What does this mean ?

Western-Month-3877 · 2026-02-09T18:46:48+00:00

“10% every month sounds good to you? 9 months from now I’d know you damn well.”

Kylearean · 2026-02-09T19:18:09+00:00

This is a standard compliance test. I'm sure she's slept with guys within 45 minutes of meeting them. She wants you to qualify yourself. Don't fall for it. Leave the ball in her court. Mindset: "You have a fun, fulfilling life, and you're a busy person. It's almost a mild annoyance to have to deal with her."

By the way, never ask for formal "dates". This sets up a whole slew of expectations and social norms that you can't possibly manage, nor would you want to. Your goal is to be different from every other guy who is trying to play "by the rules" (in a game that's rigged against you).

I'd always frame it like "I'm going to XYZ tomorrow, you should come with me." Not "hey, do you want to go on a date with me?" If it's easy to say "no" to fully answer a question, that's usually the answer you're going to get first.

I played a game where I'd try to have entire conversations with someone without asking them any questions -- I'd usually get comments like "talking to you is so easy" and "you don't treat me like other guys". Some would call me out on it, "You never ask about me", but that's only usually with a more established relationship.

calebdrake0091 · 2026-02-09T18:35:18+00:00

She means its too early for a date, she probably wants to know you more and get comfortable with going out with you

Lacunaethra · 2026-02-09T18:54:14+00:00

What do you mean to date each other? You wanted to go on a date with her or you wanted to officially start to date her?

Revolutionary-Toe795 · 2026-02-10T12:17:26+00:00

very South Asian reply anyway

Evilfck · 2026-02-10T00:29:42+00:00

why would you ask her to date each other? omg don't do that next time

RandomBlokeFromMars · 2026-02-10T07:54:29+00:00

it means she doesnt like you. move on and forget her.

girls play games only with guys they dont like. even if you succeed and she will settle, you will be the inferior one in this relationship.

the_monkey_knows · 2026-02-09T18:41:22+00:00

That means that she thinks you‘re only interested in her appearance. Although that may be true, you’re a dime a dozen, most guy that meet her probably ask her out. You shouldn’t flirt with someone that isn’t attracted to you, before you even mention dating, you ask people out to hang out or in activities that are not dates, give her reasons to want to date you, otherwise you’re just like every other guy who thinks with their dicks that is only asking her out to get in her pants. Unless you really are, in which case you’re dealing with a perspicacious one.

Title	What does this mean ?
Author	Low-Investigator2953
Upvotes	7
Comments	37
Date	February 9, 2026 6:32 PM UTC (5 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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