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| 2 | How To Creep Out Your WifeOkay I see what you're saying now, it makes sense but both parties can work on all aspects of their relationship not only the division you're describing. What the husband can and should work on is the non-sex side of the relationship (whether that needs to involve doing the dishes is questionable, though). Right this is the very point I'm interested in discussing, because many women today assume that concepts like choreplay/emotional labor, etc are all valid. They look at relationships through a… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/18 11:31 PM |
| 1 | How To Creep Out Your WifeIt's important that the man maintain the right balance of security/comfort and thrills/arousal and the advice in the list was all in that beta comfort category. If your wife doesn't desire you, cleaning the house is not going to fix that, nor will "friendly" touch. As I said in another response, a man making himself equal to or below the woman (in terms of the natural hierarchy/dynamic not value) is a bad strategy if he wants to be respected and lusted after. The more he asks for her opinion, pe… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/18 11:08 PM |
| 5 | How To Creep Out Your WifeA big point that Dalrock is making is that many women don't actually know how to tell their men how to be more attractive. In this instance, it is because the original writer is confusing comfort and arousal. Compliments, help around the house, "friendly" touch, are all actions that place the man equal to or below the woman, making her feel secure and stable. Which of course is the opposite of the thrilling, passionate experiences women crave. You're right that a lot of the things listed are exc… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/18 10:57 PM |
| 1 | How To Creep Out Your WifeLet's discuss both Dalrock's criticisms and the original blog post he's disagreeing with! Also as usual, feel free to disregard any religious content, there isn't much in this post though. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/18 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Unsolicited adviceJust because someone is telling you what to do or how to do it doesn't mean you have to do it that way blindly, but blindly shooting that unsolicited advice down is just as bad. Honestly, I wouldn't be concerning yourself with these thoughts or philosophies. It seems like perhaps you are overthinking a hypothetical future mate. A man will take the lead in a number of different styles, and you will end up picking the one most compatible with you. Exactly! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/03/18 04:38 PM |
| 5 | Unsolicited adviceI'm sure many RPW will agree when I say that when you're with the right man, you naturally want to please him. You're eager to hear his advice/perspective, and you actively want to do things that make him happy. If you are constantly struggling in this area it could be a sign that you're not with the right person. I agree with /u/StingrayVC that you should find someone that truly gets you and can speak your language. I also completely agree with /u/GratefulWifeandMama that you should consider if… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/03/18 04:36 PM |
| 6 | Stop complaining: It's ruining your relationshipsRight now your comment just comes across as bashing your husband (against rule #4) can you share more about your situation or your favorite points made in the article linked? What steps have you taken to help your husband's mood? What tips do you have for other women who may also be married to a complainer? | /r/RedPillWives | 28/03/18 10:18 PM |
| – | Women's Group in the Pacific NorthwestI've been reading DE/NRx and alt right sites for years I can totally recommend great websites and specific blogs posts if you're interested! Personally I find the neoreactionary-sphere much better than the alt-right, it's much more well thought out and the online community is great. I'm not into "identity politics" but it's a great introduction to alternate worldviews, and I'd be happy to share some resources about race/ethnicity, culture, etc. from an NRx perspective. Will check out the debate … | /r/RedPillWives | 28/03/18 04:34 PM |
| – | Women's Group in the Pacific NorthwestWe're definitely pro alt right lol, we were using that term before it became mainstream (and diluted, sadly). We just have a lot of new women who aren't used to challenging themselves in this area I think. Whenever I share more potentially polarising content I try to leave a comment that fleshes out the main points that I want everyone to discuss. If you could do that now then I'd put it back :) Otherwise I have to watch the video and make that comment myself. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/03/18 04:08 PM |
| – | Women's Group in the Pacific NorthwestThis keeps getting reports, I'm going to temporarily remove it until I have time to watch. I trust that it's fine since you've submitted good stuff before :) | /r/RedPillWives | 28/03/18 03:51 PM |
| 2 | [META] What happened to the Pinterest account?So great to hear that you liked it! We had a lot of fun with it too, everyone contributing just got busy. If you or anyone else wants to contribute let me know :) Not sure if this post is going to lead to discussion so I removed it but thank you so much for bringing this up. I'm adding new mods soon and will have more free time personally soon so now that I know there is interest, Pinterest will once again be a priority! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/03/18 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Substitutions for Profanity- How Do You Speak Attractively?I don't use substitute "bad" words, I think those are silly more often than not. I say "oh my gosh" though, but that's for religious purposes not sexual strategy. Never had an issue with using too many bad words/lewd jokes so I'm not sure what advice to give there other than thinking before you speak and being mindful of why you reach for that language if it's something that bothers you. Is it to get attention? A quick way to increase your value in a social setting? Etc. Is it hard to say that s… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/03/18 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Substitutions for Profanity- How Do You Speak Attractively?General reminder: RPW is not anti profanity. If there were any "rule" about speaking it'd just be to tailor your vocabulary, tone, etc to your audience and the situation at hand. Know what your man likes/expects and do that :) | /r/RedPillWives | 23/03/18 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Where to learn the RPW way?The top posts of this sub and the wiki are filled with tons of great info :) You can also always ask any specific questions you have! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/03/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Where do I meet conservative women?This post has been removed because it violates the rules of our subreddit. Please find a community/forum filled with men to ask this question. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/03/18 07:30 PM |
| 6 | A video about being feminine as a black woman. Lots of great tips for any woman!Can you summarise the key takeaways for those who don't have time to watch the entire video? I see a lot of beauty tips, which would be great for /r/FeminineNotFeminist did you watch Part II? If so, do you like her tips for inner beauty? How do you see yourself or other women applying this information? Thanks :) | /r/RedPillWives | 11/03/18 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Random RP ThoughtsThat's wonderful and exactly what I'm talking about! I'm hoping that being his inspiration/Muse is a theme that we can develop more across the sub. It fits right with the other ideas we love to discuss but adds another crucial ingredient, and I think it's perfect for ladies that have a solid relationship and want to enhance it further. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/03/18 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Seduction Strategies - Kino Escalation + More!You're welcome I'm so glad this is helpful! Writing this post gave me a lot to think about as well (see my above comments) and I'm looking forward to more convos about seduction strategy moving forward :) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/03/18 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Seduction Strategies - Kino Escalation + More!Have you tried wearing robes? There are lots of silky and lace options that cover you up while being sensual. Could allow you to feel comfortable/free while leaving something to the imagination for him. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/03/18 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Seduction Strategies - Kino Escalation + More!Yeah I think that it's worth it to create more distance and then intentionally get closer over the course of the seduction, instead of starting off super close. Not being seen as much and not being in arms reach is a good way to build a bit of mystery and longing. I feel like there's a lot that can be done visually that could stir desire within him, make him want to reach out. An example off the top of my head: get ready to go out to dinner, do your hair, makeup, and put on a cute lingerie set. … | /r/RedPillWives | 05/03/18 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Seduction Strategies - Kino Escalation + More!Such a great scene! The way she sets the mood with lighting, her outfit, the way her voice changes compared to her normal way of speaking, etc, all so effective to draw Chuck in. She is so alluring throughout the series and the games she and Chuck play are great examples of different types of seduction. Their attraction is just so magnetic, especially in comparison to the rest of the cast! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/03/18 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Seduction Strategies - Kino Escalation + More!Ooh I like this, definitely going to try it out whenever possible. It’s very low-key sexual, more like sensual, and highlights the polarity between you and the man Great way for your man to see you in this light even when not in date/sex mode. Would love for us all to brainstorm more small moments like this! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/03/18 08:38 PM |
| 7 | Random RP ThoughtsI'm currently really motivated by the idea of being a source of inspiration for M. Not towards any specific goal, I just want the thought of me/seeing me to light something within him and motivate him to be his best self. So I'm trying to tighten up my game and live up to the status of his Muse. No concrete ideas on what this would even look like but it's something that's been on my mind the past few days. I was thinking about starting a larger discussion on what motivates us within our relation… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/03/18 08:34 PM |
| 7 | Science Says It’s Better To Be SingleThe post is all about disproving the study :) | /r/RedPillWives | 04/03/18 06:17 PM |
| 5 | My husband wants me to dress more revealingWhat's difficult about this situation is that the whole point for him seems to be other men finding her attractive, so this compromise probably won't give him the same level of satisfaction. She should also think of ways where she can compromise, because what you're describing isn't really a compromise on her part, just him not getting what he wants. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/03/18 09:16 PM |
| 1 | My husband wants me to dress more revealingExactly! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/03/18 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Do You Have a Series of Routines Based On Different Seasons/Cycles/Situations?Yay fun question! What I'm currently working on is being more in sync with the lunar cycle. I've been doing it since the most recent New Moon and it's going really well so far! I have a main daily routine that I'm actually in the process of updating since M's schedule is changing and we're going to need something that gives us both the right amount of alone time and quality time. I like to think of my daily routine as a rhythm not a schedule. While I know what the ideal way to spend each block o… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/03/18 12:57 AM |
| 3 | My husband wants me to dress more revealingIt's only appropriate when the answers are in line with RPW ideas, and his comment definitely wasn't. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/03/18 12:37 AM |
| 3 | My husband wants me to dress more revealingThat's definitely a possibility! I hope she comes back and gives more information. I'm wondering what her man really wants her to look like, and how she currently looks. We have no idea if his requests are really over the top/inappropriate or normal just out of her comfort zone. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/02/18 10:34 PM |
| 11 | My husband wants me to dress more revealingCan you give a bit more information about your relationship, your ages, and what he wants you to wear? We have no idea if his requests are unreasonable so if you could share images that are similar to how he wants you to look that would be appreciated. You feel uncomfortable with his requests, and there's a lot of merit to that, you want to be sexual for him only and not for other men. But you also haven't tried his requests, and maybe you'd actually like it? Or maybe there is some room for comp… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/02/18 08:27 PM |
| 3 | My husband wants me to dress more revealingThis post is removed because it is against subreddit rules. RPW is not about training our men like dogs! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/02/18 08:19 PM |
| 5 | My husband wants me to dress more revealingYes reports are appreciated! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/02/18 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Predictors for infidelity and divorceSuch a great find! Really like the terms disengagement and devaluation, and the results of that particular study make sense. I was surprised that less attractive women would be more likely to cheat; I assumed they'd feel more insecure in the relationship and try harder or at least they'd feel like they didn't have as many options. I was also surprised that someone who was sexually satisfied would still be likely to cheat, and I'm not sure that their explanation is enough to make sense of that fi… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/18 05:32 PM |
| 9 | Science Says It’s Better To Be SingleI thought this breakdown of the study was well done and pretty funny! The use of "science" to justify leftist agendas is a common tactic, and it's important that we recognise the BS. Little articles like this add up and can affect policy and the culture as a whole! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/18 05:13 PM |
| 5 | 28 Days Of Romance Week III - Passion! (+ Support Check In!)Really enjoyed focusing on support this past week! Having the challenge in the back of my mind helped me bite my tongue at times and it also gave me a little push whenever I wasn't feeling as motivated. We've both been really stressed since the start of 2018, but our bond has only strengthened since we've turned to each other for support instead of letting tensions escalate and drive us apart. The best part about this past week was the sheer amount of quality time M and I were able to spend toge… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/02/18 03:38 AM |
| 1 | 28 Days Of Romance Week II - Support! (+ Week I Check In!)Yay!! 90+ hours of work and a toddler - you two have a lot on your plate! How wonderful that you embraced the challenge and had some fun together (even as an introvert lol) To start week 2 I just left him a little note written on the mirror about how much I appreciate his hard work and how much I love him. It was a little thing, but in the midst of a brutal work stretch it made him smile. <3333 | /r/RedPillWives | 12/02/18 05:02 AM |
| 1 | 28 Days Of Romance Week II - Support! (+ Week I Check In!)So perfect! Singing along with your man is such a fun way to bond; M and I did a lot of that on our road trip (recently got back, literally went on the trip + to the concert in the spirit of the challenge!). Your ideas for support sound great as well. It'll be so meaningful to him that you're taking the time to make sure he's cared for and supported while still managing your busier schedule. Don't hesitate to hire someone to clean just for an afternoon (assuming you don't already have this cover… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/02/18 05:00 AM |
| 2 | 28 Days Of Romance Week II - Support! (+ Week I Check In!)Great ideas! Please keep us posted, would love to hear how much he appreciates your thoughtfulness :) | /r/RedPillWives | 12/02/18 04:53 AM |
| 2 | 28 Days Of Romance Week II - Support! (+ Week I Check In!)Omg that is incredible! What a lovely moment for the two of you, and congrats again on the pregnancy <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 12/02/18 04:52 AM |
| 3 | 28 Days Of Romance Week II - Support! (+ Week I Check In!)This past week has been super FUN! We went on a road trip and saw some great bands in concert with M's best friend. Definitely a memorable experience, and it was so random and last minute too haha Being able to sing along and dance was the perfect outlet after a less than ideal January, and it set the best tone for the rest of the challenge! I am so ready to focus on support this week! I will follow the challenge to the letter, finding ways to celebrate M and boost his ego. Going to read what ev… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/02/18 04:52 AM |
| 9 | Boyfriend told me I'd make an amazing wife and mother (!!!)Congratulations!!!!!!! What sorts of things do you in your relationship? I'm sure a lot of single women would love the tips, and women in new relationships too :) | /r/RedPillWives | 12/02/18 04:48 AM |
| 7 | MeetupWe don't have RPW meetups and encourage members to be mindful of privacy. There are tons of groups that won't be specifically about these topics but filled with women who would agree. What are your hobbies? Check local events and attend some that you think women you'd want to be friends with will attend. I personally don't have a hard time becoming friends with people who have different opinions than I do. For close friends sure you want to be on the same page, but for people you see less than o… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/02/18 04:47 AM |
| 3 | What is your current relationship focus? What are you striving to understand better about your man, and/or improve about yourself?Awesome question! I can't really put it into concrete terms but I have an idea of the feelings I want to evoke in M; it's about being cherished, revealing a new side of myself while also having more mystery, but not in a sexual way. Delightful, graceful, lovely, all are part of what I'm talking about. And they are already part of who I am I just am focusing on this more, reconnecting with this side of myself that I neglected this past month as I focused on M's health crisis. I'm also feeling mor… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/02/18 07:55 PM |
| 8 | 28 Days Of Romance Challenge 2018Very excited to do this challenge again this year! It's perfect timing after all the stress M and I went through in Jan. After the super serious and scary January I find myself needing to actively work on being fun and light so I'll be making sure that the fun is for both M and I and not just for M. For this first week, I'll have to plan a bit in advance but that's okay. I'll be getting M a new thing to connect his phone to his car (we've been without for months, keep forgetting to repurchase lo… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/01/18 05:57 PM |
| 4 | Connecting on social mediaYes! Could not agree more, it's such a shame :( | /r/RedPillWives | 27/01/18 05:47 AM |
| 1 | NATIONAL SPOUSES DAY 2018I removed this because I wasn't sure if it fit with this community. Can you explain why you shared this and what your takeaways were? | /r/RedPillWives | 27/01/18 01:40 AM |
| 8 | Connecting on social mediaI'm only on Pinterest, and there are a lot of women sharing RPW related images and blog posts, and making boards dedicated to marriage, traditional values, femininity, etc. Using the search terms antifeminist, traditional marriage, femininity, biblical womanhood, etc. will give you so many results! I bet a lot of those women are on twitter too, they may link their username in their Pinterest bios. You're right this really is it's own micro niche! I miss the RPW blogs from around 2010, they had t… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/01/18 01:39 AM |
| 7 | Headship Makes All The DifferenceQuoting from the comments: When women fulfill their role in the patriarchal system, it encourages young men to grow into the responsibilities of a patriarch. When they do not, the whole thing falls apart. But it is not women who civilize men, it is the Patriarchy. This is so key! Both genders can have a positive effect on one another but the importance of the underlying system that allows the genders to have this effect can't be ignored. In many circles women get too much credit for the civilizi… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/01/18 01:34 AM |
| 2 | When a man says, “Don’t worry, I’ll handle it.”You answered your own question in your post :) Yes when your man says not to worry, he'll handle it just let him handle it! Trust that he will take care of things. Maybe you need to work on your expectations and standards if you constantly find yourself worried about his ability to complete a task "correctly". Really evaluate if your preferences are essential. Wanting something done X way doesn't mean that X is the only way something can get done or even the best way for it to get done. Of cours… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/01/18 12:02 AM |
| 4 | Sigh...so tired of men being demonized. William Macy is speaking the truth!"Locker room talk" and the natural behaviour of men when amongst other men absolutely should not be shut down or policed in the way that you or the left advocates. Your comments are being removed because they are not RP and in the future please refrain from espousing anti male ideas in this community. There is a difference between masculinity and harassment, exploitation, etc. Conflating the two and using this warped perspective to justify limiting male expression is just so damaging to individu… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/01/18 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Walking A Mile In His ShoesSorry for the delay we literally just got back from the hospital! Isn't pneumonia the worst? Serious illness is frightening but for us at least, it has brought us closer now that we are well again and look back on when we really clung to eachother. Absolutely! It's great to hear about a time where you experienced something similar. I've also been pleased (and surprised) by how much I can actually handle in times of high stress and chaos. I always call P "my king" but he's only just recently star… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/18 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Walking A Mile In His ShoesThank you so much!! This comment put a smile on my face when I first read it and I apologise for the delayed response. We just got back from the hospital after being in the ICU since last Thursday! M is looking and sounding more like himself every hour and I'm slowly starting to destress lol | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/18 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Walking A Mile In His ShoesThank you so much for your kind words! I read your comment a few days ago and it did make me feel a bit better, things have just been SO BUSY I haven't had time to actually respond to anyone. We just got back from the hospital after being in the ICU since last Thursday! We received excellent care and will be getting a card and gift for the staff to show our appreciation. So wonderful that your SO is a doctor there - they do such great work! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Walking A Mile In His ShoesI've done something similar in the past and it really is a great exercise in gratitude and understanding. Exactly! I'm actually in the hospital with him right now (he's responding well to treatments) and I brought my laptop so I may throw something together re archetypes. I read an interesting blog post that gives different definitions for the same 4 categories and think combining them with our existing definitions makes sense. They add another dimension without straying from the central idea th… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/01/18 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Walking A Mile In His ShoesThank you so much! This experience hasn't been easy but we've definitely grown closer :) | /r/RedPillWives | 13/01/18 02:27 AM |
| 3 | Walking A Mile In His ShoesYeah it hasn't been easy at all. He has pneumonia, not the flu but I have heard terrible things about that strain from the nurses at our hospital. Very grateful that he can be cured and that treatments are working! I agree we really don't know exactly what their life entails, even if we get to see him in action it isn't the same. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/01/18 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Walking A Mile In His ShoesThank you so much for your kind words! I definitely don't have his level of skills but I'm even surprising myself with how much I've picked up just by watching and occasionally helping out over the years. We're actually in the hospital right now, in an ICU room so I've suspended all of the work I was doing and am in full nurturer mode. I'm looking for a cleaning service right now actually so that I don't have to worry about that anymore. I appreciate your advice, it's always a great reminder and… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/01/18 02:19 AM |
| 3 | Celebs at the Met Gala vs porn stars at the AVN awards (slightly NSFW? skimpy clothes)This was my takeaway too! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/01/18 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Feminism and BirthratesThe values of different immigrant groups are not all "old school" and I disagree with the way you're shifting the topic from immigrant vs original to old school vs modern. There are plenty of people in the West who have a more traditional worldview and culture. And what is traditional in the West doesn't always line up with how an "old school" immigrant may define traditional. Many immigrants coming to Europe, America, and Australia are not bringing attitudes and behaviors that are compatible, w… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/01/18 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Feminism and BirthratesLabeling things as racist, dismissing valid points, and taking everything personally are all very leftist responses that have no place on this subreddit. There is a very real difference between people who are of the same ethnicity as the main group in a land vs those who are descendants of immigrants or immigrants themselves. Across the world today there are successful countries whose populations are not reproducing fast enough, and several of these countries are also seeing large amounts of imm… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/01/18 06:44 PM |
| 6 | Feminism and BirthratesDisclaimer: There have always been women who worked, including those with children. I'm not sure if he is using a generality to avoid being bogged down in nuance or if he doesn't know that. Regardless, women were not part of the male workforce en masse up until second wave feminism took hold, and the consequences of this change are discussed really well in the linked post! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/01/18 12:26 AM |
| 8 | Help me understand- RP theory (ideas?) on attraction, feelings, emotional needs.I don't read those subs (and they aren't affiliated with RPWives in any way) so I don't really know exactly what you're talking about but based on your descriptions I'm assuming you've been looking at advice geared towards men who are struggling in their relationship in some way. Perhaps something about being confident in your choices and not letting her emotions hold you back or slow you down? Could be useful advice for someone who doesn't have a handle on leadership and needs to fix his dynami… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/01/18 05:43 AM |
| 3 | New Year's Resolutions Thread!These goals are awesome! Especially #5 :) Do you have any ideas on how you might do this? Also re 7 - day trips and weekend trips are the best! M and I have one planned already for early 2018, and I cannot wait. Please share any insights as you plan your wedding, so many women here would love to know how you pull this feat off!! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/01/18 07:34 PM |
| 1 | New Year's Resolutions Thread!Awesome! How are you managing your time now? I've finally settled on my ideal planner set up (I use a bullet journal but approach it slightly differently than how I've seen others use the notebooks) and just love talking about planning, time management, etc! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/01/18 07:29 PM |
| 1 | New Year's Resolutions Thread!Work on finding a more constructive way to deal with my jealousy and insecurity. I think this is going to involve seeing a therapist, but the way I've been trying to deal with it up until now has been frustrating for both me and my husband. Wonderful goal! Don't hesitate to make a post on RPW to discuss this more, I'm sure many women can relate and share their experiences and tips :) | /r/RedPillWives | 02/01/18 07:26 PM |
| 3 | New Year's Resolutions Thread!In 2018 I'll be working on: Creating/Engaging in more memorable experiences with M, ones that allow us to be truly absorbed in the moment. More focus on enjoying the present intentionally. Developing more mystery and adding that element into my girl game. Being more consistent with some new routines that I've made for the house and my beauty routines. I'm trying to take things to the next level and meet our higher standards but there is definitely a transition period happening and I need to stay… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/01/18 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Standards + Boundaries vs. Micromanaging (And Other Leadership Styles Within A Relationship)Love everything about your response! Overall, he leads ahead of time. He is steps ahead of me and sets standards that make the pull load light on himself, and that put helpful blinders on me. He only steps in to process me through to a solution I cannot find on my own or to head off disaster. As he put it, “I let you think you can wear pants, but I rip them off you whenever I want.” Such a perfect description that I'm sure many here can relate to. It's so wonderful knowing that your man loves yo… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/17 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Standards + Boundaries vs. Micromanaging (And Other Leadership Styles Within A Relationship)Completely agree with everything you're saying, and I can really relate to this part: I definitely thrive on clearly-stated rules and boundaries. I love to feel like I am under control, and can operate within a pre-defined set of limits. This lets me get creative within my own sphere and eliminates the need to check and re-check with P on things. If it's in my area, I can do whatever (within reason obviously). Having an over-arching set of limits also helps me "go with the flow," M's level of in… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/17 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Standards + Boundaries vs. Micromanaging (And Other Leadership Styles Within A Relationship)Could yo point me in the direction of a refresher on all this Ls and Hs? Of course! LL = low dominance women who prefer men who are also low dominance (generally these are Greater Betas), LH = low dominance women who prefer high dominance men, and HH are high dominance women who prefer high dominance men. I did a few posts fleshing out the idea: here is part one, here is part 1.5, and here is part 2! Early on in our relationship we talked about certain areas of life that my SO preferred to hand … | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/17 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Standards + Boundaries vs. Micromanaging (And Other Leadership Styles Within A Relationship)He's a naturally compelling, dynamic man, and I follow his lead because I want to be wherever he is, and i want to please him. Yes this sort of thing is exactly what I'm talking about, so awesome that it lines up with your experiences! For me, leadership crosses the line into controlling when it the man is giving orders that are inefficient and seem to be aimed at keeping tabs on the woman. Interesting! I personally have no issue with the word "controlling" or many actions/standards that would b… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/17 07:01 AM |
| 1 | The Fastest Way To Push A Man AwayYou're welcome <3 We all need reminders from time to time, glad this post was helpful! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/12/17 05:24 PM |
| 4 | 7 Habits That Make People Seem Less IntelligentI feel like feminine women express their intelligence in very different ways to men - more subtle and gentle rather than commanding and capable. But then I'm less concerned with appearing intelligent in these situations, and more concerned with being likeable/interesting/warm. Agreed 100%!! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/17 08:08 AM |
| 1 | A Closer Look At The "Domestic Violence Industry"Your experiences really show the impact of these laws and concepts. They shape our culture and what people consider normal and healthy. And then they embolden people to make statements that are out of line, even if they phrase them as "jokes" it is still disrespectful! We're taught a lot of typical masculine traits and behavior are automatically abusive regardless of the context. Yes so true. And then women don't know how to properly interact with men who behave like men, which can lead to more … | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/17 08:06 AM |
| -1 | A Closer Look At The "Domestic Violence Industry"Oops pressed enter too soon on that other comment! But the way this article is written it feels less like a discussion or warning, and more like the type of anti-marriage, all-women-are-snakes, type of piece you'd find on certain other subs. Interesting, I didn't get that vibe at all! It just felt like a warning and a bit of an expose on a controversial, not often discussed subject. This is something he has a personal relationship with so it's natural that he'd have strong feelings. It's not my … | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/17 07:49 AM |
| -2 | A Closer Look At The "Domestic Violence Industry"I agree that it was written for a male audience, but it seems more like a wake up call than something to make them paranoid. It's a tough and controversial subject that most people don't want to discuss in any way because it makes them look like they justify abuse and/or are victim blamers. I feel like for many men who are new to RP ides they need to understand the full capacity of what women are capable of, and they also need to understand the full capacity of what the state is capable of. This… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/17 07:39 AM |
| – | A Closer Look At The "Domestic Violence Industry"Disclaimer: There are religious ideas in the post, feel free to ignore! I posted to talk about the domestic violence industry points specifically. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/17 07:29 AM |
| 1 | 7 Habits That Make People Seem Less IntelligentInteresting find! While it doesn't go in depth, the article you found still brings up some good points for discussion - especially relating it to holiday parties. Nodding and head tilts show interest and femininity so I don't think it would benefit anyone to intentionally reduce these habits unless you do them to an insane degree. People like people who are open, good listeners, etc. why make yourself seem less encouraging or even worse, closed off? To respond to a question you posed in the OP, … | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/17 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Do I marry for love or practicality? (5 year relationship, 25f/30m)This was removed as spam and I totally missed it sorry!!! Can you repost? | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/17 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Men Wear Miniskirts To Protest Sexual Assault - A Great Interview On The Feminization Of EuropeYay I didn’t think anyone would actually read the link haha it’s one of my favs! I know it’s not the thread topic but I think this touches on what respect to men vs what respect to women is? Yes I do think it speaks to what each gender considers respect: female respect is all about cooperation, consideration, and other things that imply equality. Lowering yourself - even in a subtle way - maintains the equality and is a way of showing sensitivity and empathy, also valued in women. It’s surprisin… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/17 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Dunbar FeminismGlad you enjoyed the article! How can a society succeed if its men fail? It doesn't seem possible at all, and yet so many women legitimately believe that men are the enemy, a hindrance, etc. But these same women don't see the hypocrisy in wearing hijabs and supporting Islam. It's insane! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/17 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Dunbar FeminismWestern patriarchy can't be separated from Christianity that easily and I think the culture that (non liberal) Christianity brings is helpful for all ethnic groups. Islamic patriarchy is so anti life and anti human nature and it's terrifying to watch it spread and destroy European culture. So sad how the abandonment of traditional western values has opened the door to all of this :( | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/17 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Dunbar FeminismExactly! This post talks more about feminism as a strategy, if you're interested :) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/17 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Men Wear Miniskirts To Protest Sexual Assault - A Great Interview On The Feminization Of EuropeOoooooh a bunch of meaty man legs on display Ewww hahaha I do not share your enthusiasm there they looked ridiculous! But on the other parts, we are in agreement :) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/17 06:19 PM |
| 8 | Men Wear Miniskirts To Protest Sexual Assault - A Great Interview On The Feminization Of EuropeReally love all of the points made in this video by Iben Thranholm and will definitely be looking at more of her videos. That adult men thought that putting on skirts and holding signs in the street is the best way to protect their women is horrifying. Not only do they look ridiculous and disturbing in those outfits, they are basically advertising their weakness to those committing assaults. They are showing that they won't fight, that there is no real threat. This essay expands on this idea at … | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/17 06:18 PM |
| 4 | Romantic Victories!I've been doing my best to minimise the amount of decisions he has to make in a day - because he definitely gets decision-fatigued at this sort of time! Ooh good call, I bet he appreciates that! We've been maintaining our two-date-a-week habit, and it's good! To keep it frugal, we have been doing small, cheap dates - coffee + a pastry to share, or kebabs in the park, or a drive to a lake to watch the birds. 'Date night' doesn't have to be a) a production, or b) at night! It just needs to be you … | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/17 01:53 AM |
| 3 | Romantic Victories!Aww <3 So great that you gave the film a chance and ended up enjoying it! Being open to new experiences with our men really helps keeps things fun, even in times of stress. Longmire is a modern western just FYI but it is really engaging even if you're not super into westerns normally. Let me know if you guys ever watch it! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/17 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Romantic Victories!Yay! Apparently they are going to make at least one movie which is awesome. The final season was a great end but it'd be great to see what other stories they can tell! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/17 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Romantic Victories!Thank you! Longmire is awesome, just know that it starts off kind of slow but as the series develops you really appreciate that they took the time to explore the characters before changing up the pace a bit starting in season 3. It'd be a great show to watch with your man, lots of masculine characters and different types of men portrayed in ways that aren't demeaning, condescending, or otherwise tainted by leftism. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/17 01:45 AM |
| 1 | The Fastest Way To Push A Man AwayLol exactly! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/12/17 06:49 PM |
| 4 | Romantic Victories!It has been a crazy few weeks in our lives, a mix of really good, really bad, and just plain busy! And I am just so grateful for M! I really admire his strength, determination and problem solving abilities. Since it's been so high stress I've been making sure to avoid doing anything to increase it, as well as going out of my way to do little surprises when I can. But mostly I am really getting the hang of giving space even though my natural instinct when I am upset, stressed, etc is to seek comp… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/12/17 05:24 PM |
| 3 | The Fastest Way To Push A Man AwayIt sounds like you're taking this post really personally when it was meant to explore a general idea. You can be direct without being disrespectful or making him feel blamed. Your word choice in the other comment still seemed accusatory and it is not an approach we'd recommend women take. If it worked for you cool but there's more than one way to skin a cat, as the saying goes. We prefer methods that get the job done with as little friction as possible. To have a real, effective impact on a man … | /r/RedPillWives | 04/12/17 05:06 PM |
| 2 | The Fastest Way To Push A Man AwayThe point is to be mindful of our words, tone, body language, etc. to avoid making him feel blamed because that will more often than not lead to the situation getting worse. The post is not saying to hold in all of your thoughts and feelings forever. We have full control of what we say, how we say it, and when we say it. And while most women in the heat of the moment choose to act in ways that make them feel powerful/good at the expense of their man, it is totally possible for us to remain respe… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/12/17 11:01 AM |
| 5 | The Fastest Way To Push A Man AwayDid you even read the post? It's about ways we make him feel blamed and try to punish him as a way to make ourselves feel better in the moment, instead of addressing the real issue. Yelling and making exaggerations that place all of the responsibility on your man and none on you isn't the way to approach basically any situation. Even if your man has a problem listening to you, screaming at him or doing any of the other things listed in the post won't help the situation. Plenty of mainstream rela… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/12/17 10:47 AM |
| 7 | Dunbar FeminismI don't normally post two things on the same day but I just reread this post and felt compelled to share and discuss with everyone! I really like his point about feminism: these Swedish middle aged women aren’t feminist in the abstract. They are feminist in their local environment. Which means that there are in a power struggle against their men. Not men in the abstract. But Swedish men. Their husbands, their brothers and their fathers. It is them who they want to spite. And to spite them they a… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/17 08:23 PM |
| 2 | A Strange DispositionIt really is a circlejerk! The worst part is that it has tangible consequences to people who are alive today, the damage is not contained to the circle jerkers. I also want to have a positive impact on those in my life but I'm definitely not concerned with being "on the right side of history" or any other leftist catchphrase. I try to be circumspect... is there a better way? Are my means and ends the best choice? Totally! I really like how the post examines those who take this attitude too far. … | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/17 04:21 PM |
| 2 | A Strange DispositionAgreed completely. I think there's a difference between looking back and learning from the past, and completely twisting what happened in the past to fit modern narratives. Or trying to erase the past because of modern values. We can't truly improve if we don't have an accurate understanding of what happened in previous generations and eras. It seems that so many today are more concerned with whatever ideology is fashionable than actually understanding history. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/17 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Nail care? How do you ladies look after your nails?This question is better for /r/FeminineNotFeminist unless you want to edit it to include a discussion on nails and attraction, or nails and mainstream culture. I see that you've posted it to FNF already so I'm going to remove this unless you want to edit to make it more relevant to RPW :) | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/17 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Using Body Language To Strengthen Your RelationshipNo worries! The main point, regardless of the specifics of your relationship is to pay more attention to your man's state and be mindful of how your actions will affect him. Respecting his mood, being even slightly more upbeat, and handling minor issues that don't require him will go a long way. Again I'm sure neither of you need this advice but as a mod I'm always going to explain things so that anyone reading the comments fully understands the situation and how it may apply to them. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/11/17 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Using Body Language To Strengthen Your RelationshipYes I get what she's saying about her relationship, I'm explaining what I was saying and how it probably doesn't apply to her. As well as giving her food for thought regarding her overall opinion on the topic. She seems to think that I'm saying to repress emotions when really I'm saying to handle them yourself or choose the right time to share them if it isn't a huge or urgent issue. What I can't understand is why being mindful of the ratio of positive vs negative topics you bring up is hard to … | /r/RedPillWives | 17/11/17 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Using Body Language To Strengthen Your RelationshipHe probably doesn't think about it as "changing his body language consciously" but men definitely put on a brave or happy or collected face, stand taller, and more to seem more in control. You just don't notice that he is doing this, which is what he wants. He doesn't want you to know every single time he is afraid, unsure, worried, not confident, etc. And that's a good thing. Some distance and mystery helps with attraction and respect. The same applies to you/women as well. The more he sees you… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/11/17 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Using Body Language To Strengthen Your RelationshipIf you have a bad day that is legitimately worth discussion, you should still be mindful of when to discuss it, and reading body language is useful in determining the right time. You're taking what I'm saying to an extreme where you're never allowed to express anything and you're always hiding how you feel. And this isn't about traditional male and female roles this is about personal responsibility and maturity. You may not do this, but there are women who blurt out whatever is on their mind wit… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/11/17 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Using Body Language To Strengthen Your RelationshipThanks so glad you like the post! Totally agree about posture and confidence, I use "power poses" to combat some of my natural L tendencies haha Yess re: mirroring. I wanted to do a whole thing about when to mirror and when not to, but it crossed over too much in a different thing I was writing about charisma so ultimately I decided to wait on that one. Totally agree that you shouldn't copy 100% of what he is doing. The most important things are related to his "vibe" which can be determined by l… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/11/17 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Using Body Language To Strengthen Your RelationshipWhen it comes to avoiding eye contact are you giving off weakness signals or challenging signals? I find it hard to keep eye contact while upset as well but it's definitely the "weakness" type, not that this is deal. Alone time can definitely be effective during conflict. Talk to him in advance and explain that you need space. And in advance I mean at a neutral time, where nothing is wrong. Maybe set up an understanding that if you say X or go Y you just want to be alone for a bit. This works fo… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/11/17 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Using Body Language To Strengthen Your RelationshipThank you so much! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/11/17 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Using Body Language To Strengthen Your RelationshipAlso I forgot to say this in my other comment, men should totally be monitoring and managing themselves and not letting their minor issue be our problem. Good men do this automatically and women have no idea! But since this is RPW I wanted the focus of the post to be about concrete things that we can control :) | /r/RedPillWives | 17/11/17 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Using Body Language To Strengthen Your RelationshipYou're welcome! Yes congruence is key, definitely keep us posted on how your relationship changes as you apply these ideas. I have more thoughts on different aspects of body language but the google doc was getting too long so I just posted the first 4 pages LOL I do not think that complaining about small or even medium things on a regular basis is a beneficial or attractive behavior. Large issues that are bothering you should be addressed yes, but timing is still key here and I can think of a fe… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/11/17 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Disabled RPW? Some advice please!No worries :) RPW isn't only for women in relationships, we are just strongly pro relationship. At the time of the split there was a big push (mostly from men of trp) for content that was pro being a "plate" and using RP for means other than harmonious LTRs/marraige. I don't read that sub but I'm sure they've backed off on this message at this point, it didn't go over too well at the time lol Our approach to being single here is that you can't actually be single and RPW unless you are actively d… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/11/17 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Disabled RPW? Some advice please!Please do not link to that subreddit. RedPillWives was formed by the mods of redpillwomen at the time (over a year ago) to offer a community that truly focused on the needs and interests of women in relationships. We are not affiliated with that sub or any other "red pill" subs and remove any submission with a direct link. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/11/17 12:03 AM |
| 7 | She believes she needs to let go but doesn’t want to... and I️ think it’s from FOMO.Wish I could sticky this comment it really gets to the heart of the issue. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/17 01:08 AM |
| 3 | What Makes A Woman Put In Effort?Love this and completely agree! I feel like I read something by Ian Ironwood about the female social matrix and specifically using men as status signals/boosters but I'll have to check. It wasn't in his main post on the FSM it was a follow up. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/17 01:05 AM |
| 1 | What Makes A Woman Put In Effort?Omg yes! Thank you for connecting these concepts, I didn't even see it from this angle but you're so right. The positive side of dread (excitement, tingles, etc) is definitely not discussed as much but it is such a huge motivator within relationships I feel like it deserves more attention. I feel like LH women will have the most natural dread (positive and negative) in their relationships with dominant men, and I think both LH and HH women feel more excitement-dread on a daily basis b/c of the n… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/17 01:02 AM |
