I'm in an LTR. My girl recently, out of nowhere, sent me a list of reasons why she loved me. I thought it was very sweet of her, clearly, but after reading a second time I realised that a lot of what made her love me I learned from TRP, amidst the usual wishy washy romantic stuff like "being myself". So in a way, I'd like to thank you guys for making me the kind of man who receives letters like this from their women. I've highlighted in bold the most important parts, and any italic text is commentary from me. Think of this as a confirmation of TRP, straight from the perspective of a woman.
You’ve taught me a lot of valuable lessons during times when i’m feeling impatient
You’re patient with me
I love that you protect me from people who are bad for me I make a point to steer her away from friends that are particularly slutty or horrible individuals, as one of my personal beliefs is that a man is the sum of the people they associate with, and women even moreso.
I love that you try your best to make me happy
I love you for being you
You try your best to have time with me
You always make me laugh
I can tell you anything and you won’t judge This is entirely untrue, and I tend to tell her what I really think about her opinions. I believe she might be referring to some bad memories she shared with me.
Your soft lips
I know that I can trust you
You’re too good to be true
I love how we can both be comfortable in silence This is something I learned through my TRP journey. The first person to speak loses. A man who is comfortable with silence is a man who is confident.
I love that you aren’t afraid to show affection in public
I appreciate you for not being afraid to call me out when I’m being pushy, it helps me understand you and myself better This is THE most important one. Newbies who read this, make sure you do this with your women. It is SO important to stand for what you believe in and call people out on their bullshit, as it shows that you are unafraid to lose those who you love, and that your identity comes first, without capitulation to external forces.
We always come to a resolve no matter what
I love how you are so ambitious and dedicated TRP fellas, it doesn't matter what you want to do in life. Just dedicate yourselves to it. Never stop fighting.
Your hercules-like body :ooo I'm not even that ripped, I simply go to the gym. This suggests something to the nature of female solipsism. They only look at the men that they are personally attracted to; everyone else is invisible. Therefore, one woman might see a slimmer guy like me and see Hercules, whereas another will see me and see a scrawny rat. It's all perspective with women, which is why it's so important to own your personal identity and be the strongest version of yourself; you cannot please every woman.
I love how creative and intelligent you are
You taught me to never judge people just because I don’t understand them I know I will never properly teach her this, as judgement based on ignorance is a core component of human nature, especially female solipsism. But I can at least try. It's worth a shot.
Your presence makes me feel infinitely happier
You care for me
Thank you for reading, TRP. Fight Fight Fight!
night-addict
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