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Ah yes, the good old RP "Alpha male" trope. The kind which has to be the leader of the pack, based on how wolves behave in captivity. They are loud (insecure), aggressive (insecure), and take only for themselves (again, insecure that it may be taken from them). The true alpha is the mafia boss, which is none of those things. He doesn't need to get loud. He doesn't need to be aggressive. And he is very giving to his loyal henchmen. Just like nature's true Alpha wolf, who is respected by his pack.…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/25 06:28 PM
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I personally dont care if she says it to me. If anything i am slightly amused by it. I was just using it as support for the “dont talk about fight club”. The newbie manlets already have a hard enough time understanding what STFU is all about.
/r/askMRP15/06/23 10:27 PM
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Yup. Years later after wife found “fight club” on my phone i still get “did you read that in a book or on reddit”
/r/askMRP15/06/23 04:03 AM
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Lets look at wine. If it is bottled and taken care of appropriately, it become fine wine as it ages. If you do not put in the work to take care if it, wine turns to vinegar. Which is what happens to most guys in their 40s, they became vinegar. So if we say a 30 year guy who is objectively a 6, keeps working on his appearance and grinds out his purpose can actually be an 8 at 45. More so to women in his own age bracket. But dont be deluded and think he will be some perfect 10 chad. Hence fine win…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/23 07:20 PM
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The kicker is you didn’t explicitly include HER in that relationship There is a reason she is called your First Officer.
/r/askMRP29/01/19 09:52 PM
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I never understood this one. Who gives a fuck if she knows? LTR knows I’m into red pill and she loves the concept My wife knows about it too. She loves the result. But I still get shit for it and she knows alot of the tactics "like withdrawing attention", fogging, agree and amplify, etc. All her knowing does is ruin the mystique for her and make it harder on you.
/r/askMRP29/01/19 09:51 PM
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I had to do what I feel is best for me. How is staying in a young marriage with a lying whore the best for you? Do you suck that bad at life that the best you can get is a lying whore?
/r/askMRP29/01/19 09:43 PM
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In other words, learn to play the game by their rules and make great use of the RP loophole.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:30 AM
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seems like a classic case of oneities It seems like a troll to me. But if you are not, then it definitely IS the classic case of a beta orbiting oneitis. only hits me up if I haven't hit her up in a while. In other words "Hey did you leave orbit?"
/r/askTRP07/02/17 10:40 PM
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superficial difference between you two... what he says sometimes has value.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 10:38 PM
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no fap Its because he went full no fap and hit a flatline. It sucks and fucks with your brain.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 08:56 PM
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While I agree with that, if a wife is refusing to have sex with her husband, it isn't always because she is a bad wife.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 08:04 PM
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Xerxes in Esther was pretty RP. Boaz in Ruth was pretty RP. Daniel, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abed Nego were pretty RP. Kings Saul and Ahab was pretty BP and were cursed for it. Samson's BP moment of giving in to Delilah had him cursed. We also get prominent RP truth behavior of biblical women. Potifer's wife has extreme hypergamy (joseph ruled over his household and was also young and handsome). Jezebel ruled over her BP husband Ahab. Bethsheba branch swung to King David.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 07:59 PM
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Not quite what you asked, but it is certainly possible to be Christian and Red Pill. Being both myself, I would say it is entirely possible. The first step to harmonizing Christianity and TRP is to stop using Christian intermediaries and go strait to the source material. Having well developed critical reading and analytical skills helps in this tremendously. So much this. The bible is filled with RP truths. The man is the leader of the house. Adam's sin wasn't that he ate the fruit, but that he …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 07:53 PM
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The difference between teasing and whining? and teasing is usually more fun, regardless of the moistness status on said dick.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/17 07:43 PM
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When the words you say are on point but also have that witty, teasing, underlying message that makes her think, "what's he mean by that..." women love that shit. I am very aware of such language as I typically have my wife all riled up with it. Spent an hour dodging a conversation in bed with my wife with heavily laced sexual innuendo AM that frustrated her to no end. So much so that one time she said something like "cmon, get serious. I am trying to help you get over this hump." A cocked eyebro…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/17 07:40 PM
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Hasn't worked yet. Yeah? no shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/17 07:26 PM
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If you're talking about me, I like women a lot when they are submissive and eager to please, and that includes my wife. Nope, I was referring to the OP.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/17 07:25 PM
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Besides, keeping up the 'A game' for life sounds utterly exhausting. I don't know, I spent an hour fogging with AM regarding a subject my wife wanted to talk about and I didn't. We were in bed. I had her laughing in her frustration and kept tickling her from time to time. That was fun. But I am exhausted today, but that was due to lack of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 07:14 PM
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Me: Why, then you will stop being nice to me. Here let me help with the dishes. Your wife is nice to you when you are sick? I get the "Oh great, there you go thinking you are dying or something?" speech.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/17 07:01 PM
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"sweetheart, if you ask me like a big girl you might find out I like to spend time with you as much as I like to read" I don't get the feeling he likes his wife very much.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/17 06:56 PM
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If I get one of those pathetic hugs I step back and go, "uh what the hell was that?" My wife gets a good kiss and ass grab every time I get home. Unless of course she gave me reason to not be around her. She did once give me a peck before running out the door to an appointment. She was a bit late as i made her kiss me for around 5 minutes (was watching the clock). Of course that was one part reinforcing of my boundaries, and another part AM. She kept trying to pull away and I pull her back.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/17 06:53 PM
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Last night, I came home from work and supper was 15 minutes away, so I sat down to catch up with my kids. Wife gave me her usual chaste hug, which I hardly noticed. I’ve been withdrawing time and attention lately because her behavior has been so consistently sub par. How long have you been withdrawing and yet you still let her hug you? You apparently do not approve of the way she is "greeting" you either. But then again, I have different standards for when I get home. I answer indifferently. It’…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/17 06:36 PM
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Wow. you are generous. My wife has an allowance of.. nothing. She calls/texts me if she wants to spend money and I am alerted to any purchases made over $50.
/r/askMRP07/02/17 06:11 PM
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yeah, that will work.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/17 04:05 PM
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Most people confuse the Kiwi accent with the Australian one. They do sound similar, but Kiwis don't sound as stupid as Aussies. Kinda like the difference between hillbilly redneck hick southern and Texan.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/17 02:56 PM
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The HAKA.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/17 02:49 PM
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Girls categorize men in 2 buckets. Ones they want to fuck (AF) and ones they want to marry (BB). If you don't fit into one of those two buckets, they don't see you as a man. So at least they see you as a man. Just not the type of man you want to be. Continue to work on yourself and develop those alpha traits. Their minds will change. Also of note, what you also had going on was preselection. One determined you were BB material, so they all determined you were BB material.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:58 AM
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Depends on how fat you were when you began. If obese then its going to take longer then if yoo were just skinny fat.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:11 AM
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Women touching women gets the attention of every man. Men touching women, not so much. Women feed of of masculine attention.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 01:35 AM
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Well you never asked me!!! I spent roughly 30-40 hours playing video games pissing away my 30s just to avoid a bitching nagging ice queen of a wife. Then again, i actually want to be a much better man and that means being honest with myself about, well myself.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 01:34 AM
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Flaired users do not have to adhere to the guidelines. Then how do they lose their flair?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/17 11:05 PM
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Yea!!! It worked for you. How did it work for you? Its working for me too. All it took for me was to get to dread level 2 for my wife to respond. None the less, i am still doing the work to improve myself. Because I am happier with myself and I am reaping the additional benefits in the way my wife and girls react to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/17 11:02 PM
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Jeff Cavalier of Athlean-X has some great tips. https://youtu.be/TQqgf8kB6R8?list=PLFv7Tyrry1TXcV_j8QN54pkWUkOmEapTD
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 10:41 PM
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Fogging is a term used for acknowledging you fucked up without apologizing. The words, "I am sorry" should not cross your lips. However, you still own your mistakes. And what do you think when people say that you should treat women like children and tease them etc This is what Rollo Tomassi called "Amused Mastery." It is a tactic for shit tests and things. It is also a means of flirtation with a girl. Because parents also would yell at a child when they are misbehaving. When my daughters were 4,…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 10:28 PM
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ensuring such is more difficult than in the 20th century Yup. That is why we MRPs say that marriage is Red Pill on hard. We have to be on point 110% of the time and even then, there is no guarantee she wont spread her legs 5 minutes after that first chad slaps her ass.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 10:17 PM
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Depends what are you yelling at them. TRP advises you do not argue with women. It gives them fuel to use for gaslighting. Women are emotional and run off their emotions. It maybe be a weird question but do women get more respect for you seeing that you are standing up for yourself Yes they do, but not by yelling at them. When is it okay to break that frame and just yell at your girlfriend for something that pissed you off? Never, we have different tools to utilize that is far more effective. Get…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 09:53 PM
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Marriage isn't out of the question. It is just not recommended. There are plenty of RP men in marriages and getting married. However, marriage is out of the question for MGTOW.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 09:48 PM
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My wife. and she knows it too.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 09:46 PM
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I am only a Kiwi when the All Blacks are playing. Other than that, i am an american through and through.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/17 09:44 PM
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No accent. Been here way to long. Lost it before i turned 12.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/17 09:40 PM
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Not quite (Kiwi American). But my reply was a subtle nod to the show Archer.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/17 09:34 PM
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Sterling!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/17 09:06 PM
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She touches my biceps and chest randomly Do not listen to her words, listen to her actions. I told her I dont do it for her I do it for me if she has a problem with it just break up with me. This is a comfort/compliance test. Your SMV is much higher now and it is freaking her out.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 09:00 PM
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Got mine checked last night. Did she get a tip?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/17 08:37 PM
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I would rather piss her off than leave her view without her feeling something, that’s how important it is. Yup. Pissed my wife off when I got home from the gym this morning. Then before I left for work, I kept kissing her passionately. She asked me to call in sick.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 08:16 PM
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You lift weights for your own sake, not for validation from others. why can't some guys get this. Lifting doesn't just get you friends and women, you lift so you feel good about something you're accomplishing. It's just a first step. Yup. you get that "Pump" feeling that Arnold Schwarzenegger talks about. Not to mention the endorphins you get from exercising always helps a depressed soul feel better about themselves. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=84cVizR6sPQ
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:47 PM
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Okay, that is pretty basic theory, what is the relevance to the OP? It explains the "Why" some women can share their HV males while there is no "marriage" bump for LV males.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:32 PM
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Well I am not a DT as I am not that narcissistic. Am I manipulative, hell yeah. I just cant help myself. Do I lack any form of empathy? sort of. I know I would feel bad if I accidentally drown those puppies. But if they did something that necessitated they be drowned, not a problem. I have been asked more than once, "What's it feel like to not have a heart?"
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 07:04 PM
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If the guy is taken by any sort of decent female, the pre-selection alone should bump him to a reasonable SMV I would think. Pre-Selection works when the man has a woman of equal or greater SMV than the woman doing the pre-selection. It does not work when the woman is of lower SMV than the pre-selector. So if you see a married man that is objectively a 5, check out his wife. Chances are that she will be a 3 or 4. This will not effect the hypergamic pre-selection of a woman who is 7-9. In fact, i…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 06:08 PM
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Wow. Really? Just be yourself and do what you like to do. Invite the girl to come along. This helps keeps everything in your frame.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 03:13 PM
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Go look at the before of Guys who were skinny fat and see the after. Their faces fill out a bit and they get a stronger jaw line.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 11:36 PM
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Sex God Method
/r/askMRP05/02/17 04:57 PM
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Mine always questions what i am doing as some sort of strategy. She loves the ends, hates the means.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/17 05:20 AM
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Side bar--> TheRationalMale.com TheFamilyAlpha.com Get to reading Get to improving yourself Raise your kids with masculine values. It will be hard as society and everyone doesnt want you becoming a man, but subconsciously your wife does and YOU need to be a man. Pro tip - DO NOT TELL YOUR WIFE ABOUT RP. Trust me. My wife knows and occasionally shit tests me with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/17 03:54 AM
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Eeewww. A Cheaper to Keep Her scenario. Stay married legally is your best option as it allows you to be with your kids. Take the time for them to grow up to get yourself out of debt (as its easier to do with 2 paychecks, no alimony, and no child support). Syphon some funds into a private account for yourself so that you can easily make the break when the time is ready and you wont have child support payments. Because she fucked another dude so she broke that marriage contract. You are under no o…
/r/askMRP04/02/17 02:19 PM
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Best case scenario. Leave and she pays you alimony and child support. She has already fucked other guys. When she gets home, have papers ready for her to sign.
/r/askMRP04/02/17 01:49 AM
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I want to rub her feet Thats it. Just rub her feet. Its not a covert contract. A covert contract is when you do some work in the hopes of getting some sort sexual favor and or acknowledgement that the other party is unaware of. Who cares if your wife has one.
/r/askMRP03/02/17 06:40 PM
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Find masculine hobbies
/r/askTRP02/02/17 11:00 PM
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WHY ARE YOU TALKING TO HER AT ALL? probably has something to do with OP's kids.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 10:45 PM
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it can be read from the mobile.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 10:42 PM
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What's this a shit test? A comfort test? A good way to tell between the two is who is being primarily referenced in the "test." If the test is all "You YOU YOU" that is typically a shit test. If the test is all " I I I" that is typically a comfort test. then there are some combinations of both and I am no where near the mastery of those situations. "My love I don't like that either, please don't tell me that," And what do you think this was? " I told you I feel uncomfortable" Big time code for c…
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:34 PM
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I have a bad "male hamster"... help me out Feed it to a snake.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:26 PM
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Basically if you don't act like my girlfriend and have sex with me I'm gonna leave you. Establish boundaries, do not issue ultimatums. Ultimatums cause women to test them when they probably wouldn't have. You do not DEER your boundaries, when she crosses them. Deal with them then. If they are red lines that the woman should have known was a red line (i.e. fucking another guy), drop her post haste. Basically if you don't act like my girlfriend and have sex with me I'm gonna leave you. AM response…
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:25 PM
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I know this is beta as hell, but how do you work on NGAF when you do GAF? Serious question. If you GAF, then you have oneitis. To fight off oneitis you go game other women. You don't have to do anything (Catch and Release) or you can put those plates on layaway.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 05:14 PM
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Fun of getting drunk outweighed by negatives these days There is also the fun of NOT getting drunk. Being the one in control while everyone else are babbling incoherently. Also, knowing that you will not end up watching a 10/10 at 2am transform into a 2/10 at 10am is also very freeing. We all have been there right?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 04:59 PM
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Maybe I'm too unkind. hell no. there ain't no love like telling people the god's honest truth. RP is about seeing reality for what it is - unkind and cruel.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 01:42 AM
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I am done buying crap for my wife of 16+ years. They collects dust, are expensive, and never loosened her vice like legs. This year, I took the week off. I am giving her one of those days to spend with me.
/r/askMRP02/02/17 01:39 AM
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I am a natural smart ass and wasn't being literal. But now that I reread it in light of your reply. What are you going to do when your internal motivation isn't enough? And that is more a question for me, than for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 01:35 AM
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Use the self loathing as fuel and if you ever hit a point where you think the road is too long or you just want to say fuck it I have hit that point recently. And what I did was get to the gym to punish me some more, harder this time by adding another plate, doing another set. It took me 16 years to plump up (mid 280s) and it is going to take me 16 months of hard labor to get back down again. However, if I start to get dragged down because that light is just too far down the tunnel, I will most …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 01:32 AM
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A man's biggest motivator should be the person starting back at them in the mirror. What happens when the mirror breaks?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 01:21 AM
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The issue is, they don’t know how to lift. More importantly, they don’t have the confidence to go somewhere or the discipline/finances to do it alone at home. In November, when I swallowed the pill. I began hitting the gym again for the first time in 16 years. I was more than plump. I get in the gym and see these young, fit, guys lifting. I was ashamed at what I had become. I sat down and picked up a weight. It was too heavy. So i picked up a lighter weight. It was still too damn heavy. I move d…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 01:17 AM
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Begin with talking emotionally and holding her hips down. Dont ask her to change positions. Tell her or move her yourself. Once she starts to respond to the small displays of dominance, begin to increase it. That is how you will convert her. Dont do what i did before SGM. I pulled my wife's hair and she shut down sex for awhile. Now, by slowly upping the levels, i can pull her hair and she gets wetter.
/r/askMRP01/02/17 09:12 PM
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"blowjobs are for boyfriends" How cute. She has a boundary in her frame.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 05:25 PM
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Here is a little report of my morning. My SAHM wife didn't want to get out of bed when I woke up early this morning. however, she got up anyways because I just STFU set the alarm for 7:30 and started getting dressed for work. She began nagging me about this and that. While ignoring her bitchy comments, I made me an omelette and a packed my lunch. Then I told my wife I am done with what I needed to do and am going in to work a little early. she tells me "no, you did everything else yourself to sh…
/r/askMRP01/02/17 04:22 PM
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You missed /u/UEMcGill's point. If she wants to hide all the lunches(room charges) with chad and not let you have access. So what. Have her change her direct deposit to deposit x amount into your account to pay her part of the bills. It will automatically be transferred and you can take care of the bills from there. You created the budget and she needs to handle her portion. If she is a complete dunce financially, the direct deposit will ensure you get her portion of the budget when she gets pai…
/r/askMRP01/02/17 03:51 PM
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Thoughts? Yeah. Why is she having to pay your bills? You owned the budget, but she owns the bills? That aint smart. She is the oldest teenager in the house. Would you trust your money to a teenager?
/r/askMRP01/02/17 03:25 PM
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And yet it is proven day in and day out by countless people. Eat less than you consume and your body will react by making you smaller to match your diet.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 02:22 PM
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Alpha doesnt mean be good. It means you do what you want and you get others to follow your lead. You can be a jerk and still be beta as well. Most newbs implementing "alpha" jerkiness only do it because they are still beta. Most alphas who get called asshole (or jerk) by women is because they set boundaries and or wont jump when the woman says jump. Not because they are actually being jerks.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 07:11 AM
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Yup. First time I implemented DEVI with my wife was when she decided it was okay for obligatory duty sex. I got bored so i started talking for the fun of it. It was weird for about 1 minute. Then the boring sex actually got good for both of us. Since then, my ultra vanilla sexed girl has had her DEVI levels slowly turned up to the point that she is getting bruised (and she is proud of it).
/r/askMRP01/02/17 06:53 AM
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If you read the book then you will know he never said to go fully rough with a girl your first time as she isnt "fully converted". He also said that men have learned how to have bad sex from porn. So it is doubtful you will get any SGM style sex from porn. There certainly wouldnt be anything verbal or emotional attached to it. So i have to ask again "did you read the book"?
/r/askTRP31/01/17 10:30 PM
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No one said be gentle. But you are not going to choke her that first time unless she asks you to. Throw her on the bed, rip her panties off of her, press her down, move her around roughly. Shit like that.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 10:28 PM
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Porn examples? I thought you read SGM? Go back to page one and read it again. You missed quite a few things.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:40 PM
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Do what you want. TRP mentality is pretty much summed up that they see women as vampires and succubi. They will suck you dry of all your resources and sexual energy. Then are off to find another tasty morsel. Leaving you an empty husk of the man that was. So they build their framework around never letting that happen to them (again?). MRP, well we love our kids and some of us even love our SOs.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/17 08:35 PM
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It does have a net worth calculator
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/17 06:03 PM
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Well i am dead ass broke, living paycheck to paycheck while making 6 figures. That is what i deserved for having a 10+ year beta bitch hissy fit over money. But i am owning it now and just started using YNAB to help figure out where all my money is going and where i should tighten up.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/17 04:31 PM
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There is a lesson? I thought the OP was blowing himself.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/17 04:13 PM
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What has she done to cause you to punish her? Told you she was going to buy them anyways? Has she bought them yet?
/r/askMRP31/01/17 03:21 AM
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Seems pretty beta to wank it in front of her because she denied you sex. Or to do it in such a way that you ensure she knows. Now to answer your other question, i cant get up and leave after a refusal. I would do that during my dead bedroom era all the time. So doing that is a no go for me. Instead, i have to say "okay, thats fine" and roll over and go to sleep. Then the next day i spend more time doing whatever i want outside the house. Going to the gym again afterwork, hitting up barnes and no…
/r/askMRP31/01/17 03:17 AM
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My wife has a super tiny N count. She likes to be on top. But then again, we have been married over 16 years. So inexperience is not an issue with her.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 01:22 AM
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Why is this even a thing? Are you just bored with your wife's vag? Are you looking for a blessing to go fuck other women or divorce your wife? Red Pill is amoral. We don't give a crap if you decide to spin plates or not. Come, read, learn, become a better man and share those experiences to help others like me on our paths to self improvement. But don't come looking for acceptance of your hamstered reasons to cheat on or divorce your wife. Do it, or don't do it.
/r/askMRP30/01/17 07:23 PM
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I will admit that the "why am i doing this" has crossed my mind. And the only "her" reason i have is that i would like to keep her around. I swallowed the pill because i wanted a better marriage. But it became so much more, i just want a better life (with her preferably). I want to be more successful in my career, financially, socially, and relationally with my daughters. All of those will make me a much more happier person. I will get to enjoy that with her, or without her.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/17 02:01 AM
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What you stated looks a lot like a nofap flatline.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 04:46 AM
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Are you doing NoFap? You may have hit a flatline if you are.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 03:57 AM
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Think nothing of it. What you got was obligatory sex. Its better if you are not being starfished, but it isnt going to be great sex. .I have gotten this a time or two from my wife recently. The reason is that they are not always going to want to have sex because they are already sexually satisfied. But they want to make sure you get yours. None the less, it does suck to hear if you didn't realize she is only screwing you to placate you.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 01:42 AM
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Keep lifting and watch your macros. Do it right and you will see the gains and girls will begin to notice. Don't worry about your subcutaneous fat. It will melt away and your fat chest will go with it.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 01:23 AM
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Manboobs? Is it fat or Gynecomastia? If it is fat then dont worry. Just keep lifting and watch your macros. If its Gyno, that is different and it may require drugs or surgery.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 11:32 PM
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Same. Quit smoking and soda just like that.
/r/askMRP28/01/17 09:30 PM
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10 burpees for every lazy thought
/r/askMRP28/01/17 06:01 PM
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Actually. I am beginning to believe he is full of shit and just trolled mrp.
/r/askMRP28/01/17 04:53 PM
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Just by existing to age 34, you have earned the right to do some of your own stuff. No. Just by having a little flap of skin and a full scrotum between his legs, has earned him the right to do his own stuff.
/r/askMRP28/01/17 03:27 PM
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He needs his own account. Even in my full beta bitch mode, i had to get my own account and syphon some funds for myself that she had zero access to or control of. Now i control the finances completely, but then i was never "allowed" to buy anything for myself. That was my compromise and gave me a small sense of freedom. I also never hid it from her and she never missed the money.
/r/askMRP28/01/17 02:49 PM
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Wtf? Is it her checking or a joint? You are responsible for the finances. Why do you let her do that?
/r/askMRP28/01/17 02:21 PM
1