| 19 | She believes she needs to let go but doesn’t want to... and I️ think it’s from FOMO.Watch your tone when commenting to women here. It is not anyone's job to convince you or your girlfriend how to handle this relationship. You are asking something incredibly unusual of the women here and like /u/Zombies_InTheSnow said it shows your lack of leadership. If you want to stay together then don't leave her...if she dumps you then she dumps you. If you think she would be better off without you and you want her to have a good life then end it! It's a very simple concept and your inabili… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/17 12:54 AM |
| 3 | She believes she needs to let go but doesn’t want to... and I️ think it’s from FOMO.Spot on :) | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/17 12:50 AM |
| 12 | She believes she needs to let go but doesn’t want to... and I️ think it’s from FOMO.I hope she listens to you! I agree with you and /u/Zombies_InTheSnow - this guy is weak and full of excuses. Also his whole post just seemed like he was trying way too hard to seem alpha. Not to the level that it read as porn but...it didn't help his case! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/17 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Social Matter's Weekly Roundup - Great Source Of In Depth ContentEvery weds Social Matter shares all of the essays and blog posts that they found interesting that week! I read at least 75% of the suggested posts every time and I have discovered a lot of great blogs this way. If you are craving in depth content, this is a great place to start. Don't forget to share anything you want to discuss with RPW :) | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/17 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Romantic Victories!Sorry this is up so late, we had a late night last night and I haven't been able to sit down and post this until now! M and I have been great, nothing exciting to report so I'll use this comment to express how lucky I feel every day to be with him :) | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/17 04:03 AM |
| 3 | [Ask RPW] Required reading, and further books... ?It really depends on what you're interested in and what you're working on! I personally haven't read any of those books but I know that a lot of women here love them so it's why we recommend them a lot. If you're looking for something more than shifting into a yielding and respectful mindset can you clarify what you want to read about? If you're just looking on intros to harmonious and more traditional relationship dynamics that list seems great :) | /r/RedPillWives | 04/11/17 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Depictions Of Abusive Women In Pop CultureWhat a great point! I never considered this angle but it really makes sense when you think about it. I think that Taylor Swift's music really exemplifies the idea of this behavior as payback. Will definitely think about this more as I watch and listen to things. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/17 07:43 PM |
| 3 | What has been the most difficult or challenging thing for you to accept or even understand since you found rpw?I don't understand why you're going around the comment section bringing up these points as if people don't know that things apply to men as well? The topic is what was difficult for us to accept. Not sure if it is your intention but your statements of "men too!!" seem to undermine the whole point of t he discussion. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/10/17 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Some Funny Images To Brighten Your Day :)Lol I'm dead! | /r/RedPillWives | 27/10/17 02:18 PM |
| 2 | What has been the most difficult or challenging thing for you to accept or even understand since you found rpw?Are you aware that this post is about concepts that were challenging to accept? We speak about personal responsibility and agency all the time on RPW but that isn't the point of this discussion. AWALT isn't only referring to actions, it is talking about potential as well. And the fact that all women have the potential to do bad things is something very hard for many to understand about themselves. As we should remind ourselves that men have terrible flaws as well. Unfortunately that gets minimiz… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/10/17 02:17 PM |
| 3 | What has been the most difficult or challenging thing for you to accept or even understand since you found rpw?Exactly! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/17 09:59 PM |
| 4 | What has been the most difficult or challenging thing for you to accept or even understand since you found rpw?AWALT is a reminder that every woman is a woman, we all have female nature and the capacity to have some of the negative or extreme traits. AMALT is accurate as well for example all men do have the capacity for violence and it is something women should be aware of. Men should remind themselves that women are capable of bad things, and if this idea comforts them in some way in a tough moment that's really not any different than a woman saying to herself "men are pigs!" after she gets pumped and d… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/17 09:59 PM |
| 5 | Some Funny Images To Brighten Your Day :)I've shared these all before but in different albums, they still make me laugh so hopefully no one minds the reposts haha | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/17 03:01 PM |
| 8 | What has been the most difficult or challenging thing for you to accept or even understand since you found rpw?Obsessed with this question! The hardest thing for me to accept when I first started reading rp/manosphere/de blogs was "All Women Are Like That" specifically when it came to me exhibiting female solipsism. It was easy to see AWALT when looking at everyone else, and it was clear when someone I knew or was talking to online was being solipsistic and self centred. But for me to see how my own biases and assumptions limited my perception of the world and ability to operate in it...that took some ti… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/17 02:44 PM |
| 3 | How Men and Women CooperateThese are both really interesting! I was kind of confused by the cooperation study but I think that's because they haven't clearly defined cooperation in the post. At first they give a normal explanation of the term: "Cooperation -- having the ability to work things out with your partner, while achieving mutually beneficial outcomes... But then they give an example of a woman asking what a man thinks of her top in a department store? In what way does this involve cooperation? Social psychology l… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/10/17 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Is "Submission" Only Okay When It Is Impersonal?The actual post goes into a lot of detail on how the international domestic servant programs work, and it isn't like having an illegal immigrant because - at least in Singapore - the people are extremely vetted. Their pay doesn't really matter when it comes to the point he's making. The maid vs janitor comparison was to contrast how he feels about having a personal relationship with someone cleaning up after him vs an impersonal relationship. We (usually) don't get to know the janitors who pick … | /r/RedPillWives | 25/10/17 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Is "Submission" Only Okay When It Is Impersonal?You are spot on! The problem with this mindset is people find it hard to respect and appreciate people who are better than them. And also find it hard to feel compassion for people less well off. Love how you phrased this and I agree it is a big problem in America today. I think it applies in the reverse too - it is harder for some to have appreciation for those beneath them (on the hierarchy) and compassion for those above them. Whereas in some modern confused societies, people act very embarra… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/10/17 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Is "Submission" Only Okay When It Is Impersonal?That is so true, people are okay with checking in with your man so long as it is solely about logistics. Perhaps because it is less personal? I'm glad you liked the examples! I'm trying to think of more...so far I'm thinking: company ethics policies dictating what you post online or even how you act outside of work but if a woman restricted the same behaviour out of respect for her man it'd be considered abusive. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/10/17 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Sexual Orientation - Does It Actually Exist?This got caught in the spam filter sorry I am just seeing this now! So here's the thing: this whole article is based on the assumption that sexual orientation is a real, distinct thing from sexual attraction. They did not take an unbiased look at actual genetic material here. They used a computer to analyse data about populations. Because they assume that homosexuality is a valid result of a normal biological process, they interpret results in a certain way. The fact that homosexuality has exist… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/10/17 03:42 PM |
| 7 | Romantic Victories!M and I spent the past few days helping a friend go through a break up - including packing and moving some of his stuff. The whole experience made us both even more grateful for our relationship! I also really enjoyed seeing M give support and advice to his friend, he is just such a great leader and source of strength. In other news we watched American Gods last week - what a creative show! This lead to us talking more about our (American + us personally) dependence on the "new gods" of technolo… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/10/17 03:44 PM |
| 9 | Is "Submission" Only Okay When It Is Impersonal?So obviously there are some class differences that are going to make him uncomfortable with maids but I think he arrives at a really great conclusion about American attitudes regarding submission and hierarchy in general. We can also extend this to having defined roles since this is another thing we are comfortable with in the professional world (e.g. Susan is a hairdresser and not also a mechanic or even a makeup artist but if the wife is responsible for cooking and cleaning but not finances...… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/10/17 03:22 PM |
| 1 | The Changing American HouseholdYou can view the same data in 3 different ways. Maybe it doesn't work on phones but on the desktop version you can toggle between line grphs, dots, and the area graph. I'm on my phone currently and can't see the rest of your comment so that's all I'll reply to now lol :) | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/17 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Constrained Vs Unconstrained VisionsI've been thinking about rape and sexual assault recently given the recent international and national news. I feel like the feminist approach to dealing with these issues really highlights how committed they are to the unconstrained vision of humanity. They are so attached to the idea that human nature can be changed and that a perfect solution is out there, that they are putting the safety of women at risk. (Yes I know men are often the victims of all sorts of sexual assault, I'm focusing my co… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/17 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Romantic Victories!How wonderful :) Keep us posted on how these outings go, and if you have some tips for ladies who attend work events with their men, do share with the community! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/17 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Romantic Victories!Congratulations!! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/17 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Romantic Victories!Yay that's awesome and sounds like a blast! But, after this weekend and last night, I realized that looking at my "duties" as set in stone and immovable is not the most helpful way to be a supportive wife. Rather, I should be looking to do the most important thing for him in that moment. I've gotten so much better at being reliable. Now, I want to really dive into being adaptable and comfortably following P whether or not he goes "off script" in what he expects of me, and how I can best be there… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/17 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Romantic Victories!Outstanding! It's so great to hear that we've helped your relationship. Moving into your own place should really help, privacy is so key especially for men. Congrats on your progress so far :) | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/17 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Sexual Orientation - Does It Actually Exist?This comment is amazing! Really appreciate that you broke down the 4 definitions of normal and natural. People on both side of the debate use the terms loosely and shift their meaning as they see fit to win a discussion or communicate their message more convincingly. All of these parameters speak to traits, behaviors, and permutations that offer some kind of advantage, assure survival, and aid the pursuit of success except for the more subjefctive and unrestrained playground of ‘society.’ I thin… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/17 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Sexual Orientation - Does It Actually Exist?(Lol it's what I thought of when I made the edit - other 'abnormal' variations of sexual attraction) Before you made the edit I understood you to be discussing solely heterosexuality, homosexuality, and bisexuality. My response was only referring to these manifestations of attraction. Nope, there is not enough evidence for me to believe that. I asked because your responses seemed to be supporting this theory. I have been trying to figure out your stance on things but you seem to contradict yours… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/17 03:44 AM |
| 3 | Opposite-sex friends as backup mates + other readsThis is amazing, can''t wait to read them all. I really think each of these could be their own post! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/17 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Grove.co offer if you were interested in getting started thereIt's definitely not against the rules! I actually signed up for Grove a few weeks ago and have been using the products since. I already use green/clean cleaning supplies so it was nice that they offered brands I'm familiar with and new ones to try that meet my standards. Haven't used the glass bottle yet but I'll be using it to apply tea rinses to my hair! Along with this deal wr bought the Method glass cleaner and it is surprisingly really effective. We were using windex despite how...not good … | /r/RedPillWives | 17/10/17 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Sexual Orientation - Does It Actually Exist?Having a fixed sexual "identity" is a very modern concept. In the past it was generally not defining you as a person. There were simply actions you took or didn't take. Exactly! In the full post he examines the rise of the concept of "orientation"/identity as separate from attraction and not surprisingly it started in the 1960s. His argument really is about a return to the older understanding. When the word "orientation" is used to explain and justify different types of attraction instead of mer… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/17 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Examples of yieldingIf you are naturally a submissive person (note: not submissive in a negative or BDSM way, just traditional feminine softness and deference to male leadership) than it may not feel like you are yielding because you do it automatically. What is your relationship with yielding? or what is a situation where you would act differently were it not for applying it? I’ve never had issues with following the male lead but even still there are times where yielding is a better option than arguing or compromi… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/17 05:57 AM |
| 3 | Y’all! You guuuuuuyyyyyys! A breakthrough!Congrats on the breakthrough! Do you have specific steps or resolutions in mind for yourself to start to turn things around? What do you think you'll focus on first? /u/StingrayVC makes an excellent point about trust; a lot of women report that their men don't fully trust that things will improve, even months after the dynamic has shifted. So maintaining trust in him while he adjusts is key. Looking forward to hearing more from you - best of luck :) | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/17 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Sexual Orientation - Does It Actually Exist?Great points against the idea that sexual attraction isn’t infallible! I agree that the use of the term sexual orientation and related words like gay, lesbian, etc. are very helpful when describing different forms of sexual attraction. And I also agree that the other motivations for sex can lead to people engaging in bisexual and even homosexual experiences (/u/Never_Evil brought this up too!) Yeah I also think the existence of same sex attraction in animals shows that there is a biological comp… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/17 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Sexual Orientation - Does It Actually Exist?Love Atlas Shrugged! So first I’ll say that all variations of attraction can have a positive impact on survival but I disagree that homosexuality is specifically aimed at individual or group survival. I definitely see where you are coming from though. I agree that we attach additional significance to sex but this is another layer that goes beyond the core function of intercourse. Other animals engage in the exact same activity as us so I don’t think it makes sense to elevate our subjective ideas… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/17 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Sexual Orientation - Does It Actually Exist?My thinking was that since sexual reproduction is about group survival long term (via success on an individual level) any additional function of sexual orientation would also be tied to group survival since that would be what ultimately links homosexuality, heterosexuality, and other forms of sexual attraction. If sexual orientation was a mechanism that ensured that one group of people were more capable of reproducing and another group was less capable, I don't understand what the purpose of hom… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/17 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Sexual Orientation - Does It Actually Exist?Ooh what sub did you make (if you don't mind sharing)? What are you looking to read I have wayy too many blogs bookmarked haha Currently I read things about social theory, culture, political theory, power, class, and things of that nature not really anything about relationships unless I stumble upon it or seek it out to post to RPW. But I do have those sites bookmarked too from years ago, the ones that aren't active still have great archives! So yeah I cam recommend things :) | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/17 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Sexual Orientation - Does It Actually Exist?Awesome! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/17 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Sexual Orientation - Does It Actually Exist?Thank you so much for linking that study! I expand on my thoughts in this comment. After reading your link (which I looked at after I wrote that post to /u/Never_Evil ) I think that the kinship theory makes sense as an exploration of the benefits of same sex attraction in a group but doesn't really prove the existence of a mechanism that ensures individuals are homosexual to increase group survival. I also agree with the article that the benefits are dependent on the culture, which accounts for … | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/17 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Sexual Orientation - Does It Actually Exist?I totally get what you're saying about homosexuality serving a function regardless of whether or not it is an error. I think that arguments can be made that sexual orientation exists as an entity that directs human attraction to achieve ends other than reproduction, and that reproduction is only one benefit. The idea would then be that orientation is about group survival and there are many ways for a group to survive. I disagree with this idea which I will expand on in a moment, but I do agree w… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/17 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Sexual Orientation - Does It Actually Exist?I don't know anything about the author of the posts but I have literally read every single post on the blog, many more than once, and really enjoy it. Do I agree with every single thing written there? No. But a lot does line up with how I think and I also enjoy posts that cause me to reevaluate my positions. My favorite topic on the blog is "cocooning" and this idea is present in the majority of posts on the site. I personally prefer to focus on the ideas presented on a blog instead of who the a… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/17 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Sexual Orientation - Does It Actually Exist?Yes people like to give themselves labels but the post is about the use of the term “sexual orientation” to explain different varieties of sexual attraction instead of merely describe these realities. The former assumes that homosexuality is one of many valid modes of sexual attraction that arises due to a biological process functioning properly. The latter assumes that homosexuality arises when there is an error in the biological (or environmental) processes that develop human sexual attraction… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/10/17 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Sexual Orientation - Does It Actually Exist?Found what I was thinking of: a book called The Naked Ape. Here is an excerpt: "First, it is important make it clear what one is talking about. In the 1990s somebody wrote a book that collected together examples of homosexual acts performed by many species across the animal kingdom. It was meant to show that the homosexual behaviour of human beings was not ‘unnatural’ as it has sometimes been called, but a common biological occurrence. I think he was rather surprised that zoologists were not par… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/10/17 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Sexual Orientation - Does It Actually Exist?So glad you found this interesting! I'm going to look into the hormonal theories more but from what I just read in those summaries, it doesn't make sense to add an extra step/layer of "sexual orientation" when you could just say that hormones can alter sexual attraction. The word "orientation" connotes a specific, biologically intended purpose of same sex attraction. I read something a while ago about gayness being the product of arrested development and edit: an addictive personality , I will l… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/10/17 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Sexual Orientation - Does It Actually Exist?Yes I'm Catholic. My position isn't an rp theory or anything that I expect women here to agree with. And I think it is possible to agree with him without finding homosexuality immoral in any way. One could even accept this idea and use it to promote even more acceptance of same sex couples imo. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/10/17 06:44 PM |
| 4 | Sexual Orientation - Does It Actually Exist?I agree completely with his arguments against the theory of sexual orientation and loved reading something that really made me question my assumptions. I personally do not believe that acting on homosexual desires is moral, and I’ve never been sure about the source of same sex attraction (e.g. genetics, environment, etc). Regardless I accepted the idea of sexual orientation without hesitation. It was taught in health classes since I was 10 years old and I’ve literally never heard anyone claim th… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/10/17 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Vetting For Marriage?Yep I agree, just wanted to clarify the purpose of the other post in case newer members were confused :) Seeing how he reacts in negative situations definitely make a lot of sense, seeing him at his worst. Yes! Can the two of you handle each other at your worst? We mostly talk about how to be our best and see the best in our men but there will be moments where the awful/ugly side of someone is on display. It's not enough to be yielding, a GOFL, soft place to land, etc. when everyone is happy and… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/17 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Entertaining, Recipes, Crafts, Decor, Hobbies, etc. Megathread 10/11/17Birchlane.com is a new find that I'm so excited about!! I'm working on decorating our place and taking things to the next level when it comes to organisation. Since we're moving again in about a year I want to be selective with what I purchase so that we aren't drowning in boxes haha I also feel like our current place suits a classic or even contemporary style whereas M and I have an Old World aesthetic. So the decor I get right now will likely not be featured at all or prominently in our new pl… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/17 11:28 PM |
| 4 | Vetting For Marriage?Awesome question! Just wanted to note that when /u/PhantomDream09 and I wrote the in depth post on vetting it was specifically to help women who were interested in getting married ASAP. We believe in dating intentionally and I'll speak for myself here but I really think that at all times your dating decisions should keep marriage in mind. So women who aren't in a serious LTR yet, the info on this post should be used to filter out men who aren't marriage material. When it comes to women who are a… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/17 10:45 PM |
| 2 | If being a male feminism is not a sexual strategy, why are gay male feminists almost unheard of?I believe in an entirely different political structure than what we currently have. One that would enable people to have more autonomy at the local level and more of a say in community and state affairs. This can be accomplished without every single person being eligible to vote. If you actually read comments where I elaborate on why I don't think women (and really most people) should vote I bring up how more votes available = each vote has less impact. I reject the premise that being eligible t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Examples of yieldingI haven't had time to scan through and point out the rule breaking comments but here are two links that will be useful for you. This post has links to all the most important information that we encourage all new members to read. Everyone who participates on the sub is assumed to be familiar with everything here. The wiki page All About RPW is the easiest one to start with. This post clarifies between debating and discussion. If you don't agree with something 1 - make sure you actually understand… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/17 02:09 AM |
| 4 | Conflict Resolution For Happy Relationships - Research-Backed Strategies For SuccessI also love the idea of a "culture of appreciation" - respect, gratitude, affection, and companionship sums it up so nicely. Isn't it so nice? Totally something we should use around RPW. They all seem to be oriented towards diffusing negative emotions, which is wonderful because conflict is dangerous precisely because it happens in the context of heated emotions Exactly! When you're actually in the moment common sense and rationality may not be as easy to access when you're angry/on edge/any oth… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/17 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Conflict Resolution For Happy Relationships - Research-Backed Strategies For SuccessWhat a great way to make sure that you're thinking like a team instead of getting carried away in the heat of conflict! I really like the idea of a "culture of appreciation" as well. It really speaks to how our behaviour can add up and create something wonderful. Each task or activity or moment matters on its own, but all together they are worth even more. A culture of appreciation involves your entire being and lifestyle. It doesn't get turned on and off and it affects everything. That is an aw… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/17 01:16 AM |
| 3 | Examples of yieldingNope the banning was about rule breaking comments, which I will bring up in my response to your other comment. If you are legitimately interested in participating in this sub, that's great. But please understand that we have trolls every single week who try to stir up drama and derail conversations. We also have women who aren't intentionally trying to troll but don't understand the community or our rules but continue commenting regardless. We have members with a variety of beliefs and positions… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/17 01:01 AM |
| 3 | Conflict Resolution For Happy Relationships - Research-Backed Strategies For SuccessThe causing conflict when men are disinterested or irritable about daily conversation I kind of get. I try to be patient and respect that hubs has been at work before unloading about daily things. If he is tired and stressed it's better to wait and take care of his stress first before piling more on Definitely! The statistic about women starting these sorts of conflicts is understandable, and I've done it myself (AWALT lol) but it's also within our control to some extent. The solutions you're de… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/17 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Conflict Resolution For Happy Relationships - Research-Backed Strategies For SuccessSo glad you like the post! I agree I really enjoyed the labels and definitions here, it's nice to see ideas you know put into words. In my case intense conflict causes me to "stonewall". I didn't realise that there was a real term for it or that it was so bad, but I after reading this I have new motivation to address this issue. There are a lot of resources on the site and I definitely plan on sharing anything else interesting with the sub! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/17 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Why Can't Male Sacrifice Be Acknowledged?Of course :) | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/17 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Examples of yieldingAs /u/whitebunny87 said we've written about and discussed these these extensively and you can get a handle on what we're talking about by looking at the posts and pages in the wiki. It doesn't seem like you're making a real effort to understand where anyone here is coming from. I've been giving you the benefit of the doubt and assuming it's due to lack of exposure to our ideas. If this is the case, please ask clarifying questions! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/17 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Examples of yieldingGreat explanation! I always enjoy when these core ideas are broken down a bit more. The distinction between leading vs completing tasks is a great one; I'm sure a lot of non RP women consider performing the same amount of tasks to mean that the relationship is "equal". | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/17 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Why Can't Male Sacrifice Be Acknowledged?I'm not sure why you're all over the sub recently but you need to stop saying things that are factually untrue and/or against the purpose of this community. We have a wiki filled with information about what we're all about and you'll see that your claim that "many women on this sub are okay with their sole purposes in life being to keep their men fed and fucked with no regards to their own happiness" has no basis in reality. If you have any legitimate questions about the community, please submit… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/17 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Why Can't Male Sacrifice Be Acknowledged?Thanks for alerting me to this, I've had some run ins with her but she seemed more open in those interactions vs what I'm seeing right now. I'm usually all about being patient with new girls and showing them new ideas and resources when they clearly have no clue, but she definitely seems more hostile than just misguided. Thanks again <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/17 12:36 AM |
| – | New Subreddit Design + 2017 Weekly DiscussionsBeyond pumped! We’re bouncing around other ideas too but just wanted to share the concrete ones right now. There will be a wrap up thread for the summer challenge and in the future, we will be posting more frequent update threads with any challenges. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/10/17 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Examples of yieldingThank you this is what I was getting at! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/10/17 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Conflict Resolution For Happy Relationships - Research-Backed Strategies For SuccessI was so pleased to stumble across this website and I hope this overview is helpful! This approach to conflict resolution really complements RPW ideas since the focus is on remaining respectful and maintaining harmony. We have a lot of posts and comments on reducing and diffusing conflict so concepts like the four horsemen and the magic ratio are perfect additions to round out our discussions. I agree with Gottman + co that conflict is a natural part of a relationship. It isn't always possible o… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/10/17 08:32 PM |
| 4 | Examples of yieldingI'm confused about this and I may be misunderstanding your point so please clarify if I am. On this sub at least Captain/FM is saying that there is only one marriage and both parties have their own spheres of responsibility where they are to operate (relatively) freely to achieve things for the relationship. But at the end of the day, the Captain is in charge and has the final say. Was this what your husband meant? Is this something you agree with? You talk about marriage being many little ships… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/10/17 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Examples of yieldingThis is lovely and a great example of yielding in action! I think yielding is about truly listening to your partner and trying to understand where they are coming from. So often, when we listen to our SO, we don't hear because we're busy formulating our next retort. But reflectively listening and understanding makes a world of difference in a relationship. Exactly! Understanding our men both as men and as individuals is so key to a harmonious relationship. We can't do this if we don't listen and… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/17 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - October 06, 2017Awesome! You should totally post your plans to the sub, we'd love to wish you luck and give more resources! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/17 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - October 06, 2017Yes our friends do this annually each spring! It is such a wonderful tradition. Let me know if you have any questions :) | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/17 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - October 06, 2017Thank you so much these look perfect for some of M's friends! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/17 11:39 PM |
| 3 | Married!YAY Congrats!!!! So happy for you <3 Going to sticky this post for more discussion because you're bringing up some great topics! I'd love to hear more about your plans if you don't mind sharing once you've figured it all out, even if it's a private convo. Wishing you the best <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/17 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Masculine Expressions Of LoveYes absolutely!! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/17 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Masculine Expressions Of LoveLol we basically said the same thing to whitebunny (aww thats sweet) I promise I wasn't copying it just really is the best reaction to her comment XD | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/17 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Masculine Expressions Of LoveAww that is so sweet! I totally agree about protection seeming overbearing to some, but you are so right about it being a sign that you are cherished. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/17 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Masculine Expressions Of LoveIt took me a bit by surprise but with protection thing one of the strongest expressions of love was anger Yes! This is definitely overlooked in most mainstream discussions, at least it isn't discussed in a very positive light. I am loving hearing about everyone's relationship! Definitely will make more posts in the future on this so that we can all talk about it more. I didn't anticipate being away but there's always next time :) | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/17 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Masculine Expressions Of LoveYour SO sounds like a lot of fun and a great guy :) | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/17 10:51 PM |
| 4 | Masculine Expressions Of LovePatience, what a lovely example! To be clear I am not dissatisfied with the existing love languages, I just think they aren't the only ways that people express love and wanted to discuss the topic with a focus on masculinity. I see protection as distinct from "acts of service" just because of the mentality of ownership that is often coupled with a man's desire to protect. Similar, I really like your addition of patience, it speaks to an area not already covered by the love languages and hopefull… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/10/17 05:00 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Create And Share Joy?Yay I’m so glad you looked at the original article for clarification and inspiration. I agree, meals are a super effective way to do something life affirming every day. While I love the wide range of foods that are accessible to us regardless of season, I think keying into foods that are seasonably available is a great way to honor nature, biology, and the way of life that was lost for so many as people also lost the truth. This is how I feel as well.Thanks to a suggestion from /u/GratefulWifean… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/09/17 12:38 AM |
| 2 | How Do You Create And Share Joy?Doing this marks time in an active way, anchoring you in time and connecting you through time to both your past self, and a community that does this with you. Exactly! When you have this connection you feel both grounded and more fulfilled. Being part of something, even if it’s a recent invention, helps give a sense of meaning to everything. By elevating a meal, turning it into a tradition, we are elevating ourselves. Completely agree with your point about intention transforming moments. This id… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/09/17 12:27 AM |
| 1 | How Do You Create And Share Joy?Wow your rituals are awesome! What a lovely way to bring up children, they will treasure these memories forever. You’ll totally have to share more about autumn specific traditions and tips when we put up the megathreads :) Can I ask what films you watch during Easter? I like The 10 Commandments and this other film called Lamb Of God, no idea how popular or well known that last one is. We should all constantly be celebrating as far as I'm concerned!! Absolutely!! So glad you enjoy this topic and … | /r/RedPillWives | 29/09/17 12:15 AM |
| 1 | How Do You Create And Share Joy?Every Christmas I put $100 down at the coffee ahop with a $20 tip and buy whoever comes after me coffee until the $80 runs out. That is amazing! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/09/17 12:11 AM |
| 2 | How Do You Create And Share Joy?It's really important to me to create a happy life for our family and I know that requires mindfulness and effort on a daily basis. Yes!!! Actually I want to just quote your whole comment, it is perfect! Completely agree with everything you’ve said and love how you’ve phrased it. What stands out to me the most: Leading a joyful life begins with having a positive attitude and a gentle spirit in my opinion. Being grateful, mindful, and thoughtful help contribute to my personal happiness, which put… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/09/17 12:11 AM |
| 2 | How Do You Create And Share Joy?Yes I agree, rituals and traditions - matter how small - really help strengthen bonds! Your volunteering position sounds like so much fun, what a great way to contribute and make this season special for the children (and families in general). Writing down family recipes is such a great idea! Such a lovely way to honor the memory of your relatives and give future generations something to remember you by. ] So for bonfire night, we'll have cinder toffee and winter vegetable soup, Christmas I'm goi… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/09/17 12:04 AM |
| 1 | How Do You Create And Share Joy?Thanksgiving is what M loves the most too! Please share your ideas with the sub when the megathreads go up :) | /r/RedPillWives | 28/09/17 11:42 PM |
| 3 | How Do You Create And Share Joy?Omg thank you so much!! I had no idea this was a thing and it is amazing! I want to spend time going to farmer's markets and getting to know local farmers but it's not something I have time for right now (hopefully by Spring 2018!). This is literally the perfect solution!! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/09/17 09:52 PM |
| 2 | I love my life and "The Vintage Housekeepers Circle"Thank you so much for the recommendation I am going to pick up the book ASAP :) | /r/RedPillWives | 28/09/17 04:30 PM |
| 6 | How Do You Create And Share Joy?Like I said in my other post, I loved finding "The Right Needs Joy" because it put to words so many ideas I'd been turning over in my head. Growing up it was very easy to participate in "reality affirming" traditions and rituals. We visited museums, hosted events, attended events and performances, went camping, celebrated the holidays to the max, and more. As a homemaker, I'm now in charge of planning and implementing these activities I used to mostly just participate in. Over the past few years… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/09/17 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Instinctual Types: Social, Sexual, and SecureThank you so much for these resources! I took a look at them all and here are my thoughts: The ordering of the instincts makes sense but the generalisations about synflow vs conflow I just can’t agree with. The conflow descriptions are all so negative and so yang, and this just doesn’t line up with my experiences and observations. I’m not sure if there is biased involved in whoever is writing these descriptions or what. I personally feel like I am about harmony, nurturing the good, and avoiding … | /r/RedPillWives | 27/09/17 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Why Can't Male Sacrifice Be Acknowledged?Agreed it doesn't seem like things will just turn around on their own. I don't want to feel like a monster for stating a fact, but there it is. So terrible that this is the norm! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/17 02:31 AM |
| 1 | The purpose of higher educationIf there was an official position it would definitely be pro flirting, but RPW is comprised of so many different types of women so each one will have their own preferences and values. I think "too much" depends on the context. What may be appropriate at a party could seem inappropriate at a restaurant. I think if you focus on developing rapport via banter as your first step, things will come easier to you over time. There's nothing wrong with teasing as long as it isn't cruel or obnoxious. What … | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/17 02:30 AM |
| 1 | The purpose of higher educationYes this all makes sense based on what you shared and I do hope you gain some confidence and branch out a bit more :) And yes I did mean that declining/rejecting men could indicate that you were prudish. Another possibility I had in mind was that your standards were too high or unrealistic, but I'm glad you've confirmed the former. It's much easier to fix imo! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/17 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Best way to respond to criticism?Can you give us more detail on the type of things he is criticizing you about? Can you also let us know his personality and more information about your relationship so we can give more specific advice? I don't think having a "go to" phrase makes sense, you should respond to criticism genuinely. Your current default response sounds really passive aggressive. You are spot on that it doesn't truly acknowledge him, accept responsibility, or show willingness to improve. Without knowing further detail… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/09/17 07:19 PM |
| 4 | Instinctual Types: Social, Sexual, and SecureI am sx/so and M is sx/sp! I definitely agree that instinct stackings play a big role in compatibility, but I don’t know if one system can be raised above any other, the big ones all address important components that are connected but distinct. This theory is perfect for RPW because it gives us a new way to look at human nature and relationship dynamics. We can use this to discover things about ourselves, view our strengths and weaknesses from a new perspective, and understand what really motiva… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/09/17 11:44 AM |
| 2 | The purpose of higher educationPart II (ran out of characters lol): I made the case that acting as if you were sexually or romantically interested in a random waiter is not going to make you feel better about yourself or your sexuality, but is rather going to inflate your ability to esteem them. Waiters, cashiers, etc are examples of low stakes situations where you can try out a side of yourself that you have previously not explored. If she meets an eligible man while out and about one day, without any experience, she might i… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/09/17 02:42 PM |
| 2 | The purpose of higher educationLet’s define practice so we’re on the same page, because I really don’t feel like you understand what I’m saying. The actual application or use of an idea, belief, or method as opposed to theories about such application or use. Repeated exercise in or performance of an activity or skill so as to acquire or maintain proficiency in it. Now to respond in order to your comment: I don’t believe that you have to be an adult to be mentally healthy. You are capable of showing abnormal or well adjusted b… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/09/17 02:42 PM |
| 2 | The purpose of higher educationNow I really do not see the role of practice there. Does one need to practice not lying, not falsifying her experience, or being genuinely curious of the other person's view? Is that really a skill to learn rather than the default approach of a mentally healthy person? Yes. Most people “practice” this on a daily basis in the form of everyday interactions. When you are a child and you are caught in a lie by your parents, you are taught a lesson and then from there most intentionally try to be hon… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/09/17 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Why Can't Male Sacrifice Be Acknowledged?Why are you acting like I'm a supporter of Islam? The West actually had a great solution to both its own barbarism and the evilness of Islam - Catholicism and many of the beliefs, norms, and practices we consider traditional today. An emphasis on democracy, feminism, and other leftist values is actually enabling Islam to wreak havoc on the west. The men have free reign in several European countries and authorities punish their own citizens for speaking out. People are so concerned with equality … | /r/RedPillWives | 23/09/17 06:30 PM |
| 7 | Instinctual Types: Social, Sexual, and SecureYAY! Commenting to let you know that I've read this. I'm going to take some time to work on my response. Love all the resources you linked + looking at the forum one right now. Hopefully I'll get this to you tonight but I have A LOT on my mind after reading this so just keep an eye out for my comment this weekend. It'll be another essay haha. This is so going in the wiki <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 23/09/17 12:06 AM |
| 3 | The purpose of higher educationFor the record I never said that anyone had to go to a party to learn how to interact with men, I said that it is an excellent way to do so and then immediately said that there are plenty of other great ways to meet men. You quoted me directly and then twisted my words, or maybe you misunderstood, but you definitely did a lot of assuming because you’re arguing against a lot of things that were not part of my comment. Chronological thoughts in response to your message: How does one learn to succe… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/17 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Why Can't Male Sacrifice Be Acknowledged?European and American men absolutely made decisions while considering what was best for their family, community and country over the centuries. Viewing things in terms of men vs women is counter productive. Because humans are selfish by nature, systems that encourage and reward cooperation between the genders will lead to both sides using their strengths to contribute in positive ways. When monogamy is rewarded, and men get something of value from investing in their wives and children, they make… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/17 07:42 PM |
| 10 | [NSFW] Well duh!LOL so true, love it! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/17 04:41 PM |
| 3 | How is YOUR Superiority Complex?Not a fan of the website design but the post itself is a classic RPW message! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/17 02:09 PM |
| 5 | Checking In :)Welcome back and congratulations! Can you share a bit about what you were struggling with before and which RPW ideas and habits helped? :) | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/17 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Why Can't Male Sacrifice Be Acknowledged?Both men and women have flaws, yes. I personally believe that men and women are equal in that God loves everyone and everyone has a chance to get into heaven, but in terms of actual value on earth I think everyone earns (or doesn't earn) that themselves based on who they are and what they do with their life. Everyone is different, everyone brings something unique to the table, we should recognise that and allow people to have the freedom to really thrive. I do not personally believe that voting … | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/17 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Why Can't Male Sacrifice Be Acknowledged?Love this explanation! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/17 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Why Can't Male Sacrifice Be Acknowledged?FYI: pressed send too soon and edited my post! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/17 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Why Can't Male Sacrifice Be Acknowledged?Really enjoying your contributions, this comment in particular has given me something to think about. Specifically the part about not shaming people who live in healthy poverty. I agree with you but never put words to it, I just know I've found myself wondering where all the respectable working class and proles went from before the 1960s. Sure they still exist but they aren't portrayed in most shows and movies and they definitely aren't shown as a realistic option for a happy life. The measure o… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/17 02:46 AM |
| 5 | The purpose of higher educationI just thought of another question: are you in America? Based on what you've shared so far, I think the full college experience is something you should do. You are 17, you want to have financial independence and retire early yes, but you have a long time to work toward that goal. Enjoy the present and make the most of it. Work part time and save money if you need to but understand that there are no guarantees in life. Not to be morbid but you might not even get to enjoy the money you sacrificed … | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/17 02:34 AM |
