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| 505 | red flag: "I can't cook"You know what I love saying to my strict south Asian family? 'Men belong in the kitchen' The more men are idle, the more problems they cause. I like a man who goes and does things: cook, go to the gym and lift weights and clean. He has his shit together without asking like me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:40 AM |
| 5 | The bar is in Hades. When will we stop glorifying terrible men?Lol let me die on my hill with a preference for classically handsome men then with smart dress sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 06:43 AM |
| 135 | Reason 20000000000000007 To Align With FDS, Vet RUTHLESSLY, Enforce Boundaries And Say NO To Casual Sex!Men who show low value in the beginning do it because its easier for them AND THEY KNOW IT. Why give someone a freshly baked loaf when they can tolerate crumbs of a stale muffin? If you dont show your standards at first convo, it gives them free reign to walk all over you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 04:28 AM |
| 4 | Successful novelist wife writes a book on her lunch hour. Husband is mad.This makes me sad. I am writing a book and would never let a NVM/LVM hate my accomplishments | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 06:04 AM |
| 109 | I haven't seen a disgusting serial dater like Pete DavidsonHe's so nasty looking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 05:31 AM |
| 295 | Why do south asian girls settle for averageBecause they have low self esteem. South Asian culture beats down women in general and in effect has raised a generation of young South Asian women praising the bare minimum. The south Asian mothers coddle their sons so much that the sons do no chores and are lacking in masculine energy. They end up being absent or emotionally available fathers later on. The woman takes the brunt of the child rearing, chores and responsbilities and ends up being a psuedo mother to the man. Most South Asian men d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 10:40 AM |
| 3 | if a pacarana can lather his butt, pits, and balls then so can your bfNo offense but if a woman dates a man who cant even take care of his hygiene I cant respect her. 🤢🤢🤢 All the men Ive talked to and dated clean themselves regularly and smell good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 10:18 AM |
| 165 | So, how’s it going these days now that you have to make women like you to get their interest? Men:South asian culture shames unmarried women over 25. It's just sad really. Either women settle looks and intelligent wise and end up having kids with someone they are unhappy with or they get shunned at weddings for being single and thriving. I've even been told by my Bengali mother that i can have only one thing in a man: smart or handsome and not both. I'm ten times quicker and wittier than most south asian/muslim men I know. It's hard to convince south asian pickmes to think outside the box... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 05:26 AM |
| 31 | This is the worst I have seen 🤢Not the men saying in the comments "Let's keep this one" 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 06:33 PM |
| 149 | What part of leave me alone do LVM not get?My bio says if you are a man, don't message me. I reply to women learning to look about FDS only. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 09:25 AM |
| 65 | This was on the official Muzmatch tiktok page before they deleted it. The app is a major scam and encourages pickmes 😡You are exactly right. He's trying to make a loophole. I'm not surprised - the guy turned up to an official interview with a hoodie and sweatpants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 03:28 PM |
| 151 | This was on the official Muzmatch tiktok page before they deleted it. The app is a major scam and encourages pickmes 😡I just noticed the hijabi pickme agree with him and start saying "Yeah there is no guide to it" 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 12:07 PM |
| 23 | This was on the official Muzmatch tiktok page before they deleted it. The app is a major scam and encourages pickmes 😡Omg I love Faiza she is so funny!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 11:44 AM |
| 30 | this girl planned a party for her boyfriend, when it was actually her secret proposal party, and a South Asian dating site wants us to believe it’s romantic. thankfully girls are catching on to this low effort bsI really cba with brown pickmes. They marry the most horrendous brown guys who treat them like absolute garbage and try to advertise themselves as 'I love to cook and clean. I'll make biryani for you when you get home and rub your feet every day'. If they want to eat shit, I say let them. I just avoid the pickmes now. But if I don't get married by 35, I'm adopting some South Asian kids and raising them as HV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 08:44 AM |
| 95 | This was on the official Muzmatch tiktok page before they deleted it. The app is a major scam and encourages pickmes 😡On the other hand, all the white men I have met have fetishized my tan skin and have called me exotic. Some have even a thing for seeing Muslim women as a 'forbidden fruit' which grosses me out. Most white men don't understand that I practise my faith, dont drink or smoke and keep a lowkey life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 08:41 AM |
| 67 | This was on the official Muzmatch tiktok page before they deleted it. The app is a major scam and encourages pickmes 😡Im more partial to handsome South Asian men or men with melanin but those HVM are snatched up quickly 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 08:04 AM |
| 271 | This was on the official Muzmatch tiktok page before they deleted it. The app is a major scam and encourages pickmes 😡For context, Muzmatch is advertised as a dating/marriage apps for Muslims. They only have a 2% success rate. The whole app is a shitshow and a scam. I hate the hijabi pickme next to him smiling and nodding. Like wtf???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 07:57 AM |
| 55 | this girl planned a party for her boyfriend, when it was actually her secret proposal party, and a South Asian dating site wants us to believe it’s romantic. thankfully girls are catching on to this low effort bsBrown men have the most audacity. Unfortunately my generation has too many brown pickmes who are sad enough to put up with this shit. You try saying something against them and they gang up on you... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 04:11 AM |
| 26 | Open communication doesn't seem to be a thing anymoreIm not attracted to 90% of men on OLD. They seen to be bottom of the barrel. At one point when I used to use OLD, I thought I was asexual because I was not physically attracted to any of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 08:36 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Check-InI was meant to go on a date last Friday but he ghosted me from last Wednesday onwards. I did not follow up on it. I blocked him and some pickmes around me told me that he could be "busy" and I dont owe him anything. My time is precious to me. Another LVM goes back in the sea. Most men where I live dont have English as their first language so either I meet men irl or that's it... The apps here are a shitshow. I live in UAE atm for work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 12:02 PM |
| 9 | Why double your risk of STIs, when you can triple it? Tik Tok Pick Me logic at its finest :SLoyalty is bare minimum. If your man cant even do that why bother? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Pickme dates. He brought to the gym and for a walk? How romantic… Thoughts? 😂Gym dates are new to me too - I would scoff at the thought of going to a gym with a stranger. Fuck that shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 09:39 AM |
| 48 | We are taught that dating and life in general is easier for conventionally attractive women. I think they have it worse.I dont meet Muslim men irl so my experiences are based off the apps. The amount of times Muslim men have said "you look so sweet" or complimented me purely on my looks is painful. They are fine with me until I give an opinion or stand my ground. Once I even got ambushed on a 2nd date where a Syrian guy just made me meet all of his friends like I was some sort of trophy date. I also get told so many times by pickmes or NVM/LVM to lower my standards lookswise and that "attraction grows". I dont ad… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Feel like a million bucks without breaking the bankDrink ceremonial grade matcha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Feel like a million bucks without breaking the bankDrink a cup of matcha every day in the morning. My skin glows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 06:34 AM |
| 32 | SAFEGUARDING: Time, Standards, and Boundaries.My blood in the water test is no touching me for a month. Includes kissing, hugging, touching hands or so forth. If they try to overstep it, block and delete. Its an easy test because then you see if you have a good mental/emotional connection with the man. Its also very fun to watch them struggle for a bit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 06:27 AM |
| 37 | Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal?These men gaslight women into thinking physical abuse during sex is normal. We are raising a generation of abusers because of pickmes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 03:24 PM |
| 9 | Thoughts on SMBC? (single mother by choice or some form of co-parenting with a male friend)If I dont get married by 35, I will be adopting some kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 05:36 AM |
| 12 | It’s the little thingsOmg yes I love these kinds of posts showcasing HV behaviour! Warms my heart | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 06:58 AM |
| 48 | We're finally seeing the effects of porn use in boys and menTotal lack of masculine energy. It hurts my brain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 04:28 AM |
| 61 | Four years for choking her during sex. This is not okay.A friend of mine (used to be a pickme when she was younger) had a guy strangle her for 10 seconds during intercourse without discussing it beforehand or asking for consent. She was terrified after and dumped him. All he told her was he liked it "rough". She is doing much better but she dodged a huge bullet. That man will end up killing a woman someday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 04:26 AM |
| 102 | Moving in with him = You are his ATM.Dont move in before marriage. Otherwise you're setting yourself up for failure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 04:14 AM |
| 25 | Evidence A: Don’t spare these fools any sympathy or play Bob the Builder and take chances on a cheater! They will always throw it back in your face. These men will use you as a stepping stone whilst broke & promise you the world only to cheat on you with younger women when they hit bigLOYALTY IS THE BARE FUCKING MINIMUM HOWWWWWW | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 02:48 AM |
| 31 | What to do when you see a Pickmeisha receiving terrible advice on other dating subsSpread the message! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/21 03:47 PM |
| 15 | That’s the truth.Glad to hear it queen ❤❤❤❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 09:08 PM |
| 89 | That’s the truth.I have a NVM ex who treated me like shit for 10 months. For ages I thought it was me who did something wrong. I would beat myself up for it. I would have to ask him for the bare minimum of asking how my day was or calling me He never got me any thoughtful gifts or remembered important stuff about me or what I liked. 2 years later, I hear he hasn't changed at all and still treats women horribly. He hasnt proposed to his girlfriend of a year and a half lmao. Now looking back, he just didn't like m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 05:35 PM |
| 27 | WOC, what modified/additional rules do you have to avoid men with race/culture fetishes?Omg I once got called "You're the prettiest Bengali girl I know." I wanted to 🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 07:54 PM |
| 19 | Anyone else notice this? How come men's convenience is put above womens health & comfort? If you're not making him wrap it then you're playing yourself.Not using birth control pills, injections or insertions. I tried the pill once. It made me depressed, have a low libido and broke me out. No thank you 🧍🏽♀️🍿 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 11:58 AM |
| 10 | Is she high maintenance tho?Oh honey he don't like you 😐 Let this dead mackerel go | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 06:31 AM |
| 1 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 23 - Examining Communication Dynamics between Men & WomenSorry what is blackpill sis? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 09:36 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-inMoved to UAE but not sure how to go about dating. Masks are worn everywhere and in general men dont approach women. online dating just seems for casual stuff. Ive also heard rumours that men here go for American/white women rather than South Asian women. Dont want to use these dating apps - does anybody live in the UAE currently? How have you gone on dates? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 06:06 AM |
