My current LTR is remarkably self aware (for a female). Recently, in conversations, she mentioned two shit tests (she had no idea they were shit tests) that I passed. Some background on her: 5'11 HB9, looks like a model. Lived in Russia until she was 18, then went to college and grad school here. Makes good money, bought a house recently. We've been dating since August, exclusively since November.

The first was when she was being emotional and whiny. She said in the past guys would try to find out what sad the matter and humor her and cater to her. I just laugh and ignore her and say she's acting like a girl. She said that she really likes that I don't take her seriously when she's like that.

The second was, early on when we were dating and she when she was acting like an entitled princess, I called her out on it and told her, "that's enough of that Anastasia". She mentioned that last night and I think it took place in September.... She said how much she liked it that I called her out on being a princess, while at the same time not taking it too seriously.

My frame in interactions with her is always the same: father-daughter. She asks me for permission to do things and generally she loves the limits. Sexually, aggressive and dominant. I make her talk dirty and tell me that she wants my cum and that its my pussy. I never let her feel comfortable, like she's completely won me over.

This frame is completely different from my marriage, which was pre-TRP. I tried to be the nice guy. Super beta. In my head then I justified that I'm married and I should just keep her happy. I didn't realize: KEEPING A WOMAN HAPPY IS ABOUT THEM KEEPING YOU HAPPY, NOT YOU KEEPING THEM HAPPY.

Anyways, I'd like to hear if anyone else has gotten good shit test feedback in the past.