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| 1 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateYes thank you. My type is simps. | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateYes I only date “simps” and I don’t know where you’re going to be paying that much on first dates but whatever. If risking $100 on a date is too much for you as a man then I don’t know what to say but I forget you guys don’t have standards so it gets kind of expensive to pay for dinner when you’re trying to fuck anything that moves. Men who are selective and care about long term/compatibility won’t blink an eye when paying for dinner cause they’re not trying to sleep with 5 women a week so like … | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 07:08 PM |
| -1 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateI can multi task don’t worry. He agrees with me cause he’s an actual gentleman. I hope every woman gets to experience that which is why I’m here. Good luck to your next victim that is desperate enough to risk her life/safety by having sex with a man who paid five dollars for a coffee. | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 06:58 PM |
| 0 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateYes I do and I have a boyfriend who loves paying for all of my meals and is planning to propose soon. | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 06:47 PM |
| 5 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateThis is why I meet people like my current boyfriend in real life so you don’t have to worry about any of that. A couple hours of conversation at an event or a bar should be enough to know if I can sit across from someone and enjoy dinner with them. I haven’t been on the apps in years and have been telling all the women in my life to stay away from them because of men like you. I’ve only ever been on dinner dates on first dates and I’ve never had issues and have had good long term relationships f… | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 06:43 PM |
| -3 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateAll I can say to women lurking on this sub is listen to the men and listen to them closely. Read every comment in this thread because as usual they are telling on themselves. If you’re a coffee/drinks/walk date warrior understand that you are most likely encountering a guy that doesn’t take you seriously or wants to be a playboy. If you’re that kind of woman kudos to you, but if you’re not listen to these men and stop accepting low effort dates. Good luck ladies. Edit to add: notice how these me… | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 06:38 PM |
| 7 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateLmao if you’re not looking for life partners then why are you mad at women who are using dates as a barometer for men that are serious versus those that are not? Based on your replies the women are right to reject coffee and drinks if they are looking for something serious then right? You’ll be left with the women that are fine with casual right? So what’s the problem? | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 06:30 PM |
| – | Know your worth ladies! Don’t offer to pay for a first date you were invited to attend. And never offer to drive a stranger home. Boy, bye.Locking this thread because we do not explain ourselves or send paragraphs at FDS. You block and delete. No need to help him get better at duping the next woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 12:23 PM |
| 33 | I don’t know what to say other than ewwwww!This is too funny😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 03:41 PM |
| 177 | What are your thoughts about this?I’m so sorry but them saying women are dating up on apps is absolutely false. Any sane woman that has swiped on the apps for more than 5 minutes can see the abysmal state of straight men. They look like gremlins and it takes 100 swipes just to stumble upon a relatively attractive guy. I saw maybe a handful of “chad” worthy profiles when I was still online dating. If anything, online dating makes women settle wayyy more than men want to believe. Having to swipe through the ugliest profiles you’ve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 09:26 PM |
| 5 | "I am afraid I will be conned by a psycho man that only reveal his true face after years of marriage"To all the women mentioning the true psychopaths and sociopaths, please realize these men make make up less than 1% of the population. The likelihood of you meeting a true conman is so small that most of us are lucky to never meet them in our life times. And even then, these types of men are predators and will go for weaker prey. I 100% agree with OP on this because men are truly dumb and lazy and would never go this length to con a woman unless she was the president of some country. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 10:54 PM |
| 152 | Redpill/PUA tactic: breaking the touch barrierI think the sex-posy movement has normalized this kind of creep behavior for women and a lot are scared of being seen as a prude if they don’t accept unwanted physical touch. I would actually hear a lot women saying it’s a red flag if a guy isn’t all over you or wanting to have sex you by the third date in college. It’s crazy how much of what should be deemed as unhinged behavior is now seen as desirable because women are being pushed to be as sexually available as possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 04:21 PM |
| 157 | Tired of the men obsessed with women “reciprocating”That’s what’s so hilarious to me because it means they lack experience dating women or they only chase women who barely like them. I’ve seen too many women who I’m close to and barely know bragging about all they do for their boyfriends. If you just go to the forever girlfriend tales tag there’ll be a myriad of stories of women constantly auditioning to be wives by buying houses, cars, having children etc. If a man can’t get a pickme to cater to him it means he’s truly undesirable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 08:35 PM |
| 23 | I believe the push for men to go to therapy will end up with the same results as the libfem idea that “feminism is for men too” therapy will not destroy the patriarchyIf you’ve ever watched Dr. Ramani on YouTube , she would advise the exact opposite. Grey rocking narcissists is the only way to go. Any sort of attention is good attention to them and they’ll just try to make you look like you’re unreasonable and crazy. Your therapist isn’t that great considering they think narcissists operate on the same level as everyone else. Edit: spelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 12:11 PM |
| 95 | I believe the push for men to go to therapy will end up with the same results as the libfem idea that “feminism is for men too” therapy will not destroy the patriarchyYeah I’m over women trying to veer men in the right direction. From what I’ve observed, the only thing that makes men change is consequences. Therapy is just a way for them to trauma dump on professionals and feed their egos because they’ll leave thinking they’ve done something. It’s like porn addiction. Most men were fine with how it degrades women and is a vile industry until they started getting PIED in droves. Now all of a sudden what women have been talking about for decades is this new ide… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 11:30 PM |
| 270 | I believe the push for men to go to therapy will end up with the same results as the libfem idea that “feminism is for men too” therapy will not destroy the patriarchyWhile I think therapy can be a powerful tool for men, I think too many women have become excited by the wonders they believe it can do for men. I’ve seen too many liberal/leftist men weaponize therapy to make themselves look like they are working on themselves when in reality they are misrepresenting themselves in therapy and doing absolutely no work. A lot will just absorb the jargon to sound emotionally intelligent and brag to those around them. All of the men I’ve met who’ve reported going to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 07:56 PM |
| 36 | Was wondering if any FDS ladies on here have lost interest in dating after finding a job with a healthy environment and/ making more money?I feel the exact same way. I just landed a manager role with great benefits on a great team and I’m so happy to be able to save for my first house. It’s my first “adult” job (early twenties) and I’m happy to start off my retirement savings early. As soon as I got the news about the job, I stopped thinking about dating all together. I’ve been much more content and the thought of going on a date with 99% of men is a turn off for me right now. Before, when I was just an intern and bored I would car… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 12:47 PM |
| 364 | This should be how women approach sex. If he can’t make you orgasm he can’t get access. 💅🏾👑While I like this sex strategy, I would’ve been out the door after a week of his behavior. At this point he’s not listening on purpose and will probably never make her orgasm. I’m glad she has the confidence to uphold her boundaries and expectations but I’m sure with age and experience she’ll learn she can dump a man as soon as he’s not showing the effort and care to make her orgasm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 03:41 PM |
| 127 | not supposed to represent feminism on a feminist subreddit... what?Unfortunately fourthwave is being overrun by liberal feminists and don’t really care if men comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 03:09 PM |
| 40 | Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about.And this is why you don’t do drink dates. They might not be cheaper than dinner but there’s more of a guarantee of getting laid for men since drinking lowers your inhibitions. They know what they’re doing and it’s not trying to get to know anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 02:01 PM |
| 101 | Having a relationship start from a hook up is not the flex you think it isYep a majority of men see sex as a scratch to itch which is why most are perfectly okay having sex with women they have absolutely no interest in. Being desired by men sexually means nothing. And most will settle if they get lonely enough. That’s why I want women to flip the script and realize that men have to prove themselves to them and we should be the ones judging them based on their sexual history/behavior. Dating a habitual player/community dick gets you nothing but hurt and embarrassment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 04:38 PM |
| 52 | Having a relationship start from a hook up is not the flex you think it isGreat strategy and just goes to show this isn’t just a heterosexual issue. All relationships can be impacted by low effort and hook up culture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 04:35 PM |
| 56 | Having a relationship start from a hook up is not the flex you think it isExactly. A lot of women believe it’s possible for there to be exceptions in these scenarios but I don’t agree at all. I feel that once a man suggests sleeping early he is LV no matter what. I don’t believe HVM would even entertain the thought. That might hurt a lot of women who think their partner is perfect despite this but it’s my honest opinion. I would immediately get the ick if a man that seemed perfect in every other way ended up acting this way towards me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 03:26 PM |
| 72 | Having a relationship start from a hook up is not the flex you think it isI used to like their relationship without knowing the details of it but when I learned she proposed to him I checked out. I’m not surprised it started out that way. Every relationship I’ve seen like that has included a lukewarm man who does the bare minimum to upkeep the relationship. Even if they get married the relationship never seems to be “relationship goals” to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 02:28 PM |
| 197 | Having a relationship start from a hook up is not the flex you think it isThis was 100% my experience as well. I ended up in a long term relationship with a man I had sex with quickly and I resented him the whole time. After that there was no dating or courting. It was us hanging out at his place almost everyday and going out every once in a while. The intimacy was rushed so I let the bond we’d created through sex cloud my judgment. I’ve learned the longer I wait the easier it is for me to have a clear mind to judge properly and walk away when I need to. When sex is i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 02:26 PM |
| – | Advice for Moving In with a BoyfriendThis question is answered in the FDS handbook thoroughly. FDS does not believe in moving in with boyfriends before marriage or engagement. Your situation is even more precarious because you can’t afford to live alone as it is so he has an upper hand if the mask slips. I advise you read the handbook thoroughly and really reconsider moving in with your boyfriend through all the advice this thread has given you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 10:16 PM |
| 173 | I’m so sick of hearing praise for the most basic behaviourAlmost every post praising a “HVM” is like this and it makes me so sad. My dad is HV and I’ve been around other HV men so much that most things women praise I see as the bare minimum. I don’t even think twice when I see a man doing chores or being a generally considerate person. Men shouldn’t be praised for being basic human beings. Empathy, compassion, and effort should be normal. The difference between what’s expected from HVW and HVM is depressing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 12:21 PM |
| 2 | How soon is too soon to go to a man's homeBut you’re exposing yourself to countless men early which is a shit safety tactic. It makes no sense to go to mens houses early on and expose yourself for the sake of it. Better to find out one guy is a rapist after months than 10. You’re tactic is way more dangerous and does absolutely nothing to weed out LVM because house “dates” are already low effort which is the whole point of fds. No reason to use low effort dates to vet when the whole point is finding an HVM that wouldn’t even dream of su… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Paying on dates, are we discouraged to go 50/50 on just the first date or first few dates?I’m sorry but that’s not hv at all. He might be behaving now but trust that later in the future his lack of a provider mentality will have you arguing about finances and splitting bills. I personally don’t believe in splitting bills ever. Even after marriage but that’s a major red flag that he even suggested splitting anything early on. I would be on edge after that because that shows his character. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 04:55 PM |
| 13 | How soon is too soon to go to a man's homeI’m sorry but this advice fails to consider the major point in the fact that it’s a huge safety concern. Your safety is more important than trying to figure out if a man will try and coerce you into having sex which is why we always advise waiting months before spending time in a man’s house. A man is a stranger around 3-8 dates in. Going to their home in that time span to “check” for compatibility is not smart considering how dangerous men are to women. That is not a good vetting strategy and t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 04:49 PM |
| – | Paying on dates, are we discouraged to go 50/50 on just the first date or first few dates?Read the handbook before posting again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 04:35 PM |
| 204 | LVM lining up for cheap, tacky, overpriced jewellery two days before Christmas. The comments are defending them. “bE gRaTeFuL” for the bare minimum? Nah.I consider my dad HV and every holiday/birthday he gets my mom a custom floral arrangement with a chocolate basket from a well known chocolate factory and other gifts on top of it all. The arrangements are always scheduled ahead of time and delivered to the door. Any man that stops by the grocery store five minutes before heading home from work is LV and lazy. It takes absolutely no effort and women should stop accepting it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 03:48 PM |
| 186 | Men that push for 50/50 still don’t realize that dating has become a ladies’ market in 2021, with Tinder being 78% male / 22% female and Bumble & Hinge being 65% male / 35% female. Men outnumber women 4-to-1 on Tinder and 3-to-1 on Bumble/Hinge.Yep, men are getting more desperate and wisening up. Most won’t even dare to pay 50/50 now because that means their chances of getting laid are nada. Women hold the cards in dating because men are the ones who are desperate. Me and most of my friends can go months without dating or sex. Men on the other hand go insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 11:06 AM |
| – | Anyone else have "COVID glasses" about men now?Please read the fds handbook before posting again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 06:44 PM |
| 92 | Common arguments used to defend the sex/porn industry debunkedThe one thing I hate the most about sex work promoters is that they think they are being revolutionary. Just because marriage is patriarchal doesn’t mean sex work/prostitution isn’t a different side of the same coin. It’s literally the physical manifestation of the Madonna-whore complex. It is why men have a hard time seeing women as fully sexual human beings. All sex work does is further the dichotomy. Sex workers are just as much patriarchal crusaders as any other pickme that is willing to do … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 10:02 PM |
| 59 | Reminder: never chase men, this is what they actually think when you initiateAbsolutely, and that’s why I don’t like the idea that women should approach to vet this because men take advantage. Just broach the topic. No need to put yourself in that situation because 9/10 you’ll look like a clown and be discarded as soon as something better comes along. Who wants to be in a relationship run by passive reciprocation? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 05:08 PM |
| 186 | Reminder: never chase men, this is what they actually think when you initiateWomen always forget that men aren’t the choosers so they take what they can get. Most have gone months without sex involuntarily so when they even get a whiff of a chance with a woman they’ll take it even if you’re not their type. Trying to find the one man not like this isn’t worth sifting through the garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 05:06 PM |
| 138 | Reminder: never chase men, this is what they actually think when you initiateMost of them are 100% delusional and the one woman who actually approaches him out of interest further feeds those delusions. I wish men weren’t so insane. I don’t know how they have so much cognitive dissonance. How do they function? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 05:04 PM |
| 208 | Reminder: never chase men, this is what they actually think when you initiateYep every man that said they’re fine with it only mentioned how flattering it is not that they would take her seriously. They can continue to complain about having to approach for the rest of their lives. I have no sympathy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 03:57 PM |
| 404 | Reminder: never chase men, this is what they actually think when you initiateThis is a reminder for all the women who think approaching men is harmless. Many of the comments on this post expressed the sentiment that men either believe a) she’s conning them in some way or b) she’s desperate and there must be something wrong with her. There’s a commonly held belief that women that are desirable will not have to work for men’s attention. Because of this, most men assume an attractive woman will wait to be approached versus do the initiating. It doesn’t matter if you look li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 03:46 PM |
| 23 | Evidently it’s necessary to confirm upfront if their listed location is where they actually live 🚩It’s definitely just as bad because lecturing scrotes a) wastes time and b) allows them to learn to be more manipulative. Block and delete always. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 03:41 AM |
| 5 | For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery?Unfortunately that was years ago so don’t think I can find it now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 03:21 AM |
| 127 | For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery?And even when they do do that (evidenced by the dead bedroom sub) they expect to be praised for acting like an adult for 1 week and are shocked when their wife doesn’t reward them with sex. It’s very obvious what they’re doing and it’s why their wives get more frustrated when they do start putting in effort. No one wants to be treated like a sex machine that’s supposed to put out when a man puts in a smidge of effort to get laid. They need to be active partners 24/7. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 04:45 PM |
| 123 | For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery?Yes that’s a much better word and it should 100% percent be a crime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 04:05 PM |
| 62 | For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery?This so true and why taking advice from men is a form of self harm. They project their broken way of viewing the world on us all the time. As women we know looks aren’t everything but they have to remind themselves of this all the time because they can’t think past their dicks. Many men will stay with a woman for years just because she’s hot and assume we do the same with men we find attractive. It just doesn’t work that way for us because we ultimately want emotionally fulfilling relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 03:31 PM |
| 106 | For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery?Yep I had to read through a thread full of those stories on Twitter. Nightmare content there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 03:09 PM |
| 267 | For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery?The stories I’ve heard from nurses🤢 Women will straight up have sex in the hospital bed after they’ve given birth. That’s how horrific and sociopathic most men are. I couldn’t imagine feeling the need to have sex with your partner right after having a whole child come out of your vaginal canal to avoid an argument. Sex pests are the worst. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 03:05 PM |
| 106 | For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery?Yes, I came out of that relationship thinking I had BPD, depression, and anxiety. As soon as I left him, suddenly all my issues were gone. Porn addicts can really do a number on you. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 02:59 PM |
| 160 | For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery?I only sympathize with women in dead bedrooms because most times the man is a porn addict that doesn’t see women as human beings and is lazy and low effort. The reverse is rarely the situation for men. It all truly revolves around laziness when it comes to men on both sides because most are too selfish to care about anyone but themselves. I’m glad yours was fixed. I was in one for a 6 months with a porn addict and I’m so happy he hasn’t found anyone else to torture since. And yes that sub doesn’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 02:38 PM |
| 327 | For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery?It’s so funny when the spouses of these men end up on dead bedrooms and show the reality behind these complaints. It’s the case 99% of the time that the woman has just given birth, is taking care of everything while going to work, is dealing with a man child, etc., but these men would rather wallow in their self pity and get internet points than change to make their wives desire them. And they compare the honeymoon period saying she was different before but fail to realize most women are sociali… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 02:15 PM |
| 179 | For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery?I hate, hate, hate the push that physical attraction is some low level primal urge we should avoid. Romantic relationships are a mix of several types of attraction and without one of them, the relationship is doomed. It’s not superficial at all to reject people solely based on looks. You’re saving yourself and the other person time. The emotional turmoil it takes to convince yourself that you’re attracted to someone is wasted energy, and you’re stopping yourself from being with someone you’re at… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 02:10 PM |
| 15 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.Absolutely sis, except I’d change 6 inches to 8😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 09:58 PM |
| 115 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.I’m a proud believer of 666 over here🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 04:33 PM |