| 11 | Post your block list statistics!Whatsapp block list: 136 Snapchat block list: 80 Number list: 100 Instagram list: 80 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 09:36 PM |
| 12 | After being told by men more than once that my standards were "too high", last weekend I got given the proposal and ring of my dreams by a man who meets those standards!This is beautiful! Well done Queen ❤❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 03:22 PM |
| 158 | let’s talk about itImma kinkshame all men who are into BDSM. Y'all are sick fuckos 🧍🏽♀️🍿 Also rando men who keep replying to my comment like "oh but what if women are into it" SHUT UP 🤚 The women who endorse BDSM are pickmes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 05:46 PM |
| 267 | “Girl, you got a good one! Hang onto him!”We are the only species in the animal kingdom to have put males on a pedestal. It's actually so sad. Hopefully this can change. Women are the choosers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 04:57 PM |
| 5 | “My husband proposed to me with a box of pizza and a 20€ ring. I am marrying him because I love him, not for his money.”100 dollars for mahr?? Is that some sort of sick joke?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 06:47 AM |
| 25 | Date ideas that don't revolve around food but where he still pays something?I love these 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 07:54 PM |
| 16 | Opening ceremony win for Tonga. What a man... 😛Yes let's use the survival of the fittest to choose men 😊😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 12:39 PM |
| 57 | In sickness and health.HVM there 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 08:19 PM |
| 44 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-I’mI have dropped most of my pickme friends. Cant stand to be around that energy anymore. You're not an anomaly hun. You are looking for a genuine and lasting connection. Physical stuff with someone you are attracted to is a major bonus when it comes to vetting a man and you have to see if the man is worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Check-inHow long have you been doing this tactic sis? I wonder what it will be like as an attractive Muslim woman in a muslim majority state. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 07:49 PM |
| 3 | This is an actual “settlement” proposed by the pro se defendant in a divorce case. Unbelievable.It's like a contract for a slave 🤢🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 02:24 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Check-inOoh thank you! I will PM you now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 08:04 AM |
| 99 | Weekly FDS Check-inHave decided when I start dating again in a few months - I will establish a one month no touching rule. This will include hugs, any kind of kissing and so forth. I will use this time to vet the guys properly and see if an emotional connection is established first. I am not compromising looks wise - this stays the same of what I find physically attractive or intelligence wise - if they can't keep up with me conversation wise I get bored. I have 3 weeks now until my big move from London to UAE! Pl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 04:06 PM |
| 14 | Its ok to feel bitterI dont feel bitter anymore. I feel relieved knowing I dodged a bullet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 08:51 PM |
| 4 | For episode 20 of the podcast, we will be doing an extra-special (and extra long) listener feedback episode! Comment below with your questions/feedback for a chance to be discussed on the podcast!Hi ladies! Could you do a podcast on how difficult it is for women of colour and women who practice a faith when dating and looking for a HVM? Love your stuff queens!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 02:04 PM |
| 80 | Never stop getting the bag Queens! 💰I see them for a moment and they disappear. Its just scrotes 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 05:47 PM |
| 38 | Romance Books for FDS?I am currently writing a romance novel with a HVM as a main character. I hope to publish it in the next year. I would suggest any of the Austen books. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 11:06 PM |
| 22 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In2 months until my move to UAE. Getting everything packed and sorted. Manifested my dream job queens and I will update FDS with dating situation in UAE as an expat Muslim woman. Writing my book while I wait to move. Hope to get most of it done in these months. I'm not talking to any man atm and dont plan to until I move. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 11:04 PM |
| 20 | "right person, wrong timing"He ghosted you first. Block him and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 10:17 PM |
| 43 | The behavior exhibited on dating apps can be profoundly demoralising to women and it affects our lives offline. Yet another reason to get off the apps! Link to full article in comment.My older sister said to me if she was single (she is married to a HVM) she would attend events or clubs and live her own life instead of being on the apps. As a Muslim desi women living in London it is a bitter pill to swallow that the majority of the men on Muslim dating marriage apps are not good enough for me. I haven't used them in 6 months and will not when I move to UAE in August. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 01:25 PM |
| 15 | Let's continue healing and levelling up! 👸I wanted to add, as an attractive woman of colour and practising a religion, narcissists and psychopaths are drawn to me and have manipulated me in the past. My path of healing has been long but has been very beneficial and I advise everyone to heal and improve themselves. You can still date but be wary of men. These LVM and NVM will do anything to tear a successful and happy woman down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 08:31 PM |
| 81 | Men need to stop complaining 😂😂Uno reverse 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 02:12 PM |
| 26 | Ladies, what are your physical preferences?Nice cheekbones and jawline Kind eyes Nice teeth Taller than me (im 5"4) Smart dress sense Works out regularly - more concerned about the big arms and wide back. Athletic body Good skin Head full of hair Smells nice - has a range of colognes Wears approppriate accessories e.g. watches, rings If he has facial hair this must be well groomed and maintained I dont have a racial preference tbh but I have examples: Shah Rukh Khan, Neymar Junior, Michelle Morrone, Henry Cavill, Miles Nazaire | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 06:06 PM |
| 2 | The very famous "sexual compatibility" NVM absolutely MUST check before committing and why it's a bunch of bullBingo. If men in the past could court a woman without having sex, then its LVM chatting shit about how they 'need' sex asap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 10:41 PM |
| 68 | Dear Scrotes: cope and SEETHE. 😎✨Yup. I've only dated men who are conventionally attractive face wise with athletic/fit bodies. Pickmes call me shallow and say I should go for a medium ugly guy hahahahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 12:41 PM |
| 86 | Bengali FDS Queen 🇧🇩❤Don't know why this got downvoted several times but FDS is universal! Let's stay strong queens! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 08:28 PM |
| 77 | This is getting traction in a FOOD GROUP I’m in, and I cannot describe how unenthusiastic I am with cool-gamer-girl pickmecultureI was going to say I've never seen one who looks like that 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 06:56 AM |
| 41 | Facts ✌Tbh a HVM wont expect you to cook and clean FOR him. In fact he'd rather take care of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 07:41 PM |
| 7 | FDS must be an Eye Doctor, because I'm now seeing that most dudes are NOT AttractiveI quit OLD. I only found 5-10% of the men attractive on the Muslim apps. A lot of them dont dress nicely, work out or take care of themselves. They had poorly written bios too. I'd rather be alone than wake up to a man I'm not attracted to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Mood for lifePreach it mamas!!! Yess wishing all the best for you 💖💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 09:50 PM |
| 114 | Mood for lifeThe whole point of the video was to enjoy being alone and levelling up...🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 02:17 PM |
| 8 | BYO LUNCH TO DATESame sis I hear you. I quit OLD four months ago and have never looked back. 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 01:57 PM |
| 57 | Apparently I need to lower my body standards of men now 🥴Same I did not find him attractive 😶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:01 PM |
| 110 | Apparently I need to lower my body standards of men now 🥴Lol when men tell you dad bods are okay - to me this is a lie. I have met men who are normal and nice who work out regularly and take care of their bodily health. They also drink 2l of water and eat quite healthily. Working out regularly requires discipline and motivation. Men who tell you that working out and keeping physically fit is not important should go in the trash. Imma edit: My sister's husband is a HVM and works out regularly. He still maintains a 6 pack and being a respectful man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 12:47 PM |
| 122 | “don’t protect women, teach men how to behave!” 👏🏽 this brown queen is spitting FACTS! I wish more people in Desi culture adopted this mentalityI come from a south asian background and cannot agree more with this lady. I told my mum I'm sick of being sexualised/objectified by south asian men. I'm more than my looks and physival appearance. I've had to deal with disgusting comments from men (apps and irl) that I have shut down any emotional attachment to men until they show me actual commitment. The mindset of coddling men from desi mothers needs to die. Stop treating them like god's gift to earth 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 07:51 PM |
| 37 | YouTube comment about Netflix’s To All The Boys 2 (but really applies to pretty much all movies)I just watched Hunter ask out Ginny it was so cute | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 07:10 PM |
| 88 | NVM narcissist ex resorts to literal mail after 6 months no contactTell that to my narc ex who couldnt give a shit for our 10 month relationship yet magically had the time to make a fake profile of me on a dating app 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 07:29 AM |
| 36 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inGOT MY NEW JOB IN UAE SECURED ANYONE WHO HAS BEEN KEEPING TABS ON ME KNOWS HOW MUCH HARD WORK HAS GONE INTO THIS ITS BEEN 2 YEARS SINCE MY RAPE AND ME HAVING TO FILE A POLICE REPORT AGAINST MY CRAZY NARC EX WE OUT HERE GETTING THE BAG NOW. NO TIME FOR LVM! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 06:31 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InI've been off the apps for about 2 months now and am not going back on them. We are in our third lockdown in the UK and its getting to me. I miss going out with friends or exploring London. I honestly dont think I will meet a Muslim HVM in real life. I'm a very romantic and caring person but the odds are against me. 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 01:31 AM |
| 21 | Happy Valentine's Day to the baddest bitch I know - myself 🥰From when I was 17, I would get myself a gift every Valentine's Day as a special treat to myself. I've never celebrated Valentine's Day with a man but I will still buy myself a gift in the future if I ever do!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Example of a HWMWhich soap opera is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 06:34 PM |
| 1 | It's not a ring, but I just got my aligners in the mail for my new smileHow much were ceramic braces? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 11:18 AM |
| 14 | Just a reminder: if a man is rude or stereotypes women from his own race, bet he will also mistreat you.Story of my life sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 01:32 AM |
| 84 | Online dating be like...😂Your TwIn FlAme?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 05:20 PM |
| 20 | Online dating be like...😂Its a parody. Ive seen his other tiktoks ☺ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 04:55 PM |
| 28 | Online dating be like...😂Oh he's been shared before? He is hilarious!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 04:14 PM |
| 67 | Online dating be like...😂I gotchu sis 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 03:24 PM |
