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abbafishhead/r/askTRP03/11/16 10:04 AM
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Red Pill Theoryabbafishhead/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 04:37 AM
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There are tons of copes here that are obviously the defense mechanisms of sexually-unsuccessful men here (majority of this sub): "You can be married and Red Pill." -- Says the married man who discovered TRP too late "There's more to life than sex. N-count is irrelevant." -- Says the sexless dude who'd actually be head over heels, given the opportunity to sleep with many many hot women "Hiring prostitutes can be Red Pill. Sexual strategy is amoral." -- Says the guy who needed to resort to prostit…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 07:00 AM
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Then it sounds like TRP endorses rape.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 01:41 AM
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Double-booking is a little unethical, but I see where you're coming from. Girls do it all the time; they have one "main" date for the night, and a "backup" date. I've done it several times, but more often than not I needed to cancel for one of them. I had to pick and choose of course, and I always give priority to the hotter girl. I also find it helpful to have some plausible deniability in the event that you really need to cancel, e.g. "I'm still at work, not sure what time I'll get off." Let b…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 06:59 AM
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White girls don't like brown guys. Fact. So what? What are you going to do about it: a) mope and whine about it, or b) work hard to improve your SMV regardless?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 03:45 AM
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Not oneitis? Wow, denial is a very powerful thing.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 06:21 AM
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Did you just quote me? A little credit would be nice instead of just copying it from my comment history. :)
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 06:19 AM
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I'm not sure why cooking and cleaning don't count; they do. In this modern feminist world, those have become rarities, such that any girl who offers that without the whole "I'm not your fucking servant!" attitude actually has a competitive advantage over the other bitchy whiny feminist sluts. My list would also include: 1) Contributing financially to the household; 2) Completely understands the need for my "alone time" and "boys night out;" 3) Any possible career/family/social connections or ski…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 07:33 AM
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I use pre-selection to my advantage in another way. Every time I date a HB8 and above, I take a selfie with her and post it on my Instagram, with a very generic caption, e.g. "Great night! <kiss emoticon>" that's open to interpretation. Over time, my Instagram is filled with pictures of me with hot girls whose SMV is easily 1-2 points above my own. Anytime I match with a girl on Tinder, I add them on Instagram beforehand to "make sure they're a real person" and "not a catfish." Sometimes, I'm ab…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 07:28 AM
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Spoiler alert: you LTRed a slut.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 10:24 AM
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Regardless of how defensive you are, going back and fucking an ex just because she's sexually available is clear evidence of oneitis and a lack of abundance. That's just a fact. A man with abundance doesn't even often repeat-fuck girls; he's too busy getting fresh new meat. For instance, it's hard for a girl to even get a second date/fuck with me, and, if any of them does, it's only because I'm not getting any new girls at the moment. Fucking an ex (itself a potential powder keg) is unequivocal …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 08:08 AM
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Remember that if you choose to walk away do NOT explain yourself. You owe her no explanation. If you must feel the need to say something, say that you aren't happy with her. That's it. This is crap. You'll drive her crazy, and she'll go as far as slinging false rape accusations. Just ghost away. That's it. Closure is for pussies.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 07:37 AM
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What's this, Social Skills 101? I feel like you don't need any of this unless you're seriously autistic.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 07:35 AM
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Yes, monk mode definitely is a form of MGTOW. I guess ultimately in essence MGTOW is about avoiding/boycotting women for a variety of reasons. If you practice that in some form or another, you can be considered a follower of the MGTOW philosophy.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 11:17 AM
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it depends on how you define MGTOW. I define it as no LTRs or marriage; everything else is fair game.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 08:33 AM
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I define MGTOW as pump-and-dump plus occasional plating, no LTRs or marriage. That's the best form of MGTOW, which I subscribe to.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 08:29 AM
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This is a very well-written and insightful post that can only be penned down from experience by a beta transitioning to alpha. You're absolutely right when you say that people will start shaming you or calling you "weird." More commonly, people also use the "What happened man? You changed, you used to be cool." to try to prey on your need for acceptance. Never revert once you're on the path to self-betterment; cut off those fools if you have to. Women are uncomfortable when you're becoming incre…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 11:51 PM
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I don't want to discourage you, but it seems like the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th girls are DTF, but you just didn't know how to pull the trigger. They were all probably sensing that you were fumbling around, didn't know what you were doing, and obviously their vaginas dried up a little. Sex isn't going to happen unless you push for it; that's just the way it is. Next time just invite them over to your place for the first date.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 10:53 AM
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Guys who use hookers are losers.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 10:49 AM
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4 Tinder dates, and you fucked none of them?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 10:43 AM
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Also, if you can pull it off, never do monogamous LTRs too.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 09:31 PM
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I have no issues with LTRs, just monogamy.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 08:43 AM
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Then it made no sense not to escalate right away.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 06:24 AM
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You have to make peace with the fact that having a young kid is going to limit your dating options. That's just the way it is. And since it's a dealbreaker for many women, mentioning it upfront would always help to filter out women who think of it as a big deal. You can also pull the dick move of getting a girl invested, and then when she finds out, you just go, "Oh, you didn't ask." Just like some transgender girls do on Tinder...
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 05:05 AM
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In World War II, the Britons examined their planes that have flown over Nazi airspace and found that the planes had the most bullet holes on their tails and wings, and very few in the cockpit and gas tank. So what did the Brits do? They fortified the wings and tails of course, since they seemed to be most vulnerable, in an attempt to reduce plane casualties. That didn't work. Eventually it occurred to them that they were only examining the planes that managed to return to base; they were totally…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 04:58 AM
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The way you wrote this FR tells me that you got laid but don't really know what got you laid. Fragrance? Mind fuck? Power posture? You got laid, because you were above her SMV threshold and escalated. That's it. Don't teach the newbies the wrong things, and the next thing you know, this n00b goes on AskTRP and says he tried to "mind fuck" a chick but failed to fuck her.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 04:51 AM
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I agree with you, you're right, and I thought it was obvious. People always want to experience what they never have before it's too late. This isn't really actionable though.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 04:46 AM
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Did you have performance anxiety in the car or what?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 04:40 AM
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If you're aiming to make people like you, much less women, you have bigger problems in life than trying to get laid. At most, you should aim to make people respect you. At most.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 04:16 AM
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I know you're being serious, but even obese guys don't want to sleep with obese girls.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 07:34 PM
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No, it only works if you have high SMV. Tell an obese 300 lbs man to do "cold approaches" and see him approach 100 girls and get laid with none. Yes, theoretically, he's still more likely to get laid by approaching more, but it's a dumb thing to do at that stage. He's better off just taking 6 months off to lose that weight, and then he'll probably at least lay a couple of 100 girls he approach.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 08:28 AM
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So I understand that to 90% of people, this golden era in the 30's may be attainable (in comparison to their 20s). No, it probably isn't. If you didn't have the willpower to max out your SMV attributes in your 20s (when you have the most energy, testosterone, optimism, etc.), you probably won't have the willpower to do so in your 30s. Of course, high-SMV dudes in their 30s can outslay the average-SMV dudes in their 20s. That's a given. My point is to zoom in again on high-SMV dudes in their 30s …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 08:16 AM
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But there seems to be this TRP fantasy that 30+ men here are in the prime of their life dating wise. And there you go. Most guys in their 20s here want to believe that their 30s are going to be remarkably better, because their 20s have been so shitty, so they buy into the whole "30 is the new 20"/"the best is yet to come" BS. Can you imagine if you just tell them straight-up that this is it? If you fucked up your 20s, your 30s aren't going to get any better -- it's all downhill from here? Imagin…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 07:39 AM
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Are you going to respond with a logical counter-argument, or are you going to leave it as the ad hominem BS that it is?
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 07:06 AM
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Start an SaaS software business -- learn to code, free money every month (once everything is coded up), just fix some bugs + add some features + answer customer service emails
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 07:01 AM
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You must leave it all behind. This is the real red pill right here. There's no two ways to go about this; OP can't have his cake and eat it too. Leave everything behind and travel. If it's just an office job, he really isn't losing much.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 06:58 AM
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I think you have the best response here. Keeping your 9-5 (stability) and still having all the time and freedom to travel, see the world, try new things, etc. don't go hand in hand. You can't have your cake and eat it too. If you sell out to Corporate America, part of the deal is to live a highly-routine and structured life. You can't have it both ways. Drop out of the rat race, or just accept things as they are. I hate to be the one pooh-poohing others, but OP will probably choose to keep his j…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 06:53 AM
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I haven't cracked the code on this yet, but you need to free up your location and time in order to do this. I've once programmed a SaaS software that I sold for $50/mo to small businesses. From 2012-2014, I could work from anywhere in the world, anytime, often only working 2-4 hours a week once everything is set up. I had a girlfriend then, and we traveled often, taking road trips on a whim and also playing video games all day and night. Then I went to prison, had to give up my business, pay a h…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 06:44 AM
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Nothing is more common than a well-off guy in his 30s who still doesn't know how to get laid. Why do you think the PUA gurus make so much money off these folks? Guys think that getting rich means pussy. Nah. It means you'll attract more gold diggers. Will you fuck some of them? Sure. After you pay up with expensive dinner, drinks, commitment, monogamy, a house, a car, engagement ring, etc. etc. while a broke-ass joker like me fucks them by just texting them and asking them to "Netflix and chill"…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 06:22 AM
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Do not even guess what it's like to be a high SMV male in his 30's and 40's. It's life on easy mode. I don't think a guy who has maxed out his attributes/SMV in his 20s will have an easier time slaying in his 30s, even as he keeps his SMV high. Of course a guy who's a beta bucks in his 20s, and somehow got his shit together leading up to his 30s, will think that "30 is the new 20" for getting laid. I doubt it is. I myself have a high n-count (definitely well over 130, too), but I'm in my late 20…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 06:19 AM
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The truth is that guys who haven't had success in their 20s dealing with women are unlikely to have success in their 30s. Of course it's going to be harder to slay in your 30s (and way harder in your 40s), all things equal. That "you peak sexually" in your 30s is nonsense. As for your remarks on LTRs, most guys worth their salt will want to fight the urge to settle down for as long as they can. A man with options will always resist monogamy. And I also agree with folks like Black Dragon, who con…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 06:11 AM
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At some point, some loser on TRP is going to comment and say "but my career bruv, fuck chasing women, I rather be a sexless 30 year old than getting laid like a rockstar if I have to break my monk mode principles for it bro!" or whatever load of crap losers that have infested TRP say these days. For some reason we have had an infestation of losers that think having sex with a lot of different women is a sin or some unholy crap that takes you away from your "life purpose". This is classic sour gr…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 06:03 AM
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Theoretically, yes. But try telling that to a low-SMV guy. He'll do some approaches, get super-demoralized because of lack of results, and give up soon after. Monk mode exists for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 05:37 AM
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Yes. Think Triple H marrying Stephanie McMahon. That's marriage done right.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 05:33 AM
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I think that's a self-defeating mentality. First, they don't know if it's realistic if they don't try. Most guys won't try, because they think they'll "lose" the girl if they use such a risky tactic. But guess what? More girls than you expect would come over right away. Also, if the girl says "no" to coming over, she's also unlikely to come over, even after drinks or dinner. You won't change her mind just because you shell out some money to buy her affections. So ultimately drinks are pointless.…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 04:04 AM
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The girl didn't like him. Period. He wasn't attractive to her. Everything else is irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 08:54 PM
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Did you read my comment? I said drinks at my place. I literally serve them $1 beer when they come over.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 08:54 PM
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Let's assume you're right and she wouldn't fuck you anyway. Why in the world would you buy her a drink if so? I wouldn't. If you read the rest of my comments, I think drinks or dinner is dumb, and it doesn't filter out gold diggers. I advocate asking her to come over right away for "drinks." In that case, yes, I advocate buying the drinks to store in your fridge/cabinet, because doing otherwise is just sabotaging yourself. If you're out and about having fun, just ask her to go back with you to y…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 07:03 AM
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There are tons of guys here with the "if I can't do it myself, everyone else must be lying" mentality, which is a defense mechanism to help them cope with their own sexlessness. Don't bother. Hey newbies, guess what? I also have had girls driving 25 miles to-and-fro to my apartment for a first date just to get fucked. Not once, not twice, dozens of times! And I've written tons of guides on how I did that, screenshots of conversations, etc., and my posts are generally heavily upvoted. Want to dow…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 06:55 AM
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You're actually right, and you're simply downvoted because of your last sentence. Any reference to anecdotes here will be shamed for bragging. It's understandable -- the majority of guys here have a super-low n-count, so whenever there are instances of guys doing well with women they'll downvote en masse as a defense mechanism to deal with their own feelings of inadequacy. This is super-childish and needs to stop. Chances are the guys who're "bragging" have more experience and can teach a lot of…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 06:50 AM
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Why are you so insecure that he referenced a personal anecdote?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 06:48 AM
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Because let's face it, if you are on this sub, you're probably not doing a whole lot of fucking at the moment. A lot of guys come here to learn how to get laid. I personally have a triple-digit n-count, I'm fucking 2 new girls weekly on average for YEARS now, and can learn little from all the "how to get laid" posts; they're in fact quite amateurish to me. But I do return to contribute, to help out newbies, and also from time to time there will be gems on RP theories (all that "women's nature" s…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 06:45 AM
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I'm not saying you're wrong, but not paying for a girl, or worse, forcing her to pay, isn't going to miraculously increase your SMV in her eyes. This goes back again to the theory that girls already put guys into boxes (e.g. alpha, beta bucks, omega, etc.) right from the start. A beta trying to force her to pay will be viewed as stingy. An alpha making her pay will be viewed as assertive; she'd gladly pay for the privilege of spending time with him. She'd rather die than to remove you from one b…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 06:41 AM
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You're absolutely right. The rest who adopt the "I'll never pay!" pseudo-macho stance are just bitter guys who've been taken for a ride one too many times by girls who use them for expensive drinks and dinner and then refuse to have sex at the end of the night. Their insecurity and projection show. If you think paying for drinks/dinner is the reason that you failed to fuck her, you're an idiot. The reason you failed is that she isn't attracted to you; your SMV was too low. That's it. Forcing her…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 06:36 AM
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All those guys who're taking the "macho guy" stance of never paying for a girl's drinks are idiots who obviously don't get laid a lot. Guys who get laid a lot don't obsess over who pays for drinks -- it's not very important. What's important is that you fuck her. Ask yourself: would you rather she pay for drinks, and then you don't fuck her, or would you rather pay for drinks, and then you fuck her? rp_southsider is right. Who buys isn't important at all. What's important is keeping frame and ma…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 06:32 AM
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You're right on the money. He asked her to come over multiple times and got rejected consistently. Why would he double down and take her out for drinks? I'll tell you why. He had a scarcity mentality. He was invested in this chick. He wanted her by hook or by crook, and that came across as desperation. I'm not saying that his desperation chased her off -- no, she didn't like him to begin with, even if he wasn't desperate. But his desperation made things worse, dug his grave deeper.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 06:28 AM
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Well spoiler alert: she actually liked you. Unlike OP's girl who was taking him for a ride from the very start. Feminist or not was not even the issue.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 06:25 AM
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I'm not saying your analysis is wrong, but are you suggesting that, if he avoided all the pitfalls you mentioned, he would've fucked her? No. Just no.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 06:22 AM
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Which do you prefer, she buys the first round and you don't fuck her, or you buy all rounds and you fuck her?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 06:18 AM
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Yes, he did. But that wasn't the cause of him failing to fuck her.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 06:17 AM
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I doubt that OP cares about who pays as long as he got laid at the end. "Who pays" is a dumb non-sequitur red herring most of the time.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 06:17 AM
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Yes, this man gets it. Those who're saying that he failed shit tests, etc. thus fucking up his chances are just plain wrong. She wasn't attracted to him, period. Nothing could have changed that, least of all rounds of drinks at an expensive bar. The most effective way to gauge if a girl is attracted to you is to ask her to come over. That's the best way to force her to open her cards and show you where she stands. If she likes you, even coming over to watch TV and cuddling on the couch would be …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 06:16 AM
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Nah, he was a lost cause from the start, from the moment he lost his frame and took her out to drinks.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 06:13 AM
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He already regrets it. He took her out to drinks for no reason. If you already invited a girl to come over, she says no, DON'T DOUBLE DOWN AND INVITE HER OUT FOR DRINKS INSTEAD. That's the most fucking stupid thing to do in the entire world.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 06:12 AM
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Wrong. There's a big lesson here. Sticking to your guns (e.g. he asked her to come over, but then somehow caved in when she didn't want to) is one. If a girl refuses to come over, chances are huge that she would still refuse after a round of drinks. Men who don't learn this lesson will pay over and over again. If she was going to come over anyway, drinks are unnecessary. If she wasn't going to come over anyway, drinks are a complete waste. So why do drinks? Drinks never changed a girl's mind. In…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 06:05 AM
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By saying come over, then taking her to an expensive bar Exactly. He fucked up big-time here. This is where she lost massive respect for him. If you're going to ask a girl to come over (which is the only real-life interaction I endorse; fuck dates), STICK WITH IT. If she says no or suggests an alternative plan, insist on your plan. It's your way or the highway. He cracked, and accordingly he got used like the doormat that he is.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 05:39 AM
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This is why I always tell guys to just invite girls to come over, no exceptions. By inviting her out to dinner or drinks, you have ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA if she's attracted to you, and in the process you'll attract a lot of gold diggers (she's one of them). If she's into you, ask her to prove it -- put her money where her mouth is -- by coming over and letting you escalate on her. You idiots who keep taking girls out will never learn, it seems.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 05:36 AM
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This could work, but it's often unnecessary. You really want to prevent LMR consistently? Screen her for sexual availability before you even ask her to come over. How? Text her sexual stuff, tell her straight-up that you want to fuck her. See how she reacts. Anything other than a "no" is good; "no" or "I'm not interested" is obviously bad. Stop asking her out on a date. You'll get a lot of gold diggers who have zero intention of ever sleeping with you. Ask her to come over. That's basically aski…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 06:05 AM
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PUA tactics are cringeworthy. You don't need "lines" and "negs" and "AMOGs" to get women; that's completely missing the point. The point is that your fundamentals have to be strong, i.e. your understanding of women, your frame, and your SMV. If you know a woman's nature, know how not to be beta, and your SMV is right up there, you can say whatever the hell you want and still get laid.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 05:57 AM
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I learned the same lesson when I was younger, just like you. I set way too many goals, wanted to be too many things -- too many hypenated identities. As you might suspect, I didn't get very far on any of them. I did make remarkable strides into some of them, and then my priorities changed (e.g. I started an SaaS startup that paid for my living expenses for two years, and I didn't have to work at all because of all the passive income, and then I simply gave up on it and work a waged position now)…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 05:52 AM
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No, brown guys can't score white chicks, because they're mostly beta mamma's boys. The media brainwashing factor is at most contributory.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 07:18 AM
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It's more accurate to say that Asian women do not prefer Asian men.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 07:14 AM
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Basically, if you're an Asian guy dealing with an Asian girl, she'll assume you're a beta weak-ass mamma's boy... until proven otherwise. But once you pass her barrage of shit tests, you're good. Just don't falter in keeping frame, or she'll write you off in an instant.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 07:14 AM
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This is the most Asian Red Pill thing I've ever read. Boycott those used-up skanks like no tomorrow, pump and dump these nasty yellow sluts with no mercy.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 07:10 AM
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I'm an Asian guy, and I couldn't give a flying fuck what Asian girls think or do; I'm too busy boycotting Asian girls and going for better stuff. Just don't come to me in your 30s with your washed-up loose vaginas begging for marriage.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 07:06 AM
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Money is almost irrelevant in getting laid most of the time; I doubt in itself it would "make or break" your prospects at getting laid. What really "makes or breaks" your prospects is looks and not having beta traits. That's it. Take it from a guy with a triple-digit n-count.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 07:04 AM
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That's the ultimate pedestalization of the pussy.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 07:00 AM
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I've always likened singlehood to dropping out of college: it can either be a bad or super-good decision. In the case of singlehood, it's awesome if you know how to get laid. In the case of dropping out of college, it's awesome if you already have an opportunity (e.g. big break in entertainment, a fast-growing startup, etc.) that's way bigger than college.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 09:43 AM
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I'm not sure why you got downvoted, but girls really do have sex for validation probably even more than for pleasure.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 03:41 AM
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There are, however, places where cost of living is super-significantly cheaper due to currency arbitrage though, like Vietnam and Thailand.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 08:44 AM
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Exactly. I've lived in a Third World country in Asia before, and I'm slaying all the same as I am in the US. It shouldn't be any different... unless you have the characteristics that make girls stereotype you as beta bucks.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 08:40 AM
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I'm not sure which you want badder: a DUI conviction plus jail time, or a false rape accusation plus jail time plus registered sex offender.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 01:25 AM
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I know exactly what you're talking about. Some girls are just that self-absorbed and would tell you their entire life story even if you didn't ask, and even if you wanted to interject with something. It's not an alpha/beta thing either (so much bad advice in this thread); some girls are just like that, and it's not just limited to hot girls. The key is to still escalate and fuck her, which is why I always invite girls over right away. I don't do dates where she can babble me to death. After sex,…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 12:24 AM
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You're absolutely right. You called out the elephant in the room, respect. OP actually thrives on the ego boost provided by this chick but will not do anything to "risk" it. Thus OP reasons that she's childish, he doesn't need her, etc. to justify his inaction -- classic sour grapes hamstering.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 08:26 AM
1