| 87 | Hot Take: Why I demand a beautiful proposal and an EXPENSIVE ring.Proposal rings are a great signifier of your financial future with a man. Finances are the number one cause for divorce. If a man lies to you about the ring he gets it’s means he’s a) too broke to be getting married and b) will be financially irresponsible and lie to you about his purchasing habits in the future. Every woman should check to make sure their ring is real. Never trust that a man is being honest because I’ve seen a ton of older and younger women get embarrassed when they find out th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 04:04 PM |
| 467 | The 30+ playboy life style isn’t what you think it is.This is really true. As an early twenties, most older men overestimate their importance to us. On OLD I used to have older men send me messages or likes that looked borderline desperate. They would try and surpass the age limit by appearing younger because they know most women stay in their own age range. I also knew a girl who tried to get into sugaring so her age range was insanely high. All the profiles were bitter and basically saying they’re not looking for a sugar baby but “a real connecti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Criminal Records / RAP sheets = Black Flags of relationships.There is absolutely no reason to create another flag when the premise of the red flag is a stop sign, a red light, or “do not pass go.” Most red flags are accompanied by other red flags. A liar is usually a criminal, addict, abuser, or narc. There is nothing too harsh about walking away from “small” red flags. There are tons of small red flags that mean a lot more in further context. Would you continue to date a man that casually calls women b*tches? I would hope not because that’s a clear sign … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Criminal Records / RAP sheets = Black Flags of relationships.Lying is also a trait a lot of addicts have and with how prevalent porn addiction is, I would take that as a major red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 12:50 PM |
| 9 | Criminal Records / RAP sheets = Black Flags of relationships.Lol I agree this was too many words for give men the benefit of the doubt unless they have a criminal record. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 12:47 PM |
| 6 | Men aren’t asking you on coffee dates because they care about your safety or convenience.You don’t. You block and delete and only entertain the men who come correct. He’s already shown you how he sees you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Red pill favourite Jordan Peterson doesn’t agree with their views on women and dating…I have never heard of a work place that requires makeup and heels besides the beauty industry so that assumption is null and void. Banning things won’t fix the larger issue. And even in these so called “casual” environments lookism still exists subconsciously because of societal conditioning and pretty privilege in general. You think natural beauties don’t exist? What happens when these women are still distractions to men and inspire envy in other women? Everything falls a part once you realize … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 08:16 PM |
| 6 | Red pill favourite Jordan Peterson doesn’t agree with their views on women and dating…Yeah…no. Banning will just reinforce the idea that women who are attractive are wh***s intent on distracting men and extracting their desires. It also won’t topple the beauty hierarchy but instead make it harder for women who don’t naturally look like models to survive. Men are already cruel enough to average/ugly women, imagine if women had no means of alleviating that or surviving? This would only work in a women only workspace with women who have little internalized misogyny or patriarchal up… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 02:37 PM |
| 18 | Red pill favourite Jordan Peterson doesn’t agree with their views on women and dating…He’s essentially victim blaming when it comes to women and the use of makeup. Ignoring the libfem mentality that makeup is a “choice,” women do it to survive. We get judged by men for whatever decision we make. There are studies that show attractive women get promoted far more often than unattractive woman and women who don’t wear makeup are seen as lazy and unkept in the workplace and life in general. Societal bias is very strong and overlooking that to make the point that women are silly for c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 01:25 PM |
| 13 | Red pill favourite Jordan Peterson doesn’t agree with their views on women and dating…Okay but he also believes the me too movement is a grift, is a hitler apologist, and believes women are chaos and men are order. He thinks feminists have ruined order by allowing women too much independence. There’s a reason why his main audience is redpill/incel. He switches up his talking points when it suits his pockets. He is a straight up misogynist and has pushed many questionable statistics. Many consider him a grifter because he’s constantly contradicting himself. His psych evals are als… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 01:15 PM |
| 21 | Red pill favourite Jordan Peterson doesn’t agree with their views on women and dating…Besides the make up issue, JP has advocated for enforced monogamy to help incels, thinks women are chaos and men are order, and is a Hitler apologist. If you can still see the good in him after that then I don’t know. Here’s a thread of JP being a Ballantine misogynist and constantly contradicting himself: https://twitter.com/zei_squirrel/status/1331505661817937921?s=21 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 12:54 PM |
| 81 | Red pill favourite Jordan Peterson doesn’t agree with their views on women and dating…I agree. I’m at a point where I feel contempt for men. I could care less what they think or do and focus on the women they harm day in and day out. I don’t argue with them or try and hurt their feelings because they are parasites and feed off of any and all energy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 02:55 AM |
| 9 | Men aren’t asking you on coffee dates because they care about your safety or convenience.It’s not about what you think though, it’s about what they think. There’s more thoughtful dates than coffee dates and if you’re that nervous it just means you need to work on your social skills or vet the man for longer before going on a date. It takes practice to be comfortable with dinner dates. I used to be nervous but it’s been years now and dinner dates are like nothing to me because I’ve never had a bad experience outside of a bit of disappointment if I knew it wasn’t gonna go anywhere. Th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 07:26 PM |
| 98 | Men aren’t asking you on coffee dates because they care about your safety or convenience.They want to make an excuse to get you back at their place. They want to make you as uncomfortable and inconvenienced as possible so their place will seem like heaven in comparison. This is calculative advice they give to each other because the point is to get laid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 11:52 PM |
| 100 | Men aren’t asking you on coffee dates because they care about your safety or convenience.When you like someone you don’t want to mess up. If their version of impressing you is a cheap date then good luck in the rest of the relationship. You’ll be on the relationships sub in no time. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 09:24 PM |
| 175 | Men aren’t asking you on coffee dates because they care about your safety or convenience.Yep. Dating is a prostitution service to a majority of men and OLD made it easier. Most of their tactics are about getting their dicks wet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 08:18 PM |
| 39 | No. FDS is not about clapping back at men who neg youOne of FDS’s main mantras is block and delete and that means engaging with all men. It’s the first rule in the handbook. LVM love any and all attention. All you are doing when you clap back is giving him the attention he is seeking and wasting your time. Walking away and ignoring is enough. Clap back all you want but don’t claim it’s an FDS strategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 06:14 PM |
| 189 | Communicating after a first date: am I being a pickme?I never initiate after a date. I’ll thank them on the date but I’ll only text them if they tell me to text them if I get home safe. I’ll usually say “made it home😊” and then they’ll thank me for the day/night and I’ll thank them back. If he doesn’t tell me to text him when I’m home safe, I expect him to do the initial text. I also don’t say I’d love to do it again. It’s nudging them in a certain direction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 04:12 PM |
| 5 | Harassment from Scrote outside FDS - Following me across reddit telling me I should be rapedWe can’t stop someone from following you around Reddit. Best you can do is block and turn off dms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 02:21 AM |
| – | Man Complains about Wife not Doing his Morning Routine for Him Because She Was SickDo not show the name of the sub. That would be considered brigading. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 01:55 AM |
| 3 | A man disclosing his mental health/therapy habits early on is an absolute red flagI literally said I like therapy and I think everyone should go to therapy. I don’t understand why you’re acting like I said it’s bad that he goes to therapy. I said it’s bad if a man discloses that early. Would I be happy if someone I had been dating for 6+ months mentioned therapy to me? Hell yeah that’s a green flag but on the second date? No! I’m trying to stick the topic at hand. I agree on everything else but I will not let women think it’s okay for men to have these conversations early on … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 10:14 PM |
| 4 | A man disclosing his mental health/therapy habits early on is an absolute red flagI understand what you are saying but that’s a much larger conversation outside of what that thread was meant for. Yes therapy should be normalized but we also need to acknowledge that lvm use therapy as a weapon and future leverage. Women who go to therapy are much different than men just on socialization alone. We can’t ignore power structures and systemic issues when talking about this because it dilutes the conversation and ends up enabling bad behaviors. A clear sign of a healthy person is b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 09:57 PM |
| 5 | A man disclosing his mental health/therapy habits early on is an absolute red flagI’m glad we shared the same frustration. I almost thought I was on the relationship or dating sub. There were also tons of therapists in that thread enabling her but they failed to realize that a) clients lie to therapists all the time so doesn’t mean they’re going to be any better for it and b) we don’t use the same criteria to judge men that we do women. Too much talk about destigmatizing and not enough about the nature of men and their manipulative tactics. Makes me question the practice more… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 09:34 PM |
| 13 | What do you think about a man opening up and telling you he goes to therapy on the second date?Therapists are definitely enablers. I’ve seen a famous one lauded on here who’s a YouTuber. I forgot his name but I believe he’s half Asian? And he watches reality shows and attempts to assess them through the lens of a therapist. At first I was interested in the content but quickly noticed that he always gave clearly abusive men the benefit of the doubt and believed in the possibility of retribution for these lv men. I genuinely believe the communicate schtick was the worst thing to come out of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 09:27 PM |
| 15 | A man disclosing his mental health/therapy habits early on is an absolute red flagI’m glad you were able to reflect and understand where everyone else was coming from | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 08:43 PM |
| 55 | A man disclosing his mental health/therapy habits early on is an absolute red flagPeople also forget that therapy is only helpful if the person is being honest to begin with. How many men will go cry to their therapists every week about their shit spouses, bosses, families, etc. to only be enabled because the therapist only knows one side of the story? Just like Lundy Bancroft says, therapy will never help with abusive men because they’ll just use the therapist as a triangulation tool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 08:18 PM |
| 50 | A man disclosing his mental health/therapy habits early on is an absolute red flagYes I understand why people think this is a form of reducing stigma but it’s not, especially when dealing with men. Therapy and mental health is important but that doesn’t mean people shouldn’t have discernment or boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 08:05 PM |
| 31 | A man disclosing his mental health/therapy habits early on is an absolute red flagEw to that guy and I hope he keeps displaying red flags to every woman he meets. I’ve also been with someone who did this to me on our second date and we dated for a year. I’m sure you could guess how that went… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 07:48 PM |
| 15 | What do you think about a man opening up and telling you he goes to therapy on the second date?I can already see how this movie will pan out and it doesn’t have a good ending. He’s definitely planning to start bread crumbing or love bombing and excuse it by saying he’s working through things in therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 07:45 PM |
| 46 | A man disclosing his mental health/therapy habits early on is an absolute red flagI was trying not to gouge my eyes out reading through that thread. Most men don’t even like to talk about their struggles especially early on in the dating process because they’re socialized to be closed off emotionally. Any man that does this isn’t doing it because he’s evolved but because he’s being calculative. I would never even think to mention that to a man I’ve just started dating because why would I have that conversation with a stranger? We need to stop thinking that we can judge men an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 07:42 PM |
| 66 | A man disclosing his mental health/therapy habits early on is an absolute red flagA lot of women don’t realize that mental health issues materialize differently in men and women. Women internalize and men externalize. We’re much more susceptible to change because we’re constantly told to be better. Men, on the other hand, are told they’re gods and fine how they are. It’s why I don’t judge women who stay away from men with mental health issues all together. We’re just not built the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 07:38 PM |
| 25 | What do you think about a man opening up and telling you he goes to therapy on the second date?Yes. I feel like some of the comments are giving way too much leeway to this because a majority of men are lv. Therapy can only help someone who’s shitty so much. Yay to therapy but any hv person would only talk about things like that with people they’ve vetted. It’s definitely a blood in the water test. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 06:44 PM |
| 13 | What do you think about a man opening up and telling you he goes to therapy on the second date?The issue isn’t about him being in therapy but more so bringing this up so early in the dating process. I don’t think men should be given a benefit of the doubt ever especially considering the history men have with using therapy to enable their lv behavior and psych language to gaslight their partners. Therapy is great but it’s not something that people should mention so early in. Suspicion is a better response here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 06:39 PM |
| 79 | What do you think about a man opening up and telling you he goes to therapy on the second date?Red flag. I feel like men who are into opening up and having those kinds of conversations try to convince women they are emotionally intelligent and can be trusted. People rarely disclose if they are in therapy or not and when they do it’s with someone they trust. I would be immediately suspicious of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 04:08 PM |
| 7 | FDS is NOT categorically against OLD.Real life is just as full of vitriol. You’re essentially HVW saying shouldn’t date at all because cat calling and abuse happens casually every time you leave the house or interact with men. Edit: you’re also responding to a post by a mod who would know better than anyone here what FDS is about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 01:45 PM |
| 70 | Men rarely think they are the problemThat interaction is almost every reddit scrote and pickme in every dating sub. Pickme: “I’ve been dating this guy for a few weeks and I’ve noticed I have to start every conversation and plan all the dates. What should I do?” Reddit scrote: “Just communicate. Women never make the first move. Maybe he’s not sure if you’re into him. Give him a chance.” Pickme: “You’re totally right. He’s always eager to go on dates and have sex with me so obviously he likes me. I’ll just bring it up tonight!!!!” Li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 08:06 PM |
| 220 | "Being economically dependent on a man leaves you in a vulnerable position." - This is what the handbook looks like IRL. being tossed out like a rotten piece of meat while he goes out to groom someone your daughter's age.Divorced women and single mom’s/children actually make up a majority of impoverished people. This isn’t just a coincidence either, it’s systemic. It’s the patriarchy’s way of punishing women for not being good enough to hold down a man or stay married. It’s deliberate that we’re told to depend on men so we essentially hand them our lives and they have the power to do what they wish. The most dangerous thing a woman could do for her or her kids is to have no back up plan and rely on her male part… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 03:52 AM |
| 118 | “Never tell men about your trauma”I don’t believe intimacy needs trauma disclosing at all. I think that’s an unhealthy mindset about relationships that’s been spread too far. I think it’s better to rely on hardships that you go through with the person because I think our past traumas are ours to overcome. When you do the former, you can still form an intimate bond but it won’t require being exposed to the possibility of being retraumatized. Time and consistency is key and with that approach you’ll allow yourself to be intimate a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 01:28 AM |
| 510 | Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens.This caption is a great example of narcissism. How he managed to make every single quality he listed about himself is astounding and he should be given a medal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 11:40 AM |
| 42 | What kind of tattoos are LVM red flags to you?Looool I always used to swipe left on men with chest tattoos. They never look good! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 08:13 PM |
| 93 | Your reminder that polyamory is a complete scam for women. This woman is trying to convince herself that she’s okay with hearing her husband have sex with another woman.Yes it’s so funny to me that they think they’re so above monogamous people because they work through jealousy when what they’re doing is actually practicing self soothing in traumatic situations constantly. It’s not healthy to always need to have conversations and communicate because you’re always being triggered. You would think the move would be to move away from their triggers but they have some kind of martyrdom kink where they need to deal with that pain to feel like they’re evolving. I’m f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 07:20 PM |
| 236 | Your reminder that polyamory is a complete scam for women. This woman is trying to convince herself that she’s okay with hearing her husband have sex with another woman.This is why that jealousy bullshit they espouse is so stupid. She’s literally being tortured everyday but forced herself to deal with it because polyamory is above jealousy. These people always seem so miserable. I’ve been in happy monogamous relationships with little to no jealousy before. You don’t have to go through this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 05:23 PM |
| 17 | What are your ladies’ opinions on finances when moving in with a boyfriend/fiancé/husband?OP, you should not be this invested in a boyfriend at this age especially if he hasn’t even started the process of bidding on a house. You need to detach yourself from this outcome because you don’t even know if you’ll still be together in a year. I would say take all the advice you are getting now but don’t fret about this until you are capable of being married and are engaged with a ring on your finger and a wedding date. None of these things have happened yet. Planning for the future like thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 03:42 PM |
| 342 | What do you think of MGK & Megan Fox? Apparently MGK cheated on Sommer Ray to be with her, then tried to make himself look like the victim when he was already dating Megan.There’s a video of him trying to justify being attracted to 14 year olds when he was in his early twenties so in the trash he goes🤢🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 07:43 PM |
| – | Where the F*ck is Kamala Harris?This should be posted at the FDS politics sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 03:20 PM |
| 101 | Going to therapy is not the solution to every relationship problem. It only works if the person going is willing to be honest about their situation and is open to change, which is why it doesn’t work with addicts.The sick thing is porn is not natural. It’s a very new phenomena despite the cultural idea that porn has always existed. Voyeurism was always seen as an extreme fetish until recently. Liberalism/choice activism has seeped into our sex lives convincing us that all individual sexual choices we make are perfectly fine and made in a vacuum. It’s not healthy to watch hours of other people have sex every week. Who ever created this narrative in society has truly won because they’ve furthered the divid… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 05:19 PM |
| 158 | Men always knowMen know what women want but they’re too lazy to do anything about it. Most also hate women and their desire for us so they’d rather pretend they don’t know as an excuse not to put any effort. Any woman that wants something that doesn’t directly benefit them is seen as crazy or irrational because objects aren’t allowed to have desires. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 03:57 PM |
| 171 | Men always knowYep it’s not that he’s never thought about it, it’s that he doesn’t want to. He’d rather pretend women aren’t a major part of the population so he doesn’t feel bad about how he thinks and feels about them. Lots of men use ignorance to shield themselves from their shitty character. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 03:49 PM |
| 92 | Men always knowYep. All of them know what they’re doing. Just like the whole lv issue. They know they thrive off the bar being in hell which is why they push the not all men tag line. If all men started working towards being better then women would be allowed to have boundaries and expectations. Since most are LV, they do not want that. They want to keep the status quo so they can continue being praised for treating us like human beings and doing the bare minimum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Surprised by his decent behaviour, and then… the mask slipped 🚩We can’t link to subs here because of brigading | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 03:43 PM |
| 73 | This is why we don’t do hike or walk “dates”…he proceeded to MAKE FUN OF ME, before I unmatched. DANGEROUS.Read the handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 03:23 PM |
| 74 | This is why we don’t do hike or walk “dates”…he proceeded to MAKE FUN OF ME, before I unmatched. DANGEROUS.This sounds like a classic case of love bombing. I’m sure she’s doing this because she’s convinced they’re close and are basically boyfriend and girlfriend. I’ve realized almost all LV relationships Start like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 03:22 PM |
| 50 | If you stay at home and look after the children, never undersell your contribution. Woman makes a joke video about her husband stressing whilst she thinks about coffee, comments blast her calling her a lazy leech gold diggers. Men think birthing and looking children and the home is not “real” workMen know what it takes but think it’s innate for us to take care of children. When it comes to men, they always know and see our struggles. They just don’t care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 10:57 AM |
| 354 | Bachelor Party And Strip ClubsDo not get couples therapy. It will just make it worse and you’ll end up gas lighting yourself. This isn’t worth saving. You’ve just learned that you and your fiancé do not align morally. If I were you, I would be planning my exit now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 09:05 PM |
| – | What’s so bad about a walking coffee date?Read the handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 02:42 PM |
