I'm fairly new to Seddit, but not to gaming. One of my best friends (and my best wingman) and I developed these simple rules while gaming at a club that we were regulars at. I figured I'd post them here to maybe help some of you out, they seem to be in line with the same school of thought as Seddit.

These rules have to be ingrained in your brain for them to work. They are about having a confident, cocky funny attitude, as well as establishing frame control. I used to get nervous when talking to girls until I really committed to these rules. Next time you're out, try thinking with these.

1) NEVER give a fuck: Nothing anyone says affects you. You are in your state and it is not changing. Be who you are and don't be afraid to do or say whatever you see fit. (Wingman tactics used here: A girl says some snippy, sassy ass comment to you, you reply with a sharp comeback, and your wingman would laugh to lighten the mood and help you establish a playful frame that you and your wingman control.) A girl rejects you? Don't care, it's unimportant in the end. i.e. Outcome Independent

2) You own the place: No matter if it's a bar, random house party, or your own place, you need to ALWAYS act as if you are at home, in any environment. Many people clam up in new/different places. You will not. Forcing yourself to feel at home will (in time) give you the comfort to do whatever you want, vastly improving your game. You wouldn't be afraid to talk to someone if they were sitting on your couch, you should treat everywhere you go like that. i.e. Confidence to approach, using (what will eventually be) natural body language

3)Every girl wants you: You ARE attractive and fun. That girl that just eyed you? Yea, she wants you. That bartender? Her too. It's important that you actually think you can have any girl you set your mind to. Otherwise you're setting false limitations on yourself and will create a self-fulfilling prophecy of failure. THAT GIRL IS NOT TOO HOT FOR YOU. So many people, including myself, have gotten freaked out by exceptionally hot woman. Don't treat her any differently than a girl that's so ugly, you wouldn't even take a BJ from her. This makes you the prize. She has to work for you, because you have a sea of other options. i.e. Prizing

tl;dr Don't let anything affect you, act as if you would in your own home, and honestly convince yourself that you have a chance with every and any girl.

EDIT:formatting