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The Gentleman’s Guide to Modern American Dating

GaiusScaevolus
May 21, 2013
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Title The Gentleman’s Guide to Modern American Dating
Author

GaiusScaevolus
Upvotes 101
Comments 42
Date May 21, 2013 6:24 PM UTC
(13 years ago)
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Comments

[–]socal83 54 points55 points56 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

i will gladly go on the record as saying this only happened ONCE to me.

ONCE in my fucking life i was that idiot buying dinner and shopping.

god bless the the red pill, god bless pickup, and god bless the manosphere. truly doing god's work and saving men every day, one by one, from a fate worse than death.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 13 points14 points15 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

amen to that.

[–]AbraxianAeon 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's in our instincts to provide, provided we are given for doing so.

We are no long rewarded for such.

Do not fault yourself too much.

[–]Modredpillschool 27 points28 points29 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Holy shit, sidebar material here.

[–]DrunkNewb 4 points4 points4 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I second that motion. All those in favor?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Aye

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Jeezus that was painful. More people need to read this.

[–]TRP Vanguardnicethingyoucanthave 15 points16 points17 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Nearer the end of the evening, when the discotheque is about to close, he casually strolls up to her and says lets go. Surprised, she says where. He says my home. She acts flabbergasted and waits for him to explain. He says nothing. After 15 seconds she says ok

My goal for the week is to try that. Only problem I anticipate is that there'll be a girlfriend there with her.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

My goal for the week is to try that. Only problem I anticipate is that there'll be a girlfriend there with her.

My goal for the week is to try that. Hopefully she'll bring a girlfriend with her.

FTFY

[–][deleted] 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]r_rships_account 12 points13 points14 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I was just about to seal the deal and get some action, when a room mate busted through the door and started violently projectile vomiting. I was tripping way too hard on shrooms to deal with that, so I ended up excusing myself. Got a text later that I was owed a blowjob. I'll cash that in next time I'm in Pennsylvania.

Your roommate is a generous guy.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

who cares, if there is then good! it will be a learning experience huhuhuhu

[–]whynoflyingcarsyet 14 points15 points16 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I used to get mad at women.. then myself for constantly being the nice guy gentleman I thought women wanted ( thanks ladies for saying "be yourself and a gentleman" .. you assholes )

I found if you just cut the bullshit and tell a woman you find attractive to come over and do such and such they respond so rapidly it's almost overwhelmingly productive to do this.

A few years ago there I read that if you want to sleep with some of your female friends.. just send them a message on facebook "Come over now and be freshly scrubbed"

Out of the 30 I messaged.. 18 of them said "ok" the other's just laughed but didn't say no. 0.o

[–]annul 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

and did you have 18 girls showing up simultaneously?

[–]whynoflyingcarsyet 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not all at once.. I'm not a demi-god... though can you imagine them all showing up at a pub and wondering WTF is going on? lol

[–][deleted] 13 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link

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[–]socal83 20 points21 points22 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

the best kind of thought is no-thought thought. lol

i.e., just have a circuit of places you take chicks to, which requires no thinking in order to 'execute' but that you have executed 100 times before. this gives the impression of being spontaneous, when in actuality it's planned out. when she shows up, just run the program.

bar 1. lounge 2. restaurant 3. apartment. put on some vinyl, pour some wine. panties off. bedroom.

you can become REALLY good at this. i mean scary good. i've done it at LEAST 20 times so far this year. as you do it more, you will start to be recognized - especially if you bring a different girl with you every time. once people notice, you will be treated with more respect/value. this only helps.

shit hits the hamster harder than a midseason hurricane

it's fucking ridiculous that men have to come up with shit like this just to get laid. but hey, it works, so i guess i can't complain.

[–]FountainsOfFluids 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Perfect! It's easier to project confidence when you are on "home turf", so setting up a semi-planned circuit is ideal for making you feel secure and for her to experience newness while you are totally at ease.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, have a circuit ready. Even though it's routine for you it's impressive for them and they don't have to exercise any thought.

[–]MockingDead 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Mushin in pick up. Man, if I were more confident in my skills, I;'d post that as a part of a pick up Blog.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I believe the word you're looking for is 'unconscious competence.'