| – | Saw on Tik TokPosts of videos or screenshots should have a strategy either in the title or comments so they’re not considered low effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 12:07 AM |
| 93 | Men don’t always marry the woman they love the most: a n insight from an OLD convoI also think it’s because they know if they go back to them they’ll be miserable anyway. Most of them want to stay stuck in that fantasy that their ex was the perfect girl. I had an ex that would say his first girlfriend was his first love and when we broke up I asked him why he won’t go back to her since he talked about missing her so much. He had a whole list of reasons why they broke up so in the end he knew she wasn’t perfect. I think he was just coping with the idea that his pornfried mind … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 01:27 AM |
| – | Keep this in mind as you level up!Posts with screenshots must have strategies either in the comments or title to not be considered low effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 09:56 PM |
| 89 | Are we starting to see the slow decline of hookup culture? Sisters are waking up…uh oh scrotes 🤭Me. I once had three men in a friend group fight over me all night at a bar hopping event. I let them buy all my drinks that night but they knew there was no way in hell I was sleeping with any of them. I’ve been over men for years now. They can try and buy their way into my pants all they want but I see right through them. Most of them are scum anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 09:53 PM |
| 20 | "No 50/50, either he pays or I do"This sounds funny but you’ll just end up wasting tons of money. It’s also not much of a power move considering you’re saving him money. He might be embarrassed but now he’ll have extra cash to fool another woman. Just pay your share and leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 03:32 PM |
| 21 | Who do you think is a High Value Woman TV female character?Samantha is nowhere near an HV woman. I loved her character and watched the show too. Even though she had sex purely for pleasure, you could tell she had major attachment issues. She couldn’t get into a healthy relationship dynamic because she had deep insecurities that she wasn’t willing to face and used sex as a coping mechanism. There’s definitely nuance but when it comes to excessive casual sex and hyper-sexuality it speaks to a much deeper issue with the psyche than just choosing to have an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 03:04 PM |
| 247 | Just a reminder that negging is not always going to be so forthcoming, these scrotes get intricate and creative because they are cowardly and hoping not to completely miss out. I mentioned in my bio that I’m a writer as well as my intelligence being clearly communicated block and delete guys.This reads like a narcissist. Also notice the way he says hot girl instead of beautiful woman. He’s infantilizing her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 02:53 PM |
| 71 | Just a reminder that negging is not always going to be so forthcoming, these scrotes get intricate and creative because they are cowardly and hoping not to completely miss out. I mentioned in my bio that I’m a writer as well as my intelligence being clearly communicated block and delete guys.That is honestly the creepiest message. I’m a writer too and hate when men talk about my writing like this🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 02:49 PM |
| – | Confiding in your boyfriend about how other men sometimes do bad things is apparently "crazy". Men shouldn't "stick their dick in crazy", or do, because that's all women are good for, but don't ever have a relationship with themThis post should have a strategy attached in the comments because of the no screenshots/low effort rule | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 08:47 AM |
| – | Man I’m seeing seemingly put forth ZEROOOOO effortPlease read the handbook before posting again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Why would a man gush about my beauty but not ask me out?Hi, this post belongs in our askFDS sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 07:33 AM |
| 73 | LVM and their need to mommy zone you (Wrong & Strong)I agree so much with this. It’s why I work hard to never be seen as a “great girlfriend” by men. The women they praise are women who are doormats and bangmaids because they know it favors them. I always felt bad about myself in the past because my exes would say I’m a terrible girlfriend since I wouldn’t coddle them and let them walk all over me. They would compare me to their exes that were basically doormats. They would also admit they were never in love with these women because they thought t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/21 11:18 AM |
| 139 | Two recent "dating" experiences.You said exactly what I was thinking. The questionnaire was bizarre to me because any man with a brain would know how to answer theses questions. It’s better to just have conversation and have them organically reveal these things over time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 12:27 PM |
| 53 | Straight from the horse's mouth and a reminder why you shouldn't date men you are not attracted to in some way shape or form. Because chances are he's just settling for you, if he could do better he would replace you in a heartbeat🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 10:45 AM |
| 515 | Straight from the horse's mouth and a reminder why you shouldn't date men you are not attracted to in some way shape or form. Because chances are he's just settling for you, if he could do better he would replace you in a heartbeatThe sobering truth is this is a lot of men. They take what they can get 95% of the time because they’re too cowardly and sex driven to have standards. Chasing a man is risky for this reason, especially proposing to one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 10:42 AM |
| 296 | Racist scrote had it comingI always side eye the social justice warrior virtue signalers. Instead of wasting time telling everyone how great they are and how they see everyone as human, they should be out there organizing and volunteering with their mouths shout. So much talk and little action with these types of men. All they want is praise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 01:58 PM |
| 2 | The number one danger in women’s lives is men they knowI’m gonna make sure to be as protected as I can be but won’t blame myself if a perpetrator breaks through. The problem is men, and unfortunately they’ll always be in our lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 01:12 PM |
| 36 | Men just have to ruin their chances, don't they?The guy I fell for the hardest was a man of few words. Found out later he was a LVM but man did his lack of communication save his reputation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:43 AM |
| 11 | Never forget that many men live like this 🙊🧼🧹Do they not realize mops and brooms exist? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:39 AM |
| 4 | The number one danger in women’s lives is men they knowWomen are victims. What’s wrong with acknowledging that? Having a gun also won’t help much if you shoot someone and are sentenced 25+ years for manslaughter. Having every safety precaution in place can definitely help protect you but it isn’t full proof. And this post isn’t advocating for women to stop being vigilant. It’s a discourse on how fucked up it is to be a woman. Fact: more than half of women’s prison populations is abuse victims that retaliated against their abusers/attackers. Get as m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:29 AM |
| 1 | The number one danger in women’s lives is men they knowI totally get what you’re saying and agree. I don’t think we should come out of this with a defeatist mindset that says we shouldn’t protect ourselves at all. I just think this idea that it’s always possible to avoid violence is wrong. Living as a woman is accepting that at some point in your life you will be subject to male violence. A woman who doesn’t isn’t necessarily better at protecting herself, just lucky. I think it’s important to highlight that strangers are just as dangerous as men we … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:22 AM |
| 9 | The number one danger in women’s lives is men they knowBut the problem is that most of these dangers are extremely hard to avoid as well. Many examples of women getting roofied by bar tenders, maintenance men coming in randomly, leasing people using master keys, estranged coworkers with guns, abusive boyfriends or family, you name it. As much as we love to pretend working hard at protecting ourselves is enough, we fail to acknowledge that it only takes one slip up or one man we shouldn’t have trusted to have our lives in danger. I’m all for protecti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 10:14 PM |
| 43 | The number one danger in women’s lives is men they knowThat’s the part that breaks my heart because this victim blaming idea that women can protect themselves is always false. At this point, living without male violence is just luck. There’s no other solution to their depravity because we have to live among them and hope that the men around us with power and access to us aren’t going to harm us one day. What can we really do at this point? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 05:28 AM |
| 166 | The number one danger in women’s lives is men they knowHonestly because that would be the logical thing to do at this point. It’s not hard to come to the conclusion that statistically men are sociopathic. They’re even the greatest danger to themselves. Notice how women are rarely large threats to other people percentage wise. It’s always men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 12:06 AM |
| 8 | A man who loves you should be able to explain what he loves about you SPECIFICALLY. It’s a red flag if he is generic about your qualitiesSame. If a man ever tells me I’m kind or giving I would know they’re not paying attention to me at all. Everyone close to me know I’m a no nonsense type of person who is opinionated and strong headed. I could list a lot more but I reserve my kindness for friends and family. I rarely show these qualities in the initial stages of dating on purpose because men absolutely take advantage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 11:00 PM |
| 49 | A man who loves you should be able to explain what he loves about you SPECIFICALLY. It’s a red flag if he is generic about your qualitiesOne major red flag a lot women look over is this. I see so many men say their SO is kind, caring, giving etc. but all those descriptions are attributed to some form of labor. He has to say he loves that you do x, y, z specific thing that no one else would know because it means he pays attention. I feel bad for all the women that think being called caring and giving is a badge of honor because that just means the men they’re with don’t notice anything else specific about them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 01:31 AM |
| 3 | I think all women should have height requirements actually. 😌Alright girl, since you came to my post and tried to defend a girl trying to pander to the oppressed class that is short men. Whatever. And good for you I have my weekends off from my job😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 04:30 AM |
| 4 | I think all women should have height requirements actually. 😌I’m not trying to “win” anything. If you can’t see the subtext of this post being a “not like other girls” to women who like height in their men then I don’t know what to tell you. And none of my activism includes men. They already have the world in their hands. Short men are only as oppressed as the patriarchy they created and benefit from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 04:03 AM |
| 2 | I think all women should have height requirements actually. 😌Anyways girl I’ll keep “body shaming” men because I genuinely don’t care for them or their fragile feefees. I only date tall hot men. You have fun advocating for them though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 03:48 AM |
| 4 | I think all women should have height requirements actually. 😌It’s exactly the same. Men are always praised and coddled for everything. I don’t care about women having height preferences or not but when women call other women shallow or mean girls for having standards it’s a whole different story. No one here is forcing you to have restrictions. She’s clearly making it seem like tall guys are jerks and short guys are princes to pander to them. And this girl’s whole message is to keep men on dating apps so she can have a chance. The desperation is pretty ob… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 03:31 AM |
| 235 | The most dangerous thing about narcissism is that people think it’s excessive self-love, when it’s actually chronic self-loathing.This is true and why they love bomb. I read an article from a psychologist saying that narcissists love bomb as a form of escapism and actually believe the person they’re love bombing is perfect. As soon as they realize their target is human and has undesirable traits or won’t live up to the fantasies they created in their head they start devaluing because of disappointment and anger. They don’t do it on purpose but because their search for impossible perfection is what gives them validation. So… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 07:23 PM |
| 7 | Queens, we have angered reddit again...😂 The comments are really nice.I’ve had a few of my posts cross posted because I have an apparently inflammatory writing style. I don’t care though because men are too coddled. I feel like it’s my duty to hurt their feelings. 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 06:45 PM |
| 7 | Queens, we have angered reddit again...😂 The comments are really nice.If anything the least desirable women are the ones who need FDS the most. Men have absolutely no standards and will abuse anyone they can get Their hands on. Everyone needs to have standards and boundaries to protect themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 06:43 PM |
| 91 | I surveyed a bunch of men so you don't have to! : Why guys ask those VERY personal questionsYep a lot of people call this trauma bonding, which is a completely different psychological concept. What they’re during is weaponizing men’s stereotype of being cold sociopaths. So many women are used to interacting with avoidant, commitmentphobic men that when a man is suddenly “opening up” and having intimate conversations they mistake this for intimacy. If you ever relay any men that have used this tactic you’ll realize that they rarely disclosed any personal information and some even lie to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 06:35 PM |
| 114 | I surveyed a bunch of men so you don't have to! : Why guys ask those VERY personal questionsI would love this if it didn’t put a target on my head😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Everyone in the comments is congratulating him. I'm so confusedHey OP you should probably block out the sub and usernames. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:26 PM |
| 67 | The OP thought the whole event was "funny." I call it the troubling journey of a Pick Me.She literally could’ve avoided all of this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 11:19 AM |
| 11 | Genuine question about watching pornThere’s the issue with society nowadays. Our society has become so pornified that we can’t even imagine someone masturbating without porn. I masturbate more than once a week without the use of porn. Also most women here care more about how horrific the porn industry is and how it treats women morally. The sex issues are side effect in the back burner for us. I want a man who stays away from porn because it’s an industry that relies on the desperation and subjugation of women and reinforces viole… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 03:25 PM |
| 49 | I think all women should have height requirements actually. 😌She fails to realize there’re nice tall guys every where. No need to settle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:31 PM |
| 34 | I think all women should have height requirements actually. 😌I can tell she’s desperate because she’s literally begging these men to stay on OLD because she’s so scared us mean girls are gonna scare them off and she won’t have men to audition for🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:30 PM |
| 46 | I think all women should have height requirements actually. 😌Lol I’m actually unashamedly one of those girls that won’t date men who aren’t at least 5’11”. I’m 4’11” but if I’m going to procreate, I’m going to procreate with a man that will ensure my kids are hopefully tall but at least average height. Don’t really care if people judge me for that preference any more because most people are settling and miserable anyway. Plus I rarely meet women who have strict height requirements. When men complain about women wanting tall men they’re complaining that ex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:21 PM |
| 403 | I think all women should have height requirements actually. 😌I wanna see a post from a man saying they don’t care about weight since that’s what most of them are obsessed with on women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 12:00 PM |
| 42 | A case study on why we don’t ask men on dates! Found on a thread about a woman asking for a man’s number.Yep this is passive reciprocation to the T. Many married men are in this position because it’s better than being single in their eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 10:43 PM |
| 46 | After hearing about savanna talking about long ass paragraph copy paste messages on the podcastI’m sorry but I read absolutely none of that… I need a nap now🤧 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:25 AM |
| 268 | This just in ladies, lazy proposals are the pinnacle of romance and just the best!I mean this with all honesty… I would rather die | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:23 AM |
| 8 | What's up with the dislike towards MBTI?Yeah unfortunately almost everything, especially in psychology, has ties to racism. Don’t know how to escape it honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 06:13 PM |
| 14 | What's up with the dislike towards MBTI?Also the Myers Briggs sisters are well documented racists so ethically I can’t support🤧 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 06:11 PM |
| 10 | What's up with the dislike towards MBTI?Yes and it’s also why most men are reported as Ts and Js in their MBTIs. That’s what’s considered masculine so of course they’ll answer their tests in a way where the outcome of their personality is that they are more rational and logical. Instead of focusing on the why of these findings people individualize them taking away a much bigger conversation on how society influences how we perceive men and women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 04:24 PM |
| 19 | What's up with the dislike towards MBTI?Exactly! I did psychology for a year during undergrad before switching and learned that self-reporting also isn’t a concrete way to do studies/analyze individuals because there can be bias and people tend to agree more with good qualities versus bad. There’s no way to know someone’s true personality because they might think they’re agreeable and conscientious but those that know them will say not so because perspective matters. I think personality tests can be hard to do because of that alone. P… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 02:28 PM |
| 73 | What's up with the dislike towards MBTI?I might be going against the grain here but the MBTI is not recognized in the psychology community. While I used to love the idea, I did some thorough research and learned that licensed psychologists see this the same way they see astrology. This is because in a study, participants results would vary depending on how they felt at that point in time. It wasn’t concrete and highly based on temporal individual determination of character. I had a similar experience where I had been an INFP for years… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 11:32 AM |
| 22 | She’s still with him and is defending him in the comments 🤨🤨Apparently they almost got divorced multiple times in the past 5 years🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 05:08 AM |
| 4 | Do NOT listen to men when they say richer men don’t care about your educational background or job statusOkay I realize the first part is wrong but my post is about hypergamy. I’m not sure where I said being rich meant being decent. I plan on marrying up. My only prospects are men who make money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 08:27 PM |
| 46 | This is why even a low value man like Gaston doesn’t like pickme behavior 😂😂Lmaooo not dignity. Love when men in media tell on themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 09:04 PM |
| 5 | Guy Shows A Provider Mentality. Some Women are Like "Yes, DO It!" Other Comments Show a PickMe Deprived Mentality - Ladies, Learn to Embrace Being SpoiledSaving this to manifest✨🙏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 09:04 PM |
| 10 | Guy Shows A Provider Mentality. Some Women are Like "Yes, DO It!" Other Comments Show a PickMe Deprived Mentality - Ladies, Learn to Embrace Being SpoiledQTNA😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 09:02 PM |
| 20 | Do NOT listen to men when they say richer men don’t care about your educational background or job statusAbsolutely all of this it’s an unfortunate reality which I wish wasn’t true. I grew up poor when I was really young because my father was still going through residency but once he got his MD license our lives changed drastically. Going through that made financial stability extremely important for me in life and partnership. It’s why I have no issues with hypergamy because I’ve seen how children in poorer families are set back and don’t want that for my future children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 05:55 PM |
| 6 | Do NOT listen to men when they say richer men don’t care about your educational background or job statusI’ve also heard tumblr is a good place to look for this type of content through hashtags as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 05:49 PM |
| 27 | Do NOT listen to men when they say richer men don’t care about your educational background or job statusI would say all of your qualities qualify in what I’m talking about and I would be very impressed if I was a man. Those kinds of men tend to be narcissistic and unfortunately doctors and lawyers are more like to have this attitude. My mom is very artistically inclined and similar to you in her accomplishments even though she does have a degree and while my dad is a doctor, he respects and values her artistic intellect which was also passed down to one of my sisters. Don’t think it’s not possible… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 05:33 PM |
| 67 | Do NOT listen to men when they say richer men don’t care about your educational background or job statusThat’s not an hv man and a degree doesn’t mean ambition or intellect. There’s other ways to gain financial independence like certifications or trade schooling. That man was just a piece of shit who was negging you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 05:13 PM |
| 19 | Do NOT listen to men when they say richer men don’t care about your educational background or job statusI like the Diabla sub. It has a few posts on hypergamy but for the most part I use real life experience. Because of my family I’ve grown up around wealthier families and have seen both lv and hv high earners/providers and how they think and operate. I do like Anna Bey in terms of fashion advice and demeanor despite her other problematic takes. You can search up hypergamy on YouTube. There’s tons of women with channels focused on this but be careful not to follow women who focus too much on femin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 05:10 PM |
| 42 | Do NOT listen to men when they say richer men don’t care about your educational background or job statusYes that is true unfortunately which is why I’m preparing to not find the type of man that I’m looking for. I don’t want to marry into a notoriously rich family because I wouldn’t want to live in that kind of dynamic but I do think ambitious men that are working on being doctors, entrepreneurs, lawyers etc. can have the capacity to get to that level of status while also looking for the same in their partners. My dad came from a very poor family and now he is considered upper class on his salary … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 04:58 PM |
| 68 | Do NOT listen to men when they say richer men don’t care about your educational background or job statusThanks for adding the ETA because I feel like people refuse to live in reality. Obviously not all rich men are HV but high earning men are very intentional. It’s also why they end up in such high earning positions. I’m not saying all of us should be going for CEOs and CFOs but if your goal is dating high earners (150k being on the lower spectrum) be aware of these dynamics so you’re not chasing something unattainable. Some women think being beautiful is enough but that’s not and will never be th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 04:52 PM |
