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The ability to make dinner has almost nothing to do with dating HB9s. It only helps to keep them from fucking around on you and maybe shit test you less. Your physical attractiveness, ability to dress well, confidence, social status and game are what get you HB9s.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 11:17 PM
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You need to know two things 1 - TRP does not have ALL the answers when it comes to women. If you blindly apply TRP rules to every girl without considering the personality of the girl you will likely be unsuccessful. 2 - You are young, and she is really young. As life goes on people change. She is shy and introverted now but experience will change her. If she is attractive, she will get attention easily from other men and realize that she has power and options. If you aren't doing a good job cons…
/r/askTRP09/12/16 10:33 PM
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/r/askTRP12/11/16 12:44 AM
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Sigh I'm not sure that it's that simple. I think this girl has low self esteem and she does something like this periodically to check if my interest in her is real (I.e. checks to see if I will break up with her for bad behavior). I could be wrong but who the fuck knows honestly.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 12:42 AM
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Yeah I hear you. Condoms would be best risk wise. But they suck to wear and I rarely cum when I use them. She takes the pill and I always pull out. I fuck her in the ass if it's near ovulation. This is an acceptable risk for me. You're right about the expiration date. It does get progressively more difficult to manage as time goes on. Eventually she gets bored of you or decides she likes you and wants more. The actual timeline I believe depends on many factors including age, your SMV, your game,…
/r/askTRP12/11/16 12:40 AM
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Thanks for the confirmation. I figured that was the best choice. Interesting that you are thinking that her looking for a fight might mean she feels guilty about something she did... I thought the same too. She has definitely been acting a little odd the past couple days. But these sort of "episodes" have been fairly common since I met her so it's really hard to tell. I have always thought LTRs are a better strategy for me, personally. Finding a new girl to hook up with every weekend takes a lot…
/r/askTRP11/11/16 11:59 PM
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I mean, virgins are great. They are sexually naive, and you are giving them pleasure they have never experienced before. They will think you are some sort of magician (lol). More importantly, sharing such an intimate experience with someone for the first time forms a very strong bond. It's not to say you couldn't form a stronger bond with a girl who already had a few partners (if the connection is good). But the bond with the virgin is inherently strong. However, Virgins are extremely rare in to…
/r/askTRP14/10/16 03:29 PM
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I agree there are a lot of beta men in India due to the culture being what it is... But the domestic set-up with men cowering under their wives? How do the women achieve such control? I feel like if they were with a man of sufficiently high value and he acted like an alpha male (i.e doesn't take her shit) what cards would she have to play?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 05:27 PM
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I am a white guy living in America. I've dated a few Indian women throughout my life. My experience is that these women definitely seek provider-types, especially the ones who are top 10% attractiveness. I don't doubt that being a tall white guy has helped me a ton, but it isn't like these girls are just fucking for the sake of fucking. They want commitment. I think the less attractive ones that haven't committed themselves to completely saving themselves for marriage would probably be down for …
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 04:18 PM
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The college "experience" of sex, parties, and tons of hot girls doesn't happen to everyone. It only happens to the top 10% of men. The ones who are attractive, athletic, and on the football team. College IS some of the best years of your life, but not for the reasons society wants you to believe. It's the best because, anything is possible going forward. As you get older, responsibilities continue to pile on. If you adapt well, you will have no problem handling these responsibilities. But there …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 11:36 AM
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She does not spend any alone time with him. She is only ever here when I am here. They are not friends. They have barely exchanged a paragraph of words. If he happens to be at the apartment we will exchange pleasantries, But my girl is usually sitting with me on the couch cuddled up next to me.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 02:38 AM
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Yeah I guess thats the answer... just keep working on improving myself. I can't become my roommate though.. I'd need at least a solid year or more to get to his level. I will focus on exercise, lifting, social game so that she does not find an excuse to hop. There has to be another way to subtly tell him "Hey, dude, she's mine, back off" without actually saying it.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 06:48 PM
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I agree with this. I think she sees he is better than me, but he is not a provider. He will almost certainly pump and dump her. It would be a good idea to have him on my side, maybe stroke his ego a bit? But at the same time I think my idea of bringing my girlfriend up and mentioning how I feel about her would make him less likely to act on his desires.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 06:45 PM
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Yeah I wasn't sure about the best course of action initially. At first I thought the right move was to ignore it and pretend it doesn't bother me. But then I thought that the problem would just keep escalating if I didn't intervene. Then out of the blue she told me she has been feeling uncomfortable because he flirts with her. My response was yeah, I've noticed that for some time now too. I told her I'm not happy with it and maybe I should speak to the guy and tell him to back the fuck off. She …
/r/askTRP12/09/16 06:41 PM
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Theres always the chance that they are doing something behind my back already without me knowing, but I think it is unlikely. I do think AWALT, but this girl does have some strong conditioning from her Indian upbringing that would make it more difficult for something to happen.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 06:33 PM
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"Chad" does indeed have a fair number of plates. I've met most of them. Some were really attractive, others just average. I'm certain that in his mind he is thinking "How the hell did ScottishIslander get a chick that fly? I'm more fit, more interesting and more masculine." I think he is somewhat jealous. Which is dangerous because I feel like he has one of those personalities where he will try to prove that he's better by stealing my girl. He's a nice guy (on paper), but he has the air of a per…