I've always loved being a guy, because it puts me in a position of power. I have the freedom to choose whom to make moves on, thus sparing me of any unwanted advances. I may have to deal with rejections, but I'm naturally thick-skinned, and I often learn from my failures and perpetually improve myself. Girls don't have that; they're forever complacent because of all the false positives (i.e. unwanted attention) that they get, yet they don't know where they go wrong when they fail to attract the …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 07:23 AM
2

but it does help them properly grow. Still doesn't answer the question, but okay...
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 10:24 AM
6

Please correct me, but why? They don't have chlorophyll and definitely don't perform photosynthesis.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 08:04 AM
3

I'm not sure how you missed this, but she's crying not because you do this with other girls, but because she's insulted that you think of her as the "sort" to do it with other guys, thus severely suppressing her ability to lock you down for long-term commitment.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 08:03 AM
1

I have no desire to prove myself. The text conversations have been posted over and over again in my post history, and I've also written guides that are not only heavily-upvited but also received the seal of approval of many "endorsed" contributors.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 08:50 PM
-1

Guess what? It doesn't matter, so long as you're getting more than you can handle from those who will come over right away. I'm getting an average of two new girls per week to come over. At this stage, it's more than enough for me.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 07:48 AM
13

Or the most naive/easily-betafied one, duh. I like how you reframe things like it's some kind of positive thing to be bestowed the privilege of being baby daddy. You sound like a woman.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 05:06 AM
1

she gets paid to spin hoola hoops she has gained about 30 pounds since I last saw her. Something does not compute.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 04:47 AM
127

Is this like Red Pill porn or fanfiction? It just sounds surreal to me. I've slept with dozens of girls by now, many of them raw + creampie (stupid but still my personal risk to take), and NONE of them have tried to accuse me of fathering any of their fetuses. In fact, almost all of them are as paranoid as I am, if not more, about peegnancy. One even begged me to take her to the pharmacy to get a Plan B after I "accidentally" nutted in her. So where does this alternate reality of girls getting p…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 02:11 AM
1

Then tell them to increase their SMV. There's no quick-fix to gettig laid except paying for a prostitute. Stop selling people smoke.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 12:39 AM
4

Most guys are high-body fat, high-estrogen, high-cortisol, low-Testosterone sorry excuses for men and are emotionally needy (e.g. needing to fall a sleep with a woman next to them every night, need people to share "special occasions" with, a listening ear, etc.) and/or also don't know how to get laid beyond exchanging commitment and monogamy just to hopefully get some. If you don't fit the bill above, LTRs are unthinkable for you. Indeed it's unthinkable for me. I spin plates, and I have new gir…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 11:39 PM
-1

You're the only guy who's making sense in this thread. The rest are just low-n-count wannabes who haven't been there done that and would also be unable to recognize the inexperience of the OP. I feel like I'm in the Twilight Zone.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 11:33 PM
-2

Rubbish. Just because you can't do it yourself doesn't mean it's not doable. Stop teaching ineffective BP stuff here, and also stop projecting your failure on to others. What's your n-count? Like 20?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 11:32 PM
5

I wrote a post on "the less you spend on her, the more likely you'll fuck her" based on years and years of experience, and which was heavily upvoted. Guess BP guys will always be BP.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 11:30 PM
2

What kind of BP nonsense is this? You "generate attraction" by being high-SMV, period. You really think you can "convince" a girl to like you by doing fun shit together? Do it because it's fun, not because you want her to like you. Why do I feel like I'm in the Twilight Zone?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 11:29 PM
0

Bla bla bla JUST ASK THE GIRL TO COME OVER FOR THE FIRST DATE. She already made up her mind if you're fuckable by looking at you. If she wants to fuck you, or she says she's interested in you ("Hm, let me get to know you better."), ask her to put her money where her mouth is, step into your frame, and enter an environment of privacy where she'll allow you to escalate on her. This is also how you avoid being taken for a ride with expensive and time-consuming dinner or drinks. The rest is noise. J…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 11:27 PM
9

Knowing that pre-selection works is one thing (theory), knowing how to use it to your advantage is another (practice). Here's an example: every now and then, I match with an Asian girl (I'm an Asian guy) who thinks she knows better about Asian guys and keeps ruthlessly trying to pigeonhole me into beta bucks category. Well you see, I'm this creep who takes a selfie with and posts on Instagram every hot Tinder girl I sleep with, especially if they're blonde and slim and big-boobed. So I'll always…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 11:14 PM
1

This is why I always tell my friends who ask me for dating advice: "I can't help you get the girl. I can only help you get a girl."
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 11:01 PM
2

It is absolutely imperative that women sell men on this dream because there is nothing that scares a woman more than growing old and dying alone with no husband and no kids. So much truth... As much as they want to deny it, it becomes painfully obvious that women really cannot live alone and will practically do anything (including marrying other women and having cats, or even using a baby to tie a man down by force) to avoid that inevitable lonely fate that awaits her if she fails to be high-val…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 07:09 AM
1

And that's the only correct way to do it. I always open immediately asking them to come have drinks/watch a movie. Why do you need so many other pretexts? You're missing the point and focusing on the wrong things.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 09:30 AM
1

Screw what others say. I applaud you for calling out instances of women's privilege/pussy pass.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 11:19 PM
1

Not this shit again... Notice how only the Asians who don't get laid whine about race?
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 10:41 PM
4

I've done this several times. The biggest obstacle is that most girls don't live alone, and they don't want to be judged by roommates for bringing guys back. So if you address this issue, you're golden. I usually do it this way. Me: So do you live alone Her: Nope, I live with a couple of roommies. Me: Cool. When aren't they around? I should drop by tomorrow or some day, and we can watch Netflix or something, I can bring a bottle of wine/vodka/whatever. Basically just invite yourself over and see…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 07:28 AM
2

Dude, check out my posts, and you'll see my pic. Do I look like a model to you? No, I'm just an average Asian dude.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 10:14 PM
10

Look at this guy here and how he's better than the rest of us!
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 10:13 PM
2

Well yes, I hate it when guys here blame their race or height. I'm late-20s myself, but it's easier than ever to get college girls. Most of the guys their age are beta as fuck, and it doesn't take a lot to impress them. I'm 5'6", but I always wear elevator boots to appear taller... tallest girl I've ever fucked was 6'2". Think about that! These guys blaming height have no reason to whine.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 10:12 PM
1

It's all logistics. Live where there's a good supply of girls, abundance will come soon after. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 10:09 PM
2

(In some of those, I fucked up by being too direct) Bull-fucking-shit, your mindset is so fucked up. Why did you even care who bit and who didn't? Worry about those who said "Sure," "Where and when," and even the "maybe." That should be your focus. FUCK those who don't respond, who cares?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 08:57 AM
4

I feel that pace of escalation/LMR is largely determined beforehard, i.e. if you filtered a DTF girl before you even ask her out, you shouldn't be dealing with LMR. Most of the time, here's my routine: They arrive at my apartment. I seat them down on the couch, I pour drinks, I play a movie. 10 minutes of small talk... My arm is around her shoulders right from the outset. If she has tattoos or jewelry, I'll grab her arm or back to intensify kino. I try not to let go of her hand then. All these w…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 08:47 AM
1

What's NC? And did you fuck them consistently after succeeding in taking them out? And yes, that's an HB9. I was talking about girls like that. Slim, young, big boobs, blonde in most cases. It's not the norm for me, but to say I haven't done it several times is plain untrue. Edit: Hell, let's put a FACE to it. Is this 18yo college girl an HB9 or close? http://i.imgur.com/rlVLcuz.jpg If she is, case is closed, I've slept with even hotter girls by just asking them to come over.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 06:17 AM
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Nah man. I doubt it. I go against the grain on too many topics: e.g. money doesn't raise SMV only RMV, prostitutes are not a valid sexual strategy, n-count is important for a man, marriage/LTR/monogamy is beta, etc.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 04:06 AM
2

Let me let you in on a secret: HB9s go through slumps as well. I don't delude myself that I'm super-high SMV whenever I happen to fuck an HB9. I know I'm her slumpbuster. How do I know? Because they ghost me after fucking me once. The point is to be at the right place and the right time to be these HB9s' slumpbuster. No expensive dinners needed. Even HB9s want to get fucked by alphas, and if it has to be from a "lower" alpha (but still an alpha nonetheless) then so be it.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 04:03 AM
1

I know this is meant to be satirical, but no joke, you inevitably become psychopathic once you fuck dozens upon dozens of girls and are generally successful with women. Or sociopathic, unable to pair-bond at all.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 04:00 AM
2

I'd go as far as saying that only men who can't have their way with women who hate women. It's all frustration, bitterness, and sour grapes. Once you see some consistent success with women, you'd pity them instead for being the simple, pathetically-predictable creatures they are.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 02:20 AM
2

All I can say is that I feel sorry for men who got married before stumbling upon TRP... or just men who got married in general. My heart goes out to you sorry bastards. Oh well, back to "mindless smashing" it is for me.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 02:16 AM
1

How's she ugly? Is she fat, or just a butterface?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 02:00 AM
2

Dude, as someone who has admittedly fucked some uglies to bust a slump, stop doing it. It's not healthy for your self-esteem and psychological health. Every time I fuck a girl several points below me on the SMV scale, I feel depressed as fuck the next few days... The only word I can use to describe that feeling is "traumatized."
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 01:47 AM
1

My post was also removed, so what if it got ~600 upvotes, right? I write from experience of successfully banging dozens upon dozens of attractive women, and I'm sick of people PM-ing me for the full post. I write insightful stuff, and I know it. Oh well. Your loss. All I wanted to do is share, maybe challenge my own beliefs. But if that's not allowed, sure, let's all stick with the "women's nature" crap that even a virgin nerd can spew out.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 12:44 AM
3

I never ever brought up dinner; I said drinks and Netflix. EVERYONE has drinks in their fridge, even if you're in monk mode.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 12:11 AM
3

If anyone is real, it's me. Hope it's useful, brother.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 12:10 AM
3

I think it's important to get the expectations straight. Many guys would feel lucky even going out with a girl, and they'd gladly pay for the opportunity to just hang out with a girl in public. Jesus Christ. If you mean business, like the rest of us non-beta non-needy guys, you need to set the expectation straight. If she's intending to pay her way anyway, she wouldn't be offended at all.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 10:09 PM
2

No, it doesn't seem dangerous. Like I said, who's paying is not important. It's irrelevant. What's important is, how likely are you to fuck her at the end? How do you know if she wants to bang? The only way to find out is to ask her to put her money where her mouth is by coming over.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 09:19 PM
2

Exactly. You need to write off first dates that don't end up in F-closes. Anyone who drags it out to date two obviously doesn't have an abundance mentality.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 09:17 PM
1

You're cheating a little bit with such extreme examples. When you're talking about a sugar daddy situation like this, you're basically talking about prostitution. Of course the guy with money to spend will win in that situation.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 11:43 AM
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I'm not motivated enough to do that. Just be direct, ask them to come over based on some pretext, tell them your address, set up time and date, voila.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 11:13 AM
2

What's this? Even young hot billionaires get pussy withheld from them all the time, not to mention old ugly ones. When girls sense you're beta bucks, they'll start acting all wife-material to try to tie you down for commitment. That includes acting non-slutty and not having sex on the first date. Ugly dude spending money will just come off as try-hard and compensating for his unattractiveness. Rich dude spending money will just tell her to not sleep with him so quickly, draw it out, convince him…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 11:11 AM
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Thanks for your endorsement, it usually takes one to know one. I always get downvoted whenever I quote numbers (my n-count), which is an understandable defense mechanism from sexually-inexperienced men, but I do that not to brag but to hopefully bring credibility to my posts, especially for readers who aren't discerning enough to recognize which posters are "theory-only" philosophers and which are the ones who actually get laid a lot. I'll never understand downvoting based on emotions; right or …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 10:40 AM
3

That's why having money will never by itself create any real attraction. Exactamundo. But many well-off beta bucks, even in TRP, mistake money-grubbing antics from gold-diggers as "attraction."
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 09:58 AM
5

