Tinder never ends in a date

RedPillJax · 2015-10-19T16:49:03+00:00

I have a ton of success on Tinder.

Keep it light and flirty, and start escalating immediately. As soon as the conversation heats up, drop in #?

If she's interested, she'll send you her number. A few more texts, and set up a meet. Bing, bang, boom.

Lots of girls will not like you or want to meet. This is okay. Tinder is a fun distraction for some girls, and essential lifeblood for others. If you try, you'll fuck from it. I don't even approach almost at all anymore because Tinder does all the work for me.

YDdraig · 2015-10-19T15:43:48+00:00

You have to be funny and interesting. Don't ask a bunch of boring questions, it doesn't make you stand out from the other 100 guys she matched with. Read some tinder guides online, have some good photos, and a bio which creates a little mystery so they can also ask you questions. I'm probably about a 7 but I get about 3 tinder dates a week.

secret_barber · 2015-10-19T15:37:08+00:00

Tinder is about sex, regardless of your location. Make them laugh with something silly and flirtatious, get the number, set up the date near a bed and fuck. Don't try to get to know them through the app.

psyflux · 2015-10-19T17:19:18+00:00

I start by texting either "hey" or "you have great taste in men". Half don't respond. The other half I start texting generic stuff and in 4-5 texts I suggest we go out and ask for their number.

Try not using anything but emotes...let them fill in the blanks with what they think they want to see without you having to regurgitate a bunch of "generic stuff".

prodigy2throw · 2015-10-19T18:45:53+00:00

I've noticed after reading countless online dating advice that everyone has their own brand. Just like real life. Mine is a more Don't give a fuck style and it works pretty well. Figure out what works best. The main thing is that you're getting matches from attractive women on tinder. Half the works is already done then.

youcantdenythat · 2015-10-19T19:12:44+00:00

I start with "hi", sometimes she won't reply, but usually she will reply with "hi" too. Next I ask her what she's up to and have a quick conversation. Usually about 5-10 messages back and forth.

Then I go silent for 24 hours. This works best if we are in the middle of a convo or she asks a question.

The next day I'll say "hey I have monday or thursday free" (whatever evning is free) can you meet for a drink?

Make it seem like you are barely interested because it's probably not going to work out anyway. I don't even bother for a number anymore, it's more of a hassle than it's worth.

If she wants to keep chatting, I respond with brief messages. I don't like to type on the phone that much. They are not real until we are face to face. Then only about 1 out of 4 go past the first meet. Usually they are much uglier than their pic.

edit: if she is interesting during the first meet, I ask for her number there. That is the time for convo and building repport, etc.

Mature_Student · 2015-10-19T21:03:17+00:00

Once you know the name of her cat, the the phone number will follow close behind.

throw_em_all · 2015-10-19T16:55:16+00:00

Doing the same thing over and over again while expecting a different outcome is Einstein's definition of stupidity.

Yer_a_wizard_Harry_ · 2015-10-19T15:48:23+00:00

Just be bold as fuck dude. This should not be hard. Say whatever u feel like. There will always be another one to take a swing on.

Try

What time u comin over to fuck me.

See if it works.

Danedina · 2015-10-19T15:50:28+00:00

You're getting your hopes up too high for what has become a female validation ap. I'm sure there are some guy getting regularly laid with Tinder, but most guys just find it frustrating. Personally, I've spent a lot of time on it just to bang two dogs. A third chick, a hot post-wall mom, would have turned into something on the third date, but I was busy fucking someone else so I flaked on her.

My advice is to go ahead and play around with Tinder because you will get lucky at some point, but don't waste any good evenings hoping something will turn up. You will have much, much better results working your magic with face to face pick-up.

Gouden_Eeuw · 2015-10-19T16:33:52+00:00

I've started with Tinder since September and it has been a pure waste of time for me aside from practicing game. I've in total got 5 numbers from 100 matches. I've managed to set up a date with on girl and she went radio silenced/flaked. 2 numbers did not respond to a text. I've still got 2 numbers unused, but to me their SMV is too low and not worth the effort. A lot of girls act interested with giving complements etc, but it's a trap to make you their orbiter or they lose interest after 1 hour whether you say something or not. Very low ROI in my experience.

laere · 2015-10-19T15:28:52+00:00

Tinder is a waste of time unless you look like Zeus on roids. Go approach women on the street.

Title	Tinder never ends in a date
Author	Dsdcimyc
Upvotes	5
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Date	October 19, 2015 3:19 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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