/r/askTRP12/09/16 06:29 PM
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If HE wants to move to a nicer place then they should spend equal proportions of their income (i.e. 30% of his income goes towards rent/mortgage, as well as 30% of her income). If SHE wants move to a nicer place, then he has the right to request that they split it 50/50, because he has the higher income and would be paying more if they did proportions of income. It sounds like his FAMILY is rich though. Not him. So that doesn't translate to him being rich. If my parents were rich I wouldn't be a…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 03:25 PM
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I think your post went a little too far. If she wanted to get DP'd by other guys while on this trip she could do it without his knowledge. The picture proves nothing one way or another. Doesn't prove she's a cheating slut. Doesn't prove she's a faithful wife. Seems like her angle was she's doing something nice for her husband who wasn't able to come. If the husband disapproves of her behavior then he should make that known when she returns. Simple as that. If she's pregnant in the next few weeks…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 06:13 AM
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I like your perspective. I too have noticed that a lot of people equate being nice to "being a pussy". In some respects I understand this, but I do believe it's important to be a good person in this life. Karma and whatnot. So I'm not going to go be an asshole to counterbalance this. I think it's just important to not be a pushover. Women want strong men who will stand up for them. It's better to have an asshole on your side then a wimp on no ones side. Although the problem is a lot of those ass…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 04:46 PM
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As a general rule most populated cities have more beautiful women. I have a friend who lived here now lives in Ohio.. Complains that there are absolutely no attractive women whatsoever out there. There's also a huge reason why bumble is popular with hotties... Dudes can't message until they send the first text. It prevents them getting bombarded by messages from guys they said "meh...okay I'll swipe right" to, and they only start up convos with guys who they are REALLY actually interested in. On…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 04:32 AM
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Bumble, at least in my area (NYC), has significantly more attractive women than tinder. No joke, 90% HB7,8,9. Just the occasional HB6 and below
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 02:07 AM
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Your mileage will vary. There are a lot of low quality women, yes. But there are high quality ones mixed in there. You just have to sift through the garbage to find them. I have NEVER had a woman flat out ask for money. That's weird. Remember, any reasonably attractive woman will be BOMBARDED with messages. I mean literally hundreds per week. But most of these guys don't know how to keep up a conversation. You've gotta be playful and confident. Luck also plays a big role. If you're extremely att…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 02:04 AM
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The dollar is $0.71, not $0.60
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 10:47 PM
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I hope you're kidding about tax being 50% on goods and services. It's 13% in Ontario.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 06:09 AM
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I think you've over-analyzed this one. This is simply a girl who enjoyed sex with an alpha, got together with a beta who used to be bullied by said alpha, and feels guilty for not telling him about their previous sexual relationship. Yeah she probably misses sex with the alpha and the beta comes no where near it, which compounds her guilt. She wants to keep the beta, but resolve her guilt about the alpha, so she is asking reddit whether or not she should come clean. I think you really exaggerate…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 03:32 AM
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Women want the top 20% of men and they will chase this top 20% until they approach the wall (age 30) and want to have children, at which point those who are unsuccessful will be begin lowering their standards. They'll get that ring on their finger and as long as their man maintains a status they are happy with they will stay loyal. But if that man's status drops below her own she will start to wonder and start to wander. Women don't care about a stable man with an amazing career as much as you'd…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 03:37 AM
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People of similar attractiveness usually end up together. So a guy in the top 20 will attract 7/8/9/10. A guy in the 60-80 percentile range will attract 6/7/8... and so on. I feel that the biggest problems arise when attractiveness doesn't match up. Hypergamy states that women are always looking for a mate slightly above their SMV. If they bag a guy who fits this description, they're unlikely to have wandering eyes. But if a guy bags a girl who has higher SMV - that relationship is doomed to fai…
/r/askTRP19/03/15 04:00 AM
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Thanks man. I knew I was being dumb for thinking this. I have such a blue-pill mindset from the way I was brought up, and waking up is very hard for me. I need to continue to ignore her efforts to contact me. I have made it 8 months without saying a single word to her and I don't want to break that progress. It's just tough because I watched this sweet innocent girl whom I was planning on proposing to turn into an absolute monster in a period of one month. It sounds corny but she was my best fri…
/r/askTRP06/02/15 03:52 AM
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Thanks. I needed to hear this. You are right. All that will happen is that she will apologize and reduce her guilt load, and my "closure" would be an empty apology. At least I retain a little respect by being the one to walk away. If I contact her, I'd lose that.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 09:49 PM
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To me, MGTOW describes people who have put women at a much lower priority. Rather than focusing on learning game just so that they can jump through the "right hoops" to get laid, they'd rather focus on other aspects of their life. This strategy has its benefits as building a solid image makes you more attractive to women anyway. I suppose you could use BGTOW (Boys Going Their Own Way) to describe men who refuse to deal with the mating game, but are making poor lifestyle choices.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 07:01 PM
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I don't know if you were really ever in the "friendzone" with this girl. A true friendzone situation is one where you have conveyed sexual interest or attempted intimacy, only to be turned down with the "I just want to be friends" phrase. I agree with your post though. If you want to pursue a woman sexually, you should be assertive and outcome independent (you don't mind losing the friendship).
