Why do you remain single?

SimpDestroyer · 2020-06-26T23:36:29+00:00

To (very quickly) sum up a year of heavy red & black pill ingestion: The juice ain't worth the squeeze.

anon_likes_tendies · 2020-06-27T00:35:41+00:00

If you offered me a job that guaranteed pay cuts and getting inevitably fired, I wouldn’t take it.

If you were my financial advisor and told me about a fund that was guaranteed to lose at least 50% I would ask you if you lost your mind.

But since there’s a vagina it makes perfect sense.

MethaCat · 2020-06-26T23:48:49+00:00

My last 2 experiences were very, very bad.

Previous one, girlfriend for 10 years (I never wanted to marry or have children), decides to present me with a gift, an STD. Blocked her from my life after that.

Latest one, said she was divorced, then I found out that not only she was married but that they also had a kid, and again got an STD this time herpes, so not curable, ever.

In the mean time, I had 2 ex girlfriends text me to test the waters, and yep, both of them were married at the time.

I would have to be mad to gave this bullshit another try.

Airman07 · 2020-06-27T00:10:48+00:00

Loved a girl deeply. Never thought she would end up hating me. Won't try again.

Wisdom_of_a_Khan · 2020-06-27T00:39:34+00:00

Women have too much power.

I was falsely accused in the workplace at a young age. I kept my job but it ruined my reputation and made my professional life hell, ruined my relationship with my girlfriend, ended numerous friendships I'd had for years prior, and destroyed any trust I ever had in women.

After all that I consider myself lucky, I lost alot, but I didn't lose my freedom, but it was only by a stroke of luck. If the bitch who accused me wanted to I'm sure I would've been put in jail. I decided to learn my lesson. I still to this day believe that there are some decent women out there, but the journey to find one is unbelievably dangerous, so I think i'll just stick with racing cars and disregard the journey altogether.

SkunkBuds · 2020-06-27T00:58:11+00:00

Copypaste: Let me make the case that even if modern women's personality are everything men wanted it to be, there's still a problem with a biological origin, caveat being not the case when it comes to Chads.

Women's sex drive are 1/10 of men's (unless Chad)
80% of women cannot orgasm from sex (penetration) alone (needs Chad's 20 percentile dicks)
Women will always be entitled to unconscionable resources from their male partners because of hypergamy instincts
Women are incapable of complying with the principals and demands of love that men expects (cannot love idealistically like men)
Women's morality is different than men's (Kolhberg's morality scale women score 3/6 while men 6/6), so always expect conflicts in "right" decisions
Women's hobbies and interests are irreconcilable to men's
All of the above make them a pain in the ass, they don't enjoy sex like men do, they don't make decisions like men do, they don't have any interests that appeal to men, frankly the only reason they're good for is sex and sex only.

The juice ain't worth the squeeze!

UllricBloodworth · 2020-06-27T00:07:43+00:00

First of all, I never felt the need to have a girlfriend during my teenager days, I always thought this thing as a waste of time and an excuse to say to the others that you are following the herd. Sure, I wanted to get married, but then during one of my vacations at university, I started rethinking things of my life. 'Do I want to get married to please me, or to get social validation (aka pleasing others)?'.

I started asking this question to me as I began doing a research about marriage and divorce costs looking at a man's perspective. That was my first red pill. A single read at the laws in my country (Brazil) combined by the fact that girls nowadays don't act like those "beautiful angels" that the media tries to sell to the men at early age so they can become simps in the future, were enough for me to decide to stay single for the rest of my life.

I've always been alone, and I like it. No fake friends, no obnoxious bitches screaming at me, nothing. Just me and my counsciousness doing what I love to do (reading, exercising, studying, playing games, etc).

Some people may call me selfish for not "man up" and get settled down, but I don't care. I like to compare myself as a Rurounin, a samurai without a master (or man without a wife, in my case), usually shamed by the others, but who continues living by himself and wandering around the world.