| 140 | I just got flashbacks of a bearded man on a "date", talking about his beard for 45 minutes, while stroking his beard... also why do they make that facial expression?I dislike beards. I normally go for men with sharp jawlines anyway and I feel like beards hide that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 04:32 PM |
| 166 | Her boyfriend complained that she’s only spending $200 for his birthday after she already spent $300 on him for Christmas.Not only is this lady stunning but why is she taking flack from some broke dusty ass??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:12 PM |
| 28 | Mood for 2021It never stops. My sister's husband (who is a HVM) always treats her like the queen she is 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 05:55 PM |
| 18 | If you have to ask; it’s a NoFor you does the dating stage start from when you first started talking or the first date? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 11:23 PM |
| 36 | What are your dealbreakers?Practising Muslim Shorter than me (I'm 5"4) Overweight men Smoking Drinking Any kind of drugs Bad at communucation Inconsiderate of others Direspectful of other women Slobby/too casual dress sense Watching porn Lack of intellectual discussion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 10:31 PM |
| 18 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020The guy who asked me out for a date just this Thursday cancelled on the day and did not reschedule. He's 29. I left it. Obvious disrespect. I have deactivated the Muslim marriage app I was using. Trying to find a Muslim HVM (I'm a Muslim woman and I'm 25) is like finding a needle in a haystack. The Muslim population of the UK is 5% and due to my profession I dont meet any irl. Goal for 2021 is to finish my 80k word book. All men do is waste my time. I'm smarter and more mature than most Muslim m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 11:53 AM |
| 14 | Looks like my search for a HVM is finally over, he even made a new account to message me, I feel so special!Lmao this scrote messaged me the same message on Reddit too!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 11:35 AM |
| 6 | It’s so crazy that once I’m approaching mid 20s so many people have talked about the biological clock that women have — to explain how they are in a rush to get married and settle down. One NVM even brought up my age when I told him my plans of doing a rigorous post graduate health program WTFYep my mum had my younger sister at 42 - dont believe the lies ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 11:02 PM |
| 16 | This makes me so sad 😶Lol i found him off a muslim marriage app as I am muslim and looking for a Muslim husband. Have talked to probs 200 dickheads though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 09:54 AM |
| 143 | This makes me so sad 😶Context: I have made it a point to only date attractive men with actual hobbies. The current man I am dating is 5ft11, has a handsome face and fit body, has no social media, reads a variety of literature, plays sports and knows about current affairs. I shy away from geeky nerdy types because they see me as a trophy gf and treat me the worst - probably because they resent me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 12:08 AM |
| 10 | Romance novels vs. Pornography... hmm 🤔Thank you sis! I hope to finish it end of the year! ❤❤🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 06:15 AM |
| 56 | Romance novels vs. Pornography... hmm 🤔Isnt Edward NVM? He shows manipulative behaviour towards Bella by ordering her around and stuff (first book). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 08:38 PM |
| 62 | Romance novels vs. Pornography... hmm 🤔I'm writing a book with a HVM and HVW in it. The sad reality of my writing is I have never had a Muslim man (I am Muslim myself) act romantic and caring towards me without an overbearing sexual intent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 07:51 PM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 18 2020Just blocked a LVM. Apart from that, I'm keeping busy with work, gym and my book. Going gym and lifting weights has increased my drive immensely and has made me tempted to try something casual but I know it always ends badly so NOPE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 07:26 PM |
| 31 | Quarantine beards are a tragedy .. from Ryan Gosling lookalike to Ryan the Hobo. Why do they all do this??Also you can see their jawline if clean shaven or stubble!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:35 AM |
| 1 | LVM explains how the bar is so low for brown women 🤦♀️No unfortunately he doesnt. He only has sisters :((((( I'm gonna die alone 😇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Things you wish you could tell your 18 year old self?Finish your degree. You are much smarter than most of the men you will meet. Also men are trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 09:19 PM |
| 171 | Scrote want to have sex with a prostitute because his wife refuses to submit to a painful sex act. DIVORCE HIM.I had a friend who did anal sex for the first time due to insistence from her boyfriend. She said it was painful and dumped him. He confessed he loves anal porn and how it hurts the woman. Any time a guy asks for anal sex RUN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 05:29 AM |
| 42 | 🤢🤢 Imagine playing along with literal pedophilia.... “But besides that he’s great!”I THREW UP IN MY MOUTH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:37 PM |
| 13 | I hate small talk on dating sites and I’m at the point that I just talk about anything and everything with no shame.Dating sites during lockdown are a cesspool. I'm never going back on them again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:47 PM |
| 221 | Scrotes be like "You're not attracted to me!?"Just a side note when pickmes ask me why I go for guys with either a six pack or a flat stomach and a handsome face (sharp jawline, nice eyes and head full of hair). I'm a size 6 and I go gym every two days. I have been told I am above average attractiveness so idk - why would I go for a dad bod, short guy and average face? It's not a Sherlock case. Make it make sense. 🧐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 09:42 PM |
| 52 | Blocked a LVM who tried to come crawling back after 4 years 😒knew a guy in college (we had the same class) and we knew each other for 4 years. We went on two dates after I confessed I liked him and then he had to go study medicine in Bulgaria in Jan 2016. He was 21, I was 20. He told me it would be 6 years and he would only come back to London once or twice every year. I tried doing long distance when he first settled but he got busy and made up excuses.When he didnt message me for 3 months, I got fed up and I cut him off and told him all the best. He blo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:20 PM |
| 63 | Got this preserved rose for myself 🌹Last year I was with a NVM who never got me any thoughtful gifts or paid attention to what I liked. I try to treat myself at least once a week! Yesterday I got a preserved rose for my bedroom. By next May 2021 I should have achieved these things: -Finish writing my book - 80k word count and I am at 15k word count -Get a job secured and signed contract in UAE -Read a new book a week -Go gym every two days and leg press 150kg - am at 107kg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:21 PM |
| 8 | Men’s Porn AddictionsWon't ever accept a man who watches women (a lot are underage) get raped and trafficked with unrealistic bodies just to wank off. If I have to be single forever, so be it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:07 AM |
| 3 | If this isn’t how my boyfriend reacts, I don’t want itLol same here. I'm not into clingy/super dependent men. It's a turn off for me. I've seen other videos of him - it just seems kinda cringey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:05 AM |
| 80 | Husband makes birthday gifts for his wifeJun made four different types of flower oil lamps and made different flavours of chapsticks for his wife Rachel. Thoughtful gifts don't have to cost the world ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 01:18 PM |
| 42 | Do you ever feel like no one understands your standards?Nope I'm the exact same. I'm from the south asian community and am Muslim too. My mother and older sister say I'll never find the perfect combo of handsome and smart in a Muslim guy. That I'll die alone. I deleted the apps - I didnt like anyone and a lot of LV/NV men. Now I am just enjoying my life. If I meet a man in real life and I like him, sure I'll go on a date. But I am no longer killing myaelf over finding a husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 10:47 PM |
| 34 | Working hard and doing queen shit pays off 👏This is in Grand Hotel Mazarro Sea Palace in Sicily btw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:23 PM |
| 24 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Home update: My mum announced to me last that she is seeking a divorce from my dad after 27 years. She showed me the letter she gave to him. Turns out my grandmother forced my mum to marry my dad because she found out my mum's pakistani boyfriend wanted to marry her. My mum does not love my dad. Tbh my dad is a good and mild mannered guy but he is a terrible LV husband to her. Please keep my family in your prayers as I'm going through a very tough and confusing time at home. I love both my paren… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:41 PM |
| 235 | Elite vibes 👸This tiktok video got 6.4 million likes and 35 million views. Glad to see women loving this kind of energy!!! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 02:15 PM |
| 4 | Queen shit 👸Yes that was my only issue with the video | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 11:45 PM |
| 98 | Queen shit 👸A lot of my south asian sisters get a lot of shit for not wanting to get married asap. Maybe south asian communities should focus on the lack of respect and proprierty by dusty south asian men to the young women. Instead of telling women that they should look for a husband and drop their standards, they should get the men to raise their status both mentally and physically. Just told my uncle about my plans of going abroad to teach in the UAE (pay is 45k+ a year which is double what I get now) an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 04:05 PM |
| 1 | LVM says I watch too many romcoms 🤦♀️I blocked him after our 3rd date 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 05:11 PM |
| 37 | LVM says I watch too many romcoms 🤦♀️Girls who don't like those cheesy messages like “good morning beautiful" or “I hope you have an amazing day princess”. They prefer to be sarcastic and joke around. They would rather a guy say “what up stupid” or “you are a dummy" instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 05:03 PM |
| 51 | LVM says I watch too many romcoms 🤦♀️Went on 3 dates with this Bengali guy off Minder. Found out he is LVM. Blocked after 3rd date. Said that saying sweet things/cute names to someone he is dating is "too much". Literally didn't talk for 50% of the date. Blamed it on his introversion. I had 3 guys in the restaurant stare at my date like he was an idiot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 05:01 PM |
| 5 | Friendship is MagicLove you sis ❤❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Exposing a cheater - Muslim Fuckboy versionSo I had a look at the white woman's insta to see if she had broken up with the bengali guy who cheated on her Nope. They are still together. He must have convinced her that he didnt mean to still "have the profile" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 12:14 AM |
| 32 | We love to see it 👏Ive already been called one by my guy cousins and I aint married yet 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:20 PM |
| 9 | We love to see it 👏Link - https://mobile.twitter.com/wavyemma/status/1291507693522489344 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 03:42 PM |
| 78 | Have the best of the best 🥀I'm going to be over here making money. Any man who who proves CONSISTENTLY that he values and appreciates me for the queen I am, I will notice. If not, I get myself things I want and need. 👸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 06:42 PM |
| 63 | Ah yes...I'd love to be a forever girlfriend 🤦♀️Not with Muslim guys unfortunately. If you delay it for a year or more they won't wife you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 01:50 AM |
| 45 | Ah yes...I'd love to be a forever girlfriend 🤦♀️So this dude was from my Minder days. Mr Trash took himself out. No marriage until after a year or two. Fuck off. Half of these Muslim guys ain't slick. I don't play your games anymore. 👁👄👁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 01:22 AM |
| 19 | ExactlyYup I exposed a cheater on Muzmatch and sent the photos to his girlfriend. Haven't heard an update from her so I assume she is still with him 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 07:35 PM |
| 4 | Kissing Booth 2: Pickmeisha Elle runs after NVM Noah 🤦♀️Lol same sis - I would love to discuss other Netflix movies in a PM?👁👄👁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 11:58 PM |