I can spend any amount of money I want on them and it wouldn't lower my chances because I was going to fuck them whether I spent a dime or 100 bucks. The advice is meant for those who aren't already skilled in game. And herein lies the problem with your advice. You're giving the newbies (90% of this sub) the wrong idea. Then they'll go on spending money on girls, because that's how their BP upbringing and societal programming tell them to behave, and also "because imn0tg00d says it's okay!" It's…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 09:56 AM
1

"No" doesn't necessarily mean "no." "No" sometimes means "not yet."
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 09:42 AM
1

I agree that correlation doesn't imply causation. You're right, spending money on girls is probably a symptom of low SMV, not a cause of low SMV. But not spending money on women, or even the awareness of spending money on women, helps a low-SMV guy to "fake it till he makes it." In a woman's eyes, perception is everything, and a beta guy not willing to spend money on a girl still makes it less likely for a girl to pigeonhole him as beta bucks, however infinitesimal the effect on her likelihood t…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 09:40 AM
2

To seek attention, girls' night out, birthday party, etc. etc.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 09:35 AM
1

I wasn't talking about marriage. I was talking about LTRs. "No marriage no matter how, when, how old, etc." should be the mantra of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 08:20 AM
2

Well we're talking about different things then, a totally different discussion altogether. I feel that men shouldn't "settle down" until they run out of options and need to play the relationship game a.k.a. exchanging resources for sex. You do it early, you sabotage yourself. Why do it when you can plate them endlessly?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 07:47 AM
1

she says she buy you a drink next time Why the fuck did you believe her? Were you born yesterday?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 07:45 AM
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I don't know how to. But I'm lucky enough to not be stalked, get an STD, false rape charge, be physically harmed, be called on to the Maury show for a paternity test, etc.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 06:41 AM
5

Not true, now you're regressing. You really think an HB9 is any different than an HB7? Seriously, where does this pedestalizing hot girls thing come from? I've fucked many HB9 just by asking them to come over. Unless your definition of a HB9 is a super-model or celebrity, you should do just fine inviting her over.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 05:55 AM
4

1- make it clear she needs to pay for her own shit I always feel this is immaterial, just a dumb power play that's a non-sequitur/red herring. Which would you prefer: you guys go dutch, and you don't fuck her, or you pay for it, and you fuck her? It becomes abundantly clear to me that guys wouldn't mind paying so long as there's a guarantee that they fuck at the end of the night. It's when there's a 50/50 chance that they might go home sexless that they demand girls pay their share "to minimize …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 05:32 AM
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The only time I've ever seen any of my buddies take a girl out on a date is when they actually want to settle down for the time being, and aren't looking to smash right away. Normally it's just host, smash, kick out, repeat; They won't even risk paying extra on their water bills to get her a glass from the tap. And that's the way it should be. Dates shouldn't be the first line of offence; it should be dispensed judiciously, as a reward, with discretion, to girls you've already banged.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 05:29 AM
3

It's the promising monogamy part that makes you beta. You didn't address that at all.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 05:27 AM
6

You're making a baseless assumption. You have to try it more consistently to know if it's a rule or an exception. It's the rule for me and many others.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 04:16 AM
6

What's the alternative to "meaningless" smashing? Looking for a wife/LTR, i.e. walking into a woman's frame?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 04:15 AM
9

Low self-esteem? Maybe. Psychotic? Provide evidence or reasoning. Also this guide is for guys who just want to smash. And if you don't want to just smash, I don't know if you even belong on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 03:58 AM
5

i am not pushing for that right away Why not? What are you afraid of?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 03:56 AM
1

Nice try, CMB exec. But all joking aside, I'll give it a shot once Tinder stops working for me.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 03:47 AM
8

True, but is it really a question of her paying her share? Which do you prefer, dinner split right down the middle, no sex at the end of it, or dinner, you pay, but with sex guaranteed at the end? Which would you pick?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 03:44 AM
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Because a lot of girls wont come over for 1st date. This is not true. Have you even tried it? Are you sure you need to be "peaking SMV" to do this? The hottest girls I've ever fucked were all invited over right away. They're easily 2 points above me on the SMV scale -- I was their slumpbuster. In my earlier days, I brought average HB6 girls out on dinner, and still went home empty-handed. The moral of the story is this: ask, and ye shall receive. Are you sure girls won't come over right away on …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 03:42 AM
10

For a short period of time, I lived with my parents. I took them to motels. It's harder, just say it matter-of-factly, "Just come over to my hotel room, I'm just chilling now." If they ask why a hotel, say you're travelling. If you're just wanting to smash, who cares?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 03:17 AM
4

So what if they use it as a validation tool, if anything that makes it even easier to stand out by not giving it to them and not falling into their frame and maintaining the upper hand. Especially if they are that insecure. This statement right here is super-underrated. Girls using Tinder for validation are essentially shit-testing all their male matches. If you know what you're doing, it's stupidly easy to stand out and give her tingles. And like you said, this is even much easier when they're …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 03:03 AM
6

I'm not too good with Red Pill Theory (I'm better with hands-on guides), but my theory is that being rich only helps if you have the dominant traits to back it up (e.g. assertiveness, aggressiveness, refusal to suck up to women, no pussy pass, etc.). Otherwise she subconsciously views you as false advertising, and accordingly her vagina dries up.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 02:57 AM
3

Why are you looking for an LTR?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 02:42 AM
1

Don't blame the tool. Blame your skill.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 02:40 AM
1

Why can't you just use both? I've fucked some really hot girls off Tinder.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 02:36 AM
2

I agree. Tinder is the most efficient way to bump up your n-count or to overcome a slump. Night game is marginally better than day game, but significantly inferior to online game. Why? Because girls on Tinder are a biased sample to begin with: these are girls who're already horny and looking to fuck top-20% guys. On the streets, your hit rate is wayyy lower than on Tinder, not to mention that you can essentially secure a lay without ever leaving your house, as I always do (text her, send her an …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 02:29 AM
6

finding a girlfriend This is how I know you're beta. You don't need to "find" for a girlfriend. You should be fielding relationship requests from girls you're already fucking.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 02:27 AM
4

Umm, she's flaky with guys who have low SMV, duh. If your SMV is sufficiently high vis-a-vis hers, do you think she'll flake? I've had girls who come over at 3 a.m. just to fuck. If she likes you, she'll make it by hook or by crook.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 02:26 AM
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I'd go a step further and say that his general game isn't even that good. Let's see: He goes to the gym, but he doesn't know how to "sell" himself and show off his gains, e.g. clothing, accessories, even fucking social media. This doesn't seem to be Tinder-specific, it's his fault. He's not getting enough matches. Either he swipes more (pay if you need to), or he should accept the fact that competition is stiffer, so he needs to be more competitive to break into the top-20% SMV threshold. It's j…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 02:23 AM
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The sooner men learn this, the better. The reason girls have such a huge sense of entitlement these days is that too many beta guys are doing moronic stuff like spending money on girls, thus artificially inflating the self-importance of these fat entitled bitches. If we all band together and collude to boycott dates, we'd all get farther. Ultimately, they need us more than we need them. They need sex AND resources from us, we only need sex from them. They'll cave in if only we manage our dicks a…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 02:08 AM
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Wrong. Either you substantiate your statement, fast, or I'll assume you have limited experience. Spending a lot of time on a girl just shows you don't have a fucking life, and she'll (rightfully) take you for granted. What are you going to do, spend hours talking with her on the phone while she rants to you about what a bad day she had? Spend your entire weekend with her, basically telling her you have nothing going on in your life? You'll get nowhere except be her emotional tampon. Only text/ca…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 02:05 AM
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I do. And so should every guy strive to achieve. I use Tinder. Other guys live within walking distance from the beach/bar/nightlife. Even more use college campuses. However, more girls than you think would actually come over right away than you'd expect. You just wouldn't risk it yet with the girls you have now, because you still haven't found an endless supply, a bottomless reservoir of girls to draw from. Once you have, you'll experiment more and utilize more "nuclear" sexual strategies. Edit:…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 01:50 AM
1

Some Asian women AF/BB the shit out of Asian dudes. Exactly. And she's the kind who explicitly says, "I'm usually not into Asian dudes at all, but I'm giving it another go." Like what the hell is that supposed to mean? No wonder high-SMV Asian guys are now starting to boycott Asian girls.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 12:31 AM
5

Like I said, these men don't understand the economics of Tinder. If your competition is doing something you're not, time to wise up and copy your competition. If you can't beat 'em, join 'em, not quit. Jeez...
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 12:01 AM
1

Some goes will do the craziest and manipulative shit to have sex. Just to get a notch. This is true. Girls are so nasty sometimes that you have to see it to believe it. This is why I roll my eyes and feel sorry for beta chumps who put the pussy on the pedestal and idolize these gross chicks. And I've had girls shit test so hard I was too turned off to keep trying. This also happens, especially if you're stereotypically beta in her eyes, and she's frustrated that you keep deviating from the scrip…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 11:57 PM
2

I did. I told her that I'll give her a "friendly" massage, since we were now friends, which I did. Massaged her legs, back, neck, and even breasts. Of course I played along, agreed and amplified, bla bla bla, but it just wasn't going to happen. So tell me what's my "Amused Mastery" grin going to do? Make her suddenly want to have sex? She had made her mind up. I've escalated enough to know that it's not happening that night. So time to evacuate her. You guys assume that, once you get a girl over…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 11:18 PM
15

Now don't get me wrong here, I'm an attractive guy who goes to the gym everyday and takes care of myself very well. But do your pictures reflect that? You have guys like me with professionally-taken, professionally-edited ab shots, and none of my pics is with a shirt on, and then you have guys like you. 2 years ago I was getting 10-15 matches a day. Now I'm lucky if I get 3 max. Tinder Plus is to blame for that. Suck it up and pay $5/month or whatever it is. And I'm even luckier if just 1 of tho…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 09:45 PM
14

Even with 100+ lays under my belt, I had this chick come over for the first time who told me she "loved sex" and even took a birth control pill in front of me. I escalated of course, and both times she hard-rejected. She still had the gall to tell me, "Let's just be friends first." I told her, "You should leave." Next morning, she texted, "I don't think we can even be friends." I replied, "Good. Save it for some other chump." When girls choose to view you as beta from the outset (she's an Asian …
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 09:37 PM
4

One thing I'm wondering about is when/if I will be approached by law enforcement. I've been proactive and have contacted my attorney, who is awesome. I know not to say anything and have her do all the talking, but I'm getting anxious about when such a thing could occur. I enjoy reefer you see, and am not too keen on the cops knocking on my door. Don't talk to the police. Not a single statement, not a single question. Nothing except, "I don't answer questions." Don't answer the door. If they don'…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 11:01 AM
12

That is why you must choose wisely. I'm surprised this wasn't downvoted more. AWALT, damn it.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 10:46 AM
3

I would go again after 5 minutes. And it doesn't even have to be a kiss, try giving her a massage or kissing her neck/back. If no dice either way, then she really doesn't want it. Occasionally it works, because there are girls who wouldn't kiss you but would fuck you.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 06:46 AM
5

This reminds me of my earlier days... Yes, there won't ever be a perfect moment. Why? Because that's just your brain hamstering up excuses, like that old man or the other couples. Even if it were private, you'd have probably not muster the balls to do it. You were afraid of rejection and the awkwardness that was sure to ensue. Next time just man up and do it. Strike while the iron is hot, because, trust me, iron cools down real quickly.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 06:45 AM
1

Jesus Christ. Just invite her over. You'll be going on a lot of sexless dates. "Who pays" is a non-sequitur, like we care if we have to pay, if she does indeed have sex with us? What we care about is paying and yet going home sexless, i.e. being taken for a ride.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 12:02 AM
1

I'd propose another date and time with her, honestly, but I'd double-schedule (i.e. set up two dates at once). If she bails, you have your other date. If your other date bails, and this girl doesn't, you got backup.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 08:10 AM
3

You're a real self-pitying piece of shit, you know that? You fail with women because you're beta. Period. I bet if I took over your body, 5'4" frame and all, I'd lose your virginity for you and even bump up your n-count for you from 0 to 10 within a month. As long as you don't have a disfigured face or anything like that, you should be able to get women, particularly if you're as buff and shredded as you claim you are. I'm 5'6" (my picture is somewhere in my recent post history; I'm average at b…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 11:02 AM
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Accept the fact that yes sure you might never fuck a tall 5'10 blonde with long legs Woah woah woah, hold your horses. What kind of limiting belief is this? I'm a 5'6" Asian male in Los Angeles, and even I've swung that: 5'9" Eastern European slim blonde chick, among others who aren't that tall but still blonde and blue-eyed. So don't go around and say it's impossible just because you're short.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 10:48 AM
1

Rubbish. Who says that your n-count would necessarily be lower than that of taller men just because you're short? I'm 5'6" and my n-count is in the triple digits, and I'm not even 30. Jesus Christ. Stop selling this guy short, no pun intended. He can have whatever n-count he works hard for.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 10:29 AM
0

This kind of mentality is disgusting and almost resembling the "fat acceptance movement" on the female side.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 10:22 AM
7

Did you guys read the last part of this article? One of the women says the restaurant was nice enough to comp Gonzales’ meal. She just had to pay for his glass of wine. Flip the situation. If it were a girl leaving a guy with the bill, do you think the restaurant would have said, "Oh, that's fine. We'll comp the girl's meal. Just pay for her wine."?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 10:19 AM
1

The only thing a man would envy another man for, more than wealth and career success, is the latter's ability to get women.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 10:14 AM
2

This is going to sound like BS, but, if you're short, start a PE routine and get a big dick. I've never met a short guy with a big dick who had confidence issues.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 10:09 AM
2

Partner count is everything. Not exactly, but close. A high partner count is the manifestation that you've somewhat raised your SMV to a desirable level and also internalized an alpha mindset as well as mastered the logistics game. I'm a high-n-count man myself (triple digits), so I empathize why you're downvoted here; you're understandably downvoted en masse by low-n-count guys here who felt very defensive being essentially labeled useless or a failure. That doesn't make you wrong, however; rig…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 10:23 AM
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There is a reason why the sidebar has an "endorsed contributors" section. You ask readers to be critical, and then you tell them to rely on some badge of approval, which is decided by whom again? Not everyone with the badge is correct. And not everyone without the badge is wrong. Use your independent judgment. End of story.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 06:23 AM
1

I'm not sure why it did. Maybe because it was preaching too much truth that it had to be censored. There was nothing controversial or wrong about it...
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 06:21 AM
1

How the fuck do you rack up (correct me if I'm wrong) dozens of lays and still catch feelings? Something doesn't compute. Most guys who're in the high-double digits or triple-digits in n-count are sociopathic as fuck and numbed and completely and utterly unable to pair bond anymore, which isn't always such a bad thing -- no chance for oneitis, for one. Keep sleeping around. Why would you stop to smell the roses?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 09:06 AM
8

The corollary of all this is that an inability to ghost reflects your lack of options. Ghosting, like most things expounded on TRP, is easier said than done. It's always the beta who can't resist contacting his ex/oneitis again who needs to practice ghosting.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 08:57 AM
2

I ponder, why do women stop seeing men as potential fucks just because they don't fuck or date? It's Friday evening in summer. Restaurants are all bustling and bursting at their seams with customers. This one restaurant on the corner of the street, however, is completely empty. No, not one or two customers in there; it's totally and utterly deserted. Would you eat there?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 08:36 AM
1

Limp dick is a symptom of performance anxiety. The hotter girl intimidated you, just admit it. You worried more and were nervous and unfamiliar around her. Of course you'd be able to get a hard-on right away with your plate; you've fucked her before, there was no surprise, you knew for sure she wanted to fuck you, etc. That wasn't the case with the hot girl. You had all sorts of anxieties and uncertainties with the hot girl, coupled further with the fact that she seemed to not be too into you, w…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 08:29 AM
1

There are advanced bitches out there. Yes. But the majority of them are nothing but a basic bitch.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 11:41 AM
2

Some people do manual PE, i.e. jelqing. I use a vacuum pump. Others swear by water pumps like Bathmate. It sounds sketchy because very, very few guys have the sheer discipline to stick to a routine for at least a year to see real results. Do some reaearch and you'll know many guys have found results from sticking to a PE routine.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 12:26 AM
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I don't know if I'll lose my gains if I stopped, because I've never stopped. What's the big deal? Just make it a part of your routine, like shampooing your hair or brushing your teeth or going to the gym. That's like saying lifting is useless, because you lose your gains once you stop going. Sure, you'll lose your gains, but in the mean time you're having the time of your life. Surely that counts for something.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 10:46 PM
1

Yes. I agree. Once you "master" getting sex, and reap all the positive self-esteem benefits, you're more well-positioned than ever to pursue your dreams and goals, whatever they may be. How the hell can one take on the world if one is so sexually frustrated?
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 10:38 PM
1

In a macro sense, sure. On an individual basis, it might just be the stupidest decision you can make, depending on your SMV.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 10:37 PM
3