| 2 | The purpose of higher educationExcellent questions! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/17 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Why Can't Male Sacrifice Be Acknowledged?Ooh I like your exceptions for 25, they definitely encourage people to have a stake in the country. I also agree with you about the state getting out of marriage entirely! It really doesn't seem possible given how intertwined everything is but yes in an ideal situation it would return to the religious/private sector. I do like the idea of legal benefits to heterosexual couples in order to promote nuclear families but as we see it is very easy for this to be taken advantage of. I'm very pro commu… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/17 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Organising Christmas in September: Tips?I plan a lot too which is why I had to switch to a bullet journal, I write too much and too large for the planners I was using haha I'm in an A4 now and I just learned that there is an A4+ so that's what I'm getting for 2018! Bing Crosby is awesome too! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/17 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Why Can't Male Sacrifice Be Acknowledged?I agree it's so important!! This is exactly what I had in mind when I read that part of the post and I hope we can all talk more about this across the sub. So great that you're starting a book club, I want to join a local one myself. We tried to do a book club a few times here on RPW but no one ever participated haha keep me posted on how your club forming experience goes :) | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/17 02:11 AM |
| 2 | The purpose of higher educationCool another question: what does "monk mode" mean to you? What are you actually doing to make yourself a better, more appealing woman? | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/17 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Scented Candles and Home FragrancesFor Mrs. Meyer's I like the geranium scent and the lavender products as well! The geranium is pretty light and gender neutral imo, lavender is definitely stronger, might irritate someone sensitive. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/17 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Scented Candles and Home FragrancesWonderful post and so well timed! I'm going to try out your Fall and Winter suggestions asap, trying to really make it feel like autumn even though it's still very summer-like in my part of TX. I really like your point about keeping the scent preferences of your man in mind. It's very easy to get carried away with ideas about creating the perfect house that lives up to your fantasies. But if certain scents irritate or annoy your man, you have to adjust! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/17 08:10 PM |
| 3 | The purpose of higher educationThere isn't an official RP answer to this question so please don't take anyone's advice as law. We don't know the full details regarding your situation and will never be able to. This is a huge decisions and it's great that you're getting different perspectives! A few questions you should answer to help out those who want to give advice: How much education do your parents have? What is the average level of education in your immediate and extended family? Do your parents have a clear preference r… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/17 08:07 PM |
| 2 | The Right Needs JoyWe are completely on the same page! I look forward to talking about this more with you, preserving and even creating traditions is essential to feeling fulfilled. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/17 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Organising Christmas in September: Tips?I use a bujo for everyday planning but I like Google docs for this sort of thing because you can include links and images as well as change up the order/layout easily. I'll definitely be checking Spotify and Amazon music as well they both have some great pre made playlists. I also recommend Elvis' Christmas music if you don't already listen to it! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/17 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Organising Christmas in September: Tips?Same!! I'm making a commitment now to avoid the last minute scramble this year :) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/17 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Why Can't Male Sacrifice Be Acknowledged?Yes love her! I agree women still have soft power, we just don't have the same systems in place where soft power can be fully used without upsetting the balance of male/female dynamics. Have you read this post yet? Totally ties into what you're saying about Google exercising its power on behalf of women. I don't know much about Judge Judy but she seems like a great woman. If I were to brainstorm some conditions for voting I feel like it should be restricted to all tax paying, law abiding citizen… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/17 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Why Can't Male Sacrifice Be Acknowledged?I think it's important that in public conversation the reality of male sacrifice can be acknowledged by both genders. To me, this is different than every man making a big deal about all of the work he does as an individual and expecting his woman to do the same at all times. When we can't appreciate what men do as a whole and in an abstract sense, it's a problem. The struggles that women in general go through are discussed seriously on a national level and women receive praise in all directions … | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/17 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Organising Christmas in September: Tips?Ooh I'm totally going to do trial runs of recipes now! Will be cooking a lot more this year for both Thanksgiving and Christmas and I'd hate to burn/mess up/not like a dish. Thank you for that idea :) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/17 01:41 PM |
| 6 | Why Can't Male Sacrifice Be Acknowledged?Agreed, although I take a step further and think that women shouldn't have ever been allowed to vote! Women had soft power which allowed them to influence the community and family, and they could form groups to influence politics in general as well. Now the female sphere isn't really in existence anymore (due to a lot of things but especially feminism) and women can't properly channel their power and drive without first being smart enough and creative enough to figure out how to do this in our c… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/17 01:09 PM |
| 3 | The Right Needs JoyAgreed! The emphasis on concrete, tangible, intentional actions that bring people together is just wonderful. Will totally do another post in the future where we can all share tips and stories related to cultivating joy! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/09/17 02:06 PM |
| 1 | The Right Needs JoyYes I agree everyone should be focusing on bringing joy into their lives and creating special moments with family, friends, and the community. People can have differing political and social opinions and still be friends, but media and popular culture is polarizing the way we see each other. Totally and it really sucks. A few of shows that I really liked decided to get blatantly leftist and hostile towards non leftists and it's so off putting. The writers don't seem to realise that people with di… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/09/17 02:05 PM |
| 8 | Organising Christmas in September: Tips?Awesome post I look forward to the discussion! I just started a google doc for holiday planning and I'll probably make a pinterest board as well to collect ideas. I don't have any tips off the top of my head but I'd add "outfits" to the list of things to plan, as well as scheduling any beauty related services you might need so that you look your best for the holidays! If I think of anything I'll comment again :) Edit: Music! Not sure if you need to buy cds or songs, or find old ones, or make a p… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/09/17 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Random RP ThoughtsLove this it is so true! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/09/17 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Why Frumpy Makes You GrumpyI was so happy to find this post on Pinterest! A lot of the relationship advice articles shared there are clickbait or just obvious. While she isn't saying anything groundbreaking she approached the subject really well and her emphasis on respecting husbands is definitely not something you see in most blogs today. Being my best looking self is really important to my mental well being. Then I know I will be able to handle any situation and generally being the best me rolls over into other areas o… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/09/17 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Why Frumpy Makes You GrumpySo many women let themselves go after having children and it leads to decreased attraction within their marriage (or worse). It's wonderful that you're still prioritising your appearance, I'm sure your husband and children really appreciate it too. Do you notice a difference in mood or productivity when you don't take the time to look nice? | /r/RedPillWives | 20/09/17 12:20 PM |
| 3 | Why Frumpy Makes You GrumpyYou are welcome!! I know it's not entirely the same but when I was on bed rest from my concussion it wasn't always easy to look good daily or be a GOFL, but when I did make the effort it was somehow easier to be a fun and supportive. I'm so excited for your new adventures as a mom :D looking forward to hearing great things as time goes on <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/17 01:09 AM |
| 4 | Why Frumpy Makes You GrumpyOmg congratulations!!! It's nice to have a reminder that putting in just a tiny amount of effort even when we don't feel like it is worth it. If I have a sick or off day, enjoying how I look in the mirror can have a huge impact on my mood. So glad you enjoyed the post :) | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/17 01:06 AM |
| 2 | The Right Needs JoyAt the moment, the first thing that comes to my mind is something we often talk about here, when people try to associate RPW with an actual social movement. It's not. We are a collection of individuals that do what we need to, and enjoy the company of others that share our values. Yes that came to mind as well and it’s why I shared the post with the community. I think the message is perfect for our sub because it focuses on living our values with the ones we love, not political agitation. I’m ho… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/09/17 03:42 AM |
| 2 | The Right Needs JoySo glad you enjoyed it! He does talk about the lack of joy on the left but the source of joylessness is different on the right and left and I felt like focusing on why the left is joyless is just more of the same of what we do here on RPW. I was really struck by the author urging people to embrace "reality" and I love that. I don't see enough of that. Yes! It is such an important message. Intentional living, authentic connection, actually living your values instead of just talking about it. It's… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/09/17 03:16 AM |
| 10 | What Makes a Woman Boring AND How Not to be BoringReposting because it's a great idea and deserves more discussion! I absolutely love this post, she says so many great things that I've been thinking about but didn't have the time to flesh out fully. My favourite part is the idea that people who are nice are nice because that is the only way they can get what they want. When you are in a lower position relative to others, you have to find different ways to motivate people to do what you want. They are not trying to impress you, you have no lever… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/08/17 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Stop Being So AfraidThank you! It's a great post about masculinity so definitely give it a read when you can :) | /r/RedPillWives | 26/08/17 12:32 PM |
| 7 | Stop Being So AfraidCompletely unrelated but I will probably be away from Reddit for a week, it all depends on how bad the hurricane is. We're fully prepped and hoping for the best but I do expect that we'll lose internet and electricity. Will miss you all <3 Looking forward to discussing this phenomenal post with everyone (or reading the conversation when I return)! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/08/17 03:14 AM |
| 1 | The Balance MythAgreed with everything you just said :) | /r/RedPillWives | 24/08/17 02:34 AM |
| 3 | The Balance MythThere is a lack of long term planning with young adults today. Yes! And the only planning that does happen is centered around career paths and bucket list type things like "see the olympics live" or "ride an elephant in India". People aren't planning for families and their day to day future lifestyle. People don't even seem to understand that these things should be planned for. It's assumed that those things somehow just happen. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/08/17 02:32 AM |
| 3 | The Balance MythI enjoyed her post as an exploration on the subject and don't mind that she didn't give more specific steps. But you're right there should be more information out there for women who do want to know everything you're asking. It's not easy for women to find realistic pathways to a more traditional lifestyle and there aren't as many incentives for them to even try. At least in metro areas, I don't think we can just turn back the clock to a time when men worked and women stayed home running the hou… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/08/17 02:30 AM |
| 3 | The Puzzle of Monogamous MarriageAwesome discussion points! I share this out of interest in the subject, but also wonder how it relates to testosterone decline; I definitely think the decline in testosterone as well as role models for masculinity is evident in the modern SMP even though a lot of the things identified in the quote you selected are also occurring. Many "high status" options for most men today are way feminized compared to even 20 years ago. Even the once cool black community is not immune, at all income levels. S… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/08/17 06:33 AM |
| 5 | The Puzzle of Monogamous MarriageAccidentally pressed "send" too early here are the rest of my thoughts! cultural group selection should act most directly on social norms that fortify monogamous marriage rather than directly on those that increase gender equality. Very interesting! I've heard people argue that monogamy leads to gender equality specifically because it's progress and evolution. As if it's the more superior and authentic side of humanity that can only be developed once a culture is advanced enough. Co-wife conflic… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/08/17 06:09 AM |
| 6 | The Puzzle of Monogamous MarriageThis is great! Thank you so much for sharing this and sorry for my delayed comment. I really enjoyed reading this and just wrote out my thoughts as I was reading: I guess I knew this in the back of my mind but I didn't truly realise how recent monogamous marriage is for most of the world (1963 for Nepal??). I definitely agree with their hypothesis and the benefits of monogamous marriage that they outline. We predict that imposing monogamous marriage reduces male reproductive competition and supp… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/08/17 05:54 AM |
| 3 | Supportive Relationships Linked To Willingness To Pursue OpportunitiesMutual support to pursue our goals is the best way to trust each other but also to maintain clear communication about what we want in life. But it also requires compatibility in said goals... Absolutely! Love how you phrased this. it also left me wondering about all the people who will look at this to find a sciencey reason of why their marriage is holding them back and then feel entitled to radically change their life path out of boredom/a mid-life crisis. Yes! And it could also be used for wom… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/17 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Supportive Relationships Linked To Willingness To Pursue OpportunitiesLol that is such a good point! Why was this something they felt to test?? At least we have the proof now hahah | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/17 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Supportive Relationships Linked To Willingness To Pursue OpportunitiesUnfortunately "common sense" isn't actually very common! The study is in line with what we discuss on the subreddit so the conclusion won't be unfamiliar. But plenty of women in the world struggle with being a supportive spouse, including some newer members of this sub. It's nice to have a reminder of all the good that you can do for someone else. Being a good partner isn't just about making each other happy in the short term - our actions will have a positive impact on our SO's performance in m… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/17 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Will Technology Soon Take Over The Primary Female Role?It really does seem to be headed this way :( In addition to the homemaking aspect of women, men can easily have their sex needs satisfied via porn, and in other countries (not sure about the US) there are apps that pretend to be your girlfriend. This could be appealing for the lowest on the male hierarchy. Realistic sex bots will probably have wider appeal. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/08/17 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts On Replacing Traditional Marriage In A Post-Scarcity Society - Let's Discuss The Pros And Cons Of His Ideas!Right?! :( | /r/RedPillWives | 06/08/17 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts On Replacing Traditional Marriage In A Post-Scarcity Society - Let's Discuss The Pros And Cons Of His Ideas!Knowing this author, having children would definitely be promoted if not expected in this theoretical society. The certainty that so many men and women feel today against having children is not ideal for the future success of Western culture. It is more often than not a result of feminism, leftist ideas, and/or the appeal and ease of modernity. Without children, I'm not really sure what will commit a non religious man to a woman (and vice versa) since marriage today is about individual happiness… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/17 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts On Replacing Traditional Marriage In A Post-Scarcity Society - Let's Discuss The Pros And Cons Of His Ideas!For the record I don’t agree with his theory, I just wanted us to discuss it. Just wanted that to be clear! I think he misunderstands evolutionary pressures slightly- evolutionary drives result from selective pressure, and the arguments he makes regarding multiple children from varied partners for either sex only work if there was a selective environment for the instincts prior to this situation. If the survival benefit of a behaviour for your genes was never present in the past, you are unlikel… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/17 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts On Replacing Traditional Marriage In A Post-Scarcity Society - Let's Discuss The Pros And Cons Of His Ideas!Okay so first I found something funny! I know it’s a joke but I’m on board hahaha I often think about what's the ideal setup for a man today, and I still conclude it's marriage with casual sex on the side. This obviously stirs a lot of bad feelings on young people Yes I agree with you, on both parts. I am a fan of the actual traditional model, where there is a season for everything. In his teens and early 20s a man can focus on himself while having fun short term relationships/flings/NSA as he l… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/17 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts On Replacing Traditional Marriage In A Post-Scarcity Society - Let's Discuss The Pros And Cons Of His Ideas!I didn't expect anyone here to want this system, or even agree with the theory (I don't!) but I was hoping we could discuss it since it talks about a lot of things we focus on, and he brings up valid points against modern marriage that don't get much focus due to the nature of the sub. RPW is pro marraige, today's culture really isn't, including men who would otherwise have been interested in an RP/W dynamic. Like I said in my comment, I wanted women to look past their relationships and preferen… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/17 06:45 PM |
| 2 | How Did I Become the Last Single Person in My Friend Group?Live a interesting & strange life with a partner so you can have those bonding experiences when you are older. I don't buy this idea of needing to be single to have adventures or stories. There is this societal and mental block that equates fun time with single hood and homeliness as a shackle of family life. It's a narrative that persists for some reason but being in a relationship doesn't automatically mean anything outside of Netflix and chill goes out the window. Yes! This is such a great po… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/08/17 08:32 PM |
| 2 | How Did I Become the Last Single Person in My Friend Group?Great catch! I wonder if she included that to seem more relate-able and/or not loose her feminist cred by admitting more vulnerability and romantic aspirations? | /r/RedPillWives | 03/08/17 08:29 PM |
| 3 | How Did I Become the Last Single Person in My Friend Group?I was just coming to comment about the Sex And The City episode!! I feel bad for her and women like her who are genuinely trying to live life in the best way but just going about it incorrectly (for their goals). I'm glad something like this was published but I fear that it will only make women at this stage of life feel comforted and accepted. Hopefully girls in their late teens and throughout their 20s take note and make any changes necessary! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/08/17 08:26 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts On Replacing Traditional Marriage In A Post-Scarcity Society - Let's Discuss The Pros And Cons Of His Ideas!I really liked this post! He gave an in depth overview of the current issues with modern marriage. There isn't much incentive for men or women to get married or stay committed within the marriage. His proposed solutions to this issue are definitely food for thought. Most women here are married or at the very least pro traditional marriage, so I understand that it may be hard to look past our own relationships and consider the ideas presented more objectively. But hopefully we can have a good dis… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/08/17 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Do any of you ever feel scared of your husbands?I do want to make it clear that since this is your husband, you should handle this in a way that demonstrates your love and trust. Instead of looking at your initial conversation as a confrontation, as "him vs you", see it as "the two of you vs the problem". Give him a chance to share his side and don't assume that you know what he is thinking or what his motivations are. We have no way of knowing if the explanations you're brainstorming in this thread are accurate. You feel afraid and uncomfort… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/08/17 04:49 AM |
| 5 | National Girlfriend Day Warm and Fuzzy ThreadSo grateful for all the lovely ladies who post and comment on this sub! Lurkers: please jump in on any post that interests you. We love new faces! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/08/17 03:09 AM |
| 2 | National Girlfriend Day Warm and Fuzzy ThreadOmg so glad you finally decided to participate! I've loved seeing you around and getting to know you. Thank you for your kind words :) | /r/RedPillWives | 02/08/17 03:08 AM |
| 2 | National Girlfriend Day Warm and Fuzzy ThreadAww! Congratulations again!! What a great post idea, I was confused at first because I didn't realise you meant female friends and not girlfriend/boyfriend haha There are so many amazing women on this sub and it's fun to celebrate that for sure :) | /r/RedPillWives | 02/08/17 03:08 AM |
| 5 | Do any of you ever feel scared of your husbands?We approved the post regardless because it could be a good exercise and/or fun for users to try to help even if it is a troll :) | /r/RedPillWives | 02/08/17 03:06 AM |
| 4 | Do any of you ever feel scared of your husbands?I don't think it's all in your head! I asked questions so that I and others reading could give you advice that actually suits your situation. Like /u/PhantomDream09 said we don't want any woman in an abusive relationship and encourage couples to seek professional help when things get drastic. I personally feel like you should try speaking with your husband first, not reporting him or escalating in some other way. Give him a chance to explain or even realise that he is doing something that brings… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/08/17 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Do any of you ever feel scared of your husbands?I'm confused what would you be reporting? Has anything changed in either of your lives that would lead to this new sexual interest? Why is he closing off now, what is going on outside of the bedroom? Is he stressed out at work? Did someone he values die? We need more information here. And you haven't tried to express your fears to him at all? Is it possible that he is trying to tap into something and experiment and just assumed you'd be on board? Why are you hesitant to open a conversation on th… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/08/17 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Female Nature And Magic/SpiritualityI think most women crave drama and spirituality is another outlet for that. Also, women have a need to feel special, to feel unique and, to feel powerful. Spirituality can sate that craving as well. I think men can find these things is what they do more than how they feel so they can depend more on themselves rather than spirituality. Yes, yes, and yes! Spiritual activities definitely give an emotional (and sometimes literal) high and they tap into something you really can’t access through non s… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/17 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Female Nature And Magic/SpiritualityI agree the idea that women are more spiritual and open to magic is a very easy to grasp generalisation. I was very intrigued by the way the author connected solipsism and lack of agency to this and I’m so glad that everyone is having fun discussing the topic! I think feminism, as it is today in continued godlessness of Marxism, exchanged this magical outlook and can't conceive happiness anymore. I definitely agree with this. I do think there is an element of what the author describes but it’s h… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/17 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Why I Finally Accepted Being An "Intimidating" WomanLol yes!! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/17 07:55 PM |
| 4 | Can't stop thinking about doing the business with my best friend, he's married with kids, I'm engaged. Please help me get these thoughts out of my head!In addition to my other comment, I'd like to add that I no longer think that the OPs situation is as dramatic as people are assuming. I think she needs to give us more information whenever she responds because I think we've assumed a lot of things that aren't there in the OP. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/17 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Can't stop thinking about doing the business with my best friend, he's married with kids, I'm engaged. Please help me get these thoughts out of my head!Okay so I reread the OP in order to quote where I got my impression, and I will admit that now I'm not seeing whatever I saw yesterday. Either I misinterpreted yesterday or I was biased after reading all the replies. Because even though I disagree that she should leave him, maybe their sense of alarm influenced how I perceived the situation anyways? Going to edit comments now :) | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/17 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Can't stop thinking about doing the business with my best friend, he's married with kids, I'm engaged. Please help me get these thoughts out of my head!Right so what you're describing is more like what /u/Littleknownfacts was talking about - harmless and natural. The OP seems to be actively considering branchswining so it's a bit more serious. That way my point in my first response to you. I fully agree with what you're saying here and I hope the OP listens! Edit: no longer think the OP is considering branchswinging | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/17 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Can't stop thinking about doing the business with my best friend, he's married with kids, I'm engaged. Please help me get these thoughts out of my head!I was so surprised to see everyone telling her to leave her fiance over this! Still working my way through the comments to reign things in. Hopefully the OP returns soon! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/17 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Can't stop thinking about doing the business with my best friend, he's married with kids, I'm engaged. Please help me get these thoughts out of my head!I agree with you except for the fact that she seems to be seriously considering leaving her man and her constant comparisons of her fiance to this other guy. If it were only fantasies I don't think it'd be an issue at all. Appreciate your SO more, he doesn't need to out alpha the whole world, just make sure you know where he stands with you. If he's not taking charge in the way you would like, just double check that your not the one standing in his way. Yes!! Edit: Reread the OP with fresh eyes,… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/17 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Can't stop thinking about doing the business with my best friend, he's married with kids, I'm engaged. Please help me get these thoughts out of my head!Great advice! Hopefully she will respond to you... | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/17 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Can't stop thinking about doing the business with my best friend, he's married with kids, I'm engaged. Please help me get these thoughts out of my head!Thoughts on my comment here? | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/17 07:32 PM |
| 5 | Can't stop thinking about doing the business with my best friend, he's married with kids, I'm engaged. Please help me get these thoughts out of my head!We have no idea what she looks like, her income, her employment status, her transportation situation, her personality and wife skills, etc. If she leaves this man, how long will it take for her to meet someone new? How long until she is engaged again? Is it really worth it to risk all of that or should she put in some effort to get over this other man and value her fiance? Women blow things out of proportion all the time, this may feel overwhelming to her now but in a few weeks? She has to think… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/17 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Can't stop thinking about doing the business with my best friend, he's married with kids, I'm engaged. Please help me get these thoughts out of my head!I don't think we have enough information at all to say whether or not she should leave but I agree with your suggestions on how she can turn things around within the relationship. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/17 07:29 PM |
| 5 | Can't stop thinking about doing the business with my best friend, he's married with kids, I'm engaged. Please help me get these thoughts out of my head!Are you fantasizing about men that you interact with, find attractive, and could possibly be intimate with if either one of you made a move? Are you fantasizing about anything that could realistically happen with a specific person while you are married? Are you comparing your husband to the/these man/men that you fantasize about and feeling like he is inferior? Is how your husband would react the only thing holding you back from acting on your fantasies? You didn't give much information so I hav… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/07/17 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Can't stop thinking about doing the business with my best friend, he's married with kids, I'm engaged. Please help me get these thoughts out of my head!I would say, if you're making any attempt to isolate you and this man together, the only reason you haven't cheated is because he hasn't made the move to do it when you set him up for success Great point! Hopefully she does more reading like you're suggesting. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/07/17 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Karen Straughan and Bettina Arndt Talk About How Feminism Screwed SexThis was very interesting! They hit on so many important subjects and it's cool that they just dove into the sexual subjects and spoke freely but without promoting leftism at the same time. I'm glad they brought up: Women being ungrateful for the safety that is only possible because of male achievement and effort. Love how she contrasted with how squirrels constantly have to check that there are no predators. We really do have the luxury of feeling secure as we go about our everyday lives. Women… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/07/17 07:44 AM |
| 4 | Study Says Most Men Could Be Infertile By 2060This is so interesting! Going to read everything linked and comment later today once I know more :) | /r/RedPillWives | 31/07/17 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Male Archetypes!I feel like both Caveman alphas and renegades are more removed from the male hierarchy (although not outcasts or losers) but cavemen are more primal and aggressive (Warriors) whereas renegades are more cerebral (Magicians). This is just a mental distinction I've been operating under, would love to get feedback. But I do think it is possible to be both, you're just going to lean one way a bit more. Nothing he does is without careful consideration of all aspects to mitigate any damage thrust his w… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/07/17 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Male Archetypes!Sometimes people ask him about me even if I'm standing closer to them. Like what's her name, has she done this that, it makes me feel mentally disabled? For now I am chalking it up to some trait of his rather than me coming off as stupid. A lot of people just talk to the man instead of the woman. It's custom and considered polite (at least traditionally). I wouldn't think too much about this one :) | /r/RedPillWives | 28/07/17 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Male Archetypes!Love that you are connecting this to MBTI!! And I agree there needs to be more MBTI + relationships discussion on the sub, there is so much we can all learn and share. I think part of our role as partners is to respect our man's "type" and nuture him as he is. I think that almost any man who is happy in his relationship and happy in himself would fall in the centre range of one of these archetypes, and we can play a part in allowing his own brand of strength and masculinity to show. I think a re… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/07/17 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Male Archetypes!Definitely, many of the men in my life embody the King archetype though I think that comes with age and experience. I have a feeling that most men start from discovering the other archetypes first. I think becoming a good father or husband can help in solidifying the King archetype. Just a theory. Such great points and I agree. In Part II I link to an in depth review of the theory if you are interested. I don't remember it too well but I do think it discusses how a man develops each archetype th… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/07/17 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Male Archetypes!Awww I like Littlefinger, he doesn't seem like a "Nice Guy" to me at all! Is this because I haven't read the books? Agree with your other assessments and I think it's so great that a show like GOT exists to show a range of masculine personalities. This is something I was thinking about posting soon on RPW but I feel like by setting a fictional work in the past or past-inspired location, writers are more free in terms of what they can depict and even support in their stories. They are protected a… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/07/17 04:26 AM |
| 7 | Why I Finally Accepted Being An "Intimidating" WomanEverything you're saying is valid but I agree with /u/tintedlipbalm there is a specific type of woman that declares herself "intimidating" to avoid having to engage in honest self reflection and self improvement. She can be selfish, obnoxious, stubborn, rude, etc. and is not a good fit for an alpha man as is because she is unable to respect higher authority and defer in the way that type of man requires. Women who are naturally high dominance + have good character don't go around shouting about … | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Princeton’s new ‘men’s engagement manager’ to combat aggressive masculinity on campusI agree it's hard to come up with a response that isn't sarcastic! If this program is "successful" it's going to be standard at every school pretty soon. I can't believe parents are okay with their sons being treated like criminals. What is going to be the final straw? It's just so gross and stupid that an idea like this is taken seriously and implemented. Imagine the money that will be poured into programs like this - what a waste! | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Why I Finally Accepted Being An "Intimidating" WomanOneitus for their daughters that is the perfect description | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 05:25 AM |
| 5 | Why I Finally Accepted Being An "Intimidating" WomanI think it's her way of rationalising her situation and giving a way for other women to make peace with where they are in life. I feel like she wants to believe it is true, and mostly believes what she is writing, but publishing and hearing both praise and criticism definitely helps solidify the ideas for her. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 05:24 AM |
| 3 | Why I Finally Accepted Being An "Intimidating" WomanIt basically reads like: 1 - (unable to find a man) 2 - "Is it me who's the problem?" 3 - "No, men are the problem. I'm going to live my life and be unapolgetically me!" 4 - (still unable to find a man) LOL yes! | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 05:23 AM |
| 4 | Why I Finally Accepted Being An "Intimidating" WomanThank you for not waiting for Shit Post Saturday, this article definitely deserved it's own post! I agree re: fathers not wanting to hurt their daughter's feelings and promoting unattractive behaviors. While there is a biological drive to protect your daughters, is this also tied to the fact that men are too beta these days? Unable to stand up to or let down their little girls, or lay down the law when necessary? Loved all of your commentary! I'd like to add that her attempt at solving the probl… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 05:23 AM |
| 4 | Congratulations Iris!!!!!!!!Hooray! Congratulations and know that you are loved <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Male Archetypes!Thank you so much! When it comes to "ideal", the Jungian answer is that an ideal man has developed all 4 archetypes and his main one is The King. I don't think anyone on RPW would disagree with this in theory - that an ideal man has all 4 developed fully - but when it comes to which archetype should be #1, we'll all have different preferences. I don't think there is a right or wrong answer for that specific situation. Now when it comes to what makes a man "marriage material", most women will be … | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Male Archetypes!Looking forward to hearing more of your thoughts, especially the GOT comparisons! Based on what you've shared so far I totally see your H in the roles you just described, and as a patriarchal alpha :) | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 04:42 AM |
| 5 | Male Archetypes!I agree there is something attractive about all of the archetypes! According to Jung's theory, a man who is fully actualised will be in the centre category for all 4 and his dominant role would be the King. So it totally makes sense that we'd be drawn to something in each type. Really like your point about how both extremes of The Lover are popular in the mainstream. A lot of people would even only define "alpha" as a man who is in the Addicted Lover category. I think every archetype has a partn… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Being your SO's "possession"Exactly. I support women coming up with their own terms and analogies for describing their personal relationship, I just hesitate when those personal definitions are then elevated to the status of "perfect for describing all RPW relationships". | /r/RedPillWives | 24/07/17 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Being your SO's "possession"The vassal/King dynamic is too selfish and impersonal. They only do things for mutual benefit, and the scope of their relationship is limited to the specific benefits each provides. It's not just about the lack of love, the exchange of resources in traditional dynamics encompasses far more than what vassal/King implies. Even though analogies don't have to perfectly encapsulate every facet of the RPW dynamic, I don't think it even fits what it is trying to describe. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/07/17 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Being your SO's "possession"I just thing that in confusion, more extreme analogies are good at clarifying and distinguishing concepts. Once you've familiarized yourself with it, then you can refine your understanding. Yes but the analogies themselves have to be accurate. I think the drawbacks of the use of the term "vassal" outweigh any benefits, especially because we already have and use so many great analogies. When the sovereign bestows land upon his vassal, the vassal vows to return another service, that is military se… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/07/17 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Being your SO's "possession"That's great! I just want to be clear to any new women who might get confused about what RPW is and isn't about. Some women confuse us for a BDSM sub as an example, just want to prevent misunderstandings :) | /r/RedPillWives | 24/07/17 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Being your SO's "possession"For the record: RPW is pro marriage and it is not possible to be 100% RPW or in a traditional dynamic without being married. We are also pro motherhood but recognise that some women are not physically capable, and others legitimately are not suited for the role. Wife status comes first. We definitely don't support the anti marriage and anti children mentality of feminists. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/07/17 08:27 PM |
| 6 | Being your SO's "possession"RPW is absolutely pro marraige and we believe that the only way to have a 100% RPW/traditional dynamic and relationship is to be married. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/07/17 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Being your SO's "possession"I'd be interested in hearing your thoughts on my comments to /u/littlegoosegirl regarding "vassal". I don't think it's a fitting analogy at all even if there are a few parallels. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/07/17 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Being your SO's "possession"I liked where you were going with this until you said "vassal". Now maybe this really does describe your dynamic but to me it removes a lot of the mutual love that is part of RPW/traditional relationship dynamics. Queen and vassal are so totally different. Trad relationships as King + Queen? Yes absolutely, this is a good analogy. But vassal and King? First among servants? No. I just can't get behind it! This totally erases the fact that you are on his level in terms of value, that you have earn… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/07/17 08:21 PM |
| 4 | Being your SO's "possession"I think that the car analogy is just that, a good analogy. I do not wish to be treated as an object, whether it is in a positive or negative way. I don't want to be fixated on, put on a pedestal, or any of the "good" things that would go along with being treated as a possession. An RP relationship is not owner-object or master-subject. It makes sense that women connect with various analogies and metaphors that explain one aspect of their dynamic, but I hope no one is taking things literally. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/07/17 08:16 PM |
| 3 | New Study Finds That Women In Relationships With Attractive Men Are More Motivated To Diet And Seek A Slim FigureLol yes absolutely | /r/RedPillWives | 23/07/17 10:25 PM |
| 9 | Get Pregnant at 25 If You Want a High-Powered Career!While your 20's are the prime of your FERTILITY, it does not have to be the peak of your entire personal LIFE. Exactly! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/07/17 12:37 AM |
| 7 | Get Pregnant at 25 If You Want a High-Powered Career!This is a great article to read if you're new to RP ideas and haven't really questioned the mainstream feminist messages women receive daily about work, marriage, family, etc. I personally disagree with the idea that (the majority of) women should be in the male workforce. I do not think most women are suited for that sphere and believe our gifts are better used in the female workforce, strengthening communities, and supporting our families. So I can't get behind the idea that women should have … | /r/RedPillWives | 19/07/17 12:36 AM |
| 2 | The Daughters of Feminism Expose the LieIt's terrible how feminism encourages women to be selfish and self centered. All nurturing instincts are squashed and then you end up with this sort of situation :( | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/17 10:11 PM |
| 2 | The Daughters of Feminism Expose the LieYes exactly! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/17 10:04 PM |
| 2 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!Oh okay I was confused because of the "OP"! Marriage definitely gives a social boost but it absolutely is more than that and you're right so many women can't see it! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/17 10:01 PM |
| 2 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!Seriously! And yeah even though the author is married she sounds so bitter - her poor husband! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/17 10:00 PM |
| 2 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!Hahaha your summary is pretty accurate! And great take on the article!! "Are you this stupid?" definitely crossed my mind multiple times while reading her words. I'm bookmarking your site :) | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/17 10:00 PM |
| 2 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!Exactly! It's worrying to think about how lonely many women will be in a decade or two. Even if they do settle for someone, will that man make them happy? Will they be able to have kids? And many women will change their minds too late and miss the opportunity to get married at all :( | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/17 09:57 PM |
| 3 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!Hahaha sounds like she was trying to convince herself that she didn't make a mistake! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/17 09:53 PM |
| 3 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!You're so right! It's a shame that people would rather "level up" than develop meaningful relationships. They're not mutually exclusive of course but so many women are intentionally choosing education and employment over starting a family and it's sad. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/17 09:52 PM |
| 3 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!While I agree that being married is an acomplishment, getting married is the "easiest" step, if you're not concerned about the quality of the groom Right, but I hate how the author is trying to downplay how important the step itself is. I totally get what you're saying though :) I have a feeling that this desires stems from not being "oo-ed and aa-ed over" about her "real" acomplishments like being promoted or whatever. Funny enough, a good husband would likely/surely celebrate with her and make… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/17 09:49 PM |
| 2 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!Even lowering standards takes effort - you have to change what you're doing to find a man, and then maintain a relationship with that man well enough that he wants to marry you. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/17 09:45 PM |
| 3 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!I actually do think that marriage is an accomplishment regardless of who you marry, I talk about it more here! I completely agree with you that treating your husband like he is an accessory or an extra in the movie of your life is terrible. And it really does sound like that's all she's familiar with! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/17 09:43 PM |
| 8 | Have You Told Your Man He's Amazing Today?This is so lovely! I agree women should tell their men how amazing they are more often. Not just that they love them, or how much they appreciate them. But specifically that they are amazing. Knowing that your woman looks up to you and is in awe is an excellent confidence boost and motivator! P.S. You'd like this quote! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/17 12:17 AM |
| 2 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!Did you read the post that I linked, the title of my submission is the title of the article we're discussing! I am 100% against the idea that marriage isn't an accomplishment. In fact I think it's the #1 accomplishment a woman can achieve :) | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/17 12:14 AM |
| 3 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!Omg I didn't even think about the status aspect, that's a great point. While we don't have an obvious and rigid hierarchy as we did a century ago, married women still outrank unmarried women, and they especially outrank loose women and prostitutes. I like that you pointed out how this is also justifying their own choices, and rationalising their decision to get married to themselves and others. Since it's not in line with feminist ideas. So when you downgrade marriage and make it known that you … | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/17 12:13 AM |
| 2 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!Hahaha yes agreed it's so fulfilling when you prioritize your relationship! This post ties in pretty nicely with what /u/Irisandoleander submitted earlier about the lies of feminism. So good that you're not falling into the trap those women are! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/17 12:06 AM |
| 3 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!I think marriage itself is an accomplishment, you're going from an inferior status to a superior one. As an analogy, going from unemployed to employed is an accomplishment, even if your job is at Mc Donalds. The existence of better positions doesn't invalidate that being employed at all is an accomplishment. That being said I agree with the rest of your comment! Everything you listed is definitely more of a challenge for women. And women who think like the author probably do have a lower view of… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/17 12:04 AM |
| 11 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!You're spot on! Any way you look at it, marriage is an accomplishment. It means something that someone is willing to commit legally and publicly to being with you forever. The quality of the people within the marriage can certainly add to its value, but your point about the various scenarios and outcomes can't be ignored. That's like saying "You don't have to work hard to graduate with honors; you just need the professors to give you As." You only get a willing partner if you work at your appear… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/17 12:00 AM |
| 8 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!Right exactly! And lol re: her husband. I'm pretty sure the author would be offended if her husband told her and everyone else in the world, that getting married to her was not an accomplishment, and he values his 4 year degree more! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/17 11:54 PM |
| 8 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!Exactly! Isn't it funny how feminists complain about female stereotypes and the need for female unity, but they are always turning things into competitions and encouraging an us vs them mentality? If you're truly about equality why can't you accept that some women want to rank marriage as #1 and others don't? Why does society as a whole need to change so that the norms revolve around the minority of women that value degrees and careers over family? Now I personally do not claim to be about equal… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/17 07:20 PM |