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 09:35 PM
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You are just trying to rationalize cheating. Yes, the way men love and the way women love are fundamentally different. Yes she COULD cheat on you if you lose frame. But she hasn't. You have to remember that there is more to life than this red pill philosophy. One year ago my LTR had a one month affair with a married man before I caught her. It was terrible. I was completely trusting of her and the betrayal scarred me very deep. Even after one year I still cannot shake the thought of the betrayal…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 09:37 PM
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However, perhaps they are sluts because they have naturally wider vaginas and are looking for a better fit? Who knows. Yeah I don't know man. I doubt there is truth to it but incidentally I have had the same experience.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 03:23 AM
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Yeah I think its important to note that having multiple sexual partners doesn't make a girl loose. Here are the facts from my own experience Younger women = tighter vagina No childbirth = tighter vagina Hasn't had sex for a while = tighter vagina Does lots of kegels? = tighter vagina The number of partners has no effect on vaginal tightness. Because a girl could be with one guy and fuck him every day for 5 years. It won't make a difference. I would say that just like penises vary in girth, vagin…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 06:12 PM
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I've been following this community for several months now, but I've never received any indication that I am allowed to post. What's up with that?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 04:51 PM
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I'll be it's because she initially saw you as AF but after you slept together you turned BB and she is upset because you are not who she thought you were. What would have been the appropriate alpha action after sleeping with her?
/r/askTRP13/10/14 11:37 PM
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Yeah, this sounds about right. She seems to get off on pushing my buttons. I will take this advice.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 08:52 PM
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Maybe. But maybe she'll dig it. Is there really that much harm in trying if he thinks she's worth it?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 03:37 AM
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No problem. You got this. And dude, if you don't look indian I am assuming you are light-skinned, which makes you an automatic stud for darker indian girls. There's your go-to demographic when you need some validation. But of course that doesn't mean you can't pull girls from other races!
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 08:38 PM
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I think you should listen to this post. I wouldn't be the one to contact her. Wait and see if she contacts you, and if she does, follow the rules. Approaching her at this point will probably make you seem needy. Although, if you REALLY REALLY like this chick, you can try and show her that by doing some sort of romantic act. Sometimes it works, but its a kind-of blue-pill approach.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 08:34 PM
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I also know that it is constantly thrown in my face sometimes, especially when I come online. I hear you argunta. But block that shit out. Yes its true that certain races are more likely to be attracted to certain other races. But you know what else is true? If you have a high SMV, regardless of your race, you will be successful. To move forward you need to find a solution and thinking about race will NOT grant you any form of solution. It will only hurt you. Do not dwell on that which you canno…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 08:16 PM
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Why did you break up with her? The reason is important in deciding whether or not to go back.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 08:09 PM
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Don't bother thinking about race. Just because these girls are going with white guys doesn't mean you can't be successful too. Race plays a minor role, and you can't change it, so don't focus on it
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 08:02 PM
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What you are saying is only true using apps like Tinder. Online dating is EXTREMELY visual. I think everyone on here knows that by now. If you are not in the top 20% of men in terms of physical attractiveness, you are going to have a hard time. How do you give yourself a better chance? Be ripped, and take good photos. In real life the game is different. Money and status count for a lot. Game counts for a lot. Looks are still important, but so many other factors play into it - your reputation, yo…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 07:53 PM
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The best thing you could do is just be straightforward. Let her know how much you like it. "I really like playing with your ass. I think its extremely sexy and it gives me a huge hard-on" Ask her what she likes, if there is something she wants you to do. If there is, do that thing EXTREMELY WELL with a lot of passion. Perhaps she will take the clue and reciprocate. Just do not nag her about it. Don't ask for it all the time. Don't force it upon her. Just respond positively when she does do it.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 07:47 PM
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Perhaps your failures are subconsciously affecting you and that is coming across in your approach. Like, when you approach these yoga-pants-wearing chicks, you are probably thinking "Great, this girl is probably not going to respond to me." That negative mindset would affect your success. The solution? Don't try and classify women into groups, and don't target a particular group. Your goal should be to be successful with ALL types of women. The usual rules apply. Dress nice, look clean, be confi…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 07:38 PM