This is what I've been saying for months now, and every single time I get downvoted en masse. LTR and monogamy is a beta's strategy to secure consistent sex for himself by exchanging his resources -- financial and emotional -- for, theoretically at least, consistent sex. If you've developed a repeatable game plan to bang new chicks regularly, the thought of even PLATING chicks makes no sense, much less LTRing or, gasp, marrying them. Even plating would be unthinkable. Think about it. You can ver…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 10:00 AM
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Many here don't want to acknowledge their secret goal of wanting to have as much sex as possible with as many women as possible, because then they'll be judged by that yardstick, and they fucking suck at it. "There's more to life than sex." Yeah, says the undersexed hand-fucker.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 09:56 AM
1

What do you mean they removed it? The guide is still there.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 04:09 AM
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I have no intention whatsoever to seek validation by painstakingly proving that I get laid, Jesus Christ. Hell, even as I was typing this guide, I repeatedly questioned myself what the hell did I stand to gain from this. The advice has been dispensed, you're here obviously because you're seeking advice. You can disbelieve me all you want if it makes you feel better and mollycoddles your lack of dating success more effectively, but my point remains: just because you can't do it doesn't mean it ca…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 10:16 AM
1

It might have worked even better if you told them to bring their pajamas.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 10:11 AM
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Also, expecting something from a date is a really toxic frame. Coming from a frame of just having fun + 'fuck fate frame / eventual fuck destinity' is much healthier for you and the girl as it takes the pressure off of you to 'make something happen' and allows things to escalate naturally. This is some sour grapes bullshit. We don't date for fun; otherwise we'd just hang out with our male buddies, who're almost always funner than chicks. We date with the eventual intention of fucking her, especi…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 08:58 AM
1

...which is what we want, no? Even if you're looking for a non-ho, this method will tell you volumes about what kind of girl she is.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 08:56 AM
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If all you need to get pussy is Tinder and a house what is all the fuss about women in the West, why bother with them if you can just order fresh new pussy, every week, delivered straight to your doorstep? I'm not sure if you're sarcastic, but "why bother with them" is exactly what I genuinely think. I don't even do plates, much less girlfriends. I bang new girls as much as I can. Unless you're accusing me of lying... in which case, hey, just because you can't do it doesn't mean everyone can't. …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 08:55 AM
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Having worked on PE for a year now ("grown" from 6" to a solid 7"), I can say I've experienced the following benefits: I've experienced an increase in sexual confidence. I'm no longer afraid or hesitant to escalate, because I know once I get there my performance will speak for itself. Most of the time, I can't wait to escalate, because I know, once my dick is out, things will radically swing in my favor. This is the biggest change; it emboldens you and grants you incredible social courage around…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 08:49 AM
2

the modern "hookup culture" in general has twisted women's perception of what it means to be taken on a date. Like I always say, everything is relative in dating. If every other Chad is railing her by just asking her to come over and chill, she would of course think that the one who takes her out on a proper date is defective in some way. This is actually a very good thing if you're just about slaying some pussy.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 07:51 AM
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I can't imagine a sane girl that I have never met before driving to my house to pass the first date at home, that's a little too desperate for a woman. That's just your assumption. How do you think the rest of us do it, consistently? I've easily bumped up my n-count to >100 just by doing this alone. I think you might be giving women too much credit. Also, if she insists on meeting in public, next her. TONS of girls willing to just come over and fuck.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 07:47 AM
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I'll rephrase. She'll feel less obliged to stay on on a date in a public place. In your place, it feels rude for her to leave suddenly. She usually stays on out of politeness, and many indeed do give into sex and then proceed to write it off the next day.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 06:36 AM
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Not sure why that's funny, it's no secret that many girls do change their minds once they realized the guy they thought wS alpha turned out to be beta. They're usually pissed off when they get it wrong, and rightfully so.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 06:34 AM
1

Give it a shot first before you criticize it.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 10:51 PM
1

Wrong. The dating landscape is changing. Read the 2nd or 3ed top comment about how everything is relative. You lose lays by taking girls out on dates.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 10:44 PM
1

I've done that in the past, and it's still a valid strategy and still effective. You'll nonetheless waste more time and money for sure.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 10:42 PM
2

Lowering your standards is only half the battle. The other half is raising your SMV. I used to fuck some really hideous hambeasts just to avoid dry spells, but as my SMV slowly improved (I lifted, lost weight, improved my dress sense, fixed my game) the chicks I fucked also gradually became prettier.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 02:30 AM
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You know why? Because 6' 200 lbs. chiseled Chads are using whales as slumpbusters and to add a stupidly-easy notch under their belts, thus artificially raising the standards and self-esteem of those landwhales.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 10:16 PM
2

I know this is a troll post, but just google "AMWF." There are TONS of Asian male-White female couples out there, like it or not. Sure, they tend to be high-value Asian males (while the white females range from average to top-tier), but they're Asians nonetheless. If you really want to give yourself the best chance, go to liberal cities like NYC, Los Angeles, Chicago, Miami, etc. and try your luck there with feminist SJWs who hate white males. Or the weaboo chicks who have a thing for Kpop and a…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 10:42 AM
1

Better yet, don't get into an LTR in the first place, and never ever have to worry about bullshit like this.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 10:36 AM
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It's such a joke that guys need to provide girls with plausible deniability just because she refuses to take responsibility for her actions and admit that she's a slut, all just to protect her slutty reputation. In any case, any experienced guy can tell you that plausible deniability is a very important tool in our arsenal.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 03:40 AM
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Basically the author is calling for women to withhold sex unless matched with commitment from guys. They want to collude the way (high-SMV) guys have all colluded a long time ago to withhold commitment unless matched with sex from girls (or continue to withhold it even after getting sex). This won't work, because committing to someone isn't a basic human need. Having sex is a basic human need. All things equal, men are going to be okay not committing to anyone for life; women aren't going to be …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 03:13 AM
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The author has a clear alpha widow syndrome. It probably wouldn't be hard to find a Beta Bucks to settle down with, but, no, these hoes wanna swing for the fences and take a risk with the alpha bad boy who's emotionally unavailable. These former Carousel Riders have become so used to using their vaginas as currency for just about anything, but they become surprised when Chad doesn't give a shit about her vagina (he has more than he can handle, without the commitment). They're completely deluded …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 03:01 AM
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Nothing you do could have saved that situation, because it's obvious that you have a low SMV now and also a very clear scarcity mentality. Any normal guy would have hard-nexted her by the 2nd date, but you kept providing her with attention and validation while deluding yourself that you're making "progress," cringe... Lift, talk to more girls, and stop focusing on one girl.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 02:52 AM
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Step 4 is unnecessary. I fail to really see the additional benefit that step 4 provides for you over step 3. In fact, I can see tons of downsides to proceeding on to step 4.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 02:47 AM
1

No, it isn't. Just because you can't do it doesn't mean that other people can't do it. There are significant number of transplants in LA too.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 12:55 AM
1

Confidence is a symptom, not cause, of success. Confidence is knowing that you have a high chance of fucking a girl even before you approach her, because she's around or even below the league of girls that you've already fucked in the past. It's the sense of safety knowing that they'll most probably not reject you, based on favorable response from similar girls in the past whom you approached. If you've fucked a good number of girls in the past, you know your "league." You know the girls who'll …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 09:27 AM
1

Spinning plates is only intermediate game. Say you spin 3 plates, which is as many as a guy can reasonably handle. One plate goes out of town, the other's being bitchy lately, so you dread/ignore her for a while to keep her in line, and then all of a sudden you're de facto monogamous with the last plate. Hookups are the way to go. Find a repeatable blueprint for banging new chicks consistently, be it living next to a bar or fine-tuning your Tinder game plan. Your ever-increasing n-count will do …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 09:22 AM
0

I live in the heart of Los Angeles, California. It helps to be in a diverse, liberal city with high population density and hookup culture. The other very-obvious way to get white girls is to simply move to a super-white city, like anywhere away from the coasts (try Colorado?). You can't get white girls if there aren't enough of them around.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 09:12 AM
1

I've been lifting for two years now. About 158 lbs., 12% body fat is my best guess. I also do acrobatics and calisthenics. All it really takes to get pussy is some muscles, particularly the right muscles: pecs, arms, shoulders, abs. Girls grab on to those in bed. Seriously, if you even somewhat lift for 6 months to a year, getting pussy shouldn't be a problem, short or not, minority or not.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 09:09 AM
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No doubt not being white is a disadvantage, but it's faaarrr from being insurmountable... The degree of victimhood and persecution complex among low-SMV minorities here is so, damn, high. Ever heard race-based bitching from high-SMV minorities? Yeah, me neither. If a 5'6" Asian brother here in his 20s can rack up 100++ in n-count, which include dozens of skinny young white girls, there's literally no excuse for the rest of you minorities. I'd post selfies that I took with the Tinder girls I bang…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 11:41 AM
1

We chatted/talked for hours for weeks before going out. There's your problem there. You showered her with your attention and effort and time without escalating and asking her out. Why would she want to go out with you, much less fuck you? You're already offering commitment upfront without sex. Jesus Christ, you have so much to learn.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 11:33 AM
1

Lines are mostly just a non-sequitur/red herring. If you have high SMV, you could use the blandest, most boring lines and still get laid. If you have low SMV, the cleverest lines won't save you.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 11:29 AM
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The only short people who bitch about their height are those who aren't getting laid. Those who get laid don't even notice their height. Source: I'm 5'6", majority of girls I sleep with are taller than me.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 11:25 AM
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God damn it, did you miss the opportunity for the classic "who's this?" response?
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 11:20 AM
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You're actually right. Logical and factual. Of course married men will downvote you, because they refuse to admit marriage is beta.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 02:18 AM
1

When more experienced Red Pillers here give you good advice, you give attitude in return. Well good luck. Anyone with more experience than you would cringe at the stuff in your FR, it does come across as very amateurish and stuff that we do in our younger, more beta years.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 09:47 AM
1

They're deceitful and manipulative, what's new? The point is that you could have countered that by asking her out right away, but you chose to delay that out of cowardice. If you've asked her out right away, you'd find out where she stood right away. In fact, I'd venture to guess that she'd say "yes" too if you mustered the balls to ask her out on the first day you reconnected. With each passing moment that you delayed presenting "The Ask," her vagina dried up more and more, until when you final…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 11:19 AM
0

Screw the other guys here. You did well. As I read your FR, I can see that you both had an amazing time, which counts for something, escalation or not. The main criticism that you should escalate otherwise you'll be seen as Beta Bucks is a real one, nonetheless. Date two should take place nowhere than your house. And escalate the shit out on her.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 08:48 AM
1

You were putting out beta vibes. Texting is for LOGISTICS ONLY. You should have asked her to come over a long time ago, instead of wasting time "sexting," which is really just a time-waster. You provided her with entertainment and validation and attention for nothing, and she was enjoying the attention. Next time just go for the kill, ask her out right away. Don't be a pussy. You won't change her mind either way, so do it fast and find out where you stand.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 08:19 AM
1

What are you gaining out of promoting her to LTR status?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 08:06 AM
1

Anyone wants to explain the hamstering here?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 10:10 AM
2

I hate how everyone else is so condescending towards you just because you're young. If what you're claiming is true and theoretically sound (I don't have time to fact-check it now), then I learned something new today. Thanks for that. Enjoy my upvote.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 10:08 AM
2

If they're worth nothing, why are you paying them? And the difference is that plates actually like you, Jesus Christ. Stop hamstering.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 09:51 AM
1

Don't shit where you eat. Would you pick up your co-workers? Neither would I.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 09:13 AM
1

This seems pretty obvious. I'd take it one step further: cut a girl off if she doesn't sleep with you on the first date. That's the first sign of manipulation right there; if she's unattracted to you, why's she out with you? If she's attracted to you, why is she refusing sex? In fact, you should cut off a plate if she refuses sex even once. You let it slip once, she'll be emboldened and make it a regular thing, because the precedent has been set. When it comes to relationships and marriages, thi…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 09:10 AM
5

You're single and alone, because you're above 30 and have a kid in tow. If you're overweight, you've compounded your weaknesses, but even if you aren't you aren't starting out with the best set of circumstances. Why would any desirable/high-value man settle down with you, when he has an endless supply of young, fit, childless options to go for? If you're so desperate to get married again, you'll be looking at the less-desirable men (e.g. older, poorer, possibly autistic) whose best option is a d…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 08:49 AM
7

This is why I never wear a damn shirt in my Tinder pictures. Smashing new girls week after week for more than a year now...
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 08:35 AM
1

You're absolutely right. People just don't want to accept the fact that prostitution is a beta male strategy, it's an extreme form of pedestalization, it's the hallmark of a scarcity mentality, a type of bribery just to get sex, and the ultimate white flag in a man's sexual strategy. You know this sub is doomed whenever they hamster their inability to get laid (except by paying) as: 1) It's just more efficient; 2) You pay for sex either way; 3) It puts in perspective the value of pussy; Yadda, y…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 11:58 PM
1

A lot of guys are confusing "scarcity mentality" and "pedestalization." They're related but not the same. Ironically, you have to experience a true abundance mentality first-hand before you even understand what abundance mentality is.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 11:55 PM
2

This is a semantic discussion then. I'm saying I'm top-20%. I've never claimed Chad status.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 11:47 PM
2

Rubbish, the only thing that gives you perspective of the value of pussy is fucking her by just asking her to come over. THEN you'll really know pussy is pretty much free.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 11:43 PM
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First, let's define "abundance mentality." It's the mindset that empowers guys to treat each woman he's pursuing as a fungible commodity of which there's a constant surplus of. That's my best attempt at its definition. I always say that prostitution is an extreme form of pedestalization, a radical beta bucks strategy. Instead of offering time and effort and attention upfront, like the typical Billy Beta, you literally bribe her just to fuck you. Regardless of what you say, this is a huge investm…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 11:35 PM
3

It does, but it also does nothing for self-improvement. In fact, it's counter-productive to self-improvement. It might even nurture an undue sense of entitlement and standards in you. You'll be the male version of an alpha widow.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 11:27 PM
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I've been applying it on my slight widow's peak for two months now and for the first time in my life I have a straight hairline. Please don't spread misinformation.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 12:54 PM
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This isn't the place for prostitute talk. If prostitutes were a legitimate sexual strategy, all that talk about improving our SMV is null and void, only SMV we'll need is money. And no, fucking prostitutes won't get you an abundance mentality any more than eating at a restaurant will get you a chef's culinary skills.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 12:47 PM
3

Chicks in LTRs accuse their boyfriends of rape all the time.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 12:28 PM
9

I'm short and non-white and still have an n-count >100, a lot of blonde/blue-eyed white girls on that list too. Don't spread misinformation.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 02:15 AM
2

Mostly body and facial genetics... And provided those aren't negated by beta behaviors in real life.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 02:11 AM
18

It's also not that hard to rack up a high n-count as a guy, really. You just need to be top-20%. Really not that hard.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 11:42 PM
5

Sour grapes are very common in this sub. Thanks for calling it out.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 11:06 AM
3

Instead of my normal beta self, who would have just said some stupid comment and turned her off completely, I just grabbed her head and went for the K-close. Das what I'm talking about! On a side note, fuck the haters in the comments. They're just jealous because they're sexless. Guys who get laid don't react that way when a fellow brother makes progress.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 10:13 AM
5

I've said this before. True abundance mentality can only come from actually having fucked many girls before (high n-count) and still having many more girls in the pipeline to fuck. It's knowing, based on past experience, that the chances of you not having sex this week are zero. It's a little circular, but you need abundance to get laid, but you need to get laid to gain abundance. Anything else is just quick-fix psychobabble just as good as saying "be confident" when confidence really is a sympt…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 10:08 AM
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MGTOW in a nutshell = sour grapes
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 10:02 AM
5

Rubbish. Nothing is more common than men with wealth and status who somehow managed to negate all of that, and then some, with their Blue Pill beta behavior.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 08:56 AM
1

This sub has degenerated because of the influx of inexperienced newbies making amateurish, cringeworthy posts without the first-hand knowledge or experience to back it up. And this wouldn't happen if we call out BS immediately when we see it, no mollycoddling whatsoever. Also if people observed the first rule of TRP (you don't talk about TRP), less BP newbies will arrive bringing their amateurish sharings and diluting the signal:noise ratio here. I still come here, even though for the majority o…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 06:24 AM
2

With Tinder, there are two distinct groups of guys: guys who get laid a lot (anywhere from 1-4 new girls every week) to guys who aren't getting laid at all, or who have a fluke lay every other month. As the guy who fucks on average 2-3 new girls a week, I've given TONS of advice only to be dismissed as "you're hot, whoopdeedoo" to "I can't do that, that's too direct." Your loss, buddy. More for the rest of us. Just see my post history and all the BP comments hamstering why my stuff won't work. J…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 06:06 AM
2