| 12 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!Everything you've said is great! I especially like your point at the end: Thus, "true" success means "attainable" success in this case. It's not an achievement because it appears too "random", or even too unbelievable, to a woman who has no idea how to go about marrying a man who would put even the most glorious education or top-tier job to shame. In her eyes it just doesn't happen. Or, if it does, it's so unlikely to happen to her that she can't stand someone else having what she never can. Thi… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/17 07:15 PM |
| 4 | The Daughters of Feminism Expose the LieIt's so sad to see the negative impact feminism is having on women who truly believe in and try to live by its principles. There are so many well meaning women who are being tricked into wasting their most fertile years. Life doesn't have to end when you get married and settle down, it's what you make of it. But there's this false dichotomy where you can be free and successful and travel a lot or you can be stuck at home with the kids with no power or joy. This just isn't the case and it is terr… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/17 07:04 PM |
| 15 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!It's not surprising that something like this would get published today, but it's still concerning and I thought we could talk about it! So obviously she has a terrible understanding of history and women's roles in the West in the past. But she is right that people have consistently regarded marriage as one of the crowning achievements of a woman's life, and today women are struggling with meshing this with feminism. It's telling that to the author and women like her, official and public commitme… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/17 06:27 PM |
| 4 | Divorce: Ugly TruthsThis is a wonderful post! The way you've boiled down the information really makes it clear how detrimental no fault divorce is for all involved and affected. It's a shame that divorce is so common that many women expect that they'll have at least one husband in their lifetime. I've even read articles about women who want to get married and then divorced in a few years, as if that was normal. There is way too much emphasis on women's preferences, feelings, and comfort these days and not enough em… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/17 06:11 PM |
| 4 | Crazy feminist thinks deep down all men are rapists, even her son. Because feminist men actually want sex too.Her poor sons! This article is a perfect example of female solipsism at its extreme. I don't even know where to begin, I'd end up quoting the entire piece haha. Nice find can't believe she is given a platform, but I guess the site won't care if it's generating traffic and money lol | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/17 11:52 PM |
| 5 | Crazy feminist thinks deep down all men are rapists, even her son. Because feminist men actually want sex too.How terrible! She is so blind to the damage she is causing; I don't get how she can read what she's written and not see how wrong it is to feel and broadcast these things about your own children. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/17 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Crazy feminist thinks deep down all men are rapists, even her son. Because feminist men actually want sex too.Camille Paglia is spot on as usual! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/17 09:12 PM |
| 7 | Crazy feminist thinks deep down all men are rapists, even her son. Because feminist men actually want sex too.Emotionally safe? Is that what mens' jobs now are? I almost miss the "I'm a strong, independent woman" days. Feminists are pathetically weak today. Whoa I didn't even notice how they shifted their talking points, you're right they are weak! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/17 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Grati-WednesdayI had several asthma attacks recently (which is why I've been MIA) so I am grateful for my health!! M wants to get into running, and I'm very proud of the progress he's made since we both hate cardio haha. It's motivating me to do even better in life :) I'm grateful for the RPW and FNF community! Even though I can't always be as active as I like it's so wonderful that a space like this even exists for women to come together and discuss these subjects and help each other out. I'm honored to be pa… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/17 09:07 PM |
| 5 | How Can We Promote Or Inadvertently Hinder Masculinity In Our Men?I know I'm late to reply but this is excellent advice! So much of what we are taught is "toxic masculinity" today, is exactly what we find so attractive in men. This masculinity drives them to be and do what men do and if we were to ever truly lose that, what a horrific world this would be. Yes! This x 100! This could even be it's own thread. Even women who strive to be good wives have to unlearn some of what they believe about what makes a good man. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/06/17 07:15 PM |
| 4 | How Can We Promote Or Inadvertently Hinder Masculinity In Our Men?Absolutely! This is something /u/TempestTCup has discussed a lot as well. Overt leadership vs implicit leadership. Not every man is going to give explicit instruction or be expressive when in a bad mood. Some lead by setting boundaries and standards, others have their own style. There are definitely masculine and feminine versions of extroversion and introversion, as well as alpha and beta versions of introversion. I do think though that many men today under 35 who are introverted, are more beta… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/06/17 06:35 PM |
| 2 | How Can We Promote Or Inadvertently Hinder Masculinity In Our Men?Love your response! I agree I appreciate the reminder to be aware for motivations and actions :) | /r/RedPillWives | 30/06/17 06:32 PM |
| 3 | How Can We Promote Or Inadvertently Hinder Masculinity In Our Men?I pressed "send" too soon my bad! Is it there from birth ingrained into our genes or is it a societal stamp? We believe in biological differences between men and women, and we also recognise that our upbringings and the culture around us has an impact. The reality is that different communication styles are needed for different audiences. Your SO does not get treated like your friend, colleague, boss, etc. And he does not get treated like the women in your life that you love either. Stubborness a… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/06/17 06:21 PM |
| 3 | How Can We Promote Or Inadvertently Hinder Masculinity In Our Men?The whole point is that NO ONE should view their spouses as competition. We focus on the woman's role here so it is more relevant to discuss ways that we can eliminate a competitive mindset in ourselves. It's also more effective for us to discuss what we can do/avoid doing to foster a competition free environment. This doesn't mean that the man isn't doing anything on his part to achieve the same end. We are all about both parties giving 100% to the relationship; this post is specifically about … | /r/RedPillWives | 30/06/17 06:12 PM |
| 6 | How Can We Promote Or Inadvertently Hinder Masculinity In Our Men?an atmosphere free of competition. This is so key! Each woman is going to have to figure out what this looks like for her but a dynamic where you and your man are on the same team usually requires that you're also in separate roles. I have greatly reduced my irritation with his sense of stubbornness or pride, because I think that these traits are inherent to him and in 95% of cases they form a large part of his positive masculine influence on me and our life. This is a great example of what it m… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/06/17 08:17 PM |
| 3 | How Can We Promote Or Inadvertently Hinder Masculinity In Our Men?This comment has been removed because it is in violation of our subreddit's rules. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/06/17 07:56 PM |
| 3 | How Can We Promote Or Inadvertently Hinder Masculinity In Our Men?We do not get to define it. The moment we begin to define it, is the moment we hinder it. Beautiful! What examples/advice would you give for women who are interested in learning how to encourage masculinity without crossing any lines? | /r/RedPillWives | 27/06/17 07:44 PM |
| 14 | How Can We Promote Or Inadvertently Hinder Masculinity In Our Men?One subtle example of not promoting masculinity: laughing at stranger's jokes when they are at the expense of/directed at your SO. I don't mean teasing that friends often do. An example would be if a waitress or cashier tried to form a Team Woman bond with you and make jokes about how all men are X, or she may make statements to your man about how he should treat you. From her perspective this is harmless, but if you agree with her and even add on to her jokes, what impression does that give you… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/06/17 07:42 PM |
| 5 | Summer 2017 Challenge!!How great that you'll have your own piano soon! I really do think that it will help you reveal your softer side and can't wait to hear about how things develop! Re: oversharing, I'm thinking of starting a larger discussion on the topic since so many women seem to want to work on the same thing! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/17 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Deal Breakers in Your Relationships - What, Why, and From Where?Agreed 100%! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/17 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Summer 2017 Challenge!!Omg I didn't even think about Australia when writing this haha! Looking forward to hearing about your progress! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/17 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Summer 2017 Challenge!!You are more than welcome to adapt the challenge to suit your lifestyle! Your relationship resolution is definitely something that would make a great discussion on the sub; it doesn't even have to be about you specifically but if you'd like more specific advice please don't hesitate to ask! Best of luck with your goals, sounds like you'll have a full summer :) | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/17 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Summer 2017 Challenge!!Work on a quiet confidence. I am quite sure I came upon a huge character flaw in a recent friends' getaway. I like attention too much, maybe. Anyway! I would like to be in a place where I feel comfortable being a wallflower. specially if whatever I am saying can be perceived as braggadocios in anyway. I had to work to be comfortable with attention and I guess I overcorrected. I can relate to this haha! But since it's not in my nature to be a wallflower, I make an effort to say positive, complime… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/17 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Summer 2017 Challenge!!Yay welcome to RPW!! Come join us at /r/FeminineNotFeminist to talk about all things beauty! Also if you didn't know, /r/OliveMUA exists, such a great resource for those of us with olive undertones. I'll be spending 3 weeks at my boyfriend's place this summer, which is a perfect opportunity to practice. Any tips here? This would be great as it's own post! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/17 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Summer 2017 Challenge!!tell me if this counts but I'd like to move away from my dependency on social media. I feel like this totally counts and is a great goal! I want to be back to my pre-baby body ideally by 9m pp, but BETTER than pre-baby body by 12m pp. Amazing! Best of luck and please keep us posted - I'm sure many women would want to learn from your experiences! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/17 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Summer 2017 Challenge!!Here's what I'll be doing for the challenge: For my inner beauty goal, I'm going to reconnect with my artistic side and and really develop my natural gift for creativity. Due to life events, illness, and injuries over the past few years I haven't been able to draw, paint, sing, or dance like I used to. Women are so great at bringing beauty into the world through their presence and actions. I'll be making more of an effort to tap into this wonderful aspect of femininity! When it comes to outer be… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/17 09:44 PM |
| 5 | Deal Breakers in Your Relationships - What, Why, and From Where?Agreed! Leftists in general do seem to elevate the well being of animals (and nature) over the lives of humans. It's so hypocritical | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/17 10:10 PM |
| 3 | Does Anyone Else Make/Pack Their Man's Lunch? Let's Share Tips And Tricks!LOL I love it! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/17 09:20 PM |
| 6 | Deal Breakers in Your Relationships - What, Why, and From Where?Lol right?! It's also important to me because I have Celiac's so my diet is already limited, I'm not going to restrict it even more for a vegan or vegetarian. Especially since meat is so delicious! I could never respect a man who didn't enjoy steak, deer, etc. You are spot on with the "pretentious weaklings" label haha | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/17 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Accept Him As He Is | Finer FemininityThis is lovely, and I was just about to comment quoting what you just did about how acceptance isn't the same thing as tolerance or self deception. This really can't be stressed enough! Thanks for sharing this post, I'm going to spend more time looking at this blog for sure :) | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/17 09:00 PM |
| 4 | Deal Breakers in Your Relationships - What, Why, and From Where?What are your deal breakers? I never consciously wrote down a list of deal breakers, but I did have a concrete list of requirements for a husband, which was an excellent way to filter. So not meeting the list would be a deal breaker, and if someone met the list of needs and wants, then any issues were usually just a matter of personality clashing, lifestyle differences, or infidelity. If I were to make a hypothetical list right now, some non obvious deal breakers would be: previous homosexual ex… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/17 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Does Anyone Else Make/Pack Their Man's Lunch? Let's Share Tips And Tricks!Glad it's helpful! I make M's lunch 50% of the time so I'm learning as well. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/17 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Does Anyone Else Make/Pack Their Man's Lunch? Let's Share Tips And Tricks!Hahaha! Seems like a lot of people are doing notes, I may give his a try. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/17 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Does Anyone Else Make/Pack Their Man's Lunch? Let's Share Tips And Tricks!My trick is to fill a flask with boiling water first to get it warm before emptying it to fill with soup so it stays quite hot! Brilliant! Thanks for sharing what you do :) | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/17 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Does Anyone Else Make/Pack Their Man's Lunch? Let's Share Tips And Tricks!Mmm those peanut butter balls sound yummy! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/17 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Does Anyone Else Make/Pack Their Man's Lunch? Let's Share Tips And Tricks!Very cool!! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/17 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Does Anyone Else Make/Pack Their Man's Lunch? Let's Share Tips And Tricks!Ooh freezing I didn't even think of that! You are such a pro :) M is similar he wants a sandwich 95% of the time, he doesn't get bored from repetition with his lunches. I really love how you use lunches to give him something sweet and unexpected in his day! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/17 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Does Anyone Else Make/Pack Their Man's Lunch? Let's Share Tips And Tricks!What a great system! I especially like that you add surprise treats, what is so fun! If I know it's going to be a crazy long day I add a note thanking him for all the extra effort or I'll text him midday with a thanks and to tell him his overtime is being converted to scotch and steaks that night. Aww and this is so cute!! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/17 03:48 AM |
| 3 | Does Anyone Else Make/Pack Their Man's Lunch? Let's Share Tips And Tricks!That sounds really efficient! What sort of fruit do you include that keeps for a while like that? Do you also prep your own meals in advance? Personally I've been toying with the idea of weekend prep for the same reason as you - schedules can vary and flexibility is key. M would rather buy his own lunch than take 15+ minutes to make it in the AM so if I cut down some of the steps it could help. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/17 03:47 AM |
| – | Biblical Perspective on a Woman's PlaceThis post has been removed, if you'd like it re approved please respond to /u/Irisandoleander :) | /r/RedPillWives | 09/06/17 02:38 PM |
| 4 | Biblical Perspective on a Woman's PlaceRPW isn't a religious sub but we allow links from religious sites and/or authors. We always ask that users explain why they posted and how it relates to RPW but since the OP hasn't done that, this post isn't staying. Religious sources can have great insights when it comes to traditional relationship dynamics, we don't have to subscribe 100% to something to glean something useful :) | /r/RedPillWives | 09/06/17 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Question, ladies?Excellent point! | /r/RedPillWives | 07/06/17 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Question, ladies?Yep I get a message or call nearly every day when M is on his way home, if it's 30 mins or less he will specify otherwise I know it'll be about an hour. In that time I am expected to make sure that the both the house and I look great. Not that I confine my housekeeping/makeup time to that hour but if I was putting anything off or forgot to do something, this is when I'd do it. If I'm having an off or sick day I'd just do the bare minimum in this window. I also like having the heads up in case I … | /r/RedPillWives | 07/06/17 05:46 PM |
| 8 | How to Respect an Imperfect Husband - Shaunti FeldhahnLovely! This part is especially key: But since a man’s primary emotional need is respect, please understand that for your husband, criticism isn’t just frustrating – it feels like a vicious attack on his most vulnerable emotion: his fear that you see him as inadequate. I really like framing the issue in terms of his "primary emotional need", and I think it's so important to point out that men can be vulnerable. This language isn't often used when discussing masculinity but I feel like it will re… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/06/17 06:41 PM |
| – | Anxiety and Psychological FemininitySticky-ing to hopefully get more comments, this is such a great topic :) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/06/17 04:26 PM |
| 2 | A study about artificial pair bonding in voles!!!Aww voles! This article is really cool, I want to highlight the underlying message: The brain circuit they identified had previously been linked to learning, which suggests social bonding itself is a form of mental training. A lot of people recoil from RP ideas because of how clinical and detached they can be. Emotions and impulses play a big role in nearly everyone's decision making process, so deconstructing various dynamics and processes feels inhuman and even vulgar. But human relationships … | /r/RedPillWives | 02/06/17 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Female Sexual Strategy - Resharing My In Depth Post For New Members And New Discussion!Fresh memory of sex in couples' mind is a secret, a language only they are privy to. Active flirtation, seduction, submission, adventures culminating in sex does so much for women's happy glow! Its the only hope anyone has of maintaining the allure and romance forever. I hope to look like one of those 80 year old women with a coy secret in their eyes! I think theres only one way to end up like that ;) Yes!! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/06/17 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Female Sexual Strategy - Resharing My In Depth Post For New Members And New Discussion!Literally can't add anything else you covered it all :) | /r/RedPillWives | 02/06/17 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Anxiety and Psychological FemininityWhat an original subject to talk about here! I really like your approach and how you’re connecting it with existing RPW ideas. Have you heard of attachment styles? We had a post a while ago where people took a quiz, it’d be cool in the future to bring it up again and connect it to this post! However, it’s utterly irresponsible to simply throw your hands up and say “oh well, this is how I am and everyone has to cater to my neuroses!” This is so important to understand. So many seem to expect, and… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/06/17 09:59 PM |
| 4 | Having a bit of trouble in the bedroom situationStill mulling things over, these are just some initial questions off the top of my head. You only see him twice a week - are you doing anything on those other days in terms of flirting and building tension? Have you sent him photos or flirty texts? When it comes to feeling sexier in the bedroom, are you wearing lingerie that makes you look and feel your best? How old is your bf and how sexually experienced is he? | /r/RedPillWives | 28/05/17 07:57 PM |
| – | When Men Pay Taxes, Women Become PromiscuousThis is why I cringe HARD when I hear women calling for the destruction of patriarchy. It's still the very structure they're standing on. They might as well burn down every building because men made them. Yep and men are the ones giving them new privileges as well as the ones enforcing these changes. Feminism would not be possible without the institutions set up by and run by men. True, when I posted this it had a kneejerk downvote which I assume might be because of how the title is phrased that… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/05/17 05:29 AM |
| – | When Men Pay Taxes, Women Become PromiscuousI like how direct and well sourced this post is. The outsourcing of the male role to various institutions and organizations is such a central part of feminism and yet not many people talk about it in depth. And even fewer people connect it to sexual promiscuity. I also feel like women's reliance on their bodies is the result of the way the female role has been outsourced due to technological advancements and things like dry cleaners/laundromats, cleaning services, tailors, fast fashion retailers… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/05/17 03:57 AM |
| 2 | When Men Pay Taxes, Women Become PromiscuousYes this is an excellent primer, great find! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/05/17 03:43 AM |
| 4 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?Hahaha that was us verbatim! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/17 07:42 PM |
| 7 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?What a great topic! I agree that the way relationships (and men and women in general) are portrayed in the media influences what viewers expect in their own lives. The messages can be communicated regardless of the intentions of the writers, and often we don't realise what we are absorbing until it backfires. A small, silly, personal example: when I first moved in with M I'd start conversations with him right as we would go to bed. I didn't realise I was doing something that annoyed him until he… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/17 05:26 PM |
| 6 | Masculinity, The Male Mind, Male Behavior, etc. - What Would You Like To Learn More About And Discuss On RPW?Sometimes I will disrespect my husband without even knowing what I'm doing and I obviously don't want to do this. But it leaves me so confused, because I'm not actually looking to take a dig at him. I'm just not thinking in the right context. Same, and I know many other women who feel the same way. I think this could be a good topic for women with high dominance thresholds in particular. H men are going to be more sensitive to disrespect I think, or at least more vocal when they notice it. This … | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/17 03:01 AM |
| 16 | Masculinity, The Male Mind, Male Behavior, etc. - What Would You Like To Learn More About And Discuss On RPW?Topics that the sub could really enjoy: How we can promote or inadvertently hinder our man's masculinity Common sources of stress, embarrassment, and fear that are unique to men and how we can best recognise and respond to them How men perceive disrespect - body language, word choice, tone, expressions, etc. Male respect vs female respect Male archetypes. I speak about it in this post but I think it'd be cool to really explore and celebrate the different types of masculinity. We can also talk ab… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/17 02:29 AM |
| 7 | Masculinity, The Male Mind, Male Behavior, etc. - What Would You Like To Learn More About And Discuss On RPW?This is an awesome suggestion!! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/17 02:08 AM |
| 3 | "Sexism And The City" (No, It's Not About The Show)In general though, its never a good idea to cater to a group of people and say 'its better for everyone this way'. If each idea has to go through a filter of 'Will this be good for women?' the system becomes tyrannical and we will forego good ideas, no doubt. Yes! I agree with your answer and especially this part. We shut out so many possibilities when we only look for solutions for one group. Your response to #2 really highlights how important it is for women’s safety to be with men. I’m not ta… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/05/17 08:15 PM |
| 3 | "Sexism And The City" (No, It's Not About The Show)I agree there are some good ideas being proposed and it’s ridiculous that they are ignoring how it benefits everyone not just women. I find it interesting that they can identify that something is wrong with how cities are set up but their solutions are limited because they have to conform to the reigning ideology. Their worldview prevents them from seeing the problem from another angle and from asking questions that could yield uncomfortable answers. For example people are burnt out, isolated, c… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/05/17 06:15 PM |
| 2 | "I can't do it alone" or "Hi it's me... CoochQ. I suck at relationships without y'all!"So first I’m going to point out that you didn’t respond to the first half of my message. It’s odd that you’d do this when the exact subject I was speaking about is your dismissiveness. When your man points out things you don’t want to hear do you also ignore him? I’m not sure I agree that you’re only shit testing him because you realised he isn’t perfect. Based on all that you’ve shared, it’s clear that how your man handles conflict is not enough for you. Wanting it to be enough doesn’t make it … | /r/RedPillWives | 24/05/17 05:22 PM |
| – | "I can't do it alone" or "Hi it's me... CoochQ. I suck at relationships without y'all!"Internet problems all day but will be on later if it resolves to respond further thanks for commenting! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/05/17 01:30 AM |
| 3 | "Sexism And The City" (No, It's Not About The Show)So I think the idea that a city’s design can be sexist is ridiculous. While some of the issues they highlight are real, looking at this solely through the lens of gender seems incredibly unintelligent and selfish. From what I can tell the root causes of the various issues mentioned are the result of: social class, ethnicity/culture, older systems being incompatible with new technology, and human nature in general. If a problem impacts women, that doesn’t mean that the problem is inherently anti … | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/17 07:48 PM |
| 3 | "I can't do it alone" or "Hi it's me... CoochQ. I suck at relationships without y'all!"Right. I could be more specific in some things. I guess I just don't know what else to say except that I"m being a bitch. Specific instances of that really won't detract from that. But if you think it will help. Why are you responding this way to someone trying to help you? Can you see that right now you are engaging in behaviour that acts as a defense against change? How can you seriously act like you know more about what would or wouldn’t help you get better in this situation. YOU came to US f… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/17 07:32 PM |
| 3 | "I can't do it alone" or "Hi it's me... CoochQ. I suck at relationships without y'all!"First - welcome back to RPW! It was shocking when you left so abruptly and without any indication as to why, but it makes sense now. The issues you are struggling with don't sound pleasant and I really hope you turn it around and save your relationship. If your man can't trust you to accept him as he is and respect him, things will only get worse and he will probably leave you. It doesn't matter how good you were in the past or how good you could be. If you aren't presently an asset to him or ma… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/17 06:36 PM |
| 3 | A Simple Joke To Brighten Your Day! Share Your Own In The Comments :)LOL sending that to M right now! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/05/17 06:02 PM |
| 2 | A Simple Joke To Brighten Your Day! Share Your Own In The Comments :)Haha nice! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/05/17 06:02 PM |
| 1 | A Simple Joke To Brighten Your Day! Share Your Own In The Comments :)Haha I know what you mean! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/05/17 06:01 PM |
| 1 | A Simple Joke To Brighten Your Day! Share Your Own In The Comments :)Hey that's not a bad thing! I spend lots of time in the kitchen too so this joke also resonated with me :) | /r/RedPillWives | 22/05/17 06:01 PM |
| 1 | A Simple Joke To Brighten Your Day! Share Your Own In The Comments :)Hahaha what a fun memory :) | /r/RedPillWives | 22/05/17 06:00 PM |
| 1 | A Simple Joke To Brighten Your Day! Share Your Own In The Comments :)Lol love all of these, especially "mad cow disease"! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/05/17 05:59 PM |
| 8 | A Simple Joke To Brighten Your Day! Share Your Own In The Comments :)I found this on voat today and just had to share! Now for my fav sexist jokes: Why shouldn't women be able to drive? Because you don't need a car to get from the kitchen to the bedroom. Want to hear a joke? Women's rights. Also this always makes me giggle. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/05/17 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Married and serious LTR-ed women: How many hobbies and interests do you share with your man? How much time do you spend together in general?M and I are so opposite! Our worldview and values are the same but the interests and hobbies we enjoy could not be more different. It's the result of our opposite personalities, he's I/ENTJ and intro traditionally masculine things (vintage cars, hunting, etc) and I'm ENFP and into all things beauty, art, and dance. It's actually really hard for us to find things to do together outside of our go to activities. Our one on one activities consist of watching mafia and crime films and going to the ba… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/05/17 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday: Analysis of 'Oneitis'It's always great to see an RP concept explored in depth! The connection you've made between the male and female experience really underscores why humans have developed intricate systems and norms over the centuries when it comes to romance. Even something as simple as going on a proper date prior to having sex is a method of adding structure to prevent common pitfalls. The way we've organized as a species to address these innate tendencies is so awesome isn't it? The garden metaphor is so lovel… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/05/17 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Dealing With Common "Low Dominance" Problems - Share Your Insights And Experiences!/u/StingrayVC and I are actually LH but I get what you're saying and thank you! | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/17 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Dealing With Common "Low Dominance" Problems - Share Your Insights And Experiences!What our men want is submission (for the religious folks out there, this goes hand in hand with meekness, which means contained spirit. Think about that), deference, our whatever word you choose to use for it. They don't want a milquetoast they can't trust to make decisions. This is so key! You can be submissive and have a personality and spine! Having agency and being able to do things without someone holding your hand or constantly reassuring you are essential traits. I'm saying this from pers… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/17 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Dealing With Common "Low Dominance" Problems - Share Your Insights And Experiences!Why thank you! I actually used to feel a bit left out on this sub because a lot of the relationship content is geared towards HH and the lifestyle content seems to appeal best to LL women. I agree with what you're saying and hope that we can all explore the differences and strengths of HH, LH, LL, and HL women more on the sub and in IRC. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/17 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Dealing With Common "Low Dominance" Problems - Share Your Insights And Experiences!I always enjoy hearing about how your relationship works. You both are so logical and efficient! Hopefully women reading are encouraged to be more straightforward and honest about their emotions. It seems to be a common theme with L women that we can hide how we feel since we are conflict averse. You are an excellent example of how important it is to find the right man for you. When you are matched properly you can lean on your man without hesitation or worry! | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/17 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Dealing With Common "Low Dominance" Problems - Share Your Insights And Experiences!It's awesome how similar all of the LH women's relationships are! I really appreciate this in depth comment and I know it'll help a lot of women who are struggling with the same things that we were at one point. The kind vs weak thing is a new idea for me, it's so interesting to see your thought process and it has me reflecting on how I feel when M is kind. Off the top of my head my reactions seem to be more guilt based than rooted in anxiety about his status. But I'm still turning this idea ove… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/17 02:23 AM |
| 3 | Dealing With Common "Low Dominance" Problems - Share Your Insights And Experiences!It's awesome how similar all of the LH women's relationships are! I really appreciate this in depth comment and I know it'll help a lot of women who are struggling with the same things that we were at one point. The kind vs weak thing is a new idea for me, it's so interesting to see your thought process and it has me reflecting on how I feel when M is kind. Off the top of my head my reactions seem to be more guilt based than rooted in anxiety about his status. But I'm still turning this idea ove… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/17 02:22 AM |
| 1 | "Little Big Lies" ?SPOILERS DON'T READ FURTHER IF YOU CARE ABOUT THAT * * * I was so excited when I started watching the show because they depict a lot of different relationship types in a realistic manner. Madeline was alpha widowed by her ex and in a dead bedroom situation with her BB Ed. Celeste didn't know how to deal with Perry's dominance and they had a twisted dynamic that deep down they both enjoyed. Renata and her husband were a dynamic duo, Bonnie had tamed Nathan and that relationship also worked well. … | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/17 02:09 AM |
| 4 | GratituesdaySo grateful that information about Seth Rich and the surrounding scandal is coming to light! I lost faith in our country but am slowly regaining it now that Trump is in office. Maybe justice will actually be served to those who deserve it. I'm grateful that I learn new things about M and see new sides of him all the time. The thrill still hasn't faded! I really can't think of a third thing to write - everything sounds so cheesy lol so glad that you're posting these so diligently each week :) | /r/RedPillWives | 17/05/17 04:18 AM |
| 2 | An Introduction to Home BartendingAww yay! You definitely deserve it this post is a refreshing addition to the sub :) | /r/RedPillWives | 17/05/17 03:44 AM |
| 3 | An Introduction to Home BartendingLove this! I love being the bartender at home and will definitely get this Bar Book to expand my skills. This post is now added to the wiki :) | /r/RedPillWives | 16/05/17 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Laura Doyle's book knowledge, is it that realistic?This sounds really close to what M and I did and it's such a great way to approach things! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/05/17 05:50 AM |
| 0 | Laura Doyle's book knowledge, is it that realistic?Lol I haven't either! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/05/17 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Laura Doyle's book knowledge, is it that realistic?Love everything about this suggestion! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/05/17 05:44 AM |
| 3 | Laura Doyle's book knowledge, is it that realistic?A lot of people today don't dare with the intention of getting married to the person they are dating. They are just looking for companionship ub the moment. This can change as they get older or they just marry whoever they are with at the time because marriage is just what you do. And there are tons of couples who never marry even after 5+ years! Don't stress your man out or cause drama or read into things. I'm not trying to scare you and don't have enough info to really give advice in this situ… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/05/17 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Laura Doyle's book knowledge, is it that realistic?Agreed! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/05/17 06:32 PM |
| 10 | Laura Doyle's book knowledge, is it that realistic?Disclaimer: I've never read any Laura Doyle books! Iknew I wanted to marry M day 3 of knowing him! And we officially started our relationship it was with the understanding that we'd be getting married. I think dating with the intention to get married is so key. From the first moment you should make sure he fits your criteria for your husband. Not in a rigid or harsh way just as a background process while youre having fun and wowing him. If he is looking to settle down he'll be doing the same for… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/05/17 06:31 PM |
| 6 | Can your man be honest with you?M is always honest with me even if what he has to say is negative, he doesn't hold back and is only tactful if it's something I'm extremely touchy about. I've toughened up a bit over the years but I still cry 95% of the time in response to any criticism lol I can't help it! His opinion matters so much and I get really self conscious and embarrassed. Usually we just end up laughing at the fact that I'm crying - it's just my natural response when I'm overwhelmed with emotion. It's fine though, he … | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 06:51 AM |
| 1 | A Great Point About The Concept Of "Love Languages"Yes that was my fav part as well! I always love hearing about your relationship you're such a great wife and definitely an inspiration to RPW :) | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 06:37 AM |
| 2 | A Great Point About The Concept Of "Love Languages"You are welcome, I am so glad that it resonated with you and sorry that you had to end a relationship due to incompatibility <3 I honestly never thought to apply love languages to other relationships but it makes so much sense. I have some reflecting to do now! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 06:35 AM |
| 1 | A Great Point About The Concept Of "Love Languages"Actively working on this new knowledge has really helped because I can recognize more and more little things I just took for granted. So awesome!! And yes it is awful that some turn this into something selfish but it's human nature. I think the progression depicted in the blog post is realistic. "I like when you compliment me" turns into "You must compliment me for me to feel good" which turns into "The only form of love I will accept is compliments". Fortunately I haven't seen much of this beha… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 06:34 AM |
| 3 | A Great Point About The Concept Of "Love Languages"Agreed 100%! It's gotten to the point where I don't even know who I would be without the influence of my husband. My personality has been utterly shaped by my relationship, and I love it. I've had so many acquaintances and even close friends question the "health" of my relationship because I was willing to let myself be shaped and pruned by my husband. But the joke is on them, because I'm happier than all of them put together! :3 This resonates with me so deeply I am so happy to see someone else… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 06:31 AM |
| 3 | What does modern day love look like ?Glad you re posted on this sub! If you need advice in the future definitely include all the info in the main post so that we can understand the full situation and really help :) | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 06:26 AM |
| 2 | What does modern day love look like ?In this day and age, young couples (sorry to generalize, I mean no offense) tend to treat their "love" like it is a performance, and their "lavish dates" have to be good enough to meet what "looks" successful according to the internet. I've seen fancy date photos, and brag posts about people's relationships. When I see that, it screams more to me about how much the relationship actually lacks compared to what it has. Yes!! It's all about getting attention, not about true connection with the one … | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 06:25 AM |
| 3 | What does modern day love look like ?Beautiful comment! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 06:23 AM |
| 7 | What does modern day love look like ?Not having funds for lavish dates isn't a 2017 thing; it's a youth thing. There weren't lavish funds for 19yos in the early 80s either. No one went on lavish dates in their teens in any year. Such a great point! I feel like people get the wrong idea from movies, tv shows, and magazines and then try to live up to that. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 06:22 AM |
| 10 | A Great Point About The Concept Of "Love Languages"The love languages I prefer to receive vs use differ as well! I express my love through acts of service and words of affirmation but I prefer receiving physical touch and quality time. Maybe not everyone gives love in the way they want to receive it but I do think that a lot of women fail to recognise that their men prefer different love languages entirely. For example a lot of women enjoy providing acts of service for their men and they are hurt and confused when their men try to get them to ta… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/05/17 12:25 AM |
| 5 | Pursuing or flirting with someone who is taken?I really though that the OP was being attacked for getting misguided advice from her Aunt, so I defended her, and then myself. Honest mistake. Okay I will believe you and I'm willing to move on. In the future just ask a clarifying question before insulting someone :) I appreciate your response. I am working on it and learning the nuances of this sub. I am not perfect but no doubt, I have my opinions, but again, I will learn the appropriate context. Have you looked at our wiki? This page gives th… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/17 11:21 PM |
| 11 | Pursuing or flirting with someone who is taken?This comment is so amazing! I should have looked at her comment history before I wrote my other reply. I assumed she was being solipsistic and didn't realise that women can have different standards but clearly this wasn't an innocent mistake. People who go on and on about being ~classy~ and a "Lady" are usually compensating and/or hypocrites and she's not an exception. Edit: she has apologised to me, hopefully she responds well to you and we can all move on! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/17 11:18 PM |
| 11 | Pursuing or flirting with someone who is taken?Why would you call someone deliberately trying to wrong you by a neutral or even kind title? This is such a great question. We have zero obligation to treat people with respect and kindness if they are actively doing something cruel to us. Stealing a woman's fiance (or husband!) has a devastating effect on the wronged woman. Who would expect her to remain perfectly happy at all times? Who would expect her to speak highly of the other woman? These are really unrealistic standards completely at od… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/17 11:11 PM |
| 6 | Pursuing or flirting with someone who is taken?This isn't /r/EmilyPost. It's great that you have a clear set of standards for your behaviour, but again, shaming someone for their use of the term "skank" in this instance is inappropriate. The subreddit wiki makes it clear that our definition of femininity isn't restricted to one archetype. Some women choose not to use "bad words", others refrain from drinking, and then there are women on the other side of the spectrum. Both types of women (and those in between) are able to use the information… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/17 10:50 PM |
| 14 | Pursuing or flirting with someone who is taken?Skanks? Is this what we are calling other women now? How elegant. This is attempt at shaming is completely unnecessary. There is nothing unfeminine about defending your relationship against the attempts of scheming women. A woman who tries to steal your man is not deserving of your respect; it's such a sleazy thing to do to someone. Is "skank" a hurtful word? Absolutely. But that's the point! It's supposed to insult the other woman because she is doing something wrong. You don't have to use the … | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/17 09:55 PM |
| 6 | Pursuing or flirting with someone who is taken?I'm confused are you currently interested in a nearly married/taken man and unsure of what to do? Or is this a general discussion question that doesn't relate to your personal life in any way? I think flirting with and pursuing taken men is more common than we'd like to think but I would never suggest it to anyone. Morality aside it just doesn't make that much sense as a strategy. If you are of average or higher RMV you shouldn't have any problem getting men who are actually available. Why waste… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/17 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Six Lessons that Lead to Lifelong Love - Laura DoyleI wouldn't use the term "battle line" but yeah essentially. It's so important that we do our part to minimize conflict and bring joy to our relationship. But there are plenty of situations where our men may need to be corrected in some way. I just thought of another scenario to avoid: correcting him in front of an audience. I feel like it's better to do that sort of thing privately, don't want to embarrass him or give a bad impression to others. Again this depends on your man, some may not care … | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/17 08:20 PM |
| 7 | A Great Point About The Concept Of "Love Languages"How wonderful! I'm usually good at doing exactly what you described but recently I realised that gift giving is one of M's top languages whereas it's last on the list for me. M has been offering to take me shopping and get me things and I didn't connect it to love languages at all even though now it's obvious. I'd say things like "No thanks, let's just watch a movie together!" or some other quality time activity (one of my top languages). I'm definitely going to make an effort to be receptive to… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/17 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Six Lessons that Lead to Lifelong Love - Laura DoyleI personally don't always agree with what Laura Doyle recommends but that's because I'm not her target audience. Some women really need to work on holding their tongue because every time they open their mouths they are disrespectful and hurting their relationship. In their case it really is better to say nothing! When it comes to bringing up something your man is wrong about I feel like you have to consider his personality and how important the topic in question is. Does it really matter what th… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/17 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Six Lessons that Lead to Lifelong Love - Laura DoyleThis is such a lovely reminder, thank your for posting it! I'm personally working on Lesson #1 because life has gotten a bit out of control recently and self care is always the first thing I put on hold in order to deal with everything else. It's easier (for me) to ignore my personal needs and focus on everyone else but this isn't sustainable! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/17 08:02 PM |
| 3 | GratituesdayI'm grateful that M and I are fully moved into the new place!!! I was responsible for 90% of the packing, unpacking, and organising so that ate up all my time. We also didn't have internet and ran out of phone data pretty quickly. While that was annoying and I wasn't able to be on reddit as much as I wanted, I was able to really focus and be productive! I'm so grateful for M! He is turning 35 this weekend and I'm throwing a party for him (planning this has also taken me away from reddit, sorry e… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/17 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Some hard ChangesHaha right?! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/17 07:27 PM |
| – | Some hard ChangesThis post is removed because it violates the rules of the subreddit. I'm not convinced that you understand what this community is about, if you're curious definitely take a look at our wiki. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/17 07:26 PM |
| 2 | If men really prefer women without or minimal makeup why do I always catch them looking at the ones with a full face of makeup?Thanks for the tag! I honestly don't understand women who don't wear makeup or men who say they don't like women that don't wear makeup. Properly applied makeup makes everyone look better and it's just a normal female activity and interest. I can't think of a single person in my life that wasn't wearing makeup every day by 16. I agree with those saying that men's claims are virtue signaling and hamstering. And that they don't even know half the time who is and isn't wearing makeup. The instagram… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/17 05:37 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop liking gossip?Why do you feel the need to rationalize this hobby? Hundreds of thousands of other women engage in the same activities as you every day. While "everyone is doing it" isn't always a good justification, in this case hopefully you can see how you aren't abnormal or evil or anything else. Whenever I get insomnia I lurk on GuruGossip and it's always a blast :) | /r/RedPillWives | 23/04/17 03:58 AM |
| 4 | How do I stop liking gossip?Have you checked out RPWi's chat room :)~ Lol this was my first thought too! ;) | /r/RedPillWives | 23/04/17 03:55 AM |
| 7 | How do I stop liking gossip?Is this behaviour actually causing problems in your life? Is it affecting your ability to get a man/make your man happy? If the answer to both of those is "no" then I don't really think you need to do anything about it. Many of us here agree that women need a "daily dose of drama" and for some gossip sites scratch that itch. What does "reducing negativity in my life" actually mean for you? If you are having an enjoyable time does that really count as negativity? Identify your own standards based… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/04/17 03:55 AM |
| 1 | [Guide] An Introduction To Kibbe - An Amazing Body Typing And Personal Style System!Thank you so much!! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/04/17 08:44 PM |
| 1 | [Guide] An Introduction To Kibbe - An Amazing Body Typing And Personal Style System!I'd definitely question your answers then because it is impossible to be a TR without any A answers. Maybe what you put down as C is actually A and you're just being hesitant/not seeing yourself properly? Alternatively you could just be a Romantic. It's not like Marilyn Monroe was huge or anything and I could see her having some Cs in her results if she were to take the Kibbe test herself. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/17 09:21 PM |
| 1 | [Guide] An Introduction To Kibbe - An Amazing Body Typing And Personal Style System!Well if you have a lot of Cs and no As you're more likely to be a Soft Classic. TRs require sharp yang in addition to the extreme yin. While photos can help I wouldn't use them as a primary method of self typing. They're an excellent way to confirm a result though! What do you think of SCs? | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/17 08:53 PM |