Interesting. It says i am 34% body fat and i have to kill off 60-75 lbs of fat. That suggests my ideal weight is 200-210 lbs.
/r/askMRP27/01/17 01:14 PM
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I resumed being captain and recently used some pretty hard dread on my wife recently which had the effect of bringing the sex back, but greatly increasing her anxiety. What level did you rambo ramp it up to? Her need for attention vs. mine for time to focus on myself is an ongoing source of friction. Sounds like this is going to be more of a comfort test and less of a shit test. then started cozying up to me to start cuddling. Normally I'm all for cuddling (and will escalate to other things), bu…
/r/askMRP26/01/17 10:42 PM
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Or perhaps he is doing it to show RP newbs how it is done. Giving us a breakdown so that we can better internalize it and put it to practice in our own marriages.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/17 10:33 PM
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Interesting post. Lots of good material to learn from. Hopefully I can digest it and fully internalize it. My response right now to my wife coming outside ordering me around is to tell her to go pound sand. Which most definitely will lead to additional problems (read more bitchiness from her)
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/17 08:22 PM
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This is the same reason she recoils at the 10 second kiss. She feels herself losing control. My wife still initially hesitates. However, now I feel her melt in my arms at around the 5 second mark and i can just keep kissing her if I want to. Of course others might suggest Sex God Method instead of patience so you need to decide which will work for you. Or a combination of both. A little dominance here and some emotion there. Then over time begin to increase the DEVI levels. Push against her boun…
/r/askMRP26/01/17 08:04 PM
1

