Never raise another man's kids, especially girls. It's a thankless job. Even with daughters you're just a placewarmer for Chad.

debanked · 2019-04-05T10:38:46+00:00

Even your own kids won't thank you

H82Breakit2u · 2019-04-05T12:56:52+00:00

Bio dad is also a piece of shit. He knows another man paid and raised her. If he was a man of honour, he’d bow out.

WhyMeThough1 · 2019-04-05T13:22:10+00:00

Props to the wife for suggesting not paying and going to that wedding. I'm just very pissed off that most of the comments in that sub were women saying for him to just pay for the wedding anyways and not go. Selfish ass hoes

ValhallaWillCome · 2019-04-05T11:12:04+00:00

I have a lot of respect for men who raise another man’s child willingly. But the stepdaughters actions in this would make me cut all ties with her instantly. He’s raised her from a little girl to a woman and the thanks he gets is a betrayal of his trust. Even her mother agrees this is out of line.

4everAwake · 2019-04-05T12:31:12+00:00

And it looks like the stepfather is still going to pay for the wedding. :-(

lulz3r · 2019-04-05T14:26:16+00:00

This is the type of reward simps can look forward to.

I_Am_Player_One · 2019-04-05T10:39:12+00:00

His wife is strong, she's being a real homie.

I say stay with the wife forever and don't pay that little bitch daughter a dime for her wedding.

massy525 · 2019-04-05T15:13:09+00:00

I'll pay for the wedding, but I wont attend.

SIMP's Gonna SIMP. Cucked twice by the same guy. Wow....

AGuesthouseInBangkok · 2019-04-05T13:36:49+00:00

Is having daughters the ultimate cuckoldry?

I cannot think or comprehend of anything more cucked than having a daughter. Honestly, think about it rationally. You are feeding, clothing, raising and rearing a girl for at least 18 years solely so she can go and get ravaged by another man. All the hard work you put into your beautiful little girl - reading her stories at bedtime, making her go to sports practice, making sure she had a healthy diet, educating her, playing with her. All of it has one simple result: her body is more enjoyable for the men that will eventually fuck her in every hole.

Raised the perfect girl? Great. Who benefits? If you're lucky, a random man who had nothing to do with the way she grew up, who marries her. He gets to fuck her tight pussy every night. He gets the benefits of her kind and sweet personality that came from the way you raised her.

As a man who has a daughter, you are LITERALLY dedicating at least 20 years of your life simply to raise a girl for another man to enjoy. It is the ULTIMATE AND FINAL cuck. Think about it logically

Docbear64 · 2019-04-05T15:06:41+00:00

I hate that the default response when dealign with a woman is always " Sit down and talk to her like an adult and reason things out " but if a woman is in any way considers herself being mistreated by a man the horde is only too interested in telling her to Leave him , sue him, or ruin his life as the FIRST response .

I think it should be the other way around, I'm not fucking around and wasting my time on another woman who shows her fucking disrespect towards me . We are not sitting down and talking things out like "adults" so that she can twist my words and distort things to fir her reality . fuck all that noise.

ADF-01 · 2019-04-05T15:12:48+00:00

Jesus why do they always lock threads when mgtow advice is given not when the traditional "yaay live love laugh improve" bullshit that's basically just filler text. Fuck's sake have some, dare i say, diversity.

AGuesthouseInBangkok · 2019-04-05T14:04:53+00:00

In the law of the jungle, the women would need your resources.

You'd take her in, and get to fuck her and her daughters.

The sons could either join your hunting team or war tribe, or else be executed, depending on your preference.

2019-04-05T13:46:33+00:00

He is not the father. I get that he stepped in, but what does he expect? Children long to be with their parents, not the fill in.

ChiTownBob · 2019-04-05T13:17:12+00:00

I would have said "you want him to walk you down the aisle? OK, then I'm not paying a dime. Have a nice life."

This stepdaughter is a total sociopath.

badaboomxx · 2019-04-05T14:37:19+00:00

Have to say it, but I agree with the wife.

Pittshadowrunner · 2019-04-05T14:40:03+00:00

Shows just how strong the "nature" side of nature vs. nurture is. Little cunt just like her bitchy ass bio father.

cypresstalker · 2019-04-05T13:55:47+00:00

Dont be a step-father to anyone. I don't respect mine at all. I'll always side with my actual father even when hes dead ass wrong. Its hard to explain but you just know where you loyalty lies. Him getting upset about this fact of life only encourages me more to use his ass like the beta he is.

You aren't 'saving the children'.. you're taking their come-up story away from them.

