Wow. There really are no good men

If you've seen any of my recent posts you'll know I recently discovered my brand new husband was cheating with prostitutes.

My darling brother has been helping me through this difficult time. Sympathising with how awful men are etc.

2 weeks ago he broke up with his partner who he lives with. They have been living together still while they both try to find somewhere else.

She has contacted me hysterically upset. Told me she found him using tinder. She asked him could he just hold off until they have parted ways. He said sure. Two days later, she caught him again.

She said ok but can you at least not meet other people until we move. He said ok. Then she finds out he's going on secret dates.

She said ok but can you at least now have sex with anyone else until then. He said ok.. you see where this is going.

She moves on Sunday. Yesterday, she told me things got physical over a few drinks and they were in the bedroom. She looked him right in the eyes and asked him has he had sex with anyone else, and if he has, that's fine, he's a single man now, but just to tell her at least , so THEY can not have sex that night as she wouldn't feel comfortable.

He says no, I have not.

They have sex.

This morning she looks at his phone and there's a full conversation with a friend about the girl he's slept with the day before. And blocked right after, as she was "crazy".

So not only is he lying to and disrespecting his partner (yes they may be ex but they lived together for 2 years) but he's using some other girl too.

The same man who would literally kill anyone who did that to me or our sister.

I can't take this fresh heartbreak. 2020 seems determined to ensure I never trust any man ever again.