Went out with this girl we both are 23, First date escalated publicly, pants on no sex.

Second date got a bj, fingered her, we vibe together, still no penetration.

Third date at my place, same as before, ASD kicked in, failed at my part I guess to break her barrier...

Sucked me, massaged me, still no penetration, had a little pillow talk she said she had 3 relationships and 5 partners at total through her past.

I did a mistake and actually asked her.. even though every answer won't please me, so 5 partners.. I call bullshit.

Should I soft next her?