Know exactly what you deserve

HoneyBouquet · 2020-07-14T22:11:23+00:00

Just wanted to update my sisters. Yesterday I went to get a haircut and on the way home a woman said that I looked "radiant" and asked me what lipstick I used.

With the time spent on myself, I have updated my makeup and wardrobe, eaten new foods and done plenty of excercise. I'm also working on my novel. I'm just enjoying my beautiful life. I don't have to deal with anxiety and stress of my NVM ex. I was also raped twice by him so ocassionally I get the odd cold emotions wash over me.

There will always be that feeling of "it would be nice to have a guy with me" but after having dated a narc NVM and had so many LVM make me feel like shit, I dont think I am missing out on much. I know I am attracted to handsome, smart Muslim (yes I am Muslim) men but I dont come across them on my day to day. 😅

If there are any sisters with an abusive boyfriend/husband, please feel free to reach out to me. I will be an ear to listen to and can offer help ❤❤❤

peachpy55 · 2020-07-14T22:31:02+00:00

This woman only preaches the truth. I look much younger than my chronological age. When I see how I was fresh out of leaving my ex, then put it next to a picture of me now, I aged backwards.

Soul suckers on every level. My mother did the same thing and looks 20 years younger when she left her NVM ex husband.

2020-07-15T05:47:35+00:00

Stress adds 10 years.

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-07-15T03:31:28+00:00

Her advice to slowing ageing needs to be right up there with "wear your sunscreen".

_boring_daven_ · 2020-07-15T02:19:28+00:00

L/N/ZVM’s not only tear you down, but they also make you age. 🧐

ProfessorPetrus · 2020-07-15T03:05:58+00:00

I dunno exercise, genetics and not being poor in america help a lot too.

throwaway23004345 · 2020-07-15T14:11:50+00:00

I am 27 and look 18.. staying away from men is the key :P

raddishBunBun · 2020-07-15T03:24:00+00:00

I'm swooning over here! What an absolute Queen!

throwaway93731 · 2020-07-15T01:39:27+00:00

Needed this today!

cats_tats_smiles · 2020-07-15T02:16:54+00:00

I’m 41, not a single gray hair on my naturally luscious brown locks. I have not hit the wall and will not any time soon!

tibbsu · 2020-07-15T09:53:00+00:00

Why was she checking her ID for a drink cause she thought she was under 30? Is under 30 illegal somewhere??? What on earth was in that drink LOL

serendipitousbluejay · 2020-07-15T07:15:38+00:00

perfect timing here too 👀 i see you, universe !!! thanks for posting 💕

Zambigulator · 2020-07-15T16:13:30+00:00

Yes. I have hope at 37.

eeaarroonn · 2020-07-15T10:51:08+00:00

😭 finding what you deserve is harder than it seens

Bopshebopshebop · 2020-07-15T12:21:49+00:00

Okay fine but what MOISTURIZER does she use.

Aroundthewayjay · 2020-07-16T21:16:31+00:00

I am 42 and can attest that this is sound advice.

Title	Know exactly what you deserve
Author	HoneyBouquet
Upvotes	2681
Comments	36
Date	July 14, 2020 10:03 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hrb2da/know_exactly_what_you_deserve/
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