TL;TR: I always liked being single, however I always wanted to get married. Gynocentric laws and 21st century women made me give up on that dream.

Unfigured · 2020-06-27T01:17:58+00:00

Dating is completely stupid. I'm completely fine alone 99% of the time, and when I'm not, I have 1 bro that has been friends with me since 12 years old, I'm 24 now. I don't live in a society governed by the Sharia, thus marriage is completely out of the question.

Not much else to do besides pull random hoes from the club. I've never wanted a 'girl friend.' I've only wanted to have my sexual needs met. Most girls were not up for this (they wanted a relationship from me) but quite a few were down for no strings attached, maybe like 5(that I was attracted to). I could be slaying at 100+ girls right now but I have never desired a relationship and I'm not into lying/manipulation either. So basically I never wanted a relationship that I knew would not go anywhere. Even if it meant not having sex, I was cool with it as sex doesnt control me.

I've studied female psychology and it's obvious that they do not believe in things like truthfulness, honor, etc. I've met so many girls that lie, literally just to lie. For no reason at all, they will lie. The only things that interest a girl are

1) her status, how she is perceived, by everyone. She will marry a guy just because he has everything going right in his life, despite not having any attraction for him at all. Because it would be good to one up her friends this way, it would make her family happy, etc. At the same time she would cheat on the side without a second thought.

2) The attention she gets. Girls care about their wedding, not their actual marriages. They will give a guy their number just so that they can waste the guys time, because they are attention whores.

These are the only two things girls care about, and they're both basically the same thing. Things like honor, respect, honesty, pride, integrity, etc are non existent for girls, they do not understand these things. They are male constructs.

MGTOWlF7xEtsJyj · 2020-06-27T02:01:18+00:00

I'm single because I'm worth more than a woman.

sootlord · 2020-06-27T01:12:02+00:00

All the cliche shit we talk about women betrayal. The last 10 years of my dating life have been a shit show, nothing but cheating/betrayal/lieing. Everytime monkey branched.

Always tried to be a good man to these chicks. It just aint worth it. Now whenever I get involved with a woman now I immediately tell her "Companionship at best and WILL NOT change"

Never yours just your turn

Dunkman83 · 2020-06-27T02:01:09+00:00

I was spoon fed at a young age that in order for a man to achieve his dreams, he needs a woman by his side.

Women have done nothing but set me back big time.

Ive achieved my dreams solo.. so whats the point.

Unless i meet a rich woman.. im not committing to anyone.

roflcopt0rz_returns · 2020-06-27T02:07:44+00:00

The main reason is simply that I'm happier single.

Everything you can point to, such as avoiding the false accusations, not having to deal with female bullshit, not having my wallet ripped out of my ass all day, etc., all just leads to me being happier single.

Unfigured · 2020-06-27T04:42:21+00:00

The only things I want a woman for are things I don't think a woman can actually give me. I don't think they're evolved to love the way men love, and the way men want to be loved. They're evolved to give you something that looks like it but turns out to be nothing like it. Like comparing water with gasoline.

And these days they aren't even trying to pretend it's water anymore. They're just trying to shame us for not being man enough to drink gasoline.

So I prefer to be single. I prefer a sustainable, rewarding peace in which I can explore interests, manage risks and minimize suffering. I want to be a simple man with a simple life and simple pleasures. I want to make my own little garden of eden, with things I enjoy. Things I enjoy for their own sake.

I don't think you can have that sort of lifestyle with a woman, because I think they're too attentive to the group. There is far more that goes along with that than I have time on this pleasant Saturday afternoon to unpack, but suffice to say it's a source of unending misery both for men and for the women themselves. But not for me, or at least not anymore.

joeyv55 · 2020-06-26T23:41:23+00:00

Can't justify it for any reason other than to have children which I'm not doing at 23

boltjamison · 2020-06-27T01:51:55+00:00

Because the odds of finding someone worth being with is like finding a straw of hay in a needle stack. I reverse the analogy because its going to hurt like hell finding that hay.