| 9 | BeardfishingI highly dislike beards. I prefer clean shaven or stubble and have always gone for men with strong jawline and/or cheekbones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 12:01 AM |
| 18 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 23 2020hi sisters! Haven't been active much but one of the subs (I no longer am I subbed) I was active on - the men were stalking my post history and trying to threaten me. Some people have no life. I obviously BLOCKED and moved on. So sad. NVM and LVM have no bounds. 😶👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 09:21 PM |
| 51 | They love to make it about themselves 🤦♀️Allah gave me a warning sign not to get married to my narc NVM ex. Now I'm focused on making money and living my best life ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:04 PM |
| 11 | Thoughtful gifts are always appreciated ❤Roses - 50 or 70 pound Teddy bear - 30 pound Tray full of sweets - 20 pound A HVM could get one or all of these as a surprise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 08:23 PM |
| 31 | When you send your best friend the FDS Handbook & 1 week later she dumps LVM and texts you thisYes another sister has found us!!! Queen shit 👸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 04:00 PM |
| 5 | Never settle and remember your value 👸Youre welcome sis ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 06:31 PM |
| 15 | Never settle and remember your value 👸Thought the above picture is a thoughtful way of presenting an engagement ring. https://www.instagram.com/p/B_PzTZLlFG2/?igshid=vahvglr85ecp | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 05:15 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Just had to stop talking to a Lebanese guy (only one phonecall) off Muzmatch because: 🚨 He said his ex expected him to "wine and dine" her all the time. 🚨 He said the woman has to "fit in with his family" 🚨He dated his ex for 2 years, no ring and broke up. 🚨Still goes to shisha lounges every week and said that the social life was terrible in London. smokes shisha once a month. He was actually very articulate and had a good job but nope 🏃♀️ Thanks FDS!!! ❤❤❤ Now I can spot red flags so much easi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 04:41 AM |
| 127 | Yep 👏🏼Me to these desi aunties 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 04:25 AM |
| 16 | The Best Revenge Isn't Revenge: It's SILENCE.Yup my NVM narc ex still calls me on a private number today now and again 7 months after dumping me. Looked me up on linkedin 2 months ago. Even when he made a fake profile of me on a dating app and leaked my number I refused to get angry at him and talk to him. Just reported him to the police. 🚨🚨 I've blocked all private numbers. Sorry J. Go fuck yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020I did hun | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 11:58 PM |
| 17 | Minder part 2 🥱Absolutely not!!! I've had numerous men stare at me and are attracted to me. However the ones that I talk to irl (often in the service industry) stutter and stammer and are glaringly polite. The ones who have the AUDACITY to speak to me like this don't know how to speak to me irl. 😒🤮 They think they have some sort of power speaking before a screen!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 03:16 PM |
| 38 | Minder part 2 🥱This is part 2 from the Syrian profile I made. I swiped right on everyone. The top left is from a guy who I have matched with before on both Minder and Muzmatch but I ended up unmatching because he was an inept conversationalist and in general BORING. I don't know why but he remembered my age and location and tried to "call me out". He decided to tell me I was insecure about being Bengali (I'm not) and then when I said I did not wish to speak and thought he was dull, he called me abusive. He was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020What ended up happening with that guy? So I can let her know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 01:03 PM |
| 3 | The trash takes itself out 🤦♀️I didnt respond to any messages apart from the guy who tried to call me abusive lmao. I found the green eyes thing funny because they were still my eyes I just changed the colour from dark brown to light green!! Most Minder users seem to be South Asian I think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 09:06 PM |
| 7 | The trash takes itself out 🤦♀️Lol I died at "DAUGHTER OF MY COUNTRY" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 07:49 PM |
| 4 | The trash takes itself out 🤦♀️تحياتي لبنت بلدي... كيف الأحوال؟ And ايه المفاجئة الحلوة دي 👋👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 07:02 PM |
| 5 | The trash takes itself out 🤦♀️No I didnt actually 😂😂 Im sure it was some nonsense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 06:04 PM |
| 18 | The trash takes itself out 🤦♀️I'M YELLING SIS 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 01:41 PM |
| 68 | The trash takes itself out 🤦♀️So I did a social experiment on Minder (originally was Muslim Tinder). I changed my name to an Arab name (Aaliyah which is a fake name and I got it from Dhoom 3) I put I was from Syria, and put only 1 photo where I photoshopped myself with green eyes. Same age though. I had a simple bio. I swiped right on everyone within a 50 miles radius. 2 days. 374 matches. 176 messages. Some of the messages are what you see above. 👆 6 messages were literally just about my "green eyes". 3 messages were Arab m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 01:40 PM |
| 91 | Remember to treat yourself every day queens 👏Whether it be eating a favourite food, listening to a nice song or getting yourself a bouquet of lovely flowers - remember to treat yourself every day my sisters!!! Just organized my day trip to Paris with my aunty for my 25th birthday. I remember last year my narc NVM ex told me he wanted to organize a trip to Paris but backed out when I said I could only do a day trip. He wanted to "spend a few days" with me, however I said no as I thought that holidays was wife stuff. And he remarked that a d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 09:20 PM |
| 6 | Reason #103848 why you should never reproduce with NVM or LVM. She is literally giving birth, yet he's making it all about himself and accusing her of "embarrassing him" for screaming in pain. Seems like the type of guy who would shake a baby because he can't handle the crying.This was awful. I got the heebie jeebies when I read this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 08:21 PM |
| 29 | Victorian Queen 👸I actually dont like Colin Firth. I like the Darcy from the Keira Knightley version. He seems more authentic in his portrayal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 10:30 PM |
| 65 | This woman owns a house with her boyfriend of 9 years. He won’t propose to her.9 years is the same amount of time you could get 3 degrees... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 10:24 PM |
| 145 | Victorian Queen 👸Giving my Bengali mother anxiety by telling her I would rather be alone than settle I wanna be that single rich aunty who always travels 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Thank you sis ❤❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 04:19 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Hi sisters ❤ I was just wondering if one of my old college friends is a pickme and if her boyfriend is stringing her along? She ia Afghan and super pretty.She has just finished her teaching training to become a science teacher. She is 24. She met her boyfriend (25). He is below average looking but tall (5ft10). He works at a highly prestigious firm as an analyst and has a apartment in the city. They met on Tinder. 🚨They celebrated their one year anniversary on V day. When I asked her about her p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 01:36 PM |
| 39 | LVM can't handle rejection 🤦♀️Had a Bengali LVM slide into my insta dms. First complimented on my looks (yawny yawn) and then asked where I was from? When I told him I didnt want to talk he stalked my insta followers and tried arguing with me?? BLOCKED. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Know exactly what you deserveHey yes sis - Im at work atm and will reply in evening ❤❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 01:27 PM |
| 107 | A dozen red flags? Those are my favourite!Thanks to FDS I can spot a red flag from miles away 👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 01:20 PM |
| 12 | Me, myself, and I 👑Queen shit - we love to see it 👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 12:47 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Hi sis! I had my breakup about 7 months ago. I wrote a lot of unsent letters. Some to him and some I actually wrote addressed to me. I told my past self that I forgive her for staying in a toxic relationship. You can burn the letters to be more dramatic haha. Ive just accepted whats done is done and to be honest I am 100% times more better now alone than with someone who doesnt appreciate me. I used to have a lot of hatred for my narc NVM ex but I just feel sad he can never love properly and he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 08:46 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020I think my mother may be perhaps a narcissist. She is very self-absorbed and paints herself as a matyr constantly. Because her dad died when she was 6, she blames a lot of her insecurity and low self esteem on this. She changes moods quickly, is two-faced (one caring face and one raging face at home). She trapped my dad in mariage by getting pregnant with my older sister. She complains about doing simple things as a mother and curses us. She put my older sister against me academically and kept u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 07:31 PM |
| 7 | Toxic ex sent me a “friendly” email to try to get in touch with me again. Don’t fall for it!Oh gosh NVM exes always want to come crawling back. I know in a few years time I will get a pathetic text like this and I will straight up block him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Know exactly what you deserveHi hun I saw your message but for some reason its not letting me accept the request? Could you try either just messaging me on Reddit instead of the chat box? Edit: Wait I got it working!!! Check your inbox hun ❤❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 04:12 PM |
| 4 | Know exactly what you deserveThank you sis. Keeping you in my prayers ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 02:49 PM |
| 14 | Know exactly what you deserveNo I dont have a publisher or an agent 😅 Okay will do thanks sis ❤❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 11:58 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020I just accept that they are not the HVM for me. Ghosting = immaturity and may have avoidant issues. Ignoring =immaturity and a lack of healthy communication Rejection = part of life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 10:54 PM |
| 3 | Try again pleaseI would but I had to file a police report against him after the breakup so he can keep convincing himself he is a sex god 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 10:44 PM |
| 87 | Know exactly what you deserveIts a rom-com (ironic because Ive never had anyone fall in love with me). The comedy part is because I love writing humour!!!! Its about a south asian woman called Pari who gets set up with her brother in law's best friend called Zac. However, Zac has no interest in dating at the moment but he offers to help her find a husband within a year. Zac is a successful lawyer living in the city and Pari is a junior operations analyst. If he does not find her a suitor, he agrees to marry her.They agree o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 10:38 PM |
| 6 | Scrote 30+ year old targeting young 20 year old girlsIts Muzmatch. An online muslim marriage/dating app. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 10:17 PM |
| 18 | Scrote 30+ year old targeting young 20 year old girlsLol I deleted Muzmatch about a while ago. No HVM on there because of pandemic. Would not recommend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 10:17 PM |
| 7 | Try again pleaseLoooooool my NVM ex thought he was amazing in bed and even criticized my sex skills (despite me being a virgin) He never went down on me and was so lazy in bed. I had to make myself come every time. 🤦♀️🤦♀️ He probably thinks I miss the sex. A dildo does a better job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 10:15 PM |
| 35 | Aherm...what was that about women being too emotional & erratic to be effective leaders? Females are needed to steer us out of the chaos greedy & incompetent men created. Turns out our ability to think of others needs benefits everyone, including men. Female empowerment is much needed!Yesss queen 👸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 10:12 PM |
| 258 | Know exactly what you deserveJust wanted to update my sisters. Yesterday I went to get a haircut and on the way home a woman said that I looked "radiant" and asked me what lipstick I used. With the time spent on myself, I have updated my makeup and wardrobe, eaten new foods and done plenty of excercise. I'm also working on my novel. I'm just enjoying my beautiful life. I don't have to deal with anxiety and stress of my NVM ex. I was also raped twice by him so ocassionally I get the odd cold emotions wash over me. There will… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 10:11 PM |
