Writing this PSA because i'm furious with myself and knew I was going to do this to myself. I want to warn the rest of you guys out there so you don't make the same mistakes I did. This is probably the best advice I can give you for a long time.

JUST SHUT THE FUCK UP!!

What do I mean by it?: I had a girl that I met, took out on a date and the date went so well that we even talked about having sex as the second date. This literally was the plan, come back to my place and fuck. That's it, plain and simple, crystal clear.

Here's where I fucked up: I had this girl, like I mean it I HAD this girl, the gaze was set, the trance was there. I broke the spell by texting her some bullshit today. No big deal right? WRONG! This reminded her of the plans we had in a few days, she got cold feet and bailed, I mean pulled out completely. My guess is she didn't want to feel like a slut and got worried so best bet for her was to pull the plug. I absolutely ruined my chances with her. It's over. And the worst part??? I've done this before...3 other times, in the same fashion too! All I had to do was shut my mouth and don't text until the day of the date. Couldn't do it. Well I'll tell you guys something, I am fucking thick headed. But I get it now, and I hope you do too. Set up the date via text. Then shut up, I mean it! Shut the fuck up!!!

TL;DR: Blew my chances with this girl because she felt slutty since I prematurely texted her like a dumbass. Learn from my mistake, text to set up the date/logistics, leave it alone!!!