| 86 | Do NOT listen to men when they say richer men don’t care about your educational background or job statusYes I know. For the newbies, money doesn’t mean hv. But my dad is a high earning HVM with similar men as friends. The lv rich men who are most likely new money or abusive tend to be the ones that don’t care about these qualities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 04:40 PM |
| 13 | Do NOT listen to men when they say richer men don’t care about your educational background or job statusI understand where you’re coming from but I don’t think having a bachelor’s or masters is the main point of my post. There’s other ways to become financially independent. I’ve met many intellectual people who didn’t have a conventional formal background. My main point is having ambition and intellect. Gaining these thing doesn’t mean working yourself to death. I’m currently doing a full time internship, taking IT classes, and working on an IT certification. I get enough sleep and have time to re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 04:33 PM |
| 48 | Do NOT listen to men when they say richer men don’t care about your educational background or job statusI don’t think having an education means going to an Ivy League and studying to death. I think it means being well read, well traveled, and being aware of the world around you. Education is also very important. I got my degree for me and am working on another one because I want to be earning six figures by the time I turn 30 as well as having solid investments and assets under my name. If that means working a little harder while I’m currently in my early twenties then I’m willing to sacrifice tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 04:19 PM |
| 28 | Do NOT listen to men when they say richer men don’t care about your educational background or job statusExactly. We talk all the time about qualities that we expect HVM to have but they also have expectations. This doesn’t mean become a pickme and try and fit a specific archetype to get one, but realize that high quality people want high quality partners. As someone who wants marriage and children, I take my partner’s intellect and ambition very seriously and expect them to have the same expectations because I want my children to have the best in life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 04:10 PM |
| 92 | Do NOT listen to men when they say richer men don’t care about your educational background or job statusYes! I knew a woman that was upper class who went in on the dynamics in the upper class world and how you’re judged severely if you don’t have an advanced degree. It’s normal for women in these settings to have PhDs because it shows that they are worldly and have the time and privilege of getting this kind of education. Most people don’t realize how hard it is to actually get into these circles and be taken seriously. It’s also why certain types of new money are stigmatized (i.e. musicians/artis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 04:06 PM |
| 156 | Do NOT listen to men when they say richer men don’t care about your educational background or job statusIt’s a lie LVM sell so that a) women don’t become bigger competition in the educational/working sphere and b) creates vulnerable women that rely on partnerships to be financially stable. I’ve never met an hv man that didn’t have a partner that was just as smart and ambitious as him. Doesn’t mean you have to go to an Ivy League and get a PhD but being well read and knowing what’s going on around the world goes a long way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 03:40 PM |
| 59 | Men really out here thinking having a wife is being "romance scammed" in a thread about a "girl" on bumble potentially robbing a guy.The last sentence really did me in. He’s only calling it a scam because he a transactional 50/50 scrote. I still dying at how he’s sad for his brother being married to a woman he loves?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 06:33 PM |
| 38 | Women being more likely to be killed by a romantic partner or a family member than anyone else was one the worst facts I found out. Nothing is more heartbreaking than knowing you’re more at danger in your home than outsideI just read through that post and OP is based af. All the men being stupid about not going on a date after being lightly ghosted for more than a day are stupid. They know they wouldn’t show up in that situation either but because OP made it clear that was a standard she held they immediately started fighting. Any semblance of boundaries to them is blasphemy because they feel entitled to any and all women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 04:39 PM |
| 152 | “Why Sex-Positive Feminism is Falling out of Fashion”That’s the thing about liberal feminism that bothers me so much. It’s so centered around being like men instead of being better than men. Men literally fuck children and animals. Why on god’s green earth would we want to be like that? It’s so reductionist and most liberal feminists don’t critically think about anything. They just see crass messaging and parrot it like sheep. No thoughts, head empty. It’s truly sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 03:22 PM |
| 84 | Guys know that the problem is not purely their looksYep it’s always projection. They say women will do anything for Chads and have no boundaries and grovel for them when that is exactly what they do when they have even a sniff at a super attractive woman. Men “simp” in private all the time. Why else do we all have crazy DM stories? Looks is all they care about because they don’t see us as human. They can’t imagine us turning down an attractive man because we actually care about the character of the people we interact with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 03:17 PM |
| 74 | Women being more likely to be killed by a romantic partner or a family member than anyone else was one the worst facts I found out. Nothing is more heartbreaking than knowing you’re more at danger in your home than outsideIt’s crazy how much of the culture surrounding relationships and dating has changed in just a decade. I’m an older Gen Z so when I was a preteen/teen it was normal to praise men for doing the bare minimum and pickme behavior was rarely criticized if at all. Now I see so many women waking up to the reality of modern men/relationships and conversations around dumping men immediately for red flags. I’m scared but also hopeful for the future generation of girls because they are learning ways to cope… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 02:57 PM |
| 41 | Integrity is the pinnacle of being high valueI always judge people by how they act when they think no one is looking. That’s one thing about narcissistic/abusive people that you can personally pinpoint. If they’re often dishonest about small things they definitely lack integrity. I have a very hard time being dishonest because I get riddled with guilt. I only ever do so with men because of survival. I don’t trust people that can easily lie/manipulate with ease. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 02:50 PM |
| 43 | Integrity is the pinnacle of being high valueSooo many men are cowards. I couldn’t pinpoint why I lost attraction to my exes so easily and had to force my love for them. I recently realized it’s because all except one were cowards. The men who laugh at sexist/misogynistic jokes are cowards to me. The ones that don’t call out shitty behavior from their peers are cowards. The ones that stay in cahoots with abusive/problematic people because of peer pressure are cowards. The list could go on and on but I know I’m not a coward because I do thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 02:46 PM |
| 45 | Integrity is the pinnacle of being high valueExactly. That’s also a tiny red flag that a lot of people overlook. The good people in my life always feel bad if they don’t keep up a promise. They’ll be overly apologetic and make up for it in some way. The sleazy people will always make excuses, leave it unacknowledged or blame shift. The little things always matter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 02:18 PM |
| 17 | Look at how normalized it is to make ""jokes"" like this...1k upvotes 🤢I ended up on a tiktok live last night from a good looking “Christian” guy with an obviously teenage fan base and he was saying he wanted to visit different cities but he can’t stay with his fans because he’s afraid of “false allegations” I immediately clocked out and prayed to God that no teenage girl would get near him. No healthy minded man would think like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 12:27 PM |
| 468 | Women being more likely to be killed by a romantic partner or a family member than anyone else was one the worst facts I found out. Nothing is more heartbreaking than knowing you’re more at danger in your home than outsideAnd people think we’re being dramatic for having such high standards for the people in our lives🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 11:26 AM |
| 116 | I don’t really have words for this one.Lol I thought I read that wrong too! You would have to be unemployed to work out that often. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 01:57 AM |
| 58 | I don’t really have words for this one.That definitely wasn’t the ending I was expecting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 01:55 AM |
| 68 | What happens when a forever girlfriend finally gets married.Ugh this made my heart ache. Getting “picked” in the end is never worth it because you have to lose yourself in the process. I hope they don’t have kids or bring them into this dynamic in the future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 08:26 PM |
| 101 | Thinking about being married to any of my exes fuels my single hood🤢Because most men need a constant supply of validation so when something doesn’t workout, they go to every backup they have in mind and hope for the best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 07:45 PM |
| 103 | Thinking about being married to any of my exes fuels my single hood🤢That’s true. Women are a lot better at moving on than men. We do have lost loves but we’re still able to date and marry other men without taking out our past grievances on our partners. I feel like men are generally escapist because so many will hyper focus on one ex that they didn’t even like when they were with them. And instead of moving on and treating future partners correctly they choose to stay in the past and obsess over this made up fantasy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 03:24 PM |
| 403 | Thinking about being married to any of my exes fuels my single hood🤢The only men I thought got away were the ones who didn’t stay long enough to see the dodged bullet. Since men always come back, they always gave me the chance to be thankful that they got away. I have absolutely no regrets and men don’t realize how terrible they are as a class. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 03:16 PM |
| 61 | Another series of men projecting Ep. 124842: Women using men for free foodIt’s actually disgusting that they think our intimacy is worth a cheap dinner at Apple Bees or a few cheap drinks. How low do they think we are that we have to give up our time and safety just because they bought us one meal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 05:38 PM |
| 219 | Another series of men projecting Ep. 124842: Women using men for free foodIt’s so interesting too because they’re basically admitting they would continue to date someone they don’t like for the price of $15 dollars meals. They’re so cheap and easy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 03:30 PM |
| 215 | Another series of men projecting Ep. 124842: Women using men for free foodExactly. They’re so afraid of being used because they know they use us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 03:27 PM |
| 143 | Don’t save his number in your phone.I don’t remember half the men I’ve dated in the past because I never saved their numbers. Only boyfriends get that privilege. If you want to be unattached, you have to be unattached in every way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 07:49 PM |
| 53 | Avoid using OLD to meet menI had been on OLD for years and it’s truly a cesspit. Men don’t take it seriously at all and see women on there as easy and free sex. The only reasonable men I’ve met hated it and shortly deleted their profiles right after. The type of men who love OLD love it because it allows them to have more options than they would irl. I’ve only met a handful of normal/not socially awkward men online out of probably 40ish first dates. It’s such a waste of time. If he can’t meet people in person, there’s a r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 06:47 PM |
| 44 | Are these kind of posts actually empowering?I think what you’re looking for is Female Level Up Strategy. Unfortunately, dating men means being exposed to the worst behavior and warning other women who might not know of these tactics or behaviors yet. While there are a lot of posts that focus on male depravity, they are important conversations to have because many recovering pickmes have a hard time accepting men’s true nature. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 05:28 PM |
| 19 | In every interaction with a man, you should be asking yourself "what do I get out of this?"Yes the guy I dated didn’t look super wealthy but he dressed very well, on trend, and had a nice watch so you could see slight money signifiers. He was also European so culturally I guess the ostentatious thing wasn’t normal for him either. Money talk didn’t really happen for a while and he was an interior designer so I thought he was under a 6 figure salary. The men who show off their cars and wear jewelry and obvious name brands are either tacky, compensating or both. When I see super nice car… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 01:04 AM |
| 44 | In every interaction with a man, you should be asking yourself "what do I get out of this?"Oh wow that’s so true. I dated an heir earlier this year and it took forever for him to admit that his family was very rich. He also tried to act like it was normal that he could afford to pay front row tickets to sports games without really bragging. All these things just flowed into conversations naturally and I was surprise by how much his family was actually worth after getting to know him. He also spent money on me like it was nothing. You’re right that men from money don’t feel the need to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 08:22 PM |
| 133 | In every interaction with a man, you should be asking yourself "what do I get out of this?"The fear of being seen as transactional is what keeps a lot of women in shit relationships where they aren’t allowed to ask for anything. I see this all the time when the topic of proposals and rings shows up. I’m unabashedly a gold digger now and I don’t care. I’ve seen and been in relationships where the man takes, takes, takes. I’ve had enough. Now I want to be the princess/queen in the relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 07:29 PM |
| 30 | In every interaction with a man, you should be asking yourself "what do I get out of this?"I’m so glad you mentioned the investment thing. That’s one area I’m not well versed in and will definitely be taking a course so I won’t be lied to or manipulated easily. Understanding scrote talk is essential. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 07:22 PM |
| 13 | What YOU do wrongExactly and it’s also why LVM go for the meek, insecure woman who covers her body. They can tell if you’re insecure on either spectrum because they’re predators. The only way you can protect yourself is just being sure of your self and exuding confidence but even then, they’ll still try, but at least you’ll have protection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 01:22 PM |
| 45 | What YOU do wrongEven the word classy has a specific connotation tied to a lot of problematic isms. I think women should present themselves how they want because you attract everything as a woman. And for the women dressing a certain way because of trauma, let them get through it instead of shaming. Modesty is a patriarchal model that won’t save women from being treated like second class humans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:36 PM |
| 188 | College student draws up 17-page CONTRACT with her boyfriendI would rather scoot my vagina over hot concrete than write up a 17 page contract for a man I’m not even married to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 12:16 AM |
| 1 | His ex is 11 years younger, and other red flagsYou made it seem like you were going on a date with a stranger which is why there is so much confusion. The background is actually important because now the context makes a lot more sense. Sorry if I seemed harsh but if you had added that detail in your story, people wouldn’t be asking so many questions and making assumptions. It was also an important detail that you were friends with this man and knew him for a long time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 03:44 PM |
| 39 | “One third of hookups ends up in marriage.”I only ever see these people pop up on the internet to defend themselves when people advise other people to wait to have sex while getting to know someone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 03:14 PM |
| 7 | His ex is 11 years younger, and other red flagsHonestly the standards she failed to uphold are not that hard to uphold. You don’t go to strangers houses for your own safety. Whatever to the coffee date part but FDS is not about coddling whatsoever. I don’t understand why people want us to be punching bags that just accept everyone when the message is clearly tough love. There’s nothing wrong with what Phoenix said. OP needs to see how terrible her decisions were from a pragmatic point of view. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 11:06 AM |
| 8 | I feel like this needs to be said, but let’s stop praising men for doing the bare minimumI actually do think this is extraordinary behavior and I’m glad you got to experience this. Just remember that any slip ups are unacceptable and deserve an immediate block and delete. I hope he consistently continues to show you this kindness because every woman deserves this and more. I’m hoping for the best❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 02:57 AM |
| 40 | BARE MINIMUM: The LEAST You Should AcceptLol I hate that you’re being downvoted for saying this. Men and women DO NOT handle mental health the same way. Just go through the horror stories on this sub and you’ll see. I wish we stopped being so sympathetic and started being realistic and pragmatic. Until men collectively get over their ego issues, willingly being with a man who has mental health issues will always be a gamble. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 12:49 AM |
| 8 | I feel like this needs to be said, but let’s stop praising men for doing the bare minimumThat’s the reason I stayed with my exes so long. At the time I thought they were worth it but I was slowly eroding overtime. Now that I have clarity of mind, I see that they were just doing the bare minimum and I thought I needed to hold on to that because other men don’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 12:44 AM |
| 106 | BARE MINIMUM: The LEAST You Should AcceptThis is a great list and a good example of what to expect in a relationship. Tired of all the man worship here lately😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 10:09 PM |
| 31 | I feel like this needs to be said, but let’s stop praising men for doing the bare minimumLol I would’ve said “Anyway, my type is tall, fit men with fat wallets.” But honestly it’s way too easy to be seen as a good guy. Just be fake deep and hide your misogyny and next thing you know, you’ll be the best thing since sliced bread. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 08:24 PM |
| 62 | I feel like this needs to be said, but let’s stop praising men for doing the bare minimumNo that’s too much effort 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 08:04 PM |
| 107 | I feel like this needs to be said, but let’s stop praising men for doing the bare minimumI’m tired of seeing women praise men for being active fathers and doing basic chores/gestures. Like why?? That’s what every adult is expected to do. We should be putting that energy into shaming the men that aren’t up to par instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 07:43 PM |
| 4 | Unfortunate Date AnalysisOmg I love this response I definitely wanna see how they would react🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 06:14 PM |
| 34 | I feel like this needs to be said, but let’s stop praising men for doing the bare minimumThat’s why it’s so important to have a good understanding of what the bare minimum is. Anything tastes good when you’re starving. I wrote a list of expectations I have in a healthy relationship so I know when someone is going above and beyond. The things on my list I wouldn’t praise a man for doing because I think they get praised for doing the most mediocre things too often. Selective praise is crucial. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 06:03 PM |
| 67 | I feel like this needs to be said, but let’s stop praising men for doing the bare minimumYes. I love to see success stories because it means we’re not crazy and these men do exist, but some of these stories border on the libfem approach. Like no your husband doesn’t deserve praise for raising his children or your boyfriend isn’t amazing for cooking half the time. That should be an expectation in a relationship with two equals. I see extraordinary behavior as someone going out of their way to take care of you in a way that most people can’t or haven’t. Nice gestures are nice, but the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 05:50 PM |
| 106 | I feel like this needs to be said, but let’s stop praising men for doing the bare minimumExactly. I know so many women who are attentive, caring, hardworking, and build up everyone around them. That’s normal for us and you never see men praise us for that so why do we do it for men? That behavior should be normal, but men are such sociopaths that when they do the simplest things we think he should be the next president of the United States. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 05:29 PM |
| 19 | Y’all, he put a stuffed animal on me.I agree with you. We not to stop praising men for being decent human beings. It just normalized lv behavior even more IMO 🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 04:43 PM |
| 153 | Oh woe is men!Lmao exactly. They were so used being handed jobs and coddled. Now they have a shocked Pikachu face because they have to compete with minorities and there’re laws against nepotism and discrimination. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 01:01 PM |
| 6 | Following hot girls on instagram - red flag?Why would the percent matter? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 12:47 PM |
| 48 | Unfortunate Date AnalysisI hope you mean cafe as in lunch and not coffee because that was the first red flag I saw in this write up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 11:20 AM |
| 113 | "All ages considered!"I hope this “future woman” robs him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 03:55 PM |
| 221 | "All ages considered!"I was gonna ask this exact question because why use the image of a woman?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 03:45 PM |
| 19 | 20 Things to Think About When Dating a Man Who Games 🎮Yeah I’m never dating a gamer ever again. The men that were more hv aligned always had hobbies that included fitness and adventure. I’d rather have that than vet a man’s gaming habit. Playing every once in a while (once or twice a month maybe) is fine but if it’s a habit it’s a no for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 06:44 PM |
| 114 | Sad but not brokenI know you want to believe this guy is HV but he is not. He wouldn’t have started something with you knowing he can’t commit if he was. Move on knowing that he was hoping you would stay without commitment and continue casually seeing you while entertaining other women. Just because he says one thing doesn’t mean it’s true, men love white lies. Him telling you something doesn’t mean it’s true. Don’t think you lost out on anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 12:16 PM |
| 51 | Study founds that cohabitation between a pre-martial couple brings short-term benefits but is more associate with divorce in the long-term.I know so many couples that moved in together and the girlfriend in the situation was super excited thinking it meant they were closer to marriage. Every time, the boyfriend would make excuses at the 1-2 year mark. Suddenly they’re moving from apartment to apartment, lease to lease and still no sign of a ring. No matter what we think, we’re never the exception. I’ve rarely met couples that are successful and not in the forever girlfriend territory that move in together before engagement/marriage… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 08:57 PM |