| 89 | Left my boyfriend of almost 4 years.My NVM did that. I am a size 6 and he still complained about my boobs (they werent big enough) and my butt. Always noticed my weight. Felt like a chicken after a while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 06:35 PM |
| 53 | Left my boyfriend of almost 4 years.YESSS QUEEN! IT'S TIME TO LEVEL UP 💖💖👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 06:27 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020Yes sister that makes perfect sense. 😊👏 Just wish I found more guys in general attractive but oh well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 11:08 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020Hi sisters. I've been mulling over this and was just wondering your thoughts. I know I am fairly attractive looks wise and I only find about 30% of men I see as attractive. They all seem to have the same features in common: clean shaven/stubble, wavy or curly hair, nice eyes, sharp jawline and/or cheekbones. Often they are physically fit (like going to the gym). With men I am not attracted to I put in the friend zone and they stay there. If I do not have a romantic interest then I dont think of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 10:39 PM |
| 106 | Fuck it up sis 👏This is from Zindagi Gulzar Hai ( English: Life is blossomed garden) which is a Pakistani drama. The story revolves around two people, opposite in thoughts and financial status, and has a strong female protagonist, contributing to its popularity amongst women. Love to see FDS in the South Asian community 👏💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 10:02 PM |
| 4 | HVM Brother just dropped $6,000 on a ring, men on bumble on the other hand?Oh I see sis!! Whereabouts are you based now? I'm heading off to either Dubai/Qatar or Abu Dhabi next year as they pay teachers really well and provide free accomodation loll. I'm going to make a shit ton of money and since it is a muslim majority country I will probably have more luck of meeting a Muslim HVM than being in London 🧐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:12 PM |
| 2 | HVM Brother just dropped $6,000 on a ring, men on bumble on the other hand?Oh they most probably are conservative when it comes to hijabi women or women who are average level of attractiveness. For some reason a lot of Muslim guys online see a beautiful woman and assume she has had a lot of boyfriends/low standards in London. It's pathetic. These same dudes would never have the audacity to ask me out irl so that's why I find it shockingly ironic. I mostly got comments on my looks and they completely disregarded my well written bio so I guess they don't know how to read… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 10:53 AM |
| 137 | HVM Brother just dropped $6,000 on a ring, men on bumble on the other hand?Haha yeah this reminds me of my HVM brother in law when he dropped 4k for my sister's ring, 2k for her wedding sari. For every birthday he got her a thoughtful gift: a watch, a handbag, a set of clothes and a lot more. He planned all the dates and drove her everywhere. The other day I made a Minder (Muslim Tinder) account and swiped right on everyone as a joke. I got "Hey sit on my face" and "I'll take you to a Starbucks drive in" and "I don't pay for you. Pay for yourself." and "You're pretty b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 12:11 AM |
| 67 | The audacity 🤨Now my approach with LVM is like "I dare you to try me" whereas a year ago I would have shied away or get flattered being a desperate pickme 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 08:10 PM |
| 33 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020Just had a day out shopping. I bought some nice clothes and had bubble tea. This time last year I was in a hotel room having mediocre coitus with my narc NVM Ex. He used to feed me cheap food and I spent the majority of my summer inside. He made me feel bad if I thought I looked pretty and called me "unphotgenic" and complained about my body. I used to send pretty snaps to him and he wouldn't say anything. I hardly got compliments or appreciation from him. I also wore a cute outfit, my new jewel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 08:08 PM |
| 2 | How do positive love stories make you feel?Thank you sis. Will keep you in my prayers ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 12:11 AM |
| 24 | LVM explains how the bar is so low for brown women 🤦♀️My sister is married to a Bengali, handsome and 6 foot Chemical Engineer HVM. He did try it and it didn't work 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 09:22 PM |
| 57 | LVM explains how the bar is so low for brown women 🤦♀️My man over here needs a brain transplant. This kind of mindset is RIFE with brown (South Asian) guys. They think that because we have high standards, they can manipulate brown girls into liking them slowly but surely?? Then pickme brown girls get desperate and grovel for LVM because they don't want to be alone and do not love themselves. I'm telling you, the amount of brown men who I have encountered refuse to go gym, groom themselves and be a decent human being is off the scale. They also refu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 08:31 PM |
| 52 | How do positive love stories make you feel?I know of two HVM in my life so far: one is my brother in law. He treats my older sister like a queen. One is a Christian guy I only knew for a while but for religious reasons it didnt work out. I know HVM exist. They are just not common. I know love exists. Pure, healthy love exists. I see it when I'm outside whether it be an old man helping his wife or a young teen boy surprising his teen girlfriend. However, for myself, I have had to come to terms that I may not find the right person for me. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 08:24 PM |
| 5 | Cashing checks and breaking necks 💸No problem sis 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 08:42 AM |
| 3 | Cashing checks and breaking necks 💸Aww thank you sis!! ❤💖 I use the Simple Hydraing Cleansing Oil and for moisturizer the Cerave Moisturizing Cream | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 08:41 AM |
| 8 | The media will tell you that no matter how much you improve yourself, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally, you should keep the same low standards, when it comes to a partner. Also notice how it only works one way. It's going to be a no from me.If you could PM me or message me your email address - I can send it to you in the morning. Unfortunately in London its 2am haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 01:13 AM |
| 12 | The media will tell you that no matter how much you improve yourself, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally, you should keep the same low standards, when it comes to a partner. Also notice how it only works one way. It's going to be a no from me.Yes sis it's actually a rom com 😊😊 Ive done about 15k words so far. 80k words is my goal I could send what I've done so far if you'd like to have a read? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Cashing checks and breaking necks 💸No problem sis! Let me know if you have any more questions. Matcha has literally changed my life - can't stop telling people about it ❤❤🍵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 01:09 AM |
| 16 | Saw this meme on ig today and it’s literally so true and so sad for my culture 😭 this explains all my dating problems. Guy on top left dates/marries Stacy’s. Guy on bottom left is LVM. And the ones we end up marrying.... well...Hahahaha I'm South Asian and Bengali to be specific. The guy on top left is what I am attracted to - handsome face, sharp jawline and cheekbones, smart dress sense and well groomed. I have soft features (round face, big bambi eyes and small lips) so I guess subconsciously I go for guys with defined and sharp features? My sister married a Bengali HVM who is super handsome and 6ft just last year. They met at university and did the same masters course. South Asian/Arab guys who look like top left a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 01:05 AM |
| 5 | Cashing checks and breaking necks 💸I actually wash my hair twice with the sulfate free shampoo. It lathers much better the second time for some reason. I also have stopped using a blow dryer completely and just air dry my hair. I would recommend ceremonial grade matcha as it has slightly fresh taste and is for drinking the matcha tea. This is the one I order from amazon. https://www.amazon.co.uk/Matcha-Powder-PureChimp-Ceremonial-Pesticide-Free/dp/B00HNDSOCI?ref_=fsclp_pl_dp_1 You use half a teaspoon each time and the water shoul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 12:49 AM |
| 46 | The media will tell you that no matter how much you improve yourself, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally, you should keep the same low standards, when it comes to a partner. Also notice how it only works one way. It's going to be a no from me.I'm writing a novel where both the female and male characters are good-looking. I'm not having my protagonist with a dusty ass loser. I've also made sure my male character is a South Asian HVM. I plan on getting it done by next year and then hopefully getting it made into a film. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 11:43 PM |
| 78 | Cashing checks and breaking necks 💸To all those sisters who are working on their skincare routine, here's a few things that help me maintain clear skin. 🥞Drink 2 litres of water every day. 🥞 Exercise at least 4 times a week. I do a combo of cardio and weights. 🥞 Stop snacking and try to cut out some sugar in your diet. 🥞I drink a glass of matcha (powdered green tea) every day. This has lots of antioxidants and helps regulate sebum. Also does not have the crash and slump coffee has. 🥞 Wash my face once a day at night. I use a frag… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 06:36 PM |
| 31 | Who else thinks that men’s haircut and beard trims are so cheap in order incentivise them to groom?This is something I noticed when I showed guys I liked kpop. All of the guys in kpop are well groomed, nice hair and clear skin. They also work out regularly and some have abs. They literally work so hard. They sometimes wear eyeliner or have clean eyebrows. Every LVM would say to me that "oh that's gay" or "they look gay". Y'all toads are jealous of men who take care of themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 01:50 PM |
| 60 | It does NOT fucking matter WHY he's problematic, that's NOT. YOUR. PROBLEM.Wow thank you sis for sharing your story of your dad. He sounds amazing 👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 01:19 PM |
| 55 | They want us to be legbeards so bad, but we're not: FDS Humble Brag / Femcel Theory Debunked!Yess exactly. When I joined I felt the bad bitch energy from this sub and loved it!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 01:05 PM |
| 2 | I don't even know where to start...🤦♀️Yes for a Muslim woman it is terrible haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 09:39 AM |
| 18 | Oh boy, play the cancer card but tell me more about how you’re “always the smartest guy in the room” and how “you’ll give us a chance” 🙄The words 'general relativity' don't need capital letters, you uncultured idiot. Also mentalist is informal for an eccentric or mad person in informal British. Dude just called himself crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 08:07 PM |
| 23 | Oh boy, play the cancer card but tell me more about how you’re “always the smartest guy in the room” and how “you’ll give us a chance” 🙄You gotta give props to the man - he rated himself out of 10 for us 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 08:05 PM |
| 14 | The first and last date I ever had with this dude was sometime last year...I actually forgot about him until he messaged me today.Its from my past years of online dating. When I was a pickme I used to just hand out my number ffs. My snapchat also has about 50 or 60 blocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 05:59 PM |
| 22 | I don't even know where to start...🤦♀️I've got a year to do my research but I have no advancement in terms of promotions until May. I will get my NQT in December so I have to stay at the school I am currently at. The motivation for going abroad is that I would get twice my salary and I feel like I need a change of scenery. Plus if I'm abroad my mother will leave me alone in regards to "settling down." I also plan on saving up for a house deposit. The chances of me meeting a HVM is very slim so I'm focusing on making money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 04:50 PM |
| 12 | Special occasions ~ then & nowThis is what I like to see!!! Queens levelling up and a HVM loving her for being amazing and appreciating her! 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 03:40 PM |