Im improving myself, etc, but that is a hard mindset to get out of, it takes all my effort…all I know is I’ve awakened, looked at life totally differently, am working on my frame and leading my family, and I’m getting it regular for the first time that I can remember. Welcome to my life. So far it’s been exhausting, trying to be a real man, Red Pill on hard mode. I too am exhausted and just want to take a day or two away from my wife. |taking on the role of running this ship, it’s a responsibili…
/r/askMRP25/01/17 07:06 PM
1

My wife read some of it. She liked the part about the sex fantasies and dealing with the shame and fear of them/her response. So i told her. She just smiled and said "yeah. Thats not gonna happen".
/r/askTRP25/01/17 02:10 PM
1

And why is he so fixated in size? If he knows how to apply the right psychology (DEVI for the win), putting your finger in her up to the first knuckle is enough to give the girl intense pleasure. A fucking finger tip!!!! Surely he is bigger than a finger tip.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 02:00 AM
1

Yeah. It sucks because the beta diminishes your smv a bit. Making it easier for her to perceive another as having higher value. And its this perception that is all that matters. Regardless if its true or not.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 01:53 AM
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Fapping to memories/fantasies will do to you the same as porn would. essentially, you are programming yourself to only enjoy Fantasy/Memory, Masturbation, Orgasm just like the Porn, Masturbation, Orgasm guys did to themselves. During my deadbedroom phase of my marriage, I would rub one out to the memory of the times I had with my wife. At times I could not ejaculate to just her touch. I had to recall the memories of being with her 10-15 years ago. While there was some porn, it just seemed way to…
/r/askTRP24/01/17 10:10 PM
1

Read Robert Glover's No More Mister Nice Guy. You can still do push ups, pull ups, burpees, and other similar excercises you do not need a gym for. Not to mention you can still save a few dollars here and there to get a dumbbell and such.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 10:02 PM
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When it comes to your free time, Give a bitch an inch and she'll take a mile. so much this. I love my wife, but she is an energy vampire. She will suck me dry if I let her(and not in a good way, well yes in a good way but not what I mean here).
/r/askMRP24/01/17 09:58 PM
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The tip between shit tests and comfort is the person being referenced in the question/statement. "YOU are controlling" is a shit test as you are the person being referenced. "I am stuck at home with the kids" is a comfort test as she is the person being referenced. Or you can get a comfort test my wife has pulled on me 2 times now - "Why are YOU punishing ME?" The question is about her and the way i was making her feel.
/r/askMRP24/01/17 08:22 PM
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lol. Only at myself for getting caught off guard. It was totally out of the blue from her norm.
/r/askMRP24/01/17 06:47 PM
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the lack of a witty reply was a failure on part, but it didn't effect our current dynamic. Probably because i may have pulled her into me and kissed her after I said that (which is something I started habitually doing now) and she was looking for comfort.
/r/askMRP24/01/17 06:45 PM
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She needs attention. So true. I recently spent one Saturday just cleaning my garage out. My wife came out at about 4pm and asked what she did wrong and why was I punishing her. I was so confused and startled by this that my usual quick wit failed to engage. All I could stammer out is "I'm not punishing you."
/r/askMRP24/01/17 05:58 PM
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I've been consciously making myself smile at, and greet people I work with everyday. Same here, except I now try to do that everywhere I go. I also developed a mantra to kill off my nice guy - "I love being me." I say that to myself every time I catch myself about to become that nice guy and I put a stop to it. Or when I realize I just did something that my nice guy would never have let me do.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/17 03:31 PM
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Their perception needs to be adjusted, the sunglasses removed. They are firmly rooted in their egos and self protection. In every personal relationship where there are problems there is one common denominator. You. For me, this is what swallowing the red pill actually is. Its is when you have that paradigm shift from "Everyone else is the problem" to "I am the problem." Once you do that, everything changes. TRP/MRP then provides us with the blueprints to rebuild ourselves into masculine, success…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/17 03:17 PM
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Just finished it. Why do you ask?
/r/askMRP23/01/17 11:48 PM
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Its not about that. Its about developing an abundance mentality as you prove to yourself that you can move on quite easily if you had to. This is why the OPs title is Catch & Release. He could have gone for a drink and fucked her, or just walked out to his car and deleted the number.
/r/askMRP23/01/17 10:51 PM
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Go to MRP and read that sidebar. Marriage is TRP on hard core mode. Your marriage is either going to work, or its not. I suggest you stick with it in order to fix your own issues so you do not make the same mistakes with another girl. Once your red pill has fully dissolved, then look at your marriage and determine if you want to be in it. But making any rash decision now, may actually be worse. Again, go read the MRP sidebar before you make any decision.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 09:40 PM
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TRP is very hard work. Now imagine how much harder it is if you are MeRP (married red piller).
/r/askTRP23/01/17 08:25 PM
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When I said "Past year I've just kept quiet and kept my distance" I meant purely when she is moody. you have got to figure out how to be her shelter in the emotional storm that she is experiencing. By STFU and staying out of her way you are causing these comfort tests. It doesn't mean try and fix her, but it does mean you are there.
/r/askMRP23/01/17 06:57 PM
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I've tried the route of doing everything for her when she gets like this. I'd buy her flowers and gifts, take her to lunch, cook her special dinners, do her share of the chores etc and I've ended up in this situation. It's now the worst it ever been. This is pretty blue pill marriage counseling crap that does the opposite of what its advertised to do. It also reads like one giant covert contract. Stop, stop, STOP being a nice guy!!!
/r/askMRP23/01/17 06:54 PM
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She's repulsed by me because of my vote. She's made that clear. And yet when she is "Horny" then your dick is good enough for her? If you get all the papers and such in order, then have you tried to turn her down and say your tired from fucking your neighbor for 4 hours this afternoon? After all, she is the one that is "trapped" so there is no reason for you to be her fuck toy.
/r/askMRP23/01/17 06:33 PM
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Past year I've just kept quiet and kept my distance. She keeps accusing me of not asking her how she is when she gets down. That isn't true, she just says she's fine but flips out a few days later accusing me that I don't care. Are you reading her body language right? Or do you sincerely DNGAF? Often during these moods she says she can't be with someone like me and needs someone that understands her. Next day she says she loves me so much and apologises. Are you sure you want to be with this bip…
/r/askMRP23/01/17 06:21 PM
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Bring home divorce papers and have her sign them. By continuing to be in her presence, the OP is showing his kids that a man should be disrespected by his wife. By divorcing her, he can later explain the why he divorced her (if she doesn't poison the kids against him).
/r/askMRP23/01/17 05:11 PM
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I thought i was just slow because i wanted to actually absorb and internalize the sidebar and recommended reading list.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/17 04:27 PM
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As a relative newb (2+ months), I was faced with a daunting decision. Divorce or swallow the red pill. Right from the get go, it was about coming to the realization that I was the problem and I am the only one who could fix that problem. I needed to finally become a responsible adult and lead my family. In order to do that, I have to improve myself and that is going to take a shit ton of work. The sidebar and lifting only provide the foundation for the type of man i need to be. I have to build t…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/17 03:21 PM
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If you get a sexual shut down (the only reason for dread BTW) So much this. I am only on Dread level 2 and even that was unnecessary. All I really had to do was step up and lead. Three days into doing my best to being the leader in my family I got a spontaneous BJ. After that, I started hitting the gym. However, everyone's situation is different. My wife was begging me to step up and lead, but I was a butthurt dumbass who was resenting the fact she stopped screwing me. And when she did (once a q…
/r/askMRP23/01/17 02:57 PM
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Thanks. I might need that.
/r/askMRP22/01/17 10:16 PM
1