| 2 | [Guide] An Introduction To Kibbe - An Amazing Body Typing And Personal Style System!Well you know yourself the best! Your answers make you a Romantic but if that doesn't fit you'll probably want to look into Soft Classic. I have another post coming on Kibbe + fashion soon, we are moving right now and I'm responsible for 95% of the cleaning and packing so I've been busy! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/17 08:40 PM |
| 3 | [Guide] An Introduction To Kibbe - An Amazing Body Typing And Personal Style System!I think it would be so much fun to create an album of different people (fun fact: there's a system for men too!) and have everyone try to type the people in the album - then you could post the answers at the end of the week. That would be so fun! Definitely will keep this in mind once the series is finished! I'm not really good at typing people, but I am picking a few things up. One thing that I think helps is to simply try and identify different shapes that appear on a face, and try to figure o… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/17 06:45 AM |
| 2 | [Guide] An Introduction To Kibbe - An Amazing Body Typing And Personal Style System!Are you overweight by any chance? Our faces tend to match our bodies but women who are overweight will test more yin than they actually are. If you are at a healthy weight I'd ask about your exact measurements, ethnicity, height, how often you work out, and other factors. It's odd that someone who seems like a romantic (mostly Es and one D) would not have any Es and few Ds in their face. Are you sure that the letters are accurate (both for face and body)? | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/17 06:41 AM |
| 1 | [Guide] An Introduction To Kibbe - An Amazing Body Typing And Personal Style System!There's no such thing as a mini romantic haha you're going to fall into one of the categories. If you are a Romantic then you are a Romantic, no need to qualify it. Lucy Liu isn't a "mini Dramatic" even though she is 5'2! Is it possible that you are a Theatrical Romantic? | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/17 06:38 AM |
| 1 | [Guide] An Introduction To Kibbe - An Amazing Body Typing And Personal Style System!My hope is that everyone here can find their Kibbe type and use the information to look and feel their best! I waited until Free Friday to post but this isn't completely irrelevant to RPW. Being attractive is incredibly important to maintaining (or obtaining) a great relationship. Additionally there is a lot to discuss in terms of female nature and the relationship between different physical features and personality traits. Certain archetypes and stereotypes definitely correspond with specific l… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/04/17 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Disney Part 1: Introduction, and AppearanceThis write up is phenomenal! I don’t think I’ve ever read a more in depth analysis of the Disney princesses - and this is only part 1! So excited for future posts within this series (or the sequel if there’s just one more left). The part I found most interesting is just how well each princess conforms to the ideal woman of the time period the film was released in. It’s when you not something I ever picked up on but your photo and video/audio comparisons make it abundantly clear that this was an … | /r/RedPillWives | 12/04/17 04:53 AM |
| 1 | It Is Possible To Say "Thank You" Too Many Times!I totally know where you are coming from and I'm so glad that this post resonated with you :) | /r/RedPillWives | 10/04/17 04:13 AM |
| 1 | It Is Possible To Say "Thank You" Too Many Times!I hate feeling like a burden as well but sometimes it's inescapable. In a way I think that I (and other women) get super worried about our men viewing us as burdens as a form of projection. In the moment we do in fact think of ourselves as burdens, but of course this is unwanted. I'm thinking out loud at the moment so I'm going to have to reflect on this a bit more. And thank you so much I am definitely feeling better. Not 100% but much improved now that I've thrown out the offending contacts an… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/04/17 04:12 AM |
| 2 | It Is Possible To Say "Thank You" Too Many Times!Absolutely! It just sucks because M prefers acts of service from me so I can't do that while I'm unwell lol I definitely agree that we should all find ways to communicate our feelings in the way our men will best receive them. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/04/17 04:07 AM |
| 1 | It Is Possible To Say "Thank You" Too Many Times!What a great suggestion! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/04/17 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Littleknownfacts Presents: Managing your Hypergamy by Using Preselection to Your AdvantageI'm so late but this is a great post! I hope it starts a trend of people reexamining RPW theory and exploring avenues we haven't discussed much (or at least not outside of RPW). | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/17 02:14 AM |
| 3 | It Is Possible To Say "Thank You" Too Many Times!Yeah absolutely! Fortunately M understood what was going on and didn't think I wasn't genuine. But the more intentional you are with how often you express gratitude (and your method) the more weight it will hold. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/17 02:10 AM |
| 5 | GratituesdayI am grateful for M's sense of humor. He always knows exactly what to do and say to make me cry from laughter! I am grateful for the show House of Cards, which I have just started watching and am obsessed with. Obviously I am in love with Frank Underwood, but Doug is my fav character. I'm on season 3 so no spoilers please! Edit: pressed "send" too soon! I am grateful for the fact that M and I are moving soon! I've been house hunting for the past few weeks it has been fun! To answer the fun quest… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/03/17 09:32 PM |
| 3 | How Fashion and Media Influence TrendsThere is so much wrong with your comments I don't even know where to begin! You clearly haven't read a single rule or wiki page because if you had you'd know that this is a community for likeminded women, not a debate sub. You'd also know that we do not tolerate disrespect shown towards moderators. /u/PhantomDream09 was clear about why she included something by Chomsky, there is nothing "ironic" about using a relevant source to provide further information on a subject. How arrogant of you to att… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/03/17 06:31 AM |
| 5 | Please join us in welcoming /u/Irisandoleander as our newest mod!!!I look forward to ruling with an iron fist working with her :D LOL <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 16/03/17 07:37 PM |
| 7 | Please join us in welcoming /u/Irisandoleander as our newest mod!!!So excited you're joining the mod team <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 16/03/17 07:36 PM |
| 5 | GratituesdayI am grateful that you are still posting these each week! It's so important that we appreciate what we have and what others have done for us on a regular basis. Thank you so much for consistently posting - we'll sticky these in the future for sure :) I'm beyond grateful for M's continued business success. "When it rains it pours" definitely applies to us right now - but in a good way! He is handling everything so admirably and he knows that I am proud of him. I'm grateful for the success of Trum… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/03/17 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Inspirational Quotes About Love And Relationships!Haha definitely! Thank you for sharing that quote :) | /r/RedPillWives | 14/03/17 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Inspirational Quotes About Love And Relationships!That is really interesting I've never heard this quote before! What do you make of the last part? | /r/RedPillWives | 13/03/17 10:52 PM |
| 4 | Inspirational Quotes About Love And Relationships!I shared this album a while ago and thought we could I thought discuss it again and also share other images and quotes about love! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/03/17 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Getting Serious About SolipsismIt makes sense! Have you read this post? It is mostly about the Female Social Matrix but it starts out by talking about male social dynamics. It definitely mirrors what your SO is saying. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/03/17 02:21 AM |
| 4 | Getting Serious About SolipsismAgreed completely! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/03/17 02:19 AM |
| 3 | What Are You Doing To Support Your Man With His Business, Social, Or Other Important Goals?What a great mini FR! Sometimes a change in our mindset can improve things much better than any other course of action. Like you said when you let go of a tit for tat/score keeping attitude it makes the things that he does do even more meaningful. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/03/17 02:19 AM |
| 5 | What Are You Doing To Support Your Man With His Business, Social, Or Other Important Goals?It's so great that you know his love language and make sure to "speak" it often. The fact that you're not just communicating with him but listening to what he actually needs and wants is so important. Best of luck with the distance <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 04/03/17 02:16 AM |
| 3 | What Are You Doing To Support Your Man With His Business, Social, Or Other Important Goals?Aww that is so sweet that he thanked you! Assisting our men in this way really does make a difference, every little bit helps! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/03/17 02:13 AM |
| 2 | What Are You Doing To Support Your Man With His Business, Social, Or Other Important Goals?I bet, that all sounds wonderful! Being his soft space to land and creating a welcoming, stress free environment takes a lot of thought and energy. Sounds like you're doing a great job :) | /r/RedPillWives | 04/03/17 02:12 AM |
| 4 | What Are You Doing To Support Your Man With His Business, Social, Or Other Important Goals?Yes this is so key! Sometimes it's difficult to follow through and be consistent about everything so this message is definitely worth repeating! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/03/17 02:10 AM |
| 3 | What Are You Doing To Support Your Man With His Business, Social, Or Other Important Goals?This all sounds so great!! I'm excited for you both :) Definitely keep us posted on how things go. It'd also be cool to have some threads about ways to make your man look good at events/with colleagues! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/03/17 02:10 AM |
| 1 | What Are You Doing To Support Your Man With His Business, Social, Or Other Important Goals?Which app do you use? I prefer writing things down too but I can see how it could get tricky in the future. If there is an app that makes things as efficient as possible I'd definitely give it a try! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/03/17 02:07 AM |
| 7 | What Are You Doing To Support Your Man With His Business, Social, Or Other Important Goals?I've been taking on even more responsibilities so that M doesn't have to deal with them. He is crazy busy with work and it's only getting more demanding (in a good way!) which means I am now busy too lol. One big thing I'm doing right now is taking the lead on finding our new house! Our lease ends sooner than we thought so there is more pressure. I also have been writing things down for him that he wants to remember/do later because he has so much on his mind and doesn't want to always think abo… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/03/17 05:30 PM |
| 5 | Kelleyanne Conway: "I look at myself as a product of my choices, not a victim of my circumstances."Wonderful post thank you so much for sharing it! Kellyanne Conway is so refreshing and I hope she inspires young women across America to have agency and reject the terrible messages pushed on women today. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 06:44 AM |
| 3 | How Masculine Jobs and Lives Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine EnergyDisagreeing is fine but I hope you can understand that the source of the conflict was the approach that you took when disagreeing. Do you know your MBTI? I don’t believe that you were intentionally trying to be awful or anything, I think there were lots of misunderstandings due to our different cognitive functions/ways of processing information. Now that you’ve expanded on your statements about her business approach your earlier claims don’t seem so ridiculous but without that context you seemed… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 05:22 PM |
| 2 | How Masculine Jobs and Lives Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine EnergyIn fact, I would argue that a theory can never fully explored or developed, but that is another philosophical discussion entirely. I totally agree with this. The intent of your posts provides a good frame for their consumption. I also read them from the approach that they types apply strictly to longterm, romantic relationships. Therefore, I struggled to see their applicability to other relationships. Yes they are about LTRs between RMV and SMV 5+ people. But we can apply the underlying concepts… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 05:01 PM |
| 2 | How Masculine Jobs and Lives Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine EnergyYes exactly! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 04:47 PM |
| 2 | How Masculine Jobs and Lives Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine EnergyHahaha yes that reaction to Renee completely makes sense! She definitely has a target audience and it isn't H women :) I similarly recoil to things written for H women for example a lot of Laura Doyle's posts are for a specific type of overbearing H women who need to chill out and STFU. These women literally need to bite their tongue and practise not controlling every little detail. For someone who doesn't struggle with that issue all the advice can seem extreme but really these women have to re… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 04:46 PM |
| 3 | How Masculine Jobs and Lives Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine EnergyDid you read the follow up posts? There are two more. Also I haven't written my full post on H vs L even though sub theories get discussed across the sub and on IRC all the time. Avid participants on the sub know the ideas and contribute to the theory and we've expanded and come up with some really cool ideas. This is why I said it didn't seem like you were that familiar with the sub - and I don't expect everyone to automatically know that this is going on! The delay on the other post(s) is due … | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 04:32 PM |
| 4 | How Masculine Jobs and Lives Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine EnergyThe way that Renee runs her website is pretty standard in terms of bloggers who also have books and services. There is nothing illegal about it, she is not revolutionary or scammy, she is just doing what plenty of other bloggers do to make money. She uses language and techniques that are commonly recommended if you read any modern resource on online marketing. It isn’t predatory or shady to attempt to appeal to your reader by identify an issue/need in their life. She is trying to capture her tar… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 03:55 PM |
| 3 | How Masculine Jobs and Lives Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine EnergyYes I agree that this was her audience and I feel like the working women here who feel overwhelmed could use a positive message! It's definitely possible to go too far on either extreme but there are definitely more resources for women who are too passive vs too aggressive (or any other set of hyperfemale vs hypermale traits). Glad you found the post interesting :) | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 05:07 AM |
| 3 | How Masculine Jobs and Lives Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine EnergyFeminism didn't change the workplace; it's still designed with men in mind. The competitive rat-race one-up-manship of the workplace is not feminine and I find it incredibly taxing and exhausting. So true!! Love everything about your comment but especially this part! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 05:04 AM |
| 5 | How Masculine Jobs and Lives Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine EnergyHahah you are just further on the feminine side of the spectrum than others and that's fine as long as it doesn't negatively impact your life! Be sure that you're not just justifying laziness, irresponsibility, immaturity, or other signs of poor character. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 05:00 AM |
| 3 | How Masculine Jobs and Lives Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine EnergyYes I found this thought provoking as well! It actually connected with an idea I've been thinking about: men can improve themselves and become more masculine through hard work, labour, sacrifice, etc. which often includes things that take a physical toll. I think women can improve themselves and become more feminine by doing things like self care, prioritising appearance, cooking etc. These activities require feminine traits and skills such as being patient, having an eye for beauty, taking thin… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 04:59 AM |
| 3 | How Masculine Jobs and Lives Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine EnergySo glad you enjoyed the post! While homemaking and other traditionally female jobs can be stressful and difficult, there really is a big difference between the effect that has on most women vs the effect that working in the male sphere has. When it comes to finances, I don't think that all men should always control the finances, it just doesn't make sense if the man isn't better at that, or if he doesn't want to! I do agree though that men are less likely to be stressed out by controlling the bu… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 04:53 AM |
| 6 | How Masculine Jobs and Lives Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine EnergyIn my opinion, she authors click-bait articles in an attempt to get women to buy one of her books or programs. She definitely is trying to sell her products and services but her articles aren’t click bait. She provides actual information and actionable advice in her posts and delivers on whatever is promised by the title and intro. There is nothing wrong with marketing yourself, it’s her website of course she is going to use it for promotion. Why shouldn’t she profit from the work that she does,… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 04:00 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of Tinder - is it purely for hook ups?Please read this post and the other top RPW posts they'll help you with dating! Also I wasn't around today and I really don't feel like countering every single comment but do look at what I did say about Tinder and similar sites in the comments that I did leave. Best of luck with everything, write a Field Report if something interesting/awesome happens :) | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 02:16 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of Tinder - is it purely for hook ups?You're fine! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 02:10 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of Tinder - is it purely for hook ups?Haha of course <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 02:09 AM |
| 3 | What do you think of Tinder - is it purely for hook ups?This might just be because I'm LH but I feel like a man who would sign up for a dating site where women initiate wouldn't be the best in terms of leadership and dominance. The app just sounds like more female entitlement and I have the same criticisms for it that I do for Tinder in terms of removing the romance and everything else I said in other comment sections. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 01:51 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of Tinder - is it purely for hook ups?I'm not talking about a "meet cute" when I use the term "romance". Tinder and similar programs make the entire process of being "on the market" and trying to find a man way more clinical, less personal. When it is a major part of your dating strategy it hampers your ability to have real life chemistry in my opinion because you concentrate your energy on doing well online/with the apps which requires different traits than more organic methods of dating. It also changes your perspective in terms o… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 01:47 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of Tinder - is it purely for hook ups?No you weren't being an asshole, and I'm so glad you were here to represent the RP perspective! RPW has women at all levels of knowledge and experience and no one will learn or improve if others don't point them in the right direction. Posts like this actually demonstrate why a this sub is necessary - left to their own devices not all women will figure out what to do to get what they want. And how can they when no one in their lives or mainstream culture is giving them the truth or calling them … | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 01:39 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of Tinder - is it purely for hook ups?Exactly you are spot on as usual! RPW is about female sexual strategy and it rarely is optimal for a woman to use her time, energy, and resources to try to convince men who aren't interested in settling down, to settle down with her. Beta orbiting is the perfect parallel so hopefully drawing the comparison makes it click for women. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 01:32 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of Tinder - is it purely for hook ups?I'm talking about serious exclusive relationships (so over one year and also living together) and marriage. The most important thing though when it comes to discussion on RPW is how likely it is that a relationship will lead to marriage. I'm sure plenty of people meet men that they date through Tinder. How many of these relationships last longer than 1 year? How many lead to marriage? How many have RP dynamics? | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 01:28 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of Tinder - is it purely for hook ups?surely then it'll be more difficult to lock down any attractive guy who has tinder in the first place regardless of how you met him, since the presence of options will make it so that he is less likely to commit to any one option at all? Yes and the only way you'll be able to lock most of these men down is by giving away your resources (sex, time, attention, etc) disproportionately to his level of investment. It just doesn't make sense for women interested in RPW. You can get RMV5+ men outside o… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/02/17 03:46 PM |
| 3 | What do you think of Tinder - is it purely for hook ups?TBH I think the real motive of this thread is more like "how do I get the hot dudes from tinder to commit" and tinder is the place that will landslide the most options in attractive men's favor, making the odds of an LTR very low. Yes! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/02/17 03:44 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of Tinder - is it purely for hook ups?In America Tinder has the reputation of being a place for flings and NSA sex. It is not the most optimal route for most women in terms of getting a man and that is why we don't advocate it on this sub. I also don't like it because it completely removes the romance from the dating process. It is way less personal and I think it warps the way people think about dating and relationships. Also I think it's one step removed from a website advertising escorts. You're basically putting yourself out the… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/02/17 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Who Is On Your Spiritual Guidance Squad?Thanks! I'm officially on vacation now so I really appreciate you asking these qs. See you on monday <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 17/02/17 02:27 AM |
| – | Who Is On Your Spiritual Guidance Squad?This post was removed because it is off topic for the sub. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/02/17 02:27 AM |
| 1 | "28 Days Of Romance Challenge" Week Three: Passion <3So great to hear that the challenge is going well for you! Also omg we are both going on long weekend trips at the same time! Travel safely <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 16/02/17 05:17 AM |
| 2 | "28 Days Of Romance Challenge" Week Three: Passion <3Aww that is so sweet! It's good that you pushed yourself, the challenge is all about expanding our comfort zone a bit. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/02/17 05:16 AM |
| 2 | "28 Days Of Romance Challenge" Week Three: Passion <3Thank you! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/02/17 05:15 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Captain/first mate ideology is just a polite way of saying I can't be happy in a relationship unless I have my way 100% of the time.Loved reading this whole exchange! :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/17 04:40 AM |
| 5 | "28 Days Of Romance Challenge" Week Three: Passion <3This week's theme is perfect timing because M and I are taking a much needed vacation starting tomorrow! I'll definitely pack some sexy lingiere :) | /r/RedPillWives | 15/02/17 06:36 PM |
| 3 | I need some help motivating my husband.Definitely; when OPs present a one sided account we have to be sure not to just accept it without questioning. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 11:59 PM |
| 10 | I need some help motivating my husband.All we have to go by is what you tell us. Your initial post gave the worst possible description of your man to the point where users went into "you go girl" mode and cheered on the idea of you dropping him like he was a useless weight. Please take responsibility not only for your initial misrepresentation of the situation but for your role in the problems you're facing currently. If you need help identifying your role and the possible solutions just let us know, it's why we're here lol | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 10:24 PM |
| 2 | I need some help motivating my husband.Looking forward to seeing the OP's response to your comment! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 06:34 PM |
| 3 | I need some help motivating my husband.Looking forward to seeing the OP's response to your comment! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 06:34 PM |
| 3 | I need some help motivating my husband.YES! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 06:18 PM |
| 6 | I need some help motivating my husband.You're not a wife. You are a provider for the lifestyle to which he has become accustomed and has no intention of changing. This x 1000! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 06:05 PM |
| 4 | I need some help motivating my husband.You can do much better and there are tons of men who are better suited for you out there. Do we really know this though? Most people date their RMV equivalents. This might be the best she can do. He may even be out of her league! She did a great job giving a negative picture of her man but doesn't seem to acknowledge her role. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 06:04 PM |
| 6 | I need some help motivating my husband.I guess what I'm saying is, your post paints him as all bad, and it's hard to see why you are with him. So what are you leaving out here? Yes! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 06:02 PM |
| 12 | I need some help motivating my husband.I agree that she isn't a plate but she certainly isn't his wife! The idea that she would want kids from a man who isn't legally bound to her is baffling. She is assuming so much risk, and she already has more on her plate than she wants. I don't think anyone here has really asked the OP the right questions to get a better sense of her situation. There are always multiple possibilities and solutions. It's not just "silently put up with it" or "leave him ASAP". I also think people are applying the… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 06:00 PM |
| 5 | I need some help motivating my husband.Thank you for this comment. You are bringing up excellent questions for the OP! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 05:48 PM |
| 4 | I need some help motivating my husband.The OP's description of her man cannot just be assumed to be 100% accurate. Calling him a child repeatedly is disrespectful and only encourages her belief that she should change him/manage him in some way. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 05:46 PM |
| 3 | I need some help motivating my husband.If you don't want to do the majority of work for a man who wants to as little as possible don't complain when the inevitable consequences of your poor choices plays out Exactly! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 05:44 PM |
| 6 | I need some help motivating my husband.She agreed to this dynamic and has been doing 80% for years. Why would her man suddenly want something different just because she does? She does not seem to understand her role in the situation and is blaming everything on him. It's not feminism's fault, she's made bad decisions and she isn't a patient saint for them. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 05:40 PM |
| 7 | I need some help motivating my husband.Let's not encourage women bashing the SOs of other women. She has been with him for years and presumably wants to stay with him. Remarks like this only encourage a disrespectful mindset and make it harder for the OP to realise her role in her situation. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 05:37 PM |
| 2 | I need some help motivating my husband.Let's not encourage women bashing the SOs of other women. She has been with him for years and presumably wants to stay with him. Remarks like this only encourage a disrespectful mindset and make it harder for the OP to realise her role in her situation. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 05:37 PM |
| 4 | I need some help motivating my husband.Let's not encourage women bashing the SOs of other women. She has been with him for years and presumably wants to stay with him. Remarks like this only encourage a disrespectful mindset and make it harder for the OP to realise her role in her situation. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 05:36 PM |
| 8 | I need some help motivating my husband.Bashing another member's SO is not okay. You are contributing to a mindset of disrespect within the OP - a woman who is not seeking an RPW solution to her situation. She signed up for this relationship and has contributed to this dynamic for years. She isn't a victim and she isn't infinitely better than her man just because she wants something different than he does. We should be questioning her judgement, calling her out for wanting to change her man, pointing out her errors in general, and ide… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 05:29 PM |
| 2 | [Repost] Ten Traps That Trip Up The "Trying-To-Be-Submissive" WifeSo glad you like it too :) | /r/RedPillWives | 11/02/17 08:13 PM |
| 2 | [Repost] Ten Traps That Trip Up The "Trying-To-Be-Submissive" WifeLOVE this idea! M and I are going on a trip this upcoming week, starting on Thurs so I'm not sure if TBT can happen this week but if not, definitely the following week :D And yes both of those are great. We could make our own RPW list! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/02/17 08:13 PM |
| 1 | [Repost] Ten Traps That Trip Up The "Trying-To-Be-Submissive" WifeOoh yes this is such a good point! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/02/17 08:11 PM |
| 6 | "28 Days Of Romance Challenge" Week Two: Support!Updates! Last week I made sure to be extra GOFL-y and it was great! We share silly moments like a pillow fight, dancing to 80s music, and I even planned a romantic bath date where we watched Narcos, drank wine, and vaped. Such a fun time and I'm looking forward to going above and beyond this week. I'm currently out with M right now (on phone) so I'll look for a opportunity to praise him publicly since we will be together all day! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/02/17 05:41 PM |
| 8 | What Men Want in a RelationshipActually yes have you ever read/heard about couples where the wife scrambles to keep things clean and stretches herself thin trying to make everything perfect, but all the man really wants to do is have her sitting next to him? Now I'm reminding myself of Mary & Martha but thats not necessarily a bad thing lol A lot of times we add on all these extra standards that while our men do appreciate, they also would be fine with the more basic version. One example is cooking dinner. Plenty of women go … | /r/RedPillWives | 06/02/17 07:49 PM |
| 1 | What Men Want in a RelationshipYes I thought this was an excellent post for the sub for this very reason :) | /r/RedPillWives | 06/02/17 07:46 PM |
| 1 | What Men Want in a RelationshipAwww how sweet of him! Receiving graciously is so key! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/02/17 07:45 PM |
| 2 | What Men Want in a RelationshipYes it's always good to review the basics, they are the most fundamental things really. So great that you are making the right changes! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/02/17 07:44 PM |
| 1 | What Men Want in a RelationshipAbsolutely! So glad you enjoyed it! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/02/17 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Healthy Boundaries in RelationshipsThis is a really good point! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/02/17 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Do you ladies have any ideas on how to pull of dresses/skirts in the winter without getting too cold?You can still post it to FNF :) | /r/RedPillWives | 04/02/17 08:38 PM |
| 4 | Healthy Boundaries in RelationshipsAgreed! And omg YES I don't get the "ouch" thing at all. It would be one thing if it was a half joke/teasing. But if you want an actual change to happen you have to be more specific. Personally I wouldn't say "That was a very hurtful thing to say. Please speak to me more respectfully" if M was angry that would just make him angrier lol. I have said things like "When you say X, it makes me feel Y, because Z". It's more in line with the idea of bringing him your problem (I feel bad) not your solut… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/02/17 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Healthy Boundaries in RelationshipsYes this mirrors my thoughts exactly. I like the concept of changing the way we think about the idea of boundaries, but not the conclusions that she reached. Women today absolutely create bad boundaries or boundaries for the wrong reasons, but is the solution to basically do away with them entirely? I don't think so. I forget who said this but Laura Doyle's work is apparently really good for women who have issues relinquishing control. I've never read The Surrendered Wife and I've only seen a fe… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/02/17 05:37 PM |
| 1 | [Free Friday] What are your thoughts on these popular posts circulating around Facebook?RPW is not a debate sub, it is a community for likeminded women. Please stop coming here to argue. Your comment is now removed. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/02/17 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Healthy Boundaries in RelationshipsCurious to hear what everyone thinks about this article. What parts do you agree with, where do you disagree? How does this apply to your own experiences? I'll be reflecting on these ideas myself and I look forward to discussing the angles with you all later :) | /r/RedPillWives | 04/02/17 09:15 AM |
| – | New Sub /r/FeminineNotFeminist For Women To Discuss Beauty Without Worrying About Being Politically Correct!Everyone on RPWives is invited to join /r/FeminineNotFeminist! FNF is a community where women can discuss all things beauty related with like-minded women. We are all about having fun and celebrating femininity! This subreddit was created because we saw how badly the reddit “beautysphere” needed a space for those with non - PC opinions. Many of us were keeping silent because we knew our comments would lead to downvotes, hostility, and conflict. /r/FeminineNotFeminist is a space where these contr… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/02/17 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Troubleshooting: For Single Women, and Women Trying to Earn ExclusivitySuch a great idea thank you for writing this up!! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/02/17 03:53 AM |
| 8 | 7 Ways to Turn Your Husband's Bad Day Into a Good OneI'm embarrassed to say this but for the longest time, when my husband had a tough day at work, I would try to outdo him and prove that ai had a tough day too. I wanted him to know that I was working hard too. But actually, I was just making him feel more tired. This is such an important realisation that you had! It's normal for women to try to out do or share similar experiences because it's part of how we bond but this can be draining or annoying to our men. So great that you noticed and change… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/02/17 02:31 AM |
| 5 | 7 Ways to Turn Your Husband's Bad Day Into a Good OneHaha I totally understand! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/02/17 02:29 AM |
| 2 | "28 Days Of Romance" Challenge For Women In Serious RelationshipsOMG congratulations!! This challenge was made up specifically for February but we will definitely have more challenges in the future :) | /r/RedPillWives | 31/01/17 05:53 AM |
| 3 | "28 Days Of Romance" Challenge For Women In Serious RelationshipsSo glad you're participating <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 31/01/17 01:43 AM |
| 2 | "28 Days Of Romance" Challenge For Women In Serious Relationships:D | /r/RedPillWives | 31/01/17 01:43 AM |
| 2 | "28 Days Of Romance" Challenge For Women In Serious RelationshipsLooking forward to hearing how the challenge works for you! | /r/RedPillWives | 31/01/17 01:43 AM |
| 3 | 45 Simple Self-Care Practices for a Healthy Mind, Body & SoulLovely list! Going to dedicate a spread in my bullet journal to these self care tips :) | /r/RedPillWives | 31/01/17 01:41 AM |
| 3 | "28 Days Of Romance" Challenge For Women In Serious RelationshipsWhat a lovely idea! This is also good timing for M and I, our lives have settled down considerably after a chaotic 2016. I've already come up with some ideas for week 1 and can't wait to share them with everyone on Wednesday! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/01/17 11:20 PM |
| 3 | "28 Days Of Romance" Challenge For Women In Serious RelationshipsYay! The first official post will be this Weds so be sure to comment then :) | /r/RedPillWives | 30/01/17 11:19 PM |
| 6 | Are Women Being Raised to Fail?I'm sorry that my statement triggered you and that you felt I was painting men as abusive. Feel better now? This tone is not necessary. You can have a disagreement with someone without resorting to passive aggressive remarks. Your ideas are at odds with the subreddit and anyone has the right to question what you are saying. If you want to discuss and defend your position you must do so respectfully. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/01/17 11:52 PM |
| 4 | Are Women Being Raised to Fail?Your claim that "dependency on someone else to be able to live led to domestic abuse and increased divorce rates." is not an accurate representation of the female experience throughout US history. It is also not an accurate description of what the overwhelming majority of SAHMs and part time workers who are dependent on their husbands experience. To me it is clear that you are missing the actual point of the article, and as I said before, there are several fabulous comments that explain the mess… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/01/17 11:49 PM |
| 6 | Are Women Being Raised to Fail?Maybe it wasn't your intention but your word choice and tone definitely made it seem like you were mocking us. Be more mindful of this in the future please! I'm glad you're just now participating in the sub, personally I lurked for half a year before posting and then another 6 months before making an original submission lol When we hit 2,000 subs we're going to have another general chat/intro thread so be sure to participate in that. Also you may be interested in our IRC room we have more in dep… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/01/17 10:02 PM |
| 4 | Are Women Being Raised to Fail?Your comment shows a complete ignorance of US history and the fact that you are trying to minimize feminist ideas so that it's just about "trying to take care of yourself" makes it clear that you don't understand feminism either. Please read the rest of the comments in this thread to get a better understanding of what the article was getting at. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/01/17 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Are Women Being Raised to Fail?But in the end we are women are we are DIFFERENT than men. Red pilling is about embracing and honoring those difference. It's not about sitting back, putting our feet up, and saying I have a husband I don't have to work now. It's about knowing we have a crucial role in the relationship that just happens to be different than his role. Embrace the womanhood, the femininity, because feminine guys suck. Exactly! And when you spend so much time focusing on how to be more like men, you are NOT develop… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/01/17 07:00 PM |
| 5 | Are Women Being Raised to Fail?Yes thank you, agreed completely :) | /r/RedPillWives | 29/01/17 06:57 PM |
| 4 | Are Women Being Raised to Fail?Focusing on one aspect of an issue isn't the same as being naive or ignoring nuance. The author has hundreds of blog posts where she explores everything related to RP, antifeminism, relationships, and culture. She doesn't need to have every post bring up every possible argument and counter argument. She just wanted to zoom in on a specific thought that interested her. You've repeatedly characterised her and our community as oblivious and shallow and this is your first and only official warning t… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/01/17 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Are Women Being Raised to Fail?Yes exactly! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/01/17 12:37 AM |
| 8 | Are Women Being Raised to Fail?It's not naive it's examining the issue and asking us to reconsider ideas that are taken for granted in mainstream society. Looking at how things are vs. how things used to be vs. how things could be is important. When you look at what actually makes the majority of women happy, and what actually makes the majority of men happy it is clear that the feminist narrative is wrong. The values we instill in people today push them along paths that aren't fulfilling. And the effects aren't just on the i… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/01/17 12:37 AM |
| 12 | Are Women Being Raised to Fail?I don't think that this article or anyone on the sub advocates that women don't do anything to develop themselves. I'm not sure if you're aware of the connotations that "independence" has when feminists advocate for it. Should women be able to pay all of their bills? Absolutely. But there is a question of priorities and values, and mindset. The lifestyle that is encouraged in the mainstream causes women to not even have many of the skills necessary for a successful marriage. You worry about wome… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/01/17 12:31 AM |
| 4 | Are Women Being Raised to Fail?You can have a steady income and even be financially independent without subscribing to the rest of feminist ideas and values. I don't think the two go hand in hand and I felt that the article does a good job pointing out a lot of the ways that women are conditioned to accept 100% of feminist and BP worldview instead of picking out the truths and ignoring the rest. Another example of this would be the idea that believing that women should receive education or the right to vote automatically make… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/01/17 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Short and Sweet. How to Let Go of Controlling BehaviorPlease explain how your comment is in line with what we advocate in RPW. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/01/17 10:36 PM |
| 4 | Date Night Megathread!One thing that I've heard from couples that have been together for 10+ years is that you have to continue to date each other. I think that setting aside time as your schedule allows is a great way to maintain the "fire" because you're always intentionally doing things to preserve the sense of lust and excitement. A break from everyday life is essential and having a designated time where you don't worry about your responsibilities is so helpful in relieving the sense of pressure that may be weigh… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/01/17 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Random RP ThoughtsYay! Yes feel free to PM me :) | /r/RedPillWives | 27/01/17 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Random RP ThoughtsI am kinda contesting this in my response, because I don't think a man would sincerely strive for this beyond virtue signaling, and even men who end up in LHL crave the respect they can't command. I agree with this completely! Personally I think that traditional dynamics and RPW style relationships are the most rewarding for 99% of people. But the question itself said that he was a feminist and wanted a feminist, so I was giving an answer based on that hypothetical. If a man thinks he wants equa… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/01/17 01:49 AM |
| 3 | Random RP ThoughtsYou're right that you can use RPW methods with most men to keep them but if a man truly wants a feminist woman and an equal relationship, agreeing to that would be not RP. You are technically doing what he wants but RPW isn't just about following your man. The real question would be, would you want to keep this man if his worldview differs greatly from yours, and if he's going to lead you to places you disagree ideologically? One of the first steps of vetting would be having respect for him, so … | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Random RP ThoughtsAgreed 100%! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 11:10 PM |
| 10 | The Ugly Truth About The Women's MarchThanks for posting this, watching now and will share comments later. Here's a funny image I found that I imagine fits in nicely with the message of this video! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Random RP ThoughtsYou don't think someone could advocate for feminism but in their personal life prefer traditional male-led dynamics? Honestly this is probably the majority of women that I meet. They only think about feminism in the grande scheme, but they go out of their way to honor, respect, and support their BFs/husbands. Most people don't break down and analyze feminism as deeply as we do here. Sure people can do that, they just aren't RPWs. You don't have to analyze feminism or politics in depth to be an R… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Random RP ThoughtsIt just makes me think that the way you view these relationships has an effect on the outcome Love this! if you still see the man as a friend and can't admit to dating him...it's going to stay that way. I think a lot of women do this to protect themselves emotionally because they know that this man isn't going to commit to them, even if they really want it and are hoping he does. Refusing to call him a hookup or some other obvious short term label makes them feel more secure. But they legitimate… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Random RP ThoughtsLOL she looks like a man too, there's a reason that half the internet jokes about her being a tranny all the time! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 05:09 PM |
| 7 | Random RP ThoughtsI personally don't believe that any "good men" are feminist but regardless RP is inherently anti feminist, pro male led relationships, pro traditional dynamics, and pro embracing male and female nature. Feminism is literally the opposite of that so it would be impossible to be both RP/W and a feminist. RPW isn't just about following men, just like how feminism isn't just about equal rights haha | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Random RP ThoughtsAwesome!! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 04:17 AM |
| 4 | Random RP ThoughtsThis would make an excellent post! Lot's that we could discuss as a community, both in general and in terms of specific advice for your situation. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Random RP ThoughtsThis would make an excellent post! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Random RP ThoughtsCongratulations on this realisation! It doesn't matter if it's obvious to anyone else, it is wonderful that you've learned something new that will benefit your relationship :) Definitely post a FR when you can! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Random RP ThoughtsI've noticed this too! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 04:14 AM |
| 3 | Random RP ThoughtsMakes sense :) Although women can be outspoken and RPW at the same time! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP - How Would You Regulate the SMP?Love all of these! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/17 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Random RP ThoughtsYes his relationship with his wife is great! I'm trying to put to words some thoughts that I'm having about women with high dominance thresholds. Our compassion for the hypermasculine is definitely not the norm, and I am not sure if this is strictly an LH thing or if HH women feel the same way. I could see HH women seeing these men as peers and partners in crime and possibly sharing a similar sense of alienation (from the female sphere). When I think of something legitimate I'll let you know, pr… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Random RP ThoughtsAbsolutely! And I'm sure this is partially why even in legitimate careers there is so much corruption and conspiracy. They need the risk, thrill, extra power, and control. These men are ambitious and will always try to get a better deal for themselves and expand their dominion. Greater betas and lesser alphas are rewarded the most in civilisations. And with feminism poisoning everyone against real men it only further alienates the hypermasculine. Why would they feel any allegiance to official la… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 07:03 PM |
| 6 | Random RP ThoughtsI disagree with this, RPW is more than "doesn't make a scene or publicly contradict her man" and it is more than agreeable, pleasant, good at conversation, etc. Unless the woman is clearly yielding to the leadership of her man, respecting his masculinity, and all the other things we talk about, they aren't examples of RPW. Michelle Obama is publicly a feminist and actually has a reputation as someone who is controlling and selfish. Having good PR and knowing how to pose doesn't make you a good w… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 06:51 PM |
| 8 | Random RP ThoughtsSeeing as Hillary doesn't believe in RP or RPW ideas, her actions are not RPW since they are not motivated by traditional dynamics or respect for masculinity. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 06:47 PM |
| 2 | "Pleaser Women" Always Lose Out - The Difference Between Pleasing and GivingI tell M when I need time for myself and I use those exact words. It helps to be specific because if you don't communicate that you want space for a period of time the other person may want to talk to you, hang out, do some activity and then when you decline they feel unwanted. It also can make you want to retreat even further because you feel like this person is intruding. It's all about how you say it, personally I just say "M I need to reset/recharge so I'll be in the bedroom/in the gym/on th… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 06:44 PM |
| 4 | "Pleaser Women" Always Lose Out - The Difference Between Pleasing and GivingWhile not perfect, this blog post makes a lot of great points about what is truly motivating women when they do things for others. Many of us are compelled to be generous, kind, forgiving, accommodating, flexible, cooperative, etc. These natural instincts are great but the way we act on them is important. Doing something helpful so that another person doesn't stop liking you is something done by a woman with nothing else to offer. If you have value to others (whether it is your looks, personalit… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Random RP ThoughtsMelania definitely is very poised, beautiful, and at least publicly a supportive wife and good mother. Personally I trust that she is wonderful behind closed doors as well. No one is perfect of course, but I don't get the same vibe that I did from Michelle, who not only has RBF she has a reputation for being controlling and rude. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 05:51 PM |
