How to flirt?

d_eggoo · 2021-02-13T05:22:21+00:00

Talk to them like any other person. Let your own personality come out and if they like it then you are on a good path. If not then move on and keep practicing.

Just_Produce_9707 · 2021-02-13T08:10:27+00:00

Literally pick any entry from Barney Stinsons Playbook.

Alpha-Charlie-Romeo · 2021-02-13T08:45:36+00:00

I'm not sure how to explain it. It's kind of like you say things in a normal conversation that put sex in the mind without being direct about it. If you do it well enough then she might not even notice it. Like say she's cleaning something, say to her "calm down, stroke it gently". See? It could be quite suggestive but it could also be very innocent. Even if you're having another conversation entirely, she'll be thinking of sex when she's talking to you.

You can also flirt with your expression and eyes. Just kind of gaze at her a little bit until she notices you, give her a little cheeky grin and carry on doing whatever it is you're doing. Or if you're in a group conversation, look at her even if she's not talking. Don't stare too much because it can get quite creepy, but just make the occasional glance over. If you catch her staring at you, lock your eyes give her a smirk and don't turn away.

Tease her. Stick your tongue out at her. Play fight with her. Bicker with her. Pinch something off of her and make her chase after it. That kind of thing.

Body contact is something important but something you should only do if she reciprocates your previous flirting. If you're too shy to go all in and do all of the more direct touching, simply brushing by her as you walk past will do. Or if she's in a conversation and you want to join in, stand right next to her close enough that your arms are touching. There are some intimate areas that you shouldn't casually touch but I'll let you search google to find that out.

And the biggest thing is that you shouldn't be afraid to go out of your way to speak to her. If she's somewhere and you want to speak to her, but you're not going down that way. Go that way and speak to her anyway. Spend time with her doing things whenever you can and help her out when she needs it. The more time you spend with each other, the more likely love is to blossom. Make her feel special and that you want to spend time with her.

Abhi005 · 2021-02-13T05:12:26+00:00

The first step to attract opposite sex is to stop masturbating.

The following steps will come to you naturally

ConsiderationLoose87 · 2021-02-13T08:36:25+00:00

Talk to them like with any other human being. Also consider every human special and think about how we are all miraculously here at the same time. Then you’ll start to want to get to know him/her even more, ask questions, let go of all barriers, and the conversation will just flow. The key is being present AF and truly cherishing the other person’s presence. Don’t ever hesitate to compliment them, but only do so genuinely. Sorry am I being too deep?

Ierax29 · 2021-02-13T10:38:14+00:00

Remember how you treated girls when you were 5?

Be playful, your words should communicate you don't like them, your tone/body language that you do

socozyinhere · 2021-02-13T11:05:06+00:00

Practice holding eye contact. Then smile. Then say “you’re cute “. Don’t overdo it. If she’s interested she’ll let you know. But eye contact is important. Don’t stare though. It should be reciprocated

JohnJacobAdolf · 2021-02-13T11:57:24+00:00

https://youtu.be/o_k55geMKkU

He has many other videos. Just type in todd v flirt. He has 2 youtube channels: “Todd v dating” and “asktoddv”

t_alen · 2021-02-13T05:52:27+00:00

Don’t ever use pick up lines unless you have a Ferrari.

beachjustice · 2021-02-13T12:13:53+00:00

Don't try to impress her or make her like you. She'll sense it. Just play with her.

electric_satan · 2021-02-13T12:16:27+00:00

You make her laugh. From my experiencr most of the times the first one to flirt is the girl, i just run along with it. Dont be afraid, you are the man, you are the strenght and she is the weakness. That's all i can say

kuavi · 2021-02-13T12:40:28+00:00

Look into dicarlo's ladder of physical escalation

El0vution · 2021-02-13T12:21:08+00:00

Flirting is the creation of fun tension. Which is why teasing a girl is flirting. This is also why PUAs recommend negging. If you want to flirt, you must create conflict. This is why girls love bad guys and hate good guys. Bad guys create conflict and good guys are too scared to do so.

Abhi005 · 2021-02-13T06:39:12+00:00

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thegentlebarbarian · 2021-02-13T12:15:26+00:00

Joke around a little with the person, some light teases.

Also stare and smile a decent amount towards them.

Also don't be afraid to just casually talk a little.

raulonastool · 2021-02-13T12:46:00+00:00

Most of what people are saying is spot on. You really just need to get comfortable being yourself and talking to her like a normal human being. However, you need to be careful about holding back your interest and putting out the vibe that you're only there as her friend.

Don't be afraid of your masculinity and your sexual attraction for a girl. Hold eye contact. Be careful with too many compliments on her looks as they may come off as creepy, but if you think she has an amazing body or looks great in her dress, tell her that. If she touches you touch her back. And most importantly, make a move to kiss her. Like it or not, a lot of girls expect the guy to lead this part of the interaction. They want to be swept off their feet so they're not going to teach you how to be the man.

Take your time with this. It's impossible to flip a switch and all of a sudden you're James Bond and know exactly how to seduce a girl. Enjoy the small victories and go at your own pace.

Title	How to flirt?
Author	Abhi005
Upvotes	95
Comments	59
Date	February 13, 2021 5:08 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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