I'm a younger guy (31) who's discovered the Red Pill 10 years ago. I understand and appreciate the focus on screening women with a "low lay count," and I see its value. However, I've found that this alone isn't enough for a fulfilling, long-term relationship.

I've had multiple relationships with women who had low or no previous sexual experience, and while this addressed some concerns, it didn't cover everything. Issues like intellectual compatibility, emotional maturity, and the ability to compromise were still very present. It became clear to me that there are many other important traits to consider beyond just lay count.

I'm reaching out to the experienced, married men in this community. Your insights and retrospective advice would be incredibly valuable. How did you ensure true compatibility with your partner beyond just the lay count? Are there any resources or discussions that explore these broader aspects of screening within the Red Pill framework?

I appreciate any guidance or resources you can share. As someone looking to find "the one," I want to make sure I'm considering all the important factors for a successful and fulfilling marriage.

Thanks in advance for your help!