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[–]ParalyticPoison139 points140 points141 points 6 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
The thing is, women can detect the red flags very easily, the issue is that it makes them wet and gives them the tingles.
[–]ChilledEfilist[S] 72 points73 points74 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Based and tinglepilled.
[–]Patricijaobjectdude30 points31 points32 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I've heard women don't specifically like assholes, they just HATE weaklings.
The issue is women can't differentiate between asshole and non-weak.
[–]RationalRaspberry9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Women say they hate assholes, but it is shown time and time again that is there preference as their emotions are most stimulated.
[–]SpankKing_1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You’re listening to what they say not what they do
[–]Patricijaobjectdude0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Can you elaborate?
I'm not sure what part in my comment made you think I was listening to women.
[–]MattFoley7913 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nothing turns a woman on like the potential of getting hospitalized or killed.
[–]breathen1232 points3 points4 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
That's because men with the guts to kill and hurt women are the only ones who can succesfully pass a woman's shit test™, where you fail if you do what the woman says to do
And shit tests, from their perspective, is the one way they found to separate weaklings from tribe leaders
[–]vivekvpatil88881 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
True.
[–]DaddyAF198942 points43 points44 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
There’s something entertaining seeing a woman go back to the same man after clear abuse (mental, emotional or physical)
[–]BlackPillPusher31 points32 points33 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nothing gets the ol' slit gushing like some danger and chaos, and every guy who has been around for a while knows it well.
[–]RIPOldAccountF29 points30 points31 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Always makes me wonder when so frequently woman go "I was in an abusive relationship for X years" what made them stay.
[–]Marque0135 points36 points37 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
the abuse :)
Ignore what they say. Watch what they do.
[–]Sir_manalot22 points23 points24 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Women love abusive men over good men.
They hate the end results of said abuse though.
[–]breathen1232 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Like icarus, they flew too close to the sun
But don't get deceived by their words . They're rather get burnt by a bright star than drown in a sea of mediocrity And when women are surrounded by nothing but overdomesticated men, they get deseperate and start campaigning for the government to import as much feral men as they can, men who weren't domesticated at all
[–]MattFoley7911 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They fucking love it. Back in college I had a girlfriend who wanted me to punch her, slap her, sodomize her, and bite her hard enough to break the skin.
I was somewhat naive at that point and got the fuck out. Still, it was an eye opener.
[–]MattFoley792 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep. And they get so pissed when anyone points it out.
[–][deleted] 31 points32 points33 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Psychopaths are very deceiving though. I work with narcisist psychopath, and people who don't have real experience with him just love him.
[–]nobbynobbynoob15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Indeed, and this can apply to sociopaths both male and female. Plenty of men have turned to MGTOW or red pill after being victimized by socio-/psychopathic women (and surviving the experience of course).
[–]WaywardStag1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
And I assume people who do have real experience with him try to stay away from him? It doesn't take getting married, buying a house together, and having children, before you see his issues?
[–]SpankKing_1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It was clear the first few minutes of meeting them. It’s just an excuse they use to play victim
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's the interesting part, people under his influence rarely flee. There are various reasons. One is that despite knowing he's manipulator, he's so good in it we still fall for his tricks and we think he's at least doing something good for us. The other problem is his power, as one would need to flee at least to another company. In my case, some perks that I have are probably unique to where I am now, and that's the bribe keeping me here.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I think the only way to insulate yourself from them is to actively distrust the most charming and charismatic people.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Very true! Charm and charisma are two huge red flags. Run away if you sense them!!!
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Psychopaths are experts at getting what they want from people because they are so charming and manipulative. I think often times its the people we least expect because they manipulate us so well. So being wary of that is all you can do. Ultimately i think we are bound to fall under the spell of one of these people sooner or later.
[–]BlackPillPusher13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Plausible deniability, when you're not an agent nothing's your fault, but they are still agents, they just deny it, which is exactly what an agent would do.
[–]Electronic_Record8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
veritas
[–]Miggymoggy6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't doubt that there is men who pretend to be all nice but they're nasty bastards behind closed doors however this is clearly a minority, which women will tell you otherwise as no woman will turn around and actually tell you that she likes horrible, nasty violent men and they'll never tell you that they love the drama of it all.
When a woman says one thing. You have to automatically think the opposite to get to the truth.
