99% of the dating problems on the modern world can be boiled down to three simple factors.

One. You choose to date people you don't actually like. Relationships are more than sex, pick someone who's company you enjoy when you aren't fucking.

Two. You date people who don't actually like you. Why do you tolerate shitty behavior from people who don't treat you well? Grow a spine and go to therapy.

Three. You date people who you don't like who don't like you. A combination of two and one. Give up the martyr/savior complex and go to a MEAN therapist who will tell you you're full of shit.

Godspeed and God bless. Have a good year.