Seduction killer?

norwegiandoggo · 2025-01-21T08:25:01+00:00

Being mysterious has never been the most attractive strategy. Being famous "out there" and visible has always been a more attractive strategy.

Think about it. Imagine you're at a party. There's a guy in the corner that no-one knows. He seems mysterious. Then there's a guy at the party everyone knows who is in the center talking to everyone, and people know a lot of details about him and his life..

Who do you think women prefer? This isn't rocket science. They prefer the guy they know, the well-known guy, over the mysterious guy in the corner. Not all women. But most of them. So if you want to choose a social media strategy, one posting a lot is better than one posting nothing. You want to get as many eye balls as possible. If you can be personal and share intimate details about who you are - and what you do - this will drive even more eyeballs and make you even more appealing on average.

But, using social media to meet women is already kind of bad in most instances because why? Because you'll meet other narcissistic influencers. So that's why I recommend you meet women in other places - not social media like Instagram. Clout chasers are annoying

_SKUL_ · 2025-01-21T08:07:32+00:00

Yea bro do NOT post more than once a week or even once a month. Ik its hard but unless its something that’s visually appealing, and would make someone WANT to talk to you, dont do it. I hate the stigma around it but its what it is.

Honestly, you can be the one to change it if you really want to. Post whenever u want, if you get girls like that then cool if u dont then yk what to do

everydayguy_ · 2025-01-21T08:09:00+00:00

Caring what women think

Quantic316 · 2025-01-21T08:38:24+00:00

I understand what you mean about mysterious aura. it sounds like you’re overdoing it on the stories honestly

try post yourself more, cool outfits or doing cool things

try limit the amount of memes and stuff you post, that kills your mysterious aura unless you only post A+ memes every so often. but theres guys I know who do post heaps of memes everyday but then they have more of a fun aura than mysterious

lune-artificielle · 2025-01-21T09:22:02+00:00

mystery is a key element in seduction if used well imo. if used well, it can be an incredibly effective element in seduction. usually they have to already be attracted to you though.

for instance, i can roughly categorize women on my instagram as the type 1: the frequent poster (frequently posts lots of stories/on the grid, revealing everything they’re doing each day—who they’re hanging out with, where they’re eating, memes, and so on), type 2: semi-frequent poster (posts much less than type 1, but more than type 3). they occasionally post things but don’t reveal everything, and whenever they post, it feels more impactful than when type 1 posts. you’ll get somewhat of an insight into their lives. then type 3: they rarely, if ever, post anything (stories/grid). you have almost no insight into their lives, what they’re doing, who they hang out with, or anything about them. whenever they post, they still sometimes reveal very little, and you can spend a lot of time analyzing it for context clues.

for instance, let’s say type 3 posted two separate dinners with lots of space between them in two different cities.

you may wonder who is taking them there. is it a date? if so, why are they in a different city than the last time they posted being at dinner? is it with the same guy? different guy? what are they doing in the new city? what do they even do on weekends or throughout the day?

from above:

type 1: there isn’t much to figure out; they reveal everything. you see her posting the same content, know she’s eating at the same places, hanging out with the same people, and may even know which guys she’s likely dating.

type 2: can be a bit more mysterious.

type 3: most mysterious.

type 3 girls i know either have 0 posts or tagged posts, very few photos, and almost never post on the grid as well. they have fewer than 500 followers and follow very few people. two of them follow less than 300 people and have around 200–500 followers. it adds to the allure.

whereas type 1 girls may have 1k+ followers and a low ratio of following. it’s more “standard” and what you’d expect for an attractive woman on social media. the type 3s that are attractive and have few followers and followings add to the appeal because they could easily have a lot more followers and followings but actively choose not to.

you can see how mystery can add to the appeal of seduction.

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-01-21T12:06:10+00:00

Mysterious only works if there’s an initial attraction. Nerds are mysterious too doesn’t mean women chase them.

Anyway, why do you need to post stuff you like (memes, bikes)? It reminds me of a lot of women who always post their food on their social media before they eat it. Think of how you look at those woman who do that, and imagine that’s how people look at you.

TripleDigitNomad · 2025-01-21T12:27:52+00:00

Mystery doesn't work anymore. Complete myth. Women would rather be with a guy who excites them because he's showcasing a fun, interesting life than one who confuses them and doesn't reveal anything about himself.

EetinAintCheetin · 2025-01-21T18:44:55+00:00

Mystery = being unavailable. You posting multiple memes every day = being too available AND trying too hard.

AssistTemporary8422 · 2025-01-21T22:47:33+00:00

Are you actually getting likes and comments on your memes?

aqvarius_il_grande · 2025-01-22T05:11:25+00:00

No you have to be mysterious AND high value. Nobody gives a fuck if you are some mysterious incel loser.

Dizzy-Bench2784 · 2025-01-21T07:52:46+00:00

Count how many girls you’ve slept with. There’s your answer

Wing_Inevitable · 2025-01-21T09:45:00+00:00

Mystery - is one of those things that is supper girl specific - since it is dependant on her wanting to know more about you.

For IG I would recommend posting things that are SOCIALLY competitive for the girls you want.

Let’s say you want those “ass models” (the fun whore type) - Posting things from Parties , Riding Yachts , privet plane rides. Etc.

If you want the alt whores - how cutting yourself is an productive thing, metal parties ,playing instruments or being in a band , drugs and all of their health benefits (besides the first one - the others are about on par).

Memes are no mans land. Making her lough is a personal thing - not something she can showcase to others to make them jealous of her superior pussy.

Just think of the girls you want to attract and think about what would make her idiot friends jealous and do that.

Hot - is pretty much universal.

Title	Seduction killer?
Author	SureshRR
Upvotes	19
Comments	31
Date	January 21, 2025 7:50 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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