How to interact without being friendzoned?

revente · 2021-02-22T06:27:38+00:00

You need to lead and escalate physically, and if she’s not responding well to that then move on.

Philipparty · 2021-02-22T16:14:46+00:00

There is no friendzone (technically). Its eiter "likes you", "doesnt like you" or "uncertain".

Doesnt like you wont change, unless you both change on a deep personal level. (That includes her, and will take saveral monts, if not years, so move on)

On the two others, you just need to ve direct and honest. If she likes you (or decides to give it a go) youre good. If she doesnt, youve saved yourself a lot of emotional pain

Excellent-Guitar8621 · 2021-02-22T07:13:31+00:00

This sounds harsh but people are “friend zoned” when the other person doesn’t feel a romantic connection or attraction. Yes there are some things you can do to appear less platonic but ultimately if they’re just not into you in that way, it’s best to gracefully move on.

Neil1398 · 2021-02-22T17:15:44+00:00

If you don’t want to be friend zoned then don’t act like a friend. I know it sounds cliche but it’s true.

I had a girl in hs that I wasn’t sure about. Everyone kept saying she liked me but I wasn’t ready and was kinda nervous to be in a relationship. I kept her around and essentially became friends with her. When I tried to ask to her prom and poured my feelings to her she didn’t react well lol.

Know where you want to go with this girl and lead it that way. There’s no waiting period. If you want sex, lead to sex, if you want a relationship lead to that.

The way I see it, there’s a time limit you have to make something happen. The more time spent in this “idk phase”/friendly phase, is somewhat pushing you away from anything happening.

Advice for now would be to spend you’re time engaging with other women. This would be to give you some abundance.

The story I mentioned about prom, yeah I asked another chick to prom and the other girl only then wanted to dance and take pictures with me lol.

Not saying game other girls to get this one chick. But do it for you.

Desperate-Gur-5730 · 2021-02-22T17:44:04+00:00

However, I know several couples that are happily married after being in 8 year college and beyond relationships with others. Asically my buddy was rejected for about 10 years including high school, then the love of his life left the guy she was with for 8 years and finally married him! They’ve been married over 12 years with 2 kids, extremely happy. Which proves that take (no offense) is NOT a “rule” at all.

(Apologies for the slam, sir! I caught it the 2nd read through, and I didn’t intend to aim it at you like a jerk).

socialanimal_us · 2021-02-26T14:52:17+00:00

you must express your desire and to do that you must have a healthy relationship with them, checkout this video, it will most likely challenge some of your perspectives: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bZAgGiDf2lo

BlancheCorbeau · 2021-02-22T10:28:39+00:00

Keep in mind that there are points, and there are vectors. You may not be at the POINT where she finds you attractive, right now. There IS NO FRIENDZONE. There are just men and women who don’t keep moving and improving.

So, you get in motion, you better yourself, and she starts to think of you as a guy who is going places, who can break out of the expected norms. Maybe she wants to tag along for the ride!

Maybe she likes it right where she is, though. By moving forward, you realize she’s the one in YOUR friendzone - she’ll never make it as your interesting and interested romantic equal.

It’s win-win. All you have to focus on is (a) not being a dick, and (b) having clear direction and velocity (through self-improvement). (a) gives you as many chances as it takes, and (b) is what catches the eyes of those you want to see.

Everything else is basically a bag of tricks with a ticking time mob attached to it. Some things work until they’re overdone, and some things only work when you’re young. And it’s real easy to get tripped up by someone knowing the trick, and mistaking you for a dick.

That’s not to say some of the guides and techniques here are worthless, but you have to integrate them into who you are with SINCERITY, or be prepared to fail with all but the most needy.

Title	How to interact without being friendzoned?
Author	Abhi005
Upvotes	12
Comments	24
Date	February 22, 2021 5:45 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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