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A Strange Disposition

Camille11325

November 20, 2017
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Title A Strange Disposition
Author

Camille11325

Upvotes 8
Comments 7
Date November 20, 2017 3:51 PM UTC
(8 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/RedPillWives
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/comments/7e9r8x/a_strange_disposition/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWives/a-strange-disposition.208675
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[–]whitebunny87 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

this reminds me of the conversation we have in australia about the treatment of our indigenous people.

by today's standards, they were treated horrifically. no developed culture would carry on today the way that the british settlers did in the 1800s, and no reasonable white australian today agrees that what happened to them was a good thing, but what's done is done and it happened in a very different cultural climate.

still, every year on our national holiday madness comes out from both ends because we don't know how to separate a historical action with our modern sense of morality. on one end you have the affluent white progressives who grovel and apologise and throw money and resources blindly at them. on the other end you have vitriolic and unnecessary rhetoric directed at a community who is still struggling to progress and fit into modern society.

there absolutely is a middle ground, where we can leave the past where it is while still learning from it and understanding that there are cultural echoes that still persist. we should be proud that we've moved forward, not ashamed that our ancestors were ever there.

[–]jack_hammarred25 LTR 4yrs1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Fascinating!!!

I do worry about this. It’s useless and unfair to condemn the dead, and even the most elderly today, for things that were normal then that are wrong now. Like it shouldn’t need mentioning that slavery is of course unethical, and I am not minimizing those things. But other than making more informed decisions and curating history I think much of this condemnation is pointless. Its a circle jerk.

I do however hope I can live a good life, have a good eulogy and impact, at least the best possible for the norms of my time. I do worry that I take part in things that are now normalized which will later be unethical even to the most pedestrian minds. Eg I’m not condemning the people who seriously thought animal vivisection was the best way to study animal sciences... I’m devastated that those animals experienced it, and that those people inflicted it, but they weren’t (I don’t think) flagrantly pursuing maliciousness. They just seriously were not prompted to do a better thing. I try to be circumspect... is there a better way? Are my means and ends the best choice?

[–]Camille11325[S] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It really is a circlejerk! The worst part is that it has tangible consequences to people who are alive today, the damage is not contained to the circle jerkers.

I also want to have a positive impact on those in my life but I'm definitely not concerned with being "on the right side of history" or any other leftist catchphrase.

I try to be circumspect... is there a better way? Are my means and ends the best choice?

Totally! I really like how the post examines those who take this attitude too far. There is definitely a middle ground.

[–]jack_hammarred25 LTR 4yrs1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I think trying to be on the right side of history is a negative manifestation of vanity parading as morality... common in major groups here in the US. Alllll things in moderation for sure!

[–]Hyenastaystill1 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

The being on the right side of history catchphrase has completely passed me by, so I don't know its context or anything. But if I were to interpret it charitably I feel it's about being more concerned with personal morality than acting from the influences of collective consensus.

Though to keep the applause lights to a minimum, I think that the difference between favoring impact on your society or "history" is whether the focus is short-term (more guaranteed) or long-term (more favoring of better practices). I don’t think anyone cares about the moral judgment of an equally culturally influenced future society as much the morality being free from cultural influence. It’s not incoherent with being a cultural relativist, if the observation is directed at views that simply accept culture differences. It is incoherent if it’s directed at people simultaneously condoning any action morally consistent with someone’s culture, however it’s not how I interpret the people around me to think. If it seems so to the author I feel he’s just basing this on their imprecise communication, or lack of contextualizing.

Just saying this because I think the circlejerk is as much on one side as the other, and both sides can be equally mispurposed.

Tagging because the thread is old /u/Camille11325 /u/SylviaToday /u/whitebunny87

[–]SylviaToday 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't like cultural relativism either. We are all fallen, sinning human beings, and every culture gets things wrong. The West wasn't alone in using slaves, although America may have taken it to an extreme...westerners are also not alone in destroying the environment.

That said, I find it useful to look back at where my country (America) went wrong. I think it's important to look at our history and work to improve ourselves. Maybe we will never be perfect, but we must always be working with the goal of improvement.

Edited to fix typo

[–]Camille11325[S] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed completely. I think there's a difference between looking back and learning from the past, and completely twisting what happened in the past to fit modern narratives. Or trying to erase the past because of modern values. We can't truly improve if we don't have an accurate understanding of what happened in previous generations and eras. It seems that so many today are more concerned with whatever ideology is fashionable than actually understanding history.

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