| 7 | Random RP ThoughtsM and I just started watching Narcos (no spoilers!) and I've been thinking about how so many hypermasculine men don't have many legitimate avenues in civilized societies. Those that are born in certain classes can go into politics, business, and other fields that allow them to use their strengths. Those who have athletic talent can go into sports. And then of course there are the armed forces and high risk blue collar jobs. But what about the men who have aggression, ambition, leadership skills,… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Random RP ThoughtsLol I didn't get that impression of her at all! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 05:30 PM |
| – | [Hi-First Post!] Buzzfeed's "Plus Size Fashion" video is cruel and stupid [little long, but hilarious]Lol absolutely love this video! It is both hilarious and completely true. My fav part is when he makes the point that the only reason these women look better is because they spent hours on hair, makeup, and clothing. Which is exactly what so many men and women try to tell these fat girls - put some effort into yourself! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 07:30 AM |
| 3 | There Really Is A Dating Site For Everyone (For us it would be #1)Hahaha I actually googled it and found a few references to the site being a secret whites only thing but I have no idea if it's just a rumor or meme. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/01/17 06:36 PM |
| 5 | "Are You Sure You Aren’t Unhappy?" - Ladies Do You Experience This?I know the post specifically mentions Christianity but I thought we could have a discussion about the similar messages that women get both from people in their lives and the media. Have you had conversations like this, or have you come across it in your entertainment? There is a real "crabs in a bucket" mentality to a lot of women, they just don't want others to be happier than they are and find ways to drag them back down. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/01/17 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Relationship Goals?This all sounds great! Best of luck and keep us posted :) | /r/RedPillWives | 23/01/17 05:39 AM |
| 2 | A note from my great-grandmother, and a poem by Mary D. BanghamHow lovely! Thank you for warming my heart this evening <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 23/01/17 05:39 AM |
| 5 | There Really Is A Dating Site For Everyone (For us it would be #1)LOL great find! Some of these are pretty normal and it's cool I guess that this is out there for them (allergies, stds, horse lovers, etc.). I have NO idea why I am thinking this but I feel like I heard that the farmer's site was a white supremacist site...does anyone else know what I'm talking about? Maybe it's not true and someone just made a joke, or it was a dream that I had, or possibly I'm combining an episode of Broad City with something else, who knows! That travel site is the most inter… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/01/17 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Decided between career and relationship at 22Well said!! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/01/17 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Decided between career and relationship at 22Whoa thanks for sharing this extra information, /u/rpwthrowawayyy if you are going to ask for advice you need to be honest about everything. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/01/17 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Decided between career and relationship at 22I agree with /u/TempestTcup you don't sound passionate about this guy at all! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/01/17 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes Megathread!Love it! Here is my Jan 2017 page so far, I've been adding to it as the month goes on so it won't be 100% finished until the month is over (Thanks /u/PhantomDream09 for this idea!). | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/17 11:51 PM |
| 6 | Brag About Your Man!LOL that is great! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/17 10:45 PM |
| 2 | On children and gender identity, and the impact of feminismDefinitely not cool. I'm just going to lock the thread since all the RPW have stopped discussing the subject. Anyone who is a member of the community can start up more discussions about trans related things whenever they want and in the future we'll be firmer with people coming in with blatant agendas. Thanks for your contributions :) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/17 06:55 AM |
| 4 | On children and gender identity, and the impact of feminismI'm not sure how many people will see this but I agree men have been exposed to more estrogen, and modern carb filled diets don't promote testosterone in men. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/17 04:35 AM |
| 5 | On children and gender identity, and the impact of feminismIt's incredibly disturbing! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/17 04:33 AM |
| 3 | On children and gender identity, and the impact of feminismYep they definitely had agendas! In the future we may limit random outside debaters though. I don't mind if people who are regular participants have differing opinions and want to explore that. In this thread everyone handled the two people very well and their comments did generate discussion. But I completely understand not wanting to engage further. A message to everyone: report comments you don't want to see! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/17 04:28 AM |
| 1 | The Masculine Reaction Against Feminine GlobalismOmg I just discovered this blog a few hours ago! This post was linked in one of the Social Matter "This Week In Reaction" roundups. Good to know that you like the site I'll definitely check it out more. And yes LOVE Jim's Blog! You have inspired me to find something from there that I can submit to RPW, keep an eye out for it over the next few days! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/17 04:08 AM |
| 1 | The Masculine Reaction Against Feminine GlobalismThank you! I've been part of that sphere for around 8 years now. I always enjoy sharing things with the community, and exposing more women to these ideas. Feel free to share relevant content as well :) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/17 03:58 AM |
| 1 | On children and gender identity, and the impact of feminismConfirming that I read this and will reply tomorrow! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/01/17 08:44 AM |
| 4 | On children and gender identity, and the impact of feminismBut if we're talking integrated messages from society as a whole, they're mixed-at-best today and that's a huge improvement over the very recent past. So you agree that the pro trans messages are increasing. This is a good thing from your perspective but terrible in my opinion. It seems perfectly reasonable for a layperson who knows little about the subject to trust experts unless given very good reason not to. Yes this is human nature. The issue is when this tendency is exploited and people are… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/01/17 07:23 AM |
| 4 | On children and gender identity, and the impact of feminismNor do I think you should, since I happen to agree with them. I don't agree with the media but I recognise that these messages are out there. I don't deny that your experience is accurate and representative of what other trans people may go through as well growing up. I just have a different perspective on both these things whereas you seemed to disagree with the idea that there was any support of trans people at all. At least in your first comment. As to your second point, I personally believe … | /r/RedPillWives | 20/01/17 06:42 AM |
| 4 | On children and gender identity, and the impact of feminismYour personal experiences don't invalidate the very real experiences that others have. I have both read about and seen first hand exactly what I described. There is an obvious pro trans message being promoted in the mainstream media and this is going to influence even those who don't have supportive parents. You cannot ignore the tv shows, newspaper articles, magazine features, and statements by influential people all in support of trans "rights". As far as medical definitions, you realise that … | /r/RedPillWives | 20/01/17 05:55 AM |
| 3 | On children and gender identity, and the impact of feminismAgreed 100%! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/01/17 05:25 AM |
| 5 | New evidence that humans choose their partners through assortative matingThis is so cool! It really confirms a lot of conventional wisdom (e.g. the idea of someone being in or out of your "league") and it is totally in line with what we discuss on RPW all the time. Compatibility is just more likely when the people themselves are similar. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/01/17 12:08 AM |
| 5 | The Masculine Reaction Against Feminine GlobalismI love everything about this comment and agree completely! By taking this "natural" hierarchy of power away, men have forgotten how to be men and have stopped enforcing standards within their family/community and everyone's suffering for it. This is just a perfect summation of what is happening right now. We all need standards, boundaries, rules, guidelines, expectations, and norms. That is how cultures preserve themselves and develop without weakening. When fathers are the head of the family an… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/01/17 12:06 AM |
| 8 | Not being TOO politeI'm in agreement with /u/PhantomDream09 you didn't need to give any explanation. A simple "Thanks for the invite but I can't. Hope you all have fun :)" was all you needed. Your response was actually rude in comparison to what you could have said. If you were so worried about being offensive why would you say directly that you didn't like the other women?? That is only going to make people dislike you and/or feel hurt. If you just said something similar to the example that I gave they wouldn't ha… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 11:55 PM |
| 10 | On children and gender identity, and the impact of feminismI believe that there are only two sexes and do not like how sex, gender, gender identity, gender roles, and sexuality have all been separated from each other as concepts. Legitimate transgendered people are mentally ill and not actually experiencing some sort of biological crisis. That being said, there are a lot of people who believe themselves to be the wrong gender for many reasons other than "gender identity dysphoria" or whatever the official name for the condition is. To answer your questi… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 11:39 PM |
| 2 | The Masculine Reaction Against Feminine GlobalismYay!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 08:59 PM |
| 4 | The Masculine Reaction Against Feminine GlobalismRight that's the impression that I got from the article. While on the sub we discuss the aspects of masculinity that are relevant to relationships, we can't forget that there are other dimensions that can be downright scary! Power, force, and aggression are all extremely masculine, regardless of moral systems or personal emotions. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 07:49 PM |
| 3 | The Masculine Reaction Against Feminine GlobalismAgreed 100% and you should totally start a discussion on the gender transition thing, that would be a perfect post topic for the sub! I will have to find the article but I read something about a new baby boom possibly occurring during Trump's administration. I think it's totally possible for all the reasons you said; there is just so much hope, possibility, and energy now that we haven't seen in a long time! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 07:47 PM |
| 2 | The Masculine Reaction Against Feminine GlobalismOh wow I didn't realise how things were over there! The only difference in Italy is both the man and woman are out for themselves - if there's a sign of a problem, they run. There's no sense of solving a problem together. This is definitely a problem in America as well. Many women even go into marraiges assuming that they'll divorce! And most advice given on other parts of reddit is about leaving the other person. There is no sense of commitment or loyalty. And no not everyone deserves loyalty, … | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 07:44 PM |
| 4 | The Masculine Reaction Against Feminine GlobalismYes!! Things have gotten absolutely ridiculous and I cannot wait until American men really reclaim their roles. Unfortunately I think we'll have to have things get worse before the majority hit their breaking point. If classes like the one you shared aren't motivating people to try to change things, I'm not sure what will. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 07:42 PM |
| 4 | The Masculine Reaction Against Feminine GlobalismWell this author actually isn't in favour of democracy so while your points are valid in that he doesn't mention the things that you're saying, he actually doesn't agree so that is why he doesn't bring it up! Regardless of preferred political systems, I think he did a good job describing the ways that many are now reacting to the lefitst/globalist agenda. We see it on a grand scale with world leaders, and on the local scale with everyday men (and women) calling feminists and SJWs out on their BS… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 07:39 PM |
| 5 | The Masculine Reaction Against Feminine GlobalismRight the fact that people are dying or the situation isn't ideal doesn't change the premise of the post - there is a strong masculine reaction happening right now. There are positive and negative sides of masculinity. Force and power are going to have consequences. It doesn't mean we can't talk about them in a larger discussion of the global situation. And I'm not suggesting that you're saying we can't talk about it, just emphasizing the idea that personal connections and emotions can't interfe… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 07:34 PM |
| 2 | The Masculine Reaction Against Feminine GlobalismI'm not too familiar with the situation over there and I'm also not familiar with the author's stance, perhaps he expands on his position in other posts. So far everything I've read on the site itself is gold so I am going to give the author the benefit of the doubt and not let one small thing ruin the article or the website itself. There was a lot covered in the post and as I said in my comment I'm very interested in discussing the male side of things since we focus on women primarily. What wer… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 04:49 AM |
| 5 | The Masculine Reaction Against Feminine GlobalismI look forward to us all discussing as a community some of the consequences that globalism, leftism, feminism, etc. has on masculinity. We focus a lot on the female side of things but an understanding of the male mind is key to being a good companion. This article gives a great overview of some of the ways that changes in culture have impacted men, how does it line up with your experiences and observations? | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 04:48 AM |
| 2 | LURKERS and NEW WOMEN Come say Hi - January 18, 2017Welcome, we are so glad to have you! This post is being removed because it was automated and we didn't realise it would repeat so soon. We just had a lurkers thread when we reached 1700 members and the next one will occur when we get to 200. Again, so excited that you've joined us, looking forward to getting to know you <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 18/01/17 08:39 PM |
| 1 | LURKERS and NEW WOMEN Come say Hi - January 18, 2017Welcome, we are so glad to have you! This post is being removed because it was automated and we didn't realise it would repeat so soon. We just had a lurkers thread when we reached 1700 members and the next one will occur when we get to 200. Again, so excited that you've joined us, looking forward to getting to know you <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 18/01/17 08:38 PM |
| 2 | LURKERS and NEW WOMEN Come say Hi - January 18, 2017Welcome, we are so glad to have you! This post is being removed because it was automated and we didn't realise it would repeat so soon. We just had a lurkers thread when we reached 1700 members and the next one will occur when we get to 200. Again, so excited that you've joined us, looking forward to getting to know you <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 18/01/17 08:38 PM |
| – | LURKERS and NEW WOMEN Come say Hi - January 18, 2017New women: welcome, we are so glad to have you! This post is being removed because it was automated and we didn't realise it would repeat so soon. We just had a lurkers thread when we reached 1700 members and the next one will occur when we get to 200. Again, so excited that you've joined us, looking forward to getting to know you <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 18/01/17 08:37 PM |
| 2 | "Junking feminism is the best answer to our loneliness epidemic"Great article! Loneliness is not often discussed as a consequence of feminism so this was a very interesting and refreshing read. It's so sad how isolated people are even though we have so many advancements that should be bringing us closer together. Feminism absolutely encourages selfishness and immaturity so I'm glad this was brought up as well. Thanks for sharing it with the sub :) | /r/RedPillWives | 18/01/17 06:34 PM |
| 2 | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?It's both a communication issue and a fundamental disagreement about certain things. I won't try to change your mind but I will clarify the things that were misunderstood. Not everyone on the sub has to agree about every single thing but there are definitions and concepts that we all do have to at least agree are defined a certain way. Without a shared understanding of what an idea means discussion is impossible. We're seeing right here exactly how communication can get complicated if people are… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 08:39 PM |
| 5 | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?The first sentence of your comment is a personal attack, please remove it. The rest of your comment is gold but you're getting downvotes because of the insult. Also please see my comments to /u/Sunhappy_DC I talk about the source of the miscommunication on the subject. You and I have been discussing something completely different it seems. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 08:19 PM |
| 3 | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?Just wanted to quote myself to further clarify my position where to meet men: I do not think that meeting a man at a bar or party is objectively un RPW...There is not an "RPW location" to meet a man, although there are certainly locations that are un RPW. Just like how there is no one way to dress as an RPW but plenty of ways that are un RPW to dress! That being said the location isn't the only factor so there can be both RPW and non RPW ways to meet men at a bar, just as there can be RPW and no… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 08:10 PM |
| 1 | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?I edited my post because I forgot to touch on the last two parts of your comment, didn't want you to miss them! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 08:07 PM |
| 1 | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?Correct. In the SMP that exists AS IT DOES RIGHT NOW, there are so many variable ways women interact with potential boyfriends and husbands and it's not always pretty or clean or ideal. That's just the cards we were all dealt. All of us. Yes but we are not forced to follow a specific path just because we are dealt certain cards. There is a lot in our control and the status quo of the SMP doesn’t have to dictate our personal sexual strategy. Just because other women are doing X doesn’t mean you s… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 08:02 PM |
| 5 | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?And your advice is always wonderful! :) | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 07:15 PM |
| 2 | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?I don't think that you're understanding the implications of your first comment. It absolutely matters how you get him - there are just a multitude of great ways to get a man. Bar vs grocery store vs class vs work are all different examples of completely valid ways to get a man. There are also several not great ways to get a man, which I mentioned in the last comment and in the sexual strategy post. You are making a blanket statement that it doesn't matter how. I am saying, yes it does. If you ar… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 06:57 PM |
| 5 | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?The way that you got your man, trashy or not, doesn't mean that you can't now apply RPW ideas to your relationship. But this doesn't mean that single women should completely disregard RPW theory and strategy and just wait until they are married to start being great women. Many women would have better marriages if they had access to RPW at an earlier age and could apply the ideas while dating and at the early stages of the LTR and marriage. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 06:50 PM |
| 3 | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?Please see my comment here: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/comments/5oi23r/rp_advice_on_relationships_vs_marriages/dcjtkv3/ | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 06:47 PM |
| 5 | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?Actually there is a specific approach to RPW relationships, I detail this in my Female Sexual Strategy post. The way that you get a man makes a huge difference in the success of your relationship. Any single woman who is interested in a harmonious marriage should navigate the SMP with a different set of values and an approach that both reflects who she is and gets her what she wants. Not all approaches to dating are equal. There are many terrible ways to start off a relationship - faking a pregn… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 06:47 PM |
| 3 | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?Here's a post all about vetting, not sure if you saw it when it was posted originally! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 06:15 PM |
| 3 | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?Just to be clear the term "submission" is still perfectly applicable to LTRs, some women are more comfortable with other terms but it is not more accurate to say "deference". Have you read this post on female sexual strategy, I speak about the different uses of RPW at each relationship stage. There is no point during the relationship process where a woman is not making use of the 3 main categories of RPW - girl game, traditional dynamics, and good character. Whether it's date one or year 15 psyc… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Bullet JournalingThank you! Okay so now I'm going to link a lot of things. When i was planning my journal I would search specific things like "gratitude log" or "weekly layout" both on google and instagram. I didn't save things as I go so this list is cobbled together from what I could remember and what I could find in my history. I'm not part of any bullet journal community online or in real life but there are many and I know they can point you in the right direction. Search the hashtags on instagram to see eve… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Bullet JournalingOh no now I feel bad haha there are so many different ways to do have a bullet journal and plenty of great ones that don't involve illustrations! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Bullet JournalingThank you!! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Bullet JournalingI bullet journal! Just started this year! Going to come back and edit this comment with links to blogs and YT channels as well as show a few pics of mine! Someone just remind me if I don't lol (/u/BellaScarletta thanks for pinging me!) Edit: here is my Jan cover page, the whole bujo is floral themed and this one is about 90% finished. I got the bulk of what I needed set up during the last week of 2016 and I'm taking my time with the final decorations. I haven't drawn anything in a while but I us… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 03:19 AM |
| 2 | The Modern Marriage Trap and What to Do About ItAbsolutely! And it is sad, but I think that we'll see a lot more women wake up and reject feminism now thanks to Trump and the new culture he is ushering in. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 09:14 PM |
| 5 | The Modern Marriage Trap and What to Do About ItThis is great info thanks for sharing it with us! Of course it's appropriate, knowing who she is and what she believes gives us more context for this article. I totally agree she is pushing a feminist agenda through her work, her neutral tone just conceals her bias and intentions. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 09:13 PM |
| 4 | The Modern Marriage Trap and What to Do About ItOh yes there was never any expectation that Time would delve into these things haha unfortunately the way they present the ideas influences how others consider the subject, so I thought it was worth looking at the implicit lessons being imparted in addition to the main points. They definitely did as good of a job as they could with neutrality, even if they still were promoting feminist ideas and myths like the gender pay gap. Something I just thought about right now - I can easily imaging women … | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 07:29 PM |
| 10 | The Modern Marriage Trap and What to Do About ItThis article brought up a lot of issues that people are facing but the feminist bias prevented them from talking about some of the causes and solutions to those problems. One thing that didn't get brought up but I feel like it contributes to the stress women feel is that they don't just want a sharing of household duties, they want to share the leadership position as well. So they have multiple sources of pressure at home whereas if they only focused on certain things, they would feel more at ea… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Attachment Style Test!!!I think this sounds entirely like you (both the beginning and the part that especially resonated with you). I was skeptical of the test due to the questions themselves but the results are very accurate. Thanks for sharing it with the sub! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 06:49 PM |
| 2 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?Haha deal! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 06:43 PM |
| 2 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?Thank you so much :) | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 06:43 PM |
| 1 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?Yes of course! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Attachment Style Test!!!Yay twins <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 07:57 AM |
| 3 | Attachment Style Test!!!I got Ambivalent (On Edge + Engaging) and from what I'm reading it's very accurate. Depending on the setting I take on the Helpmate or Playmate role, usually the Playmate, which lines up with the description of my type. Very cool quiz, looking forward to learning more about the theory! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 05:50 AM |
| 1 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?Haha loved reading your rant :) | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 01:56 AM |
| 1 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?I think a lot of people would agree with you. I'm on the total opposite end of the spectrum though, I am beauty obsessed! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 01:56 AM |
| 2 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?They're my favourite fruit! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 01:55 AM |
| 6 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?I usually lose respect for a SAHM when I see that her entire Facebook feed is about justifying her choice to be a SAHM (for example, those videos/infographics about how "A SAHM is worth more than 100K per year!"). It reeks of insecurity. Also, while that kind of SAHM are on Facebook, they aren't taking care of the house nor the kids, now are they. I really don't like a lot of these types of arguments in favour of SAHM. When you justify homemaking and mothering by equating it with things in the m… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 01:55 AM |
| 1 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?Awesome, so excited for you :D | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 01:46 AM |
| 2 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?M agrees with you about cilantro/coriander! I personally love it :) | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 01:46 AM |
| 1 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?Haha I'm with you! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 01:44 AM |
| 2 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?You're right they do look like teens! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 01:44 AM |
| 1 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?Agreed! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 01:43 AM |
| 3 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?I don't think it's illogical at all. Eating more meat is a great way to increase testosterone so a man who doesn't eat as much meat is usually going to have less of that hormone. Similarly certain fruits and vegetables can increase estrogen and other female specific hormones. It's not surprising that our bodies have developed this way, it's only recently that we've had such an abundance of choice as a species in terms of what to eat. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 02:43 AM |
| 2 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?Ooh I bet it looks so cool! Women who can pull off grey are so lucky. I'm pretty sure my Godmother actually died her hair grey early because she looked so awesome with grey hair (imagine Meryl Streep in The Devil Wears Prada.) | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 12:35 AM |
| 2 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?:D | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 12:33 AM |
| 3 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?I didn't realise that bike lanes, parks, and hiking trails weren't widely available! That should totally be a priority I agree. I'd rather companies and communities handle gyms and pools but that's because I'm interested in keeping taxes as low as possible. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 12:31 AM |
| 1 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?Ew really?! That reminds me of the weird girls in HS who wore converse sneakers with their prom dresses (not sure if this was just a regional thing but it was trendy in my area). | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 12:30 AM |
| 3 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?I think men not eating meat are really weird. I don't know why I feel that way, I just do. Agreed! There is something really masculine and primal about a man eating and enjoying meat. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 12:29 AM |
| 2 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?Never sit/sleep/lounge on your bed while wearing the same clothes you were wearing while outside the house. Agreed! I take it a bit further and don't even get under the covers unless I'm sleeping or taking a nap. If I'm just lounging on the bed I am on top of the comforter and use blankets (unless it's freezing). M thinks it's really weird but at least he agrees about outside clothes vs inside clothes haha | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 12:28 AM |
| 2 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?Ocean view? So jealous! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 12:26 AM |
| 3 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?The words "hipster" and "milennial" have both lost their meanings. Hipster just means "person who does things I don't like and probably has brown hair and glasses" and "milennial" just means "anyone young I feel like whining about." YES! Thank you! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 12:25 AM |
| 2 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?America is the best country in the world, and if you think otherwise, you're just wrong. Looking forward to making it great again. Fuck yeah!! USA! USA! USA! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 12:22 AM |
| 3 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?Dim lighting is the best lighting! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 12:22 AM |
| 1 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?So true! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 12:21 AM |
| 2 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?Hahah this happens way more often then it should! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 12:21 AM |
| 3 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?Are avocados still trendy? I feel like people were obsessed with them at one point. They're tasty but not worth all that hype imo, hummus is also really overrated! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/01/17 08:55 PM |
| 4 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?Totally with you for #1 and #2! I can't stand doing dishes though, I always have to have a youtube video or TV show playing at the same time as I load and unload the dishwasher. Can't imagine always washing things by hand! I'm a cooker not a cleaner :) | /r/RedPillWives | 10/01/17 08:51 PM |
| 4 | Simple Questions - January 07, 2017Wear thin layers underneath your work clothes that are designed to keep you warm! There are lots of companies that make gear for athletes and people who enjoy outdoor activities but want to stay warm. No one will know you're wearing it since they're thin. This + scarves, ear warmers, extra warm gloves (there are fashionable and warm gloves out there), and tights should keep you warm. Also could you not wear turtleneck tops with your suits, and have those suits be tweed or a thick wool? | /r/RedPillWives | 08/01/17 12:16 AM |
| 5 | Simple Questions - January 07, 2017Agreed completely! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/01/17 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Anyone here going to buy Milo Yiannopoulos' new book (or actually like him)?I love Milo, definitely will get the book, and I'll start a discussion on the sub after we've all had time to read it!! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/01/17 09:37 PM |
| 3 | RPW and Interracial DatingYou can talk about that subject on the sub, I get wanting the post to stay on topic but the content in general isn't against the rules or anything. And it's free Friday, so don't feel like you have to hold back! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/01/17 09:00 PM |
| 7 | Something Funny To Brighten Your Day :)LOL I literally just did a spit take! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/01/17 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Rehabilitating FeminismOops I commented the same thing before seeing that you said it already (was responding from my messages page not this page). Thanks for stepping in :) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/01/17 08:50 PM |
| 4 | Rehabilitating FeminismNext time include your thoughts and purpose for submitting in the comments, or submit the link in a text post and share your intentions there. It's helpful when the OP sets the frame for the discussion. If I hadn't commented first this post probably would have been removed because it's against the subreddit rules. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/01/17 08:44 PM |
| 3 | What does submission mean to you?I'm glad you brought it up as well. I love the term "submissive" and don't want anyone in this community to feel like they can't use it if it's a term/concept that resonates with them. I understand why some women feel uncomfortable or don't like the term but that doesn't mean it has to be off limits for everyone and sometimes the discussion goes in that direction. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/01/17 12:15 AM |
| 2 | What does submission mean to you?You're welcome! There's nothing wrong with being a naturally generous, kind, helpful, etc. person and I think it's terrible the way people discourage women who are naturally like this. I've experienced the same thing you're describing, in addition to people not wanting me to be as cheerful or optimistic all the time. As long as we're not letting anyone take advantage of us, and all boundaries are being maintained there's nothing wrong with being ourselves! It's possible to be considerate, caring… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/01/17 12:11 AM |
| 11 | Rehabilitating FeminismI’m not sure if you posted this post because you feel like it is in line with RPW ideas or if you are posting it for us to dissect and discuss. I’ll assume the second one though because this is definitely not what RPW is interested in at all. I have too many thoughts so I’ll just do bullet points and respond to things chronologically! The distinction people are making between Islam and Islamism is idiotic and only further preventing people from addressing the very real issue. It isn’t some extre… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/01/17 07:32 PM |
| 4 | What does submission mean to you?You’re right that huge decisions where the man’s veto power is used don’t come up super often in most of the relationships in RPW, but I think this is likely because when you employ RPW concepts and tips, the relationship becomes more harmonious and you’re more likely to agree in general. Submission isn’t only seen in single acts, it can be practised daily just by embracing traditional relationship dynamics and psychological femininity. While users have different personal definitions of submissi… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/01/17 05:41 PM |
| 4 | Hipsters Broke My GaydarYeah I thought this article was really funny! I agree context is key, but so many girls rock the hipster look on a daily basis. It's more than just casual or outdoorsy, there's a specific aesthetic and even if you do engage in outdoor activities it's easy to not look like a lesbian at the same time lol. I find it so interesting when choices that signal a specific lifestyle become mainstream or even cool. I'm not familiar with the lesbian subculture so I have no idea what they do now to different… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/01/17 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Hipsters Broke My GaydarHahaha yes! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/01/17 02:43 AM |
| – | Hipsters Broke My GaydarI thought this was an interesting read! The article isn't written by someone who shares an RPW perspective but they bring up a lot of things that we often discuss on this sub. Let's discuss both her thoughts and also the phenomenon in general. Note: This article is about fashion choices and there are plenty of negative things to say about the particular lesbian/hipster style. Please be mindful of the variety of women who make up this community when making statements about fashion in general. Whi… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/01/17 12:49 AM |
| 3 | January 2017 Events!Thank you! If you ever have any ideas for megathreads definitely let us know :) | /r/RedPillWives | 03/01/17 03:43 AM |
| 4 | End Of The Year LetterWhat a great year for RPW! We've really made this subreddit an amazing space that truly changes lives. Thank you all so much for your support throughout the various difficulties I've faced in 2016. I am really looking forward to how awesome our community will be in 2017, we have fun things planned and I know that the dedicated members will contribute amazing things as well. Hope you all have a safe and fun New Year's Eve/Day! Please take this end of the year letter to heart, we truly love you al… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/12/16 12:13 AM |
| 3 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016This is a great question and in the future, feel free to submit it as its on post on Fridays so that more people can see it :) | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Hygge Helps Explain Millennials' Longing For ReenchantmentI feel like the NY Post made this argument against hygge because that's literally how the writers and readers understand the world and interact with things. There have been tons of trends in America that seemed authentic on the surface but really it was just a new status competition. As an example: minimalism. The lifestyle niche is real and it was a legitimate trend for a bit but it very quickly turned into a competition, one that often required more consumption and purchases! Of course this do… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Hygge Helps Explain Millennials' Longing For ReenchantmentThis wasn't mentioned at all in the article but I was also thinking recently about how holiday traditions are made much better with the presence of children. Some aspects seem pointless when it's just adults. Currently in my family it's just adults and pets in the dinner party, and while it's very pleasant, there's a certain aspect of the holidays that is there just for children. I've been thinking that very often the way millennials try to recreate their childhood looks immature and ridiculous … | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Define, Create, and Nurture True LoveThis is such a great read! I still prefer Robert Nozick's definition of love, but I like the how they gave concrete examples and advice instead of all theory or scientific jargon. Of course #7 is something I disagree with. They say that in the best relationships, both parties are "Noncontrolling, nonmanipulative and nonthreatening" and that "In order for a relationship to be truly loving, it must be equal." I question the biases of the people conducting the study as well as their methods in asse… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 08:16 PM |
| 2 | [Sanity] Vent, Share, and celebrate!How can anyone give you "constructive advice" when you leave out key information? | /r/RedPillWives | 29/12/16 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Please help me learn how to forgive my husbandTl;dr: get over yourself! First, welcome to the community, and thank you for coming to us for advice, please understand that the women commenting are taking time out of their day to help you and while some may employ a bit of tough love, it's only because we feel like you need a bit of a reality check :) Your husband seems like a man who really prides himself in his ability to provide for his family. It isn't surprising then that he would be embarrassed to rely on food banks or that he would try… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/12/16 08:34 PM |
| 7 | CMV: I would advise feminists like me to avoid guys who are looking for a 'first mate'.Feminists in general are more likely to have very strong world views This is just ridiculous. You can have strong or weak worldviews regardless of your political ideology. Feminist women are not somehow more advanced and strong willed. Non feminist women can strongly oppose feminism and prefer traditional dynamics. Some women who prioritise a harmonious relationship and stable family life over their own interests, careers and convictions We don't choose a relationship over our interests, careers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/16 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Why Are So Many Women Depressed?Glad you enjoyed it :) The other posts I linked in my comment to this post have more info on the subject if you are interested! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/12/16 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Why Are So Many Women Depressed?Thank you I will give this a read! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/12/16 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Why Are So Many Women Depressed?Yeah I get that it's classified as a mental illness based on today's standards but since the response is actually the expected human response to the situation, I feel like it's not an illness at all. There aren't chemical imbalances or other tangible issues. Similarly, a lot of young men are diagnosed with ADD and ADHD when really they are just young boys full of energy, with different interests and drives. They can't function in a feminized school system. Basically any deviation from the mainst… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/12/16 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Why Are So Many Women Depressed?Let me think more about what I mean by the femininity thing and search for related articles and essays. I'll make a post on the sub when there's something people can actually discuss :) Hope you enjoy the blog it's one of my favs, don't read it at work though! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/12/16 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Why Are So Many Women Depressed?No problem, let me know what you think of his ideas, it really is a beautiful essay! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/12/16 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Why Are So Many Women Depressed?Agreed completely! Although you have to wonder - is it legitimately depression if people are having an expected response to being at odds with their nature and living an unfulfilling life? Isn't being sad and disliking yourself the well adjusted response? Can we really call that a mental illness? | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/16 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Why Are So Many Women Depressed?You're welcome! I feel like the definition of femininity has narrowed as time has gone on because people see being female as one of many qualities instead of an overarching category that contains most of the other qualities. No idea if that makes sense at all so let me know if I need to clarify. Basically we think of a lot of characteristics as universal human traits now instead of masculine and feminine traits. Which results in the mistaken idea that femininity is separate from all other person… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/16 09:27 PM |
| 6 | Why Are So Many Women Depressed?I've never heard of Hygge before so thanks for introducing me to a new concept :) I agree with you the standards and expectations of the everyday American have risen dramatically when it comes to lifestyle and what is considered an essential/basic. In addition to technological advances, the flood of women into the modern work environment is definitely related since has given both individuals and families more to spend. I think another reason that we won't admit is that careers just aren't as val… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/16 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Why Are So Many Women Depressed?I always love when you mention Strauss and Howe's Generational Theory. The first time I read it my mind was blown and it's impossible to look at current events without thinking about their ideas. The cocooning vs social theory definitely falls in line with the Four Turnings concept, and it is incredible watching my generation literally fall apart right now. I hope we can have more discussions about both these ideas on the sub, it is such an interesting lens to view our culture through. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/16 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Why Are So Many Women Depressed?So glad you liked it! I agree with your takeaways, it makes sense that a realistic understanding of our strengths, weaknesses, and tendencies, would lead to a greater sense of self acceptance and happiness. When women delude themselves into thinking that sex/gender has no relevance, they are setting themselves up for disappointment one way or another. And don't get me started on the decline of men! That should be it's own post and discussion lol Thanks for linking to Milo, he always has great in… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/16 08:53 PM |
| 6 | Why Are So Many Women Depressed?I thought this was a great exploration of some of the potential reasons many women today report feeling depressed. Another great article on the same subject can be found here. Both posts point out the very real consequences that feminism has on the way women relate to themselves and the world. Feel free to disregard any religious and moral messages within the posts, and know that I have not taken a good look at the sites these articles are on so we're not endorsing them or anything as a sub. Let… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/16 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Female Sexual StrategyYou're really not getting it and it's frustrating that after all of this it doesn't seem like anything really stuck. You know I like you and this is why I'm even taking thee time to explain. But you did exactly what I asked you not to do. You are trying to defend yourself again when there is nothing more to say. The entire point of Phantom's comment was to point out your bad reasoning. You took a literal interpretation of a singular statement that she made and the comment you linked to actually … | /r/RedPillWives | 17/12/16 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Female Sexual StrategyDo you understand that you started a completely different conversation with Phantom without giving any indication that you were doing so? You kept responding and not connecting your thoughts or explaining your thought process. Not only that but you did not engage with anything Phantom was saying about your original comment. You zeroed in on the least relevant part and refused to listen when she told you that you were bringing up unrelated things. When you comment within an existing conversation,… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/12/16 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Female dread gameI totally love the idea of having levels just like the male version but to me this doesn't seem like desire game but rather the basic steps that all users are encouraged to do when they decide to apply RPW to their lives. Most of the things on this list should be done before desire game ever becomes an option, and I think the very last level should be leaving the man/divorce/separation. In a different comment to this post I outlined some thoughts on when desire game could be used. To me, desire … | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 10:05 PM |
| 7 | Female dread gameYay!! So we totally need a new name other than “dread game” so that people don’t get the wrong idea (building off of /u/PhantomDream09’s comment how about “desire game”?). But what the two approaches have in common is that they are used when normal RP means aren’t enough to achieve the desired results. Men use dread game when the issue is their wives, women can use “desire game” when they have done all they can through normal RPW strategy and need a more focused solution to the issue. In these c… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Female Sexual StrategyYou are being extremely literal. In addition to being super literal, you are arguing a point that no one is contesting. No one was discussing control vs influence just like no one was discussing can vs should. We were discussing the optimal way to achieve a result, and how to best classify the different avenues women take. You inserted yourself into our conversation. When you bring up these unrelated things, it comes across as you taking a position within the existing argument, and in this case … | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 08:02 PM |
