This is my first post here. A bit long, but IMO a good field report pulling together various pillars of TRP theory.

TL,DR: Friend introduced me to a HB9. I plated her. Using push/pull, abundance mindset, IDGAF, sexual dominance, and overall cockiness, cause this chick to fall in love and call my phone 20+ times in one night b/c she is craving some cock.

  • About Me

6'3, 185 lbs. Early 30s. Probably 15% body fat. I look great with clothes on, but a bit "soft" if I'm being honest without a shirt. $250K income, but I live way below my means. Girls can probably tell I'm not broke, but there is absolutely no way they could tell guess my income within 100K. Currently at ~65 N-count. Have had a few LTRs but nothing longer than 2 years. I've been a natural red pill guy my whole life but I was raised by a single mother and I did a lot of stupid blue pill shit when I was younger. When I finally found this sub it was like unlocking a special tool chest that I had all along. I don't pull from cold-approach too often, but if I meet a girl through a mutual friend, I have very very high success rate and girls want to set me up with their friends all the time. When I go out, I often have girls hit on me or after I make eye contact with them, I often turn around and see them standing right behind me trying to get me to talk to them.

  • She's a head turner

A friend of mine (married, beta) introduced me to one of his lady friends recently. Lets call her Stacy. He talked her up before she came to meet us. Saying things like "she's super hot", "everyone always hits on her when we're out", etc. She finally walks in to the bar and he was right. You could feel all of the men in the room staring at her as she walked over to us. Game on. I start bringing her in using push/pull. She shit tests. A&A. Standard Operating Procedures. I can feel that Stacy is starting to give in. Kino is escalating and shes worked her way to my side of the table and is sitting right next to me.

  • A new challenger has arrived

My friend Becky shows up. I've known her for years. HB6 who's been subtly chasing me- shes attractive, just not my type- but since she has a crush on me, she unknowingly is a great wing woman. Out of nowhere Becky shifts the conversation to one of my old FWB. She says "what ever happened to HER? She was HOT!". I brush it off as no big deal and explain rather matter-of-factly that she got too clingy and I had to cut her off. Stacy's eyes widen up and her lower jaw drops just a tad, mixed with a bit of a smile/smirk. Her face says "I can't believe this cocky mother fucker". I finish with "shes mad at me right now- but she'll come back- they ALWAYS come back". Stacy lightly punches me in the arm. I laugh and change the subject. The night goes on, we change venue a few times. I take this as opportunity to lead the group. "lets go here", "this place has great cocktails", "the music here is the best", etc. Stacy and I end up dancing/grinding a bit. The night is going well, I think I might be able to close, but logistics were not in my favor and I had some business to take care of very early the next morning and I needed to be sharp. I tell Stacy that I have to go and to give me her number. She says "..wait you're leaving?" with puppy dog eyes. I'm now picturing Stacy on her knees with those big brown eyes looking up at me. I'm tempted to fall for it and stay, but I don't want to force it so I leave.

  • PULL

Fast forward 1 week. I have concert tickets. I invite Stacy. Randomly run into ~7 different friends while walking in to the show. She must think I'm a celebrity. We get to our seats and there are people in them. Two guys about 8 seats over weren't supposed to be there and they caused this giant clusterfuck because instead of kicking the guys out- people didn't have the backbone to tell them to move and instead just sat in another persons seats causing this chain reaction. It was a bit difficult to unfuck things given the blaring music, and a few road bumps due to this random cranky hag who didn't want to move, but I was able to sort things out. Show is great, we have a good time, laugh, dance. My place has a great outdoor space for entertaining and I've mentioned this a few times so I invite her back for a glass of wine. It's a school night but the weather is perfect and the mood is right and so she says "Ok, but just one glass!". We jump in a cab and were on our way. I don't think we made it through half of the glass of wine before we were going at it like animals. Remember those big brown eyes? They're great- and she's enthusiastic. There's no ASD/LMR. I can tell she was ready last week when I first met her, and probably has been thinking about it all week. I'm aggressive with her. She "fights back" trying to take control but I pin her down. Its a fun dance. We're laughing. When we're done, she puts her head on my chest and says "I love how you grab me and do what you want with me". After a few minutes I grab my wine glass, finish whats left in one chug while looking over at her ("one glass"). She gets the hint, and asks if I'm going to kick her out. "I've got a big day tomorrow sweetheart. If you don't go now, you know neither one of us are going to get any rest tonight" and give her a nice slap on the ass.