I'm not opposed to a committed relationship at all though. Just marriage and cohabitation but its not worth putting in any effort to to find a committed partner.

If it happens by accident during the course of my life, then cool. If not, then cool too. Im a 100% content with spending the rest of my life as a bachelor. After all, happiness comes from within.

A-Noah · 2020-06-27T02:15:48+00:00

Because men can no longer depend on the identity of father and husband as a source of meaning and purposeful fulfillment. Those identities no longer have security, longevity, agency, or dignity.

It is then the more responsible thing to develop a concept of success not connected to those concepts of self, and that is not something one can determine while in a relationship.

RealityAsWeKnowIt · 2020-06-26T23:41:08+00:00

This question is irrelevant my friend, IF you embibed enough Red pill/black pill knowledge, and have a knack for common sense and a bit of IQ in your skull, then the answer should come naturally before you.

Vaxel00 · 2020-06-27T04:32:50+00:00

There's nothing a woman can offer me that I can't do or get by myself or somewhere else at a cheaper price.

Snorlax013 · 2020-06-27T02:58:52+00:00

Marriages are expensive and not worth the drama. Love the free time beng single. Its much easier to build wealth too with no parasites wanting expensive dates, birthday gifts and holiday getaways.

PhilNEvo · 2020-06-27T03:00:27+00:00

Emotionally: My own experiences and those of the friends around me has predominantly been bad with women. I feel quite uncomfortable with the thought of getting into a relationship, because of all the shit I've experienced and seen happen.

Rationally: It's also not worth the effort-- You have to put so much time and energy in to it, for minimal if any benefits.

KUL-DANK · 2020-06-27T03:07:20+00:00

i simply dont like the millenial women

rudearmy777 · 2020-06-27T03:59:36+00:00

I’ve been married and divorced twice. Two kids who I absolutely treasure, both of whom are in college. Other than the kids marriage is prison. Everything stated in MGTOW is true. Other than a few years when they are sexually attractive — say ages 17 to 29 — they have very little to offer a man yet so much to take. Mentally they rarely achieve the maturation of an adult, relying instead on a self-engrandizing sense of importance that borders on psychosis along with a cold, cruel transactional view of your marriage as getting everything she can as fast as she can with as little effort as possible. “When I leave you’ll realize what you lost!” Young guys... learn from my mistakes as well as the hell your fathers likely went through. Don’t get married. Love... whatever the fuck that is.... fades fast. Trust me if you do you will one day wake up next to an ugly fat troll of a woman that you will wish could just disappear. But she wont. She’ll simply start off where she left off the day before bitching, demanding, complaining and of course, it will be because she wants you to be a “better husband.”

Based_Milk · 2020-06-27T05:56:43+00:00

If we're all sharing our stories, I want a wife still, I want a woman who is,

1: a virgin 2: a devout Christian 3: white 4: normal and healthy body weight within reason 5: is my looks match (wouldn't even mind if she is lower) 6: conservative 7: wants to live in traditional gender roles and be a mother to our kids. 8: is around my age and we marry before 30.

That ain't going to happen and I am not compromising on any one of those points so I will live for me and me alone.

Devil_Nights · 2020-06-27T08:06:49+00:00

It took me a very large chunk of my life to understand that occasional feelings of loneliness is far better than constant feelings of misery.

Zaanix · 2020-06-27T06:34:08+00:00

I looked at women and the relationships my friends and extended family were getting in and asked myself one simple question; why?

To this day, I do not know one good reason why I would bother talking to them for more than however long they're willing to talk about something smart or vaguely interesting. For the curious, it ranges from a good 3 hours at best, to before they open their cock-holsters at worst.

Most are rather mentally shallow and vapid creatures. I want to feel sorry for them, but they've proven unworthy of any sympathy. It kind of makes me sad to watch it happen...

