there is no possible way we can afford two households. Basically expecting me to stay in a dead marriage and sacrifice myself and my happiness for her previewed idea of stability.

I have been unhappy for a long time. To be honest, I feel terrible, I feel like a failure. I feel like a horrible person, a horrible husband and a horrible father.

I guess I just wanted to get it out there because I have no real support system.

Edit: Thank you all, after a day of contemplation I am feeling a bit better. I am glad she told me exactly how she thinks of me. A mentally ill emotional drain on her and the family. I think that puts the final nail in the coffin. I can't and won't be with someone who thinks that of me. I'm not perfect and I have my issues, but the way she "psychoanalyzed" me really showed me who she thinks I am.