Fuck this noise. Just ask her to come over for the first date and escalate. If she refuses to, you weren't going to fuck her on the fifth date anyway. Taking girls out on dates is outdated.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 05:44 AM
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Take Viagra. Chew on one 100 mg pill (completely bite and chew it to bits in your mouth) about an hour before. And breathe, SLOW YOUR FUCKING BREATHING DOWN, and calm your heart rate. When your blood vessels are constricted, you can't have an erection. Period. Also, gain more experience, but this happens even to the most experienced men. Source: I work in porn, where we're all required to get hard fast and stay hard, even if our co-star is behaving like a cold, disinterested bitch. It took me a …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 08:48 AM
2

Anyone with a high n-count knows this line works. I've written multiple guides on why this is the killer line (see my post history). I only use this line, in fact; it's the easiest way to screen for sexual availability and eliminate time wasters.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 08:44 AM
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This is why I always fucking tell guys to just invite girls over for the first date. Nothing else, no exceptions. She fucks first before we do all that platonic shit. You were being beta by offering platonic companionship without her paying up in sex first, what did you expect?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 08:18 AM
1

in the relationship You just argued against something I wasn't even arguing for.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 10:23 AM
1

All Women Are Like That, which means women will strive to constantly trade up and branch swing to a better male, even if she's married. My point is that we wouldn't date a girl below our league just because she's less likely to jump ship. We want the best, period.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 11:37 PM
2

Don't listen to these guys. You're right, we don't really like girls whom work too hard for us. Rooted in that mentality is the belief that we ourselves aren't all that, so a girl who works that hard just to win us over must have something wrong with herself. We'd go, "What's wrong with her that she doesn't have options, that she had to settle for me?" Funnily enough, anyone who works too hard for us also shows implicitly that they're below our league. Why would we wanna punch below our weight? …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 11:19 PM
3

The most correct approach to Valentine's Day for the vast majority of guys here -- LTR or not -- is to simply not acknowledge it.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 11:10 PM
85

Yeah, I've never bought into the whole idea that a man gains something while a woman loses something in sex -- why is a woman always referred to as "giving" sex while a man "getting" sex? Sex is win-win. Period.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 04:15 AM
1

That's what I always say and keep getting downvoted for. But I'll keep saying it because the truth shall not be suppressed. Funny the only response is a downvote instead of a counter-argument.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 03:51 AM
2

If you're mildly attractive and know how to fuck, she'll enjoy it as well. Enjoying it isn't the same as wanting it, which is the litmus test for desirability. We all "enjoy" our work on some level but never would we be found dead doing it for free. Like I said, there's a huge difference between buying a $100 dinner and paying a $100 prostitution fee over. First, you're paying the restaurant, not the girl. She has no moral or legal obligation to fuck you afterwards; it all depends on your merits…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 03:46 AM
1

Girls can't help it. They talk about what's on their minds, often subconsciously. Whenever a girl seems infatuated with another guy, I just let them go and ignore them for a while. 95% of the time, they come back. Just give them some time to finally figure out that the other guy whom she keeps texting (and thus who keeps texting her) is a Beta. Of course, you yourself have to be high-SMV to begin with...
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 11:44 PM
2

Yes, and never live with her precisely for that reason. You'd be surprised how hard it is to get rid of her when you live with her. I myself cohabited with my ex-girlfriend, and I wanted to end it "once and for all" in June, but only managed to actually get her out in August. In between those months, you don't want to know the stress, agony, and drama I endured. NEVER AGAIN
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 11:32 PM
1

Why are you asking her out on a coffee date instead of just asking her to come over to your place? Eventually you have to close and bring her to your place, so why not skip levels? Fuck the coffee, okay? Screen her sexually by asking her over straight away. Don't be a pussy. And you get to save so much more money too, with the guarantee that you'll fuck her once she shows up. You'll be surprised how many girls would say yes to it.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 11:48 AM
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I had many sexual offers, but I turned them down. What's with virgins and overcompensating? Many sexual offers my ass... I went down on her. What the fuck. "I don't believe you're a virgin because that stamina was more than most guys, and you made me cum when I have trouble coming myself." You're a fucking idiot if you believe that. On a side note, am I in TRP, or am I not? What's with all these virgins writing FRs about fucking prostitutes? TRP is supposed to be about relentless self-improvemen…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 11:41 AM
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The right time to break it off would be mid-/late-stage 3. Stages 1 and 2 are too early to call, and it might be fleeting, or you might be misreading her. Stage 3 shows that she's pretty obviously infatuated by the other guy. Show her you mean business by leaving her there and then. I wouldn't do it any other way in an LTR. You should never enter into an LTR if you aren't prepared to leave it at a moment's notice, which seems very paradoxical, but that's the only way you can keep your frame and …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 11:23 AM
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Because until we leave them, they're a drain on our resources, so we should care, "our turn" or not. And also because we're not cucks.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 11:20 AM
2

Like I said, hiring a hooker to get over anxiety is valid. But you shouldn't need to hire one more than once, twice tops, lest it leads to some really bad habits. That's all I'm saying. Also there's no projection when it comes to my points about hiring hookers being beta, a form of pedestalization. It's literally a Red Pill truth. It's precisely the definition of pedestalization.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 10:32 AM
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I understand the whole "getting rid of anxiety" and "training wheels" idea, but the best scenario is to have never started out with hookers in the first place. It fucks up your sense of entitlement, and it also damages your self-esteem knowing that you had to stoop that low just to get laid while the thousands of us had it for free. Even our training wheels were our ex-girlfriend when we were beta or a drunken hookup with a whale or whatever, anything but paying for it. Paying for hookers is the…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 09:23 PM
1

Good job shifting the goal post and talking about a perfect 10 paying us for sex. That's not what we're talking about here, and that's never going to happen, because we don't pay for stuff that we can get for free. Good job trying to justify hiring hookers. What the fuck.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 09:11 PM
2

Exactly. How the fuck do these guys who pay for hookers even enjoy sex, knowing exactly that these chicks are naturally disgusted to fuck them? The biggest, most important part of sex is the feeling of desirability, the specialness of being wanted. Once money enters the equation, everything is BULLSHIT and fake and transactional. And worst of all, these hookers have zero respect for their clients and think the worst of them. Even the beta provider who bends over backwards for his girlfriend gets…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 11:17 AM
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No, it wouldn't. Because you know you PAID for it. Think about it: you're literally bribing a woman who wouldn't otherwise even touch you just to pretend to want to fuck you. She wouldn't even look at you in a thousand years if you don't have the money. Her desire for you is exactly zero. And you know this. Otherwise those losers who pay for hookers on the regular would be picking up chicks left, right, and center due to their "abundance mentality." In fact, paying for pussy is a form of outsour…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 11:15 AM
2

Paying for sex is not legit, regardless of what the others here say, but at least you acknowledge that. Keep improving your SMV, or you'll grow undeservedly accustomed and entitled to top-shelf paiid pussy and forced to hire hookers for life because you can't even legitimately lay an ugly girl in real life. You'll be the male equivalent of an alpha widow.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 12:08 AM
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That's the only acceptable response. And a lot of this needs to be implied; the dread game should be turned so high up from the get-go that she shouldn't even dare to ever reject sex. If you got to the point where you needed to warn her, you kinda lost the battle already.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 10:11 AM
3

Only difference is that I work in porn, and I have pictures and videos to prove it?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 06:45 AM
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That's because he's beta as fuck. Isn't it obvious? Sometimes I feel that white guys are held to an even-higher standard of alphaness due to culture and Hollywood indoctrination. So the moment he reveals a small bit of Betaness, girls write him off right away as a phoney, false advertisement. I'm a 5'6" Asian dude, so I probably have some leeway for Betaness, and girls literally expect me to deliver nothing. It's VERY easy to impress them without even doing anything; their expectations of me are…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 04:26 AM
1

For some reason, even though I'm short, height has never bothered me (race is a different thing). I've definitely laid several 5'10" white and black girls who model. So much of height is just mental. That said, I wouldn't know how height would factor into LTRs, but I wouldn't care too much; I'm just out to smash. Your mileage may vary.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 04:13 AM
1

Tinder... Read my Tinder guides on how I racked up 100++ lays with that app alone
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 10:40 PM
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What about those of us who bang 1-3 new girls per week?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 08:11 AM
2

I've been dating around for years, and all your advice is on point. Maybe a little better organization though? :)
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 09:49 PM
1

Having successfully asked dozens upon dozens of women over, I finally got contacted by an LAPD detective one day about a "police report filed against me." I'm very law-abiding, so clearly this was some sexual misconduct/groping/false rape charge. I couldn't for the idea figure out whom it was, until I remembered that there was this super-feminist UCLA girl who got into some diatribe about how it's disgusting guys only see black women as sexual objects but not marriage-material, how important con…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 01:46 AM
2

Not necessarily true... I've amassed a legit n-count of well over 100++ just by swiping right on Tinder. I had no social proof whatsoever either. There was a time when I was banging 2-3, even 4, new chicks per week, with no dry spell whatsoever. Just be hot and ask them to come over. That's it.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 01:01 AM
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Just ask them to come over right away. That's how almost all of my lays happened.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 06:37 AM
3

Hey OP, don't listen to all these low-n-count SOBs riding your back for refusing to pass a shit test that you obviously knew was one. You did the right thing. At some point, you just aren't that hungry anymore for pussy, and you really just want a quick, easy lay. I've also refused to play a girl's little games before, and I didn't feel like I missed out on some action. Obviously anyone who would bemoan losing such an opportunity has a scarcity mentality. Once you have laid dozens upon dozens of…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 06:54 AM
2

I think you did the right thing cutting out the superfluous "cheap dopamine releases" out of your life. Unfortunately, happiness and fulfillment aren't as simple as just hacking away at the inessential. You need to fill up the void with something more meaningful to prevent the onset of depression. What is your life's mission? A life goal that you want to achieve? Go way back in time i.e. your younger years, and see if you have anything you wanted to do in the past that you can actually accomplis…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 01:08 AM
2

These people are downvoting you, because they're jealous haters. You do you. The one thing this subreddit can't bear to tolerate is people who actually get laid.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 05:04 AM
1

I do that, but it's far from stress-free. Anything where you need to clock in is stressful. That said, the good thing is that you don't bring your work home. The bad thing is that you probably need to sacrifice your nights and weekends, not to mention what it does to your body.
/r/MGTOW31/12/16 11:57 AM
1

I wrote about this before in a separate post, so I agree 100%: First things first, some nuance: hot girls who are confident and with high self-esteem tend to be less afflicted by the Thousand Cock Stare/false positives/disillusionment. These are the girls who know that having sex with even Brad Pitt doesn't mean shit. They're secure in their beauty, attractiveness, and value as a person. As such, they don't have sex unless there is genuine attraction. They tend to have low n-counts, and, because…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 07:00 AM
1

If you read my Tinder thread (along with my screenshots), you'll know that text game on Tinder needn't be long. Check my thread.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 06:33 AM
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Uh, I understand not texting her, but advocating phone calls over texting? Are you serious? The newbies here are just going to think that long hour-long phone conversations with a girl will build attraction and get them in her panties. Also, texting is only for logistics. This is one of those TRP mantras that are actually correct. This is settled wisdom; no arguments, please. Anything else you text is simply seeking or providing validation to/from her. If you only text for logistics, you already…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 02:44 AM
2

Then it comes down to a cost-benefit analysis, doesn't it? You're going to get married just because some studies say that it's good for raising kids? What about divorce rape?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 11:54 PM
1

Nah, we already overeat by default. A newbie reading this is just going to overload on food and get fat. Eat less, track your macros and calories. That's it.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 11:18 AM
7

Men marry mainly out of fear of loneliness and of social pressure. The only scenario I can see myself marrying is to marry wayyy up (e.g. Triple H marrying Stephanie McMahon -- you get the point) to open up doors to unprecedented opportunities, access, status bump, wealth, etc.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 10:26 AM
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"Behind every successful man is a woman" is a very misleading saying. It's more accurate to say, "Women gravitate to already-successful men." You're right; women are attracted to ambitious men. And men are successful despite having a woman around them, not because of.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 10:22 AM
0

It's not that simple, guys. If I had the opportunity to ask out two girls, one who says she doesn't want to have sex and another who doesn't say anything about sex, I'll take my chances with the latter girl. The former girl already warned you.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 10:19 AM
1

What are you talking about? You're just not alpha enough! Read the sidebar! You failed the shit tests!
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 03:13 AM
2

I've made several posts reminding people here of the bitter truth, unfortunately got downvoted en masse. People just downvote what they don't want to hear, even though downvoting something doesn't make it untrue, just as upvoting something doesn't make it true.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 10:59 PM
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There's nothing to understand. You just move on. Most likely, it's not even your fault. My guess is that she's a cock tease anyway, hanging around you for attention and validation.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 10:02 AM
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Cold approach in general is not worth the time. Maybe 1 out of 10 of the girls you approach is DTF. On Tinder, 1 out of 2 of your matches are pretty much DTF, as long as you don't fuck it up. You want to talk about efficiency? Don't even bother touching chicks. Just go online and hit up girls. DTF girls are way more likely to be found on a dating app than on the streets.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 09:59 AM
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Don't listen to these idiots. They don't understand the concept of "sexual availability," and that it takes two hands to clap: you need to have your SMV/game in order, but she also needs to be in the right state of mind to have sex. Most of the time, she won't go out with you if her shit isn't together, but sometimes she does, because she's lonely, bored, need attention/validation/cock tease, anything but feeling horny. Just because she doesn't put out doesn't mean you did something wrong. Most …
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 09:55 AM
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Haa... I love it when people question my experience. You people really need to learn to accept the fact that sometimes girls just won't sleep with you for her own reasons, not yours. 50% of sex happens because you did the right things (e.g. high SMV, you escalated, you planned logistics well), the other 50% is her sexual availability. It can be anything from she's having her period, she's grieving from her dead aunt, she's incredibly worried about her finals tomorrow, she forgot to shave her pus…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 09:47 AM
1

That's not what I'm saying at all.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 08:10 AM
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Not necessarily... Some girls like to stop short of actual sex because of dumb reasons, e.g. self-imposed "no sex on first date" rules, she's a virgin, etc. This happens even to the best of us.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 08:07 AM
1

It's not that simple. A low-SMV dude can approach a thousand chicks and get laid with none.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 03:09 AM
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Your title is obvious. What's less obvious is that just because girls who're DTF would let you touch them doesn't mean that every girl that lets you touch them is DTF. Anyone who's dealt with more than a dozen of girls should know that. Truly, the only way to know for sure if she's DTF is when your penis is finally in her. Just because she's naked doesn't mean she's necessarily DTF. Just because she gives you her number doesn't mean she's DTF. Just because she goes over to your apartment doesn't…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 02:17 AM
9

Calisthenics/bodyweight exercises will never help you achieve the physique that lifting does, all things (i.e. diet, sleep, etc.) equal. That said, the only thing I'd add to a calisthenic routine is HIIT.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 07:12 AM
2

Women lie mainly for three reasons: 1) fear of loss/abandonment, 2) manipulation, 3) to protect her reputation. That's my take.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 07:08 AM
1

My only issue with MGTOWs is that the vast majority of them are simply incels claiming to be vocels (voluntarily celibate). I can't respect that sort of sour grapes mentality.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 10:32 AM
1

I've only lived with a girl once, for 8 months. Safe to say, I'll never do it ever again. When I lived with her, the worst parts were: Total loss of freedom/personal space. There's nowhere you can go without being harassed. She will nag you, talk to you when you don't want to engage in conversation, and when you're arguing don't expect to sleep well, or at all. I constantly had to go back to my parents' home (thank god it was near) or simply leave the apartment that I paid for because someone wa…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 10:16 AM
1

Cohabitation is a shit test, not a comfort test. Agreeing to it would be failing the shit test.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 10:02 AM
2

I've successfully blown past LMR/ASD by agreeing with everything she said. Pull back, then try again 5 minutes later. If she doesn't leave, it's still a Green Light to make your advances. No doesn't mean no. Often, no just means not yet.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 10:22 AM
1

Elevator shoes and platform shoes aren't the same thing IIRC. Elevator shoes are just shoes with built-in lifts, e.g. Calto. What I do know is I feel a lot less awkward whenever I go out or meet a taller girl with my elevator shoes. I can't remember a time when I wasn't wearing them.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 09:36 PM
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That might help a 5'10" dude to get to 6', but 1.5" soles do nothing for the 5'5"/5'6" guy. If even Brad Pitt wears elevator shoes to look taller than Angelina Jolie, why would you not consider it? At least add it to your arsenal of tools? Because there are shallow girls out there who will just write you off based on your height. Yeah, I know what you'll sayto hamster, "I wouldn't want to date a shallow girl like that anyway." But what if you do? What if shallowness is just the norm these days? …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 09:32 PM
0