  • PUSH

She's been texting me all week, but I'm generally very busy and naturally this leads to texting for logistics only. I've got plans all weekend but keep the option open for a possible meetup. I'm out with some friends on Saturday at a popular event in our city and happen to run into her. She's with 3 guys. They are not very friendly and it feels like shes trying to make me jealous by some of the things she said, but I just say hi, chat with her for a minute or two and then excuse myself to meet my friends at a bar nearby, but not before whispering in her ear "we should meet up tonight- I haven't stopped thinking about the last time I was with you". The bar I end up at is filled with chicks. I've met 2 different girls and have been rotating chatting with them every few minutes. Girl A has great tits and she can't be older than 21. Girl B is older. She was probably was hotter than Girl A in her prime but I don't have a time machine so I'm all in on Girl A. My phone is ringing. Stacy is calling me. I really want to see her, but Girl A's tits are phenomenal. "Where are you- I want to see you". It's getting late and Stacy wants Round 2. I've got Bar Girl A in the bag so I put my phone on mute and put on the full court press. She lives close by so we go to her place. When I wake up, my phone is dead. I head home and when I plug in my phone, I can't believe what I'm seeing. 20+ missed calls from Stacy ranging from 1am to 3am with a few text messages sprinkled in. She was clearly drunk and wanting more.

  • PULL

Stacy texts me the next afternoon to apologize. She said she had too much to drink and since she didn't expect to see me it caught her off guard and she was disappointed that we didn't end up meeting. I tell her that my phone died (it did- just not until later) but I joke that its probably better that we didn't see each other since she was so drunk. I tell her that she can come over tonight and make it up to me if she wants. She picks up some food and comes by. Round 2 is better than Round 1.

  • RED FLAGS

I typically prefer FWB arrangements. I generally don't have the time to maintain more than 2 women at a time, and I also don't really enjoy having sex with women that I don't like as a person. I don't care how hot they are if I can't stand being around them. Also, being so busy I oftentimes bring my girls around my social circle. Well after a few nights with Stacy I discover a bunch of red flags and relegated her to plate status. She gives incredible blowjobs, but if the 20 phone calls didn't give it away, she is a bit emotionally unstable and has obvious daddy issues.

  • The TALK

Stacy comes over one night and shes not being her usual bubbly self. Something is up, but I don't give in. I just act normal. Eventually she just blurts it out. "Am I just a piece of ass to you?" followed by a well thought out tirade about how if this is going to continue shes going to need more from me and she doesn't want me to just call her to come over when I'm feeling horny. I'm actually getting kind of horny seeing her all worked up. I let her finish but maintain a slight smirk the whole time shes talking. I stay quiet and she says "Say something please". I tell her that I'm really impressed with her speech and I can tell she spent a lot of time thinking about what to say. I joke that she probably practiced in front of the mirror by her door before she left to come over. She's not happy that I'm making a mockery of her and I tell her "you're so cute when you're angry" and then I escalate and we have sex.

  • The NEXT Talk

I don't hear from her for about two weeks. She calls me and tells me that she has been thinking about it and she's decided that if I'm going to use her as a booty call she is going to force herself to be ok with it. Pro-tip: Just SHUT UP. I just let her talk and basically convince herself that this was her idea. I think she was trying to dread me by saying shes removing her emotions and subtly imply that shes going to look elsewhere for the emotional aspect of dating (i.e. AF/BB).

  • Wrap up

I don't usually share details of my relationships with my friends because they don't understand plate theory and most of them are very beta. They have LTRs or wives who don't suck their dicks, walk all over them, and they are firm believers in the blue-pill mantra of "happy wife, happy life". Anyways, since Stacy and my buddy are friends, she apparently has told him about ALL of our interactions in great detail. I was with him a couple of weeks ago and he told me "Dude, I don't know what you did to Stacy but she's in love with you. She shows me her phone and there are tons of dudes hitting her up CONSTANTLY, but she doesn't give a shit about them. She's crazy about you man. I don't get it- if I was you I would be trying to lock that down. Shes smoking hot!" I don't even bother trying to explain, because his mind is just wired differently and he won't understand that the reason why shes crazy about me is exactly because I don't give her what she wants. I happen to know some of the guys that he said are chasing her. They are arguably more attractive than I am in various ways. Some of them are much more wealthy (or at least act like it), others are in way better shape, but they all probably pedastalize her. She's probably disgusted by it because, in my opinion, she has serious self-confidence issues and probably thinks "why are they treating me like this, I'm not special". This probably won't last much longer but I'll enjoy the ride while it lasts.