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A lot of guys who enter relationships stop hanging out with their friends as much. There is almost nothing you can do to change your friend's behaviour. It's just his character. He will likely take offence to you telling him he is spending too much time with her. There are few things you can do to save a man who's on a leash. He has to figure it out on his own. All you can do is support him and remain his friend. Just be sure not to put in more energy to the friendship than you receive back.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 07:32 PM
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This is actually good advice. Doing things for yourself - because YOU want to do it and just be the best you can be is the right attitude to have. If your mindset is that you are hitting the gym so that chicks will be more attracted to you, that will show through when you talk to women. Remember, women are attracted to men who give off a demeanour that they have options, and that they would be perfectly well off without them. Always be the prize.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 03:53 PM
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Seems like a shitty strategy to me. He could have just told her he was a medical student. Probably would have worked out anyway, and then he wouldn't have to worry about keeping up the farce.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 03:46 PM
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Being part of a less desirable group probably won't hurt you that much in the real world. Not being confident and dressing poorly will have a way more negative effect.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 05:10 AM
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Integrity is never certain. But it is more likely from some than others.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 08:25 PM
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I would play it by year. Her business connections are way more valuable than her vagina. So set those connections as your main goal. I would flirt with her and if she's responsive, go for the lay and make it the best performance of your life (lol). However if she's not being very responsive hang back and focus on trying to get those connections...without connecting your penis and her vagina.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 07:39 PM
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I absolutely hate close-minded people. Sometimes you're just wrong. Learn to accept that and open your mind to other people's views. Your ex seems like the epitome. She's also a complete hypocrite. Good job walking away. Your life will be better for it, guaranteed.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 07:34 PM
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Plus she's been protective of her phone for months. I'm willing to bet she's had at least a dozen sexting conversations with this guy. Probably fucked him too. God I hate cheaters liars. Cheating women never seem to own up to their mistake either. They never own it. They never admit what they did was completely wrong and 100% on them. They always make excuses. They never put in the time or effort to remediate their action. Which is why its never a good idea to take a cheating woman back. If she'…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 07:25 PM
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"Having a lot of one-night stands when she's single does NOT make a woman more likely to cheat on a future husband" Actually, it probably does. I know its correlated with increased divorce rates at least.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 07:14 PM
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It's no surprise that physical attractiveness is the absolute number one factor in evaluating someone as a potential love interest. It is the first filter through which both men and women sort potential mates. Attraction can be a funny thing though. Sometimes we find people who are not conventionally good looking mysteriously attractive. As a man, the #1 most important factor is look good. Increase your attractiveness by being physically fit, dressing well, and being clean. But it doesn't just s…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 07:11 PM
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"My life as a bachelor is amazing and I won't surrender that unless you provide something better" Great line.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 06:49 PM
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You can definitely do a lot of things to increase your attractiveness. A lot of people aren't "conventionally" good looking, but still pull it off by dressing well, working out and giving an air of confidence. Taking care of your skin, drinking lots of water, and having a stylish haircut also help a lot. Also, this is less talked about when it comes to looks, but how much does being a part of an ethnic group that isn't too liked by women hurt you when women are evaluating you based on your looks…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 06:44 PM
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I am thinking maybe your forwardness, although a good strategy, just wasn't compatible with this girl. It seems like she disliked an expectation being placed upon her. Maybe sometimes raw action is better than words when it comes to sex? It's a toss up though, some girls would eat that shit up.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 06:32 PM
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Fuck no. When girls dress however they want there is always consequences, namely in the form of men hitting on her. In the context of a nightclub or a bar, dressing really slutty is basically like a "I'm down to fuck" flag for many guys, even though that may not be what the girl wants. I'm divided on the whole "tell your woman how to dress" debate. It seems like sometimes women want to be told no, and other times they want their freedom. I'm not really sure what the best response is. It seems to…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 03:20 PM
