Do you cheat on your ltr/wife ?

jacques_cousteau007 · 2020-06-23T20:22:03+00:00

Ironic, considering your username

throwawaycunt1997 · 2020-06-23T20:23:20+00:00

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BluzzKill · 2020-06-23T21:00:25+00:00

Another issue to think of, whaat are your children going to be like from a broken home and also you are going to be supporting her and them for 20 years anyway. Work on yourself and make it work unless she really did something bad.

dar2623 · 2020-06-24T01:23:01+00:00

If you done, man up and do it right. But, always remember, it’s cheaper to keep her.

erottawa · 2020-06-23T22:59:56+00:00

If you cheat, you'll get caught 99% of the time. Not worth it since you have a family. Your kids are your top priority as a man. Don't let your dick ruin your kids' childhood.

Can you talk to your wife about it? How mature is your relationship? Is her sex drive as high as yours? If not, she might be willing to let you have fun on the side, open marriage style. If not, and if you absolutely need some new pussy, pay a hooker. It's gross, so I wouldn't do it, but it's an option that is much safer than some random affair that will blow up your marriage and destroy family life for your kids.

slrml617 · 2020-06-23T20:28:49+00:00

You'll do what you'll do, so our opinion don't matter.

However, being a decent human, the right thing to do is come clean and leave, especially since you have a family.

McLovinReturns · 2020-06-23T20:59:25+00:00

Are you okay with your LTR getting railed by other dudes? Than there's your answer. Have the values to at least straight up tell her. Or if you really want to piece it together be open with her and lead her like an alpha and explore new ways for you guys to have sex. Get kinky and do hardcore shit with her. Spice it up my guy

mysteryspoN · 2020-06-23T21:56:16+00:00

Why did you get married in first place? Did you actually have a spark / really love her at first ? Or was it more pressure / desperate

Kabuki431 · 2020-06-24T03:51:14+00:00

Depends on situation. I know a lot of guys who are married and in a dead bedroom situation. Their wives are super loyal but no intimacy. I guess kinda justified in those situations.

catz123456 · 2020-06-24T15:53:52+00:00

Personally if it lasts long enough I might here and there but it's a slippery slope. It's hard to stop when you start and if you do it enough you will get caught.

Musicgoon · 2020-06-23T20:34:17+00:00

Nobody here can tell you what to do. Are you married? If the answer is no ditch her.

Now if you made vows, you've fucked yourself over. This is more of an askmrp question, but I'll do you a device by getting you started. They will rip you to shreds.

First off what have you done for yourself? Do you lift?

The main reason ltr's fail is because of you. You have to own your shit. Most married guys get lazy, stop gaming their wife's, get fat and ignore other women. Chances are if you're not attracted to her, she's really not attracted to you. A dead bedroom is the indicator.

I would personally work on myself, then try to open the relationship. Not Bloor the doors off but open it a crack. Maybe try swinging or something.

If not you can cheat. But she will find out. And you're inevitably headed for divorce rape or a breakup.

Work on you first.

Read the 12 levels of dread. Google that. It will help and it's what most married guys need to implement.

vadimdavidov · 2020-06-23T23:08:24+00:00

Side chick is your answer. Don't hide the fact you've got a wife, she has to be down with the game plan or she's just gonna rat you out. Women love a married dude - pre-selection is huge.

misogymission · 2020-06-24T00:12:13+00:00

I would, but only under the context of a cuckqueaning based relationship or something where it was accepted. When I was younger I was with someone who I had a really strong emotional bond with but who didn't satisfy me sexually, and as a result I cheated on her a lot to get what I wanted. I justified it by telling myself it allowed us to continue to have that bond but still provided me with the sense of satisfaction sexually I desieed. However, the thing is it didn't really. I always felt like shit over it and as a result I couldn't enjoy any of the experiences. Also, eventually it came out and while she worked hard to try and satiate my desires, it eventually destroyed the relationship. In retrospect, I would have been much better of talking to her about it earlier before all the cheating, as once she was aware she did really try to provide me with what I wanted.

My advice, be a Man and up front about what you are feeling before you engage in anything sketchy. Honesty is typically the best policy, and she may be more open to an arrangement that meets your needs than you might think. It anything, she should respect you for bringing it to her face as opposed to going behind her back.

Kidterrific · 2020-06-24T03:40:00+00:00

your kids would be much better off being from a broken home than in one.

yourgirlfriendsdad · 2020-06-24T06:11:09+00:00

Listen to some patrice oneil to get your mind right before you do this

a14deadpool · 2020-06-24T20:35:31+00:00

Yes I think you should cheat. It’s okay to cheat your wife is probably cheating on you or something. I don’t understand why red pill get so triggered about women being sluts when you are promoting men to be sexually promiscuous and sleep with lots of women it’s old of hypocritical but anyway you can do whatever you want I think we men should start having the same mentality as women. Doing things at the moment without thinking about the future, when I think like a woman I actually succeed at seducing women because I don’t have to think like about the outcome or consequences which makes women attracted to me.

Desadarius · 2020-06-24T22:19:37+00:00

Karmic debt is real. If you don't want the shit then don't give the shit.

Delicious_Knowledge · 2020-06-25T21:19:15+00:00

I used to. I've cheated on every LTR I've had (except for my current one). Got tired of always lying and risk hurting my partner so now I am in a one-sided open relationship. Works better for me.

depressedfuckboi · 2020-06-23T22:38:27+00:00

No, that's why I said we should have an open relationship.

alfred311 · 2020-06-24T02:48:08+00:00

Grass is always greener

hoopingblob · 2020-06-24T09:52:10+00:00

I slept with a hooker while I was in an LTR but as long as I don't sleep with other women because I love them I don't consider it cheating.

My gf might tho 😂

TxnyMontana · 2020-06-24T15:26:02+00:00

No, I don't.

My LTR mets all my need (so far), so I don't feel like I need to cheat. Anyway, If she starts flaking or making things I don't like, I'd have the will to walk away, and eventually cheating if it's necessary.

Guarnerre1995 · 2020-06-24T07:55:32+00:00

You want to fuck a new lass every week? Why not. But end it with your wife before you go that lifestyle.

If not for you or her, do it for your kid's sake

mksu911 · 2020-06-23T21:26:12+00:00

If same old pussy is the only complaint you have, there's no reason to break up the family, just get your urges satisfied with some side hoes.

Just be discreet. Catch and release. Don't act like they're a second or third girlfriend. They don't need to know where you live, where you work, that you are married. Be smart about it.

DerekMorganBAU · 2020-06-23T21:46:15+00:00

Get a side chick and keep it discreet.

ppvknifefight · 2020-06-25T19:40:38+00:00

No. That's completely retarded because I chose a quality woman to be into a relationship with and new pussy pales in comparison. You put new pussy over your family? Can't be me.

TXJohn83 · 2020-06-24T10:29:35+00:00

It's not cheating if she is a part of it, just bring in another woman.

Title	Do you cheat on your ltr/wife ?
Author	HypergamyDoesntCare
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Comments	43
Date	June 23, 2020 8:16 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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