| 135 | Why did Disney and society at large lie to us about the true nature of most men?True love as a concept is honestly the biggest con and form of propaganda for heterosexual relations. It’s primes women and girls to believe that love conquers all and that abusive dynamics are normal. I can’t even think of one Disney fairytale that doesn’t include some form of coercion or manipulation. We’re taught that it’s okay if a man lies to you or kisses you without consent because love conquers all right? It’s honestly why when I decide to have children I’ll never let them touch older Di… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 08:50 PM |
| 4 | If you have a high value mom, always go to her for adviceSame here. I definitely don’t trust the police to be fair and just in their approval process and I’ve even heard they have an IQ cap so they don’t even want people who are too smart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 07:34 PM |
| 7 | If you have a high value mom, always go to her for adviceThat’s what I was thinking. I wouldn’t be surprised if it was discrimination because the men I’ve seen allowed in the police academy have had worse problems. They also don’t take those health screenings seriously. I’ve had male friends say they would consider police work as a last resort because it’s not hard at all to get into the academy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 06:55 PM |
| 9 | If you have a high value mom, always go to her for adviceI get it and that’s why I clarified the difference between jobs that are boring aka accounting versus toxic careers in general. I’m glad you’re out of that situation now, but yes to me, sustaining a lifestyle that’ll make me happy is important as long as my job is a little more than bearable. I don’t need a job that’s super stimulating because it’s just a job at the end of the day, I don’t want it to be my life. I very much believe in doing what I need to do and clocking out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 04:01 PM |
| 17 | If you have a high value mom, always go to her for adviceI guess we’ll just have to agree to disagree because I think money is very interconnected with mental health when living in a capitalistic society. I’d rather have a boring office job making twice as much because at least I could afford luxuries that can make me happy. That doesn’t mean staying in toxic work environments but that just means moving to a different company/department if the line of work isn’t inherently stressful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 03:47 PM |
| 23 | If you have a high value mom, always go to her for adviceIn the US its very easy to be a cop. You don’t even need a degree and most don’t care about physical fitness as much as we want to believe. I’ve seen the most out of shape cops who are lazy and could careless about protecting their communities and avoiding doing paperwork. It’s not a very prestigious line of work. And on the mental health note, making significantly less, on the poverty line with a job more stressful physically and mentally than an office job, will effect your mental health much … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 03:35 PM |
| 105 | Can we talk about how being with a porn addict seriously impacts a woman’s psyche, body, and life?TW: Suicide attempt My second boyfriend was a porn addict. He was very misogynistic but hid it with his leftist/feminist identity. At first I thought I didn’t care about porn as long as we still had sex but 3 months into our relationship, we were already having sex once a week. He was 21 so it wasn’t an issue with age. Soon I realized he had a problem because he wasn’t tactful about the amount of times he would masturbate everyday. He did it 7 times one day and admitted to me that he was feeling… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 03:07 PM |
| 10 | Yet more proof high value ≠ high earnerYou’ll probably have to vet a lot harder than the average woman because men are gold diggers. I personally wouldn’t really think of marriage if I was making more than a million a year for example, but I don’t think being partnered with a man that makes less than you is bad in that situation as long as you aren’t going to be legally obligated to him in some way if you end up breaking up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 09:17 PM |
| 19 | Leveling up this weekI’m going to start studying for an IT certification in cloud services. I also get to meet some software developers that my mentor connected me to during my internship last week so I’ll get to meet people who could potentially help me get into software development. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 09:01 PM |
| 217 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?It’s the same experience for me girl. I have no issue getting likes, matches, and dates on OLD but the apps that let you see the men that like you make me feel disgusting lol. I deleted hinge when I kept getting the ugliest, brokest men showing up in my likes. Why do they have so much audacity? And if they do match with someone who’s their looks match, they’ll offer something low effort thinking they’re too good for her and blame the algorithm when they’re just too ugly, delusional and low effor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 07:31 PM |
| 40 | Yet more proof high value ≠ high earnerOf course high value does not equal high earner but one major tenant of FDS is only dating financially stable men. That means never considering men who make less than you because men cannot handle the ego bruise of not being the breadwinner and taking the chance because you believe he’s an HVM is not enough. Always, always, always date men who either make the same or more than you. Edit: also LVM exist in every field. I’m in tech and the types of men I’ve met haven’t been very different from the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 07:18 PM |
| 52 | Rewatching Parks & Rec for the first time in years and WOWWW Chris Pratt's Andy is low-value af 😳He literally went and still goes to a church that supports gay conversion programs but okay miss girl. Glad you’ve known a famous LVM for decades or whatever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 06:14 PM |
| 39 | Rewatching Parks & Rec for the first time in years and WOWWW Chris Pratt's Andy is low-value af 😳Just know you’re defending a homophobic trump supporter right now and 2 years is moving on quickly after a marriage with multiple children that lasted over a decade. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 06:11 PM |
| 152 | Rewatching Parks & Rec for the first time in years and WOWWW Chris Pratt's Andy is low-value af 😳He’s a trump supporter and goes to a homophobic church. He also remarried really quickly after his divorce with some famous actress whose name I’ve forgotten. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 05:40 PM |
| 50 | Why you shouldn’t go back to OLD.Barely. I live in a metropolitan area of 1 million people and I used to match maybe 5-10 new people with every new profile after deleting then coming back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 04:19 PM |
| 8 | My first experience with a phone screen, FDS-style.Yeah it’s the same scenario for me. I was on OLD for about 3 years on and off (between relationships) and I can only think of two dates that were truly horrible and even then they weren’t so bad that I wanted to escape. The best dates were always the most high effort and we talked for a while before the actual date and were excited for the date. Women are starting to take the approach LVM have which is dating is a numbers game when the focus should be on the quality of the people your meeting an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 04:31 PM |
| 3 | My first experience with a phone screen, FDS-style.I mean for me it was 5/10 but I’m really picky because I don’t like to waste my time. Even the date offers I would get I would reject some if I didn’t think I’d find the guy attractive in real life or if the venue was subpar. It’s more about quality than quantity to me because HVM are rare to begin with (especially on OLD which is why I don’t use it anymore) but if you’re looking to go on as many dates as possible than yeah accepting everything seems reasonable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 04:23 PM |
| 4 | My first experience with a phone screen, FDS-style.Nothing outside of interest really. If a guy was wanting to meet right away it would always be low effort date offers. Sometimes dinner but rarely. If a guy was asking me questions and we had a solid conversation for at least 48 hours, 9/10 it would be a dinner offer. It truly just depends on their intentions with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 04:08 PM |
| 4 | My first experience with a phone screen, FDS-style.I’m glad you saw point of view and that’s not too high of an expectation at all. When I still used OLD I would get dinner offers pretty often and I’m in my early twenties. I would think older men would have more game than the broke men in my age group lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 03:36 PM |
| 39 | My first experience with a phone screen, FDS-style.The justification is always about feeling the need to escape but why would you want to go on a date with a man you feel you need to escape from anyway? Dates should be fun not a prison sentence. Also the phone call/FaceTime tells you everything you need to know so no need for a coffee date after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 02:29 PM |
| 30 | Just wonderingIt’s an internet way of saying what you said was spot on lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 01:01 PM |
| 16 | My first experience with a phone screen, FDS-style.The girl below is absolutely right about the phone screen and coffee date thing and also sounds like you see dating as more of a chore than an opportunity to go on a nice date and be treated well by a man you’re attracted to. No date should feel like a business meeting and there are rarely any coffee places that have a romantic atmosphere. You shouldn’t be thinking about ways to escape and trudging through a 30 minute date. That’s what vetting is meant to avoid. Treating dating like an assault c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 12:38 PM |
| 98 | They aren’t even hiding the fact that they want to be babied into adulthood. 🚩MOMMY ISSUES🚩I hate this kind of content because it’s like honey to pickmes. Most men don’t actually like or are attracted the qualities they praise in these types of posts. They just want to exploit them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 10:13 PM |
| 254 | Ah, the classic “Passive Reciprocation”This is why men on Reddit say they love being approached and women making the first move. It’s not because they find it more attractive but because it requires much less effort and manipulation. They also place all the burden on you since you did the asking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 09:32 PM |
| 57 | Scrote tried justifying sex work to me on Reddit.It’s because they know exactly how other men feel about these women and they wouldn’t want to be on the other end of those thoughts. Sex work to them is just about using and abusing women because it’s their right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 08:58 PM |
| 49 | 🟢 Green Flag: He treats you like the stranger you are 🟢I hate go with the flow culture so much because it contradicts everything society tells women. Somehow we’re supposed to be careful because you can’t trust men and if you’re not you deserve to be violated. At the same time, if we’re too selective, we’re no fun and prudes. Any man that thinks this way does not believe in women’s safety and thinks they are entitled to our trust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 06:22 PM |
| 32 | I’m really curious to know..I would say stay away from men older than 20 to my 18 year old self. Also to have standards and expectations for everyone in your life. It’s better to be alone then feel lonely while surrounded by people | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:23 PM |
| 21 | I love you FDS!!I’m so glad you found us and you’re away from him now. It’s only up from here!🎉❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:21 PM |
| 31 | Finally got the guts to break off my 6 month situationshipUgh firemen are the worst. They barely make any money so most are cheap and they’re the bike seats of their community because they know women love men in uniform or whatever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:19 PM |
| 51 | My HV dad uses an FDS like approach at workNo problem and yeah it’s annoying to see how much hypocrisy and misogyny is rampant in our lives. Even on Reddit you see it in dating forums. If a woman has a bf that’s clearly a porn addict or has some major red flag of a trait, they’re always told to communicate while for men they say dump her and have some standards. It’s jarring really but I’d rather be called a bitch than live a miserable life for some scrote’s approval. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:09 PM |
| 40 | My HV dad uses an FDS like approach at workYes and that’s one thing my dad always taught me. If something is too hard but not benefiting you in any way, quit now. Quitting later will only drain and stress you unnecessarily. He never understood the obsession with suffering that American workers have because he observed pretty quickly that they never get rewarded for it. This definitely applies to relationships too because women are always told that suffering through it will result in something and in reality it never does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:03 PM |
| 202 | 🟢 Green Flag: He treats you like the stranger you are 🟢Love this because a lot of men like to treat you like you’ve been dating for years to convince you you have a spark. Of course flirting is fun and being love bombed feels amazing but a man that treats you this way lacks boundaries from the get go. Real HVM would be careful around new people, just like us, because they wouldn’t want them to get the wrong impression or lead anyone on. People with healthy boundaries always treat strangers like strangers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 02:27 PM |
| 91 | My HV dad uses an FDS like approach at workThank you! I’m very grateful to have him in my life. We always have great intellectual conversations because he treats me like a human being and is very interested in my life and goals. I wish every woman finds a man like that in their lives because it’s makes it very hard to settle in all your relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 01:56 PM |
| 43 | What to do when you see a Pickmeisha receiving terrible advice on other dating subsI’ve seen this a lot in the subs that can’t be mentioned. They either sound like an extreme pickme who revolves their entire lives around male approval or extremely cringey and naive. I remember a post I saw the other day of a woman asking about good blow jobs and how to do them and it was worded so weird. Of course it got awards but definitely felt like a male larper. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 11:27 AM |
| 21 | [deleted by user]It’s been two years since my last relationship and I’ve also been celibate in that time. I’m so glad I took this time to myself because I see my mistakes so clearly now. I remember I thought I was basically in love with one of my exes because I thought he was so great. Now I throw up a little thinking about all the ways I was a pickme for a man who did the bare minimum. I’m glad I can say if I met any of my exes now, we wouldn’t last past the first date. That’s growth and it only came because I’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 11:23 AM |
| 128 | What Experts Know About Men Who RapeI’m not surprised by this summary and am scared for the next generation because porn probably makes this attitude ten times worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 01:38 PM |
| 131 | SeXual SeLecTiOn is A hAte CriMe aGainSt mEnThey hate FDS because we’re finally taking their advice🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 01:53 AM |
| 4 | Men benefit from women romanticizing marriage through the lens of unconditional loveThis explains why I’ve always hated the use of love as justification. It’s always felt so skeevy and manipulative because men rarely stay in challenging situations because of love. They also don’t marry for love either. It’s always women that do that. They let us use emotions to make terrible illogical decisions because how else could they get their claws in us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 12:37 AM |
| 5 | Why are Jordan Peterson’s views problematic to FDS?FDS does not support Jordan Peterson libfem or not because he believes in forced monogamy and is the epitome of a misogynist. If you read any of the comments on this thread you would see that. His advice is only good to these men because his followers are too stupid and inept to have the common sense to wash themselves and act like adults. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Men benefit from women romanticizing marriage through the lens of unconditional loveI’m so sorry to here that but I’m glad you’re getting the ring of your dreams. I also want an emerald ring! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Men benefit from women romanticizing marriage through the lens of unconditional loveThank you!❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 12:03 AM |
| 31 | Men benefit from women romanticizing marriage through the lens of unconditional loveThey really do. If you’re a woman that is selfish and self preserving they’ll act you’re a witch and it’s the Salem witch trials. They know how much power they hold when it comes to love and women. It’s why they’re always reminding us not to be gold diggers and materialistic. We’re not allowed to do anything but cater to their needs and whims. Anything outside of that is blasphemy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 06:36 PM |
| 15 | Men benefit from women romanticizing marriage through the lens of unconditional loveOkay go ahead and explain my own post to me will ya. I know men are very capable of love because every boyfriend I had loved me. You’re taking what I’m saying too literally and not seeing the symbolism behind my words. Men fear love because it requires effort and sacrifice. Just because they can fall in love doesn’t mean they don’t see it as weakness. Go to any redpill forum and you’ll see how they manipulate women into falling for them because they know once they have that they can have anythin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 05:17 PM |
| 16 | Men benefit from women romanticizing marriage through the lens of unconditional loveI’m not saying true love doesn’t exist. I’m saying love is for men to prove. I see my dad love my mom everyday through actions not words that can amount to nothing. Not once did I say men aren’t capable of love I said they love differently then we do and we have to accept that when they don’t show love in that form they don’t love us but are using us. My dad is an HVM I know what love looks like. Edit: and the pessimism on FDS is not meant to lower standards but make us okay with being alone. No… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 04:57 PM |
| 9 | When an older man tries to ask “what do you bring to the table?” RUN!!!I could smell the sugar baby advice column shit from a mile away. The focus on youth and beauty is cute but no HVM would care about any of that. Also no need for the rebuttal there about what women are worth. What happens when you get old, have wrinkles, and can’t have children? Are devoid of worth then? I knew something didn’t sit right with me and I’m glad someone else noticed it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:51 PM |
| 20 | When an older man tries to ask “what do you bring to the table?” RUN!!!Yeah this is an advice post for sugar babies which is not FDS what so ever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:46 PM |
| 219 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.These messages genuinely made me heave. Men who talk like this are same fake deep men that will claim to be so other worldly that they don’t need things to be happy or that polyamory is about celebrating all the love you can give because it’s infinite. They’re so predictable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:37 PM |
| 47 | Men benefit from women romanticizing marriage through the lens of unconditional loveLove that basically amounts to nothing while we give them sex and companionship. Broke men have really done a number on us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:28 PM |
| 198 | Men benefit from women romanticizing marriage through the lens of unconditional loveThat’s the thing. Loving a man always requires lowering yourself in someway and I’m over it. “Oh he got you nothing for your birthday? At least he remembered, don’t you love him?” “Oh he got you a ring pop for your engagement? Just be glad he loves you so much he wants to commit to you.” See how much that sounds like pure hell? Constantly having to remind yourself that you love someone every time they disrespect or disappoint you. I would rather die alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 02:44 PM |
| 111 | Men benefit from women romanticizing marriage through the lens of unconditional loveThey’ve been saying they hate us for decades but now that we have freedoms we’re supposed to believe they propose to us out of “love”? It’s the only thing they have against us now that we’re not being sold to them by our families. A majority of them still hold the same beliefs as they’re grandpas and fathers, but they’re forced to hide it because they know we will divorce and leave them. Believing a man loves you without tangible evidence through his actions and investment is naive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 02:35 PM |
| 107 | Men benefit from women romanticizing marriage through the lens of unconditional loveThat’s one of the failures of modern feminism. As much as we want to believe men and women are equal, socialization makes sure we’re not. Women put in work to better themselves and be good partners and parents while men do absolutely nothing. Then we’re left with a bunch of self sufficient women and man babies but we think we can fix this by going 50/50 and acting like we’re the same? Hell no. Women need to wake up and realize that these men are not on our level and need to be left behind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 02:29 PM |
| 133 | Men benefit from women romanticizing marriage through the lens of unconditional loveIt’s martyrdom. They live for it because it’s the only way they feel they can validate their womanhood. Having your own wants and needs is sin because we should revolve our entire lives around love and men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 02:26 PM |
| 2 | The controversy on engagement rings shows how far liberal feminism has goneIt’s just virtue signaling on their end. They just want to feel better than someone, anyone. They’re so selfish that they don’t care how much they’re setting us back because the attention and male validation is worth more than women’s liberation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 02:15 PM |
| 211 | Men benefit from women romanticizing marriage through the lens of unconditional loveLmaooo I love this and there’s so much truth to this. They need our love to keep us in bondage forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 01:44 PM |
| 251 | Men benefit from women romanticizing marriage through the lens of unconditional loveAll of this. Women who have their rose colored glasses on need to realize that when they love a man they show that materialistically. I have so many girlfriends that would buy their boyfriends video games, play stations, concert tickets and more. We show love through gift giving so why can men get away with just telling us they love us? Why can’t they ever reciprocate. A $20 two for one date at apple bees and $6 bouquet is nowhere near as thoughtful as the stuff I’ve seen women get their SO’s be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 01:44 PM |
| 204 | Men benefit from women romanticizing marriage through the lens of unconditional loveVery few men understand love outside of labor. That’s why it’s the only determiner for how a man feels about me. If he doesn’t do things for me consistently, he doesn’t love me. That’s why they are so lazy and low effort. They don’t Iove their wives/gfs and even if they did, they don’t love themselves enough to put in the effort to keep the people they love happy. LVM will be LVM at the end of the day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 01:22 PM |
| 10 | The controversy on engagement rings shows how far liberal feminism has goneI’m truly sick of libfems because they’re so delusional it’s crazy. The amount of cognitive dissonance they have is unhealthy. One second all men are trash and then the other they are good human being devoid of misogyny. They only talk the talk and never walk the walk. They push they’re feminist beliefs to appeal to men by shouting “look at me, I’m a feminist and think we’re equal so let’s go 50/50, I also believe sex work is work and will totally tolerate you cheating on me by spending hundreds… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 12:58 PM |
