Don't Fall for the Tender Trap

oh_shit_oh_fuck · 2020-12-13T05:44:48+00:00

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Oomlotte99 · 2020-12-13T05:59:39+00:00

I know a guy like this and he is the most unaware objectifying women garbage partner ever. He thinks he’s a really nice guy, the kind that congratulates himself for not sleeping with drunk dates like that shouldn’t be a standard. I tell all his girlfriends he kind of sucks when I first meet them but they don’t listen.

Fluorescence · 2020-12-13T05:32:14+00:00

Lmao this was so funny, so lucky to have found this article. Tender man sucks! Sign of an artificial relationship. Does he really know you if he is insincerely treating you like glass during sex. Needs to relax. But it feels like a lot of people have sex this way. Just mimicking things they saw on tv instead of feeling real desires.

Inexperience is one thing that you could maybe work on. But listen to what you really want if things aren’t improving. I think it’s a sign of a mismatch.

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-12-13T13:51:57+00:00

Remember that episode of Johnny Bravo when a dumpy short guy teaches Johnny how to pick up girls by being sensitive and nice with some Schoolhouse Rock type jingles? Then the dude turns around and admits it's all an act and Johnny busts him out? The Tenderman is that dumpy short guy. The faux-menist.

Kimpractical · 2020-12-13T16:38:47+00:00

Omg all of that is very oddly specific 😂 I’ve never dated a guy like that, thankfully. Also, did anyone else think it was a combo of ‘tinder’ and ‘Slenderman’ when they saw the word ‘tenderman’? Very unsettling image in my head!

ScallionOk958 · 2020-12-13T19:35:07+00:00

After finishing, he soulfully looks into your eyes and voices a husky, “Hey.”

WHY DO THEY DO THIS! How do they want us to respond to that??

UnstrirringCoffee · 2020-12-13T17:19:08+00:00

It is a shame the comments are full of pickme's advocating for BDSM.

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Title	Don't Fall for the Tender Trap
Author	Fluorescence
Upvotes	33
Comments	15
Date	December 13, 2020 5:30 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/kc51yi/dont_fall_for_the_tender_trap/
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