1st time posting here. I discovered the RP about 4 months ago. Since then I have taken a few steps that I believe put me in the path to become a truly RP man:

  • Broke up with my almost 7 years LTR (2 months ago), after almost 2 years of being miserable together.
  • Renegotiated my contract to work as a freelancer (100% remote) and double the salary, starting in 2 months. This move was inspired by the "4 hour work week" book, which I discovered through a recommendation given here.
  • Started hitting the gym almost religiously (at least 4x/week).
  • Dated several women, but only 2 of them have I managed to fuck.

There are other things however that I set as goals and I'm not being able to accomplish, such as:

  • Improve a foreign language skill by practicing/studying everyday at least 30min.
  • Reading everyday.
  • Work on my passion project.
  • Meditate.

All of these things I set as goals to do everyday, and everyday have I neglected them since the break up. I have felt a very big lack of energy to do anything but going to the gym and try to get pussy.

Now is where the problems start, with this one girl jumping into my life.

So about 2 months ago, just a week after breaking up with my LTR, I matched this girl on Tinder. She is a 9, definitely. I'm a 7, maybe 8.

We got along fine and talked a bit, but never met in person because I had to move for a month to another country, to work on a project there. Then while on this other country, half-joking I suggested she should come visit me and guess what, she called my bluff and did, even though we had never met and only had 1 20min Skype call. Crazy girl, right?

Turns out, the last 4 days were some of the best I had in this year. We got along in such a perfect way and she managed to surpass all my expectations. She has a great body and a smile that's to die for.

Furthermore, she says her n-count is only 5 (she is 28). 2 of them being ex-LTR and the other 3 guys she dated in the last 4 months (time since she is single). To this I will add a 2x multiplication factor and so put the number on 10, which is still very low for such a high quality chick.

Not only her face and body are amazing but her way of thinking is like no other girl I have ever met before... just as an example, she says she has no male friends because she believes women and men can't really be friends. This is something more or less controversial to which I 100% agree and have said many times before to other girls who never agreed, of course.

So, 4 days have gone by and now she is gone, back to her city and I can't get her out of my mind. I have only felt like this once before with another woman and we ended up dating for 7 years... so if I'm honest with myself, I guess I can say I'm falling for this girl.

I feel all of this is me getting back to my BP ways. A big step backwards on these last 4 months. I will proceed to explain:

  • Having managed to work 100% remote and with a great improve salary bump, I decided starting July I would travel around the world while working. Every month a different country while on the meantime learning new languages and new skills (such as scuba diving, dancing, snowboarding, etc).
  • I decided I would take the entire month of June as vacations to work on my passion project, which included an investment of 4k $, which I have already made, and will require my full time dedication, meaning working every day from 9 to 9 including weekends.
  • Raise my n-count and slay as many exotic pussy as I can.

Now, because of this girl I'm considering quitting on all of this. She doesn't know of these plans (obviously), including that I won't be back to live on her city. I told her I would be back just in 2 weeks, which was not a lie since I will have to go there to sign my new contract, but will only stay 7 days.

I know quitting on these plans because of a girl is really stupid, and it gets even more, considering some red-flags during these 4 days:

  • We slept in the same room, but I always stayed in the couch and she on the bed. We didn't fuck. Lots of kissing and touching (since the 2nd day), and behaving like sweethearts in public, but no sex. I expected this "resistance" on the 1st and even 2nd day... but not on the 3rd and last. I try to convince myself that it's because of her low n-count... but then remember she told me she fucked 3 dudes in the last 4 months...
  • I spent too much money. I paid pretty much for every meal and activity we did together. She did try to pay a couple of times but I told her not to, because she really spent a lot of money on the plane tickets, to come to me. But anyway, I feel like it was extremely BP of me to just pay for her and I'm afraid that if things between us evolve in the future (meaning I quit all those objectives I mentioned above and move to her city), that she will now expect me to continue treating her the same (which will definitely not happen!).

Now, what are the lessons to be learned here? I have no fucking clue! I will certainly post in a couple weeks/months, specially if I get burned, as the voice inside of me keeps yelling I will!

Go ahead TRP, hit me hard! I'm ready!

EDIT:

Ok, I read all replies and as expected it's unanimous I'm being stupid for even considering to step out of my track for a woman.

In 2 weeks I will be on her city. We will meet, let's see how it goes. I will take her to my place and if nothing happens again, will do as someone suggested. NEXT her and tell her to leave immediately, followed by cutting all contact. If on the other hand things workout fine, I think I will fuck-up my life and put a hold on my current plans. Let's see...

Between now and then I will try to keep texting to a minimum. Make her wonder who else I'm fucking... My head is a mess and even though I had already planned 3 dates for this week I think I will cancel them and dedicate this time to gym, meditate and work.