| 82 | The first and last date I ever had with this dude was sometime last year...I actually forgot about him until he messaged me today."Friendly hello" = Want an excuse to invade your mind again. Unfortunately for most guys I talk to I do immediate block if I'm not interested or they are pricks haha. I think I have 80 blocked contacts on whatsapp. Update: I just checked. 92 contacts blocked holy shit 😂😂 I take no prisoners bruhh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 03:39 PM |
| 39 | I don't even know where to start...🤦♀️I don't even want to get started on Tinder. Makes me puke 🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 11:28 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020How very interesting! I do notice a pattern with XXTJ guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020My ENTJ sister is married to a lovely ENFP HVM :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 11:16 AM |
| 160 | I don't even know where to start...🤦♀️Sisters, I don't even know how to explain how I am feeling lmao. I found this gem in my screenshots. Bengali only, should be petite, cook and clean, live with in laws and not CRAZY about make-up 😂😂 He's bald and below average looking in terms of physical appearance. This is a norm in London. I can't wait to go to Dubai/ Qatar and be around men who take care of their physical appearance and are well-established. I have 2 degrees, a stable job and take care of myself - working out regularly and my… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 10:50 AM |
| 10 | A sad realityThank you sis. Yes I am doing much better now. I had to file a police report in Feb for action fraud and harassment. I was in denial for quite some time. I did my research about emotional abuse and narcissism. I knew there was something wrong when the break up so I googled the difference between a normal break up and a discard. I found FDS in May and it has changed my life. ❤❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 09:29 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020Has anybody found any correlation of MBTI types with the men they have dated or HVM? I have dated a lot of extroverts and my favourite MBTI types are ENTJs/INTJs. They seeem to be the most direct and motivated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 11:48 PM |
| 100 | A sad realityThis reminds me of the time I had to pick up my sister's bouquet of roses for her registry. Me and NVM ex went into a lift with a woman and her boyfriend. She squealed at the sight of the bouquet and said "Look they are younger than us and he gets her flowers!". The man said to my NVM ex "You're a good lad. Keep it up." We went into the hotel room and laughed about it. He said it was so funny we pranked the couple. Now I think back, it was just sad as he never got me flowers in the 10 months I d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 08:27 PM |
| 36 | A sad realityI'm sorry to hear about your friend. Thank you for showing her care and love in such a difficult time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 07:59 PM |
| 16 | "But I love him!!"Yess exactly. I grew up in a toxic household where my parents marriage was arranged and they did not love each other - they used to argue constantly. This led me to dating my NVM narc ex and showering him with love. I tried not to speak up and complain about anything and the minute I started having a problem about something he distanced himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 07:52 PM |
| 20 | I think he’s cheatingOption 1 - dump his ass. He will try and gaslight you and think you're the crazy one. It's not worth the pain or trying to educate him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 07:01 PM |
| 83 | A sad realityThat picture demonstrates that thoughtful dates don't have to be expensive. That man has probably set it up beforehand for his lady. Fairy lights cost a couple of pounds. Those lanterns you could get for 10 pound and under. The cushions you can get for 15 pounds and under. Food could be home cooked. The view by the beach would be researched beforehand. A good bouquet can cost about 30 pounds. After being with a NVM, I realised how much effort a man can give you if he truly cares. I've spoken abo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 06:57 PM |
| 4 | He's 'fine' with FDS but misses the point completely. Link in commentsOh thank you sis ❤❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 10:38 PM |
| 205 | LVM gets dumped after telling his fiancé a wedding would be stupid$350 dress is nothing... My sister's wedding sari was £2000 and my now brother in law paid for it beforehand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 08:32 PM |
| 11 | You don't need anyone to be a queen 👑👸Can anybody tell me what show this is from? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 07:57 PM |
| 6 | He's 'fine' with FDS but misses the point completely. Link in commentsI think he meant negative value woman 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Apparently I'm "anti-feminist" now 🤧😒Aw thank you hun. I appreciate the compliment! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 04:10 PM |
| 100 | He's 'fine' with FDS but misses the point completely. Link in commentsHad a DM today from a scrote calling me a fat NVW. 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:56 PM |
| 17 | No sis🤦♀️🤦♀️ we DON'T "simp"Thanks sis. He even told me 3 weeks after the breakup he didnt want to be friends and how he got a new girlfriend who "treats him better" than I ever did. I am treating myself every day and flourishing like the amazing woman I know I am. Its a shame I didnt dump him on my birthday 😔😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 10:08 AM |
| 89 | No sis🤦♀️🤦♀️ we DON'T "simp"I literally did all the "simping" behaviour for my narc ex: I complimented him a lot, I bought him cute little gifts and even once I surprised him with flowers at his office and of course treated with hours of sex weekly. Organised his birthday dinner in a fancy place, saved up for months to buy him an expensive watch and because I do creative writing, I wrote him a cute little message in his card. And what did I get? He hardly planned dates, hardly complimented me. He only started developing fe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 08:46 AM |
| 7 | I hope he sees this and chooses herQueen 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 12:05 AM |
| 28 | Apparently I'm "anti-feminist" now 🤧😒Oh no sis - this is through a Reddit PM. i ditched the dating apps weeks agooo ❤😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 11:04 PM |
| 22 | She can have him.HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA my NVM Narc ex's new girl can hear me laughing from the motherfucking woods. I don't pray for him. I pray for the girls he dates. I cannot help them and pray that they leave asap. 🏃♀️💨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 10:13 PM |
| 8 | Apparently I'm "anti-feminist" now 🤧😒Say it louder for the back sis 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 09:40 PM |
| 69 | I'm not Bob the Builder. The only "project" I'm working on will be myself.Can't believe I dated a NVM thinking he had "potential". He did an apprenticeship in college and then just started working in IT. When I dated him, he was still stuck at the same boring job with no promotions and I tried helping him look for ones with better pay scales. He struggled and he is still at the same law firm now. Long story short, he was jealous of my intelligence and my wide scope of people wanting to recruit me because of having a well-known degree from an established university. Wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 09:37 PM |
| 115 | Apparently I'm "anti-feminist" now 🤧😒Ooops sorry to Mr White Man for having a preference. Racism and misogyny is an awful combo dude. I'm proud of my culture and religion. Fuck these LVM for insulting my values and my wishes. Blocked after this interaction. 👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 09:04 PM |
| 103 | When looking for a partner, men is encouraged to aim high and questioned when he settles, while women is "advised" to settle and criticized when she aims high. What the fuck is this bullshit.I always get told by women that the guys I am attracted to are always above average looking -clean shaven/stubble, sharp jawline and cheekbones, nice hair and dress sense and they all look very suave. Some of them said I was being too shallow and I should just concentrate on personality. And the small amount of guys I have dated who are either average or below average treat me like shit and end up resenting me. Looks do matter when it comes to selecting a suitor. I do look at personality but if … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:30 PM |
| 9 | Exposing a cheater - Muslim Fuckboy versionThe dating profile is no longer active since about 1 week ago. I am being careful dw. All my social media is private. I had to include my ethnicity and religion for context. The name is a nickname. I've had a lot of desi FDS sisters message me so always happy to help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Exposing a cheater - Muslim Fuckboy versionTbh I got kind of triggered because my narc ex used to go on dating apps when I was dating him. I nearly threw up after sending the messages to her. I just hope she leaves him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Exposing a cheater - Muslim Fuckboy versionHi sis. I did message her seperately on insta and sent her the screenshots of him matching with me and his profile. She thanked me and that was it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 07:46 PM |
| 8 | Exposing a cheater - Muslim Fuckboy versionThat's okay sis. My main motive now is making money. Men just disappoint me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 07:26 PM |
| 10 | Exposing a cheater - Muslim Fuckboy versionI've had non Muslim guys interested in me but I think Islam scares them so they never pursue me. Islam has a lot of lifestyle commitments. Having a husband practice the same religion and values presents an united front. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 06:08 PM |
| 18 | Exposing a cheater - Muslim Fuckboy versionThere's also those muslim speed dating events and matchmaking websites I think. Muzmatch is built for the average everyday man. The amount of FOBs and guys with little education staggers me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 04:55 PM |
| 12 | Exposing a cheater - Muslim Fuckboy versionOh dw sis. Will defo update you if she says anything. With my narc ex the trash took itself out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 04:42 PM |
| 32 | Exposing a cheater - Muslim Fuckboy versionTbh I don't want a sequel. My narc ex used Muzmatch when we were dating and I had no clue. I wish someone reached out to me. It makes me physically sick 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 04:29 PM |
| 28 | Exposing a cheater - Muslim Fuckboy versionMy mother mentioned that mosques have marriage/matchmaking schemes which is something to look into. They have a pool of potential men which you could quickly meet in a starbucks and weed them out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 04:04 PM |
| 73 | Exposing a cheater - Muslim Fuckboy versionI've taken a step back and am focusing on earning a shit ton of money for myself. I'll resume the search when I'm 29/30. I don't see any HVM walking into my life anytime soon. And I plan on setting up an only girls' school in my father's village in Bangladesh. So I need the money for that too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:55 PM |
| 29 | Exposing a cheater - Muslim Fuckboy versionShe still hasn't clicked on my insta message. Guess she wants to be a pickme for her Bengali fuckboy. LE UPDATE: She's seen the screenshots and his profile. She said "Ok thanks for letting me know x" .It's up to her what she does now 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:50 PM |
| 22 | Exposing a cheater - Muslim Fuckboy versionI am a Muslim woman and so I choose to date only Muslim men. Having a common religion and values is important. If I had children, I would raise them Muslim too. I had a Christian man interested in me but he would not convert so I learnt my lesson 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:39 PM |
| 42 | Exposing a cheater - Muslim Fuckboy versionWhen I start dating again, I will give a guy max of 3 months to show me commitment and future plans otherwise I'm dashing for the door. I have had so many Desi guys chat shit to me when all they want is physical stuff. I get the lewdest comments and looks irl and in public. It's so dull. You would be accepted but you have to analyse the man and his family. Any kind of hint of racism and you have to bounce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:36 PM |
