I have a date

snakeeyesninelives · 2020-07-30T10:36:45+00:00

the most important tip i think is that you shouldn't try to make him like you, try to find out if you even like him. make sure he has the qualities you're looking for, don't interrogate him of course, just guide the conversation. have fun!

Alma00019 · 2020-07-30T12:13:00+00:00

Be yourself and enjoy yourself. Don't expect anything out of the date. Don't put up with anything that doesn't feel right.

You're not there to impress him. This is not the start of something wonderful and magical. You don't have to prove yourself to him or anyone. This is just one date.

It's like going to the movie theatre. You go to the movies to be entertained. You buy some treats, find your seat, and sit back and relax and wait for the movie to start. You're feeling happy and excited; you're most likely feeling pretty positive and eager to be entertained for the next 90-130ish minutes.

That's how you should approach this date.

jayda92 · 2020-07-30T11:11:06+00:00

Fake it till you make it. Be calm, collective and try to envision a powerful woman who has everything under control. If you admire another woman; think about her and what she would do/say.

Don't be ashamed to call it a day if you've seen enough of him and don't want to continue. You don't have to sit this one out. It's for your pleasure and if you don't enjoy yourself: the hell with it.

You're a queen. This date is to check if your crowns allign (if he has one...).

cupittycakes · 2020-07-30T16:02:43+00:00

Do not give him your whole life story, especially share none of your past trauma. Don't talk about exes or sex

Have a nice time girl!!

-positivity- · 2020-07-30T18:37:40+00:00

Talk way less than him and listen to what he brags to you about... hopefully it’s something good like working hard for a promotion, and not playing video games all day etc. Don’t keep the convo going, let him work on that. Leave the date within 2 hours. Let him initiate contact after the date. Meet at an area that’s convenient to you, no meeting halfway (“I prefer _________ or nearby” “I’d be more comfortable meeting in _____”). Have fun!

Blackishcat27 · 2020-07-31T06:12:38+00:00

Listen more than you talk if you can. You'll learn so much by doing this. Good and bad.

Title	I have a date
Author	ImPiqued1111111
Upvotes	22
Comments	16
Date	July 30, 2020 6:03 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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