| 168 | I always wanted a platinum engagement ring, my bf agreed. Then he saw this video and messaged me "now you're getting a diamond ring"Lol that was my post. So glad I turned off my dms because the scrotes were having a field day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 12:12 PM |
| 70 | First Block and DeleteI know people think we’re crazy and harsh with the advice we give but men are like literal toddlers. You can’t give them an inch ever. I’m glad you came to this realization without getting too invested in this man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 12:11 PM |
| 151 | To those completely new to FDS. You cannot "communicate" your way out of this patriarchal system. Level up and never settle.This was my same realization. And when I would have to be sat down like this, it was when I didn’t care about the situation at all. I was very immature during my teenage years and looking back, it’s helped me understand men a lot better. I used to be the one who would get paragraphs and who would get begged by a boyfriend to treat them better because he was my first and I thought liking him was too much to ask for. Now I see why men leave us on read when we send paragraphs and why they keep up a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 12:08 PM |
| 10 | The controversy on engagement rings shows how far liberal feminism has goneYes and that’s why porn addicts can also get away with their behavior now. In the past, if a woman’s husband engaged with it he would feel shamed by his community. Now we can’t even complain about our partners not being able to get it up or having no attraction towards us because we’re vile women if we do. Everyone tiptoes around porn addicts and now men below the age of thirty have ED normally. Being nice and supportive to men does nothing. They only respect tough authority and shame which is w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 10:35 AM |
| 10 | The controversy on engagement rings shows how far liberal feminism has goneLol let them live like that. Every woman I’ve met with that mindset was miserable. It’s always about love for them. Well I don’t want it. Sounds like prison if I constantly have to lower myself and my standards just to experience it and keep a man. I want my ring to be as big as my heart and ambition and scrotes can die mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 10:28 AM |
| 199 | He actually said she should be happy with a lump of coal in the comments 🤦🏼♀️I’m glad she’s mad at him because she actually has standards. Also lying like this is a red flag and shows that he has no integrity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:33 AM |
| 70 | The controversy on engagement rings shows how far liberal feminism has goneThe only men having this issue in the real world, the only men trying to wriggle out of buying a ring, are losers who can’t afford it. And desperate women eager to appease loser men. And that’s what it really boils down to. The women who advocate for this are worried about being as accessible as possible while the men want us to commit to being their bangmaids for life for the price of nothing. I didn’t even know people had ringless engagements until today honestly. I’m truly disgusted by how lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 01:03 AM |
| 55 | The controversy on engagement rings shows how far liberal feminism has goneIt is really telling how marriage rates have gone down but I see women having children with boyfriends everyday. The value system has been fucked up because in what world is marriage more of a commitment than a child. And it’s an easy one at that for men because they will not participate in taking care of that child anyway. At this moment in time, men have it the easiest they ever had. They can jump from pickme to pickme having kids and faking commitment without any legal repercussions. At least… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 12:16 AM |
| 53 | The controversy on engagement rings shows how far liberal feminism has goneWe all have those stories and eventually these women will wake up. Men have convinced us that expecting anything is a sin and we need to moved past that. I love my friends and spend money on them without a second thought. Once you realize how easy it is to spend money on someone you love you’ll side eye any man that just “couldn’t afford” the thing that makes you happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 12:07 AM |
| 143 | The controversy on engagement rings shows how far liberal feminism has goneI had that moment too one day on Twitter when a woman asked her male followers if they married the loves of their lives and a majority said no. They all said they weren’t good enough for the women they actually wanted and just settled with their wives because they figured it was time to settle down. They also regretted not putting in more effort with the women they lost and obviously thought about it despite being married. That conversation cemented for me that any man wanting to commit to me wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 11:19 PM |
| 67 | The controversy on engagement rings shows how far liberal feminism has goneYep same mindset for me. Look how easily they accept porn, sex work, and 50/50 but have a hissy fit when we have any semblance of standards. At this point we’re just handing ourselves over on a platter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 11:14 PM |
| 121 | The controversy on engagement rings shows how far liberal feminism has goneI’ve seen so many stories of girlfriends and wives who will spend hundreds on their husbands/bfs to show appreciation while their SO’s never reciprocate. Even us women who are not “materialistic” will drop everything to make our partners happy by spending on them so why is this idea so alien when it comes to something as important as commitment for life? It’s really all just excuses because things make people happy, it’s fake deep to pretend they don’t. Everyone loves things as much as they want… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 10:55 PM |
| 116 | The controversy on engagement rings shows how far liberal feminism has goneI would expect that from a forever girlfriend. They have so much to say to other women but can’t get the balls to talk shit to men. I’m also African and I think American women are actually insane. I’ve had conversations with my mom and we’ve both agreed that they’ve lost the plot because men will be men at the end of the day. It doesn’t matter how much you believe in equality and nonmaterialism because men haven’t changed at all. If anything they’ve gotten worse. So yeah, I’d rather die than acc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 09:27 PM |
| 23 | She’s only asking this because she know deep down her fiancé sucks and she’s settling. Why not wait until you’re no longer students?According to Reddit scrote logic, not getting a ring means they’re saving for something more important like a house despite clearly having no money🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 05:09 PM |
| 49 | She’s only asking this because she know deep down her fiancé sucks and she’s settling. Why not wait until you’re no longer students?Yes to all of this, and same to the men mad about my comment saying marriage is a business partnership. It is and that’s why it’s a legal contract under the government. A partnership requires investment and that’s what the ring is. Love will not save a financially irresponsible coupling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 05:01 PM |
| 92 | She’s only asking this because she know deep down her fiancé sucks and she’s settling. Why not wait until you’re no longer students?Yeah people on Reddit are another breed. It’s why I don’t engage with anyone outside of this community because they seem to live in la la land where love conquers all and misogyny doesn’t exist. She’ll just hear what she wants to hear because the truth hurts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 02:35 PM |
| 166 | She’s only asking this because she know deep down her fiancé sucks and she’s settling. Why not wait until you’re no longer students?Exactly, marriage is basically a business partnership. Anyone who tells you otherwise is delusional and a liar. She’s clinging onto the fact she loves him to appear noble but it’s very clear she made a bad decision. Any sensible man would wait until he’s financially comfortable to make such a serious decision because most divorces are about financial troubles. She better prepare for a shitty wedding and honeymoon too but I bet she’s fine with that because of love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 12:40 PM |
| 85 | HVM that make less than youI hope you didn’t tell him how much you actually make because he could be acting so nice to get you tied to him. This doesn’t sound good and hope you’re prepared to kick him to the curb if any red flags pop up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 04:53 PM |
| 19 | HVM that make less than youAgree with the above poster and wanted to add that you and OP are in completely different positions. Your bf has higher economic status just because of his family. He also has disposable income which OP’s bf does not. And no FDS woman should be making decisions based off her heart. Loving a man can be dangerous. I would never advise a woman to follow her heart with a man who could be a potential pedophile, rapist, murderer, or abuser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 04:40 PM |
| 67 | Care to share examples of HV behaviour from the men in your life?My mom and dad are best friends and their relationship is built on their friendship. They both support each other in whatever they do. My mom is a stay at home mom (not by choice but other complicated circumstances) and she’s been a homemaker my whole life. My dad appreciates this and sees his money as her money. She’s raised strong, independent, and intelligent daughters, teaches us to be the best versions of ourselves and to have standards. She’s also tough in the sense that if my dad does som… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 06:26 PM |
| 16 | If he pulls away, don't give him space...I hope when you say yell you just mean chastising and not screaming but either way that doesn’t sound like a good enough reason for him to guilt you the way he did. You have every right to voice your anger at him being late and not letting you know ahead of time that he wasn’t feeling well. What he’s doing is punishing you right now for voicing your hurt over what he did. He’s essentially giving you the cold shoulder/silent treatment because you didn’t let him off the hook by disrespecting your … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 05:03 PM |
| 12 | If he pulls away, don't give him space...Yeah if his first reaction is to take space that’s not good and means he’s not in a place where he can communicate and be emotionally vulnerable. When she’s having a tough time he’ll most likely do the same. Even if she did something wrong, he should want to talk about it instead of guilting. I just don’t like how this sounds at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 03:51 PM |
| 251 | Care to share examples of HV behaviour from the men in your life?My dad is 100% HV and he’s the most giving man I’ve ever met. If me, my sisters, or mom passively complain about a problem he’ll spend hours trying to fix it. He remembers and pays attention to all of us, gives great gifts, and always foots the bill. An example of how giving he is is once my sister forgot her uniform for a volleyball tournament that was hours away from home, and he didn’t even hesitate to drive back to get it by himself. He also supports our choices and career goals and if we me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 03:19 PM |
| 28 | If he pulls away, don't give him space...That’s a red flag because why is he saying you’re not being supportive? Did you do something to warrant him saying this? Unless if you’re ignoring him or putting him down I don’t understand why he would need space from you like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 03:11 PM |
| 60 | If he pulls away, don't give him space...I’ve dated a lot of men casually and the ones I was in serious longterm relationships with never ever pulled away. If anything, over time they wanted to spend more time with me and be as close to me as possible. Even when they were going through hard times they wouldn’t pull away and come to me for comfort. Too many dating coaches let men get away with this behavior because they feed women the scarcity mindset. They’d rather have their clients be in shitty emotionally abusive relationships becau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:09 PM |
| 623 | What's coming next? Do you think things will get better or worse?I think they’ll just get more violent with time. Men are going to get more and more violent as they see women isolating themselves because they need us to feel powerful. That’s why the redpill movement began. As long as women have the financial and social privilege to leave shitty relationships, men will complain and threaten our lives. It’s their fault for basing so much of their power on our subjugation. They know without us they are basically nothing. Look at how many successful men used thei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 01:23 PM |
| 32 | “This whole marriage feels like a business transaction…” ladies this is why we don’t settle for 50/50 low effortAny man that is adamant about 50/50 hates you. Notice how when they go out with their buddies they fight to pay the tab. They know providing is the masculine thing but they hate you so much they would care less about what you think of them and how you see them. If he’s 50/50, he’s using you because he feels he needs to settle since he can’t get any better. Trust once what he’s looking for comes along he’ll have no problems footing the bill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 12:03 PM |
| 4 | I need to learn to trust my instinctsWhy did you suggest an ice cream date? That’s already low effort. Anyway I’m glad you’re self aware and know what you need to work on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 09:47 PM |
| 87 | Scrotes in the comments were pissed😂 Keep raising those standards queens👑LVM love violent men because not being abusive is seen as a green flag when that’s the bare minimum. Anytime you find yourself celebrating a men for treating you like a human being, stop. Raise the bar so he has to train to reach it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 09:44 PM |
| 209 | Look out for these traits in yourself, acc. a narc in therapyThis was an amazing post. Saved it for reference because this is the most truthful information I’ve seen from a self proclaimed narc. Now I know exactly why they go for certain people and how to avoid that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 02:55 AM |
| 127 | Incels convinced society they just need sex and that’s the biggest con ever: The Rage of the IncelsI wonder the same too and sometimes think a lot of women gaslight themselves into thinking they don’t see most misogyny. It’s very exhausting to be aware of how misogynistic the world is and you really need thick skin. I think they’d rather see these men as an individual case than a a cultural theme. I’m very aware of this ideology because I’m black and many nonblack and sometimes black men like to remind black women that we are undesired because of racist hierarchies. These hierarchies are iden… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 12:16 AM |
| 70 | Incels convinced society they just need sex and that’s the biggest con ever: The Rage of the IncelsOh wow I didn’t know that about her and that’s terrible. And while I liked the article I did feel like her talking points were a bit watered down, especially towards the end when talking about subsidizing sex. But yeah FDS does bring about challenging conversations which makes it a good community. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 12:11 AM |
| 448 | Just saw this post on FB… biggest load of male sympathy horseshit I’ve seen in a minute 😂 men have no inherent value, yet they receive the most societal benefit for doing the bare minimum. OkayyyyyLmao this ties to what someone posted earlier about men being coddled too much and becoming useless. They’re not mad that they don’t have “inherent” value, they’re just mad they can’t act like juvenile boys their whole life and still get the benefits of being a man I.e. wife, kids, career etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 10:50 PM |
| 37 | I finally put NO ONS, NO FWB in my bio and...There’s no need to do this. Yes you’ll get less messages but that’s not gonna stop the manipulators or love bombers who are 10x worse than stupid fuckboys. It’s better to just let a man say his truth rather than let him know how to get closer to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 03:32 PM |
| 23 | Here’s a small compilation of TikTok comments from women waiting for a ring- never settle your standards for a LVM.Men have used liberal feminism as a cop out for their not wanting to get married and avoid accountability. How many pickmes have you heard saying they don’t believe in marriage? Too many and all of them are always in this situation. Because apparently we’ve transcended from the need for marriage like the whole point isn’t about getting legal protections in case something goes wrong in a partnership especially with children involved. Now men can easily find women to spread their seed with and lea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 03:29 PM |
| 27 | Here’s a small compilation of TikTok comments from women waiting for a ring- never settle your standards for a LVM.Exactly. I’ve been the “dream girl” for all of my longterm lv exes because I’ve always required they pay for everything and treat me like a princess. All of them mentioned wanting to marry me within 3-6 months and having an elaborate future with me. As much of an ego boost that was, they still sucked. There’s no benefit to being the dream girl with these men because at the end of the day they’re still lv and will only bring stress into your life, even to the women they do want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 03:23 PM |
| 9 | He knows his worth y’all. I can’t even with this 😩Women have no standards so he is definitely ugly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 02:52 PM |
| 25 | Attention Male Lurkers: You need to SHUT THE FUCK up about your online dating problemsI’m realizing the sheer difference in men and women’s attitudes towards sex and dating just sums up to women seeing men as people. We expect our partners to be multifaceted and expect them to treat us like humans. Men on the other hand just see us as objects to use. It’s why they take our rejection so badly. How can an object tell me no especially when society has told me all my life that object is mine and mine alone?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 01:34 PM |
| 7 | Absolutely 👏👏Yep. She mentioned game of thrones and I was a Daenerys fan until the last few seasons because they started turning her into the typical, I can do things men can too trope towards the end. It’s so unimaginative and speaks to how men see women as one dimensional. They’re so in love with masculinity and manhood that the thought of a woman who embraces her feminine qualities is disgusting. I used to be the tomboy who hated pink and wanted to be like one of the guys but I realized I was only doing t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 01:09 PM |
| 198 | Men have no ability to emotionally regulate because society has been coddling their feelings from the moment they were bornThis is why I laugh when men cry about being ugly. They are so bad at being realistic and accepting reality because if they were raised like women they would’ve known they were ugly by the age of 7. Women are taught to be super hyper aware because our whole existence is meant to revolve around our beauty and usefulness while men are told to just be themselves and someone will love them for who they are. Big shocker when they get in the real world and now their held to patriarchal standards such … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 11:13 AM |
| 16 | Why his music taste is extremely important during the vetting process.I love no Noname! I follow her on Twitter and she’s politically sound too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 04:50 PM |
| 147 | Oh btw…she mentions in the comments that she’s caught him chatting with other women, too. Also that he makes her feel crazy but that she is mentally ill so it might really be her.He’s abusive and he’s devaluing her. This is his way of breaking her down psychologically so she’ll be obsessed with gaining his approval. I hope she gets out quick before she completely loses herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 06:51 AM |
| 22 | Being a people pleaser is a major tenant of being a pickme. Men will only love the 50/50, sex supply, and maid service, not you as a person.Yep they offer commitment but don’t keep the promise. It’s all about them and their needs and desires. Marriage with LVM is a farce because it’ll never live up to its expectations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 06:05 PM |
| 43 | Being a people pleaser is a major tenant of being a pickme. Men will only love the 50/50, sex supply, and maid service, not you as a person.Yes it is entitlement and this entitlement is often coupled with hatred because these men hate women and will never respect them. It’s why so many will begrudgingly propose with a $100 ring and go and spend thousands on their gaming habits. They feel they’re doing these women favors by offering them commitment and that they should be grateful they even got them a ring. Same goes with men who rarely treat their girlfriend to nice things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 02:55 PM |
| 85 | Being a people pleaser is a major tenant of being a pickme. Men will only love the 50/50, sex supply, and maid service, not you as a person.Girl what? Husband?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 01:05 PM |
| 51 | FDS are female incels 🙄Please don’t talk about FDS with men. It’s dangerous and pointless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 02:52 PM |
| 9 | A HVW's integrity is one of the key elements that make her so desirableOof now I see why you’re saying all of this. Nobody mentioned trying to change anybody, you pulled that out of nowhere. This isn’t a thread about igniting the desire for LVM to change because LVM will always be low value. It’s part of their character. We’re all just here making observations of how LVM move in the real world. And no, I’m not the naive one here. I am very aware that LVM lead shitty lives because they’re complacent and are forced to stay with women they don’t even want because they… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 09:01 PM |
| 9 | A HVW's integrity is one of the key elements that make her so desirableThis take is really interesting considering how many men in these situations have straight up complained to me how they’re settling for their girlfriends/fiancé’s and constantly questioning their relationships. They’re not happy, they’re complacent. There’s a big difference. And once again, there’s a difference between desiring and pursuing. One is action based and the other thought based. And yes, they do leave if they have the opportunity to get the woman of their dreams. Ask any woman that’s … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 08:50 PM |
| 13 | A HVW's integrity is one of the key elements that make her so desirableMany men tolerate women who put up with crap. Very few man are happily married or in relationships because they settled with the next woman they could get. Just because they “chose” that woman doesn’t mean they don’t desire other women. I think you’re missing the point that LVM only “commit” to these women as long as they need to. As soon as they have access to the type of woman they desire, they’re gone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 07:46 PM |
| 11 | Pickme regrets sending nudes to guy she barely knows but still tries very hard to validate her decision in comments with LVM encouraging her...Guys will literally tell internet strangers they’re horny without anyone asking. I swear people are clowns🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 03:25 AM |
| 13 | Even my mom who’s never heard of FDS is 100% FDSExactly. Women go 50/50 now because they’re afraid of asking for too much. Going 50/50 is literally you saving a man money unless he makes less than you. It’s never fair or equitable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 12:06 AM |
| 10 | Even my mom who’s never heard of FDS is 100% FDSSame here. It wasn’t hard for me to digest FDS but because of societal conditioning, I had some pickme tendencies. Now I don’t think my moms advice is over the top like I did in my pickme days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 12:05 AM |
| 17 | Even my mom who’s never heard of FDS is 100% FDSOf course! Every woman deserves an HV mom❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 12:04 AM |
