I’m genuinely stumped. I recently went through a shitty comfort test after 6mos of noobie gains. See previous post: /r/askMRP/comments/cwm38o/wtf_happened_worse_before_it_gets_better/eyfdacu/?context=3. Went a wee bit Rambo and implemented the great suggestions. Realized attraction wasn’t there after the 6mo peak of alpha and had to get back to the grind. Backing off and reducing time and attention did wonders. Gave me time to re-evaluate and just do me to work on frame and OI.

Unintentional results was wife coming around quickly. The tension was there and we had a few hours while the kid was away and that seems to be when she is the most comfortable. So I initiate and we have insane sex for an hour or so with me including anal in second session. During the noobie period where I reaped my newly found alpha we had anal twice with no complaints and even her getting turned on by it.

Now, she texts while I’m at work (not planning texting back) she says that “I'm really struggling right now not being really pissed with you and myself for doing somethi f I don't like. I am really uncomfortable and it pisses me off that I do it to make you happy but you're more concerned with how you're looking I do to make you happy and I'm the one that ends up hurting. That's not love“. Her exact words.

My question is I’m really sensitive to what happened recently so do I provide comfort and how? Fuck I’m struggling with the Alpha and Beta mix. I know that by phone is not ideal. When I see her in the morning?

Edit: She is sore. That’s the “uncomfortable” part. She had told me earlier and I commented that it was a hellva session and get some rest. Wtf?