I'd lie and say 5'8"/5'9" if I were you. You could have salvaged that one. Wear elevator boots when you go on a date with her, and let your personality win her over. It's not like girls are good with height anyway.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 08:24 AM
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5'6", 27yo, Asian here. I'm 147 lbs., ~12% body fat, great posture, and I speak up and look people in the eye and walk with a confident stride. My wang (ha ha) is 7". Height has never been an issue to me mentally, because I know, the moment I get her in the bedroom, my dick and sex skills will outshine any tall man she has ever been with. This alone serves as a source of confidence that not even many tall men can internalize. My first advice is to wear elevator shoes. They're cheap, and they add…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 08:07 AM
1

Max out all your attributes first before you make a post like this. This means lifting. If you're in tip-top shape, dress well, don't act like a social retard, and still aren getting laid, then maybe start managing your expectations. Not everyone will get laid with the top women, but there are PLENTY of women to go around. Even bedding average girls are an accomplishment in itself, considering how thirsty guys are.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 03:54 AM
1

I thought that it's settled wisdom that texting is for logistics.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 09:50 AM
6

Just ignore her. It takes the power away from it. Yes, I'm surprised that other commenters talk about cheating, looking for other options, etc. That's basically inviting a divorce rape. Rationing attention AND sex AND money works like a charm; women need attention more than oxygen, and negative attention is preferable to no attention, because the former at least still shows investment. No attention leads her to thinking that you're completely over her already (dread game). In my previous LTR, wh…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 12:30 AM
1

If my son/daughter told me that their teacher touched them in a weird spot, that dude would be dead. Watch the movie. You'll realize how easy it is to put words in a 5-year-old kid's mouth, and, when the SJW adults get involved and pressure kids with loaded questions or bribe them with gifts, kids say anything, even if they know it isn't true. The social pressure to just go along is overwhelming. Kids say things all the time without knowing the unintentional consequences that could result from t…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 11:49 PM
6

In my experience, women only want the end product of your hard work and dedication: your money, your body, your intelligence/knowledgeability. They want absolutely nothing to do with the hard work and effort that go into achieving said results. Her knowing that your fit body isn't an accident but a careful crafting process in a weights room for the purpose of getting women (that's what she will think) turns her off more than if it were simply a by-product of your active lifestyle. In this vein, …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 09:50 AM
2

Here's my take. For casual sex/plating, yes, definitely give the average girls a chance. They're excellent training ground and prepare you for hot girls. Plus they're more likely to pedestalize and worship you than the other way round (assuming your SMV is higher than hers). For LTR, definitely not. You should be dating girls who are at least equal or close to your own SMV (maximum deviation of 1 point). Your commitment is expensive, and to give it away to a low-SMV girl is indicative of poor ju…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 09:21 AM
14

Contrary to what everyone here is saying, I'd say drop everything and forget girls and even lifting for a while. Do something that makes you feel good and happy, even if TRP would call it indulgent (e.g. video games, movies, drinking with friends, etc.). Give yourself as long as you need: 1 month, 3 months, 6 months, 1 year even. You need to recharge and rejuvenate. You sound thoroughly burned out. I wish you the best of luck. PS I also rarely had a lay from cold approach either, which is why I …
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 08:54 AM
6

Despite my high n-count, I've always harbored jealousy over guys who can get multiple girls to fight over them and have oneitis for them, pay for their shit, cuckquean themselves, etc. I've never been able to achieve that in my dating life, and I admit that I'm insanely envious of you. I have nothing to contribute, except that you're living the dream.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 06:06 AM
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With respect, I think you're rationalizing your lack of success on Tinder as a distraction from your life goals, moreover coming to TRP to seek validation and reassurance that Tinder is indeed a diversion. No, I won't give you that validation. Tinder is whatever you make out of it, like TV, Netflix, video games, going out with friends, etc. What matters more is discipline and some measure of balance. That's it. It's not inherently bad. Also, the line "ended with a blowjob or more" made me cringe…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 05:30 AM
1

Women have always been the primary victims of war. Women lose their husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat. Women often have to flee from the only homes they have ever known. Women are often the refugees from conflict and sometimes, more frequently in today’s warfare, victims. Women are often left with the responsibility, alone, of raising the children. -- Hillary Clinton
/r/MGTOW28/11/16 03:13 AM
3

It's not the main problem, but this looks needy. Better to change the venue or finalise the details over the course of the last day, rather than say "do you still want me?". Rubbish, I do it all the time -- 19 times out of 20, I still get laid. So your "confirmation" text is now "Can't make 6, it's going to be 6.30 now, same place". So you're going to deliberately change the time and mess up both your schedules just to avoid looking needy, which is all in your imagination in the first place?
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 12:40 AM
2

The first question is - should I keep in touch with them? I used to have a philosophy that "you only text girls for the reasons of logistics". Yes. Don't ever use it to give them validation/attention, or, worse, seek validation/attention. Anything other than logistics falls into that category. However, I have a feeling that their attraction towards me fades over time, and they become less and less sexually open. So much that it's not easy for me to schedule our meeting together, they often flake…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 12:36 AM
0

It's similar in a way to why so many guys aren't interested in hookers, even though we all know that if we paid we could score with a really gorgeous one. Because in the back of our minds, we know that she's only doin it with you for the money, and she'll do the same with 1000 other guys who pay. There's no validation in getting with a hooker, nothing to brag about. Which planet do you live on, my dear sir? This sub loves hookers. And I'm completely disgusted by it.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 12:04 AM
1

Then get to the exclusive club of triple-digit n-counts like the rest of us.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 12:00 AM
1

Which do you think they want more, commitment or sex?
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 11:59 PM
1

The enforcement comes from either a matrimonial contract (married LTRs) or the implied ruining of your life if you stray (non-married LTRs). Girlfriends and spouses are very capable of destroying your life or at the mildest making it extremely inconvenient, once they discover that you cheated on them. The basal, instinctive fear of this discourages you from cheating. That you willingly put yourself in that predicament is beta. Actually cheating after the fact doesn't nullify the betaness of the …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 12:19 PM
0

LTRs are also not inherently beta. It's arguable that promising exclusivity to one woman in itself -- even before you take into account the guy's personality, the dynamics of the LTR, etc. -- can constitute betaness. Being alpha means doing whatever the fuck you want; enforced/rigid monogamy is the antithesis of it.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 11:24 AM
2

Just because all alphas do LTRs doesn't mean that all guys who do LTRs are alpha. A implies B doesn't mean B implies A. Another fallacy
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 10:50 AM
16

A lot of guys do. In fact, I don't think there's a guy out there who'll feel no negative feeling when they know that someone else out there is having a wayyy better sex life than him, even if that person is a girl.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 10:43 AM
9

I highly, highly doubt the average n-count of today's women in the US is 9. Maybe if you apply the x3 rule, that sounds about right (27). Your right, I'm wrong. However, you are also wrong. http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n.htm These guys are paid to be right. If they put the average n-count closer to 4, then it's probably closer to 4. Further, the average for men is ~6. Also men have a higher percentage of having over 15 partners over their lifetime. So, judging by the standards use…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 10:25 AM
47

You aren't going to be laying on your death bed saying you wish you had bedded 3 more women. Some of us would, particularly virgins or even n<10 guys. I can reasonably imagine a man with n<10 thinking on his deathbed, "What a waste. I had 80 years of life, and I couldn't even fuck 10 girls." I do agree, however, that this might apply to the guy with dozens of lays. What will you be thinking on your death bed? Something along the line of, "If only..." If only you had taken the time to write that …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 09:46 AM
1

You're welcome. The truth hurts more often than we'd like to admit.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 09:12 AM
3

How is knowing this a confidence-booster, especially when you already failed to fuck the girl? Friendzoned, rejected, etc.? It's more likely to make you feel like shit, knowing that even guys uglier than you can fuck her, yet you still fail.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 07:38 AM
1

Our path isn't the only one. Yes, that goes without saying, but my post simply serves as a reminder that denial is real and alive, and that sometimes we need to recognize and acknowledge the existence of sunk cost, post-choice rationalization, sour grapes mentality, cognitive dissonance, and a whole host of psychological phenomena that prevent us from seeing the truth of the situation in an objective and unbiased way.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 07:08 AM
2

Until divorce comes along, especially in one of the US' sexist family courts.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 05:39 AM
2

The existence of child support laws doesn't negate or ameliorate the fact that marriage is bad. It's just further reminder to practice protection at all times, and, in fact, you might be arguing against LTRs too, as one is more likely to impregnate a woman in an LTR than in a random ONS.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 10:37 PM
0

I'm circumcised. I know that circumcision is genital mutilation. Yes, but many more circumcised males can't think clearly, because they can never change their situation. It's more likely for the circumcised man, married man, or tied-to-a-job/stuck-in-a-mortgage man to be in denial, because they're now in too deep and lack the choice to change their decision. That's the point I'm driving at.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 10:35 PM
2

This is one of those quick-fix "fake it till you make it" BS tricks that won't work. You genuinely believe that you'll develop abundance, just because you choose to flake when you really didn't want to? Flaking is a natural consequence of abundance. You get the abundance, then the flaking happens naturally (on your side). But just because you artificially flake on purpose doesn't mean you'll have abundance. It's pretty obvious.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 10:34 PM
7

The quality of woman you can get to agree to be in a half-open LTR (because let's be honest, you're not going to be ok with her fucking around on you) is far lower than the quality of woman who will accept a monogamous LTR. Speak for yourself. Not everyone is insecure about their significant other not being sexually exclusive. And to say that women who insist on closed LTRs are necessarily of a higher quality than women who are okay with open LTRs is a fallacy. The only difference between the tw…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 12:14 PM
3

It's this sort of false reinforcement that will doom the beta males stuck in LTRs even further into the fiery depths of Beta hell. They'll read it, they'll feel good, but they don't learn a damn thing, while their girlfriends continue to disrespect them on a daily basis, walk all over them, and cheat constantly only to have those beta males begging those girls not to leave them. This sub doesn't need any more feel-good BS that sound good but encourage inaction and complacency. OF COURSE the henp…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 12:07 PM
2

It's not so much that she was promiscuous that frustrates him, but that he couldn't enjoy that sort of sex life for himself. For years he's tried to unlock the secret to getting laid like a playboy to no avail. But then comes along his LTR who tells him tales of her wonderful adventures at DisneyCocks Theme Park, the park to which he was denied employment. From his perspective, her reminiscing about her abundant sex life is like saying "Ha ha, look at all the fun I had that you never could!" Thi…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 11:47 AM
3

If you hit n-count 10 and it is all desperate 4s, then yes, you have learned nothing. ...implying that, if I hit n-count 10, and it is all desirable 10s, I have learned something?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 11:24 AM
1

To say that you inherently learn more when you fuck a 9 vs. when you fuck a 4 is just plain untrue. Every lay is different and unique, and, if you're fucking a 9 by the time your game is already pretty maxed-out, I bet you're not learning much from that lay. You learn whenever you're confronted with a new situation/circumstances. Say if she shit tests you in a certain way, she puts up ASD in a certain way, etc. She could be a 4, 9, 10, or even a 1, if you handle the situation correctly and still…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 10:18 AM
5

That's not true... You're saying at n=10 a guy would inevitably have rock-solid frame? I was still fucking beta at n=10, and I think my frame really really solidified at 70+, 80+. There's always room for improvement.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 07:48 AM
34

Speaking as a 27-year-old guy with a 100+ n-count, this is true. It's usually guys who have low n-counts who are publicly snobbish about their standards -- obviously they don't know what it takes to have a three-digit n-count. The average girls provide EXCELLENT training ground to eliminate your performance anxiety and practice your reckless game. Over time, inevitably, you build your confidence and abundance mentality up to the point that you're completely unafraid of 9s and 10s. By 50+ and 60+…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 11:45 PM
3

Excellent post... Many men will be in denial though, I wouldn't expect any less from men with tons of sunk cost. The cognitive dissonance will be huge.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 11:47 AM
1

Neglecting the fact that marriage is a stupid, stupid decision, you bring it up wayyy early in the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 11:58 PM
6

I actually think you handled it well.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 11:44 PM
2

Still a slippery slope... For example, this girl just sent me a picture of her Thanksgiving outfit today via text, obviously begging for compliments. I didn't reply.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 11:37 PM
1

Multi-millionaires use the internet too, believe it or not. Not all of them are out on a beach in Ibiza sipping Mai Tais with Italian models.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 10:42 AM
1

Again, you're talking about RMV, not SMV specifically. attracted to good providers You said so yourself.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 10:41 AM
2

No matter how I refuse to be an emotional rock for her, I'll still find myself bending this rule from time to time. Imagine if I don't even set the boundary; I'll be super-beta bucks in no time. Setting the boundary ensures that you're aware of the risk of being taken for emotional beta bucks, which will help you restrain yourself from over-indulging her.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 06:38 AM
2

Be careful, the salty ones on this sub will accuse you of being a try-hard/fake alpha. Setting boundaries is very common in any healthy male-female relationship. Most of the time, it's true that girls are auditioning for our time. We are the interesting ones 9 times out of 10, not them. It's not a belief. It's an observable fact.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 06:36 AM
1

I bet girls only use sex for leverage, because it has worked in the past on some unsuspecting beta. Never ever give in; hard next is the only answer.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 04:10 AM
1

Phone conversations give off the boyfriend vibe. It's just bad for business if you want to fuck her, particularly when yoy haven't fucked her.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 03:08 AM
1

How would a "haha sounds like a good time" do anything positive? It doesn't. You're just giving her unearned validation for nothing, something to be done by her beta orbiters.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 03:07 AM
1

Thanks. Some of us still believe in privacy.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 03:05 AM
3

Yes, I agree. I'm always super-mindful whenever sexual acts are negotiated or done in exchange for something, even if it's another sexual act. Nobody's doing nobody a favor when it comes to sex.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 03:04 AM
1

Questin everything, for God's sake. You take everything for granted and as settled wisdom even when tons of anecdotal evidence challenge your belief. Not very open-minded, are you?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 02:38 AM
1

That's what I said and got downvoted to hell.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 02:35 AM
1

These guys are all horribly in denial. My guess is cognitive dissonance.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 02:34 AM
1

Wrong. People hire hookers because that's the only way they're getting some. Deal with it and admit it.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 02:33 AM
3

Exactly. Unfortunately, many guys in this sub are the overworked suit-and-tie corporate slave with a surplus of money and deficit of time who would love for their money to somehow magically get them laid. They have limited in-field experience and refuse to accept that all that hard work and punishing hours spent at the office would do little for their SMV. The cognitive dissonance is astounding.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 02:27 AM
3

Buying/making me dinner first would seem to earn it.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 11:11 PM
1

I say again having money doesn't make a man beta just because some betas have money. I never said it made you beta. I said it makes women see you as beta bucks -- not the same thing -- it's about perception not reality. Also, having money doesn't make a man alpha either just because some alphas have money.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 11:10 PM
1

Yes, people don't want to admit this. The money has marginal impact when she's looking for alpha fucks.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 10:58 PM
3

Driving girls around is beta.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 10:43 PM
5

Some of us are just very googleable.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 01:33 PM
1

so i guess your theory holds for ugly airheads anyone can get Ha ha ha. Sometimes it's the rich guy who fails to get the girl due to the guy's overwhelming betaness, while the broke guy fucks her with no effort whatsoever. Reality sucks, but just because you disagree with it doesn't make it untrue.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 12:46 PM
3

Yes, it doesn't. Let's just survey all the guys with an n-count of >100, and let's see their net worth/income. I bet they aren't particularly high.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 12:45 PM
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...which is why it's very important to start strong, start firm. But most guys are afraid to do that, because they're afraid they lose the girl. They go out of their way to please her. They drive and pick her up, they buy her dinner, they buy her drinks at a bar, rationalizing that, even if they don't sleep with her in the end, at least they had a great time nonetheless. This is a very beta mindset.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 12:43 PM
3

I wouldn't date someone I don't know, but I certainly would fuck someone I don't know.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 12:41 PM
3

If you got off to the "wrong foot" with people, often the only option after you've applied some TRP or other strategy is to start shedding people out of your life. This applies especially to family members, whom we're often tempted to give a free pass because "family is family," "blood is thicker than water," etc. No one is exempt. We should be cutting everyone out if they're a negative influence in our lives.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 12:40 PM
2

You don't have to go all the way to Asia... Move to the US, and all of a sudden the average drops to 5'9" or so in most diverse urban areas. Also, the hypothetical is that if all of the traits were unchangeable. Of course being fat is least damaging if you can summon the motivation to lose weight.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 12:13 PM
3

Just because it doesn't make him less likely to have sex doesn't make him more likely to have sex. By your own admission, he's having sex either way.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 11:52 AM
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Be careful about denigrating hooker hirers on this sub... They're mighty touchy about it.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 10:03 AM
0

