Something I've been struggling with for a few years now is that there are essentially no girls who are in the 18-24 age range, hot or not in my church. My church is medium sized, 300-500 people. Obviously im not just trying to go to church to get cute girls, but nothing has changed despite efforts from the guys of this age group to try and be inviting and reaching out to get more girls present. We have the opposite problem of most church's. lots of young men, no young women. Its discouraging participating in young adult activities and not seeing women.

Part of my mission currently is youth ministry which requires commitment on Friday nights. And I don't want to cut ship and leave my group of guys to fend for themselves. However I've been attending another church's evening service at the invite of some friends, and boy oh boy is the whole church in that age range and it feels so life giving for more reasons than just girls.

How would you gentlemen approach the situation that I find myself in? The church that I would call my home church has been the church I grew up in and obviously ive invested a lot of time and resources into it, but no women, and no recent efforts to attract any discourages me and my guy friends there.

Cheers,