[–]full_control4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
One is the result of the other. Women either are unable or unwilling to notice and act on red flags that every one around them sees clearly on a large scale. Then after everything explodes, they overcompensate because they don't want to feel shame or dumb. Suddenly they're an expert on abusive people, and it's generally everyone except their next boyfriend that is abusive.
edit: I can't believe I fucked up they're
[–]strainer1235 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
When I see an abusive man mistreating a woman I think that she chose him, women love psychopaths, Jeffrey Dahmer received thousands of letters, had lines around the block of women wanting to date him, and he murdered and chopped women like meat.
[–]ChilledEfilist[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same with Jeremy Meeks, the "hot felon".
[–]ChickenShitBalls2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean psychos and socios can be deceiving. That’s their whole thing. However, the buff dude who’s gonna treat them like shit, yeah they just ignore those signs.
[–]Shiva-The_Destroyer2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's just way too accurate. I love it.
[–]Sumfuc1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Excellent observations
[–]6trumpisdaddy9691 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmao why is this so true?
[–]mae19951110 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They consciously ignore the red flags when he's a chad because they want to fuck him. When they've fucked him they play the victim when they knew what he was like all along. All women can think about is short term pleasure.
[–]ADevils-Advocate1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
I’m a little bit confused about this sub, is it meant to rise up men and praise the good things men bring into our society, or is it meant to bash women? Genuine question, not judging either way.
[–]Sir_manalot15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Such a silly question.
It is like complaining about a recovering alcoholic for talking about alcohol so much. If you are not an alcoholic anymore, why do you keep talking about how awful alcohol is.
If we do not talk about the problem, we cannot solve the problem. So we will continue to "complain" (point out the awful truth of women's nature) as it is important to us.
Also, many men have been raised to believe that women were something that they are not. So many men feel betrayed and are justified in beign angry.
[–]Bigmeatyscrote0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It depends.
If a person intends to see women for what they actually are (ie. flawed humans as opposed to angelic beings) then MGTOW is like a form of exposure therapy used to root out past delusions.
However if they are equally idealistic about women except in the opposite direction, then MGTOW can facilitate a form of rumination that keeps them needlessly pissed off or hopeless about the world.
IMO a level of red-pill rage is expected when coming to terms that much of what you were raised to believe is a lie. There's nothing out there really to "solve" as such, it's a process of mourning a world you conceived that never actually existed.
At the end of the process you typically don't think much about whether women are this way or that way, because who gives a shit. Your happiness is entirely based on other pleasures more fulfilling than any women's validation (including whether women are special enough to even bother thinking about).
[–]felis-parenthesis12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
There is a war on noticing.
Part of raising men up is telling them: that thing you noticed? Yes, you are allowed to notice it.
[–]softbeats7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Very good observation.
[–]ChilledEfilist[S] 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
This meme has no the intention of bashing women. It just represents an obvious double standard.
It's good to know that many men here (including me) have had horrible, traumatic experiences with women. r/MGTOW sometimes works as a recovery group. It's normal to talk about alcohol in an alcohol recovery group.
[–]ADevils-Advocate0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sorry if I was unclear. I don’t mean this meme specifically, more like this sub as a whole. Thank you for taking time to answer :)
[–]ChilledEfilist[S] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're welcome!
[–]arobaz0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You can bash and make shitty jokes about alcohol because it's just an object. Women are not. Many of the comments here are saying women choose to be domestically abused. That's fucked up. As a guy, I don't understand why y'all have to talk like incels to 'forge your own identity'
[–]ChilledEfilist[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm sorry but women as the gatekeepers of sex indeed choose violent men.
Edit: I'm talking about the one that are domestically abused, of course.
Both. Women, by and large, are pieces of shit.
[–]iandmlne0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Allot of it is pointing out the obvious hypocrisy of the prevailing narrative relating to how females tend to act in society, while generally still blaming men, in and of itself; being hypocritical.
[–]SpankKing_0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Both!
[–]MrMagtow0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Things women can detect: She knows if you're cheating because she had a dream about it.
Why treat children like they're adults? They're children.
[–]JustinMoss130 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
But they very deceving you dumbass cunt
[–]stuffnthingz0-1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What exactly is the difference between a misogynistic comment on the internet, and a red flag of an abusive person?
[–]ChilledEfilist[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The first one is completly inoffensive, the second want can literally kill you.
[–]stuffnthingz00 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm pretty sure a misogynistic comment is the red flag....
What do you consider a red flag?
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