| 6 | RPW HAS REACHED 1700+ SUBSCRIBERS!!!! NEW MEMBERS AND LURKERS INTRODUCE YOURSELF :DWelcome everyone!! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Female Sexual StrategyGlad I could help! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Female Sexual StrategyCorrect me if I'm wrong, but to me, it sounds like the fundamental difference here is for what single women 'should' use as their sexual strategy. The fundamental issues being discussed are: can strategies and choices be RP but not RPW? And what determines the “RP”ness of a strategy or choice? While we used examples that involved single women this is a question that applies to every stage of a relationship. A single woman, in theory, has not acquired exclusive commitment from a man and is theref… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Female Sexual StrategyYeah I don't know if its possible to have too many good traits but it is definitely possible to misuse the good traits. If you're super strict and hold everyone to extremely high standards you'll probably be viewed as dull or rigid. If you can't have fun or break rules occasionally that would be a deal breaker for a lot of men. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Female Sexual StrategyThank you and you're welcome!! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Female Sexual StrategyOoh I love it! I would also like to explore how women can improve marriages when the issue is the man. MRP and other similar places have different levels of dread and I feel like we could come up with something over the course of several posts and discussions that is like that but the female version, one that isn't manipulative, if that's possible in any way lol. Not asking how to change the man but what are the RPW steps that can make your situation better, whether by inspiring him to change or… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Female Sexual StrategyThank you so much! I've added it throughout the wiki and it is also linked in the welcome message on the sidebar. I hope that we can share it as necessary across the sub so that everyone has a consistent understanding of our main ideas. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Female Sexual StrategyGreat points! So many women believe that things just happen to them instead of having agency and making things happen for themselves. This is why I really like the emphasis that RPW places on personal responsibility and focusing on what is directly in your control. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Female Sexual StrategyThank you! Have you checked out our Essential Posts? Lots of in depth content there. There are also a lot of things about different aspects of femininity if you look under the "Insightful" flair. Also if you look through my submissions I tend to share articles and start discussion about the subject as it is one of my favourites. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Female Sexual StrategyThank you for your response! This comment is really long so I only went in detail on things I didn’t agree with, knowing that we will discuss the subject more in the future in chat. I really value your perspective and appreciate that you took the time to write everything out and I look forward to future conversations about sexual strategy :) Marriage doesn't seem to be held in the proper respect anymore. This may be true in some areas and social circles but that doesn’t change the actual legal b… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Female Sexual StrategyLol love that movie!! That's great the the topic of character resonated with you. Off the top of my head, here are some examples of bad character: entitlement, laziness, lack of personal accountability, cunty-ness (hard to define but you know it when you see it), being boring, vindictiveness, pettiness, and anger management issues. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 04:23 AM |
| 5 | Female Sexual StrategyWelcome to the sub! I actually had things ranked from least important to most important in terms of acquiring marriage. Appearance gets men to notice you and keeps them attracted but your SMV is not as important as the other assets in the grand scheme of things. Of course it should be a priority, and it is my personal belief that focusing on appearance is an excellent way to develop feminine personality traits (much in the same way that physical activity can help men become more masculine). We s… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Female Sexual StrategySo glad you like the post! There may not be a 'RP' way to brush you hair, but understanding the physical appeal and allure that goes along with hair as an indicator of youth, femininity, and attractiveness will help women begin to improve their physical appearance. So it goes with emotional flaws and similar behavioral red-flags. There are methods that will absolutely increase or decrease the likelihood of success. This community has a core purpose that involves identifying, defining, and expand… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 12:58 AM |
| 6 | Female Sexual StrategyThank you and you're welcome! Now we can share this post with new users and those who are confused about the official position on the subreddit. A lot of people conflate a user's personal opinion with RPW gospel. The part that you quoted is key, and I hope we can all delve into the pros and cons of different RPW specific strategies in the future. One thing I'd love to have a discussion on is female dread game - does it exist, what would it look like, how is it different from male dread game, how… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 12:35 AM |
| 6 | Reductress » How to Give Your Kids The Sex Talk Without Revealing Mommy Used to Be a HoeHahaha love it! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/16 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Don't be Daisy DuckIn fact I think the biggest RP message in Beauty and the Beast is probably for the men; Gaston was alpha af, but he let oneitis ruin his life. YES OMG! He could have been with those 3 hot girls (I want to say they were sisters but I don't remember exactly), they would have shared him, or one would marry him and have all of his babies. Also I talked about it in this post but Belle totally turned the Beast into a greater beta | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 08:29 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Define Cheating?Agreed completely! I have a half formed thought right now about transparency vs ignorance and one's view on divorce. Most women today seem to want to know every tiny detail, men can't even go to a bachelor party without having to send text updates (I know that's an specific example but I've seen this first hand and it represents a larger trend in a certain segment of America). But these same women are more likely to leave over cheating of any kind, which is totally their right, but if people had… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 08:24 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Define Cheating?Right the context of the interaction with the escort (or any woman really) definitely would determine the impact it has on me. Have you read this comment left by /u/tintedlipbalm? I'm interested in hearing your thoughts, does it line up with your approach to the subject as well? | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 08:16 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Define Cheating?I think Phantom was right to use the term "cheating" in her original question because it also applies to other relationships that aren't marriage. I agree that a lot of things are not adultery but still inappropriate or breaking commitment/boundaries. It's definitely interesting to see where people draw the line and what their deal-breakers are. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 08:14 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Define Cheating?Yes you explained this perfectly!! It's hard to get the idea across because a lot of women today don't have this mindset so when you try to give a more traditional view it sounds like you're endorsing cheating, or that you are fine with an open marriage. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 08:10 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Define Cheating?Ooh I didn't even think about strippers or cam girls! Your boundaries make total sense and it's great that you're sticking by them. Personally I'm okay with strippers in the context of bachelor parties or vegas or casinos or something but regularly going (solo or with friends) is weird to me. I know that some men really enjoy that though so this isn't really against them, it just would be a deal breaker for me. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 06:20 AM |
| 1 | How Do You Define Cheating?Hahaha love it! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 06:18 AM |
| 4 | How Do You Define Cheating?I love that you both use the biblical definition! I was hoping that someone would chime in about porn being infidelity. I personally grew up with the idea that porn was evil and adultery just like many Christians and so it is weird to me to see how normalised it is in the West today. I understand intellectually the arguments in favour of porn and don't view it as pure evil anymore but I can't get rid of all of my upbringing. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 06:17 AM |
| 3 | How Do You Define Cheating?Hahaha that ties in with what /u/Sunhappy_DC was saying about resources, did you read her comment? I feel like for a lot of women the emotional aspect of the relationship is the most important when they're with an alpha man because obtaining this level of commitment is more challenging and therefore more worth it. Not everyone gets to date or marry the alpha but sleeping with him is far easier. If he starts giving his emotions, focus, interest, etc. to other women, what does the current girl hav… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 06:12 AM |
| 1 | How Do You Define Cheating?I agree with you that emotional affairs aren't on the same level. If I were to describe one I'd say: long phone calls/texts/chats, hanging out in person often, sharing secrets, romantic feelings shared between the two of them, confiding what you don't like about your SO and relationship to them, physical interaction such as hugging, hand holding, laying your head on them, sitting on laps, kissing on the cheek or forehead, etc. I can easily see how this sort of thing could hurt more than a random… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 06:08 AM |
| 2 | How Do You Define Cheating?I've shown up to a bar at his request where a girl was leaning in and staring at him and had just bought him a drink - he happily introduced me as his fiance and she scuttled off quick - we laughed HARD. Hahaha that is awesome! M and I are fine with each other flirting with a purpose, its very useful for getting discounts and preferential treatment. Also it can be funny as you and B clearly know :) This is something we're always upfront about though, and we share a laugh together when we trade t… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 06:04 AM |
| 1 | How Do You Define Cheating?I responded to a different comment: Disclaimer: This is all just me thinking out loud, and not in any way an offical RPW position. It's really weird of me but I basically don't see prostitutes as real people. I know objectively that they are but something about the fact that they're performing a job makes things seem more detached. When I think about it, I have a hard time viewing escorts differently than tailors or hair stylists. I know they are completely different, but I don't have the same v… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 06:01 AM |
| 2 | How Do You Define Cheating?Disclaimer: This is all just me thinking out loud, and not in any way an offical RPW position. It's really weird of me but I basically don't see prostitutes as real people. I know objectively that they are but something about the fact that they're performing a job makes things seem more detached. When I think about it, I have a hard time viewing escorts differently than tailors or hair stylists. I know they are completely different, but I don't have the same visceral reaction, the emotions aren'… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 06:00 AM |
| 1 | How Do You Define Cheating?Well fwiw I meant open communication insofar as defining cheating in your own relationship, since interpretations can clearly be gray. Definitely! Mismatched expectations and lack of boundaries seems to be a common pattern when it comes to a lot of relationship issues not just infidelity. I agree with the second part of your comment as well, not knowing about a random hookup is different than say a secret, passionate affair with the same woman for years right under your nose. Regardless of the l… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 10:54 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Define Cheating?This makes so much sense! If there were something that I couldn't fulfill in someone's life I would vet them out from the start. Yep this is so key and definitely a big way to reduce the likelihood of cheating happening in the first place. Peace out yo cause you want something that I expressly will not and cannot do which is probably illegal and depraved. Hahaha I can always feel your voice through your comments :) | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016That is so neat, I'll try to get one ASAP it looks super useful. Thanks for sharing it! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 09:55 PM |
| 8 | How Do You Define Cheating?cheating is however a man improperly allocates his resources of value to YOU to another person. LOVE! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 09:53 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Define Cheating?Loving what I'm reading so far! Here are some thoughts I have on infidelity: Dating: Until it is clear that the two of you are in a relationship, I don't think it's cheating for either person to go on dates with other people, or be physical with others. LTR + Marriage: I think any romantic interaction at all with other women is cheating with the exception of prostitutes/escorts. I also think lighthearted flirting is fine, or flirting with a purpose (e.g. to get a discount, further a business dea… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 09:52 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Define Cheating?Totally agree about the distinction between cheating an inappropriate! I also agree that cheating isn't the worst thing that could happen. One area where we part ways is when it comes to the desire for open communication. For a lot of instances that count as cheating (eg random makeout with a floozy at the bar) I'd rather be blissfully unaware that anything was going on and not have my relationship dynamic changed. I'd also prefer to avoid being embarrassed by news of the infidelity being made p… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 09:42 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Define Cheating?You were totally clear! I've seen people say the exact opposite - that if they were doing the best they could and he still cheated then they would understand as it is male nature and it's out of their hands. But you would actually leave someone, regardless of kids, length of the relationship, etc? Obviously there is no one right answer here I just find everyone's approach to this subject so interesting because we all have such different perspectives. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 09:35 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Define Cheating?Very interesting! For some reason I'm more bothered by the thought of an emotional affair (whether its just feelings or physical + emotional) than a strictly physical case of infidelity. I think it ties into what /u/Sunhappy_DC is saying about resource allocation. Do you think what she says in her comment applies to how you rank the different ways a man can be unfaithful/break his commitment? | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 09:33 PM |
| 7 | How Do You Define Cheating?Agreed! There are definitely a lot of women who consider merely looking at another woman to be out of bounds and I feel like that's really hard to control and will only lead to him resenting you. Attractive women exist and we can't do anything about it. I actually find that talking with M about women we both find attractive in the area helps me not feel super territorial or threatened. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 09:30 PM |
| 2 | GratituesdayYay so glad it worked out for you!! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 08:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR] It pays off to be a lady!Congratulations! It's great that you stopped stifling yourself and embraced your instincts. People really do respond differently to women who are friendly, open, smiling, and light. And men especially love helping the "damsel in distress" haha So many go about their day closed off to those around them so when someone goes against this and actually is friendly it makes a huge difference. Have you looked into any wardrobe planning systems like Kibbe, Dress Your Truth, or Triumph of Individual Styl… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/16 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Random RP ThoughtsIt's up to each couple to decide where the boundaries are but if we're having an abstract/objective discussion about the subject, I feel like a man who uses escorts/prostitutes purely as a tool for sexual release is still respecting the commitment he made to his wife. This is because I don't really regard them as people when they are in that role, they're basically the same thing as sex bots or porn. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/12/16 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Answers to Ten Common Criticisms of Evolutionary PsychologyHehehe I'm looking forward to hearing your thoughts :) | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Random RP ThoughtsIt's great that you are someone that your friends are now turning to for advice but be careful - you don't want to get a big head. In your initial post to the community you explained your history and revealed a lot of red flags on your end. You have a lot to work on, don't have real experience in a traditional relationship dynamic, and you are currently single and having difficulty finding a man. You've made it clear that you don't enjoy parties but they aren't the worst thing in the entire worl… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Where can I find "masculine" men as a college student?Thank you and congrats! People can give more specific advice if you share exactly what type of masculine man you like. The advice for attracting a biker is way different than the advice for attracting a lacrosse player (two random examples but I hope my point is clear). Hope everyone can help you! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Where can I find "masculine" men as a college student?For context everyone this is the first post she submitted which goes into more detail about her romantic history. I am including it because it gives more insight into her current situation which is useful when giving advice. If you're having trouble finding masculine men it means you're going to the wrong places. I assume you're in the US so here are some ideas if you want to meet a student at your school: Join the co ed Republican group and the women's Republican group Start going to on campus … | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Random RP ThoughtsOh okay thanks! I'm not sure about your characterisation of how each gender has and deals with emotions. I believe that men and women are still consistently proactive and reactive respectively, just as with sex and nearly all other things. A lot of our actions are directly in response to an emotion that we feel, we are reacting to the stimulus even if that stimulus comes from our own minds/hearts. In contrast men seem to be more proactive, creating new situations and actions, exercising more age… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Random RP ThoughtsPerfect timing because I'm literally rewatching the Sex And The City episode on how they define cheating right now! I'd totally love to have a full post just exploring the question you brought up. I think the definitions of cheating definitely change depending on the relationship stage you're in. Some thoughts: Dating: Until it is clear that the two of you are in a relationship, I don't think it's cheating for either person to go on dates with other people, or be physical with others. LTR + Marr… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Random RP ThoughtsSo something I've always thought about is how men are typically emotionally reactive while women are the ones who are emotionally proactive. Can you expand on this more, I'm not sure I understand. Thanks :) | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Random RP ThoughtsI just don't get how people think you can just rewrite human nature to fit ideology. A lot of people don't actually believe there is a such thing as "human nature". They think we are all born as blank slates and everything about who we are is 100% due to how we were brought up. So following that logic, it is reasonable to them to think that a change in ideology would fundamentally change human beings. Crazy, I know! Obviously our upbringing, culture, and environment have an impact on who we are … | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Random RP ThoughtsI personally don't think that kisses are contracts at all, LTRs are promises of exclusivity, and marriage is a promise of commitment. I can't address the second part of your comment myself both due to lack of wisdom in that area and a moral opposition to divorce. But I'm definitely interested in hearing what others have to say on the matter. This could totally be it's own post! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 10:59 PM |
| 2 | First time poster here, I think I'm actually really RPW!Welcome, you can tell us about yourself right here in this very post! Some things I know most people are curious about when new women join: How did you find the sub and what about RPW specifically appeals to you? What's your age range and relationship status? Looking forward to getting to know you :) If you have any questions about RPW or RP theory you can always submit a post and flair it "Ask RPW" (or we can add the flair for you). | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 01:57 AM |
| 5 | "Trolling 'Safe Space' Social Justice WarriorsOh gosh I was not prepared for some of those visuals! That one blonde girl in the crop top with her boobs and fat hanging out - disgusting. They really shouldn't make certain styles past the medium sizes. Unfortunately many stores are going in the opposite direction and getting rid of plus sized sections and just offering every style in every size. And they're going to mix it right in with the main displays which will further normalize being overweight and obese. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 07:55 PM |
| 3 | I'm unsure if my "late" virginity makes me undesirable. Advice?I feel like you have a lot of other issues to work on and you're confusing being a virgin as the source rather than a consequence of those issues. I'm off to bed now but respond to this comment and I'll elaborate when I'm online next. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/16 08:51 AM |
| 2 | I'm unsure if my "late" virginity makes me undesirable. Advice?Yes it makes sense, "empowering" just has a feminist and "sex positive" connotation so I was a bit confused haha Make sure that you're choosing activities that will increase your likelihood of appealing to men. This doesn't mean that you have to join organizations full of men, but don't create a lifestyle that prevents you from meeting new people, and don't join anything that would be off putting or lame to potential boyfriends. Only you know the type of man you're interested in but be realistic… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/16 07:17 AM |
| 3 | Define the Roles and Know Your PlaceSo great that you've found a dynamic that works :) This relationship model makes way more sense than the modern 50/50 approach where both parties are forced to do things that they don't want to do and don't excel in. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/16 07:09 AM |
| 4 | Define the Roles and Know Your PlaceSounds like how M and I divide things as well! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/16 07:08 AM |
| 4 | I'm unsure if my "late" virginity makes me undesirable. Advice?Keep in mind that the type of men who demonstrate interest in you are a reflection of your SMV, RMV, and girl game. You're never going to get better men until you improve in all three areas. 6 months doesn't seem realistic unless you are with a man who has a lot of beta traits, you're doing everything except for PIV, and you are bringing a lot to the table yourself. Alternatively you could find another virgin! I feel like a better way to approach the issue is to not have a set timeline at all. Y… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/16 07:06 AM |
| 5 | I'm unsure if my "late" virginity makes me undesirable. Advice?I'm not sure when 20 years old has ever been the norm for women losing their virginity, but of course someone who actually knows this answer can correct me if I'm wrong. Stop comparing yourself to others in this realm because it isn't going to help or change anything about your situation. If men aren't interested in dating you it's because you're not worth it in their eyes. Either your SMV, personality, RMV, or some combination aren't enough to make you attractive to the majority of men. Going b… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/16 06:54 AM |
| 5 | Define the Roles and Know Your PlaceThis is such a lovely post by /u/irisandoleander! Ladies, do you have definite spheres within your relationship where you take on the lead/responsibility? | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/16 12:02 AM |
| 10 | I'm unsure if my "late" virginity makes me undesirable. Advice?I don’t think your virginity specifically is as big of an issue as everything else you just shared in this post. You have no experience being with a man who is good for you, and any new guy is going to have to deal with your confusion, warped perspective, insecurity, and lack of girl game. Your status as a virgin is a symptom of larger issues, it isn’t the main thing you should be concerned about, especially since once you fix the real problems, you’ll also have sex. What are your plans for the … | /r/RedPillWives | 27/11/16 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Struggling, ladies.You are absolutely right and I hope the OP takes to heart what you said in your other comment. She is totally hamstering this situation to absolve herself of all blame and responsibility. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Struggling, ladies.Well said!! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Struggling, ladies.Agreed she should just watch the movie not ignore her family. Reading while others are watching a film is still pursuing a solo activity instead of engaging with loved ones. If anything it might make her husband even angrier because it's like she's rubbing it in their faces. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 08:59 PM |
| 2 | How does a man's facial hair affect the way you perceive him?hahaha d-bag goatee love it! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/16 07:18 AM |
| 2 | How does a man's facial hair affect the way you perceive him?Nice and congrats :) | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/16 07:17 AM |
| 1 | How does a man's facial hair affect the way you perceive him?Women seem to end up preferring the traits of the men we are with; they set the standard and determine how we judge other men. Which isn't to say that we don't have types or preferences, just that our attraction to every individual trait isn't set in stone and the man makes all the difference. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/16 07:17 AM |
| 1 | How does a man's facial hair affect the way you perceive him?Omg you might be the first woman I've ever encountered who loves man buns haha that's awesome that your husband wears that style of mustache though! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/16 07:14 AM |
| 1 | How does a man's facial hair affect the way you perceive him?LOL I was not prepared for that first image! Your preferred length is cool thanks for sharing a reference pic :) | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/16 07:03 AM |
| 2 | How does a man's facial hair affect the way you perceive him?Seems like we all agree that hipster beards are yucky haha :) | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/16 07:02 AM |
| 1 | How does a man's facial hair affect the way you perceive him?Light stubble suggests an oversight in otherwise regular care. It makes me feel like something was so important and urgent that he just skipped shaving. Yes! This is exactly why I like heavy stubble and light stubble. It's like they're so focused on living life that they don't obsess over their looks but they still look hot. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/16 07:02 AM |
| 1 | How does a man's facial hair affect the way you perceive him?You bring up a great angle - while facial hair can indicate masculinity, other men can use this association to their advantage and mimic those with more testosterone. /u/PhantomDream09 has been speaking about the way that humans use mimicry and other more animalistic strategies to gain an advantage in civilised cultures. I'm right there with you when it comes to a full head of hair! When I had my laxbro phase I could not get enough of their "flows" (not sure if anyone even uses that term anymore… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/16 07:00 AM |
| 2 | How does a man's facial hair affect the way you perceive him?Your analysis is always so insightful <3 The longer and darker rule also applies to women; duskier features, high saturation, and long hair are all signs of sexual maturity but taken to an extreme it can come across as masculine (youtube and instagram have so many great examples of this lol). I'm not sure why I think this but I feel like stubble and heavy stubble are more sexual than all other hair options. Maybe it's just as you say - more visible bone structure, face isn't as concealed, etc. B… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/16 06:55 AM |
| 2 | How does a man's facial hair affect the way you perceive him?I've gone through a similar change! Maybe as we mature as women we seek out mature masculine features? It could even be related to hormones, biological imperatives. Full beards are too much for me though, I like the heavy stubble look when a guy can pull it off (which of course M can!). | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/16 06:51 AM |
| 1 | How does a man's facial hair affect the way you perceive him?The beard accentuates what I already love about masculine men. This is a great point, the beard alone isn't enough nor is it ever really the magic key that makes a guy go from "meh" to sexy. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/16 06:49 AM |
| 1 | How does a man's facial hair affect the way you perceive him?These photo examples are fantastic! I completely agree with you about hipsters beards being revolting on a visceral level, they just can't pull it off at all. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/16 06:48 AM |
| 3 | Xpost: "Moral Command in men VS Moral Intuition in women"Love this going to take some time to go through everything and form an in depth response! Edit: I had no idea I'd be so busy today! Hopefully people take the time to read through everything and we can have great convos tomorrow :) | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Technology And The SMPOmg I love this! That could even be a full post! Definitely something to discuss further there is a lot to explore within that topic. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Technology And The SMPLove these additions, especially the connection with class. The disparity between classes will definitely be more evident as women take advantage of all of the tools and procedures they can afford. Perhaps trends will emerge that are anti-enhancement and it may even become cool to have visible imperfections. There was a micro trend recently of people adding freckles to their cheeks so it's not impossible! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Technology And The SMPOoh excellent point! It almost seems required these days to send photos, and knowing that men can access images of thousands of even hotter girls whenever they want only adds to the pressure to send something perfectly sexy. What a perfect example of women escalating the competition due to technological advances. I'd love to hear more of your thoughts, even if others touched on them already :) | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 05:29 AM |
| 3 | Technology And The SMPDefinitely not! But most men watch porn not just low and average SMV men so it still can shape their expectations of women. I feel like low SMV men may be more susceptible to having a warped understanding of women due to porn, and then higher SMV men would be more likely to bring porn customs into the real world (since they have the opportunity). | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 05:23 AM |
| 3 | Technology And The SMPIt's also easier to seem higher value in one specific area, which allows you to offset your overall impression online. For example, a woman may have gorgeous nails and she happens to be very skilled at painting them. Someone else may have incredible hair. This is so true! You really can create an environment where you are #1 and train others to view you as awesome because you are #1 in that specific area. In the real world if someone was talented at painting their nails that would be a unique tr… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Technology And The SMPGreat points! Another thing I've heard is that a lot of "barely legal" girls in porn are actually played by girls in their mid 20s, so I wonder if this affects how men estimate a woman's age. Now this is a really interesting idea! I have no idea what the answer is but it's certainly something to consider. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Technology And The SMPTotally agree with everything thank you for sharing your thoughts! Although I will say that I've seen men all over reddit, even in subs where you think they'd know better, where it's clear that their idea of women is 100% based on porn. Also as /u/am3liia brought up, the activities that men want to do now (threesomes, anal, etc.) are more popular because of porn normalising them. So I can't agree that porn is entirely self contained, and I worry about what taboo will be the next big thing! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Technology And The SMPMy own thoughts on the questions: Yes I definitely think that social media and the internet enhances the sense of female competition. I feel like before social media you really only were directly competing with the people in your social circle, neighborhood, church, local groups, family, etc. (both for status and in the SMP) but now you have all of those groups + people you normally would have lost touch with + social media influencers + celebrities + other women who you never would have met/hea… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 03:56 AM |
| 1 | User Shoutouts (:<3333 | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Think Like A Team! (A Handy Chart)Aww best of luck <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 11:47 PM |
| 2 | GratituesdayI am grateful for the RPW challenges! I've been participating every week and I love that we're doing something like this as a community. So grateful for M's health. He had food poisoning or something and now he seems to be recovering. It is so rare for him to get sick so this was very distressing! Finally I am grateful for the show Westworld. If you aren't watching it you need to start! It is brilliant and I am so glad to live in a time period where we can watch genius works like this at home, w… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Think Like A Team! (A Handy Chart)Thank you!! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Think Like A Team! (A Handy Chart)You're welcome! :) | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 06:04 AM |
| 2 | Think Like A Team! (A Handy Chart)Oh no! Make a post if you want advice, or possibly give a mini FR. Definitely use this chart in the future! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 06:04 AM |
| 3 | User Shoutouts (:Omg you are too kind! Also I agree /u/rialuxe is pretty awesome :) (as is everyone else!!) | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 06:03 AM |
| 4 | User Shoutouts (:LOL thank you! I'm still learning myself though - shout out to /u/_wingnut_ for being the best online mentor/mother <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 06:01 AM |
| 3 | User Shoutouts (:Aww thank you so much <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 05:59 AM |
| 5 | User Shoutouts (:What a lovely idea for a post! I'd like to give a shout out to all of the newly active women who have been posting and commenting on the sub. There are too many to name but you haven't gone unnoticed! It's so great when we get fresh voices and new faces so if you're lurking don't be shy :) Looking forward to even more great discussions with you all! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Conway shatters glass ceiling as first woman to run a successful presidential campaignAnd then /u/jade_cat saw what I wrote and agreed with me, not sure if you saw that. I don't think that this woman supported Donald Trump in an RPW way, she just supported him in her role, which is great. A lot of times feminists push for women to be the #1 - the CEO, the manager, the top lawyer, etc. and it has to be in specific fields as well. It isn't diminishing her role to note that it exists purely to support and advance the position of another person. There are a lot of parallels and analo… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/11/16 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Shit Post Saturday!It may be cheesy but I liked the banana + Groupon images the best, what a great way to start a Saturday! (Yes I am literally eating breakfast right now lol) | /r/RedPillWives | 12/11/16 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Shit Post Saturday!Groupies? Not sure what you mean... | /r/RedPillWives | 12/11/16 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Ivanka Trump: Loving Wife, Mother, and DaughterI don't think it's a coincidence that the liberal/left's greatest weapon is all mimicry, deception, and camouflage. Emphasize weakness, and 'otherness' so they can trade on the power that goes with it. Some animals have adopted bright colors to indicate they are venomous, even when they aren't. Some animals will adopt the posture of a different (bigger) animal to intimidate, or even feign death to confuse and survive. The idea of projecting strength when you have none (after all feminists are co… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/11/16 07:48 PM |
| 4 | Conway shatters glass ceiling as first woman to run a successful presidential campaignI don't see what's wrong with the term supportive in this context. Supportive doesn't mean non prestigious, or non demanding. What she did in her role as manager was for someone else. She was advancing Donald Trump's position and working very hard so that he could succeed. Her role does not exist without a presidential candidate, she only had the job because of him and her responsibilities centered on him as well. I feel like you're proving the point /u/jade_cat was making, "supportive" isn't a … | /r/RedPillWives | 12/11/16 07:41 PM |
| 4 | Shit Post Saturday!I have no idea why I didn't know this existed until last week but this video of Scott Disick recreating an iconic scene from American Psycho brings me so much joy! Two of my favourite things combined and it's just so silly and you can tell they are having fun. No it's not the best thing ever but I can't even express how happy I am that this was even made! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/11/16 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Think Like A Team! (A Handy Chart)Found this chart on Pinterest and thought it was great! Here is the full article, "How Being Defensive Is Hurting Your Marriage". Feel free to discuss both the chart and the article :) | /r/RedPillWives | 12/11/16 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Learning how to parent correctly annihilated marriage problems, fixed our fighting, and helped us handle issues with other "adults"... and we don't even have kids yet.Yay I love her and made a post on TRP about her ideas ages ago, drawing parallels between toddler temper tantrums and female shit tests. Thank you for sharing this with the community and I hope anyone who is interested investigates further! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/11/16 07:14 PM |
| 2 | How will Donald Trump's election affect inter-sexual dynamics and mainstream American culture?Thank you! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/16 02:05 AM |
| 7 | How will Donald Trump's election affect inter-sexual dynamics and mainstream American culture?Agreed all around! I hope that more men like Milo gain popularity and we reclaim the term "Alt Right". | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/16 11:46 PM |
| 8 | How will Donald Trump's election affect inter-sexual dynamics and mainstream American culture?Great predictions! I do think that men are going to be more vocal, maybe not year 1 but definitely during Trump's term. Hopefully Melania gets press coverage and becomes a fashion icon but I can see people hanging on to Michelle Obama (even though I never understood the fascination with her looks or style). | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/16 11:44 PM |
| 4 | How will Donald Trump's election affect inter-sexual dynamics and mainstream American culture?I agree with you and I wrote a comment to BSC that expands on this idea! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/16 11:42 PM |
| 4 | How will Donald Trump's election affect inter-sexual dynamics and mainstream American culture?How much of Trump’s speeches have you watched yourself, in full? How much of his original writing have you read, in full? As someone who has followed his campaign very closely I disagree completely with your characterization of him. There is a HUGE gap between Trump’s personality and the way the media portrays him. I’ve seen his words twisted and taken out of context countless times over the months and he has basically been the butt of every joke and an acceptable target in a way that they’d nev… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/16 11:41 PM |
| 2 | The Lamentations of “Fun Single Girl” in the CityLove that you found and shared this post! Your insights are spot on as always :) | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/16 06:03 PM |
| 2 | GratituesdayOoh a calendar reminder for posts is a great idea. I've been super busy as well but I hope we can chat in IRC soon <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/16 06:00 PM |
| 1 | GratituesdayAww thank you :) | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/16 05:59 PM |
| 2 | GratituesdayThank you I'm loving it so far! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/16 05:58 PM |
| 3 | The Power of 'Yes' ChallengeThis will be a great challenge! Last week was very successful for me, I created a lot of opportunities to listen to M speak about his hobbies, interests, memories, opinions, etc. I learned some new things and I can tell he appreciates that I'm always receptive to conversation. For the "Power of Yes" challenge I will be working on maintaining a positive disposition when tasked with something I don't want to do. While I rarely say "no" to requests I am not immune to trying to weasel out of somethi… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/16 05:57 PM |
| 3 | GratituesdayThanks twin! It's feeling pretty awesome :) | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/16 02:50 AM |
| 9 | GratituesdayYay so glad you're posting these! I am grateful for so many things but the top 3 today would be - my birthday is today (22!), I voted in my first ever national election, and M has been absolutely wonderful and allowing himself to have more fun now that a lot of his goals/to dos have been accomplished. Looking forward to sharing next week :) | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/16 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Simple Questions!Oh gosh men should just not use emoticons ever! Yes there are a handful that work when the timing is right but its just soo feminine. I totally get why you are turned off by that haha Your SMV and RMV are going to determine the best course of action. Are you a great catch? Next this guy and find a man who doesn't make you cringe every time you open one of his messages. If you don't think that you can have a new suitor within the next 2 weeks then give this guy a chance. Nothing is stopping you f… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/11/16 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Simple Questions!Post this as it's own post, there are lots of factors that will affect the advice we give :) | /r/RedPillWives | 08/11/16 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Simple Questions!It's indirect and manipulation yes but not in a bad way; almost everything we do could be considered manipulation. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/11/16 05:23 AM |
| 2 | NAWALT vs AWALTThis isn't a graph that is measuring anything in particular. It shows how for any given characteristic, there is a masculine end and a feminine end and most people fall somewhere between those two extremes. Each plot point represents 1 person and their position on the spectrum. There doesn't need to be a Y axis this isn't a formal chart it's just showing the idea that Stingray and I are discussing in a visual manner. The article I took this from is one I don't particularly agree with or find RP … | /r/RedPillWives | 08/11/16 12:21 AM |
| 2 | NAWALT vs AWALTGreat summary! We should start using this chart to clarify things when women are confused or offended. It shows how most people cluster around the average of their gender for any given trait. And while there are women at both ends of the spectrum, RP is about the difference between men and women, not the differences among women. Also in general, women do tend to be more like each other while men can be found at both extremes, IQ is a great example of this. Generalizations are so useful when disc… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Simple Questions!Well any man you "intimidate" is not a man you want haha but yes work on being soft and open :) | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 02:22 AM |
| 2 | The Fastest Way to Push a Man AwayThat in and of itself didn't feel good, but it meant that he then had to make it up to me, which not only excused my bad, controlling behavior but rewarded it. I bet a lot of women experience the same thing, which only reinforces their behaviour and ruins the relationship. This idea is so interesting to me - the feedback loops we create for ourselves and may not even be aware of. Why would any woman reassess what she is doing when she benefits every step of the way via the dopamine rush, attenti… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 02:20 AM |
| 2 | The Fastest Way to Push a Man AwaySo glad you like her too! I also sometimes find her writing to be irritating haha but overall her points are great and her site has been a great resource to share with the community. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Simple Questions!I agree with /u/BellaScarletta the letter writing is dumb and not the most effective approach. But you don't seem to be asking about their situation specifically, rather what the general RPW response would be, or maybe what we'd advise you specifically if your man's friends found his ex more attractive? It definitely would be hurtful to hear something like that and the best thing to do would be to use it as a wake up call. If there is anything you can do to improve your appearance and keep him s… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Simple Questions!While there are definitely still guys who initiate with women, it does seem like the amount of men who don't make the first move has increased. I feel like its a combination of insecurity, lack of masculine role models who push them to go after what they want, and a genuine belief that women should also initiate or that women want to be friends first prior to dating. A woman who doesn't initiate filters out men who fall under any of the above categories, but also limits her dating pool and possi… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 02:06 AM |
| 2 | [FR] I still have long way to go, but I'm learningAww! Great job maintaining perspective and admitting that you were overreacting to the situation. Considering what your man must be going through is also super important; it's so easy to get wrapped up in our own emotions and stress and forget that our SOs are dealing with things too. Thank you for sharing your victory with the sub, best of luck with all of these changes! Keep us posted :) | /r/RedPillWives | 06/11/16 02:22 AM |
| 3 | Fruit Friday: Post all fruit related food recipes, crafts, memes and jokes here.Wine is basically a fruit right? M and I have been obsessed with Giorgi Costarosa Sangue Di Giuda! It's super cheap ($15-$20, we get it at Whole Foods but we've also found it elsewhere) and absolutely delicious. Here is the online description: 45% Barbera, 45% Croatina, 10% Uva rara. Bright, purplish red. The bouquet is Intense, complex and fruity with fragrant and vinous nuances. Taste is sweet, harmonic and smooth. Let me know if anyone tries it! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/11/16 12:12 AM |
| 2 | RPW & Social MediaWelcome back :) So first, while many women go to extremes online, I don't think there is anything wrong with posting on social media for validation, attention, social interaction, etc. These are natural drives that motivate us in the real world as well, and you can't really avoid acting them. So in your quest to avoid attention whoring, just be sure you're not trying to stifle your innate and feminine desire to please others and be found pleasing. When it comes to determining how you're going to… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/11/16 12:05 AM |
| 4 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!Anyone stupid enough to think that Hillary cares anything about women or their supposedly victimized rights is a fool. I'd wager Donald is more concerned, and he doesn't give a shit either. YES! I hope no one falls for the article but sadly there are thousands of readers who will eat up this narrative and trust Hillary even more to represent their best interests. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/16 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!Discussing politics as they are related to the general themes of the subreddit is completely fine. You are welcome to have thoughtful discussions sharing your own opinions, and you also can ignore or avoid the posts that you aren't interested in. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!Yes thank you, RPW can have posts about psychological femininity, homemaking, and feminism all at the same time. The upcoming US election is monumental and posts like this are entirely on topic and encouraged. Everyone is welcome to submit what they are interested in and comment on the posts they find valuable. I'm glad that you understand this :) | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 11:48 PM |
| 2 | "Muhammad Was A Feminist"Instead of defending the idea that Muhammad was in fact a feminist, you left a comment that dismissed Phantom and those who left comments before you as silly, unnecessary, mean, and islamophobic. People saying things that you don’t agree with =/= a lack of thoughtful discussion. Furthermore the flair is “Crazy Culture” not “Discussion” or “Culture” or anything else that would indicate that in depth and serious conversation was expected. You have grossly understated what is wrong with the article… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 11:34 PM |
| 3 | The "Listen More, Talk Less" ChallengeI'm in! If anyone else is like me and doesn't have an issue with listening vs. talking you can do what I plan on doing - ask your man more questions about his life, opinions, and interests, and give him opportunities to share with you. Don't make it sound like an interview or interrogation of course. Just let him have more attention and learn some new things in the process! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 03:55 PM |
| 4 | "Muhammad Was A Feminist"Did you actually read the article? Regardless of anyone's political and religious beliefs, it is hilarious that anyone would try to argue that Muhammad is a great example of feminism. The article is 100% serious and continues in a baffling trend of feminists defending and encouraging a worldview that is completely in opposition to their movement. If anything it's "disparaging" to claim that Muhammad and Islam are in any way supportive of feminism. Some of the best, most accomplished and motivate… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 04:58 AM |
| 4 | "Muhammad Was A Feminist"It's incredible how leftists and specifically feminists can delude themselves so much when it comes to Islam. This article could have been printed in The Onion, it is that hilarious and factually incorrect. It's surprising that a man wrote this, that makes it even worse. I'm not even sure where to begin (I mean this man was a child rapist how was that glossed over???), I'm still in shock that something so wrong and dangerous was published in this manner. It's surreal, but also super entertaining… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Funny story - listen to your captain!That's pretty funny, glad it was an easy problem to fix! You're right we shouldn't assume what our man wants, it's great that you were open to making adjustments instead of trying to change him to go along with the traditional division of labour. Great report :) | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 09:46 PM |
| 5 | The Virulent Hatred of FemininityGlad you enjoyed the article :) She mentions more than just physical appearance in the article that I linked but the focus on appearance I appreciate because as I said in a different comment, too often women are encouraged to look good for themselves and desiring to be appealing to men for traditional reasons is looked down upon. Additionally presenting in a stereotypically feminine manner is often viewed as silly or weak. Your comments about her personality and behaviour show that you are confl… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 08:42 PM |