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Where is the line between 'you dress hot we will stare at you' and 'she asked to be raped by dressing slutty'? Your second sentence is completely invalid. Dressing slutty is never "asking" for rape. No one asks for rape. Girls dress "slutty" for the following reasons: 1) Their own ego. 2) Female competition. 3) Male attention. Objectification is a natural thing. Men do it. Women do it. It's normal. If you've got nothing to go off of other than how someone looks, they're basically an object to yo…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 03:02 PM
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No, this is correct. While not a guarantee, women who resist "gamey" men and refuse to hook up are probably more likely to be LTR material, if thats what you're after. However, remember that what a woman says and what she does are two different things. That same woman might go to the club next weekend and fuck the first guy she meets. What you are describing is an indicator that a woman might be a good partner, but it is no guarantee. AWALT - even the good girl will let some stranger fuck her br…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 05:04 AM
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Give it a shot. It's fairly easy (and free) to set up an OKC account or a tinder account. Also, a few of my friends were successful with EHarmony, if you're looking for something serious. The biggest indicator of success is going to be your attractiveness. The 80/20 rule is very apparent in the world of online dating. A few men on here have posted their experiments using photos of attractive men and they usually find that it was like shooting fish in a barrel. If you are in the top 20% you won't…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 06:11 AM
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I have observed many people over the years, and the happiest are rarely the guys who are fucking many chicks, even hot ones. I agree. My parents are a prime example. They have been married for almost 30 years and are still extremely happy. Sure, the passion of a new relationship isn't there and probably died a long time ago. Heck I don't even know if they have sex or ever even kiss each other anymore. But they built a deep connection by going through the trials of life together - finding a house…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 05:58 AM
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As a man its often hard to judge another man. Sometimes its obvious that a guy is attractive, other times women fall all over men that to me seem like nothing special.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 03:52 AM
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Yeah. Maybe I overestimated. 10 would be like george clooney, brad pitt good looks. He's nowhere near that
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 03:26 AM
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I think his success has more to do with his physical attractiveness, the way he dresses and the aura of dominance he gives off. He's edgy. That's exciting to women. It's something they can go talk to their girlfriends about later. It's a great way to get yourself laid at a bar with young girls who've had too much to drink and don't know any better. I think it pretty much only works if you are in the 8-10 range, well dressed, and confident.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 12:33 AM
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Ah true. You are correct sir. If you do not father a son, your Y chromosome will end it's lineage. However to me, it is just a small collection of molecules, and nothing more. But it seems like a few people here really care that their "Y" gets passed on more than their "X". Why? Both are your genetic info. Why do you care more about passing on your fathers genes than you do your mother's genes?
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 11:58 PM
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Not true. Picture this scenario. Your grandfather and grandmother have sex and create a baby girl - your mother. Your mother dates another man who has different ancestry. You now carry the Y chromosome of that other lineage, and not your grandfather. Now you have a single daughter. That daughter marries a different man and that man and they have a son (your grandson). His Y chromosome will have nothing in common with your grandfather, your father, or you. Besides. What is DNA but a serial code w…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 03:52 AM
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Thats actually not true. The tradition that the man took the last name of the woman has not necessarily been around for thousands of years in the context of a single person's ancestry. More accurately, he is a product of hundreds of couples. The woman contributes genetically just as much as the man. It's also a negative attitude to have. It breeds hate in people who get "unlucky" and have only daughters. I've seen it first hand; a woman feeling she is useless to her man because he only gave him …
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 03:42 AM
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You'd think with hypergamy she'd be all too happy to date you. Maybe because the gap is too high, she feels like she is just going to get used by you? Pumped and dumped?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 09:36 PM
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I still don't understand why women want to hamster themselves out of liking a guy. Whats the reason thats driving her desire to not get involved?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 09:18 PM
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I think you're on the right track. Not sure why she gives a fuck about her friend. She's not going to be around anymore. Women.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 09:11 PM