YNAB? What is this?
/r/askMRP22/01/17 06:58 PM
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Learn the most valuable tool you can use in any relationship (sexual, familial, business, social) STFU
/r/askTRP22/01/17 12:05 AM
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Education is the first step. Its why we exhort newbs to read the sidebar. First everyone must learn the whys and the rules for the game of life. Then they can go about improving themselves so that they can improve the way they play the game. Does this mean more sex? Yes. But it is sooo much more than that. Sex is only one part of gaining satisfaction out of life.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 12:03 AM
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Yes. Splitting hairs. Frowned upon suggests you care about others opinion.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 11:37 PM
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Frowned upon? Do whatever you want. Why should anyone give a shit about what someone else does or thinks? Are LTRs are discouraged, yes. To save you the trouble of AWALT. But if that is what you want. Go ahead. You know the game and the likely end result. But that is your choice and your life. If you do go into a from an LTR marriage, then man the fuck up and lead. But always remember AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 10:54 PM
1

Traditional cultures placing shame on women.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 07:31 PM
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You see what you want. I saw hot girls and men overtly displaying their masculinity with no shame. Whereas most beta bitches were supporting Hilary or Bernie.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 04:56 PM
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Lifting for most is a way for them to build a self confidence. We start out as neckbeards with dad bods. Or even worse they are slow moving, 3 step sweating, land whales. You also get that endorphin high from working out, which helps with their depressed emotions. That is necessary as some swallow the red pill due to being heavily fucked over by a dumb cunt. However, the "lift more" mantra is best looked at as a euphemism to keep working on improving yourself. It doesn't necessarily mean spend 2…
/r/askTRP21/01/17 04:50 PM
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It was developed traditionally as a way to keep a woman's hypergamy in check. In some parts, a woman can be put to death for cheating on her husband. So to further decrease her hypergamic urges, the culture developed a way to stigmatize a woman who mistreats her husband. This is to preserve the woman and maintain that men are alpha leaders. But you also failed to see the flip side. Those cultures also want men to behave in masculine ways and actually stigmatize them for acting like a beta btich.…
/r/askTRP21/01/17 04:43 PM
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I will buy my wife a rose every now and then just because I want to. But I don't buy her flowers anymore for specific reasons (including Valentine's Day).
/r/askMRP20/01/17 10:00 PM
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first mistake is responding to a text mid lift. what exactly is the point? I completely agree. I have never responded to my wife when I am lifting. It is me time and she doesn't matter at the gym. I do. She would call if it were an emergency anyways.
/r/askMRP20/01/17 09:56 PM
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Interesting way of looking at that.
/r/askMRP20/01/17 03:26 AM
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And talking is enDEERing. Why waste your words.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 03:47 AM
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Yup. If anything it will remove any approach anxiety for when they begin to actually consider the OP.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 03:29 AM
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Ghost post haste. Ignore and do not text back.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 03:26 AM
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Of course she does, although it will not likely be said as such. Right, she wouldn't use that term. I'm curious how this became of knowledge to you? She went out with an old friend for a coffee to catch up. When she came home, I was busy folding my laundry and watching TV, she sits down next to me on the couch, and blurted out "I finally had something to brag about you...blah blah blah." She was excited to tell me that.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/17 11:21 PM
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My problem is still girls, not gonna lie. No. the problem is you. You need to learn to game. I message her to confirm three days before and she denies saying she'd come over, tries lying saying she'd never agreed to it (she had, I got screenshots). shit test failed. Soft next. Re-approach two weeks later, we have god banter, I ask her to go for drinks. She replies "Location?" which I think is a bit rude but reply "place name." No reply since. That is not a soft next Another girl, we have good ba…
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:58 PM
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Exactly. Her mind is saying that she is doing her part and being a good little wife. But she still doesnt see the OP as an alpha worth fucking yet. She might never.
/r/askMRP18/01/17 09:27 PM
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On one hand you have the master key and lock scenario. A lock that can be opened by any key is broken, but a key that can open any lock is the master. This is the mindset of many who are using TRP for PUA purposes. The thinking is that if a woman is going to sleep around, they might as well also get their dick wet. But she is a girl that sleeps around and will continue to do so. As a result, the girl is only damaging value as a partner the more dicks that she lets inside her. As she is used to g…
/r/askTRP18/01/17 09:08 PM
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OMG a 29yo virgin LOL Who also found out he is a sex god. She came 4 times his first time.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 08:58 PM
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Her immediate response was to state,"Well don't bitch if it is two weeks before we have sex again." Simple test to past. "No Problem, I will just fill in the time between with someone else" said with a smirk. Then STFU at her protest, but keep smirking. Or even "So soon, you are starting to come around" (also said with a smirk but while holding her by the waist and maintaining eye contact).
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/17 07:53 PM
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Unsure how to proceed. Like she has AIDS, Syphilis, Herpes, and the Clap. In other words, she shouldn't even matter to you so treat her like she doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 07:43 PM
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Every Alpha needs a pack. Build one. So what you are saying is that you found an easy way to become an AMOG by doing what women typically do with their BUFFs to look even hotter. Interesting take.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 07:39 PM
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When she threatens with divorce I do not want to be the one receiving papers from her lawyer using my paycheck to foot the bill. Was that threat apart from her "response" in your post? Because what I read was what any woman would have said in similar circumstances. "You have all the right answers! You have the master plan! You have the books to tell you how to live! So I can say or do nothing right! I don't think you have loved me in a long time.” This is suggestive to me of a comfort test and n…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/17 06:53 PM
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Of course I've been plateauing but lift numbers aren't terrible compared to pre cut. In the middle of deloads but I'm guessing 10lb less ability on bench, deadlifts, squats. This may be because you are cutting and no longer have the energy to lift as much. This does not necessarily indicate muscle loss, although there probably is some. To help prevent muscle loss during cuts, up that protein intake a bit more.
/r/askMRP18/01/17 06:15 PM
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Yeah, he swallowed the red pill in November and he is already looking to divorce his wife. What was that formula again? Years of beta = months of re-branding resistance from wife. while that isn't exactly true but does give a decent time period to allow the red pill to sink in. He also never bothered to work the dread levels and failed to take into account that hysterectomies fuck with a woman's "whore"mones.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/17 06:09 PM
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yeah I agree. /u/alphabeta49 and NMMNG helped me see that despite being a blue pilled Nice Guy beta my entire life, I was very much uncharacteristically alpha for the first few years of my relationship/marriage with my wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/17 05:47 PM
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That is easy if your wife's cell phone doesn't die while she is perusing Pinterest and she grabs your phone. After you left Reddit open to TRP when you went to go take a dump. Caused some severe shit testing, but she is over it now. She hamstered away that she likes the "new RP me" better. I haven't received any anti-TRP shit tests in a few weeks. As a matter of fact, she bragged (just last night) about it to a friend of hers that it helped me be a better more attractive husband for her. lol "fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/17 05:34 PM
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I am not wasting any "willpower points" on it. I would "wank it" when i was in a sexless marriage. Rarely to porn, but mostly to thoughts of how my wife used to be. I was a 1-3 times a week. Once i stepped up and started leading, my wife started initiating and allowing me to escalate when i wanted sex with her. As a result, wanking it became unnecessary. I only became concerned once i no longer had the penile stamina i once had. I heard about nofap from here and started researching that. I knew …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/17 04:38 PM
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You honestly think OP is serious?
/r/askTRP18/01/17 12:55 AM
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Dread. Increase the dread. Nothing gets spontaneous BJs like a woman afraid her man is starting to look elsewhere. This is for those girls that doesnt like to give BJs.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 12:22 AM
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Sounds like you're using it as an excuse. Don't start to stagnate because you got a little floppy. Sounds like one, but it isn't. I still pushed myself to the gym. Then I punished myself by adding another plate or using a heavier weighted dumbbell. If my body isn't going to be motivated, then i am going to make it feel pain. Usually when I start lifting, I get the flood of endorphins and testosterone that helps push me through my workout.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 09:54 PM
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16 years of marriage has taught me that even if i agree with her, i am still wrong. Because she isnt looking for advice or empathy. She is looking for someone to be her shelter in the emotional storm she is feeling.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 09:37 PM
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Sidebar is that way ------>
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 09:10 PM
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It's not my problem and telling her how to act in these situations is NOT the role she wants/needs me to play. Yes? yup anything you say to her, tells her that her feelings are not valid. Just STFU and let her vomit. As for your friend, I wouldn't really bring it up unless he does but that call is on you.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 08:46 PM
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Don't thank me, you are the one that fucked up. If you witnessed it first hand, your job would have been to shut it down 5 minutes ago. But as it happened before, your job is to collect buckets of vomit. Do not advise her to do anything, to do so tells her that her emotions are not valid. You should have just sit there and actively listened as she vomited her emotions all over the place. It isn't your job to clean up that vomit, but its your job to not let that vomit stick to you. Once she is do…
/r/askMRP17/01/17 07:16 PM
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Thanks, but it has been relatively recent development when i have inadvertently went to nofap. Lack of motivation is a side effect of the flatline. And i didnt plan on doing nofap, i was in the middle of not fapping when i heard of nofap because my wife was so agreeable to sex. I never had the need for release due to the sex. But decided after reading up to give it a try. I also received the other flatline side effects too; like loss of libido. So for now, i am leaning that way before i will che…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 06:53 PM
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Do nothing. Don't encourage either way. Women are emotional beings. Ride out the emotional storm and you keep being you. She doesnt need an alpha protector after the fact, but she does need to shelter in the calm harbor that is you until the storm blows over. And it will.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 06:04 PM
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Overview Been RP for 2 months (Nov 17). 41 years old, 5'11" and 275 lbs. Married 16 years (41 SAHM) with 2 kids. Exercise Having motivational issues (probably related to the NoFap Flatline I am currently in). None the less I don't need motivation to go lift, I just need to go. My gym discipline is still going strong and I have only missed a day do to an overly frisky wife the night before. I go in the early mornings (6-7:30) Mon, Tue, Thur, Fri. Sometimes I will go on Wed (cardio only) and Sat. …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 03:54 PM
1

