The "silent opener" as i'm calling it is merely a physical gesture or approach made to grab the girls attention in order to initiate conversation.

I've noticed that naturals and people teaching natural game tend to use these constantly in a bold and instinctive fashion. I find myself using these "silent openers" more and more as I throw away my canned material and try to develop more natural game. I thought that some of these moves would be worth naming, sharing, and getting feedback on.

Note, all of these work better the more you believe and act like you are the most exciting, important, and attractive human being in the universe. All gestures have been tested by myself and a few friends, and they are all things I try to do on a fairly regular basis now.

1) The "Come Here": Just lock eyes, hold out your hand, and give a "yes" nod with your head. When she takes your hand, pull her a couple feet towards you and start talking. Never do this from behind, always get eye contact first. If she pulls away or doesnt take your hand, don't abandon or withdraw your hand. Just say "i dont bite" or "im not going to hurt" or "im sorry i just wanted to say..."; if she never takes your hand continue conversing as if she did, push it to the bitter end.

2) The "Point and Come here": Fairly self explanitory, lock eyes with any target more than a few feet away, point at her and approach. As you get close hold out your hand and use the "Come Here".

3) The "Bear Hug": Hold your arms out wide, lock eyes and approach your target giving her a big hug. Make sure she sees you coming. Say something when you get to her, it's creepy to carry out the silence on this one, any kind of direct opening line works well.

4) The "Spin Move": Hold out your hand, when she takes it spin her around like your ball room dancing. From here you can either bring her in and continue dancing or go into conversational mode. All girls like to be spun, i've yet to find an exception to this rule.

5) The "Sticky High Five": Go for the high five, but when your hand meets hers, let it stick. Start talking immediately and close your fingers around hers so you are holding her hand.

6) The "Claw": Use one hand, and "claw" her in. Tyler Durden mentions using this a lot, youtube it. Try not to catch her too off guard, I got slapped the last time I tried this.

7) The "2 hand compliance test": Yes this works as an opener. Just hold your hands infront of you and start talking. We she takes them give her a slight pull toward you.

8) The "Double High five": Just hold both your hands up above your head and give her a big double high five.

9) The "This is my fiance": Just come in and put your arm around her like she is a really good friend or your fiance. When I do this I ussually like to pretend I know them. I've even introduced a girl to her own friends as my fiance before.

10) The "double take": For any girl behind you. Do a double take and then lock eyes with your target. Approach and continue the open ASAP.

So thats it. I wouldn't think of any of these as real openers, just a bunch of good physical actions that make for a stronger approach. If anyone has anything else to add please chip in.