Edit: fatfinger spelling

bondcola007 · 2020-06-27T06:41:22+00:00

I would rather spend money on improving myself and my quality of life. Women could potentially ruin my goals by falsely accusing me of assault and if married, I could lose most of my money and assets in a divorce. Simply put, the juice ain’t worth the squeeze.

MuchIndependence · 2020-06-27T03:53:26+00:00

Like Carlin said, I like people just in small doses. I'm around anyone for too long and I wanna kill em. Men are at least tolerable in the sense that they'll not harass me for attention and if they do absolutely retarded shit it usually doesn't cause headaches for me. Women both harass for attention and do retarded shit that the man is expected to solve for her dumbass.

realChebz · 2020-06-27T07:14:29+00:00

What you've listed, but also it's tiresome and stressful chasing women if you're not a Chad. I don't really see a point to it. All that energy, time, and money wasted so she can be "sorry I am busy this week" and then ghost you? Nah Im good.

crityouallday · 2020-06-27T09:02:37+00:00

Monks are single, better to hone and sculpt by myself than to be hinder

It's really a mind over matter thing, for me to grow past the repercussion, I believe in the price for glory as I reach the citadel or pain.

My efforts are a painful quandary full of memories to errode away. The only opposition is an internal struggle, I held myself back to be able to satiate the minds desire. Surpass my humility to achieve a forced fruition.

It is that of a Mages Contest, to be able to traumatize myself into the grave, focus and tunnel vision leads to the ultimate living death to reanimate my soul in this battle of wits.

Perseus_the_Bold · 2020-06-27T09:34:53+00:00

Why do I choose Bachelorhood? It'd be easier if I explain it in list form.

I have never met a woman that is worth my time, attention, & effort.
I enjoy my personal freedom immensely and I am not willing to sacrifice it for a woman because I do not believe women are worth my freedom.
Drama. I hate drama with a passion. Women breathe drama.
Money. Without a woman in my life all the income I make is entirely my own.
Energy. Without a woman draining me of my energy I have more of it to invest in what makes me happy and or healthier and wealthier.
My peace of mind is also very important to me. Without a woman I can enjoy tranquility and a sense of peace without the stress and emotional destruction that women bring.
Women are inherently manipulative and I detest their mind games.
One word: Kenjataimu. Otherwise known as post-masturbation clarity. We all know what it is. It is that clarity of mind and instant rush of Rationality that floods our brain immediately after we nut. That's because after you orgasm the horny feelings are neutralized and your rational faculties come back online with a vengeance and that is usually when a man realizes he fucked up big time in sleeping with a certain girl. But if you masturbate, and this clarity of mind comes to you while you're on your own, you will find that you wake up to the truth about women, that after you stop feeling horny like a salivating dog you realize how stupid you were in ever chasing females. The psychological origins of The Red Pill are actually in this moment, it's when you wake up.
The Gender War. We all know that feminists (and therefore all women by proxy) are in an all out war against Men. As a rule of thumb I don't generally sleep with the enemy.
Female Nature. Once you truly understand women you can't love them anymore. Because as the old MGTOW aphorism goes: You can either love women or you can understand them, but you cannot do both. Once you are familiar with female nature you will not feel any feelings for them ever again. It's like like learning what hotdogs are made of. Once you find out you will never eat another one.

AnonDeity · 2020-06-27T15:18:21+00:00

I'm 24 yr old I probably got like 6 decades left.. It was hard getting a good job and paying my way up to this point.. Now I make like close to 4k a month after taxes... I wanna come home after work and eat whatever I want to eat and play video games in my free time...I dont really want kids...I have friends who I play video games with online...What does a women have to offer me?? Sex? Companionship? I've already lived without that.. Why risk losing half my money spending time in court rooms...I just wanna eat a chicken sandwhich and play video games and do what I wanna do...

edgysecularist · 2020-06-27T04:23:44+00:00

Freedom pal, I'm finally free from the Matrix

BrizzLatency · 2020-06-27T05:35:53+00:00

With all these accusations going around it seems as if though no one is safe at all in the least bit. It scares the hell out of me. if a woman feels even a little uncomfortable, or sense of regret afterwards you're canceled.