| 401 | IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: The Plymouth Shooter has complained about FDS. DO NOT DISCUSS FDS WITH MEN. These are males with murderous intentions who desire revenge on women.That’s the thing it’s always an incel. Every case likes this is always linked to DV but we overlook it because it’s the elephant in the room that society doesn’t want to acknowledge. Almost every mass shooter was either an incel or going on a rampage against an ex or killed their families/wives beforehand. These are not isolated incidents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 07:58 PM |
| 575 | IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: The Plymouth Shooter has complained about FDS. DO NOT DISCUSS FDS WITH MEN. These are males with murderous intentions who desire revenge on women.This is so scary and it’s why I never post any information about where I live, my real age or any super personal details. Always lie a little bit when you post on here ladies. Also never use FDS lingo like HVM, lvm, or nvm or anything else specific to FDS because you never know who you’re around. These men are crazy and dangerous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 07:07 PM |
| 7 | Story Time: The importance of looking someone up on social mediaYeah that’s how I felt too. After the fish for two comment I would have noped out. No reason to keep in contact with this man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 03:05 PM |
| 10 | Story Time: The importance of looking someone up on social mediaNext time stop engaging after the first suggestive comment. I understand you being amicable and giving him your number but this conversation was too long and could’ve been cut short from the moment you left his presence by blocking and deleting. I’m glad you’re safe and far far away from this man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 02:18 PM |
| 47 | "The Worst Thing About Male Violence is That it Makes Men Look Bad"This is why I hate any man that says not all men. It’s the immediate defense of men instead of staying on subject. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 02:15 PM |
| 40 | Sex buyers want to normalize Sugar Dating. That's regressive and dangerous.Sugar dating is the biggest scam. If real sex workers are saying it is than it definitely is. There’re so many women in that “industry” that lie to young and impressionable girls by saying technically it’s not sex work because you don’t have to sleep with them and there’ve been such arrangements. Even if that was true, 99.99% of arrangements involve sex. And the men know that escorts cost infinitely more just for one date than a young twenty something with little experience. The girlfriend exper… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 01:50 PM |
| 187 | I can't believe he really said that to her yet if it wasn't because of she is on her period, he might wanted more than a innocent holding hands.I clocked out after coffee at his house on a first meeting Edit: and the holding hands thing? Is she in middle school? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 04:56 PM |
| 22 | Don't send nudes to friend-turned hookups!!It’s definitely triangulating and it works with women have low self esteem and need validation. A lot of LVM behaviors are triangulation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 04:35 PM |
| 0 | Today's crack-me-up - turns out even basic preferences like earning average pay and not being obese is statistically too much to ask (in the US). Stay strong, american queens!What is mvm? There’s only HVM LVM and nvm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 11:33 AM |
| 16 | Banned from another dating subI love Love Island because it really shows that all the stuff we talk about is real. Like if you ever watched Season 5, Maura was a prime example of this. She was constantly getting disrespected and sidelined. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 11:20 AM |
| 6 | Pickmes move like they are the exception and not the ruleOof this entire comment. It doesn’t sound fun at all. I was around more than enough women like that in college and all of them deep down wanted a meaningful relationship. I even see it on social media when they send their situationships nudes and they get “👍🏾” back and make passive aggressive jokes. It’s sad honestly. I think I only met one girl who was genuinely avoidant and actually used men in the way they use women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 12:05 AM |
| 26 | Pickmes move like they are the exception and not the ruleExactly they use sex as a bargaining chip in hopes for a relationship and if it doesn’t go the way they hope they use sex positivity as a shield. I’ve seen so many women do it and then get surprised when they have the “what are we” talk and he’s not madly in love yet. It’s rinse and repeat until they become the exception. Then comes the resentment because they’ll have to do the sacrificing and changing for the rest of the partnership which will eventually lead to a dead bedroom or divorce. Edit:… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 04:29 PM |
| 16 | Pickmes move like they are the exception and not the ruleOne gets divorced but the main girl ends up in a relationship with the guy giving her advice even after chasing him the whole time. The dishes thing made me roll my eyes so hard😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 03:54 PM |
| 44 | Pickmes move like they are the exception and not the ruleYes, especially when it comes to martyrdom. There’re so many stories of the good girl that constantly gets abused and wins the gentleman at the end. What most pickmes don’t realize is the first part of the story is true but the rest is absolute fiction. The only trope I’ve seen to be true is the b*tch wife and the doting husband and that’s because those women are self preserving and have standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 03:52 PM |
| 73 | Pickmes move like they are the exception and not the ruleYes it’s the foundation to being a pickme because we’re groomed to believe a good woman can change a man through all forms of media and culture. At times I feel sympathy especially for those trapped in abusive situations, but then there are the pickmes with major internalized misogyny that use this mentality to tear down other women and keep them down with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 03:42 PM |
| 31 | Pickmes move like they are the exception and not the ruleYep I saw that film and liked the message at first but than at they end they basically proved that they are the exception which I felt detracted from the entire message🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 03:38 PM |
| 79 | Pickmes move like they are the exception and not the rulePretty much. It’s collective gaslighting that causes them to think men can be trusted and given the benefit of the doubt. Some learn quickly while others violently fight to stay in this delusional state because they really want to believe men see them as human. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 03:35 PM |
| 24 | Confused pickmeishas on social mediaLol me! I don’t wanna poke my eyes out!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 02:48 PM |
| 65 | Confused pickmeishas on social mediaLol I prefer the left because I hate long nails. They just make me feel uncomfortable and I’d rather be able to pick things up. Glad I’m avoiding these types of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 11:38 AM |
| 244 | Of all the pick-me BS! Is this empowering?Jesus send the flood. I know all the pickmes will see this and think they’re the exception just like this woman. Also highly doubt her man is HV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 11:11 AM |
| 45 | Today's crack-me-up - turns out even basic preferences like earning average pay and not being obese is statistically too much to ask (in the US). Stay strong, american queens!Exactly like living in the US means it won’t be hard to find a man taller than average but in Asia for example not so easy. Plus I’m around men who make around six figures most of the time because I went to college and my dad is in medicine so I have family connections. The math becomes much harder when you start to put in all these variables but they would rather scare women into thinking they’ll never find anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 02:05 AM |
| 138 | Notice how men that claim to want an “independent woman” usually just don’t want to help you with bills. Or they will call a woman needy if she asks for emotional support.I never let men know how much I make. Luckily, I’m interning right now so they can assume I won’t be supplying for their lifestyle. Women that talk about how successful they are and how much money they make and how independent they are don’t realize that it sounds exactly the same as a man auditioning to be a sugar daddy. You won’t impress anyone but (male) gold diggers if you go around flashing your accomplishments. Pretend you’re poor or barely making it so they’ll be forced to foot the bill. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 01:28 AM |
| 104 | Today's crack-me-up - turns out even basic preferences like earning average pay and not being obese is statistically too much to ask (in the US). Stay strong, american queens!Yeah this is bogus. Unless I’m insanely lucky, a majority of the men I’ve dated or been on dates with have made significantly more than 55k a year, were taller than average, and not married. Why didn’t he show his work?🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 01:23 AM |
| 54 | I pray that one day pick me women will be free from the shackles of male validation.“I’d be turned on but also weirded out. Why me? Are you desperate?? Might as well use you because now I don’t respect you…” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 08:30 PM |
| 273 | Someone I've known since middle school just got proposed to with a Ring Pop.So he’ll spend more on a concert than his future wife?🤦🏾♀️ He hates that woman with a passion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 06:54 PM |
| 63 | I pray that one day pick me women will be free from the shackles of male validation.Lol while women sugarcoat men will literally send you off to the wolves and make sure you’re the easiest prey. I would take sugarcoating any day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 02:28 PM |
| 255 | "I went to a doctor and he said it's normal because I'm stressed all the time!"The good thing is LVM can’t help but talk about their porn usage. It’s become so normalized that you’ll know between the first few weeks at most. So many men with broken dicks around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 01:55 PM |
| 9 | Pick-me-men.Pickme men to me are incels/redpill or the men who are faux male feminists that use feminist language to appear like a good guy and get women’s validation. With the incels/redpill it’s mixed because in the end they want female validation but they hate that they have no social capital under patriarchy so they project that onto the women they want validation from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 01:37 PM |
| 61 | "Sexual compability"I always hate when they say that because even if they are happy, they’re the exception. It gives other women the idea that they will be the exception too so all the pickmes will start having sex on the first date in hopes they’ll have their happily ever after where instead they’ll be left hopeless and jaded because they’ll realize a majority of men are just looking to pump and dump. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 12:19 PM |
| 199 | "Sexual compability"The funny thing is women should be the ones with this attitude and not men. Men can fuck a pizza and still cum. This is pure manipulation because there’s no reason for them to need to test anything when they can cum from the worst sex. It’s all a lie to guilt you into sleeping with them. Any man that brings up sexual compatibility or love languages is dropped. That’s the biggest red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 11:42 AM |
| 71 | Pick-me-men.Absolute LVM. These are the men that will always be victims of their divorces despite putting no effort into their marriages because they’ve convinced everyone that they’re the perfect husband. They do just the bare minimum to keep up their image. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 11:23 AM |
| 58 | Today I found out that quora can be as bad as RedditYep, the second any of them respond to his desperate dms she’ll be gone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 11:14 AM |
| 122 | I pray that one day pick me women will be free from the shackles of male validation.Every time there’s a conversation about splitting pickmes come out of the woodwork like the Koolaid man to show how considerate they are of men. I’ve never had a friend that believes in 50/50 and I’m glad because that shit is disgusting. How do you sleep at night knowing you’re making men’s lives easier? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 11:11 AM |
| 436 | I pray that one day pick me women will be free from the shackles of male validation.Why would you ask for advice from men and why from reddit in general? Does she know the demographic of the average reddit user?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 11:07 AM |
| 98 | Pick-me-men.I wouldn’t necessarily call them pickme men because to me pickme men are like the incels that complain about being nice guys and revolve their lives around getting women. I would say this type of man is a wolf in sheep’s clothing. He knows being a family man will get him status and treating his wife better than the bar in hell will get other women’s trust but at the end of the day they’re lazy partners that are just there for the ride because they are using the marriage as a shield for their shi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 11:06 AM |
| 190 | “But sex is only a small part of a relationship.”Also run if a man ever says this to you. Either a) he’s not that attracted to you b) he’s a porn addict and can’t get it up or c) he’s trying to lower your standards so you won’t find his shit sex as disappointing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 01:49 AM |
| 3 | This girl gets it. Dinner dates ensure a man thinks you’re worth the effort no matter how you look or feel about yourself.I think her content is fine and she’s mostly making jokes if it comes off as insane so I think it’s FDS approved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 11:32 PM |
| 40 | I am SO tired of the misogyny, negging, persistent pushy rape culture and cringey male princess demands peddled by so called ‘pick up artist guru’s’ online. Notice the tone of his language wreaks of perceived entitlement to womens attention.They ignore all of that because at the end of the day they’re too lazy and stupid to do anything right. 🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 05:24 PM |
| 80 | Have you ever truly felt immediate "sparks", or was it just lovebombing/emotional vulnerability on your part?You don’t have to feel a spark immediately but 5 dates means you’ve been dating this man for more than a month if you’re seeing him once a week. I’m sorry but your friends are probably right. I’m the same way as you and can be a slow burner at times but at around date 3 I know whether or not I see potential just based on attraction and compatibility. If you feel nothing at this point it’s a bust and no amount of time will change that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 05:13 PM |
| 28 | You can learn a lot about a guy via his social media profileAs the above person says, he also comes off as innocent too but all of his messaging is femiphobic. He says women are not meant to be leaders and that all of our problems politically and governmentally are connected to our society becoming too feminine. He also says that if men are not allocated women to mate with, they’ll become restless and dangerous so he basically advocates for forced monogamy. If you google his controversial takes you’ll see all of this information. He also romanticizes Hit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 03:30 PM |
| 130 | I am SO tired of the misogyny, negging, persistent pushy rape culture and cringey male princess demands peddled by so called ‘pick up artist guru’s’ online. Notice the tone of his language wreaks of perceived entitlement to womens attention.Exactly. This is how I know they’re stupid because the actual smart shitty men love bomb first so when they pull away you chase them. Women love gentlemen. They clearly don’t pay attention to the bad boy tropes either because usually the bad boy treats one woman like a princess and makes her feel different from the girls from his past. It’s not straight up abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 03:16 PM |
| 97 | Why do so many guys and girls say size doesn't matter? Do they genuinely believe this? Because it does matter for me....Size does matter to me too. I’ve met a man with the right size I preferred. He was big but not too big. There was one man I was seeing for a while who had the biggest dick I had ever seen and I hated it. Realized there’s such a thing as too big. I’m still a size queen but I won’t go bigger than a certain size. I feel like women need to honest about our preferences because it does affect the the quality for piv. Some women have smaller canals and some larger naturally so it makes sense to have a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 03:09 PM |
| 40 | You can learn a lot about a guy via his social media profileHe seems innocent but a lot of men that follow him tend to love how he presents issues and debates as unbiased and equal by platforming dangerous people. I’ve noticed people that enjoy his platform lack critical thinking skills and will regurgitate whatever they hear while also playing down the borderline nazi/misogynistic people he platforms. Every man I’ve met that’s into Joe Rogan is obsessed with debating sensitive issues and pretending that being emotional about your civil rights is a sin a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 02:34 PM |
| 31 | You can learn a lot about a guy via his social media profileI mean I see nothing wrong with finding strangers attractive. That’s just natural attraction. Teenage girls especially engage in that behavior but they learn that relationships have boundaries and deserve respect unlike men who continue these behaviors throughout all of their significant relationships. It’s just men having no self control or empathy for their partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 01:52 PM |
| 21 | Left-wing men are just as misogynistic as right-wing menFreeloaders love leftist women. It’s why I’ve side eyed feminism for so long. I loved the ideology when I was younger but all the attention on how the patriarchy hurts men too bs rubbed me the wrong way. I’ve literally seen men advise each other to date feminists because they’re easy and help them save money. Men do not care about our rights. They do not care about how the patriarchy affects them. They’ll see a thread about women’s mental health and derail talking about how society shits on men … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 01:29 PM |
| 429 | I am SO tired of the misogyny, negging, persistent pushy rape culture and cringey male princess demands peddled by so called ‘pick up artist guru’s’ online. Notice the tone of his language wreaks of perceived entitlement to womens attention.This is why redpill hates FDS so much. We’re teaching women to be aware of these tactics and now they can’t neg women into compliance. His paragraph on not paying for dates to get you to stand out is soooo stupid. That’s like saying to stand out in a job interview show up acting like you don’t give a shit about the position. And they wonder why they end up hating their partners and lack respect for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 01:11 PM |
| 67 | You can learn a lot about a guy via his social media profileYep as soon as I started going through men’s social media accounts because of FDS I’ve learned to move on quickly from them. I remember there was an ex I was hungover for years and I decided to look through his following list and he was following a literal porn company. I was disgusted and developed the ick. So many men disrespect their partners following straight up only fans accounts and ig influencers. I don’t understand why women deal with it considering most of them are too respectful not t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 12:59 PM |
| 37 | Here’s how our ‘critics’ analyse dating and offer advice to fellow blind mice lmao. Low value men who have ZERO stake in the dating field and resort to sterile mathematical calculations as to work out why their last 27 dates didn’t call back....oh I’m sorry- I mean ‘used them for a meal’ ofc 🙄I haven’t done economics but I did a bit of high level math in college and I’m trying to understand what this graph has to do with dating?? The logical sex🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 12:35 PM |
| 171 | You can learn a lot about a guy via his social media profileIf he seems to be following a lot of women, be careful because they might be past OLD matches. Also block if you see Joe Rogan or Jordan Peterson on his following list. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 12:26 PM |
| 51 | PiCk Me. I don’t require any effort or standards.45 seconds is being very generous and most of the time these types of women have low self esteem and think being sexually enticing and low maintenance will keep men interested in them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 11:21 AM |
| 152 | In shock. A post about a woman finding violent fantasies on her bfs accountsShe is in serious danger and people are telling her to communicate?? Reddit is another animal. That is not normal and she should be packing a bag and sneaking out in the night to get support to come back and get the rest of her stuff because he’s a potential murderer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 11:12 AM |
| 19 | This girl gets it. Dinner dates ensure a man thinks you’re worth the effort no matter how you look or feel about yourself.Mainly similar to FDS and talks about dating men that benefit you and not being a pickme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 11:04 AM |
| 163 | Reminder ✨There’s still women who genuinely believe the paragraphs and theatrics are for “themselves”🥴 if it was for yourself and you didn’t care you would write it in your journal or notes app or yell in the shower. We’ve really let CoMmuNicaTe get too far. Men don’t respect words they respect action. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 01:17 AM |
| 178 | Left-wing men are just as misogynistic as right-wing menWhy does this have no upvotes? She’s right leftist men are just as bad as right wing men. They’re wolf in sheep’s clothing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 11:07 PM |
| 57 | This girl gets it. Dinner dates ensure a man thinks you’re worth the effort no matter how you look or feel about yourself.It’s the same with black women too. I feel like a lot of what we experience is similar Asian women because when black women marry out they’re seen as traitors when our own men abuse us the most and prefer lighter/ambiguous women anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 10:33 PM |
| 122 | This girl gets it. Dinner dates ensure a man thinks you’re worth the effort no matter how you look or feel about yourself.All of this. It’s why Kevin Samuels is so popular in the black community right now. He said Saweetie, who is objectively very attractive, was a 5/10 and black women began freaking out saying if she’s a 5 what are they. They’re doing it on purpose. If they can make us doubt ourselves then they can do the bare minimum to gain access. That’s why leveling up looks wise isn’t enough. You need to have the self esteem to know you deserve the best regardless of how you look because that’s love that will… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 06:53 PM |
| 32 | Deleting OLD never felt better!Yeah I feel like people have become oddly attached to OLD to the point they feel they can’t date without it. I’ve seen so much defensiveness around it, but what you said is true, HVM don’t last long on OLD. Most want a woman they’ve connected with organically in real life and OLD is relatively new in comparison to every other form of dating. People used to meet through friends, family, and events in the past. OLD also gives you the illusion of choice and abundance when honestly a select populati… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 06:38 PM |
| 186 | Found online. It seems sensible enough.Exactly, let him lead the conversation so you can hear his true opinions. Men are very good at being “yes men” when they want to trap you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 05:16 PM |
| 220 | This girl gets it. Dinner dates ensure a man thinks you’re worth the effort no matter how you look or feel about yourself.I think I saw this exact post on the relationship sub a week ago. This man trying to seem like a good guy wasting his nice girlfriends time for 2 years all because he’s not “sexually attracted” to her. He also only listed the things she did for him as why he loves her. Never ever let a man in. They need to prove themselves from the start. They have no problem staying with women they can barely tolerate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 04:18 PM |