Yes. TFA and his TheFamilyAlpha blog is proof that it can be done. But being an alpha in marriage and LTR is different then being an alpha spinning plates and such. It takes constant work and you have to remember AWALT is still true.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 02:15 AM
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MRP is TRP hard mode for that exact reason. While difficult, there are successful marriages with alpha males.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 02:12 AM
1

She obviously didnt care and neither should you
/r/askTRP17/01/17 12:21 AM
1

Did i just read something like: "i dont like short girls, i like petite girls"?
/r/askTRP16/01/17 09:46 PM
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When you become someone worth fucking she will get that hair taken care of. yup. been hitting the gym for 2 months now. My wife has burned herself on her straightening iron twice since I started. I don't think she has even looked at it in the previous 5-8 years.
/r/askMRP16/01/17 07:17 PM
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it is just your blue pill programming that you need to overcome. It doesn't help that society is constantly pumping out that blue pill propaganda. As for being insensitive, we do not give a shit about you or your problems. You have to fix those fuckups yourself. We will just encourage you to do so as a man should.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 03:15 PM
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No it is wrong. TRP is about becoming a better version of you. Getting girls is just a side effect. It additionally makes you a better person to be around, helps you to get promoted faster, earn more money, better control your finances and direction in life, and generally makes you a much more happier and satisfied individual due to it coming from within yourself and not from outside forces.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 03:11 PM
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Thanks for sharing. I started slipping this past week and it showed this weekend in my wife. So your post was just the encouragement I needed to get a fucking grip.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/17 03:06 PM
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Not just killing brutally. For some reason i had some pent up aggression (nofap anyone). I got home angry at the morons driving. So i went into my garage and started wailing on my punching bag. It shook the house. My wife came in and watched me batter this punching bag for a good 10 minutes. Once i expended that aggression and took a shower. She initiated and was hyper aroused.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 12:21 AM
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Its in /r/askMRP actually.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 09:05 PM
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He seems to not understand AWALT. He needs to go to MRP and read ll the 40 year old beta males complaining about their traditional virginal wives leaving them to ride the CC.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 08:13 PM
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No he posted to the right one and it makes perfect sense to me.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 07:58 PM
1

15 years
/r/askTRP14/01/17 07:09 AM
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I did answer your question. You just didnt like the answer. Now READ the fucking sidebar as it actually answers your question. Not to mention review trp posts made today. There are quite a few asking the same damn question as you.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 02:32 AM
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We both know it wont. Oneitis is strong with the betas pretending to be an RP alpha.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 12:54 AM
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Go bang her and make her a plate because that is the RP thing to do. You showed her what a man really is and you deserve that special snowflake unicorn everyone knows she is.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 08:59 PM
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Stop the scheduled sex as its negotiating desire and she clearly has none. I personally wouldn't tell her, i just would go do something else. When was the last time you grabbed her ass? Are you gaming your wife? Why wouldnt you do something with her in the morning (i wouldnt do what she wanted, i would take her somewhere else)?
/r/askMRP13/01/17 08:52 PM
2

Sex is 90% psychology and 10% physical. And once you realize that, coupled with the amount of physical interaction, you will begin to internalize how much you have to fuck their minds while fucking their bodies.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 04:18 PM
1

Hai, sensei
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/17 04:13 PM
1

Keep in mind that discipline does not mean spanking and or yelling at them. Case in point my daughters (11 and 8). When they have a dumb disagreement with each other, i have them sit down and touch noses and I tell them that they WILL see eye to eye. I generally stop spanking at around 5 as it ceases to become a motivator after that. I also ask them a question when I do "hard way or easy way". Hard way is when they squirm. Easy way is when they bend over my knee. I spank them just as hard regard…
/r/askMRP13/01/17 03:56 PM
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So you stepped up and did the masculine thing to do and then she bitches at you? Shit testing your frame and you caved. Good job!
/r/askMRP13/01/17 03:30 PM
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I am sorry, but are you not their father? Its your job to discipline your little fuck trophies. Not hers. If your wife even raises her voice to them, you need to step in and enforce that discipline immediately. It doesn't matter if your wife is out of line and the kids are innocent, they aren't. They did something to upset your wife and that is all you need to know. Start setting those boundaries with your kids and enforcing them. Then when discipline has been established, you can walk up to the…
/r/askMRP13/01/17 03:24 PM
5

Read Rollo Tomassi's The Rational Male (he has a good blog of the same name as well). Also TheFamilyAlpha.com blog is awesome for married men. Robert Glover's No More Mr Nice Guy (NMMNG) is written for you. Some tips: 1) SHUT THE FUCK UP 2) STFU 3) Never argue with an emotional woman (STFU) 4) fog your "apology" and STFU 5) do not DEER (Defend, Explain, Excuse, or Rationalize) with your wife. Dries out her pussy and she isnt paying attention anyways. Fogging - you never say sorry but you own you…
/r/askMRP13/01/17 03:38 AM
2

Linux is okay. Career wise it may be better to try and get the RHCE than a degree as most IT degrees are behind the 8 ball technologically and take too long to get. Its better if you go the certification route first and then back it up with a degree.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 03:19 AM
2

Get a standard Microsoft, VMWare, EMC, and or Cisco certification. They are more valuable then those other certs.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 03:12 AM
1

Not having a shit test isnt a shit test. Couple that with the lack of sexual initiation and it looks like she is starting to withdraw from the relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/17 12:58 AM
2

Read The Charisma Myth
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 10:53 AM
4

Ignore. Only text logistics with plates or potential plates. Have a backup plan incase she flakes (as she gave herself an out that is most likely the case). This will give you good OI to easily next her.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 03:03 AM
1

I wasnt the OP. I was telling the OP what OP meant. And i would hate to disagree with you, but are you telling me that for a newly married red pilled man to have his wife shit testing him is a bad thing? Its a helluva lot better then to be unresponsive to his self improvement. He should be encouraged if he is getting them because it means exactly what you said - she is sexually attracted to him.
/r/askMRP12/01/17 12:25 AM
10

Nope. I will tell my boy to not speak with strangers and wont worry about him not growing up into an alpha male. Why? Because i am an active father and a masculine role model.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 10:37 PM
1

Original poster. Dont be afraid of the shit tests but be encouraged by them. Shit tests suck for PUAs but are great for the noobie MRPers. Its a sign of hope because she wants you to pass and likes what she is seeing from you.
/r/askMRP11/01/17 10:27 PM
9

I dont get why so many guys worry about shit tests. Perhaps its just me, but i see shit tests as her begging for you to be an alpha and that she is cheering you on. This is why women get so angry and frustrated when we fail them and so willing to please when we pass them.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 10:22 PM
10

Depends. Did she say she was doing it to become more comfortable? How did that come about. But the situation reminded me of last night. i was reading No More Mr Nice Guy and my wife was surfing pinterest on her phone. She was laying in the bed and she kept flapping her leg so i was getting panty shot leg panty shot leg out of the corner of my eye. After 5 minutes she asked frustrated H: are you blind. M: to what? The fact you keep giving me crotch shots because you want me? H: you knew!! (laughi…
/r/askTRP11/01/17 10:11 PM
2

In order of precedence Good relationship with their father (father never absent during childhood) Low N count High Self Esteem Traditionalist value system
/r/askTRP11/01/17 10:00 PM
2

Then you should have just done it. Men do things, beta males ask for permission.
/r/askMRP11/01/17 09:44 PM
3

You will be surprised. My wife came to nag me that i didnt do a good job cleaning because i forgot to do "k". This was early into my short red pill self. She was expected me to bitch her out exclaiming i did x,y, and z. Instead I walked up to her saying "You're right, i should have done k". When i got to arms length i grabbed her by the hips and pulled her into me. She gasped and i kissed her. It took her all of 1 second to realize what just happened and she kissed me back. The whole episode was…
/r/askMRP11/01/17 09:39 PM
1

Depends on the personal information. Is it more of the skeletons in the closet or was it your bank account pin? I am guessing skeletons in the closet. If that is the case, what was her immediate reaction to that news?
/r/askTRP11/01/17 09:25 PM
1

Go read Robert Glover's "No More Mr Nice Guy". That's your issue. Fix it, and go make some friends.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 08:35 PM
3

Sprinkle in some charisma and you may have it. You cannot effectively lead if you lack charisma.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 08:30 PM
1

More like a beta faking alpha. It also helped that i was 24, played hockey 3 times a week and lifted 5 days a week. She was an 8/10, 24 yr who never rode the CC and an alpha widow.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 08:19 PM
3

Its a dead bedroom scenario, why would she need comfort? Regardless of which type of test, if that was a half way decent depiction of the actual argument, then he found himself a pretty good wife. She kept doubling down on the same test. It screams "please pass this damn test". She is his biggest cheerleader to becoming her alpha male. Now if the OP could realize that, then he would breeze passed them and could take her to the bedroom soon after.
/r/askMRP11/01/17 04:24 PM
1

Succinctly put. If he did the first then he wouldn't need the second. But once he opened his mouth, fogging would have helped with the bitter aftertaste of toejam.
/r/askMRP11/01/17 03:48 PM
2

How can you tell the difference? I am pretty sure my wife has genuine desire for me. My dead bedroom ended as soon as I started leading before i could apply any dread. Hell i am still at dread level 2 and i have gotten sex or blow jobs almost every day since. There was one 3 day stretch i was "deprived" within the first 2 weeks of swallowing the red pill.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 03:38 PM
3

He is definitely in the anger phase. If the OP chooses to stay with the cheating whore then i suggest never fuck her without a rain coat. Her "satisfaction" during sex should never be a goal and it should only be about what he wants. As she broke the marriage contract, he can fuck around with whomever and he can be open about. But not rub it in her face. Additionally, separate the finances, legal ownership of assets, and never cosign for anything else with her. Then when the last kid has flown t…
/r/askMRP09/01/17 04:28 PM
1

Mate guarding is very beta. I wouldnt worry about as his wife will be there too. Unless she is into MFF threesomes. IDGAF and maintain your frame all throughout the night. I would also look at the night out as an opportunity to work your RP social skills. Always always reframe every group convo to your frame. You host the party and dont let him. If your wife still wants you, she will give you a great fucking due to your social dominance. This will increase your SMV and if you can effectively shu…
/r/askMRP08/01/17 04:55 PM
2