And that's what I meant. A girl wouldn't withhold her pussy from a guy who's broke, because she isn't trying to impress on him what a goody-goody priest girl she is. But the pussy withholding tends to happen around well-to-do men, because they see them as beta bucks and want to secure their commitment. The most logical way to secure their commitment is to pretend to be chaste and not slutty by not putting out. Also, a woman's biggest fear after having sex with the guy is abandonment. They're afr…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 10:02 AM
3

OP and I have the same mindset; I just don't say it out loud. I often state the offer for a date, non-negotiable. The only thing negotiable is time and date. The non-negotiables are: 1) date starts at my home, 2) she drives here. She either takes it or leaves it; no, I won't turn it into a dinner date. It's like I'm begging to be rejected. You'd be surprised how often this works.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 10:00 AM
8

First appearances are everything, it sets the framework for how someone views you in their mind. Exactly, thanks for putting it so succinctly and eloquently. It's the same reason why we say to forget your one-itis. Because these people from your past already think they know who you are. You're the loser just like them, or the really nice guy who she will never date. The longer you've known them, the more hard-wired these ideas are, and the harder is is for them to change. ...which is why I never…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 09:36 AM
-1

Would more girls want to fuck you if you were rich? I honestly don't think so. I've been "rich" (or at least richer, drove a nice car, splurged on nice suits/restaurants, nice apartment, didn't need to work because of passive income, 6-figure stock portfolio in early 20s, etc.), and I've been broke, and everything in between, and I slayed all the same. Do you have actual anecdotal/statistical evidence reporting that, for one single particular individual, he got laid more the moment he got richer…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 09:26 AM
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I think, of the three, short is the least-damaging one... as long as it's not toooo short. But anything 5'4" to 5'7", I'd say it's still possible to have a range of options.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 09:13 AM
2

This I can agree with. Give a guy with game some money, and he'll know how to deploy it the right way to boost his SMV and increase his lays. Give a beta ten times the amount of money, he'll find a way to fuck it up and still go home sexless date after date.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 08:59 AM
-1

Clearly you don't understand the fallacy of correlation in statistics.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 08:53 AM
0

Correlation is not causation. Just because the "leader of the crowd" are usually rich, it doesn't mean that money itself makes women want to sleep with you. It just means that alpha men, who're driven in their careers and personal lives, and thus attract women, tend to be rich.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 08:46 AM
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Yes. Correlation is not causation. Money usually also means other good attributes that women are attracted by, but money doesn't directly result in tingles.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 08:44 AM
-1

Define "get." Sure, they stick around in LTRs and marriages to eviscerate you of your resources, but does money really help you get into her pants? Especially when you don't have the game to back it up? You're more likely to be pigeonholed as beta bucks (read: a sucker), and she'll withhold her pussy for as long as it takes to access and enjoy your resources. Nothing is more common than a well-to-do man buying a girl drinks and dinner and going home sexless and his self-esteem destroyed, wonderi…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 08:06 AM
4

Women think with their vaginas way more than you think. They're emotional, not logical, creatures. It's all about the tingles (when it comes to getting laid).
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 08:02 AM
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But it doesn't get you laid in itself (barring gold diggers, but even then, if your game is weak, she'll string you along while not putting out -- game is key). What money does is that it gets you an LTR/marriage.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 08:01 AM
1

Marriage is RMV/beta bucks stuff. I'm talking about getting laid. Read again, jeez...
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 08:00 AM
6

Clearly you haven't read enough FRs here where girls don't put out after realizing how rich the guy was. They then decided to put on their best show of chastity and modesty to convince the guys of their girlfriend/wifely potential.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 07:27 AM
6

I think he'll get more marriage proposals. The pussy factor will remain constant, because he just doesn't have the looks/alphaness threshold to convince girls to sleep with him.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 07:26 AM
5

No doubt money is a prerequisite for many things. I'm talking about wealth, not just money. I'm saying wealth only triggers the "greed" part of the female mind, not the pussy, and it urges her to pigeohole you into the beta bucks category, regardless of how handsome or alpha you are.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 07:02 AM
2

If women have sex with you because they want to experience your money and luxury Do they? Or do they withhold sex once they figure out that you're rich, to gain prolonged access to your resources? How's that an increase in SMV? That's a hit to your SMV. Many a guy have brought a girl back to their posh apartments only to have them suddenly withhold their pussy and audition for the girlfriend role instead, which is fucking annoying.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 07:00 AM
3

True, aim to be like professional wrestlers, e.g. Triple H, Stone Cold, Undertaker, etc. They aren't considered traditionally good-looking, but they have the masculinity part down.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 05:57 AM
2

Stupid post... Just fuck what society thinks, okay? And then you can get to enjoy your peak or even your non-peak years. Also, people don't just magically "have more responsibilities" as they grow older. You CHOSE to take on more responsibilities, like mortgages, marriage, kids, car loans, etc. If you don't be an idiot, and don't seek society's validation, you can enjoy your peak SMV years as much as you want.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 05:52 AM
12

Exactly. Commitment is the act of a man with limited options. A man with true options will always resist the pressure of monogamy.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 05:42 AM
4

I don't understand why guys spend $20,000-30,000+ on a standard boring 2016 sedan (Toyota, Honda, Volkswagen, Ford, whatever), plus the car loan that comes along with it, that has NO VALUE WHATSOEVER when it comes to increasing SMV, when they can just spend $3,500 on a used 1999 BMW Z3 or Mazda Miata MX-5 that looks expensive and flashy to the untrained female eye (i.e. 99% of all of them). That's what I did, and I've gotten nothing but compliments on my convertible, especially when picking chic…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 08:41 AM
1

They're not if you actually follow through.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 10:35 AM
7

I'd go even further and say don't marry, period. No buts or ifs. You avoid so many pitfalls in life without a marital contract. No cohabitation either.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 09:58 PM
1

If she still fails to see the light, you need to issue an implicit ultimatum: prenup or you leave her. Obviously you're still beta as fuck and BP, so you don't have other options to leave her for yet, but you need to leave her. Women who refuse to sign a prenup are BAD news. And there's a good chance anyway she'll relent (re: prenup) when it becomes abundantly clear that you won't marry her and will even leave her without a prenup. Up the ante, the ball is in your court.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 09:50 PM
6

Very amateurish guide. Just ask her to come over and see her response.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 08:47 AM
1

Never tried water pumps... I'm not sure about exact girth gains, but I'm definitely thicker than when I began.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 01:18 PM
3

It's both. Jackhammering with a big dick has a better effect on her than jackhammering with a small dick. Also, viagra keeps your dick hard, but it doesn't automatically give you physical stamina. Some cardio and general fitness are needed.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 11:57 PM
2

I'm surprised this comment wasn't downvoted into oblivion. Anytime I say that hiring hookers is one of the saddest, most pathetic thing a man can do, how it's the ultimate white flag in a man's sexual strategy, etc., I get downvoted like hell. Obviously so many here have to resort to hiring hookers. Sad fucking losers.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 11:53 AM
2

Men are also bound by time, only to a lesser extent. You'll be singing a different tune once your metabolism slows down to a crawl, male pattern hair loss starts creeping in, and you have erectile dysfunction.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 11:50 AM
5

Shortness is a negative to one's SMV, but it's faaaar from insurmountable. I'm 5'6", and, despite many girls ruling me out based on height, I still have such a large pool of women who'd be down to fuck me, including ones who're taller than me. It's really not a big deal.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 11:48 AM
7

3) having a bigger dick absolutely will increase your confidence This cannot be overstated, and this reason alone should be sufficient for any man to practice a PE routine. I've been doing PE for about 8-9 months now, growing from 6" to just under 7". Girls didn't say shit back then. Now I get regular compliments from the girls I hook up with, whenever I take off my pants: "Damn, not bad at all!" "Can't do a threesome. My boyfriend would be intimidated by your size." "Wow, I expected you to be s…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 11:42 AM
1

We don't even live in the same city. There's no conspiracy. Jesus.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 09:29 AM
1

Exactly. I haven't had a girl unwilling to leave (that's why you screen her for crazy via text first), but if I encounter one I'd threaten to call the cops.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 09:23 AM
-5

Don't do it. You'll regret. Do it organically.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 09:46 AM
14

Why does everyone start bitching when minorities go for white girls but no one says shit when white guys go for girls of minority groups? First of all, I'm a minority myself. Let's just put that out there first. No one says shit when white guys for minority girls, because no white guy ever bitched about being unable to get minority girls. But tons of minority guys for some reason feel entitled to the tall, slim, blonde-haired, blue-eyed white girl, and they bitch about it when the girl doesn't g…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 01:49 AM
16

don't tell me texting is only for logistics, I know. No, you don't know. Texting anything other than logistics just puts you into the "beta bucks" category -- you're making your time available to her like she's special, you're destroying any shred of mystery, you're opening yourself to becoming an emotional tampon, etc. The question is, why are you hesitant about asking her out? What are you scared of? However you hamster this, you're obviously nervous about meeting up with the girl so quickly (…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 01:36 AM
15

What's this obsession about white girls among minority dudes anyway? There are TONS of super-sexy ethnic girls out there waiting to be fucked. Trust me, in the sack, they all feel more or less the same.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 01:24 AM
2

I had a TV facing my bed. No couch whatsoever, and place tons of random crap on any chair (e.g. books, clothes, guitar, etc.) so she has no choice but to sit on the bed.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 09:02 AM
1

Well of course not every man has the same SMV ceiling. If you're all maxed-out already (doubt it, you can always look better regardless of what stage you're at), then you need to reevaluate your standards. Maybe not everyone deserves a HB9/10, especially on the regular. Maybe HB9/10s are reserved for men with a much-higher SMV ceiling, and I'd expect a sub called "The Red Pill" to acknowledge and propagate this truth rather than to perpetuate the politically-correct falsehood that "anyone can ge…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 04:24 AM
3

This guide is for the guy whose SMV is already quite up there but still is stuck in the BP conditioning of feeling obliged to ask a girl out properly before fucking her. It serves as a reminder that he can save a lot more time and money just by doing away with BS conventional dating rituals, and to do it consistently. It also serves as a screening mechanism to gauge the girl's sexual availability before even asking her out. Not every girl will agree to this. My experience is that, the higher you…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 04:07 AM
3

Yes, being direct is important and good. Being explicit isn't.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 04:02 AM
3

a lot of women are scared of just going to a stranger's place lean into microphone "Wrong." Also, fucking her on the second date might be a little too late. You're underestimating how horny chicks are.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 02:47 AM
3

I've brought DOZENS of girls over when I had roommates, I just walk them straight to my room. Turn on the TV, bring out some drinks, and get the party started. Some girls wouldn't fuck guys with roommates though... It's just the way it is.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 02:45 AM
1

Yes, this... Girls aren't patient these days.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 02:44 AM
2

He's better than any other blogger out there IMO. It's no-BS advice for getting laid. Period.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 02:43 AM
1

Try it first and see what happens.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 02:43 AM
2

I always go for champagne. Classy enough, but still cheap.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 02:40 AM
2

Pretty much, the rest are just logistics. See my Tinder guide.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 11:31 AM
5

4 out of 5 girls I know live with roommates or family... Then watcha gonna do?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 07:30 AM
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Also I'm living with my parents now so I have to rent a room to fuck if she doesn't have a place. what's the best way to say movie and drinks but instead go to a fucking motel LOL Then sort this out first. You're unlikely to get girls to just show up and still want to fuck you when you have an embarrassing living situation (e.g. living with family, roommates, too messy, ghetto neighborhood, etc.). I've lost lays this way before. Even if you want to ask them out to a bar/restaurant first, you eve…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 07:26 AM
6

Almost all of mine were done over text, after matching with them on Tinder. They're done within the same day of matching or one day before, at most. Do it soon.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 07:23 AM
9

Stupid guide... Just invite her over to your apartment for drinks. Don't over-complicate it. You'd be surprised how many women would say yes.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 12:29 PM
2

This -- addressing it is failing the shit test. Ramp up the dread, and don't issue dumb ultimatums that make you look like a pussy when you fail to follow through on your threat.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 11:13 AM
1

Just try it. I've done it successfully many, many times. I think my last ten lays alone were done by asking them to come over right away.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 10:35 AM
2

If she said she would drive over, what were you doing fucking around instead of setting up a date and time and place? You're missing the point if you're mulling over your response to her blowing up your phone -- that's a red herring. You had your chance, and you blew it.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 10:07 AM
4

That's cool and all, but why didn't you just invite her over to your place in the first place? That would save A LOT of time, effort, AND money. You'd be surprised how many girls wouldn't say no to that. Plausible deniability still applies of course.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 10:04 AM
1

And it's not completely untrue. And it's not that you begin needing the pills to get it up -- you still get plenty of natural erections -- it's that you start getting spoiled by/used to your performance with them, that you're often disappointed by your performance without them. So now I'm sometimes stuck in a cycle where my fuck buddies get disappointed the second/third time round when I decide not to pop a pill. Indeed some of them comment that I'm not as "rock hard" as the first time or didn't…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:49 PM
2

If you read my comments before, I pop dick pills regardless. For the hot girls (out of my league), to keep nervousness at bay. For the fatties, to fight the utter lack of attraction I have towards them. I can't count how many missed opportunities I've had just because of sexual anxiety/erectile dysfunction. I pop them now anyway no matter what.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 01:12 AM
1

Nothing traumatic, except a super-dramatic LTR gone wrong two years ago (I lived with her for 8 months, that was pure unadulterated hell). Scared me off LTRs forever.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 12:25 AM
2

Who needs to know that you fuck them? Nobody. Just do it on the down low. Also, by fatties that I'd do, I mean this: http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1nggkQLVe1qh3q74o1_1280.png Not this: http://i3.mirror.co.uk/incoming/article7706080.ece/BINARY/PAY--Christine-Carter.jpg As for whether it hurts your perceived SMV, I think it matters more if you're seen in public with them or LTR-ing them. Anything to tide you through a dry spell is preferable than an actual dry spell. An actual dry spell spike…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 12:15 AM
1

You've never met a girl you can talk to for hours? And actually want to keep talking to her? Yes, they're either: 1) not hot, or 2) don't take me seriously because of the player vibe. Eventually they want commitment; I can offer none. Are you really good at being fun and not serious? I'm good at that. Life of the party and all. What's your point? What hobbies do you do with girls? I actually enjoy doing things alone. Meals, hiking, movies. Only exception is road trips. I just hit up a bunch of g…
/r/askTRP03/11/16 11:21 PM
1

What's your take on fucking fatties? I fuck fatties, unless they have an ugly face. Obese? I'll pass. A little on the thick side? I'll plow away. This is America. You can't expect girls to be all skinny and dainty like in, say, China or Africa. Fatties have their value. They're easy, they make an effort in bed, they cost practically nothing (just ask them to come over, they gladly will). They're very good training ground for you to practice your risky/bold game. If you lose them, you'll just rat…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 10:52 PM
1

27 now, recently hit 100.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 10:17 PM
1

Because it has gotten boring. I want to experience liking a girl again. To pair bond. Basically that. I can't pair bond now, and I feel like a total sociopath.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 10:17 PM
1

Read my submissions... I wrote a guide on how I reached there. I added 30+ to my count over this summer alone.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 10:16 PM
9

I try to, but I simply lose interest very quickly. And I know half of it is that I'm desensitized. The other half is, once I stopped putting the pussy on the pedestal, I realize that most girls are empty shells with nothing to offer personality-wise. So once they were deflowered, there was literally nothing left to retain my attention.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 10:33 AM
1

You do all that even with a prostitute. In addition to actual cash payment, of course.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 08:48 PM
1

Having sex with beautiful women you pay for is pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 08:46 PM
0

Thanks. Too many prostitute apologists here... If sexual strategy means hiring hookers, why bother with TRP? Why bother with increasing SMV as a sexual strategy? Just bother with making enough money to afford hookers.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 09:04 AM
-1

Paying for pussy is the ultimate in pedestalizing. EXACTLY. Upvoted. And kudos for calling out the hamstering.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 08:59 AM
0

Then why bother with SMV? Let's just all hire hookers. It's the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 03:14 AM
2

ive had women come to me and fuck me, suck my cock and made them pay for my dates, drove me around,etc . So you don't necessarily pay for it one way or another. Thanks for proving my point that some sex is indeed free. As for the other comments, obviously they're bitter losers who're pissed that some guys get it for free (yeah yeah, keep arguing that "time" is a form of payment, or gym memberships cost money) while they spend hundreds of dollars directly on a woman and still don't get laid.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 02:29 AM
-3

less chance of getting oneitis Obviously you have a low N-count. Any guy who has a high N-count knows that, the more women you fuck organically, the less likely you are to develop oneitis. Just go read on other subs, hell even this one, about how guys develop oneitis for HOOKERS. As for the rest of the stuff you said, they pay a TON of dividends apart from getting laid. You feel better, you have better general self-confidence, you become healthier, you improve your quality of life, you learn sel…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 02:25 AM
-2

