I made a decision about a month ago to go celibate. I remember reading on RPW before (it was a comment, not a thread, which I believe may have been deleted) somebody was was giving alternatives to sex based on reason for sex, for example, they were saying "If you want to feel desirable, get a makeover, if you want to feel companionship, get a pet" or something like that, I def don't remember their exact words, but I sure wish I did.

I thought this would make an EXCELLENT thread, where we can not only share tips for celibacy itself, but reason why you might choose to use that specific alternative.