Own it. Fog it. Her: Bitch bitch bitch. You : You're right, i should have helped. Never say "i am sorry".
/r/askMRP08/01/17 06:00 AM
5

You stated what you were going to do. You should have just did it.
/r/askMRP08/01/17 04:58 AM
7

TRP doesnt say be a jerk off. Those that think it does are betas pretending to be alpha.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:26 AM
3

Option 3. You immediately remove your affection and attention while you keep your big mouth shut and maintaining frame.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:24 AM
2

MRP is better for ltr and marriage advice.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 10:43 PM
1

I would very much like to agree with you on the first example. It changed with the second. She waited until the next day to say something when it is clear she was awake and next to the OP when he got back from grabbing a beer. Why wait a day for that?
/r/askMRP06/01/17 10:03 PM
6

Thats not a shit test. That is outright disrespect. She is rubbing it in your face.
/r/askMRP06/01/17 07:56 PM
2

My wife has been wet and not in the mood (dead bedroom starfish sex, oh yeah!!! No) and been death valley asking me to stick it in her. She has also rivaled Noah's flood at times too. Bottomline is, thats what lube is for.
/r/askMRP06/01/17 07:48 PM
1

Systems integration jobs pay well. But you need to be very very skilled and have a bit of experience to get that type of opportunity. It takes a tremendous amount of effort to become skilled and experienced enough to demonstrate you actually have those skills. But you don't need to be involved in the revenue stream to make 6 figures. I also agree that infosec is the fastest growing part of IT at the moment and as a result it pays very well.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 07:41 PM
1

Those are all crap certs. Great if you have zero experience and want to be stuck in level 1 help desk. But there is no way will you be making 50k doing that. Unless of course you are in NYC or California.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 07:34 PM
2

Depends on the girl some are more willing then others.
/r/askMRP06/01/17 07:30 PM
1

Its based on what she says typically. I have an extremely quick wit and it flows naturally. Last night went to get a coffee and they had some new trainees there. She told me to taste (the coffee) before i pull out (of the parking lot). Her: taste before pulling out Me: ill decide if i am going to pull out or not Her: you dont have to pull out with me (wink emoji)
/r/askMRP06/01/17 07:27 PM
2

I was referring to the quality improvement of the blow jobs.
/r/askMRP06/01/17 07:03 PM
2

Texting is for logistics only? Fuck that PUA shit when you are married. The reason in PUA its for logistics only is so you can game plates (potential or established) in person. Whereas when you are married, texting can and should be used to game your wife. To keep her thinking about you sexually.
/r/askMRP06/01/17 06:48 PM
4

Stop playing the part of court jester to your queen. You are the damn King start acting like it. She is a SAHM. You are the provider. You work while she plays with living dolls all day. I get that she needs some "me time" but you need some "us time". She doesnt give you the "us time" then she sure as hell didnt earn any "me time".
/r/askMRP06/01/17 05:44 PM
2

Why is it so hard for people to understand that?
/r/askTRP06/01/17 02:35 PM
1

It can be. Depends on the opportunities you get.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 12:26 PM
2

If i was in your shoes, i would not treat her as plate. At best i would treat her as my kid sister. But for the most part i would consider her non existent and not even bother talking with her except for courteous communication regarding the kids. Id let her vent and rage around me while i try to figure out why the sky is a particular shade of blue today (i.e. Not pay any real attention to what she is saying). Id also go about doing my own things with myself and kids apart from her. Do my own la…
/r/askMRP06/01/17 04:57 AM
1

Depends on what interests you.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 02:50 AM
2

Damn straight I would. I got a good woman and i want to keeper as long as I can.
/r/askMRP06/01/17 01:46 AM
1

Not really. It is kind of clever as women tend to get hornier around ovulation time. My wife should be ovulating around the 8th. Sooo i am having a really good week.
/r/askMRP05/01/17 10:34 PM
3

Yup. Some IT paths can. I am at 6 figures and i am a Sr Cisco Telephony engineer. But even that isnt a guarantee anymore as the requirements for getting 3/4s of what i make in IT are now pretty extreme with how much you have to know and have done.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 09:39 PM
1

It has "be my beta orbiter" all over it. While her BF plugs all her holes, you get to stimulate her self worth as a oneitis beta orbiter.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 09:34 PM
3

I never had a problem getting BJs from my wife (even in dead bedroom where it was always a "will you take a bj") However they changed from pathetic to "please please please let me suck it" blow jobs.
/r/askMRP05/01/17 07:51 PM
3

Texts are for logistics!!! Yup. But not in a marriage. There is a reason MRP is its own entity affiliated to TRP. You need to learn how to turn spooning into sex. You did right by STFU when she was unresponsive. My wife had the same shit test for me earlier on. My response was "come join me" and i walk out. She never took me up on it. A few weeks later and there was no interest so i just rolled onto my back content on going to sleep. A few minutes later she was giving me a BJ and we then had sex…
/r/askMRP05/01/17 07:12 PM
3

This is so true. I still DEER but i am working on it. Thanks to TRP/MRP i am a much more happier man. My ambitions are slowly returning, my sense of self worth has never been stronger, and my wife has willingly done things with me i never ventured to hope she would. Despite all that, STFU is still something i know i should do, but most times dont.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/17 05:25 PM
2

Do you think my wife did 2 months ago? You dont DEER after the "no." Then you STFU and maintain frame as she blows up. Eventually as you continue to maintain frame and exhibit leadership qualities in your marriage, she will begin ti respect him.
/r/askMRP05/01/17 03:27 AM
-1

Here is how you say no (from a text convo from my SAHM wife this very day) W: can i spend X amount on X credit card M: No W: okay And thats how it works.
/r/askMRP05/01/17 02:43 AM
3

Yup. I had an ltr dump me in the middle of bootcamp.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 10:12 PM
2

I dont fetch anything for my wife. If i am going for me, then i will bring her what she asks for. Or if one of my kids walks buy, i will tell them to bring what their mom asked for. Kings are not subservient to their queens. This is why Queen Elizabeth II is married to PRINCE Philip. Yet her Father King George VI was married to Queen Elizabeth.
/r/askMRP04/01/17 08:53 PM
1

A husband who treats his wife as a slave is pretty beta and not very masculine. As for how to show "love?" I have similar background with never being taught how to show affection, to the point i have had people ask me how i can live without a heart or being so cold. Yet my wife and kids will tell you that they feel loved by me because i give them attention, protection, dont break their trust, and set boundaries that they are punished for crossing. While i also reward them for positive actions. I…
/r/askTRP04/01/17 12:16 AM
2

I didn't say you were not a leader. I said you are not the masculine leader you know you should be. Perhaps i am reading into your post too much, but it seams more the master slave model (great for sex, not for marriage). The model i use (and other MRPers do as well) is the Captain - First Officer model. But only know for sure if that is the case.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 10:29 PM
1

Its based on the hottest chick thats riding your cock.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 10:02 PM
1

Read Athol Kay's Married Man Sex Life Primer and go to TheFamilyAlpha.com blog. The only thing your wife needs is for you to be the masculine leader you know you should be.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 09:56 PM
0

My kids would never see me pick out sexy lingerie and tell my wife (their mother) that it would look good on her. Instead they have seen me grab a pair of sexy panties, throw it on the floor and tell her "those look good there, she should buy them."
/r/askMRP03/01/17 09:09 PM
2

True. Still you are the leader. Or as Athol Kay put it "the Captain". Run your ship the way you think it ought to be run. If you dont put any emphasis on religion, then there is a good chance your kids (if and when you have them) wont either. Nothing you can do about the wife's beliefs and i wouldnt suggest belittling her about it either.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 05:55 PM
1

Dont fake it. You had a crisis of faith and decided that it must not be true. You are the leader of your family. Lead. To fake it is to allow them to continue to believe in a religion you see as false. Me personally, i am a firm believer in christianity and creationism. I will continue to teach my family those things. I am definitely not going to teach them shintoism, Zoroastrianism, or anything else i don't believe in. Except to teach then about such religions (or non religions) for educational…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 05:39 PM
0

New Years Resolutions are pipe dreams and i dont make them. I establish goals and work them as the come throughout the year. I dont need a special day to make changes i should have been doing long before then.
/r/askMRP03/01/17 05:26 PM
1

This is so true. My daughters (11 and 8) are in love with their RP dad.
/r/askMRP03/01/17 05:23 PM
15

Wow. You aren't reading your wife right. She is constantly shit testing you, not because she wants your beta back, but that she wants to make sure your beta isnt back.
/r/askMRP03/01/17 05:20 PM
1

I like option 4. Kill yourself in the gym and become a new man. Care nothing for any women because no woman is going to care for you. Use them as the sex objects that they know they are. And read the side bar. Always be reading the side bar.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 03:16 AM
0

You forgot the obligatory "she's not yours, its only your turn" but that pretty much sums up the thoughts of red pillers.
/r/askMRP02/01/17 08:20 PM
16

She branch swung bro. This new guy obviously has a higher perceived smv then you. And that is why she no longer wanted to have sex with you. If it was just another guy hitting on her of equal smv, she would still have the tingles for you. But they are gone. Also there is no way she only talked to him to him in passing. That is trickle truth. He was gaming her every day. She atleast thought high enough of you to not drop you before the holidays and you just gave her an easy out to fuck a better m…
/r/askTRP02/01/17 08:13 PM
2

Yes DEER
/r/askMRP02/01/17 06:05 PM
1

You must have stopped reading because i told him in very next line to just go find a plate.
/r/askMRP02/01/17 05:34 PM
3

To maintain an LTR or marriage, you cannot be an asshole. Alpha does not mean asshole. Alpha means leader. The asshole thing is fine for plates and ONS.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 02:59 PM
1

You care about her liking an instagram pic? Why the hell was she still following him and if she wasnt, what were you doing that made her look back into her past at ex boyfriends?
/r/askTRP02/01/17 02:54 PM
1

You failed because you lacked abundance mentality. So you got a hard no three days in a row. Go read /r/deadbedrooms and realize you havent gotten it to bad. Then go out and find a plate. But breaking down the door? You got to pay to fix that shit. Knocking on the door and ask calmly for your pillow and the KY would have been a good way to reframe your earlier fuckup.
/r/askMRP02/01/17 06:19 AM
1

Continue to pick up heavy things and put them back down again. Being of Indian descent is no excuse as you can still get swole and build your SMV.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 09:36 PM
1

The red pill takes time to dissolve. I still find myself swallowing the blue pill from time to time. But my wife has been pretty good about telling me off when I do. She likes the red pill me better. Solipsistically, she knows red pill makes her happy and blue pill makes her resentful.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 06:34 PM
2