| 91 | This girl gets it. Dinner dates ensure a man thinks you’re worth the effort no matter how you look or feel about yourself.Yeah I think it’s a play on misogyny like how women call themselves bitch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 03:02 PM |
| 8 | The F*ck boy hotline. See? Men know what they’re doing.I dated a Jack a few weeks ago! Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 01:49 PM |
| 37 | Gave me a good giggleLmaooo sending this energy to all my fds queens😌✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 01:46 PM |
| 52 | “You don’t need to wear makeup around my boyfriend lol”Oof cue the post about mate guarding. This is a clear example of that. She knows her bf has a wondering eye and instead of confronting him she’s bringing other women down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:15 AM |
| 124 | Daily dose of scrotitySome of them have already called the women in their lives hoes🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 09:15 PM |
| 21 | This is terrible advice and will just come off as a manipulation tactic. Just block and delete.I just went to here tiktok and big surprise! She hates the term pickme and she is so understanding and sooo empathetic that she thinks it makes sense to passive aggressively ask for a rain check. You can tell she’s desperate from her tiktoks. She even asks for advice on how to make her profiles more appealing. I’ve noticed there’s always a type of energy these women have. Like major “I’m not like other girls” types vibes were they use their empathy and kindness to veil their pickme motives. They… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 02:50 PM |
| 44 | Just some scrotes and pickmes raging against FDS on another extremely misogynistic and sexist sub that still exists (hopefully they are next)!Remember when someone did a poll of the ages of the women on the this sub and more then 40% were 21-25 and they said we were lying? They really want to believe we’re just all and bitter and even then, what’s wrong with that? And the conversation on age? That girl is really lost and she’ll realize once her prefrontal cortex develops that she’s in a shit relationship with a man that took advantage of her youth. Her defending herself saying she’s a grown woman when she met him at 20 is enough to te… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 01:38 PM |
| 47 | This is terrible advice and will just come off as a manipulation tactic. Just block and delete.Yep, they react way more to ghosting than being considerate ever will. Just shows you being nice to men rarely has benefits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 01:10 PM |
| 101 | This is terrible advice and will just come off as a manipulation tactic. Just block and delete.In the comments she says it’s not to get the men back🙄 like okay sis. But mainly to stop the culture of ghosting and inconsiderate dating which I get kind of but you barely know the guy and he’s already in the process of ghosting you so why be the bigger person in that scenario? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 01:01 PM |
| 156 | Saw this little gem on Instagram today....This is why we ghost. Men rarely take rejection well so what’s the point of being nice and cordial when they’re gonna call you out of your name anyway? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 12:23 PM |
| 10 | Men on Reddit hate FDS because they know they’re LVMUgh, hate those dms because I see right through them. They’re just trying to start an argument so they can get a sip of attention. They think they’re so smart with their sealioning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 11:11 AM |
| 7 | Reminder: Delete your dating apps! Your sanity will thank you.Yep I live in a city with a million people, largest city in my state, and I was running out of matches. Options my ass. The apps make you feel like there’s so many options but in reality, a quarter of the population or less is even on them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 11:04 AM |
| 17 | Men on Reddit hate FDS because they know they’re LVMHonestly all you have to do is call men ugly or short and you’ll get one quicker than lightening😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 02:44 AM |
| 51 | Mate-retention strategies: benefit-provisioning vs. cost-inflicting behaviorExactly like a lot of dating advice says if a man pulls away early you should let him come back because that’s “natural” when that’s a major red flag and is the next step in love bombing. It’s not normal for a man that’s crazy about you to just stop contacting you. That’s manipulation 101 but we’ve been conditioned to think its because he loves you too much or is overwhelmed by emotions. Spare me. If that is the truth I’d rather be with a secure man that can handle his emotions instead of runnin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 02:02 AM |
| 84 | Mate-retention strategies: benefit-provisioning vs. cost-inflicting behaviorI like your flag analogy because a lot of women use the green flags to cover up for the red flags. There should be absolutely no red flags because red flags are “Stop do not pass GO” territory. You can never come back from a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 01:16 AM |
| 50 | Men on Reddit hate FDS because they know they’re LVMI get at least one Reddit cares post a day. It’s so funny to me😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 10:56 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: Delete your dating apps! Your sanity will thank you.I totally get that. It’s always good to stay positive and I understand why dating apps would be preferable for home bodies. I’m the opposite. I love being out and about and socializing so my preferred partner would be the same. I guess how you approach dating should be determined by your temperament so you can be surrounded by others compatible with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 09:19 PM |
| 9 | Reminder: Delete your dating apps! Your sanity will thank you.I’m sorry for the downvotes you’re getting but its feeling a little gaslighty to tell women that they’re just burnt out. I’m glad you found your HVM but as we’ve mentioned multiple times, it’s like winning the lottery. And with my personal experiences on OLD every reasonable man I’ve met just joined the apps and was not a fan of them so my personal conclusion is to just stick to real life. I’m not gonna force anyone to not use OLD but I think it’s okay to understand why so many women have shunne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 07:55 PM |
| 56 | The neg works manifoldThat’s why lurkers hate the block and delete policy. They love the paragraphs and insults they receive from women when they do wrong because now they know they have their attention. No response is painful because contempt is worse than hate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 05:20 PM |
| 6 | Man of deadbedroom is amazed that it takes effort to have a great marriageI’m sure he’s always been that selfish slightly but the wife probably wanted marriage badly so she dealt with it. Even if he is perfect you just never know. That’s why even after commitment you don’t put yourself in a position where you rely on him. Always have fuck you money, your own job, assets, and investments in case the mask slips and you need to exit accordingly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 03:50 PM |
| 23 | Reminder: Delete your dating apps! Your sanity will thank you.Yep and a lot of times the women will see it through because they feel if they give him a chance he’ll grow into the person they thought they were talking to online. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 02:58 PM |
| 30 | Reminder: Delete your dating apps! Your sanity will thank you.So true on how men see you. I always wondered why they would always ask why such a beautiful, accomplished woman was on insert OLD site and now I realize it’s because they think any woman on these apps is easy or desperate. They’re wondering why dating irl isn’t working for you and think there’s something wrong with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 02:39 PM |
| 58 | LVMs be likeI always answer this and it pisses the men off. Now she’s needy because she expects him to pull all the stops? I’ll also bet you a million dollars he would’ve said physical affection if she answered differently. Their script is getting obvious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:48 PM |
| 15 | Men and their hypocrisy🙄 notice how he expects women to build men but doesn’t expect men to do the same. And of course pickmeishas will try to do it every time EVEN THOUGH he admitted men think pickmes are dumb for building them up🤦🏾♀️Yep, a lot of men like to pretend they want a bang maid but in actuality a lot of them want to be the patriarchal standard. They feel a lot of shame when they’re broke/undesirable. It’s why they leave their wives/forever girlfriends high and dry once they gain some sort of success. In their eyes, these women don’t deserve them at their best and they see them as a temporary maid/sex service until they reach their full potential. I would rather be the woman that a man knows he has to be successful… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:36 PM |
| 35 | Reminder: Delete your dating apps! Your sanity will thank you.This was me with two of my exes that I met through OLD. One ended up being a major porn addict who relied on 19 year old me for housing and food and the other a member of AA 5 years older than me and way behind in me in terms of accomplishments. Never felt proud to be seen with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:24 PM |
| 82 | Reminder: Delete your dating apps! Your sanity will thank you.It’s also loads better in real life because you can gage your attraction level quickly as well as use your intuition to judge their demeanor. OLD is great for men who are creeps or weirdos because they can hide behind a screen and persuade women to go out with them. A majority of men I’ve met online were losers and guys I would never look at twice in real life. They also were too socially awkward to approach a woman in real life which is a red flag for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:21 PM |
| 183 | Man of deadbedroom is amazed that it takes effort to have a great marriageOh god. Reading that made me feel sick. I hope she wakes up and leaves him. Men rarely change and the fact that they’re already cooling off is a red flag. It can take months to years for things to cool off if constant work is being done. It’s also telling that he always demanded her before realizing that maybe he should be a nice and considerate partner. He didn’t get to this conclusion until they almost got a divorce. Truly disturbing how selfish men can be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 12:38 PM |
| 17 | Why they're hung up on their exThere’s gonna be hordes of them in the streets after this pandemic because their forever girlfriends will be sick of being around them 24/7. This is why I’m steering clear of OLD because that’s the easiest way for them to create fake intimacy and have access to women that could potentially replace their ex. I’ve seen so many 7-10 year girlfriends talking about exit plans. So glad women are waking up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 12:34 PM |
| 14 | Why they're hung up on their exI had to deal with this when I was 19 with my 22 year old ex. I didn’t want to be a housemaid at 19 so I would wait for him to clean since it was his turn. He would take days to finally do the dishes or fold the laundry. He was perfectly content living in his own filth. I would be the one to break because uncleanly spaces trigger my anxiety. I’m never moving in with a man again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 12:22 PM |
| 610 | Man of deadbedroom is amazed that it takes effort to have a great marriageI swear men are so daft. He wrote this whole essay just to say your partner will be attracted to you if you act like you care about them. This shouldn’t be rocket science but since men only value us for our labor, it probably takes a lot for them to go from us being objects to suddenly human. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 12:09 PM |
| 73 | Reminder: Delete your dating apps! Your sanity will thank you.Yes to all of this, dating apps are a complete waste of time and any man I met who was decently normal would tell me he never used apps before and preferred real life. Any man that lives on dating apps is a red flag. I moved to a new city a year ago and have been on dating apps on and off and it’s the same men over and over. If they were truly desirable they wouldn’t on the apps like that since good men get snatched up quick unlike women who are surrounded by lvm. I truly believe a majority of t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 12:07 PM |
| 88 | "dO yOu eXpEcT A mAn tO pAy FoR EvErYtHinG fOrEvEr": How Women Talk Themselves Out of Following FDS Standards By Creating Imaginary Problems.That’s why 50/50, low effort dates, and moving in before marriage are always the biggest deterrents for newbies. They don’t want to lose options. They’re so afraid of being alone that any standard that goes above the bar that’s in hell is seen as a threat to them. How else are they gonna get married and live their fairytale dream? Unfortunately, straight women have been gifted the shit stain that is men and because of that we need to vet for the rest of our lives. Skimping out on standards can a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 04:22 AM |
| 12 | I need men to stop acting like heightism actually existsMost of them only say that because unattractive women are invisible to them. They genuinely only acknowledge attractive women in real life and media. Anything else is no longer a woman to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 02:40 AM |
| 29 | Scrote sexually fantasizes about maid of honor DURING HIS OWN WEDDINGMost men are avoidant and would rather ignore their problems and pretend they don’t exist. It’s easier for them to pretend they’re over something then to go through the painful process of physically and emotionally moving on intentionally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 11:51 PM |
| 37 | I need men to stop acting like heightism actually existsYes, to them not seeing us as human. They’d prefer we shut up and take it. That’s why they hate the feminist presence in social media. They weaponize our empathy all the time. My empathy is exclusive to only nonhet men/ women and children because the world is literally built around them. The second they get a taste of their own medicine they cower and hide acting like victims. It’s a waste of energy because most of them wouldn’t piss on us if we were on fire. Just listening in on conversations i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 04:37 PM |
| 38 | I need men to stop acting like heightism actually existsLol love that you know exactly which vine I’m talking about. Same here but I just think tall men are less likely to have the insecurities that short men have. Men don’t know how to deal with insecurities at all and they’ll take it out on you instead of going to therapy and getting over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 04:09 PM |
| 87 | I need men to stop acting like heightism actually existsAll of this. Women are constantly told not to care about looks. There’re so many couples that are attractive woman/unattractive man that it’s embarrassing. Men have it too easy and the ones that aren’t up to par despite that are embarrassing. There’re men who are also so delusional that they don’t see the girlfriends they consider average/below average are way out their league because they can’t process that they are ugly/undesirable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 04:04 PM |
| 71 | I need men to stop acting like heightism actually existsExactly. All the problems men complain about they cause for themselves. Every standard we have is linked to the patriarchy. They’re just mad they don’t get to benefit when they don’t reach they’re own standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 03:51 PM |
| 504 | Love seeing women not falling for manipulation tactics.Lmaooo the praying hands are killing me. I know he was crying and throwing up after that🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 01:13 PM |
| 34 | Bumble wants to make 🍆📸illegalI was passively/barely using hinge and this just made me delete it. Why are we making access to us so easy for men when they have so much to prove. Sticking to real life from now on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 01:10 PM |
| 44 | Bumble wants to make 🍆📸illegalUgh hinge is another animal. Don’t even bother liking any profiles because they’ll think you’re gonna chase them and ask you to write the first message. Useless app with ugly ass men as per usual. And just scrolling through online advice for dating apps from men shows me their true intention. A lot of them see them as hookup apps. Probably 5% of men on there would want an actual relationship and that number is me being very generous. I’m glad the ratios for men to women on those apps are so dism… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 12:49 PM |
| 104 | Bumble wants to make 🍆📸illegalI stopped caring about the apps once I realized all the men use multiple apps and they have the same people. It’s redundant and pointless. Bumble is the worst out of all of them because it forces you to make the first move when we know men take what they can get. Bumble is the equivalent of approaching a man in real life so you’ll never know if you were his preference and easily get into forever girlfriend/situationship territory. Any woman who thinks bumble is the best option is delusional beca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 12:38 PM |
| 103 | Mere MINUTES after a particular toxic male subreddit was banned, scrotes in another male subreddit are planning to infiltrate and brigade FDS 🤡Good luck getting through the mods! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 10:40 PM |
| 104 | “I liKe HaNgiNg OuT WiTh GuYs, ThEy’Re LeSs DrAmA!!” And other lies people tell themselves.Look at how they treat men that women love for being attractive. It’s laughable that men who get recognized for appealing to the female gaze are considered gay or feminine. They have no problem stealing each other’s SOs either. Men are haters in general. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 03:36 PM |
| 92 | “I liKe HaNgiNg OuT WiTh GuYs, ThEy’Re LeSs DrAmA!!” And other lies people tell themselves.I used to have a few guy friends growing up and quickly noticed how much they love gossip and drama. And on the boy mom thing, the black community especially has this problem because there are so many moms that say their sons are their kings which is how we get men that think women should do everything in the household while they don’t provide or lift a finger. Now there’s more vocal black men who are becoming incels because they’re sad black women don’t want to deal with failed patriarchs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 03:33 PM |
| 2 | You don't have to start dating early to maximise your chances of finding a HVMIt definitely feeds the scarcity mindset and is what causes women approaching their thirties to marry someone because they feel have no other options. It’s also why so many women waste their twenties as forever girlfriends to the guy they met in college. So many of my ex girlfriends got trapped this way and very few have even made it to an engagement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 02:29 PM |
| 9 | Expensive rent/housing is the biggest proponent for monogamy and cohabitationI think it goes hand in hand. It’s 50% brainwashing but someone earlier in this thread mentioned how women joining the workforce in the 70s/80s caused the market to believe two income households can afford to pay higher on cost of living. We live in a society that grooms us into believing the dream is to have a nuclear family and white picket fence. A majority of women are coerced into cohabitation because a) they romanticize it based off media and their surrounding culture b) they see the benef… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 12:16 PM |
| 10 | The level of pick me that is expected of you of you if you're a black womanAll of this. It’s why when I’m dating I don’t consider race but instead how they treat me. Every time I’ve gone on a date with a nonblack man I get the worst looks from black men. I think it’s so funny now because growing up I preferred black men but they bullied that preference out of me. Now I don’t put them on a pedestal and rarely date black men not by choice but because they expect me to worship them and do all the work as soon as the first message is sent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 10:27 AM |
| 218 | Why do men think we are in love with them after 1 date?They’re projecting and trying to hurt your feelings by rejecting you in hopes that you’ll start chasing them. That’s an immediate red flag and tells me he’s a) emotionally unintelligent or b) he’s a manipulative asshole that uses negging techniques to trigger naive women. Luckily you saw through what he was doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 02:19 AM |
| 36 | Expensive rent/housing is the biggest proponent for monogamy and cohabitationThat would be a utopia. Men would hate it though because than we’d have standards because we wouldn’t need them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 02:15 AM |
| 211 | Scrote makes up an obviously fake story to make fds look bad, convenient army of comments referencing FDS and "toxic femininity"Lmaoooo. First rule of FDS, never talk about FDS. No woman apart of this sub would air themselves out like that. Definitely cosplay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 01:15 AM |
| 115 | Expensive rent/housing is the biggest proponent for monogamy and cohabitationThat’s really nice of you. I’m glad you’re helping out women in need because without you they would stuck between staying with an nvm or going to a shelter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 01:13 AM |
| 146 | Expensive rent/housing is the biggest proponent for monogamy and cohabitationYep, all the work on women’s liberation will be futile without housing rights, especially with how low wages are and the wage/reproductive gap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 01:12 AM |
| 150 | Expensive rent/housing is the biggest proponent for monogamy and cohabitationExactly, it’s definitely tied to the systems needing women to reproduce a working class so anything that causes desperation and codependency is the plan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 01:09 AM |
| 146 | Expensive rent/housing is the biggest proponent for monogamy and cohabitationYeah it’s definitely internalized misogyny because they have much higher standards for women than they do men. They’ll talk endearingly about the boyfriend that leaves their laundry everywhere but god forbid a woman be messy. I’d much deal with a female slob than a male one any day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 11:57 PM |
| 60 | Expensive rent/housing is the biggest proponent for monogamy and cohabitationHonestly, yeah but I think women have been brainwashed for years to thinking living with a man before marriage is the smart and romantic thing to do. I’d rather live with a girlfriend any day. 🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 10:56 PM |
| 64 | Expensive rent/housing is the biggest proponent for monogamy and cohabitationYes! That honestly sounds like the perfect living arrangement😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 10:45 PM |
| 100 | Expensive rent/housing is the biggest proponent for monogamy and cohabitationExactly, especially with how hard it is to get out of a lease. It’s the worst way to get trapped in a relationship and isolated too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 10:41 PM |
| 56 | Single >dragging a dead horse.After my last relationship just two years ago, I forced myself to have standards and boundaries. Now I can barely stand being around men and dating them. 99% of them want you to do all the work and all the chasing in the relationship. Any time I feel lonely I just scroll through relationship advice and dating advice to reaffirm that no relationship will always be better than a shit relationship. One tiktok comment section really woke me up and it was a thread of women saying they had been in 7-1… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 10:05 PM |
| 79 | “My husband proposed to me with a box of pizza and a 20€ ring. I am marrying him because I love him, not for his money.”Once I noticed how much men invest in themselves, I never felt bad asking for whatever I want. They invest in what’s important to them. If he can’t even get you a nice ring for your ENGAGEMENT?? He hates you hun and is settling for you because he doesn’t want to be alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 09:57 PM |
| 24 | 🚩 Don't get suckered into "protecting/respecting" the guy you're dating by keeping his dirty deeds a secret from your longtime trusted family/friendsYes, this definitely how they isolate you and slowly get you to go crazy because you won’t have anyone to help you see how they’re abusing you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 09:05 PM |
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