You're done, its her word against yours and no one will care to hear you side until its too late and it even happened to Johnny Depp a famous actor that many women adore. I barely have conversations with women anymore. If i text them i save all the messages. If i ever hook up with a chick again i think ill have to have cameras around and that's insane to say but shit man.

I think I've turned into a shy awkward asshole because of all this but I think its better this way.

Sumfuc · 2020-06-27T05:46:32+00:00

Never buy when you can lease instead. Then trade it in for a younger, newer model. Also when traveling overseas I’ll call an Uber to take care of me.

silly_birb · 2020-06-27T06:31:19+00:00

Because there's no woman that keep herself "good for a relationship".

In the past they teached women to reapect the husband and all the skills to make his life better.

Today they tech girls in school to be entitled and hate men "men are rapist, violent and steal your job opportunities". All lies to create a vote base for the left, which buys votes with welfare.

LuvMeTendieLuvMeTrue · 2020-06-27T08:27:22+00:00

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. This is what I thought about girls before going MGTOW full time. Even in my blue pill days (15 years ago or so) I dreamed of a gf who didn't need attention every day. Maybe see her once a week or so. Of course that wasn't realistic back then and it isn't realistic today.

Safe_Dentist · 2020-06-27T11:45:55+00:00

Remaining single doesn't require justifications - marriage does. Justifications for marriage used to be having kids (pointless in current society) and better housekeeping (not true anymore).

Actual_Device · 2020-06-27T12:22:50+00:00

Peace of mind essentially

Mr-Throb-of-life · 2020-06-27T19:24:02+00:00

Briffaults law is all you need to know.

2020-06-27T03:26:40+00:00

Its just not worth it man. Being single means no bullshit, which means I could allocate my time to do better things that are worth my time.

rubix_fucked · 2020-06-27T03:34:57+00:00

The safest course is to hide in plain sight. Pretend you are running the rat race like most every other dude.

If you are asked why you are single say the following empty words - I haven't found the right one yet. If a woman asks tell them you are trying to pay off crippling debt.

2020-06-27T03:53:59+00:00

Is it just me or are a lot of the women in the street stand offish. It's like our interactions are a continuation of whatever bullshit they hear off of the news/social media

dairyman2049 · 2020-06-27T04:16:37+00:00

Women either want me to be their trophy fuckboi boyfriend or husband.

No thanks. I like to do things at my pace.

bieberblows · 2020-06-27T04:52:56+00:00

I enjoy my sanity. Simple as that.

SkunkBuds · 2020-06-27T05:43:28+00:00

Money is a good reason, it is illegal in the USA to pay you differently based on your marital status, so you keep a paycheck for a whole family all to yourself.

AbusedToxicity · 2020-06-27T05:48:31+00:00

Why? Because the sheer thought of my wife turning into somebody like my mother terrifies me.

Luciano700 · 2020-06-27T08:39:56+00:00

I don't know if I remaining single, I just want to be a little more mindful of my social choices, in particular with women, that's all✌

Is not like being coupled or married is the end of be all, shit most of the time guys turn into assholes immediately as soon as they enter relationships because they feel like they have to shit test others for their willingness to see if they support him on that shit or not.

AndyTravelGuy314 · 2020-06-27T08:58:57+00:00

I faced enough shit in life

TempPsychWarden · 2020-06-27T09:08:16+00:00

people are inconvenient, demand too much, and give too little.

whats the point of associating with someone who is just a taker? i don't need a parasite in my life.

for all the talk people give about "just focus on yourself" and "you should be happy", they sure as shit lose their shit when you tell them that women makes you miserable and you'd rather stay away from them.

KeepingItReal2020 · 2020-06-27T09:34:00+00:00

Many MGTOW guys couldn't get a women as sad as it is to say. No offence.