You left her to work on yourself. So work on yourself. You gave her an opportunity to find someone who will love her, despite her never actually loving them.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 06:30 PM
2

Other tools to read are TheFamilyAlpha blog and Rollo Tomassi's The Rational Male. Additionally, own your shit. The most important person in the marriage is the man. Without him, it falls apart and the kids grow up disfunctional. And for god's sake do not fight with teenagers (your wife is an eternal teenager as they all are). Realize that at this moment, your wife cannot fuck you because of you. Later (if later happens) when you become the alpha of your family and she doesnt fuck you, then its …
/r/askMRP31/12/16 12:04 AM
9

Did you just call Jason Statham a loser?
/r/askTRP30/12/16 08:36 PM
2

To help him understand. She decided her drawings would be crap. Allowing a woman to make the decision is a beta trait. Why let her decide what you do or do not like? Having the drawings sent to the OP to make the decision is an alpha trait as alphas make decisions.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 01:04 AM
2

Seems to me the other guy is pretty much beta and she may just want him as an orbiter. OP needs to understand that sometimes orbiters do get laid by their pedestalled pussy in order to maintain their orbit. So the question is, why does she need this orbiter? What is the OP lacking to provide that is making her want one?
/r/askTRP30/12/16 12:55 AM
2

Do you think Vin Diesel or Jason Stathem would have issues picking up women?
/r/askTRP30/12/16 12:43 AM
2

If he is red pilled then there most surely is or will be.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 07:26 PM
1

No rolls. Just a dunlop.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/16 07:10 PM
3

Probably should go to /r/RedPillWomen and post this there. As for him, he may not be red pilled but a natural alpha. Or he is a false alpha acting out an online persona.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 06:40 PM
-1

What the hell is a low value race??? Other than the normal prejudices and preferences for a member of the opposite sex being from your own race, i dont see any particular race being viewed as low value.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 06:24 PM
2

Do as /u/coniferous suggested!! Also, I call bullshit on you killing off your beta. This post reeks of betaness. When I swallowed the red pill, it was in the middle of a beta whiney bitch session i was having at my wife. It hit me like a ton of bricks. It was all "You donts and you nevers" and i realized (after lurking off and on for a few months) that she was only behaving based on her programming and my actions were controlling that programming. I shut up immediately and calmly told her to for…
/r/askMRP29/12/16 06:11 PM
2

Racists? Not entirely sure. Their culture definitely embraces pure japanese lineage and that their national pride is akin to exceptional americanism. The difference being that they are a homogeneous race and the US is a mix of all kinds of races and cultures. However, in general, a japanese person doesn't believe that they are better than any other race simply because they are japanese. Its kind of like a married red piller doing the dishes and a married blue piller doing them. The RP does it be…
/r/askTRP29/12/16 04:06 PM
12

Its preselection and basically a shortcut for their hypergamy. They dont have to do the SMV evaluation themselves as someone has already done it for them.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 01:23 PM
1

What the hell did i just read?
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 01:20 PM
1

Sarcasm is lost on you.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/16 11:26 AM
1

Closer to the first and no where near the 2nd. But i actually have a more muscular upper body. (I used to lift before marriage).
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/16 11:24 AM
5

I am surprised nothing happened with the guy she kept going on road trips with. But there are things you must do immediately. Get off the Pot. Flirt with her at every opportunity. Dont let her go out on NYE without you and dont go where she was going. Make your own plans and tell her she is coming with you. Also, get kindle for your phone and order the kindle versions of those books from amazon. You married her, she is your responsibility so start acting like it. If you anything that needs to be…
/r/askMRP29/12/16 12:59 AM
1

I am 280. I was just over 280 when i started.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/16 06:45 PM
7

Already did. Been hitting the gym for over a month, trying to own my shit, kill my beta, and let my motherfucking alpha masculinity shine.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 05:27 PM
3

Lol. I aint mgtow. I enjoy fucking my wife too much for that shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/16 04:44 PM
2

Turd Flinging Monkey is a youtube mgtow
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/16 04:21 PM
2

Who the fuck cares. Why the hell are you not blocking them right after nexting them?
/r/askTRP28/12/16 03:37 PM
4

Next. "I drank too much" is usually trickle truth which should be followed up with "and as a result i fucked Chad. So i am initiating contact with you to see if you will unwittingly become my orbiter".
/r/askTRP28/12/16 03:35 PM
1

Never ever cohabitate. If cohabitation is a must, then marry her. If marriage is not what you want out of this, then soft next her now. Let her enjoy the CC at college and you do you with no strings attached for awhile.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 03:30 PM
7

Oh look. Free male attention and i dont need to fuck him!
/r/askTRP28/12/16 03:23 PM
3

Everyone else is giving you great advice on what to do with this relationship. However for the next one, never ever cohabitate and always own your shit.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 03:17 PM
1

You are not going to find a "good christian" woman on those hookup apps. To find that you need to go to church and get "plugged in" at that church. Keep in mind that TRP applies everywhere. With an exception for the promiscuity, the masculine "Alpha" traits are actually endorsed in the bible, while the weak pathetic "Beta" traits are frowned upon in it. However modern western christianity has been pussified by our societies gynocentrism. This leads to many wives screwing their pastors and small …
/r/askTRP28/12/16 01:02 PM
7

For most of us, the price is the bitter taste you get after you get severely fucked over by women. Other than that, the rest is all on you. You have to do the time to improve yourself. You have to lift. You have to read. You have to build and manage your own frame. You have to do what is best for you and you alone. That is the price you pay for being Red Pilled and the rewards you get should be and could be a better life (and a much better life than you would have if you ignore TRP and remaine a…
/r/ThankTRP27/12/16 10:53 PM
1

I am going to say that it depends on how she got pregnant. If the child is from IVF and they used your sperm, its a pretty good chance the child is yours. Still, mistakes do happen (mislabeled sperm) and she still could have been preggers with Chads kid while using the IVF as a cover.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 10:18 PM
1

no burpees. I'd rather steal honeycomb from a killer bee hive.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/16 09:48 PM
12

Texting is for logistics? Screw that. I am constantly flirting with my wife over texts. Of course she initiates most of the convos, i just twist them to sex each and every time. It gets my wife's mind thinking about fucking me. I want her to keep thinking that. Also if your wife grabbed the ipad from your daughter and went into a private room, you failed to notice that she has that desire now. You could have pulled her inner slut out and had your own personal cam girl.
/r/askMRP27/12/16 08:15 PM
3

It means she wants you as an orbiter while she continues to fuck other guys.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 07:01 PM
1

Diet can do wonders on Hypertension and Baby Spinach is great for managing it. I throw some in my chicken salad for lunch and in my after work out protein shake.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/16 04:36 PM
1

Overview Been RP for 1.5 months. 41 years old, 5'11" and 280 lbs. Married 16 years (41 SAHM) with 2 kids. Formerly dead bedroom (thanks RP). Exercise started lifting about a month ago. Gym every Mon, Tue, Thur, and Fri morning before work. I am seeing improvement and a slimming waist. I need to add in some more cardio watch my diet as I haven't lost any significant weight. I should also add some stretching exercises as I am not as limber as I think I should be. Finances I have been trying to get…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/16 04:24 PM
5

Dont matter to me. He aint my problem to fix.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/16 01:32 AM
7

Yeah. I told a colleague at work about TRP because he was complaining openly about this girl he is orbiting (its a weekly rant). I liked the guy so i thought i would point him the right direction. He hasnt bothered reading any of the material and tried to use my red pilled ass as the butt of his jokes. Better to let them find (or not find) TRP on their own.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/16 11:29 PM
1

Marriages are even worse. Now you are responsible for her and any offspring.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 11:29 PM
1

You can always buy a cheap set of dumbbells. There is no excuse.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 01:46 PM
1

Marilyn Monroe - Blonde Norma Jean Dougherty - Brunette Nuff said.
/r/askTRP24/12/16 10:37 PM
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Exactly. Who is the beta? The OP is jealous of her BF. Her BF can reframe the conversation (alpha) and has enough finances that he can live off the dividends alone (alpha). She complains and yet hasnt found anyone (including beta OP) she values higher (alpha).
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:12 PM
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Yeah. And real men dont let their wives fuck other men. Your wife wants you to provide a safety net for her and then she wants to go fuck Chad Thundercock. And you gave her your blessing? You get what in return? Sloppy seconds and a woman who only needs you to pay her bills. You want to know why your wife doesnt fuck you like them, you are not a man to her. How can you be when you let her get fucked hard and good by real men while you watch.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 02:10 AM
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Which is why i dont post. If i cringe at my own actions, others will be far worse off.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 02:44 PM
1

When I first married my wife, we lived with her parents. We had no issues having sex, even with her parents watching TV below. And yes, they could hear it and only once asked us to calm it down because they thought we would fall through the floor.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 06:59 PM
2

You have no clue what the hell the red pill is if you think its just about getting women to suck and fuck you. Its about improving you for your own happiness and contentment in life. The by product is that more women will be willing to fuck and suck you (even in front of their cucked husbands). But its relevance goes way beyond sexual relationships. It is as equally effective in social relationships and business relationships.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 04:19 PM
3

At least he owned it.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 02:29 AM
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MTV's relevancy ended when they released "the real world".
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 02:18 AM
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My wife knows about TRP and MRP. She isn't necessarily thrilled with some of the content but she is certainly enjoying the change. Afterall, most of what the TRP and MRP advocate is what she has been bitching about for me to become the past 10 years.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/16 09:26 PM
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Those shit tests are her screaming for your attention. Pass those and double your monthly sex quota. I pass them by disarming them and moving directly into amused mastery. I disarm them by casually saying "you're right, I <insert wifes blah blah blah here>". I also grab her by the hips and pull her into me. Never breaking eye contact. After the "apology" i usually can kiss her and then i am off to the races with teasing and flirting. Made a huge difference in our relationship dynamic.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/16 05:43 PM
1

YBOP has some good comments about sex will you reprogram
/r/askTRP20/12/16 03:16 AM
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You are 17. You havent lost any time.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 07:15 AM
2

I am red pill and religious and i agree it has no bearing on this sub.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 07:13 AM
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Smart man would have said "sure whats your number and ill shoot you a text".
/r/askTRP19/12/16 03:47 AM
1