| 150 | Exposing a cheater - Muslim Fuckboy versionFor context, I am Bengali and live in London. I matched with a Bengali 26 Male who lives in Leeds. I dont normally look at Bengali guys due to height but he was 6 foot and handsome so I was like alright. He visited and liked my profile 2 weeks ago. We matched and then that was it. Then instagram recommended him to me yesterday so I followed him being like "meh". I had no inclination of chatting to him as I live in London. He followed back and then I went through his insta out of curiousity. Look… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Narcissist NVM and healing after a breakup 👩⚕️Thanks sis. Just edited the post now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 09:56 PM |
| 9 | How do you walk away strong?I will copy and paste this into a post. Thank you for appreciating what I have written sis 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 07:27 PM |
| 6 | I have no words anymore 🚨It's particularly difficult in the dating scene when you live in a country that your religion is a minority not a majority. So Muslim based dating apps are one way Muslim women in my country (England) find potential partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 07:26 PM |
| 5 | I have no words anymore 🚨I would recommend leaving Muzmatch sis. It ain't it for finding a HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:57 PM |
| 29 | Anyone else see the irony of this description...🤣This makes me throw up every time. As a victim myself, this shows the extent of emotionally stunted and depraved men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 02:59 PM |
| 21 | I have no words anymore 🚨No I'm actually from London. I've picked up some American lingo from memes and videos 😂😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 02:45 PM |
| 163 | How do you walk away strong?Okay this is for all the pickmes or sisters who are in an abusive relationship or with a narcisstic man. An abusive man or a narcissist is a NVM. He is a NVM - no value man. Someone pin this haha. The truth is the NVM doesn't give me a shit about you. He never did. He does not love you. He wants to control you. Its not romantic. It's not love or undying devotion. He plays mind games and wants you to slowly turn insane to the point where you will beg that you will do ANYTHING to make him stay. Th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 12:48 PM |
| 46 | How do you walk away strong?He sounds like a textbook narcissist sis. PM me and I can help! OP PM'd me but those who are struggling with a similar situation please scroll up to see my advice!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 12:14 PM |
| 76 | I have no words anymore 🚨I let my Bengali mother have a look at the guys on Muzmatch from my profile. She decided to strike up a conversation with one and forgot about it. And then she showed me this and laughed. "It's okay HoneyBouquet I'd rather you be single for a while than deal with this shit." and deleted my account. My mother is basically like Mrs Bennett from Pride and Prejudice. She has 4 daughters and cannot wait to have them married and settled down for her to be able to rest in the ground peacefully. My elde… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 11:48 AM |
| 1 | HVM behaviour!!This is beautiful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 12:10 AM |
| 22 | Thought you sisters would appreciate thisBeing single is when I'm the most happy to be honest. I don't hate love or romance. In fact, I'm one of the most romantic people I know and Im writing a rom com novel. I've just stopped giving a fuck about finding an amazing guy. I get told all the time I come across as "intimidating" to South Asian men. I dress how I want and Im earning how I want. I buy what I want and constantly treat myself. All dating has done has made me realize how BORING and LISTLESS most men are. They can't keep up an i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 12:09 AM |
| 12 | my(23f) boyfriend(21m) use f words when we argue, but he doesn't curse at me...I agree with this. I swear when Im angry like "oh for fucks sake" or "oh shit". I remember I did something wrong and just basically something that was an accident and my NVM ex got into trouble with his family for and he texted me "I'm going to fucking kill you." It made me scared of him and made me feel threatened. Then he went onto rape me a month later. After the breakup he tried to fuck me over too by impersonating me and harassing me. RUN. IF YOUR INTUITION IS SCREAMING AT YOU, LISTEN SIS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 11:55 PM |
| 2 | 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻He took three of my selfies and photoshopped them. So the eyes he changed the shape from normal to crinkled and my mouth which was unsmiling to showing a full smile with teeth in it (so he put someone else's teeth on my face). Oh sis I wish I could show you how messed up he made me look. Like a beautiful clown. 😔 It wasn't the breakup that made me lose all respect for him, it was him making the fake profile and putting my job in potential jeopardy by putting my mobile number on the bio. Even aft… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 10:35 PM |
| 37 | Only LV males degrade other men who...Only LV males degrade other men who... ✅ take note of what a women likes and dislikes ✅ buys thoughtful gifts for his lady ✅ take responsibility for all of his actions ✅ takes care of his parents when they need it (financially, family events) ✅ takes care of his physical appearance ✅ knows how to dress well ✅ communicates in a direct manner ✅ is emotionally stable and mature ✅ has taken the time to understand his goals and motivations for now and the future ✅ do not jump from women to women in r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 06:27 PM |
| 12 | How pickmes actLol it took my NVM ex one month after he dumped me to unblock me on snapchat... and then I got to block him on snap and insta woohoo 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 10:34 PM |
| 4 | 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻Thank you sis. It can only get better from here on now I'm rid of him 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 10:50 PM |
| 13 | 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻Oh girl I had nightmares about the photoshopped photos for days. My face looks so fucked up. He spent hours on my mouth and eyes 😶 I knew it was him because he was the only guy who had my number. All the other guys ive dated i gave my snapchat to so I was in denial for some time. And to think he was talking about marrying me when we were dating and my pickmeisha ass lapped it up 💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 05:50 PM |
| 71 | 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻I remember after my last breakup I stopped tripping. 10 months and he broke up on the phone. NVM ex told me to leave him alone so I did. I didn't go back. He had the audacity to tell me he found a new girl who "treats him better" than I ever did. Never got my stuff back from him. He didnt wish me well for the future and told me to fuck off. I called him out for lying compulsively and said I thought he was different lol. Even 2 months later, when he made a fake profile of me on a dating app and p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020You're allowed to ask for your stuff back - it is your stuff after all. Ask if you can pick it up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 06:08 PM |
| 112 | What attitude? 🤣Had so many LVM complain about my attitude or "You were rude" or "Didn't think you would get mad like that". I'm, in general, a very lighthearted and relaxed person so I dont know why but whenever I have a problem with something they get all fucking flustered like 'oh no i pushed the wrong button on pretty girl how do i make it stop??' My NVM ex always called me "feisty" and got mad when I finally spoke up for myself. Yeah I have a cold heart but I look out for myself now. The most important per… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 06:05 PM |
| 2 | For those of us who were in abusive relationships:Please please leave him when you have enough money. PM me if you need someone to talk to sis 👋😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 08:41 PM |
| 2 | For those of us who were in abusive relationships:Please PM me sis if you need someone to talk to ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 08:37 PM |
| 23 | NVM writes an essay on what he wants in his partner. It is not a satire. Comedy Gold.Probably shitty cardio and staring at girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 07:13 PM |
| 64 | NVM writes an essay on what he wants in his partner. It is not a satire. Comedy Gold.A horrifying example of the NVM that exist in Desi culture. Also he says "I can get any woman I want"... What women are lining up to date you?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 05:49 PM |
| 26 | NVM writes an essay on what he wants in his partner. It is not a satire. Comedy Gold.Hope they are happy with getting action from a pillow because any dignified and smart Desi girl will run from a guy like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 05:47 PM |
| 24 | NVM writes an essay on what he wants in his partner. It is not a satire. Comedy Gold.Took the words outta my mouth sis. Dude will be balding in 5-10 years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 05:46 PM |
| 144 | For those of us who were in abusive relationships:My NVM ex always used to joke to me "What would you do if I broke up with you?" And I always replied, "The door's that way. I'm not stopping you." He always thought I was joking. I used to randomly cry when I was with him. Just tears involuntarily used to come into my eyes. Probably my body screaming at me something was wrong. He was occassionally racist, obsessed with how people looked and had a major complex about his bed performance - FYI he was pornsick and shit in bed. I was so caught up wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 11:50 PM |
| 5 | Facts 💅Not Saudi Arabia. Any of the UAE countries so Dubai or Qatar etc. I'll make a decision which country when I apply in January 2021. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 02:39 PM |
| 177 | Facts 💅Just started my savings goal of 50k that I should be able to reach in two years time for a house deposit to go towards a 200k house. In South Asian and Muslim culture, a lot girls have a societal pressure to marry young and settle. And I have had a lot of young educated Muslim guys come up to me and say I CAN'T DEMAND HE OWN A PROPERTY BEFORE MARRIAGE!! The audacity!! If a Muslim man can't provide for me before marriage, then I'm out of there faster you can say 'hot potato'. I'm moving abroad to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 10:38 PM |
| 33 | I never want to hear “you deserve better” from a man again.I remember one of the last things my NVM ex said to me "You will find someone better than me. I know you will." I said okay and deleted his number. Didn't go crawling back to his ass like he thought I would. 2 months after he said the above, I had to file a police report aganst him. So yes, Mr Loser, I will find someone better or maybe I don't want to find anyone and enjoy being single. Trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 12:19 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Get the police involved. This is harassment!!! File a police report against him. That's your photos he is posting on the internet WITHOUT YOUR CONSENT. I filed a police report against my NVM ex for impersonation, action fraud and harassing me on a private number. NVM ex made a fake profile of me on a dating app and put photoshopped photos of my face and mobile number on there. I work in the public sector so it was terrifying. Get mad sis and report him to the police. Do not contact him though. H… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 05:14 PM |
| 32 | Made a post highlighting some issues I had come across and got flamed 🤷♀️For context, I made a post just repeating some things that educated Muslim men had said to me in my search for a Muslim husband. Look at the comments by some of the men. It's positively laughable. A lot of them went and stalked my posting history and saw that I posted here and complained that I should be banned. Not flattered, just creeped out. Sorry bro if I believe in the empowerment and advancement of women. I had about 5 guys DM me and tell me that I hate men and this is why I'm single 😂😂 So… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 06:00 PM |
| 15 | Just a reminder for any Queens who’ve had exes or fuckboys lurk back...I'd rather cut my hand off than go back to my fuckboy NVM ex. Trash stays in the trash 👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 07:52 PM |
| 29 | The scrodacityYess sis same here. My life has been immensely better since quitting the dating apps 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 02:05 PM |
| 80 | Ladies, a guy asking you about kinks before he barely knows you and being turned on by physical violence towards you is a red flag burning in a five-alarm fire. RUN, don't walk, AWAY!If a guy even mentions sex before I meet him, I bounce outta there. 🏃♀️ But yes, any kind of fetish for physical abuses disgusts me now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 02:00 PM |