Wrong. That saying is most commonly peddled by guys who want to justify hiring hookers to get through dry spells. They're trying to lump everyone into the same category as them, including us who work so hard to improve our SMV. Hiring hookers is the ultimate white flag in a man's sexual strategy. If you disagree, obviously you hire hookers.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 02:11 AM
0

if you spend a lot of time trying to get a chick in bed Speak for yourself. It barely takes the rest of us minutes. that is the same Trying to justify hookers again, I see. The truth is hiring hookers also requires time and energy investment. You need to go on Backpages, read reviews on forums (how pathetic is that?), set up a meeting with her, and then hump away at a dead fish who's watching the clock and can't wait for you to finish. Hey, to each his own.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 01:57 AM
-2

Now you're really stretching it.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 01:53 AM
1

Wear elevator shoes Even Tom Cruise, Robert Downey Jr, Brad Pitt, etc. wear elevator shoes. No excuses. Get some Caltos online and start getting used to wearing them. Beyond that, practice good posture. Background: I'm 5'6" at best, and the majority of girls I sleep with are taller (my N-count is >100). Pad your soles and get rid of the problem once and for all. Once they're in your apartment, the battle is already won. If she calls you out on it, just say, "What does it matter? All that matters…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 01:32 AM
-8

...which is the only sexual strategy TRP should endorse. Every time I see pro-hookers comments or threads heavily upvoted, I feel ashamed of this sub.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 12:59 AM
4

There's a difference between payment and investment. Payment is one-off, an expense. Investment pays off, over and over again, in the form of dividends. Getting laid without expending a single cent is one of those dividends.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 12:58 AM
-4

You're simply being pedantic. We're talking about dollars and cents here.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 12:57 AM
3

VERY LITTLE effort... Look at the conversation screenshots. Yesterday alone I fucked THREE GIRLS. Picked up a girl from UCLA, fucked her, in the early noon, then called my fuck buddy over late noon. At night, another girl who lived in Arcadia dropped by and we fuck. Total cost? Apart from the gas money expended to pick up that first girl, nothing. Downvote away... But facts are facts.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 08:23 PM
1

Height and minority status
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 09:03 PM
1

Poor part of town, plus because it was too small.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 09:00 PM
-1

That's absolutely fine, I have no intentions of being anyone's beta bucks, LTR-worthy or not.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 11:00 AM
2

I'm just trying to keep it simple with girls. No other intentions. When I'm writing a post here, of course I'd like to sound more erudite so as to sound more persuasive and coherent.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 08:05 AM
4

Exactly. WTF is this shit about three dates?
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 07:31 AM
0

Girls are meant to be fucked, but why would you provide her with resources, shelter, emotional support and validation, etc., while she fucks other men?
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 07:26 AM
3

Umm... I've got news for you, buddy.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 05:46 AM
-4

It is also easy and reliable sex It's also the easy sex that betafies you over time.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 05:13 AM
1

I've also banged quite a few girls 2 or more points hotter than me.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 05:10 AM
22

5'6"... But I wear elevator shoes just like Chris from Good Looking Loser tells us manlets to. The vast majority of girls I bang are taller than me, averaging at 5'8". Some of them are models, 5'10" and up (then again, there are so many aspiring models in LA). I never let it bother me. We're all the same height in bed anyway.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 05:07 AM
6

Get your own place. Don't play the game on hard mode.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 04:46 AM
5

I'll do things to you that'll make a whore blush. After I'm done with you, you'll tremble uncontrollably, you'll have awesome sensations reaching to your toes, and you'll be helplessly smiling in pure absolute bliss. And you'll thank me. And I'll kiss you and hold your hand, because I love you. :) Verbatim from my profile. I haven't changed it in a year now. Why change what works?
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 04:43 AM
1

Even if it is, which it isn't, this is a boilerplate argument that can be used to denigrate anything people choose to dedicate their lives towards. "I hope [running your own business]/[raising children]/[travelling]/[charity] is not your final goal of your life. If it is, then I am sorry for you. [There's so much more to life than just that.]"
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 04:13 AM
1

I literally drive down to that pizza place (Little Caesar) near my house 30 minutes before she arrives. $5 for a large pepperoni, and I have it for both lunch and dinner that day, assuming she comes in the noon.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 04:09 AM
1

You're definitely on the right track, but I'd change my choice of words. Don't talk about being friends; that's disingenuous anyway. Just kiss and grope her, if she puts up resistance, pull back and give it another go after a few minutes. If she still gives you shit, say, "I think you should go now." And proceed to open the door and stand at the open door as if waiting for her to leave. If she calls your bluff, just pull her back, and whisper, "Come here," and start kissing her again.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 04:04 AM
3

I think the fact that you've been failing to knock her up for years strengthens the possibility that the child isn't yours.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 03:58 AM
3

Like I said, people don't believe me when I say it's that easy. And the conversations in text right after I get their numbers are equally brief too. Just set up a time, place, and she comes over. Done. Why complicate it?
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 02:57 AM
2

I'm not a 9 definitely. But that said, I've even bagged 9s using Tinder. You just have to be the right place at the right time. I was.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 01:45 AM
2

That takes a little more work to blur out my face.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 01:27 AM
1

Read my edit on the main post
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 01:03 AM
1

Read my edit on the main post
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 01:02 AM
3

I have two Facebook accounts and thus two Tinder accounts, sort of like an ongoing A/B testing process to see what works better. I swipe in different locations and also use different pictures.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 12:50 AM
1

I'm not sure about having a shirt on for the main picture, because I've never tried that. My opinion is that, if you're bothered by the scar, don't show it. Go for the sleeveless-top look, provided your arms are on-point.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 12:49 AM
10

I used to live in a smaller studio apartment that's less impressive upon entry, so I never had the confidence to immediately ask them to come over either. So I took them to a bar first, and by the end of the date they're so hooked on me already anyway that they wouldn't care too much how crappy my place was. I agree that you shouldn't ask her over right away if your place sucks, and that includes roommates. I've had girls leave immediately upon reaching my previous apartment, because of how crap…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 12:45 AM
13

I'm a minority of below-average height. That hurts me, yet they're not insurmountable. And to say that I "pay for dinner" is just a facetious argument... I've had many just come over for drinks, then what? The drinks have long been in my fridge. What I really pay for is the effort and money it takes to upkeep a nice apartment, a sexy body, my haircuts, my convertible, stuff like that. But there's a huge gap between paying a hooker directly for sex vs. investing in yourself and letting women get …
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 12:43 AM
3

I agree that money doesn't matter. I've closed some of the hottest girls (blonde 9s) when I was living in a 200 square-feet studio apartment in Koreatown, Los Angeles.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 12:33 AM
1

It's getting toxic here- because of a small minority of posters that are vocal. I personally am afraid to write anything implying that I have a good job, have sex with attractive women, succeed in cold approach, etc etc because my post will be downvoted and whatever little wisdoms I wanted to convey will be hidden. I posted the Tinder game thread in question and actually hesitated before I posted precisely because of this. Why bother helping those who aren't appreciative?
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 12:20 AM
9

Pretty much... Sometimes I read the FRs on this sub and just shake my head. Why complicate it with dinners, bars, dates, etc.? Just ask them to come over. Why is that so hard to do?
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 12:06 AM
2

I'm a little-off Downtown, near Chinatown to be more exact
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 11:36 PM
4

What if I don't get an STI?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 10:44 PM
1

Have hundreds of lays Really? How many hundreds? How old are you?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 10:37 PM
7

27 years old, $1,100/mo 1br apartment in Downtown Los Angeles
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 10:33 PM
4

I always do.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 10:31 PM
24

Exactly. When you invest in yourself, and chicks come on their own accord, how is that transactional?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 10:31 PM
28

This has been my main profile picture for years: http://sli.mg/crFLE0.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 10:26 PM
23

Still, if one keeps an open mind, there's plenty to learn from the guide, especially coming from someone who has already figured Tinder out and developed a repeatable game plan for banging chicks.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 11:19 AM
27

I got mine done for free (TFP basis), in exchange for letting the photographer use my images in his portfolio. Found him on Craigslist while looking for modeling work. It was done outside in daylight. That said, you can easily look for photographers on Craigslist or elsewhere. Plenty would give you "best of 5" for less than $100. It shouldn't take more than an hour, but I prepped for the shoot by fasting the day before, reducing water intake, and doing the shoot first thing in the morning when m…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 11:16 AM
2

I have dozens and DOZENS of lays from Tinder. And the key thing that helped me a lot is to simply ask them to come over for drinks/movies/pizza (assuming you have a reasonably-nice place). Don't even bother with dates. You'll lose a lot of girls who need warming up, but, if you encounter resistance, just say, "OK, what about drinks at a bar first, then my place if the chemistry is right?" Somehow bringing up your place somewhere in the conversation sets the tone early, and you'll have uninterest…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 10:15 AM
-1

I think you and I have different definitions of "fat." You're talking about obese. I'm talking about fat enough to not be LTR-material.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 04:24 AM
1

I mostly agree with you, until you say anyone can build up an N-count of 100. I think you're completely trivializing the effort, grit, wit, and perseverance it takes to reach those astronomical numbers. 100 is a very large number, even for a girl. To say that fat girls would plough anyone is FALSE. What happened to hypergamy? Girls only want the top 20% guys, even if they themselves are ugly. They'd rather pass up on 10 Betas just to hold out for 1 Alpha. Try going on Tinder and find out how blo…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 01:45 AM
1

What else can be an objective measure of a guy's sexual experience then? You tell me. Time spent dating? Number of LTRs, what? What is the alternative?
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 11:05 PM
2

As an Asian male, black women also tend to be the easiest. They're completely invisible to white males (and even the majority of Asian males who'd dread bringing a black girl back to meet their families), so they're left with Latino males and black males who hate black girls (I'm assuming you fall under here). You're halfway there at your solution: yes, your circumstances need to change. Live alone, dedicate time to lifting, talking to ALL TYPES of women (e.g. get a part-time job waiting tables …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 10:59 PM
-1

Honestly, if "fuck you" money is $5m or so, "fuck you" N-count is probably >100 or so. 50 isn't enough to learn anything. When I was at 50, I was still pretty Beta. And that's successfully banging 50 girls by my mid-twenties.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 07:02 PM
-1

Finally, someone honest... People who downplay the importance of N-count most likely have a low N-count themselves. How can I take them seriously, where's the credibility?
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 06:57 PM
-1

20s, mostly Tinder. But I also have a day job where I get to interact with a countless supply of girls.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 12:24 PM
-2

Quality is directly proportional to quantity. The best quality comes from sieving through a vast quantity of girls. Anything else is settling down/oneitis. You cannot achieve true quality without first prioritizing quantity. How can you know what's good shit if you don't evaluate as many shit as possible? It also goes against the "abundance mentality" that's preached on TRP so often. I think the key takeaway is that quantity and quality are not mutually exclusive. In fact, I think they almost ne…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 12:16 PM
1

Aahhh, but here's where your argument doesn't hold water. Quality almost always comes only with quantity. Linus Pauling says, to get a good idea, first get a lot of ideas. The only way I've bagged the multiple 9s I've bagged (slim, blonde, big tits, small waist, pretty face) is to relentlessly keep sleeping with so-called "ugly" (read:average) girls so that I have sufficient training and experience not to screw up when I encounter a hot one. It worked out for me.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 12:13 PM
-11

Relationships are almost always a symptom of lack of options. Any man with boundless options will always resist the pressure of monogamy. That said, I know I won't have high SMV forever, which is why I'm cashing in my chips on the hookups right now and leaving the relationship stuff for later. I can enter into a relationship anytime. But I really prefer to enter it with a super-high N-count and a true alpha frame backed by solid track record of fucking more girls than even girls fuck guys.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 11:59 AM
1

I agree that plate management is a different skill set. I could never do well with plates. But ask any guy, would they rather regularly and reliably bang a lot of chicks (average to hot ones), or would they rather have a bunch of plates, in any given year? The answer is obvious. What we should get good at is getting laid anytime and anywhere. That means N-count building, not plate management. Knowing how to fish is more important than knowing how to take care of fish. Also, it's inevitable that …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 11:27 AM
-15

Dude. I don't even want to talk about how you handled those shit tests, but get your so-called "whiskey dick" fixed. Basically master getting hard. You're going to find yourself in a variety of situations and circumstances where you're expected to get hard, and get hard quickly, before the chicks lose interest: e.g. her place, your place, outdoors, dominant/overbearing girl, tons of LMR, time constraint, in the dark, claustrophobic space like a car, public setting like in a club, etc. etc. Tip 1…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 10:53 AM
2

*LTR Fixed that for you. Any exclusive relationship is basically signing up to be cuckolded.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 12:39 PM
2

Try not throwing the next one on the bed. See if your fortunes change.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 02:08 AM
3

I rarely get LMR these days, but I'm definitely trying that out. Massive respect to how you turned that all around.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 12:25 AM
1

I work in the adult industry, and I put screenshots of my work on my Tinder. Always a good conversation-starter, chicks will message first and go, "Are you a porn star?"
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 02:19 AM
3

Rest assured, there are hundreds of better looking men with more status messaging her. Many of these guys won't commit, but they'll "hit it and quit it". If you can't beat 'em, join 'em. I fuck 2-3 girls from Tinder consistently every week FOR MONTHS NOW... and I don't have particularly high SMV. I do have something else about my pics that put me ahead of the pack though.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 10:18 PM
0

Also, I personally have unchangeable MAJOR SMV shortcomings, but I waited and waited till quite a long way into my N-count to finally fuck a 9/10. It's rare, but it can happen. If you shortcut the process with prostitutes, trust me, you will never fuck a 9/10 organically.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 01:23 PM
0

Calling guys out on TRP for hiring hookers is like pointing out that the emperor has no clothes. Somebody needs to say this. This escort-worshipping nonsense has gone on long enough.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 01:20 PM
1

No shit, but the opposite viewpoint is also just an opinion. My opinion just happens to be CONSISTENT with the principles of self-improvement and becoming more alpha, and yours anti-thetical.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 01:14 PM
-1

I've never advocated girlfriends/LTRs/wives over escorts as a means to get laid. That's a huge strawman argument. And if you think ONSes don't need mutual attraction to happen, you're dead wrong. Women have COUNTLESS sexual options out there; hypergamy is the name of the game, and under no circumstances would a girl ever sleep with a guy randomly who's below her league -- horny or not. It's as simple as that. She can always masturbate. Also, if you can really get laid by buying bottle service, e…
/r/askTRP05/09/16 01:12 PM
0

That's the only valid excuse. And it better not be for losing one's virginity.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 11:13 AM
2

Rubbish. Any high-SMV man can get girls better than escorts, in looks, if not in enthusiasm. Because the Red Pill is all about molding yourself into becoming the kind of man girls NATURALLY want to fuck. The only reason "how most non-escort girls act" is deplorable is that your SMV is LOW. OF COURSE GIRLS ACT SHITTILY AROUND BETA GUYS WITH LOW SMV. It's patently obvious.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 11:12 AM
-1

Nothing wrong, yes, but when incel guys who can't get laid on their own patronize prostitutes and hamster their way through the cognitive dissonance to convince themselves that they "prefer" prostitutes (e.g. efficiency, you pay either way, etc.), it's a case of lying to themselves. It's a clear case of SOUR GRAPES. If you've a proven track record of getting laid without paying, and you want to hire a hooker in exceptional circumstances (e.g. vacations) for fun, sure, go ahead. But doing it as a…
/r/askTRP05/09/16 11:10 AM
1

If sex is attainable by paying, would any guy bother working on himself anymore? Paying for hookers is COUNTER-PRODUCTIVE to self-improvement no matter how you slice and dice it. It's STILL better to be sexless but slowly raising your SMV than to pay a hooker, have a false sense of accomplishment, and still have shitty SMV that will get you killed in the general dating market.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 11:07 AM
1

I can't believe how many of you are ENDORSING the patronizing of hookers on this sub, hamstering your way by claiming how fucked up girls are today to justify your inability to get laid without paying for it. What the fuck? On TRP no less, a self-improvement sub. Shame on you.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 02:50 AM
1

Well this goes without saying. Trying to have any semblance of a dating life in rural areas is just crazy. You need population density for anything to happen. Think NYC/LA/Chicago/San Francisco.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 10:33 PM
2

I'm not even that attractive (5'6", sub-10% body fat no doubt, Asian, shitty apartment in shitty neighborhood, "classic" sports car), but I lay consistently 2-3 girls on average weekly. Swiping in downtown Los Angeles. A lot of black girls, some Hispanic and Asians, and from time to time a white girl. I pay for Tinder Plus, swipe on two phones. Go for quantity. You'll be fine. My N-count is nearing three digits thanks to Tinder alone.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 09:56 AM
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