Although her husband was still being an alpha, he did allow her to change him. He stopped being what attracted her to him from the beginning. In steps a man that seemingly behaved like her husband used to. Then when her husband caught her and then beat the shit out of her lover (that she wrongly valued higher than her husband) and his friend, she wanted her husband back. Follow that up with him dumping her and she is seriously feeling a double whammy of a hit to hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 02:32 AM
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Its one of the best examples of hypergamy if i ever saw one.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 01:19 AM
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It reads like she wanted him to be the AF and he was acting like a BB. OP shouldnt get hung up on the fact she thinks his face is dogshit and instead focus on the fact she was fantasizing about him fucking her like a $5 Tijuana whore.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 02:37 AM
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Accept her as she is. Marry her. Please her and make her feel nice and safe. Then after 5 years of having a dead bedroom and her plumping you up. She will hit the gym, get that hot bod you lusted over at first. Then she will starfish you and go fuck a chad like she never fucked you.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 12:10 AM
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I am sorry, but what relevance does this have? Why does it even matter if you believe in a god or not? A god could have just as easily created women the way they are as much as evolution could have. So why are you so focused on this?
/r/askTRP16/12/16 11:13 PM
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She disrespected you and you tolerated it.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 08:56 PM
3

Keep looking for another job.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 08:52 PM
2

Who cares? Those same girls in another situation would probably be like all the rest. The difference is they know that those men of lower SMV will drop much larger tips in the hopes it would "impress" then at work. Where guys like you will hit on them and drop normal tips.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 07:35 PM
6

I agree with this. So much of the comments on this post would lead directly to a divorce.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/16 02:05 PM
2

Sadly, I still have yet to learn that lesson after many many opportunities to do so. Good post, hopefully I will remember that the next time this happens today.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/16 04:13 PM
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While that is true, no diamond is pure and clean from imperfection. You have to cut and polish away as much of the imperfections as you can to get the best looking rock. And remember AWALT, they just differ in quality but the value is all the same.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 12:36 PM
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By comparing myself to myself before. Am i improving or regressing? Who cares about anyone else when they sure as shit dont care about you.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 12:28 PM
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Here is the issue. There are years of bluepill history with your wife. Its hard to overcome (i am having the same issue as you and dont really know if you can). The HB9 has no history. She only knows the redpill you.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/16 03:02 AM
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If you just had a failed suicide attempt then the 8 mo old red pill still hadnt fully digested. TRP is about making a better you and a welcome side effect is more pussy thrown your way. Somehow you have regressed.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 11:01 PM
1

You are right, while AWALT they do come in different qualities. Some can be LTR and some clearly cannot. Some are only pump and dump material and others are great for plating. Finally, some you should never stick your dick into and all should never be married.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 10:58 PM
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If you read enough bluepill reports from married redpillers you will see that AWALT. They just were not into you that way. They all have sluts inside them. Want to do anal and she tells you no thats gross, i would never do that. Then you read a text on her phone to Chad how she now has the runs from him pumping her colon full of his cum three nights before and she cannot wait to let him do that again!
/r/askTRP14/12/16 10:38 PM
9

Read sidebar --> then start lifting. The endorphins alone from lifting will help with depression. Then its an upward spiral of goodness from there.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 10:24 PM
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Especially at that time of night. It isn't a test at all and she is basically screaming at the OP to be her Alpha protector.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 04:05 PM
1

Best mentality is IDGAF. And why should you!!
/r/askTRP12/12/16 04:15 PM
3

Risk takers or those with nothing left to lose? Either way, its a bitter pill to swallow and the end result is a happier and healthier you.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 12:48 PM
2

Apparently the OP is looking for a MILF.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 11:52 PM
4

So what you are saying is that you havent swallowed the red pill and have oneitis. Otherwise you wouldnt give a fuck about this girl.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 12:35 AM
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Yes she is nuts. All women are crazy. They only differ in how much and what type of crazy. You probably did something that gave her the tingles.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 11:56 PM
2

You hit her in her hypergamy. Dont overthink it. As you said, she is used to turning men beta. You didnt and you dropped her.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 11:45 PM
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Let me ask you this? Why should he swallow the red pill if you are giving him great BJs every morning?
/r/askTRP07/12/16 11:08 PM
3

Sidebar help is that way --> Read it.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 09:35 PM
3

you are in highschool. some girls still have that kindergarten mindset that you punch the boy you like.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 07:39 PM
3

so not true, but if you don't want to help yourself then stay miserable.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 07:18 PM
1

which is why I said to go work on improving yourself. You may not be able to do it right now, but you should do it ASAP.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 07:05 PM
1

wow. go change that equation ASAP. Definitely go work on improving yourself.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 06:48 PM
1

quit being a beta bitch. She doesn't respect you and therefore will never have a desire to fuck you. Now that you are married, the only value she brings to the relationship is to suck you, fuck you, and to help raise any byproduct of said fucking. So drop the xbox controller, go pick up a dumbbell, and read the sidebar --> its all you need to change your marriage into a fun one (worked for me and I had a similar situation)
/r/askTRP07/12/16 06:44 PM
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she broke up with her bf and could do with some cheering up What this means is that she needs a baseline to validate herself. Being dumped by someone her hypergamy rated higher value has her looking to reset where her value is. Best option is to ghost, next best is to pump and dump. no other option should be considered.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 06:26 PM
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You already know. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 04:42 AM
1

Its high school. Some girls will still punch you if they think your cute.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 03:05 AM
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"You arent wearing the dress i asked for? Oh well they all look the same once i get you out of them" Instead you went into whiny bitch beta mode (i am guilty of this also at times, but i am getting better)
/r/askTRP07/12/16 03:01 AM
1

Nope. That takes time as you improve your body, soul, and mind. Seriously, read the sidebar. Work on yourself and your self esteem will increase and you will become less "needy". No one likes a needy person, but we all love self confident people. And all that begins right over there ---> in the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 12:32 AM
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She was in love with me, I was infatuated with her. This tells me you haven't read the sidebar. help is that way --->
/r/askTRP06/12/16 11:20 PM
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read the sidebar --> and don't do something stupid. If anything, go lift because the endorphins alone will improve your depression. Then down the road the gains you get will remove it all together. We are not your emotional tampon.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 11:11 PM
3

At what point did i tell him to stop eating carbs? I didnt. I told him to adjust his ratios. If you want to eat 10lbs of pasta in one sitting, who gives a shit. But the OP asked and said he eats little protein.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 06:04 PM
1

Just saying to change the ratio, not cut out the carbs entirely. And as u/wallpuncherist said make sure to eat some fats.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 04:31 PM
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Read sidebar. Live it and realize that Male value is (and has always been) more superior to female value. Their only true value is in the pleasure they bring us and raising children. Everything else we don't need them for. But they need us for sooo much more.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 04:20 PM
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Yup. Up the protein intake and reduce the carbs. Also, try to lift for aesthetics instead of strength. You are lifting as a powerlifter instead of a body builder. Of course finding a happy medium between the two would be best (as it is with everything).
/r/askTRP06/12/16 04:17 PM
2

Yes. And they typically dress sluttier.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 03:39 AM
1

what reason does she have to be depressed? Did she lose a parent or sibling she was close to? If not, women only get depressed when a male she wants rejects her. So i'd go splitsville because chances are she was trying to monkey branch and the branch may have been a red pill alpha who saw she was batshit crazy after he had already pumped her once or twice.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 11:24 PM
1

you moron! you should read The Family Alpha blog for learning how to be an Alpha in a marriage relationship. I was in a similar situation as you (age and a SAHM). I even really resented my wife for tossing me token sex where she would grumble about it. Now she is all "come and get it." But you fucked up by the affair, fortunately for you she is a fat SAHM in her 40s so her SMV is close to absolute zero. But stop with that gynocentric counseling and realize that what your wife really wants is for…
/r/askTRP05/12/16 11:07 PM
1

all of them
/r/askTRP05/12/16 10:03 PM
2

Do not halfass your way through it. Stop halfassing your way through everything you do will actually improve your own self worth. Along with that is to not give up at the slightest hit of failure (minor or major) and I do not mean to stick with any unrequited beta oneitis. If one girl rejects you, just move on and ask another.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 09:26 PM
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this will not end well. She is not a plate worth spinning despite you only looking at other guys in the shower for the last few months of your deployment. Besides, you would get more confidence in the RP philosophies on new plates and not one who's hypergamy has kicked in and wants validation that her SMV is still good enough to capture your attention.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 06:58 PM
2

ASD.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 05:47 PM
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He screwed up. He should have been hitting the gym first and been her physical trainer. But as others posted, he just wants validation.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 05:44 PM
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Nope. After over 16 years of marriage i still get shit tested.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 12:13 AM
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You lift for yourself. To feel better about yourself. This helps with confidence. And its that confidence that is the true base of the red pill. If you have it without lifting. Good. If you have it because you are financially successful. Good. If you have it and havent earned a penny in 3 years. Good. From being confident in yourself, you will attract the attention of women. Bashing one mans means of deriving that self confidence because it doesnt work for you is ridiculous. It makes me wonder i…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 10:56 PM
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Good post. Women in LTRs should be treated as you would a Doberman Pincer. Now I dont mean to bark commands and give them a little treat for obedience. Dobies look for their masters to be the Alpha and behave as such. If you are not up to the task then they assume the alpha role themselves. Just as if you are in any LTR. Both will shittest you constantly. Maintain your masculine dominance and both will respect you. Dont beat them. Fear isnt respect. Alphas come first. You should eat and then fea…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 06:44 PM
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a few weeks ago she admitted it was the best she'd ever had, so the friend zoning baffled me If the sex was that good for her, then why has she not come back clamoring for more? Based on your admitting to having recognized the oneitis, I am sure some beta trait sprung up after your sexcapade with her way back when. That is most likely the reason for the friend zone (and you accepted it?). None the less, her comment is probably her way of attempting to keep you in the "beta orbitor" mode and no s…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 06:35 PM
1

I do believe that is what I said. But I do like the way you said it better.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 09:28 PM
1

As a red pill aware christian man, let me point out that many of the biblical hero's portrayed many alpha traits as good things and portrayed many of the men with beta traits in a poor light. Not to mention, the bible actually tells men to be the Alpha in their marriages and it rebukes them for being betas. It is sad that these alpha traits are presented to us men in a very feminized way in modern western Christianity.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 07:40 PM
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I completely agree. I am a recently Red Pill aware married Christian man and it is remarkable at how the books of the bible are actually very pro Red Pill. Not the PUA part of it, but the being the Alpha. The story of Joseph is a perfect biblical example of the Red Pill. You have a man who was sold into slavery. He worked on himself (the original MGTOW?) and improved his station. Even though he was a slave, his glaringly obvious beta Master relied on him to manage his household and his finances.…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 07:34 PM
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