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Women do not deserve any special treatment for having genes. Men have genes too. It takes both to make a baby. To some people, passing on their genetics is not of great importance to them. When you die, you're gone. After a century, no one will remember you. Any children you have might not breed offspring themselves. One thought your post provoked, and I'm not sure if this is what you meant, but I think women's genes are not correctly weighted by men. For example, BBW. Yeah there are lots of pre…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 09:07 PM
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My thoughts. Just do what makes you happy. You're young and you should explore the sexual market place. See what different women are like by spinning plates and learn from your experiences as you go. However, thats not to say you should NEVER enter a LTR. If the right girl comes around and is giving you everything you need and isn't restricting who you are and the things you want to achieve then maybe it's worth it to enter that LTR. Just don't let her capitalize your time or take you away from …
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 06:23 PM
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Hey somewhatfunnyguy. Men and women ARE biologically different. It's a fact. Our brains are wired differently, and our sexual strategies are different. You are right. Sentences that begin with "Women do this" or "Men do that" are not completely true. They are generalizations which do not apply to all men or all women. However, TRP is not about (or at least should not be about) trying to bash women for the way they behave. TRP exists to give men insight into women's sexual strategy and explain wh…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 06:11 PM
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Right on the money. Forget your friend. Who drops a friendship over a philosophical argument anyway? IMO, rape can only be called rape if FORCE was used (like you said), or if the man knowingly drugged or knew the woman was drugged without her consent. Alcohol, MDMA, marijuana, etc. DO NOT COUNT if they were taken by the "victim" because they are knowingly consumed. In fact, if you look at the wikipedia page for date rape drugs, ALCOHOL IS INCLUDED. Some women go to the bar, have a shit-ton to d…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 05:58 PM
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Its infinity-times EASIER to change yourself. But no matter how much you change you will still have weak periods and women's hypergamy will kick in. But TRP is doing both. Through changing each individual man's view of the male-female sexual market place (SMP), we are also changing humanity's view one person at a time. I would love for my boys (if I have children, and they are boys), to grow up in a world where women are not the holy grail that they are treated as today. I want them to grow up i…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 08:58 PM
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Yeah, that's a much better chart. Thanks Rollo.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 04:23 PM
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It's the man's responsibility to be attractive if he wants his woman to stay loyal. This is definitely the truth. But we, as a community, need to change this. Men are human, not Gods. We go through rough times just like women. We lose confidence, we even cry. If women want equality they need to learn to over-ride their biological hypergamy urges and stick out the rough periods with their man.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 04:20 PM
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Interesting. I think this illustrates the importance of having matching sex drives in a relationship. I have an extremely high sex drive and I can probably count on one hand the number of times I've denied a woman. I know the feeling of being in a relationship where your sex drive is much higher than you partner's. It sucks. You start to feel neglected because you're always the one who has to initiate. You feel less sexy, you lose confidence... in general its just a shitty feeling. I definitely …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 04:15 PM
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Absolutely. Unicorns like that are worth keeping around. I'd rather be in an LTR getting sex once a day from a good girl than out messing with whores. She may fall victim to AWALT or not (regardless, she is subject to it), but you should enjoy the time you have with her and whether or not it ends up being forever is not a notion that you need to consider. Just enjoy it.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 03:59 PM
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SO MUCH RAGE. I MADE YOU SUCH A CUTE CARD, I WROTE YOUR ESSAY FOR YOU AND YOU FUCK SOMEONE? Ahahahahahaha hilarious dude. I remember having the same mindset. B-b-b-but I did all these things for you! Glad everything is working out for you now. I wonder though, what age are you guys? It seems like girls who are younger are more likely to fall into line for an alpha, whereas an older woman (28+) would no longer agree to a "polygamous" arrangement.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 06:15 AM
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She is not entitled to anything, let her earn you in the same way that you trying to earn her This is perfect. If every man were to adopt this mindset maybe women would finally get off their fucking high horses and we'd have some actual equality.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 06:05 AM
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Being selfish is not the same as looking out for yourself. A man must always think of himself first, so that he can be stable enough to help others. A man who has built up a good life can then afford to sacrifice a portion of his money and time to give back to his community. "Help yourself before you help others".