| 1 | The Virulent Hatred of FemininityYeah they weren't the best before but they definitely have declined even more :\ | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 06:58 PM |
| 6 | The Virulent Hatred of FemininityAgreed completely! It's always refreshing to read articles that encourage you to achieve what you want regardless of what others say. Sometimes it can be demoralising to be the only one who aspires to do X or who is interested in Y. It's great to see the ideas of traditional femininity and excellence being linked like this. So often feminists equate feminine gender roles and presentation with weakness and failure. I love that the author shows you can succeed and be happy without masculine motiva… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 06:55 PM |
| 7 | The Virulent Hatred of FemininityOMG YES agreed 100% with everything you just said! The drag example is especially insane. How is it that both men who put on a costume, and women who abandon everything related to femininity, are both examples of authentic, superior women? I understand the logic behind wanting women to expand and get new skills, to feel comfortable in both masculine and feminine spaces. I don't particularly agree with everything that perspective entails, but it makes sense. What I don't get is when women are enc… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 06:42 PM |
| 6 | Sushi disaster (a bit melodramatic, but whatever)I agree with what everyone else has said and I also want to add that instead of being passive aggressive with everyone just be direct. You didn't have to go sit at the bar, you didn't have to stay there either. You could have been firm about wanting to have girl time and not involve other men. Of course all of this has to be said with a smile and light tone! Have some agency and stop letting things just happen to you. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 06:24 PM |
| 2 | November 2016 Events: Challenge Edition!So excited for the challenges, I'll be participating every week! I even added them to my calendar :) | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 06:19 PM |
| 3 | November 2016 Events: Challenge Edition!There will be more info given when the challenge starts but basically everyone chooses a personal goal for their sex life and works on that. You may have to initiate sometimes since the goal is 7 straight days of great sex but you can focus on whatever aspect of your bedroom life you want :) | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 06:17 PM |
| 6 | The Virulent Hatred of FemininityThis article is a great reminder that there is nothing wrong with having feminine aspirations or wanting to be conventionally attractive. I love every point she made! Although there is plenty of emphasis on appearance in the mainstream, women are encouraged to be attractive only for themselves. The message conveyed is that makeup and fashion apparently should only be a form of expressing your unique self. Wanting to appeal to your man (or men in general) is looked down on unless you're doing it … | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 06:10 PM |
| 2 | I'm halfway pregnant with our first and about to find out the gender!Isn't it? I kind of wish it was my name sometimes but Camille is awesome as well. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 01:37 AM |
| 3 | I'm halfway pregnant with our first and about to find out the gender!Yay! Just thought of a boy's name that I like and would name my son - Sawyer. All the other names I liked M said were gay or dumb so he probably won't like this one either haha Edit: He's not a fan :( | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 01:37 AM |
| 2 | I'm halfway pregnant with our first and about to find out the gender!Noo I love the name Thomas! Wouldn't use it myself but its such a good boy's name, so classic. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 01:36 AM |
| 3 | I'm halfway pregnant with our first and about to find out the gender!YAY!!!!! I think you're having a boy first (or at least I really really hope it's a boy) and I also want to have a boy first. When it comes to names, I prefer older, traditional, and Western but not too common. All the boy names I was previously a fan of I don't like anymore, but the girl names I'm really liking are Elise, Beatrice, and Sloane. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/10/16 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Updates!Yes it's so exciting! I'll definitely do more field reports as progress is made and milestones are achieved. And thank you re: my birthday. Not sure how we're celebrating yet but it'll definitely be an adventure. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/10/16 06:30 PM |
| 4 | Updates!Aww thank you /u/jade_cat <3 It's so awesome that there's a space online where all of this is possible. RPW is such a unique phenomenon and I'm grateful for my role in the community. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/10/16 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Yay so excited for this /u/CoochQuarantine :D | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Motivation, Discipline, and AccountabilityYes self checking is so important! How do you go about this? Do you use a journal, have a tracker, have a set of questions you use when you reflect? Or is it more in the moment and based on the situation at hand? What advice would you give to someone who needs to instill the self checking habit? Also I edited the post with 2 questions so feel free to answer those as well :) | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Discussing the Female social matrixThank you! I am the worst at remembering things haha I am cooking breakfast right now, have tasks to do, and then I'll be on for real :) | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 02:47 PM |
| 4 | Women As the Object of DesireI thought this article gave a great overview of some aspects of female sexuality. It also highlights why we place emphasis on being visually appealing to men and our approach to girl game is more passive than what is often advised in mainstream sources. She has discussion questions at the end but don't feel like you have to answer them (unless you want to of course!). I'm curious to know if her description align with your experiences? Do you enjoy feeling like you are the object of desire? | /r/RedPillWives | 17/10/16 09:12 PM |
| 3 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!LOL love it!! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/10/16 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Our different needs explained through horomonesThis is so cool thank you for sharing it with the sub! It's awesome how there are all these other factors that contribute to our decisions, many that we aren't even consciously aware of (hormones, instinct/evolutionary drives, etc). I always love when science posts are submitted to the sub, there are so many cool things being discovered every day! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Discussing the Female social matrixLOVE THIS and I have so much to say but I can't tonight I'll write a full comment tomorrow someone remind me if I don't edit this post by like tomorrow night thanks! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 03:49 AM |
| 3 | What kinda fruit are you?I got cherry but I know I'm really a strawberry! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 03:47 AM |
| 3 | The future of Feminism (sorry for the 9gag link lol)Hahaha love it! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Simple QuestionsThat makes sense, there are definitely people out there who will clean the house for basically nothing though - especially if you live in a place that has a lot of illegal immigrants. Keep this in mind if you're ever super overwhelmed and stressed. Even just one week off could be helpful for you and your man! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/10/16 12:29 AM |
| 1 | So frustrated...I agree with /u/CoochQuarantine you should share what you've done and would do when it comes to being a good SO and be a role model. If she is directly asking you for advice or support I see no harm in actually answering. She's your friend and you want her to be happy. Of course we usually try to prevent women from intervening in others' relationships, but I don't feel like being asked to help is the same as sticking your nose in to where you don't belong. You may be right though, this man may e… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/10/16 12:24 AM |
| 4 | Simple QuestionsYou could always hire someone else to clean, that way there's less on both you and your husband's plate. I'm not sure of your budget or preferences but at the very least someone (or multiple people if you use a service) could come in weekly and do an in depth clean. Then all you have to worry about is general tidying on a daily basis, laundry, and dishes. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/10/16 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Tales from the Crypt: /u/HappySnowGirl “Girl Game: Guys Night Out”alking ab whether or not he is that kind of man shouldn't be happening when he goes. It should happen before hand and you either accept it or don't. Yes!! This applies to so many things not just the strip club question. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 01:58 AM |
| 3 | The dating pool in your 30'sDon't feel like you have to limit conversation just because it's RPW, all interesting RP convos are welcome :) I agree with you, it's usually settling. The reality is that a lot of women would not alter their expectations if there weren't outside forces pressuring them to change. Now there are definitely women who realise that they've been going after the wrong men for them, or they make other changes to their strategy. This isn't the same as settling if its rooted in a genuine shift in preferen… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 01:51 AM |
| 4 | Dominance Level Quiz?Quizzes and more information are coming soon, sorry for the delay life got in the way! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Free Friday!!It could lead to an interesting discussion, and today is Free Friday so even more of a reason to submit :) | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Personal Colour AnalysisI truly believe the Sci/Art is the best system. It is comprehensive, scientific, and incredibly accurate. Here is another post that explains the theory a bit more but there is literally an entire community online and in real life that focuses on Sci/Art. I've been professionally colour matched but I find it really easy to do my own research on the subject and apply what I've learned. I don't think draping is 100% necessary although there will be more trial and error when you figure this out your… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Personal Colour AnalysisOoh a new look is always fun :) Looking forward to seeing you in the IRC! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Personal Colour AnalysisAre you sure you're light, warm, and soft? That combination isn't possible in basically every system. When it comes to Sci/Art here is how it breaks down: Winter = deep, cool, clear Spring = light, warm, clear Summer = light, cool, soft Autumn = deep, warm, soft I did some googling, here are some posts that may help: This one talks about Soft Autumn vs Light Spring Here is an explanation of clear vs soft If you google "Soft Autumn and Sci Art" you'll see a lot of women who appear to be "light" b… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Personal Colour AnalysisI find it fascinating as well! Do you at least know if you are cool, warm, or neutral? Knowing that black doesn't work is actually really useful, you can rule out the Winters and Deep/Dark Autumn. I am just getting back to the computer now (was afk all day) so if I find any new resources I'll share :) | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday!!Post this to the sub as its own post, flair it as discussion :) | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Littleknownfacts Presents: The Female Dual Mating StrategyAll of this is so great! I know we chatted at length in irc on this very subject but I just had to comment to agree! I love the idea of adding this to the relationship dynamics theories we've all been working on. Having the right intensity and frequency of excitement is key to a woman's happiness and the stability of the relationship overall. Definitely something to explore further! | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 03:51 AM |
| 4 | He doesn’t say ‘thank you’ anymoreLOVE every word! It'll be in the wiki, obviously <3 I know I have more love to give than just a bagged lunch. I know I have more love than buying his favorite candy at the store. I know I have more love than watching his favorite movies most nights. This is such a great way to approach the issue! I really want to just quote every sentence and rave haha but seriously you tackled a difficult subject and explained it so well, and with such personality. RPW is about harmonious relationships and ofte… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 03:45 AM |
| 3 | "Your Favourite Post" PostThey definitely don't mean well. Their official position is that they are a satire sub, and the entire purpose of the community is to mock us for who we are and our beliefs. What they actually are is a group of bullies who don't care at all that they are speaking about (and to) real people. I've been called every insult imaginable, people have called for my death, wished that I was infertile, predicted that my children would grow up to have all sorts of mental issues, and others have said that m… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 03:38 AM |
| 2 | What Makes A Woman Boring And How Not To Be BoringAww don't hide! I'm so glad you voiced all the issues you had with the post because it made me think deeper about the message it was promoting. Alternate opinions are always great to see when they lead to a better understanding of the subject on both sides. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 03:19 AM |
| 6 | SolipsismEvery woman who is committed to self improvement can better herself and her relationship. It isn't about being a unicorn or perfect, it's about being the best you can be and having a harmonious relationship. Plenty of women are not great as they are and would see amazing benefits if they changed things about themselves and their lifestyles. Your comment, while encouraging, is literally saying the BP platitudes we try so hard to get women to stop believing. No one here want's to be a shitty woman… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 03:16 AM |
| 4 | What Makes A Woman Boring And How Not To Be BoringI see where you're coming from but I feel like you're assuming that your moral beliefs and personal preferences are both widely held and also what works when it comes to gaining status and demonstrating value to both men and women. When I read the post I didn't interpret the author as saying you had to express negative opinions about others in a harsh and public way. You took it to that extreme, as if the only way to share an opinion on someone else is by being a bitch. The reality is that girls… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Femininity MovesI think a feminine laugh that just lights up a room is essential. Especially when you use this laugh often in public to boost your SO's confidence and status. Another "femininity move" that works well when used correctly is adopting a cutesy voice with your SO at times. I don't want to call it a baby voice but I'm hoping you all know what I mean. I also think maintaining a sense of childlike wonder and enthusiasm can be endearing but this is really dependent on your age, appearance, personality,… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 09:23 PM |
| 1 | "Your Favourite Post" Post<3 Thank you for your kind words about the dominance posts! The Sorry vs. Thank You post was a game changer for me, it's definitely a must read for all | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 09:20 PM |
| 1 | "Your Favourite Post" PostIt's hard to choose my favourite post, I actually find that what I really love about RPW is the interaction in the comment sections. There are so many paragraphs, sentences, and even individual phrases that are well crafted and thought provoking. When the sub is bustling there are some amazing things that can come out of the conversations! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 09:19 PM |
| 4 | What Makes A Woman Boring And How Not To Be BoringI absolutely love this post, she says so many great things that I've been thinking about but didn't have the time to flesh out fully. My favourite part is the idea that people who are nice are nice because that is the only way they can get what they want. When you are in a lower position relative to others, you have to find different ways to motivate people to do what you want. They are not trying to impress you, you have no leverage, you can't raise their status, etc. so being nice is a safe an… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 09:09 PM |
| 1 | RPW HAS 1500+ SUBSCRIBERS! LURKERS AND NEW WOMEN INTRODUCE YOURSELVES, EVERYONE COME CHAT <3So glad you decided to finally post! I lurked for half a year before ever commenting, and then it took the rest of the year for me to submit my first original post! Now that you've taken the first step I'm sure you'll find participating in RPW to be very rewarding :) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 04:17 PM |
| 1 | RPW HAS 1500+ SUBSCRIBERS! LURKERS AND NEW WOMEN INTRODUCE YOURSELVES, EVERYONE COME CHAT <3Welcome to the sub! The split really reinvigorated the community and the new energy is palpable. I just love that we have moved forward and kept things positive :) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 04:15 PM |
| 1 | RPW HAS 1500+ SUBSCRIBERS! LURKERS AND NEW WOMEN INTRODUCE YOURSELVES, EVERYONE COME CHAT <3Welcome to RPW! We have the best ECs don't we?! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 04:14 PM |
| 1 | RPW HAS 1500+ SUBSCRIBERS! LURKERS AND NEW WOMEN INTRODUCE YOURSELVES, EVERYONE COME CHAT <3Welcome! If you ever have any questions feel free to submit a post and flair it "Ask RPW" :) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Respect, Love, and RPJoan was the first person they called when they moved shop -- because she wouldn't be a threat to their ambitions by attempting to advance her own. The only way Joan could be successful in her time -- and the primary way women remain successful now -- is by having a solid understanding of male nature (how they work together, how they compete, etc) and female nature (clique culture, influence, etc). Everything you said is spot on but this is especially key! Building off of this idea, I feel like … | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Respect, Love, and RPI don't particularly like the phrase "power through submission" since it implies that having reduced power in any way is a bad thing when really you are losing power when in a deferential/submissive role. But I can't think of anything better. Women seem to feel "empowered" when they feel comfortable, authentic, and free to express themselves. But that's not the same as actually wielding power you know? Take a look at sunhappy's comment re Joan and the social matrices she goes in depth! I agree w… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Gratitude TuesdayWelcome to the sub! If you'd like a flair, here are the instructions on how to make one :) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Gratitude TuesdayYes me too! Sometimes I actually like rewatching and rereading things more than the original experience. I have a handful of shows that I'm literally always rewatching so we'll see if Downton makes it into the rotation! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Gratitude TuesdayGood idea! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 02:46 PM |
| 4 | I used redpill to help me at work today in a way I thought I never would...results were straight out of a red pill textbookNice job maintaining frame :) It's pretty cool how RP knowledge can be applied outside of relationships. When you understand how men and women think and react to things, it's easier to get what you want out of an exchange. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Respect, Love, and RPYay I missed you! I totally agree with what you're saying about women who crave power in the MSM and their expectations within relationships. For these women it seems like submission/deference is an act of losing power, whereas women who are less dominant (or with less dominant spirits) feel like they gain power through submission. This fits in really nicely with something we say all the time in RPW - that high dominance women often need to find a man more dominant than her. Only when she can fi… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 04:30 AM |
| 3 | Respect, Love, and RPWhat great points! The first function that you describe is definitely what I think a lot of RP men are trying to do, they may be in the anger phase or trying to shake others out of their own delusions. It must be helpful to remind themselves in a strong and certain way that women shouldn't be on a pedestal. The issue of course occurs when this simplistic, black and white approach is either held on for way too long or applied across the board as if it is a law and not a technique/way of approachi… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 04:13 AM |
| 3 | Gratitude TuesdayCongratulations on the apartment!!!! So sorry about the accident but yay @ your car being ready :) Glad everything is going well for you in general! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 01:40 AM |
| 5 | Respect, Love, and RPI'll answer my own questions! I definitely agree with the idea of 2 different definitions for respect, and the gap between the two definitions causes a lot of conflict. On /r/PurplePillDebate there is a lot of confusion and miscommunication because everyone assumes that they are using the term in the same way. We see a similar thing happen in real life especially when feminists demand respect for being women and others bristle and state that respect has to be earned. I don't think that gender is… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 01:38 AM |
| 4 | Gratitude TuesdayI am grateful for M's diligence, determination, ambition, and skill. He has a vision for our life and he works tirelessly to achieve that goal. It is inspiring to see a man on a mission and I am happy to support him in any way I can. I am grateful for stability. The past year was pretty chaotic, you all know about the flood and my injury but there were other things I've kept private. So glad that we are finally able to breathe and enjoy life a bit. I am grateful for everyone involved in the show… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/16 10:57 PM |
| 5 | Gratitude TuesdayYou missed the opportunity to call it Gratituesday. Love this!! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/16 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Women Talk About How the Pill Has Completely Fucked Them Over - VICEIt adds to my point that if a woman has a high ncount from participating in the dating process, like she's 30 and she's been with 20 guys since she was 15 because she has had STRs, LTRs, flings, etc, then her ncount, by your clarified definition, doesn't make her a slut. Well no having flings would be something considered slutty because a fling, at least from my understanding, is a sexual relationship that is casual, non exclusive, and has an expiration date. Both parties know they are in a flin… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/16 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Women Talk About How the Pill Has Completely Fucked Them Over - VICEOkay I see that I wasn't clear. When I defined slutty as "an excess of sex outside of relationships" I guess I really meant "an excess of sex separate from relationships" meaning outside of the dating process completely and I assumed you knew that too. So I am sorry for that lol we (RPW) have always said that there's no rule about when to have sex but the longer you wait for commitment (or signs of commitment) the more secure you can be. This is where the advice of waiting until you are in an of… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/16 05:03 PM |
| 3 | RPW HAS 1500+ SUBSCRIBERS! LURKERS AND NEW WOMEN INTRODUCE YOURSELVES, EVERYONE COME CHAT <3Yes! I really enjoy the FRs that talk about small moments and mini revelations. It is so awesome to see RPW at work in everyday life. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/16 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Women Talk About How the Pill Has Completely Fucked Them Over - VICEAgreed all around! Both women who have a lot of casual sex, and women who choose to only have sex in relationships are revealing their priorities and values. This is important information to a man vetting for a serious relationship and especially important for those men looking to get married. Men want women who are compatible and so it is in a woman's best interest to be compatible to the type of man she wants. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/16 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Women Talk About How the Pill Has Completely Fucked Them Over - VICEIt benefits women to be cautious because of the risks to sleeping around (pregnancy, being pumped and dumped, heartbreak, alpha widowhood, STDs) which can create baggage or otherwise damage your RMV, and also because of the way it can impact your chances with men. These are things we've been saying on the sub since day 1, it's not an obsession it's just another part of RP theory. The choices that women make affect their dating prospects. Today the term "slut" is a label applied to women who are … | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/16 04:22 PM |
| 4 | "What Makes Call-Out Culture So Toxic" - a great read for anyone who has ever felt bullied by feminism on social mediaThis article did an excellent job exploring "call out culture". I've never heard the term before but I've seen it in action both online and in real life. One trend that's really bothering me is the vitrol being shown to various makeup companies and fashion lines if they aren't being PC enough or living up to the standards of left when it comes to women, race, class, etc. Of course everyone can have their own opinions on a company and voice their disagreement with a practice or event; but I've se… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/16 01:00 AM |
| 3 | RPW HAS 1500+ SUBSCRIBERS! LURKERS AND NEW WOMEN INTRODUCE YOURSELVES, EVERYONE COME CHAT <3So exciting to have reached 1500, welcome everyone who is new I look forward to getting to know you :) | /r/RedPillWives | 03/10/16 09:51 PM |
| 3 | What are women supposed to provide in a marriage? What are men supposed to provide in a marriage?It was a great list and like I said the majority of the sub agrees with what you listed out. Nothing to apologise for at all! There's just a difference between RP theory and how people apply RP into their own lives. I personally believe that both traditional roles and dynamics work for most couples, but as I said before RPW = traditional dynamics. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/10/16 08:31 PM |
| 6 | What are women supposed to provide in a marriage? What are men supposed to provide in a marriage?This is a great summary of traditional relationship roles! A lot of RPW agree with this division however /u/TempestTcup is also right that there is no "supposed to provide" in RPW. Women in the sub fall into similar patterns and have similar preferences for a variety of reasons but there is no obligation or rule that says that any woman must do xyz or else. It can be hard to parse out the difference since often descriptions of what women here do line up with traditional roles but I think we just… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/10/16 08:04 PM |
| -2 | It's so much better being a nice wife...What a great step forward! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/10/16 08:03 PM |
| 0 | It's so much better being a nice wife...They are determined to portray us in a bad light. Not even the most patient explanation has any effect on most of the sub. They've cast us as the enemy and refuse to see us any other way. You shared a great moment from your life where you took a step back and refrained from saying something that could create conflict. If others are unwilling to see how you are improving yourself and your relationship that's their issue. I mean seriously you didn't even have a "valid question" they are going out … | /r/RedPillWives | 03/10/16 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What does it mean when a woman "needs" to get to know a guy before she wants to have sex with him?I feel exactly the same way! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/16 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Let's Celebrate Female Beauty!Ooh yes Jane Birkin! Love her! Charlize Theron and Kate Winslet are also great choices. Thanks for sharing :) | /r/RedPillWives | 02/10/16 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Let's Celebrate Female Beauty!Audrey and Marylin are totally icons for a reason, they were beautiful! Kat Dennings seems to be really polarising, I think it's because of her mouth. I've always been a fan though and that's a good photo you found of her, her boobs look amazing lol I'm the same way re traits that my mom had when she was younger it's pretty cool to think about what influences out preferences! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/10/16 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Why women paint their nailsSo cool! She did a really good job explaining the various factors that contributed to the popularity of manicured nails throughout time. Her final question about why women specifically paint their nails vs men is very interesting. It seems simple at first until you think about the many eras where men wore makeup, heels, and wigs, which are now considered only for women. In addition men wear cologne, style their hair, and put effort into their outfits. So it's not like all instances of caring for… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/10/16 10:15 PM |
| 1 | It's so much better being a nice wife...Yay! It's so great that you were able to recognise in the moment that your thoughts were controlling and then stop yourself from saying something unproductive. It can be very frustrating when others don't do things in a way that seems incredibly obvious to us but that doesn't mean they are doing it wrong. And even if they are technically doing it wrong, if it doesn't harm anyone or affect the final result, why create conflict? Field reports like this are great because it shows how RPW can help w… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/10/16 10:08 PM |
| 6 | Let's Celebrate Female Beauty!I just recently realised that the type of women I am drawn too have similar colouring and contrast levels as my mom. She looks a lot like Ava Gardner, there are literally photos where they look identical. I always finding myself liking women who have bright skin (regardless of tone) and high contrast between their hair and skin. I prefer that look in myself as well, in fact I want to dye my hair 1 shade darker so that it's extra black and I really pop! The only exceptions to the high contrast th… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/10/16 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Let's Celebrate Female Beauty!Ooh awesome! The mix of sexy and innocent is so hard to pull of but you're right Monica does it well | /r/RedPillWives | 02/10/16 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Let's Celebrate Female Beauty!Awesome! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/10/16 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Let's Celebrate Female Beauty!I can totally see your grandmother's influence based on the album you made. Blake Lively is the best both in looks and personality, wayy better than Taylor Swift you're right. Loved getting this insight into your tastes, and how cool that you have a celebrity twin :) | /r/RedPillWives | 02/10/16 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Let's Celebrate Female Beauty!You earned it <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 02/10/16 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Let's Celebrate Female Beauty!LOVE Mallory Archer! Do you watch Arrested Development? Lucille Bluth is my spirit animal lol Christina Hendricks is such a great choice, I've never seen a bad photo of her! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/10/16 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Smug alert!This is so awesome!! Congrats and thank you for sharing this win with us :D | /r/RedPillWives | 01/10/16 11:03 PM |
| 2 | The Hot/Crazy Matrix - A Man's Guide to WomenAww you are his unicorn that is so sweet! Isn't it cool how accurate the chart is? Basically all men can relate despite their unique preferences and tastes. It just goes to show AWALT and also AMALT. A big part of RP really is just putting into words the shared experiences of men and women in the SMP. Sidenote, is 10 months a reference to you and your man being together for that long?! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 04:39 PM |
| 1 | The Hot/Crazy Matrix - A Man's Guide to WomenLol yes! This video was like a crash course in RP truths | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 04:36 PM |
| 3 | The Hot/Crazy Matrix - A Man's Guide to WomenHahaha I've never seen HIMYM but I love that this was included! The VMD is such a great addition to the chart so let's definitely make it a thing :) | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 04:34 PM |
| 5 | The Hot/Crazy Matrix - A Man's Guide to WomenAlways love this video, it's so funny and so true! Show your man and ask him if he agrees :) | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Navigating my marriage via the cesspit that is my brain aka - look deeply into your feelings before you get cross with your husband.<3 | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Navigating my marriage via the cesspit that is my brain aka - look deeply into your feelings before you get cross with your husband.LOL I literally just did a spit take! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Supporting Your Husband's MissionOoh a man who does the dishes, how many women would kill for that haha Those are some great goals, best of luck with them all <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Supporting Your Husband's MissionThat all sounds great! It's cool that you handle the finances I am terrible at that stuff, M takes care of it all and I just ask him before I buy anything. He is an introvert as well (INTJ) so I've had to adjust to that and learn to contain my ENFP-ness at times haha We like to binge watch tv shows together if we aren't going out, currently we're watching Breaking Bad and we are obsessed! Just finished Marco Polo (also amazing) so I recommend those for you and your man if you haven't seen them y… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Navigating my marriage via the cesspit that is my brain aka - look deeply into your feelings before you get cross with your husband.I'm pretty sure all women are guilty of this to some extent. Definitely! Best of luck this week :) | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 03:59 AM |
| 4 | Navigating my marriage via the cesspit that is my brain aka - look deeply into your feelings before you get cross with your husband.How you ladies don't go insane with those thoughts pounding away at you is a miracle... Except we do! Everyone knows all women are crazy lol Seriously though I legitimately annoy myself with how hamstery and irrational I can get. I can totally relate to the OP and I'm glad she made this FR! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Navigating my marriage via the cesspit that is my brain aka - look deeply into your feelings before you get cross with your husband.Congratulations on the improvements you're making. Even though your solution isn't the same as the OP's, both of you are doing an awesome job counteracting female solipsism and the urge to set unreasonable (often un-communicated) expectations. It really shows how even though the principles of RPW remain the same, the application differs in every relationship. What works for you and your man may not work for other couples, but as long as your dynamic is harmonious, it's a win :) | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Navigating my marriage via the cesspit that is my brain aka - look deeply into your feelings before you get cross with your husband.Great reflection - It's a lot harder to share areas we've failed rather than Field Reports espousing how wonderfully we are doing, but honestly I think we learn more from the former. Agreed it's really interesting to see what other women are struggling with and a bit comforting to know that others are learning lessons just like you, every day. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 03:51 AM |
| 2 | Navigating my marriage via the cesspit that is my brain aka - look deeply into your feelings before you get cross with your husband.It made me stop and realise that sometimes the things that he 'does' that annoy me sometimes aren't things that he does at all, they are just dramas that I create in my own mind in order to deal with what is going on in my life Such a great realisation to arrive at! Thank you for sharing this field report with us. It's a pretty important step and I know a lot of women reading will benefit from the lesson that you learned. I know I personally force myself to take a step back and assess things if … | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 03:50 AM |
| 4 | Supporting Your Husband's MissionI stay at home so basically everything I do is to support M! Outside of normal household maintenance and cooking, my biggest role is actually helping his image and helping him form connections and strengthen relationships. When I accompany him places I have to look and act the part to boost his status. Now that I'm mostly off of bed rest (concussions aren't fun!) I'll be able to dedicate more time to these things and form advantageous relationships of my own. I really want to read "How to Help Y… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/09/16 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Rollo Tomassi, AMA, Friday at MRP. Come join!Thanks for the reminder! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/09/16 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Inspirational Quotes About Love and RelationshipsOoh that is a great quote! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/09/16 04:19 PM |
| 4 | Stop Arguing With Your SOWhat a great chart! It's really important to get into the habit of asking these questions mentally so that you can avoid unnecessary confrontations. I'm glad that whoever made this emphasized that asking your SO to change a fundamental aspect of themselves is a red flag. Thanks for sharing this infographic with the sub :) | /r/RedPillWives | 29/09/16 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Inspirational Quotes About Love and RelationshipsAww so cute! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/09/16 11:53 PM |
| 2 | ..."he is a creature of the feminists’ own self-righteous making."This is all great! There are some blog posts on akinokure that I will share with you later, I'll come back and edit this post. You'll like his analysis of the election. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/09/16 11:09 PM |
| 2 | ..."he is a creature of the feminists’ own self-righteous making."Omg I love that gender identity image you just linked, I really really hope it's fake! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/09/16 11:05 PM |
| 1 | ..."he is a creature of the feminists’ own self-righteous making."Thank you for sharing her work with us! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/09/16 11:03 PM |
| 3 | A ConfessionThat's great that you were able to get him to trust and accept your change so quickly. A lot of women report that it took months or even years for their man to truly believe that they had improved. Like /u/Littleknownfacts said, we all mess up sometimes. One thing to keep in mind moving forward is the saying "the best apology is changed behaviour". Keep up the good work and really show your man that you are committed to being his complement. Thank you for sharing this field report with us! looki… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/09/16 10:46 PM |
| 3 | What Are Some Silly Things You Do With Your SO?Aww he sounds great! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/16 03:26 PM |
| 3 | What Are Some Silly Things You Do With Your SO?Dad jokes are the best! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/16 03:25 PM |
| 4 | What Are Some Silly Things You Do With Your SO?I think what I love the most is singing goofy made-up songs about our pets or about what we're doing and having the other person seamlessly join in. The first month after he finally listened to Hamilton, I don't think we breathed a word without poorly working a line into some Hamilton lyrics. Too cute! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/16 03:24 PM |
| 4 | What Are Some Silly Things You Do With Your SO?Hahaha these are great! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/16 03:23 PM |
| 3 | What Are Some Silly Things You Do With Your SO?I smiled so hard reading all of these you two sound great together :) | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/16 03:22 PM |
| 4 | What Are Some Silly Things You Do With Your SO?A boat race is such a fun idea, not many would have thought of that! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/16 03:21 PM |
| 2 | What Are Some Silly Things You Do With Your SO?Love all of these!! M and I raid the grocery store for snacks and drinks before binging shows as well! We're watching Breaking Bad for the first time ever (no spoilers please) and basically only get up to use the bathroom haha I sometimes walk through the house like I have PTSD waiting for him to pop out of the cut and scare me. I sometimes try to catch him and wind up looking stupid cause I'll just bust into the hallway like HAAAAA I CAUGHT YOU but he is just sitting there not even thinking abo… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/16 03:20 PM |
| 2 | What Are Some Silly Things You Do With Your SO?Yay shower dance parties! M and I like to have AM dance parties sometimes as I cook breakfast it's always a blast :) | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/16 03:17 PM |
| 3 | What Are Some Silly Things You Do With Your SO?Hahaha love that term! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/16 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Advice Request for religious ladies hereSame!! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/16 03:15 PM |
| 5 | Advice Request for religious ladies hereWhen it comes to your BIL, listen to /u/TempestTcup! In addition, be mindful of your tone, word choice, facial expressions, and body language when you are at this church or speaking about it with your fiance's family. People look around during sermons so make sure you're not rolling your eyes, whispering to your fiance, or on your phone! Hopefully me saying all of this is necessary but you seem to have a history of disliking conservative Christian ideas, separate from the BIL stuff. You can only… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/16 03:14 PM |
| 5 | For Better or WorseExcellent essay! We have a situation wherein technological advancement outpaces human capacity to adequately process how it is affecting us Yes! This entire section was gold but this really is such a key point. In only a few short years the SMP was completely changed by Tindr, Instagram, Snapchat, etc. We're seeing some immediate consequences but it's still so early, and there are many developments to come. Prior to the communication age women’s need for interpersonal affirmation was generally l… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/16 05:06 AM |
| 9 | Advice Request for religious ladies hereI can tell that you're not very fond of conservative Christians; my advice to you is to keep this attitude hidden from the members of your fiance's church. Be friendly and open minded. Don't assume that they will judge you, hate you, or gossip about you, and don't give them any reason to do these things! Read up on the services so that you can feel comfortable doing and saying the right things at the right time. Compliment women on their outfits, and be sure you're dressed appropriately yourself… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/16 04:31 AM |
| 5 | 1 Week Challenge SuggestionsOmg yes! I'd love to read the mini FRs that people have after trying this for a week | /r/RedPillWives | 25/09/16 10:36 PM |
| 5 | 1 Week Challenge SuggestionsLove this! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/09/16 10:35 PM |
| 4 | digesting RPW, feel like a noob (despite being married for 11 years!)Welcome and congratulations! Your transformation is inspiring and your field report is incredibly insightful. My favourite part: I never spoke to husband of my revelation and transformation, I just wanted him to reap the benefits of my improvement without having to address sticky topics like power, leadership, responsibility, etc. Talking about who does what, why we're doing it, what I expect, etc seems so....analytical and masculine. I just want him to feel comfort/refuge/relief/tenderness/love… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/09/16 08:51 PM |
| 5 | 5 Ways To Stop Being A Bitchy Wife - The Art of BetterThank you for sharing this with the sub, it's such a great reminder! Gratitude is really something that women aren't encouraged to show to their men on a regular basis. I've seen others legitimately get offended at the idea that they should be thankful at all for something their man did, or for being with their man. In contrast, the women who make it clear that they are grateful and feel like the luckiest women in the world have stronger relationships. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/09/16 08:45 PM |
| 5 | Littleknownfacts Presents: Love Your Body No Matter WhatWhen we consider our love for our spouses, it is not a feeling, but a series of actions and attitudes meant to bring you both harmony and happiness. Love for your body works the same way. It is the act of treating your body well, eating healthy, staying active, and avoiding harsh damaging substances. Brilliant! What an awesome way to approach this! Thanks for writing this up, it'll be in the wiki :) | /r/RedPillWives | 25/09/16 08:32 PM |
| 4 | 1 Week Challenge SuggestionsSo exciting! I don't have an official title for my idea but basically it is the "Have Great Sex Every Day" challenge. Now I know that a lot of people already are having sex daily (or more!) so that is why "great" is included. Set a week-long goal that is unique to your sex life and work on that! You could challenge yourself to initiate more, or be more vocal, put more effort into foreplay, wear something daring, surprise him at the front door, try new positions or locations, etc. There are so ma… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/09/16 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Is TRP and the cult of the alpha male caused by society becoming more "extreme" in many ways?You listed a lot of things that are definitely occurring but I disagree with your explanation of why they are happening. What you describe as "nerd culture" (with the exception of music) seems like the effects of extended adolescence and immaturity in general. I don't understand how Lil Wayne or EDM are "nerd culture" so you'll have to explain it in more detail. I also disagree that mainstream society encourages men to be alphas...Basically I think that the "extreme entertainment culture" is the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Random RP Thoughts!I'm glad you like it! Maybe there are 2 scales? I don't think that anti weights or anything similar really make sense and I googled but couldn't find any scales with 4 sections. If you have a lot of positive characteristics while your partner doesn't, that imbalance also spells trouble for the relationship. Idk let me think about this I'll either edit or send another response! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/16 04:03 AM |
| 3 | Random RP Thoughts!/u/BellaScarletta brought up metaphors so I figure this is a good place to share an extended metaphor that /u/PhantomDream09 and I have been talking about. I'm sure most of you are familiar with the phrase "Don't ask the fish, ask the fisherman", well we think that fishing is actually the perfect metaphor for female sexual strategy, not male. Here are some of the ideas we were playing around with: Both fishing and female sexual strategy are all about preparation. You need to know what you're aft… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/16 10:41 PM |
| 5 | Random RP Thoughts!The visual that popped into my mind was a scale. Every mistake, poor decision, or otherwise RMV lowering thing that you do adds to your side of the scale, and everything your man does/has done adds to his side. If you are balanced then that makes it more likely that the relationship will be harmonious, whereas if there's more on your side, you're going to be less worth committing to (and the same applies to him of course). The key here is that you're not going to be worth it to that one man and … | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/16 10:26 PM |
| 5 | Random RP Thoughts!Ooh I really like this! To add on, someone could be professional but after injuries they may only be able to play at the community level. This would parallel the reduced options that low RMV women have, they can't compete in the same arena as higher value women. So yes, you can still "win the game" even if your capacity is lowered after multiple injuries. Just like low RMV women can still get into LTRs and even marriage. But you're playing against entirely different people, for an entirely diffe… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/16 10:21 PM |
| – | Wedding Megathread!If you haven't already check out the Relationships and Weddings boards on the official RPW profile! If you'd like to become a contributor to any (or all) of the boards, PM us through pinterest :) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/16 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Why don't TRPillers/RPW try BDSM?Well it depends on her lifestyle but really anywhere, if she is attractive and has open body language she'll be approached. More specifically women meet men through hobbies, groups, at church, at events, at bars, at parties, through mutual friends, through family. For someone uninterested in BDSM and/or that community, these are better ways to meet the man you'll marry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Why don't TRPillers/RPW try BDSM?But it doesn't make things easier if you are looking to have a harmonious LTR and eventually marriage. In America the BDSM scene is not filled with the type of men that most RPW (and RPW like women) would be interested in. It would be a poor sexual strategy to try to weed through the leftists and low value men. I won't repeat what countless RPWs have said about how it isn't a fetish, but I agree with them 100%. Hopefully my point about time and effort makes sense to you. It's just not worth it f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Why don't TRPillers/RPW try BDSM?Ah well RPW is mostly about the US, there are still plenty of nromal masculine men. Most RPW are already in relationships but we don't encourage people to start off an LTR based on shared fetishes. There are plenty of people you can have sexual compatibility with you don't have to be part of a BDSM scene. Compatibility in the bedroom is important of course but its really limiting your options to only look for men who want to be bdsm style doms. And there's really no need for most women to settle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Why don't TRPillers/RPW try BDSM?Why would anyone in RPW want to be with a leftist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Just spreading my wingsDefinitely! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadCool I have some chicken thighs so I'll give it a try, thanks :) | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadYes duck fat is amazing!! I'll have to try it with potatoes, so far I've only used it with meats, it really enhances roasts! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadThank you it was delicious! Let me know how it goes if you make it! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Why you are not 'just one of the boys' and you don't want to beLove how you brought 2 new angles to this idea, or at least they are new to me! Befriending the girlfriend if she is "so cool" and going on double dates with them is a great solution. You may gain a new couple to hang out with, where everyone can enjoy each other's time without crossing boundaries. Or, you realise that you don't want to spend time with this man unless its 1 on 1 and then you cut off the relationship entirely because it's inappropriate. /u/jade_cat totally stole what I was going … | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 05:00 PM |
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