I hate that this is a thing, but I see countless examples of this working and have had my own experiences with this time and time again. I think this falls under pure Inner Game.

If a woman flakes on you or is being coy and not forthcoming - you want to proverbially ‘walk away.’

If you’re having a digital interaction, this would be the equivalent of leaving her blue-ticked on WhatsApp.

Again - I hate that this is a thing - and if it’s a relationship you want, then fair enough, definitely next this girl because I don’t feel like these are good traits. It’s not very becoming. However, if she’s hot and you’re just looking to sleep with her, I have found that this method is very, very effective. This is not manipulation - this is about having self-respect.

You can see it in The Natural Lifestyles video here (from 07:05 - 15:14): https://youtu.be/vMkxUp8P8vQ

Watch the whole video. He demonstrates his interest, shows that he is cultured, well-travelled and intellectual (fantastic DHV’s, and it’s all natural - none of it is contrived). Waives her brattiness and shit tests off like it’s nothing because he has solid inner game and none of what she’s saying makes sense.

And finally, when the energy depletes, (and I’m pretty sure at this point he thinks: you know what, I can do better than this girl) he offers a ‘thanks’ for the conversation and invites her to enjoy the rest of the day.

He ‘walks away’ from the interaction. He doesn’t push harder or reiterate his interest even more (what would this achieve?)

She stays planted to the spot. There’s an energy shift and he asks for her number. Easy.

And in my own personal interaction, that I’ll share, (which just happened) - some context:

I matched with a girl on Tinder in April, and we’ve had sex intermittently over the last few months. She booty calls me from time to time when she’s drunk. However, whenever we get into dialogue and I have tried to lock her down for a day/time, she NEVER, ever makes it a smooth or easy process.

I always, without fail get: ‘this week is hectic’

Or: ‘haha yep busy busy gal’

She never has the common courtesy to say, ‘I’m seeing xyz on this day and Saturday I’m out with pals but I should be free Sunday’ - basic manners and a good vibe.

In other words, there is NEVER any cooperation, just like you would interact with a friend organising a meet. If your friend was being flakey, would you try harder or would you say ‘fuck no - I have some self-respect’ It’s like pulling teeth.

So, my natural inclination after her last ‘this week is hectic’ message was to say: ‘well when works for you?’ or to get into a convincing frame ‘you know you can’t resist, can you make time?’ etc

Big no-no.

Instead, I ignored her. If she doesn’t respect my time and the fact that I may also be busy she gets a hard next. It’s not one rule for her and another rule for me.

It worked and now she’s chasing with a double text: ‘what days can you do?’

Again - this is not behaviour I condone from her and not necessarily attractive insofar as me thinking ‘I definitely want a future with this person’ but if it’s a lay you’re looking for 🤷🏽‍♂️

Tl;dr - exercise self-respect and be willing to walk away