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 06:03 AM
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AlphaMilday... I would argue that the bottom line is that you were a slut. It doesn't matter if you husband was a beta loser that you weren't attracted to anymore, no one deserves to be cheated on. If you're attracted to your man and he's giving you good D, it's rare that a woman would stray from that I think. Also, ^ are women really all this shallow?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 05:55 AM
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If you look here at the bottom chart which shows the levels of hormones in the blood, estrogen begins to really increase on day 7 (after she's stopped bleeding) and peaks around day 12. So a woman is more likely to hop on a cock (to put it lightly, lol) around days 9-13 (which is close to the fertile window). I think this is definitely empirically true - men and women themselves report that they are at their most horny during this time period. Another common time period is right before menstruat…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 05:36 AM
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Sure! First, heres a small chart: 1---------follicular phase----------2-----------luteal phase-----1 1 = beginning of period 2 = ovulation A woman's menstruation cycle is divided into two sections. The first is called the "proliferate phase" or "follicular phase". It is called the proliferative phase because it is when the endometrium (the tissue inside the uterus) proliferates (grows) in preparation to receive an embryo. It is called the follicular phase because it is during this time that the …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 03:44 AM
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While all of what you say is true, remember that there is more to life than just fucking women. A good portion of those 80% of men find deep satisfaction through their careers or hobbies - probably more than they would ever find with a woman. Also, most of the 80% will be serial monogamists and probably get more pussy than most of the alphas, albeit less variety. They may get their hearts stomped on by women who could care less how he feels about her having other dicks shoved up her pussy, but i…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 12:09 AM
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Man up to what? An increased risk of death? Chicks dig guys with motorcycles. Chicks dig guys who play sports. Chicks dig guys with tattoos. I wonder if its an innate biological thing that girls like things that are associated with danger, or if its implanted in their heads by society as they grow up.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 11:55 PM
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It is definitely an uphill battle. Our society is very fem-centric right now. Imagine a celebrity trying to get the word out and stand up for Men's Rights. 95% of women are going to shoot him down along with a good portion of "white knight" men. Everyone is thinking women's rights. Rape, domestic violence, fair wages, oppression of women etc. These are what makes the headlines and drives public perception of the men vs. women fairness debate. The change needs to happen slowly through changes in …
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 11:46 PM
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Also, women, in my experience, do not make up for an incident of infidelity the same way a man does. Think of the classic story of a good husband who went on a conference with a female co-worker. They decided to go over something in his hotel room, she took her clothes off and he was too weak to resist. If his wife finds out, he knows that he needs to make up for it. Cue flowers, presents, an increased number of dates, treating her nicer etc. He will do whatever it takes. Now what about the same…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 11:08 PM
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If you look at Rollos most recent post he talks the dichotomy of what women look for in a man. During her proliferative phase - she prioritizes "Alphaness" and during her luteal phase she prioritizes "Betaness". I would say the validity of that could be disputed, but I don't think many could argue that a woman's hormones will affect her decision to cheat or not. Hormones are the key factor that separates men and women who cheat. A man who cheats usually makes a risk/benefit decision to do so - "…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 11:08 PM
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Wow. I'm shocked. Nothing wrong with being Christian. But downvoting someone because he noticed a major change in someones behaviour relating to religion and thought that might be problematic? Grow a brain, people.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 12:29 AM
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I haven't seen enough of either of you to know ;)
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 05:34 PM
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I am tired of hearing about women suing celebrities for date rape. Regardless of the way Gnarls Barkley looks, he is a celebrity, which means he has high SMV. Lots of women would crawl over broken glass to get into a bedroom with him. I'm sure this woman was no different.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 05:21 PM
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Who cares if she wants to be submissive, as long as she's happy. The religious stuff is rather concerning though. That's a total 180. Either she had a change of heart, or, more likely she is weak-willed and being brainwashed into it because all her new friends and her husband are very conservative. Say what you want but that does not bode well for the long run.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 05:13 PM
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I'm not sure why any western woman would use the word "empowered" to describe the way she feels when she dresses in a way that reveals her body. The definition of "empower": make (someone) stronger and more confident, especially in controlling their life and claiming their rights. It's great that she can strut her stuff and feel confident and sexy about it. But no one is suppressing the western woman anymore. She can wear whatever the fuck she wants. She's not claiming her rights - they've been …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 05:07 PM
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We Scots have balls, man and women. Good story lad. Glad you had fun.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 03:40 AM
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Hahaha. Worth the night I suppose. New experiences are always welcome?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 03:11 AM
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God I would not tolerate that. Flirting that openly with an ex is not how its done. Harmless flirting with a stranger is as far as it should go. I think you did a great job of handling the situation. I remember years ago I had a girlfriend that was putting herself all over another guy at a party. I was a total BP then, and it really got to me. I couldn't figure out for the life of me why a woman I had been seeing for over a year would do something like that. I told her it was unacceptable, and c…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 03:07 AM
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The friendzone exists - its when you want to be with a woman but she she's you as a friend. I'm pretty sure that happens, sometimes. Alpha and beta are terms used to describe males with desirable and undesirable characteristics. Alphas are sexy and confident. Betas are good providers who treat women like idols.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 02:53 AM
