There's this idea that you should try to get with women as much as possible while you're young because it will never be as easy as then and the huge dating pool. This is true of course.

But you don't actually need to put your life on hold for this. Don't let internet culture let you trigger your FOMO. Most fun stuff happens in the evening and on the weeknds. So even if you work full time, you're barely missing out anything. Also, women are repelled by a man who's constantly available and has nothing going on for himself. I've experienced this the hard way. Months and years may go by without progressing your life and you'll realize that people come and go but the life you've built will stay. Make time for people, you're a social animal, but don't run after them. Balance.

Don't waste your time on tinder. This shit is a complete time waste even for good-looking men. Only use it if you got others areas of your life covered. And even then, strongly limit your use. I've wasted so much time on this app and the reward was ridiculously disproportionate. At some point, I got tired of having the same conversation over and over again.

TLTR : You're not missing out on much as long you make some free time which most people have. Women aren't attracted to men who are constantly available. You don't need to run around like a zombie and approach hundreds of women. Join clubs and events which women are naturally part of. Never forget that the main reason why dating coaches will tell you why should invest a lot of time in this is because, they will benefit from it monetarily.