As for myself, I'm making and saving too much money for the time being. Once Covid-19 passes, I'll be buying a house which seemed impossible even a fee years ago.

But more importantly, once you take the red/black pill, you can't look at women the same again. They are the people that repeatedly red/black pill you again and again and again.

They like the good-looking bad boy and they like being treated like shit. It's 2020, I don't like treating people like shit, but if I did, I'd be getting MeToo'd.

TL;DR: It's just not worth it no matter what way you cut it. There's a lot more to life than pussy.

Wampyr420 · 2020-06-27T09:34:53+00:00

Seen how women already in marriages and relationships behave. I've been the other man too many times to think I'm more special than any of the husbands or boyfriends I did wrong. I still get sex and companionship when I want without a relationship so no need to expose myself to risk. When I desire children, I might have to re-evaluate and figure something out.

2020-06-27T09:42:52+00:00

I think about the constant hoops you have to jump through and mind games and shit tests you deal with for someone at best to tolerate your existence

Ok-Sound · 2020-06-27T09:52:50+00:00

For me, it's almost impossible for me to date. I can't even think a girl is pretty because it's objectifying. It's not like I'm saying sexy, or hot, or nice body.

I've also had a few experiences that ended badly. One accused me of stalking, another accused me of hacking her Facebook, another used me for a semester of physics. I later found out the physics girl was stolen from me, so I lost 2 friends there.

I basically don't want to risk any repeats of the situations mentioned, or have anything worse happen. I hate how people say "just be nice to women." I tried that, look what happened.

Besides, I have a bachelor's degree in Computer Science to work on, so that right there doesn't leave me much time anyways.

All that plus what I've seen and heard about, I'm not dating for a long time, if at all.

Necrolet · 2020-06-27T12:44:07+00:00

Because you cant measure the price of freedom. While single I only have to worry about going to work and which game will go on sale next.

livingfugally · 2020-06-27T14:18:13+00:00

This is like asking someone why they don't collect stamps.

If someone isn't interested in collecting stamps, why should they have to explain it to anyone?

jdcoop17 · 2020-06-27T15:18:18+00:00

I do not see a reason I need a women in my life because they only make it harder and more stressful

HelpPliz410 · 2020-06-27T15:56:57+00:00

i cant bullshit myself or others , and my thoughts are not main stream , so few are the people who want to be near me.

its just a game idk why females see life so serious , (most man as well )

The_Whorror_Show · 2020-06-27T16:48:32+00:00

Lol femcels and whorish whores are going to cross post this thread access say "look at all the excuses these incels give to justify raping women".

Get the fuck out whores. None of my views come from a lack of experience, they come from experience. I'm tired of women and their lies and their dumbass attitude, no logic, and the sky is whatever colour they feel it is instead of what it objectively is, I just can't deal with that garbage when women have no morality or honour. These women are backstabbers, I thought I had found a Nawalt twice, and then I learned AWALT. I get attention from these young chick's to 22 years old women, I love their attention but why would I marry a single one of them when I've experienced the stages of immorality they go through.

Absolutely not into lying or cheating, if rather die with my honour than lie to a bitch just for sex. I've fallen in love before and now after so many relationships, I'm not into love any more, just need to bust a nut and you can do that with girls who just want a one night stand, or you can pay for it which is safer in terms of not getting metoo'd.

Otherwise-Mongoose-6 · 2020-06-27T18:47:05+00:00

‘Cause it’s fucking fun!

Vinci100 · 2020-06-27T21:47:01+00:00

Girls are monopolizing dating.

rayedward363 · 2020-06-28T20:29:53+00:00

It's not worth it anymore. After what happened I have no intention of being with anyone again. I'm not submissive enough to enjoy being used and manipulated I suppose. Maybe I just need to man up! /s

Title	Why do you remain single?
Author	mikehuynh21
Upvotes	89
Comments	88
Date	June 26, 2020 11:30 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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