| 45 | "Is she intimidating or are you intimidated?" Old me used to bite my tongue, when talking about my achievements on a date. Now, I'm proud to talk about what I've accomplished. If he's intimidated, he's not for me.Most guys call me intimidated. Boy bye 👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 08:48 PM |
| 25 | Made a moodboardAfter I stopped dating my NVM ex and LVMs, I forgot how to take care of myself. Recently, I've been the happiest I've ever been and I am gladly single. I spent hours on a moodboard to put up in my room today. I'm eating well and taking lots of rest. Thank you ladies of this sub 💖💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Blocked him on whatsapp and then he texted me 😒Girlll don't use the apps - too many LVM and NVM on there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Blocked him on whatsapp and then he texted me 😒I live in London and his name is Fawad lol Its a Samsung S10 theme called "One Love in Summer Flowe" by the company Design City. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 10:08 AM |
| 5 | Blocked him on whatsapp and then he texted me 😒Oh girl. Ive been using Muzmatch on and off for a year. I deleted that permanently. All it gave me was one shitty relationship and several first dates. Would rather meet guys irl than waste my time or to be perfectly honest, be single forever. Im picky when it comes to looks physically wise so I dont want to settle for an average or ugly guy. Muzmatch has been nothing but hassle to me. I always get LVM or NVM trying to talk to me. Minder the men dont even bother messaging? The apps just don't cu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 10:05 AM |
| 41 | Blocked him on whatsapp and then he texted me 😒My friend came across his profile on Minder.( Muslim Tinder) He had changed his bio to "Lockdown got me feeling some type of way." 🤮🤮 I had matched with him from Muzmatch (which was a more serious Muslim dating app). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:37 PM |
| 19 | Blocked him on whatsapp and then he texted me 😒I don't know why they think they can convince me that they can do a 180 overnight magically 😂😂 It's so laughable it hurts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:34 PM |
| 47 | Blocked him on whatsapp and then he texted me 😒I was talking to this guy wayyy back in March maybe? We matched on a dating apl. He was 26 and originally told me he had been single for 5 years and was looking for a fwb. I had a look at his photos. He was just some average looking tall guy. Nothing special. I politely declined in the evening and the next morning he tells me he actually DOES want to date. I tell him I'm good thanks and delete his number. He popped up during Ramadan (holy month) and said this. Obviously blocked his number after … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:31 PM |
| 4 | LVM buys gf of 4 years trash as a “gift”I can relate to this. This was with me with my ex NVM bf last year. Thank god for self reflection and this sub!!!! For my 24th birthday, even though I had sent him numerous links of jewellery I wanted when be asked, he gave me what looked like a second hand smart watch. No box, no instructions. Just a shitty rose gold smart watch, no brand and some weird foreign app that tells you your heart rate. When I asked where my birthday card was, he replied that he doesn't do cards. Funny thing was, he m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020I've got my bachelors in English Lit and International Relations Joint Honours and my PGCE (Postgrad) in Secondary English. I am currently an English teacher at a secondary state school. I am continuing to write my book and hope to get it published one day. Thank you hun for the encouragement. ❤❤❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 01:04 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020I'm a Muslim former pickmeisha. I dated a LVM guy who turned out to be NVM after he dumped me on the phone. I have decided to go abroad to teach English in the UAE for a few years and will be applying for a position next year after my NQT. The lockdown gave me a lot to think about and what I want in a man and marriage. I have now stopped searching. I can only make dua that Allah can show me a man that is RIGHT for me. I do not know in the future if I will try the Muslim apps again or go for an a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 10:43 PM |
| 19 | Her BF slaps her face too hard while having sex and watching porn. He invalidates her pain by making it a philosophical argument on logicI threw up in my mouth. Disgusting loser of a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 07:52 PM |
| 24 | Does anybody else smell faux humility here? These are the types of LVM that trip me up. Looks great, sounds OK (hello, “I Live with friends...” no mention of an actual JOB)You know I go FBI on these LVM who look hot but have no substance sis 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 03:54 PM |
| 52 | Does anybody else smell faux humility here? These are the types of LVM that trip me up. Looks great, sounds OK (hello, “I Live with friends...” no mention of an actual JOB)Looked up his post history and he posts a lot on the seduction sub. Found some awful gold nuggets such as: "Women aren't everything and the sooner you accept it, the sooner women will come to you" - Haha like women are like pretty sheep waiting for him LMAOOO "For me when it comes to females, I like to be friendly but not too open with them. Women don't deserve to have all of me just because they're cute."- Where's your line of women dude? You're posting on a foreveralonedating sub 😂😂 No mention… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 03:51 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Just got ghosted by a potential man. He couldnt even text me to let me know he was not interested. He is 30 so I guess he is a secret LVM. We had been speaking on a serious note for 3 weeks straight - texting everyday and calling for hours. After our first date, he ignored my messages asking if we were on the same page and to let me know he was not interested Men are whack. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 09:23 PM |
| 21 | He (26m) told me (19f) to “behave”I had an ex who told me to behave when he was annoyed with me. I stayed with him until he dumped me. And then I had to file a police report against him. Run. 🏃♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 10:24 PM |
| 55 | This bus is too loud! Wish I had understood this soonerMy ex hated any interactions I had with either male colleagues or guy friends. He also had no guy friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 11:47 PM |
| 10 | Look out for #1, ladiesMy precious sleep is more important than any man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 12:42 PM |
| 4 | You guys, I'm laughing... this man got a WHOLE ASS LIST OF REQUIREMENTS. This isn't a dating profile, this is a job description.DM me his insta. As a south asian girl I gotta see this 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:58 PM |
| 5 | You guys, I'm laughing... this man got a WHOLE ASS LIST OF REQUIREMENTS. This isn't a dating profile, this is a job description.Im South Asian myself and I've seen guys who look dime a dozen like him. The guy is clearly in the balding stage and although he is tall, he doesn't look like he works out a lot and has boring features. Also his beard is very patchy and hides his double chin. My NVM Pakistani ex was an absolute shithead and pyscho but he did look like a model and had a head full of hair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:55 PM |
| 6 | You guys, I'm laughing... this man got a WHOLE ASS LIST OF REQUIREMENTS. This isn't a dating profile, this is a job description.I'm sick of South Asian losers like this guy 😒 Dude's literally onto the balding stage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:29 PM |
| 10 | You guys, I'm laughing... this man got a WHOLE ASS LIST OF REQUIREMENTS. This isn't a dating profile, this is a job description.He's below average looking imo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:28 PM |
| 5 | I cannot believe this 🤮 ladies, men doing ANYTHING to you in your sleep without consent is assault.Omfg I saw this 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 05:33 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020To all those former Pickme's like myself, don't beat yourself up about your LVM/NVM exes. A few weeks before my NVM narc ex dumped me on the phone, he told me his sister came back home after being abused (physically and mentally) by her new husband. She was also heavily pregnant. She moved in with him and his mother right away. My narc ex was and still is a major fuckboy I found out he cheated on me several times while we were dating because he liked attention. He dumped me 3 days later stating … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 05:24 PM |
| 33 | Ain't that the truth.Wish I knew this when my NVM ex said all his exes were fucking psycho after about 6 months and I laughed it off. Had to file a police report because of him after he broke up with ME on the phone. Spoiler: impersonated me on dating apps, photoshopped my face and kept calling me on a private number. He was not a clown, he was the whole damn circus. 🤡🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 10:43 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020I've been talking to a new guy from Muzmatch (a Muslim online dating/marriage app and before anyone comes for my throat, I am Muslim). So far, so good. He's the complete opposite to my LVM ex (vaped, didn't have a car, never planned dates, selfish in bed, vain on social media and did my birthday plans last minute) which is great! Always texts back in time and replies to every message, asks lots of questions and calls me frequently. He's also a stunner (but I normally go for traditionally good lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 01:14 AM |
| 32 | Who is gonna tell her ? Five years spent . Being. Fuck. Buddy. Not. Even. A. Forever. Girlfriend . Ladies remember if nobody knows about you ,you aint his woman .I was with a LVM for ten months and he never posted about me or followed me on Instagram. She needs to run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 11:36 PM |
| 3 | I came across this “birthday card” my ex had written for me while I was deep cleaning my bedroom this morning. It was written with my lip liner. I still stayed with him for a year after this. You literally can’t make this shit up.My LVM ex didn't even get me a card for my birthday... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 10:29 PM |
| 15 | In your experience, have most guys just been interested in your looks?I've said to guys irl and online. I don't care if I come across as arrogant - it's the truth. Why should we praise men for being arrogant and knowing what they want and poke fun of women for being arrogant? I used to feel bad if a man was intimidated by my combination of looks and smarts. I'm of South Asian descent, can easily pass for an 8 or more and have two degrees and a stable job. The Muslim guys I meet now are not up to my standard so I leave them swiftly. If a man is intimidated by me, h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 05:38 PM |
| 36 | In your experience, have most guys just been interested in your looks?Yup, pretty much. I semi quit online dating because the first thing a lot of guys would talk about is how pretty I am. Then I could see the corks going around in their head about how they plan to fuck me lololol. Men don't surprise me anymore. The majority of them feel intimidated by me because they think I am smart and pretty. They, for the most part, don't want someone to challenge or better them. After being in an abusive relationship with a narcissist, who belittled me and tore me down becau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 11:42 AM |
| 71 | It is okay to be uncomfortable with pornLVM use porn as an excuse to degrade their partners or become desensitized to real pleasure when having sex. It's disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020Bored and very creepy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 12:43 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020I'm new to this sub, and it's opened up my eyes a lot to shit. My LVM ex stalked me on Linkedin last week. He's blocked on pretty much everything. Even when he made a fake profile of me with photos of me that he photoshopped (creepo alert), and called me on a private number till I had to file a police report - he doesn't get the message?? How can he dump me on the phone and then months later want to get my attention? The last I heard (five months ago) is that he got a new a girlfriend 3 weeks af… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 12:19 AM |
| 7 | Men who are threatened by your beauty.Ugh I dated the first type. It was the worst. He was constantly jealous of any guy I spoke to/male friends. To put my self esteem down he kept calling me unphotogenic ( I was better looking than him) and said I wasn't funny or smart like him. EW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 10:38 PM |
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