SomethinLikDis · 2019-04-05T16:06:17+00:00

the fact that the wife was the sensible one is still baffling to me. If she doesn't want you to be apart of this day, wish granted

White_Mlungu_Capital · 2019-04-05T19:18:32+00:00

Why are you paying? Make the Chad she is marrying pay for it. If he cannot afford it, tough, he shouldn't marry a woman he can't afford to.

You been cuckolded 8 ways from Sunday. If you pay for this, expect to be cucked further.

markentingh · 2019-04-05T19:22:46+00:00

Kid deserves the punishment. Biological father should have insisted that the other father walk down the aisle because bio dad is not worthy. I wouldn't pay or attend either if I had raised her. I wouldn't even say a damn thing except that I'm not going because fuck you.

incelposter · 2019-04-05T16:53:03+00:00

I would never.

If the single mom truly found me attractive, she would have initially had those kids with me.

I don't want to be used as an ATM.

JerryNewton7 · 2019-04-05T17:39:14+00:00

Stepfather is a just formal word for "financial sponsor who isn't truly considered family".

TerraEarth · 2019-04-05T17:57:06+00:00

Jesus Christ.

RevolutionaryPea7 · 2019-04-05T17:59:33+00:00

We decided that I'd help them pay for the wedding. [Emphasis mine]

Says it all really.

eltonl · 2019-04-05T18:43:50+00:00

D O N T P A Y

Mac290 · 2019-04-05T19:24:58+00:00

Like most posts on that sub, there are likely many conveniently omitted details left out to sway you a particular direction and provide validation.

AllureFX · 2019-04-05T22:25:13+00:00

when i was younger i used to respect men for "stepping up" and being stepfathers. But as ive grown up ive got no respect for that. If anything its the exact opposite of being a man to raise someone else's seed. It just boggles my mind someone would even consider it

AReditAccount · 2019-04-05T16:01:17+00:00

Use an np link or archive you idiot

2019-04-05T19:55:30+00:00

Textbook Briffault’s Law here.

2019-04-05T20:42:08+00:00

My sisters treated my dad like total shit at the end of his life. Even in the grave, they still bad mouth him. The shit disgusts me.

2019-04-05T21:57:01+00:00

Do you really have to ask ? I thought this is common sense.
Don't pay for jack shit ! and since u're in the mgtow forum, ur "daughter" is having daddy's issues. and as far her father goes, she's trying to "fix" him, she'll get bored of him very soon though. Show some balls, don't pay for shit !

2019-04-05T22:22:34+00:00

Wow.... thats a huge slap in the face right there. "Hey I know you stepped up as dad when my bio dad wasnt there.... but he is here now and I think he is a changed man so im going to let him walk me down the isle. btw, thanks for paying for this EXPENSIVE DESTINATION WEDDING" Think of all the bullshit he had to deal with during her teenage years and raising her because we all know none of us were the ideal child when we hit our teenage years. I personally wouldnt pay and I would cut ties with her. The mom is on board with this so it wouldn't be hard to do and you wouldnt have to divorce to do it.

2019-04-05T23:46:58+00:00

Edit: As some of you have suggested, I'll pay for the wedding,

Why? Because some White Knights on the Internet pressured him into it? OMG No! His decision not to pay for the wedding was the right one.

I sent him a message: Your wife is correct. Don't pay for the wedding, and don't let some White Knights on Reddit pressure you into paying for the wedding of a very ungrateful woman.

eirikr14 · 2019-04-05T23:53:11+00:00

This dudes a massive beta cuck. Raises the kid and gets no benefit of being a real parent. I would tell that little girl to have her Bio Dad to pay for it.

Starshitlord · 2019-04-06T01:43:00+00:00

I remember another post like this from a few years ago, except the wedding was local and the step dad cancelled the catering lost a small deposit and in the end I think ended up kicking the gf and her kid out of the house or something. Think it was an old pro or petty revenge post.

ezrabrooooks · 2019-08-27T22:01:00+00:00

i dont get it, i know that "unwed mothers" are now over 50% and divorce is over 50% so ALL females have kids now and NOTHING IS WORTH THAT... NOTHING!!!!! to deal with/pay for some other guys "fun, fun, fun" he had with her. "i need help raising these kids.... DONT TELL MY KIDS ANYTHING!!!!" NOTHING IS WORTH THAT , NOTHING!!!

shun2311 · 2019-07-19T12:03:20+00:00

Fucking ho is not grateful, shouldn't have raised Chad's bastard spawn at the first place

Title	Never raise another man's kids, especially girls. It's a thankless job. Even with daughters you're just a placewarmer for Chad.
Author	H82Breakit2u
Upvotes	243
Comments	90
Date	April 5, 2019 10:30 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/b9phpt/never_raise_another_mans_kids_especially_girls/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/never-raise-another-mans-kids-especially-girls-its.487457 https://theredarchive.com/post/487457

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