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Love that video. It is a great reminder of how much joy one can receive from helping others. The interactions in this video are very idealistic - the real world isn't really this way. But it's the message that's important. I agree with you though. I don't like the label. A kind woman would do all those things (except maybe lift the cart for that old lady). What makes you a "real" man or a "real" woman is subjective, it means something different to everyone. To me a the term "real" followed by a …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 01:04 AM
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I introduced a female friend. She generally agrees with most of the ideas. I know a few female redditors who have found this sub on their own, and most seem to thinks its utter blasphemy.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 12:54 AM
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LOL just kidding. That's what people from Scotland do..? Ahem. Watch your arse before I stretch your wee phallus over me ead, ya walloper.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 12:50 AM
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Yeah. Our minds can definitely overwrite our biology, but it takes a well-informed, self-aware person to do it. Men and women both make sacrifices when they enter a monogamous relationship. And women will sacrifice a LOT when it comes to their children. But yes, perhaps women are less inclined to appreciate what a man does for his family. In fact, I've found most women to not be appreciative at all - because society has ingrained in their minds that THEY are the prize that is to be sought after.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 11:43 PM
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Yeah, finding all desirable traits in a women is really difficult. The more you add to the list, the more the odds drop. I want a beautiful woman who is smart, motivated, fun to be with, has good morals, is kind, supportive and satisfies me sexually. Not gonna happen, lol
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 11:38 PM
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I agree with the first part of your statement. But you cannot claim that your entire family has 99 percentile or higher IQ. Even if you do, IQ is just a number generated based on some answers to a test of specific questions - it does not tell a person how well they understand their own biology or give them an intrinsic higher value. It is very egotistical to assume that you will never meet someone who is the same or better than yourself.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 11:11 PM
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Thats a really good point. Most women will say they are the exception. Although AWALT isn't true, its more useful for BP guys to adopt this mindset so that they are better prepared for their interactions with women. A girl will say "Oh I never sleep with anyone on the first date, I'm not that kind of woman." But right guy right place right time, she will. Always assume AWALT even if its only 99% true.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 10:40 PM
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It was just a joke. If she was really trying to take you for all you're worth she would do it slowly without saying anything. However, to avoid any devastation, come up with a financial plan - i.e. every 6 months you analyze your spending habits. Apps like mint.com are great for this - they will categorize your spending into groceries, clothes, food etc. Get her to keep track of her spending and you keep track of yours. Make sure you are both equally contributing to things like rent/groceries/ga…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 10:37 PM
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There really is no such thing as ALL. We humans like to generalize and categorize to make our lives simpler, but there will always be exceptions to every rule. Truly I think the statement should be MWALT (most women are like that). For example, MOST women will have a ONS given the right time, place, and gentleman MOST women prefer men who hit the gym I don't think you can argue that there are arn't women won't have a ONS no matter what (due to strong ideals, religion, family etc.), and some wome…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 10:23 PM
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Right on. I definitely notice this as well. A lot of the men AND women are type A alpha personalities. The 80/20 rule (80% of the females go for the top 20% of guys) definitely still applies. Because the women are surrounded by men who are intelligent and have money, the see this as the "standard" and still only go for the top 20% of men based on attractiveness, confidence, and social value. In the medical realm, medical girls scoff at your average med student, who, to the rest of the population…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 10:06 PM
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This needs more upvotes! Mine!
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 07:29 PM
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Just be honest in all your interactions. You don't have to be UPFRONT - that might ruin your chances of getting the lay. If she asks, tell the truth. If she starts sounding too serious (talking long term, marriage, etc.), let her know you're not ready for that. Just always be honest.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 07:24 PM
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Read the sidebar. I would start with the "Glossary of Terms and Acronyms" so you don't get confused while reading (this community uses them a lot), and then head over to look at the rational male year one posts - they're great.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 07:19 PM
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I used to be one of the biggest betas out there. I would crawl over broken glass just to help a girl. Sometimes it got me laid, but most times it didn't. I realized I was putting in way too much effort. In other words, the effort:payout ratio was not good. Since coming here, I have started acting like the PRIZE, instead of treating every woman I come across as one. After meeting a woman, I usually initiate a conversation with her over social media (Facebook, Whatsapp, etc). If they don't return …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 06:46 PM
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Btw, do you lift yet? You should go do that. Haha. Brilliant metaphor dude.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 06:37 PM
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I have found this to be true. Men's interest in sex certainly declines over time as well, but the difference is even if they're not as excited about it, they will still fuck. Women on the other hand seem to start withdrawing the V over time. Even if you've had this talk with your woman early in the relationship, and she's said "oh absolutely, the longest I could go without sex is one week", a couple years in, you'll be fucking once a month. You have to keep her interest by using competition anxi…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 06:22 PM
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I am in this field (medicine) and I agree with your general consensus (Wimmenz doktorz iz fukked). Men do not value women with high paying degrees, myself included. In my mind, why would I want a workaholic wife who is always busy and probably too tired to fuck half the time. I would rather go for a school teacher, someone who has a lot of additional time off and can be there to support me with her love and care. Plus, women with such ambitions often (though not always) have scary personalities.…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 05:23 PM
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