Girls are confusing!

ozzagahwihung · 2016-09-30T14:02:05+00:00

She lost interest.

It's not confusing. You just have to remember that not everyone feels the same way you do.

NoWhiteLight · 2016-09-30T13:36:47+00:00

Ya, that was that.

taylortob · 2016-09-30T13:59:29+00:00

Sorry to hear that she hasn't texted you back. It sucks, but ultimately, it's up to you how you want to handle it. If you wanna try one or two more times, I think that should tell you whether or not she's worth hanging out with again.

Mitt69 · 2016-09-30T14:24:30+00:00

If anything you got to make out with her, but I recommend finding new girls! Perhaps that might even make her jealous by you not giving two shits!

themadmacbook · 2016-09-30T14:46:05+00:00

I would try again in maybe a week or two and ask what happened between the two of you. Will show that you definitely arent needy, and by then, maybe her emotions will have changed, and she might be interested again. I know it sounds strange, but so are woman.

Woujo · 2016-09-30T16:17:00+00:00

The next day, I texted her know when I could see her again.

Wait, you waited a whole day to text her back? That's bad news. When a girl is hot for you, you need to keep that flame going, not let it die out. If a girl texts you "I had fun" she is putting herself out there and exposing herself to the risk of rejection because she likes you. You making her wait a whole day before you text her back is going to hurt her feelings and she's going to want to become a bitch because of it. Maybe I read your post wrong, but if a girl texts you something super-positive, you should text back soon and say "me too! Let's hang out soon" and then get back to her asap with plans. You gotta strike while the iron is hot because girls have a lot of options and they won't wait around for you forever.

I told her a I was free Thursday and she told me we'll have to see then.

Here's a trick. If I tell you I'm free Thursday and she says "we'll see" I wait a day and then tell her "hey sorry, plans have changed, something came up and I'm not free Thursday anymore." That sounds like a bizarre dick move, but it gives you the power back. You're not going to sit around and wait for her to "maybe" tell you she's available. She rejected you, so you have to reject her back.

I imagine she said this because you hurt her feelings by waiting so long to get back to her, but once she starts playing games, you gotta play em back.

Thursday was yesterday. I called her in the afternoon without an answer.

You shouldn't have done that. When a girl tells you maybe you disappear.

I left her a message on FB saying she had a miss call. (don't know why I sent that... It s fcking needy lol)

Cringefest 2016. Obviously don't ever do that ever again.

Next, I should just stop contacting her right? She knows where to contact me and I have done my part trying. If I do more I ll be digging my grave. I think.

You've already dug your grave. Normally I would say "go cold for a week or two, and then invite her to something fun you were going to do anyway" but the two messages back to back really make you look bad. You can still do the go cold for a week thing but it's gonna be rough.

jd_tonguesalot · 2016-09-30T16:23:41+00:00

Don't contact her again. If she regains interest and contacts you be very cool about it. By cool I mean don't act all fucking grateful, she blew you off, remember that. Act like you couldn't care if she contacts you again no matter how hard it is. Don't be a needy bitch man, calm your shit down.

Jacob_961 · 2016-09-30T18:12:26+00:00

You can call her again... it's not an issue as long as you don't sound butt hurt and assume she is still attracted to you. Don't bring up the missed call. Women don't operate based on logic. There isn't a logical reason why she didn't message you back or call, emotions dictate a women's actions, not logic, it doesn't matter anyway, it's all fun and games. Try one more time for the fun of it and then drop it.

Always ask yourself would a super alpha guy be bothered that a girl got cold? It's only funny. It's all fun and games anyway. All women are replacable. There is no point in keeping her a maybe. Try, burn it to the ground not for an outcome, for the pleasure of it.

Call her and chat for a bit, flirt, ask her if she misses you like she would miss Brad Pitt or George Cluny, tease her on her answer, make her invest a bit and ask for compliance for for a meet up. It's all emotions. If she doesn't answer, drop it, you did your part, and every girl is replacable so who cares.

msmiitz · 2016-10-01T13:56:48+00:00

Girls are gay. Get a hobby

cchrissy · 2016-10-01T01:47:17+00:00

If a girl sent a message first, i think its a good sign. I never sent a message like that to a guy I went on a date with so far even if I really liked the guy. I usually let the man initiate first just to see how interested he is in me. So, if the guy sends me a text saying thank you and can't wait to see you again then I wait a few hours to reply him just to show him that I am not desperate.

Let's say the girl Jessica was me, and If you waited a full day to text me back even when I txted you first, you are long gone by then. No one ever does that to me. How could you make a girl wait an entire day? (But If I really liked you, like almost fell in love with you at first sight thing, i would give you another chance.) You should've shown that you are interested in her shortly after you received a message. Because she could probably think that you are not worth the effort(?) I'm just guessing here. But, If I were in the situation, I would've ignored you on purpose.

Title	Girls are confusing!
Author	nriopel
Upvotes	6
Comments	39
Date	September 30, 2016 1:27 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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