So this is a bit of a rant, but I’m a 20 year old girl who’s never had a boyfriend. I’ve wanted one since I was 14 years old, but have had no luck. I’ve only been asked out by 3 guys in my lifetime. Which I’m grateful for, and I turned them down gently because of personal reasons (ex. One was a hard drug user that expected me to do it too).

However, what I don’t get is that Red Pillers often claim that even “average” looking woman are bombarded with suitors, but there’s barely any interest in me. And I’d say I’m pretty average, not ugly. I’ve got a healthy body — not too fat, not too skinny. The main thing is my face, which I’m told is very beautiful.

So am I doing something wrong? Not being flirtatious enough? Not being loud enough? Not being submissive enough? Is there some sort of explanation for this?