[–]TheIslander829 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Genius

[–]beingagentleman 12 points13 points14 points 13 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Does anyone find this to be hyperbole? I mean I get the picture he's painting and I subscribed to this reddit because I'm afraid this has become far too accurate a description of modern social relations. However, she is lying on such a level to warrant a diagnosis of some sort, be it a mental, personality, or psychological disorder.

[–]socal83 25 points26 points27 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

the only thing about this that's exaggerated is the timeline has been compressed.

alpha wolf wouldn't fuck her the same night, probably the next night or the next weekend.

beta chump also would wait weeks in between dates.

i've seen it from both sides, being the beta chump and the alpha wolf. the fucked up thing is the girls tell the alpha wolf about the beta chumps. they tell me shit like "sigh this guy is totally in love with me, what a loser". the chicks just think this is going to last forever. then they hit THE WALL and POOF alpha wolf is long gone

if you don't think this is real that just means you've never been the alpha guy who makes her suck cock on her knees.

[–]MrStinky 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

the chicks just think this is going to last forever. then they hit THE WALL and POOF alpha wolf is long gone

The sound that emanates from the collision against the wall is so satisfying

[–]Endorsed ContributorNiftyDolphin 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

they tell me shit like "sigh this guy is totally in love with me, what a loser".

Heh, "I have value!"

[–]hiyuh 27 points28 points29 points 13 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

Give a girl a smartphone, 100 men online and offline begging to be with her, a constant stream of likes and validation, and a culture that encourages her to slut it up, and see what she'll turn into. Unfortunately, it's not that far-fetched.

[–]MrStinky 13 points14 points15 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Red pill truth can be so fucking frustrating. Even though I would rather live in reality than persist in delusions -- A blue pill / beta / fairy tale / Disney existence can be soooo enticing. Entirely unrealistic and untrue, but enticing nonetheless

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Enticing, but lonely.

[–]scuba_comet13 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

This hits deep. Every man needs to read this.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good stuff. Thanks for linking.

Sidenote: Stumbled upon the blog just this week. Was curious to see bodybuilders pre/post steroids.

Not sure if anyone's noticed, but the way he markets his books is dodgy as fuck.

[–]Ragnar09 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Treat the bitches like shit and they keep coming

[–]MrStinky 14 points15 points16 points 13 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

This is so true it hurts. I think we've all been the "gentleman" before and we could never figure out why it wasn't working. Now, because of Red Pill Philosophy we can.

I literally watched this happen to me. I was working as a concierge at a condo and saw a girl get dropped off by her date. They had just gone and saw a movie. I watched him hug her. I then watched him walk away and her look bored as fuck as she walked into the main lobby of the building. 2 hours later I was in her suite (after my shift) slamming her. Even though I am on the receiving end of the sex -- I still felt genuine sorrow for this dude because I am sure I had been that dude before

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

this needs to be added to required reading.

[–]evatt49 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is some lonely 17 year olds wet dream. Absolutely hilarious. The tap water part was my favorite.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This article is red pill literature on an orgasmic level. It's like romance novels for fucking men. No homo.

[–]DerpPhilip 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The obvious moral is "be the wolf."

It's not complicated, gentlemen.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

EXCELLENT POST!

A few things:

This weekend I received 2 blowjobs from 2 different women, both were on their periods. I had an offer from another girl for sex, but she told me she has herpes and I don't want to risk it even with condoms.

Went to a bar with my friend on Friday, I picked up 2 numbers and met up with blowjob babe #1 at 3 AM. Slept over, breakfast in bed! She's awesome.

My friend picked up a very hot blonde girl. She went back to his place and he banged her, woke up and she was on the phone with her boyfriend who lives in Eastern Canada telling him she loves him. My friend nearly vomited he was so disgusted by her actions.

This is a piece worthy of sidebar!

[–]agoodbathroom 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Great article. Very spot-on.

[–]Wiskie 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol. Buying Coke for himself and tap water for her. I'm gonna have to try that.

[–]The_Man_Radan -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Never has knowingly happened to me, but when I sense something is "off." I immediately go to the "nope, you can pay half" bit.

Thank you, this place.

[–]banjo2ey -4 points-3 points-2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is total bullshit and obviously written by a guy

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